The best career advice that I learned is don’t ever attach your-self to a PERSON, a place, a company, an organization or a project. Only Attach your-self to your mission in life and your PURPOSE. That’s how you keep your power and keep your peace!
I took a gamble at the age of 22 to invest in myself and become self employed. My worst year was the first. I made 50k. That was 1992 when 25k was decent money. I will be able to retire comfortably at the age of 60 and still have six figure income coming in. I come from poor background and have only a GED. All it took was taking the gamble to do the same job I was doing for the people I worked for and cut out the middle man. My coworkers followed and became my employees. I took care of them as well. Go for it!
Oh, now I'm attached to you and what you said, about one's own mission and or purpose in life 🤔 l believe life is just to be lived by observing the real purpose which is natural nature, that is, what nature has to offer meaning true reality, and not a conception of human reality. Have a great day 🙏
Hello Ahmet..., * "Life is short.., so do, what makes you happy ! !" If you do.., whatever makes you happy.., you will be a success ! ! * Once again.., "Life is short.., so do whatever makes you HAPPY ! !" Your friend always.., Michael Sean O'Brien in historic Uptown Butte, Montana.. * P.S.: Once again, excellent video and thank you for sharing.. Have a beautiful day and a wonderful week ahead, too.. " Semper Fi " Mike :)
👉 *5 Important Lessons* ◾ *Before you talk, listen.* ◾ *Before you react, think.* ◾ *Before you criticize, achieve.* ◾ *Before you spend, earn.* ◾ *Before you quit, try.*
Yes indeed how correct you are be none the wiser knowledge is power never stop learning try something new every day you will be surprised what you can accomplish keep on trying you got this mind over matter I've mastered many things in life and became the master of my own life 💯
Here's the summary Things u must let go of to be Happy. 1. Finding imperfection 2. Endless preparation 3. The lonely void 4. Imaginary intensity 5. Black or white 6. False comparisons 7. Outside expectation
I have to admit...I think that number 1 and 6 are my biggest areas I need to work on. I tend to always feel like I have to be perfect and I always compare myself to others (which is why I stopped performing but I am now doing it again).
Thanks for writing the list. The narration is so fast that's hard to truly assimilate it. Every step would need more time to digest and think, identify it.
Robin Williams said," being alone isn't awful, being with people who make u feel alone is awfull." I can understand the quote, my hearts to numb to accept the fact
This is the truth. When we humans finally figure this out, then peace and joy will come. Can't wait for Jesus to come again to Earth. Only through Him can we live a blessed life. What's interesting is the Covid virus agenda hit me emotionally hard. Because of this, I was forced to depend on God more than ever before. As a result, spiritual gifts came through that would have never happened without being isolated from others. God uses all of us for a higher purpose. So thankful for the Lord and His love for me. May you be blessed as well in your daily life. 🙏🙇⛪
@@tana5098 i agree with you brother, lucifer works hard but Yah works harder. While the devil locked us down in our homes in the hopes that solitude would drive us insane, The Most High gave us as believers time out from the world and all its distractions, in order to bring us closer to him through his word and holy spirit (Ruach Ha'Kodesh). God Bless You brother and may the Ruach of Yah Guide you in Wisdom and truth 🙏🏽❤
IT is true, I love my compact with Jezus, Hè loves me, other people too, Hè makes the whole situation acceptabel, For the way you are, the best option tot do IT ?
@@bigvalley4987 Point is that every choice comes with a cost/benefit. If you fall in love with someone, it doesn't mean that other person will reciprocate, that person might laugh in your face And that fear of rejection will mean that this person will never tell that other person how he feels, never know whether the other person feels the same way This is your coward philosophy, the weak philosophy - don't do this, don't do that - don't expect anything Yes if you don't do anything, you will never lose, but you are not going to gain anything either
"The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward." To anyone that reading this comment, have a great day! Regards to you and to your family.
I’m STRUGGLING with my self esteem right now so bad! I have many many regrets of bad decisions and questioning who I even am or if I even like myself or are worthy. So thank you for your post ❤️
OMG! this has got to be one of your very best! Every word is so succinct and loaded with true meaning. You've helped me to see clearly. I used to think of my self as odd and out of step with the rest of the world. But if the truth be known my heart is filled with love and respect for others and I'm not crazy....I'm just a little eccentric. Who knew? 🥰
U r awesome because u r UNIQUE! Nobody will ever be like u so shine and be urself. It’s hard if u hv been conditioned by society to suppress it because it’s “weird”. I know I hv, but hey, I’m working on it 😊
So far I have lived 70+some years. I mostly agree with your points. I learned them through personal and intimate, good and/or bad, experiences of many decades of conscious living. I wasn't a dummy and I learned. At the end, however, I have chosen to be alone minimizing *interaction* with others. Neither yourself nor others are saints. You may tolerate some defects all the time. Or, you may tolerate all defects some time. But, you cannot tolerate all defects all the time. If you can stay alone, you only need to deal with your own defects - if you know how to deal with them, that is.
lol and the top religions of the day are those that say if you don't believe as we do, you will burn in hell for all eternity! Old people, children, even babies? pregnant women, all set apart based solely on religion, and just as Jews were set apart and were dumped into gas chambers, these innocent people also, will be set apart & dumped into gas chambers in hell! AND NOT ONE EDUCATED OR MEDIA OR MORAL PERSON HAS HAD A PROBLEM WITH SUCH NAZI IDEAS! NOT ONE!
@@ramaraksha01 Jesus is the Son of God He who believes in Him will never perish but have Eternal Life, and I will raise him up on the last day. I am the way the Truth, and the Life And no one comes to the Father But by me. Jesus said You must be Born Again (of the Holy Spirit) Nicodemus said " How can a man be born again when he is old.?" If you ask God to forgive your sins ( for all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God). He will do that, and ask Him to come into your heart by the Holy spirit. He will. And you will be born again. Read John 's gospel in the new Testament of the Bible. John 3 16. John Chapter 14 a d 15. May theord Bless you, May His face shine upon you And fill you with His Love That you may be blessed in All your ways And all your days So much love, Lee Toomey A Christian for 47 years! ( older than you are now ).
@@jennifertoomey8213 God is a Putin, whoever believes & supports him will be rewarded with the good life & those that do not suffer? What a sick view of God! So you are saying who we are as people does not matter? What we do in life does not matter? Only belief or religion alone matters? That is what the Nazis said - who the Jew was did not matter, even Einstein might have ended in gas chambers if he had stayed Is that your God? a Hitler? How can you be this brainwashed? All they had to do is promise the easy good life the easy lazy way - why work hard & EARN anything, when polishing the right shoes will get you ahead? You are polishing the right shoes? and will be rewarded with heaven? Those that are not will suffer endlessly?
@@jennifertoomey8213 This huge universe, this earth & all its life forms was created by God and all he wants to do is push religion? Who is converting to "my" religion and who is not & reward/punish accordingly? Like a Dictator who rewards/punishes based on who is loyal to him and who is not? Your God is a Putin, a Saddam, a Hitler? How is it that a religion can reduce you to such scum and you are totally unaware?
@@jennifertoomey8213 Where are your morals, values? So what happens if a drunk Christian drives you or your loved ones off the road & you are lying there in a pool of blood screaming for help watching your loved slowly die & an Atheist or Hindu stops & saves your life? Does the Drunk Christian get Heaven while the Atheist will be escorted by you to hell?
Letting go of anything is often painful. If you are having a hard time implementing this advice, letting go of something that holds you down, or someone you love.. that’s OK. Do not beat yourself up ❤️
Then are you really having any life? Life comes with pain & suffering - life is about having desires, aspirations - all you are doing is retiring from life - you will get your peace of mind but you end up with nothing
I honestly don’t know what it is about TopThink but their videos always seem to come into my life at the perfect moments whether I need insight as to why I fail at relationships or to be told that I overprepare for everything and am too afraid to take risk. TopThink thank you so much for pointing me in the right direction. Education should never stop even after school.
Yeah, but you have to ask yourself. What are they happy about? Are they happy for the right reasons. How many people suffered and paid the price in order for them to be happy?
Bless all of you beautiful people on here who are just trying to improve your lives by watching these really amazing informative videos. 👏 and I'm so grateful to God that we can now obtain all of this info for free! Woohoo! I just got sober from opiates 11 months ago and it was the most difficult thing I've ever been through. Still have a ways to go. But now my mission is to give back and help others defeat their own addiction. Anyways you all have a beautiful, blessed day! Thanks so much for reading my comment. I love you all!
Jump pointers But Understand those By watching the whole Video. 1. Finding Imperfections 0:14 2. Endless Preparation 1:51 3. The Lonely Void 3:46 4. Imaginary Intensity 5:26 5. Black or White 7:02 6. False Comparisons 8:07 7. Outside Expectations 9:33
I was abused as a child by my so called family whom i no longer have any contact with and I have moved far away from them, and as a result, of their ill treatment of me, I have no confidence and I have had a lot of rejection and failures in my life. I have become very nervous of people. I have no family, but for the last 3 years, I have miraculously become friends with two very nice people who live in the same high rise block in which I reside. _________ However, I am so used to feeling sad and I find it very hard to shake off my past. But, I have just taken a deep breath and decided to listen to your advice, which happened to show up on my suggestion panel on my pc and Number 7 really struck a cord with me, so I shall try to work on this aspect of my life. After all, I do now have the freedom i always craved as a child! I have no one telling me what to do, think, say or wear anymore, so I should really be happier shouldn't I??? .... Thank you from The UK for trying to help people. xxxxx
One has to realise : it is not you passing through life but life passing through you , let her do her thing.Happiness is a wave , has to go up/down to move forward , to each his frequency , find yours.
Very inspirational and genuine statement you wrote and i really enjoy it. I feel it will stick with me for a long time. Did you come up with it yourself or find somehow?
Yeah top think is making a lot of sense people cannot go around letting people control there life look at me I'm completely fine with being by myself it's nothing wrong with me I'm just a work in progress God is working on me right now ,so anyways God bless 🙌🛐
The one about not being comfortable with yourself so you put it in other people to build you up was brilliant. I was like "ok wow I see what they did there!"
I think it's also important to question whether we should be trying to make ourselves happy. There's growing body of evidence that pursuing happiness is both ineffective and hard to define clearly. A possible better goal would be to reduce suffering.
That's the thing that most people don't seem to realize - I keep giving them the following example: Kid A wants top grades - he knows he must work hard, stay up late, worry, give up things he likes to do like playing sports, going to movies etc Kid B has different goals - he wants to be happy - and going to movies, playing sports, sleeping in late gives him happiness & joy. Studying? not so much So I ask these "happy" people whom do you want your kid to be like? And they ALL run away from this question
And what do the top religions of the day say? There is magic land of pleasure, a life of ease waiting for us - and all we have to do is do the Corrupt/Communist thing - find the right shoes to polish, kiss the right butt and we get all that! And we are in luck, they have that Putin, Saddam "God" & if we get down on our knees, grovel and assure him of our undying loyalty, he will reward us with the eternal life in pleasure! AND NOT ONE ASKS WHY "GOD" IS ACTING LIKE PUTIN, SADDAM! EVEN MORE DISTURBING, NOT ONE ASKS ABOUT THE LOVED ONES THEY LEAVE BEHIND! They may be starving, suffering, sick, homeless, jobless - but they don't care anymore! The top religions of the day preach Running away from Suffering is the way to go! And billions agree! So much for all our education, intelligence and morality
I kept on telling myself that I have to fail multiple times in order to succeed. But then it's just one of the things that's easier to say. Now that I'm in the state of failure, it's hard. I hope that it'll be worth it.
U r not failure n no one can be may be ur company can make someone's life so beautiful just stop saying u r failure at least u r trying most of people like me just give up. I believe u can achieve what u want
If you want to be happy stop: 1. Finding Imperfections. 2. Endless Preparation aka procrastinating. 3. The Lonely Void instead get to know & accept yourself. 4. Imaginary Intensity aka expecting disasters. 5. Black or White Thinking aka all or nothing/throwing the baby out with the bath water. 6. False Comparisons aka trying to compete with others instead of self. 7. Outside Expectations instead of living for yourself.
I do value the time I spend alone and I do try to take the time to learn about myself and to grow as a person. That's exactly what I'm trying to do right now.
If you want to be happy, just be happy. Its not a feeling, its just a attitude. If you allow yourself to feel happy, everything else will come to you sooner or later (for example acceptance)
NOW THAT IS SOME REAL QUALITY INFORMATION. When he said "the more you get to know yourself the more your relationships will change". That is some quality shit and is the best thing you've said thus far.
I do agree that you have to savor meaningful moments. I try to do that every several days or so because it does save me from succumbing to an overwhelming amount of pessimism and despair so I do agree with that and I do practice that quite frequently but probably not as much as I should. I also try to see the good in people as well but I do try to balance that out with seeing their dark side as well. In other words you got to do both in my honest opinion otherwise you will be vulnerable to attack one way or another.
I have no business being in a relationship. The hardest thing I've come to realize and I'm trying to accept, is being happy and content with being alone with myself. I'm not the man for the job, one day. Just not today.
Dear instructor, Thank you so much for your wonderful video and your excellent recommendations to uplift ourselves and not to take care of things that should not affect us in life stop all your comments are simply invaluable as many people dwell in desperation because of these type of problems which cannot let them see the light. Thank you thank you so much for all the good that you’re doing for most of the people but most likely don’t know what to do in these cases.🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹❤️
The wisest thing that should be on every wise individual's list is to invest in different stream of income and don't depend on the government to bring in money especially now the pandemic is hitting the economy
One thing that will keep you from happiness is trying to make everyone else happy. You just can’t do it & it will only lead to burnout and frustration.
“Letting go” is not limited to just “7 things.” Letting go is a mindset and way of life. Buddhism teaches us the concept of detachment or non-attachment. “Letting go” the delusion and ignorance that fuel the need for attachment can help end the suffering. Stoicism teaches us the concept of Dichotomy of Control, which is the understanding of what is and what is not within our control. Understanding this concept will give you the mind frame of “Letting go.”
Then what kind of a life is that - then you will exist - that's it! Life is about having desires, aspirations and working to fulfil them - that is what gives life meaning If you let go of everything, then you basically retire - it appeals to the old, the retired - it is bad advice for the young. Being retired will give you peace of mind but then that is all you will have. You will end up with a wasted life
My father had the negative view of the world. Everyone is out to get you and when one or two gets you he will say "I told you so." I think I either learned or inherited a bit of it. I need to let go of the hyper cautious, hyper fearful, hyper unhappy attitudes. He would also study things to death. Actually a decision not to do something he didn't want to do. Thanks.
Again another high quality piece of advice. Everyone should control their expectations that is also something I'm trying to learn and practice on a daily basis. And its something I didn't do at all when I was younger.
I am an artist and I love to draw and color. Every time I show my friends my artwork I get comments like "I can't draw like that" "I don't have the patience to do that" "I can't draw for shit" and I'm saying in my head "Why are these people doubting themselves? Why are they telling me what they CAN'T do instead of what they CAN do? Everyone has a talent, a gift. But saying that they don't have the PATIENCE or CAN'T do something really defeats the purpose in itself." I don't like that kind of thinking.
I agree. But that lonely part is not always true. People can have self love and still be lonely. You can work on yourself and still want a partner. Just like a person want a successful job, you can also want love. Never think you don't love yourself because you feel lonely and want someone to love you. Everyone is not selfish
Being the kinda person that you want to be with is also good advice as well. Now we are getting a high quality informative self help video. Now we are getting some where.
I really got interested when he said "a lack of companionship doesn't make you lonely" that's an interesting and unconventional statement I don't hear that everyday. And then he says that your lonely because your uncomfortable with yourself. I think this is only half true because he is failing to realize that we are HUMAN and that we are SOCIAL creatures and that humans have only found their success and dominance over the natural world by working TOGETHER and as a group and a whole. Without our ability to bond and form relationships us humans as a whole wouldn't survive at the level we have now. So companionship and love is key whether you are comfortable with yourself or not. With that being said you can have too much human interaction and that can be taxing or annoying especially if the people you are constantly around are toxic
The first thing I had to let go of in order to be happy was to stop watching youtube videos that provide info on what I need to let go of in order to find happiness. I have to report that the strategy is working out quite well.
I can see the reasons in the video for a person to let go to be happy.I believe in perfection.None of us can achieve 100% perfection,or 100% non perfection. We can try our best to achieve 100% perfection,but we will never achieve it. This applies to everything in Life,in which we do.This applies to Happiness.We can never achieve 100% Happiness.There is one thing in Life,which is free to us all, and that is the air we breathe.There is one thing in Life,in which we cannot do anything about,and that is we will die. I have studied Psychology and Philosophy. (It is a funny old world we live in). That is Life.
I'm going through like every single one of these numbers here ->this is crazy. And reading the comments, I'm not alone we are not alone in this school called life. Lets pass with a decent grade guys, we can do this and remember->>one small step a time**. May god help u and if u don't believe, may the universe help u, find something that you can hold on to please! Something divine not a person or thing unless it's a goal. Take care, and most importantly remember->IT WILL BE OKAY ***
NOW I"VE HEARD SOMETHING THAT I"VE NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT. AND YES I DO OVER INTENSIFY EVERYTHING THAT IS A GREAT POINT AND YES THAT IS A BIG CHARACTER FLAW THAT I DO HAVE. However, I was conditioned to do so by the government because before their involvement I really wasn't like this at all. Well maybe I was but it wasn't so prevalent and it didn't come up a whole lot.
If I were a wealthy man, Such things I'd give to thee: All gauges and guises Of umpteen surprises, And wealthy I'll someday be. If I were a clever man, Such things I'd build for thee: All manner of modes Of humble abodes, And clever I'll someday be. If I were a travelling man, Such things I'd bring to thee: All features and faces Of faraway places, And travelled I'll someday be. If I were a braver man, Such things I'd promise thee: All valour in verses Of tethering curses Will someday be set free.
Again I do understand the whole "letting go of negativity thing" but I do honestly think that it is also important to know what people are capable of because you need to be able to assess how much of a threat they are if you don't do that then you will get taken advantage of and that will fuck up your happiness more than any previous level of pessimism that you once had.
Hate is the most NEGATIVE emotion possible in the human experience! Stop hating & practice what you preach. Extend compassion & understanding to those who are most distasteful to you. I promise you will have even more things to be grateful for.
The best career advice that I learned is don’t ever attach your-self to a PERSON, a place, a company, an organization or a project. Only Attach your-self to your mission in life and your PURPOSE. That’s how you keep your power and keep your peace!
Exactly I couldn't aggree more , my so branched out on his own and self employed he is doing great, own hours own rules.🏃💗👍👍
I took a gamble at the age of 22 to invest in myself and become self employed. My worst year was the first. I made 50k. That was 1992 when 25k was decent money. I will be able to retire comfortably at the age of 60 and still have six figure income coming in. I come from poor background and have only a GED. All it took was taking the gamble to do the same job I was doing for the people I worked for and cut out the middle man. My coworkers followed and became my employees. I took care of them as well. Go for it!
@@timcluckey8806 what kind of business did you start?
Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner. 😆
Oh, now I'm attached to you and what you said, about one's own mission and or purpose in life 🤔 l believe life is just to be lived by observing the real purpose which is natural nature, that is, what nature has to offer meaning true reality, and not a conception of human reality. Have a great day 🙏
*Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life.*
If you saw this comment, I hope you have an amazing day! 🖤
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Hello Ahmet..., * "Life is short.., so do, what makes you happy ! !" If you do.., whatever makes you happy.., you will be a success ! ! * Once again.., "Life is short.., so do whatever makes you HAPPY ! !" Your friend always.., Michael Sean O'Brien in historic Uptown Butte, Montana.. * P.S.: Once again, excellent video and thank you for sharing.. Have a beautiful day and a wonderful week ahead, too.. " Semper Fi " Mike :)
Thank you
@@thisisme3238 🙏🙏
@@seanobrien2306 🙏🙏
👉 *5 Important Lessons*
◾ *Before you talk, listen.*
◾ *Before you react, think.*
◾ *Before you criticize, achieve.*
◾ *Before you spend, earn.*
◾ *Before you quit, try.*
#5:) I wanted to learn Spanish; after 4 months of intense studying - ugh ! I've given up . . . 👎🏿
Ahmet knows.
i am going to print it and paste it in my room. thanks, ahmet.
Well said sir well said
Yes indeed how correct you are be none the wiser knowledge is power never stop learning try something new every day you will be surprised what you can accomplish keep on trying you got this mind over matter I've mastered many things in life and became the master of my own life 💯
Here's the summary
Things u must let go of to be Happy.
1. Finding imperfection
2. Endless preparation
3. The lonely void
4. Imaginary intensity
5. Black or white
6. False comparisons
7. Outside expectation
I have to admit...I think that number 1 and 6 are my biggest areas I need to work on. I tend to always feel like I have to be perfect and I always compare myself to others (which is why I stopped performing but I am now doing it again).
Develop a personal mental health checklist
Thanks for writing the list. The narration is so fast that's hard to truly assimilate it. Every step would need more time to digest and think, identify it.
Thanks for that
Thanks friend! ❤
Robin Williams said," being alone isn't awful, being with people who make u feel alone is awfull." I can understand the quote, my hearts to numb to accept the fact
When you have the Ruach Ha'Kodesh (Holy Spirit) You're never alone. May YAHUAH (God) bless you all. APTTMH 🙏🏽🙌🏾❤
Amen
This is the truth. When we humans finally figure this out, then peace and joy will come. Can't wait for Jesus to come again to Earth. Only through Him can we live a blessed life. What's interesting is the Covid virus agenda hit me emotionally hard. Because of this, I was forced to depend on God more than ever before. As a result, spiritual gifts came through that would have never happened without being isolated from others. God uses all of us for a higher purpose. So thankful for the Lord and His love for me.
May you be blessed as well in your daily life. 🙏🙇⛪
@@tana5098 i agree with you brother, lucifer works hard but Yah works harder. While the devil locked us down in our homes in the hopes that solitude would drive us insane, The Most High gave us as believers time out from the world and all its distractions, in order to bring us closer to him through his word and holy spirit (Ruach Ha'Kodesh). God Bless You brother and may the Ruach of Yah Guide you in Wisdom and truth 🙏🏽❤
Amen
IT is true, I love my compact with Jezus, Hè loves me, other people too, Hè makes the whole situation acceptabel,
For the way you are, the best option tot do IT ?
When you are dependent on others,
For happines.......you willl be hurt,
So learn to live happy by yourself.
Your happiness is within you.
Peace✌️
Then you will find yourself alone
@@ramaraksha01 And what is wrong with that? It is a difference with being alone or being lonely.
@@bigvalley4987 Point is that every choice comes with a cost/benefit. If you fall in love with someone, it doesn't mean that other person will reciprocate, that person might laugh in your face
And that fear of rejection will mean that this person will never tell that other person how he feels, never know whether the other person feels the same way
This is your coward philosophy, the weak philosophy - don't do this, don't do that - don't expect anything
Yes if you don't do anything, you will never lose, but you are not going to gain anything either
@@bigvalley4987 Thank you!!
@Football ⚽️ shorts I totally agree!!
"The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward." To anyone that reading this comment, have a great day! Regards to you and to your family.
I’m STRUGGLING with my self esteem right now so bad! I have many many regrets of bad decisions and questioning who I even am or if I even like myself or are worthy. So thank you for your post ❤️
I'm 6 TN
How about understanding that there might a victim who is hurting and is waiting for your apology and set things right?
If it means anything your post meant something to me. Thank you and God bless you from the state of Kentucky.
*Don't let insecure thoughts ruin something amazing!!*
OMG! this has got to be one of your very best! Every word is so succinct and loaded with true meaning. You've helped me to see clearly.
I used to think of my self as odd and out of step with the rest of the world. But if the truth be known my heart is filled with love and respect for others and I'm not crazy....I'm just a little eccentric. Who knew? 🥰
U r awesome because u r UNIQUE! Nobody will ever be like u so shine and be urself. It’s hard if u hv been conditioned by society to suppress it because it’s “weird”. I know I hv, but hey, I’m working on it 😊
YASS Laura!!!
@@MindNow Your comment is giving me LIFE...FINALLY somebody who used the correct word instead of the words weird or strange!!
@@traceylennon1204 glad u resonate with it Tracey! ❤️
The 4 Agreements.
1.Don't make assumptions
2. Don't take anything personal
3. Be impeccable with your word.
4. Always do your best. ✌️
You forgot 5. Be water, my friend.
@@philochristos i
So far I have lived 70+some years. I mostly agree with your points. I learned them through personal and intimate, good and/or bad, experiences of many decades of conscious living. I wasn't a dummy and I learned. At the end, however, I have chosen to be alone minimizing *interaction* with others. Neither yourself nor others are saints. You may tolerate some defects all the time. Or, you may tolerate all defects some time. But, you cannot tolerate all defects all the time. If you can stay alone, you only need to deal with your own defects - if you know how to deal with them, that is.
lol and the top religions of the day are those that say if you don't believe as we do, you will burn in hell for all eternity! Old people, children, even babies? pregnant women, all set apart based solely on religion, and just as Jews were set apart and were dumped into gas chambers, these innocent people also, will be set apart & dumped into gas chambers in hell!
AND NOT ONE EDUCATED OR MEDIA OR MORAL PERSON HAS HAD A PROBLEM WITH SUCH NAZI IDEAS! NOT ONE!
@@ramaraksha01
Jesus is the Son of God He who believes in Him will never perish but have Eternal Life, and I will raise him up on the last day.
I am the way
the Truth, and the Life
And no one comes to the Father
But by me.
Jesus said
You must be Born Again
(of the Holy Spirit)
Nicodemus said
" How can a man be born again when he is old.?"
If you ask God to forgive your sins ( for all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God).
He will do that, and ask Him to come into your heart by the Holy spirit. He will.
And you will be born again.
Read John 's gospel in the new Testament of the Bible. John 3 16.
John Chapter 14 a d 15.
May theord Bless you,
May His face shine upon you
And fill you with His Love
That you may be blessed in All your ways
And all your days
So much love,
Lee Toomey
A Christian for 47 years!
( older than you are now ).
@@jennifertoomey8213 God is a Putin, whoever believes & supports him will be rewarded with the good life & those that do not suffer?
What a sick view of God!
So you are saying who we are as people does not matter? What we do in life does not matter? Only belief or religion alone matters?
That is what the Nazis said - who the Jew was did not matter, even Einstein might have ended in gas chambers if he had stayed
Is that your God? a Hitler?
How can you be this brainwashed?
All they had to do is promise the easy good life the easy lazy way - why work hard & EARN anything, when polishing the right shoes will get you ahead?
You are polishing the right shoes? and will be rewarded with heaven?
Those that are not will suffer endlessly?
@@jennifertoomey8213 This huge universe, this earth & all its life forms was created by God and all he wants to do is push religion? Who is converting to "my" religion and who is not & reward/punish accordingly?
Like a Dictator who rewards/punishes based on who is loyal to him and who is not?
Your God is a Putin, a Saddam, a Hitler?
How is it that a religion can reduce you to such scum and you are totally unaware?
@@jennifertoomey8213 Where are your morals, values?
So what happens if a drunk Christian drives you or your loved ones off the road & you are lying there in a pool of blood screaming for help watching your loved slowly die & an Atheist or Hindu stops & saves your life?
Does the Drunk Christian get Heaven while the Atheist will be escorted by you to hell?
Letting go of anything is often painful. If you are having a hard time implementing this advice, letting go of something that holds you down, or someone you love.. that’s OK. Do not beat yourself up ❤️
Then are you really having any life? Life comes with pain & suffering - life is about having desires, aspirations - all you are doing is retiring from life - you will get your peace of mind but you end up with nothing
I honestly don’t know what it is about TopThink but their videos always seem to come into my life at the perfect moments whether I need insight as to why I fail at relationships or to be told that I overprepare for everything and am too afraid to take risk. TopThink thank you so much for pointing me in the right direction. Education should never stop even after school.
THE JOY OF THE LORD IS MY STRENGTH.IM ALWAYS HAPPY BECAUSE IM STILL LIVING.
But, “to live is Christ and to die is gain.”
@@jhask64 You will be rewarded/punished based on religion? So who we are as people does not matter? What we did in life does not matter?
this video was heaven sent. A memory from 7 years ago of someone showing their authority over me has been tormenting me. thank you TopThink.
One very important one is to be around happy people. They’ll lift your spirit
Yeah, but you have to ask yourself. What are they happy about? Are they happy for the right reasons. How many people suffered and paid the price in order for them to be happy?
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*Some of us think holding on makes us stronger, but sometimes it is letting go that makes us stronger.*
I believe in you, have an amazing day... 🖤🙏
Good advice.
Hey Ahmet. Do you have a UA-cam page?
What doesn't kill you ,
Makes you "Stronger".!!!
Bless all of you beautiful people on here who are just trying to improve your lives by watching these really amazing informative videos. 👏 and I'm so grateful to God that we can now obtain all of this info for free! Woohoo! I just got sober from opiates 11 months ago and it was the most difficult thing I've ever been through. Still have a ways to go. But now my mission is to give back and help others defeat their own addiction. Anyways you all have a beautiful, blessed day! Thanks so much for reading my comment. I love you all!
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and who ever you want to manifest within two-days ❤❤❤
He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯 💯💯
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Jump pointers
But Understand those By watching the whole Video.
1. Finding Imperfections 0:14
2. Endless Preparation 1:51
3. The Lonely Void 3:46
4. Imaginary Intensity 5:26
5. Black or White 7:02
6. False Comparisons 8:07
7. Outside Expectations 9:33
YES! @ 4:28-5:23 Is The Best Advice You Can Give To Anyone. Very Important.
I was abused as a child by my so called family whom i no longer have any contact with and I have moved far away from them, and as a result, of their ill treatment of me, I have no confidence and I have had a lot of rejection and failures in my life. I have become very nervous of people. I have no family, but for the last 3 years, I have miraculously become friends with two very nice people who live in the same high rise block in which I reside. _________ However, I am so used to feeling sad and I find it very hard to shake off my past. But, I have just taken a deep breath and decided to listen to your advice, which happened to show up on my suggestion panel on my pc and Number 7 really struck a cord with me, so I shall try to work on this aspect of my life. After all, I do now have the freedom i always craved as a child! I have no one telling me what to do, think, say or wear anymore, so I should really be happier shouldn't I??? .... Thank you from The UK for trying to help people. xxxxx
to whoever made this video,
THANK YOU
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"The lonely void" - a concept I'd neverr considered and the most useful idea I got from a video full of great ideas.
One has to realise : it is not you passing through life but life passing through you , let her do her thing.Happiness is a wave , has to go up/down to move forward , to each his frequency , find yours.
Very inspirational and genuine statement you wrote and i really enjoy it. I feel it will stick with me for a long time. Did you come up with it yourself or find somehow?
@@T.Lspitz , this is from my older brother Andre , now deceased from brain tumor...a wise person for sure.Thanks to appreciate.
Love this!!
Omg this is LITERALLY the best/actually useful comment section on the World Wide Web!!!
Love it, thank you!!!
Godspeed ❤️
So needed to watch this right now. Thank you so much 🙏🏼😘🤗🥰🥰🥰
Yeah top think is making a lot of sense people cannot go around letting people control there life look at me I'm completely fine with being by myself it's nothing wrong with me I'm just a work in progress God is working on me right now ,so anyways God bless 🙌🛐
Shabbat Shalom Amen 🙏
The one about not being comfortable with yourself so you put it in other people to build you up was brilliant. I was like "ok wow I see what they did there!"
Same.
Attachment to a “significant other”. There is no other, and the significance is your own. ❤️
I think it's also important to question whether we should be trying to make ourselves happy. There's growing body of evidence that pursuing happiness is both ineffective and hard to define clearly. A possible better goal would be to reduce suffering.
Please read the German philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer (1788-1860). He will expand on your thesis.
That's the thing that most people don't seem to realize - I keep giving them the following example: Kid A wants top grades - he knows he must work hard, stay up late, worry, give up things he likes to do like playing sports, going to movies etc
Kid B has different goals - he wants to be happy - and going to movies, playing sports, sleeping in late gives him happiness & joy. Studying? not so much
So I ask these "happy" people whom do you want your kid to be like?
And they ALL run away from this question
And what do the top religions of the day say? There is magic land of pleasure, a life of ease waiting for us - and all we have to do is do the Corrupt/Communist thing - find the right shoes to polish, kiss the right butt and we get all that! And we are in luck, they have that Putin, Saddam "God" & if we get down on our knees, grovel and assure him of our undying loyalty, he will reward us with the eternal life in pleasure!
AND NOT ONE ASKS WHY "GOD" IS ACTING LIKE PUTIN, SADDAM!
EVEN MORE DISTURBING, NOT ONE ASKS ABOUT THE LOVED ONES THEY LEAVE BEHIND! They may be starving, suffering, sick, homeless, jobless - but they don't care anymore!
The top religions of the day preach Running away from Suffering is the way to go! And billions agree!
So much for all our education, intelligence and morality
I just do the things that make my heart sing. You know, that thing that you enjoy so much and you can do for hours that make you even forget to eat.
@@hiddenname9809 Yeah, I wish I could experience something like that.
I kept on telling myself that I have to fail multiple times in order to succeed. But then it's just one of the things that's easier to say.
Now that I'm in the state of failure, it's hard. I hope that it'll be worth it.
U r not failure n no one can be may be ur company can make someone's life so beautiful just stop saying u r failure at least u r trying most of people like me just give up. I believe u can achieve what u want
I've got to let go of things I can't control. That's my biggest challenge.
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Life’s too short to worry about what others think or say about you. Live life on your own terms. 💙
Make each day count !!! Because TIME is precious !!! Amen 🙏❤️🙏......
And it goes awfully fast..I just turned 60..WTF
This sums up everything I am dealing with. I am glad I got to see this.
R u already letting go of some of them? If so...how?
Me too
If you want to be happy stop:
1. Finding Imperfections. 2. Endless Preparation aka procrastinating. 3. The Lonely Void instead get to know & accept yourself. 4. Imaginary Intensity aka expecting disasters. 5. Black or White Thinking aka all or nothing/throwing the baby out with the bath water. 6. False Comparisons aka trying to compete with others instead of self. 7. Outside Expectations instead of living for yourself.
I do value the time I spend alone and I do try to take the time to learn about myself and to grow as a person. That's exactly what I'm trying to do right now.
If you want to be happy, just be happy. Its not a feeling, its just a attitude. If you allow yourself to feel happy, everything else will come to you sooner or later (for example acceptance)
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and who ever you want to manifest within two-days ❤❤❤
He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯 💯💯
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NOW THAT IS SOME REAL QUALITY INFORMATION. When he said "the more you get to know yourself the more your relationships will change". That is some quality shit and is the best thing you've said thus far.
Let go if it goes on too long to get, everything is formulated!
Or it might be something hidden that can hurt you!!!
This is fascinating and fantastic video. Excellent job. Thanks for the video mate
I think this is the BEST ADVICE I HAVE EVER HEARD!!!
Thank you Soooo much!
I already memorize his intro "Hello Everyone! And Welcome to Topthink and today we gonna learn..." (The Best UA-cam recommendation)
In the end of this video I want to live an peace to see my grandbabies finish school and everything especially life thank the lord for that....🙏🙏🙏🙏
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UA-cam, a big thank you for recommending this fabulous video to me 😊
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May everyone be blessed
Thank you and you too
I do agree that you have to savor meaningful moments. I try to do that every several days or so because it does save me from succumbing to an overwhelming amount of pessimism and despair so I do agree with that and I do practice that quite frequently but probably not as much as I should.
I also try to see the good in people as well but I do try to balance that out with seeing their dark side as well. In other words you got to do both in my honest opinion otherwise you will be vulnerable to attack one way or another.
Ngl cried while watching this , thank you needed to hear this great vid 👍
I have no business being in a relationship. The hardest thing I've come to realize and I'm trying to accept, is being happy and content with being alone with myself. I'm not the man for the job, one day. Just not today.
So so TRUE!! Thank you so much for posting this clip.
I Love TOP Think ❤️ make me more happy 😁
Dear instructor, Thank you so much for your wonderful video and your excellent recommendations to uplift ourselves and not to take care of things that should not affect us in life stop all your comments are simply invaluable as many people dwell in desperation because of these type of problems which cannot let them see the light. Thank you thank you so much for all the good that you’re doing for most of the people but most likely don’t know what to do in these cases.🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹❤️
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@@enoating7588 Thank you sooo much but I always go alone to fix my problems!👍👍👍👍👍👍
One of the best of the best videos I’ve watched since a very long time
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WOW! Top Think has has many, many , many brilliant videos and this is one of the best. I love it.
Letting go make us strong and ready to move on. Thanks @Topthink
Sooo much condensed wisdom here.
I must admit that I really needed this.
What r u struggling at the moment?
@@MindNow sick as hell and got no money for hospital. Am in a third world country. You money no services
@@Penelopehdy don’t u hv relatives who can help u?
@@MindNow no
@@MindNow they're are dead broke
Thanks for sharing.
Amen. Happiness is a choice.
Thank you for sharing 😊 I really love the deep knowledge of everything 💖 that was mention to let go to be happy 😁💞
Good stuff to live by. Just have to remember it all especially when I am having a hard time.
The wisest thing that should be on every wise individual's list is to invest in different stream of income and don't depend on the government to bring in money especially now the pandemic is hitting the economy
you are definitely right , waiting on the government is a big waste
Investments are the stepping Stones to success especially if you been guided by a professional
Investing is good but investing in the right thing is the actual key to success . who is your pro ?
That was exactly what I did, I trade with a professional stock expert "VIVIAN KLAINE MORGAN " who i met in one of the seminars..
There are so many investment out there but if profits must be considered then not all investments are good to go into.
One thing that will keep you from happiness is trying to make everyone else happy. You just can’t do it & it will only lead to burnout and frustration.
True words
thank you for the great advice and great video
Cheers for the video! Great video and spot on advice.. Thank you..
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Thank you so much for motivating us
Thanks for sharing beautiful video.Love you all keep smiling. 😊😍
“Letting go” is not limited to just “7 things.” Letting go is a mindset and way of life.
Buddhism teaches us the concept of detachment or non-attachment. “Letting go” the delusion and ignorance that fuel the need for attachment can help end the suffering.
Stoicism teaches us the concept of Dichotomy of Control, which is the understanding of what is and what is not within our control. Understanding this concept will give you the mind frame of “Letting go.”
Then what kind of a life is that - then you will exist - that's it!
Life is about having desires, aspirations and working to fulfil them - that is what gives life meaning
If you let go of everything, then you basically retire - it appeals to the old, the retired - it is bad advice for the young. Being retired will give you peace of mind but then that is all you will have. You will end up with a wasted life
My father had the negative view of the world. Everyone is out to get you and when one or two gets you he will say "I told you so." I think I either learned or inherited a bit of it. I need to let go of the hyper cautious, hyper fearful, hyper unhappy attitudes. He would also study things to death. Actually a decision not to do something he didn't want to do. Thanks.
Again another high quality piece of advice. Everyone should control their expectations that is also something I'm trying to learn and practice on a daily basis. And its something I didn't do at all when I was younger.
I am an artist and I love to draw and color. Every time I show my friends my artwork I get comments like "I can't draw like that" "I don't have the patience to do that" "I can't draw for shit" and I'm saying in my head "Why are these people doubting themselves? Why are they telling me what they CAN'T do instead of what they CAN do? Everyone has a talent, a gift. But saying that they don't have the PATIENCE or CAN'T do something really defeats the purpose in itself." I don't like that kind of thinking.
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What a Whopper of a video, great down to earth wisdom/knowledge, every point you made is so true Well Done Top Think Hats off to you🏆👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
I agree. But that lonely part is not always true. People can have self love and still be lonely. You can work on yourself and still want a partner. Just like a person want a successful job, you can also want love. Never think you don't love yourself because you feel lonely and want someone to love you. Everyone is not selfish
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#3..!! Always known this..especially when it comes to taste in music and how I'd rather spend my time..
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I’ve never loved myself, and I was always taught not to talk to strangers, but that’s just the way I am
To everyone reading this, you're amazing 😊
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#3 was HUGE for me. Thank you so much
Thank you. 🍷👍 Honestly useful life lessons.
Be the kind of person you want to be with... I like that a lot! Great video overall.
Being the kinda person that you want to be with is also good advice as well. Now we are getting a high quality informative self help video. Now we are getting some where.
Great content ❤️
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I love your channel ❤️
Same
I really got interested when he said "a lack of companionship doesn't make you lonely" that's an interesting and unconventional statement I don't hear that everyday. And then he says that your lonely because your uncomfortable with yourself.
I think this is only half true because he is failing to realize that we are HUMAN and that we are SOCIAL creatures and that humans have only found their success and dominance over the natural world by working TOGETHER and as a group and a whole.
Without our ability to bond and form relationships us humans as a whole wouldn't survive at the level we have now. So companionship and love is key whether you are comfortable with yourself or not. With that being said you can have too much human interaction and that can be taxing or annoying especially if the people you are constantly around are toxic
The first thing I had to let go of in order to be happy was to stop watching youtube videos that provide info on what I need to let go of in order to find happiness. I have to report that the strategy is working out quite well.
I can see the reasons in the video for
a person to let go to be happy.I believe
in perfection.None of us can achieve
100% perfection,or 100% non perfection.
We can try our best to achieve 100%
perfection,but we will never achieve it.
This applies to everything in Life,in which
we do.This applies to Happiness.We can
never achieve 100% Happiness.There is
one thing in Life,which is free to us all,
and that is the air we breathe.There is
one thing in Life,in which we cannot do
anything about,and that is we will die.
I have studied Psychology and Philosophy.
(It is a funny old world we live in).
That is Life.
Thank you and God bless
I'm going through like every single one of these numbers here ->this is crazy. And reading the comments, I'm not alone we are not alone in this school called life. Lets pass with a decent grade guys, we can do this and remember->>one small step a time**. May god help u and if u don't believe, may the universe help u, find something that you can hold on to please! Something divine not a person or thing unless it's a goal. Take care, and most importantly remember->IT WILL BE OKAY ***
Fantastic reminder, thank you!
Love your self 100%.
NOW I"VE HEARD SOMETHING THAT I"VE NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT. AND YES I DO OVER INTENSIFY EVERYTHING THAT IS A GREAT POINT AND YES THAT IS A BIG CHARACTER FLAW THAT I DO HAVE.
However, I was conditioned to do so by the government because before their involvement I really wasn't like this at all. Well maybe I was but it wasn't so prevalent and it didn't come up a whole lot.
I used to see the good in most people then I was used and my loving heart taken advantage of.
If I were a wealthy man,
Such things I'd give to thee:
All gauges and guises
Of umpteen surprises,
And wealthy I'll someday be.
If I were a clever man,
Such things I'd build for thee:
All manner of modes
Of humble abodes,
And clever I'll someday be.
If I were a travelling man,
Such things I'd bring to thee:
All features and faces
Of faraway places,
And travelled I'll someday be.
If I were a braver man,
Such things I'd promise thee:
All valour in verses
Of tethering curses
Will someday be set free.
Again I do understand the whole "letting go of negativity thing" but I do honestly think that it is also important to know what people are capable of because you need to be able to assess how much of a threat they are if you don't do that then you will get taken advantage of and that will fuck up your happiness more than any previous level of pessimism that you once had.
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!! A MUST WATCH!!!
Good lord.... I am guilty of all of it. Everything changes now!
I aways say thank you God for everything i hate negative people
Hate is the most NEGATIVE emotion possible in the human experience! Stop hating & practice what you preach. Extend compassion & understanding to those who are most distasteful to you. I promise you will have even more things to be grateful for.
Words to live by. This is great advice. Glad I watched this.