Why Setting Boundaries is Important? Ft. Hareem Sumbul | S6EP142 | Happy Chirp
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- Опубліковано 31 лип 2024
- Tonight, meet Hareem Sumbul as we take a deep dive into the intricate layers of boundaries. We will talk about the importance of boundaries, fostering open conversations, and the value of assertiveness over aggression. We'll also explore why it's important to let children define their own boundaries, highlight how Gen Z excels in navigating this complex terrain and so much more.
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00:00 Introduction
01:42 Breastfeeding Awareness: Charting Change
07:18 Career Updates
10:45 Mainstreaming Lactation Consultants: Roadblocks
15:04 Her Current Practice Location
15:36 Boundaries: A Closer Look at Our Society
19:00 Why do we need to talk about this?
21:52 Struggle with Boundaries: Millennials vs. Gen Z
23:38 How to set boundaries?
26:21 Digging Deeper: Roots of Our Boundary Complexities
28:15 Boundaries for Women vs. Men
32:24 Assertiveness Over Aggression
35:49 Personal Boundaries with Relatives
42:43 Defining Personal Boundaries & Learning Over Time
49:55 Early Roots, Lifelong Traits
55:00 Raising a Child with a Distinct Take on Boundaries
59:34 Food Without Rules: Let them Define their Relationship with Food!
1:07:18 Enforcing ‘Tameez’: The Fine Line
1:14:40 Friendship Breakups
1:19:33 Gen Z’s Work Ethic
1:30:30 The Importance of Appreciation & Respecting others boundaries
1:47:33 Why it’s important at this time?
2:00:13 Ending Note
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I needed this. I am gen z and I was getting passive aggressive because I respected everyone boundaries but no one respects mine. I think it is a huge problem with gen z, they are aware, have boundaries but only for themselves. Not for others.
I think boundaries are important but it's also important if your section of society can afford to have them. I think there should be a note on this channel to say that the discussions may mainly apply to middle-class families who have their own safety net and less stress in their lives as compared to the majority of those living in Pakistan.
I completely completely agree with you. The guest however did say that ye bharay pait ki baatain hain, and I think that is what she meant 🤗
@@happychirp Oh great, I must have missed that. Thank you.
Wow i needed to hear this
Im struggling with boundaries myself as u said we are not used to defining them and the reaction that we get us really hearbreaking
Its a long journey ........
The talk was so relatable
Want more podcast on pure boundaries topic
Assalam alaikum, i have really been enjoying the latest episodes. Really interestng topics.
I listen to this podcast to improve my urdu, but I have noticed more english is spoken now. Would be nice to see more episode with urdu spoken more than english😊
Keep it up,Humna!🙌
Uff this is soo damn relatable. Understand every bit of it. Thanks for this, guys!!!
Such a wonderful conversation
I think drawing boundaries & being disrespectful towards someone has very thin line in between
So one have to be so clear and conscious while doing this
For sure our parents raise the best way possible at that times or situation but yes now we need to change on so many things
& also, regarding food
Yes u cant force a child to eat
But yeh kehna k bacha chord y ga tu food waste ni ho ga
Ho ga zaror ho ga
Or so many people in our country or overall world is starving so we should be veery careful when it comes to wasting food same as u are telling to be so careful in so many aspects of life/work/home in your whole conversion
Make vedio about mental health
Can u share last podcast link with sumbul
ua-cam.com/video/l9jo0dcFLP8/v-deo.htmlsi=XM__05F8v7L6vPXz
I slightly disagree with the concept of "Plate saaf karna". You guys are discussing that don't tell children that plate saaf karo even you have to overeat. Half of this thing is right but we can teach them that take a small portion of food, and taste it, If they like it eat it and can always take the food a second or third time because "khana zaya karna" is a bad thing as a human as well as a Muslim so that they don't develop a habit to leave food in the plate always.
The guest is very intellectual and might be a very good speaker but she is not a good listener at all.
It gets so irritating she tries to overpower the conversation. Like dude please let the host speak a little too.
I agree with you completely. I’m glad you noticed that and I found it cringeworthy myself when I look back at it but I also realised it when I was doing it and worked on it in the moment to curb my enthusiasm. It improves as the video goes on. I was too excited about the topic in the beginning and then corrected myself as it went on!
No, she's going according to right concept of podcast, she's v nicely depicting her points n letting host explain hers too
If we're watching this podcast with the perspective of someone who doesn't know that the guest came here with the purpose to talk out her own mind about boundaries, then maybe you're right.
But Humna clearly states in the beginning (time stamp 15:52) that Hareem came to speak up her own mind about boundaries. Having heard that part, it's quite clear that Hareem came here to TALK and will keep talking. It doesn't define her as a person who's not a "good listener" because if you go back to season 1 and hear her last podcast with Humna, you'll understand that she's a good listener too.
In short, it all depends on the intensity of the topic the host and the guest are talking about and whether the topic demands overpowering. That's all.
@@HareemSumbul You were amazing, you kept speaking my mind and made me wish the podcast didn't end. You are a good listener, I've experienced that in my BF session with you so don't let anyone gaslight you into thinking otherwise :)
oh and everything we do is cringeworthy to us so let's just ignore that you said that
@@HareemSumbulI think you were great. You explained boundaries very well. You were telling your journey. The host was also speaking and telling her experience. Maybe less but you explained boundaries so well. And everything you said about gen z is true.