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In the first story did they not think at all about how this would affect the Mom? What kind of monster does that kind of sh*t to someone they claim to love? That so called prank is cruel af and the fact that neither of them gave much thought into how the Mom would feel is horrible. I do agree they should talk it out like adults but the Mom definitely needs more time to process what tf just happened. It's not a prank if it's hurting someone.
Fr tho, tbh imo the right response is to contact Susan to at least let them know that they don't want to go no contact and they just need time to cool off and that they can talk after Op has cooled off. Because that joke was cruel and there is no case where that would've been seen as funny and it went too far.
I have a perfect story for this. My friend's boyfriend drank a drugged up dr pepper he ended up in the hospital. My friend was supposed to drink it but his boyfriend drank it instead. The girl who did it said she was sick of hearing my friend cry about his brother who literally just died, this all took place last night. My friends boyfriend almost died on the way to the hospital. He woke up this afternoon. I'm glad he's alive but I despise the girl who did this. She also went on a rampage on my other friend and broke his arm. Police haven't been called yet but I hope they will soon.
If this is true and you can prove it, YOU are obligated to call police. Don't sit around and wait for someone else to do it. I'm sorry it happened, but if you are a witness to it, you have to tell someone.
@@winniethepooht5776 I just called.
They're in a different state then me. They called this morning and told me everything. They told me not to call because they said they would
@@solargomez2490 is everything good now
@@solargomez2490 ok, good. Hopefully everything works out ok. And I hope you know I'm not trying to be harsh, but helpful. You can't wait around for other people to do the right thing, they might have said that to keep you off their case. Stay safe, my friend❤
With the April Fools joke someone did something similar to my dad. My brother was in P.E. class and someone snuck into his bag and took his phone. They texted my dad pretending to be my brother saying things like, "Help I'm scared. I don't know what to do." Sometime later when my brother was looking at his phone he found out our dad was worried sick. Seriously, what part of these pranks are funny? Do they think it's hilarious watching someone break down and scar them for life? People who do these pranks are either sadistic or are very unaware of other people and their emotions.
That April Fools Day "joke" was so far out of line it's off the planet. Maybe the parents can get Susan committed for a mental examination.
And the roommate. Plus we don't know what "Susan" was hospitalized for. If it was anything to do with her brain or a head injury of some kind, she could also be suffering Acquired Brain Injury trauma, which would definitely affect her judgement and decision making skills...If not, OP needs to send one message, and that could be along the lines of "I'm still processing the terrible shock re. your "death" news, and when I'm ready, we'll get together and talk about it; until then, give me time" or similar.
@@Kayenne54 Good idea and better than pouting like a child giving the silent treatment. You comment reminded me that physiologists have said that a young person's brain doesn't mature until around age 26.
On the other hand, we all know of cases in which a person's brain will never mature, or so it appears.😟
@@nemo227 To be fair to Susan's mother/parent, sometimes people have a difficult time articulating what has upset them so much, and need time to process (and not just be an emotional wreck or say harsh words in the heat of the moment). Personally, if I've had a big shock of some kind, I go silent and distance myself from the person or situation for a while. Otherwise I'm just muddled and incoherent. Also (for me anyway) I like to make sure I've got all the relevant facts before expressing angst on someone's head. (have I misunderstood? got the wrong idea? worse still, have I got the right idea of their motives?) So lots to process. A "time out" which isn't intended as a "punishment" for the other, but to give me time to figure out what is really going on here. Of course, this doesn't rule out my first reactions entirely. But I HAVE misunderstood what people have meant or said before...distance lends perspective. I dislike injustice even more, so don't want to casually accuse someone of some mischief when that wasn't what was meant at all...
@@Kayenne54 Everyone is different, sometimes VERY different. Right now I'm thinking about a class back around the mid forties in San Diego. Yeah, I remember that far back. We had "Show and Tell" every Monday in one class. I never had any story to tell or object to show but one boy almost always told the class about his weekend adventures. He was articulate and an amazing story teller, especially for 2nd grade. I've had contact with several people like that through the years.
@@Kayenne54 Regarding how we react to harsh news, surprises, and such; it was only in my old age that I understood that when I reacted negatively or became angered by someone's words or behavior I've actually given that person power over me. I've allowed them to disturb my tranquility. Example: when I'm driving and someone cuts me off or makes a different type of mistake it doesn't anger me. It's just a driving error or another stupid person or a careless driver, and has nothing personal to do with me. Your method of going silent, taking some distance and time to fully understand the situation is a rational, intelligent technique. Maybe they will teach that in school . . . someday. We hope.
You made the right call on Brian and Ashley. There's been no wedding so the fiance does NOT answer to either of them.
Last story. It's fascinating how when money comes into play people behave differently.
9:38 OP shouldn't have breathed a word about her lottery win probably. However, now is a good time to find out how grasping fiancé and family are. Also I would have said, straight back "You've had 14 years to sort out your daughter's educational funds, you and her mother. How is it now suddenly my responsibility?" Run away.
the first mom needs her space to process and to get over her daughter's messed up joke.
Yes! Losing a child is every parent's greatest fear. There is NO greater pain than losing a child.
Yeah that is something you shouldn’t joke about
You cannot play with death that's too permanent & because it's life-shattering especially for a parent! mom has every right to be angry and needs more time b4 they can talk about it❤
1st story. Does anyone think that someone would get over a "death" that happened like 9 days ago (work with me) I mean the amount of time between April 1st and Easter this year is not enough time to get over a real death let alone a fake one. Death breaks people and the fact they didn't bother to care about how she would feel as the MOTHER of this girl. Horrible. That's all I'm gonna say.
2:28 there are a few things that are absolutely beyond the pale when it comes to April fools. Two of those things are death and pregnancy.
7:59 due to bitter experiences, family and friends are made to pay in advance.
Why?
Because things like bookstore gift cards and exposure don’t pay the rent!
11:15 I dunno… I think OP made a mistake by saying anything about the amount of money they won. Were it me, the only thing fiancé would have known was that it was a good prize and I was going to put it all in a trust for our baby’s college as a nice little jump start.
Of course, since the cat is out of the bag, the reaction from fiancé and co. is quite red flag 🚩
I don't have a good relationship with my mother but even I wouldn't have gone as far as Susan. like who the fuck does that?! She thought she was going to get easily forgiven and let that just go?!
why is her family saying she should forgive her already, if I was a family member I would have been pissed for the mom!
That shouldn't be even considered a joke at all, jokes are supposed to be funny and light-hearted, not mean, cruel and unfunny
The prank is disgusting. As someone who lost my daughter suddenly, I can say unequivocally that this was an awful thing to do. It is every parent’s worst fear - that your child dies before you. Not funny, not ever.
For the first one, she needs some space. It’s ultimately her decision.
Na bro that's the worst thing you could do to a mother
For the first story I’m conflicted: like on one hand I def understand why the mom is doing what she’s doing-the idea that you child just upped and died and you get a phone call about it, a Parent should never to bury their child, only for it to be a prank. I’d be pissed and would find it hard to look at her too, but on the other hand I’m really worried that while she’s ignoring her daughter that she really will end up up dying suddenly and the mom will end up regretting ignoring her and not spending time with her in her last moments. But at least the daughter clearly regrets it and realizes she’s wrong otherwise she wouldn’t call and text her every day
The second story I can understand being hurt at having your bachelorette ruined, but like….it wasn’t your wedding tho-like the victim shouldn’t have said that info ON your bachelorette day should’ve told you before that, but it’s like she didn’t do it at your wedding, but it’s also like idk what your friendship is like so idk if she did this on purpose or was bottling this up until she couldn’t take it anymore and just had to confide in someone, but it’s like that’s your friend that’s going through some type of disease (that idk if it’s deadly or not) at least have their back, but i don’t think that’s enough to warrant being kicked out of the wedding tho. If I was the victim I’d be petty and wear my bridesmaid dress while being in the crowd cause it’s like I ain’t finna buy another dress just cause you kick me out 😂
Third story …….she isn’t being unprofessional that’s like borrowing a lot of money from someone and they expect you to pay it back and you say their overreacting, she gave you multiple warnings and you ignored them not to mention she lowered the pay AND! Refused HIGHER PAYING JOBS! HELL NO! I would not do that
Fourth story: couldn’t be me cause that money is won by ME! Therefore it’s used BY ME! And MY KIDS! Soon to be step daughter isn’t Her child, I can see the fiancé and ex’s anger if the fiancé won the money but no it was the writer therefore it’s her money and she deserves it and she’s allowed to do with it what she wants. Every woman deserves to have a chance of giving birth to a child if they want it, she’s setting up money for HER! Future child’s future. None of them are contributing to the taxes except her therefore it’s her money to do with as she pleases-there is no favoritism. You can’t NOT contribute to something and then expect to get a reward for hard work you didn’t do. That’s basically what this is, she did the lottery, she’s paying the taxes none of them are helping with so it’s like
She's not ignoring her daughter forever. This parent was DEVASTATED by the worst shock any parent could ever hear.
@@loosilu obviously ik that, that’s why I’m saying I can see both sides of the story, the mom is having time for herself to think about everything. But she should communicate with her daughter that she needs time-but that she shouldn’t do it forever because like I said her daughter could very well die at any time and it sounds like her condition is bad
9:44 oh, hell no. Not the mil to. This is a huge red flag 🚩. They’re acting this way abt money that has nothing to do w them, imagine what they’re gonna do after they’re married. Red flag, girl, red *fucking* flag!
THANK YOU. Both partners are allowed to have their own money in a marriage. He has NO entitlement to it. If Ashley doesn't have enough in her college fund, that's the failure of him and his ex.
As for the last story, as someone with stepparents and half siblings, I would be devastated if I found out that one of my stepparents had put aside money for one of my siblings, but not for me. It’s not about the money, that’s not the point. The point is that I see both my stepmum and stepdad as my parents. If anyone asked, I’d say I have 4. and they have told the same to me, thinking of me as their actual child. If they were to blatantly favour my siblings, I’d be heartbroken.
Plus, it was mentioned at the start of the story that this couple was engaged, meaning they clearly were thinking about spending their futures with each other.
I don’t know, I suppose my situation is somewhat different, as I’ve know both of my stepparents since I was 5, and I’ve had a lot more time to bond with them. But I’d like to think my point still stands.
well considering the other child also has an active mother i don’t see a problem
Joking about die is disquieting doesn't matter if it April fool's or not it's still disquieting
The first one irked me because a grade in my kid actually died in a tragic accident on April's Fool's Day this year and I found it super annoying that the daughter thought it would be funny to act like she died. Don't joke about someone dying; it's not funny.
The April fool prank made me soo mad
I had a cousin, same age as me, she was my mother's sisters daughter, she got something sort of intestinal infection last year but the symptoms only showed up late February this year and then things went downhill soo fast, like it ran.
Within march she was admitted to a hospital n then even a surgery, n that was not it, several other issues were going on even after the operation but I don't feel like sharing here, but there was another operation planned 2/3 months later, there were hopes of recovery.
Even she was discharged on beginning of April....
Died on 5th of April 2023
Yeah I have seen it, heard it, the voice of the mother who just lost her daughter that she raised for all these years it rings in my ears till now
Yeah that prank is just not funny, NOT FUNNY
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The second story made me mad lol, OP is being a bridezella while the friesnd should have opened it on a previous day. No one should have insisted that they don't go on through the bachelorette. Idk why they had to cancel eveything LOL.
Jokes like that DO NOT fly with parents. I bet the different responses are coming from people who are parents and those with no children .
If any of my siblings faked their deaths, I'd punch them. And I don't like conflict.
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Although it’s her decision (last story), I don’t think people are grasping the fact that when you marry into a family with a child, you need to accept that child as your kid/apart of your family. Don’t force yourself to be their new parent, but you must learn to care for them as well. This is coming from a child with a step-parent, I never want my step-mom to be a motherly figure in my life, but we both accept each other as family. If my step-mom had a child and showed favoritism to the child over me, I would get upset (for good reason).
Of course this doesn’t mean you need to give your money to that kid, but the way the story was written was making me feel as though she doesn’t think of Ashley as being apart of her family, I’ve seen a couple of commenters speaking like that as well and it just rubs me the wrong way 😅
To the girl who won the lottery that’s not your husband or your mother in law…you’re not married yet sweetie…hold on to your money and if he’s mad you may just be co parenting 🤷♂️
I disagree on the last one. If she agreed to get married to Brain then it would be a jerk move to give the money to one kid and not the other. give the money 50/50 to each kid or give it to none
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The parent in the first story needs to forgive now. What "Susan" did was stupid and cruel but it seems she regrets it now. You don't want to risk her giving up on reconciling forever.
Too soon. She has to wait to be forgiven, not show up like they're ok just because she said sorry. Also do not joke like that with someone with adult children / probably over 40: you could give them a heart attack!
I think kicking her out of the Easter event was too far. But I also think you can't just forgive someone instantly, it's not much of a choice, especially in regards to a topic of grief. And as it was on April fools, that would be a week up to easter, which imo, isn't enough time to forgive someone/still not be angry
What Susan did is beyond despicable. That is literally the worst thing that could ever happen to a parent. She's not going to get over it right away.
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@@arabbarbiedoll I can relate lmao✋️
@I am me • 25y ago she never even said she's still in the shower, she might've meant when she was in the shower and then she got out.
@I am me • 25y ago I don't even know what your talking about in this comment.
@@amygriffith8224 I don't know what they're talking about either 🥹
Why are they trying to sound so smart for there's no way they actually talk like this in their regular life loool
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The hospital story: I think, the mother should pull herself together. Yes, the joke was cruel and dumb, but it was April 1st and teens., younger people are always a bit over at this.
The money story: red flag not marry !
I don't think the mother was wrong, what if something had happened to her after hearing her daughter died, what if she had a heart attack or what if she got into accident or something
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First story. You've been mad long enough. It's time to forgive
No, you don't get to decide how long is long enough. Only she does. The shock she got was literally the worst thing that can ever happen to a parent.
@@loosilu I'd like to see them heal.
I think for the first story, the daughter surely overstepped the boundaries, but the mum overreacted so much. What if the daughter passed away while she still don’t wanna meet her🤷🏻♂️
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I think the last story could have been solved simply. She doesn't need to split the money at all but she could give a portion of it ( how ever much she decides) to Ashley. I understand how Ashley and her dad feels. Ashley isn't hers but they might live together. The way they're talking sounds like they share a house or apartment plus OP and the dad are engaged meaning she is gonna be Ashley's stepmom. That means she is gonna have to co-parent with her bio mom. Now that the family has a new baby Ashley might be scared that her stepmom is gonna appreciate the new baby over her. Which is understandable since that happens too often. Now that OP wants to give the baby more money for the future than Ashley will ever have it could be solidifying that fear. ( Baby is starting with more money meaning when it grows over time Baby will be more prepared and better taken care of). If the marriage is coming up, Ashley is probably scared of being with a step mom that shows favorites. Especially if she feels like this is happening before the baby is even born. The dad might be worried about this too, as that is his baby girl and he wants her to be taken care of as well as the new baby. I don't this is about just wanting money at all. Tbh this is Ashley's future and her soon to be step mom doesn't want to contribute any of her winnings to it. What else will she refuse to contribute? People can be cruel and it happens too often for Ashley to not think about that. I'm not saying that OP is a cruel person but she should talk to Ashley about this to clear things up. It is her money yes but Ashley is going to be her step daughter soon and she should be a good adult in her life. I say give her a small portion because she's her step daughter soon and she should do something to help her pay for school or her future. Especially since they seem to live together already. But it doesn't have to be a lot as it's her money
She gets to have her own money. She has NO obligation to share it with her husband or anyone else. Ashley's education is the responsibility of her PARENTS.
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Am I wrong? So my wife (let's call her Lois) and I have been married for 5 years and we have a 4-year-old daughter (Let's call her Anna) Lois and I started dating when we were 16 but her parents never like me because they wanted her to marry a rich older man so we eloped. Luckily my parents did like Lois, and we got married when we were 18. And we were happy and our lives got better when Anna came into the picture but recently something happen. I was the first boy Lois had ever gone out with. I was her first boyfriend, I stole her first kiss and took her virginity, and I told Lois the same thing, that she was the first girl I had been with. So last weekend Lois and I took Anna to the fair. We had a lot of fun and Anna was so happy especially when Lois won her the stuffed panda (I tried to win it for Anna at first but I kept on failing so Lois took her turn and won) anyways we sat on the bench to rest. Lois and I had a moment while Anna was playing with her stuffed panda but then I heard a woman calling my name. The voice was so familiar, I turned and saw this woman who was around my age. It took me a while but that's when I realized it was my ex-girlfriend Rachel. We met during middle school but we didn't officially go out until we were 14. Rachel however was cheating on me with this guy Dave, he was this bully at school. Rachel broke up with me because Dave was going to dump her if she didn't. Anyways Rachel was so happy to see me again. It turns out that while both Rachel and Dave were made for each other given how terrible they both are it seems that their relationship may have worked as teenagers but not as adults. They kept on fighting and Rachel leave Dave, who just kicked her out of his life. Rachel wanted to start over again with me and apologized for everything. I told Rachel that I wasn't going to take her back not after she cheated on me and dumped me. She left me on the ground crying. Rachel was surprised by this because I was crazy over her. I knew Rachel was cheating on me but I tried to make things work for us because I loved her. Rachel used to be such a sweet girl but she turned into a bad girl when she cheated on me. I didn't care because I still loved her. So it surprised Rachel that I didn't take her back. I explained how she mistreated me but most importantly I already was in a relationship. She saw my wife and daughter which surprised Rachel. She couldn't believe it and I told her it was true. Anna spoke up to tell me that she was tired. Rachel realized that I was telling the truth. I don't know what Rachel was trying to do but she tried to grab Anne but Lois stopped her. They argue. Rachel called Lois a s!ut and told her to get lost because I belonged to Rachel and she belongs to me. I called her out and yell at her that I don't belong to her and she didn't belong to me. I scream at her that we are through. Rachel couldn't believe it and she angrily told me that Dave was a much better boyfriend. I told her that she can be with Dave because I don't care. Rachel slapped me and told me that she didn't like me and she ran off. I apologize to Lois about what happened but Lois was crying. She was crying because she found out that I had a girlfriend. I tried to make it clear that Rachel was my ex and that Rachel was not my girlfriend. Lois just kept on crying and said that she trusted me. She ran off crying while holding Anna. Lois cost Anna to drop her panda. I picked it up and ran after them but I lost her in the crowd. I searched everywhere for them but nothing. I tried to call Lois but no answer. It was getting late and I still couldn't find them. My mom told me that Lois and Anna were at her house. I was glad to hear that they were safe. Mom told me to pick them up tomorrow because Lois didn't want to see me today. The next day I went to my parent's house and I saw that they were there safe and sound. Anna was so happy to see me and she hugged me. I hugged her back. Lois went up to me and hugged me too, saying how she was sorry for running off. Lois wanted to talk to me in private. I gave Anna her panda and told her to play somewhere because I needed to talk to her mom. Anna went to play somewhere while Lois and I talked. Lois wanted to know why I didn't tell her about Rachel. I told her because she wasn't worth it. Lois explained to me that she was upset because she found out that I had a girlfriend. She was upset that I had someone before her. She was upset because I lied to her. I told Lois that she was the first girl I had ever gone out with. I apologize to her and Lois wanted to know the full truth. Did I lose my virginity to Rachel? I wanted to say no but Lois wanted me to be honest with her. So I told her the truth, I did lose my virginity to Rachel. Lois was sad when she heard that because I lied to her, I told Lois that I was a virgin just like her. I tried to comfort her and I apologize for lying to her. Eventually, Lois forgave me and the 3 of us went back home. I have been doing everything to keep Lois happy because I don't want to see her cry again. So was I wrong for lying to Lois that she was my first?
I just don’t see a reason for you to lie? I can’t even decide if you’re wrong because you’d decision to lie doesn’t even seem like it has a reason at all..
@@teritt It's because of how awful my relationship with Rachel was that I convince myself we never happen.
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That makes it sound like you need therapy and considering you broke trust with your now wife, couples counseling too.
@@teritt It's all good now. She forgave but just as long as I made it up to her. I had to show her how much I love her by taking her out on romantic dates. There goes my paycheck but it's all worth it to see her smile again.
@@Nameless82284 Still think at least you need your own therapy if your ex messed you up that bad you lied to your current wife.
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How are you doing my dear sweet friend? How are you feeling? In the very first story, if I was the dad I would've done the same exact thing because death is the very last thing that anyone should be playing around with. Just hearing that news definitely got his heart racing, him panicking, and just hearing those words definitely traumatized him too. This was a completely messed up prank that she should've never went along with considering the fact that she's still sick. Those family members of his who say it was just a joke can go straight to you know where because it's like I said before that's something you just don't play around with. What if god forbid the next time that actually happens and he receives a call about it, the first thing he's going to do is take it as a joke and a prank. More than likely Kyutie it was probably the roommate's idea to play that prank on her dad. In the second story, the main woman is awhole for saying that, and fetal alcohol syndrome is something that those babies with alcoholic moms are born with. I feel so bad and sorry for her friend. In the third story, this person is working multiple jobs while still being in college trying to get their early childhood education degree so they ain't got no time to play at all. They are business person who've already told you their rates up front now if you can't afford that then just move on and find somebody else. I love you my friend!! Have a great day!! Stay safe!!