Guys do EVERYTHING to impress ? What do women bring to the table? - Open Chats Podcast Episode 16

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  • Опубліковано 16 вер 2024
  • Open chats podcast South Africa 16 - what do women bring to the table in a relationship? is everything guys do motivated by impressing women ? Do guys try too hard to impress women? What is a high value woman ? what is a high value man?
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 165

  • @OpenChatsPodcast
    @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому +16

    Thank you for watching ❤ please don’t forget to like and drop a comment below… don’t forget to subscribe and not miss next weeks episode 😎🔥

  • @rorisanqnthoba9656
    @rorisanqnthoba9656 Рік тому +7

    I like they way Reece answers questions, confidence. I’m taking notes 📝

  • @junioratumane1331
    @junioratumane1331 Рік тому +25

    "I am the table" here we go again gents we all know about these type of girls

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому

      Tell us more about them bro 😂😂😂😂

    • @BrownEscape.
      @BrownEscape. Рік тому +3

      Immediately when I heard "I'm the table" I just pictured how flat tables are😂 and that other dude friend you featured said "you can't be the table"

    • @Proudly_South_African
      @Proudly_South_African Рік тому

      Having dated a foreign woman, I can tell you South African women bring nothing to the table besides their ass

    • @lokishvibes202
      @lokishvibes202 Рік тому

      There's nothing to bring.

  • @oarabilemothunzi2626
    @oarabilemothunzi2626 Рік тому +19

    I personally go to the gym cos it's one of my coping mechanism.. When I'm at the gym I forget about my problems...actually not forget but get to be in that atmosphere whereby I get to talk to myself and find solutions... Women are not the factor..not everything is about women.. But Good content bro👌🏿keep up👌🏿

  • @amogelangmohono360
    @amogelangmohono360 6 місяців тому +1

    I really liked this convo marn! It stayed within the parameters of the topic and really explored the burning questions. Nice one operators

  • @cee.solutionplaness
    @cee.solutionplaness Рік тому +9

    Is important to study a body language for a lady you want to date, you can avoid a drama in relationship.

  • @tinozydee
    @tinozydee 5 місяців тому +1

    Im love with Thobile due to her level of thinking

  • @williammlala401
    @williammlala401 11 місяців тому

    True, doing things for wonen is a weakness. Been there and you end up not reaching the goal. Be yourself and do things that make you fulfilled, people will see your shine through that🤞🤞

  • @MrsD_2022
    @MrsD_2022 Рік тому +3

    Great Podcast. Reece, you do it for me. Pls invite him for every topic man.

  • @terrancesekatane3448
    @terrancesekatane3448 Рік тому +6

    This is my first time watching this and I have to confirm... After podcast and chill this platform is my 2nd Fav..
    Well done guys.. 🎉🎉
    Who is the lady wearing black Jersey.

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому

      Hey Terrance welcome to the famlee 🕺 🕺 🕺
      Thank you for tuning in
      The lady in Black is Thobile and yes she’s everything and more 🥰🥰

    • @terrancesekatane3448
      @terrancesekatane3448 Рік тому

      @@OpenChatsPodcast much love

  • @XSoniq23-Topic
    @XSoniq23-Topic Рік тому +1

    the host is very clever i like the way you answer those tricky sneaky questions these gals are throwing at you your mentally focused and patient am similar in that way smart thinking is the way...

  • @kundaigwembere8142
    @kundaigwembere8142 Рік тому +5

    Y'all are funny and interesting , made my day thank you❤❤❤

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому

      Thanks for watching … glad we made your day 😂👊
      Hope trust you’ve subscribed… and turned on your notifications 🔔 to not miss next weeks episode e😎

  • @cozzycoin9971
    @cozzycoin9971 Рік тому +2

    I like this platform, especially your topics💯👌🏾

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому

      Thank you Cozzy coin
      Such feedback is encouraging 😎❤️

  • @mayflare7307
    @mayflare7307 Рік тому +2

    Thobeka has a valid point.

  • @hlompho7080
    @hlompho7080 Рік тому +6

    "The bums are not the problem" 😂

  • @zwakelemasina4157
    @zwakelemasina4157 Рік тому

    I actually support Reece when he says you get to know someone by being with them. If you guys say "you can see a thug coming" that is actually judging. There are huns with much beautiful appearance or bad girl looks but they are actually not what they look. I support Reece's intelligence, he always comes with good points

  • @kagisopaul5922
    @kagisopaul5922 Рік тому

    Correct me if im wrong but the girl in purple, isn't that "Fact Checker" from (Podcast With MacG). The voice is just too familiar.

  • @williamalpha
    @williamalpha Рік тому

    I replayed bro speaking siSwati like 4-5 times... lol I can't believe you speak Swati Mtho dude! I'm from Mpumalanga so I'm sure you understand why😂😂😂

  • @wandi_kunene
    @wandi_kunene Рік тому +2

    Quite an interesting episode, loved it❤💯

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому

      Thanks for tuning in Brian … glad you loved it 😎🔥🔥

  • @sizolwethumalinga1204
    @sizolwethumalinga1204 Рік тому +2

    I love the consistency🔥🔥

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому

      Hahah most consistent UA-cam Chanel in the internet 😂😂🔥🔥

  • @ritopride3072
    @ritopride3072 Рік тому

    "I am the table" 🤣😂😂😂Ehhhh you know where the danger is?

  • @vusinhlapo7648
    @vusinhlapo7648 Рік тому +2

    our own fresh and fit coming up!!!

  • @MphoGlen-cf9id
    @MphoGlen-cf9id Рік тому +3

    This one doesn't need typing.
    I will just pass by for now,there's a lot of wrongs in the guy's respondings(raster)🎉🎉

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому +1

      What 😂 ??
      No ways … he got strong points across don’t you think ? 😂

    • @MphoGlen-cf9id
      @MphoGlen-cf9id Рік тому

      @@OpenChatsPodcast 10% of it

  • @sandile8264
    @sandile8264 7 місяців тому

    “I am the table “🚩🚩🚩

  • @ntokozonzima9163
    @ntokozonzima9163 Рік тому +5

    Mr Mtho, please allow the show to close properly.. Don't close on a high note. I think you're too conscious of the time that you end up shutting people when they are still talking. If the show goes to 40 mins let it be, don't leave us hanging. I love this Podcast

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for the feedback brother
      Working on it 🫡
      See you next week same time same place 😎

  • @desselbleahpar9853
    @desselbleahpar9853 10 місяців тому

    10:17 fact is, is what you looking for, looking for you

  • @un_Definedza
    @un_Definedza Рік тому

    Almost done binging 🔥🔥📍

  • @mayflare7307
    @mayflare7307 Рік тому +3

    Mtho’s choice assorted theory🤝🏽

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому +1

      Thank you finally someone who gets it … and they laughed at me ☹️ 💔😂

  • @siyamthandadotwana2234
    @siyamthandadotwana2234 Рік тому +1

    Kau in the puma hoody is spot on...

  • @ntokozonzima9163
    @ntokozonzima9163 Рік тому +4

    Tenele is 10/10 minus nothing , ngathi she’s becoming my crush

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому +1

      Hahaha do the DM slide thing my king … her handle is there 😳😂🤷‍♂️

    • @ntokozonzima9163
      @ntokozonzima9163 Рік тому +2

      @@OpenChatsPodcast I am not tall 😂😂😂

    • @tjeveratjimbakavyara
      @tjeveratjimbakavyara Рік тому

      Insecure 😂🤣🤣

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому

      @@tjeveratjimbakavyara hahah he needs to BELIVE In himself a bit more 😂😂😂

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому

      @@ntokozonzima9163 any thing is possible I’m this life 😂😂😂🤭🤷‍♂️

  • @mbutfomtetwa_10
    @mbutfomtetwa_10 Рік тому +1

    haha shoutout my G🤣🤣

  • @sydneysetlhaku9303
    @sydneysetlhaku9303 Рік тому +2

    Nah bro, this conversation was not supposed to come to an end. You ripped us off.

  • @truthbright4977
    @truthbright4977 Рік тому +5

    There is nothing called falling love physically ❤ thats lust 😅😂 smash n go

  • @gugulethu4155
    @gugulethu4155 Рік тому +1

    I just started watching the podcast its really great, the host steer the open chats to the right direction at all times..... i feel the chick with black jacket is shallow and keep distracting others train of thought

  • @ThatoMotikoe
    @ThatoMotikoe 8 місяців тому

    I think when you are interested in woman's body like her physic she will know and she will play you

  • @reinholdkafo2775
    @reinholdkafo2775 7 місяців тому

    Yoh aye this girls 😂😂😂😂

  • @samkelojobe7485
    @samkelojobe7485 Рік тому

    😂😂😂aaaaaaauuuuuuuuu kanjanii manjee ndoda wavele wanqamula I podcast kabuhlungu kanjee😂😂❤💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭💔💔💔

  • @user-em1ij5yd5g
    @user-em1ij5yd5g 11 місяців тому

    Actually women control the initial stages of the relationship and the cookie jar but the outcomes or how the relationship is gonna turn out in the future is up to the man so I think any rational person understands this power dynamic

  • @maybongwemamba1293
    @maybongwemamba1293 Рік тому +1

    Good content bro

  • @jaykgatle
    @jaykgatle 10 місяців тому

    Any guy who says looks at the last thing they look at when pikcing a partner is lying. Looks is the first thing you're gonna go for, we as guys fall in love with what we see first, the rest comes later, if you're not attracted to her you're not even gonna stick around to hear about her background, family and stuff

  • @Space_9750
    @Space_9750 Рік тому +1

    Yall getting it twisted. This man is working on improving himself in different aspects of his life to be the best version of himself and the by product of that is the fact that women WILL be attracted because women will always CHOOSE the best guy. If there's a dude who thinks "women will love me and accept me the way I am", my man you're delusional. You're gonna be the guy women shit on, while she's dreaming about Reece. And gents please don't fall for this "looks don't matter" thing. Looks will always matter. The best form of attraction is physical attraction. That's why women can marry a fat ugly rich guy and still go sleep with a financially average dude who's SMV is at 8,9 or 10.

  • @comfortjunior5188
    @comfortjunior5188 Рік тому

    "Ive dated a guy like that" 😂😂😂 WHERE IS HE NOW MY SISTER? yoh...

  • @mofokengtshidiso3547
    @mofokengtshidiso3547 Рік тому

    🔥🔥🔥I loved the topic very much. But I still did not get the answer, what are you bringing to the table since you got what you wanted in a guy? 😅😅

  • @sknextlevel
    @sknextlevel Рік тому +2

    bro I don't know why you end the episode in the air while things are hot. If you feel like you don't want the episode to be long then do a part TWO of the EPISODE

  • @ThozamileMadonda
    @ThozamileMadonda Рік тому

    Tae : no i'm definitely not cocky
    *few mins later
    Reece: what do you bring to the table?
    Tae: I am the table.

  • @erpadministrator
    @erpadministrator Рік тому +1

    Ndiyi table mntase. 😂😂

  • @mandisiazi2026
    @mandisiazi2026 Рік тому

    Kinra crazy how they say they smart but when you ask them what they bringing to the table they out here saying they are the table

  • @SgidlaWaar
    @SgidlaWaar Рік тому +2

    Why is this short?😂😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому

      Hahaha no ways it’s short
      Kgante what legnth do you guys want 😹😹😹🙀

  • @breezy3476
    @breezy3476 Рік тому +1

  • @buildingblackmen5004
    @buildingblackmen5004 Рік тому +4

    Women have no power over real men...the only thing women are have and are born with is value...women are born with their value...Men have to work for their value...so you saying women have power is wrong in my opinion... #simps make women feel powerful...so will you say a lady with a huge (depends on what you consider huge) body count is also powerful?I beg to differ my friend
    Also for the Miss who said she's got tons of guys who will do ANYTHING for her...quick question will they still do it after they smash?just asking..bear in mind men will do anything do smash and move on when it's done..
    The problem is social media have done more damage to the dating market and women really think they are of very high value when they are not...

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому +2

      Hahaha who pushed your buttons man ?? 😂😂
      It’s hard to all agree on the same thing on such polarising topics where everyone got their own view hey 🤷‍♂️ 😂

  • @mayflare7307
    @mayflare7307 Рік тому +1

    14 hours later, but sengfikile🤝🏽

  • @user-om9rp5yz1q
    @user-om9rp5yz1q Рік тому

    I think the dreadlocks guy works out for self control.
    Like for example martial arts makes you dangerous,fit and in control. Woman like that by default

  • @robbylebotha
    @robbylebotha 6 місяців тому

    My man is trying too hard to be deep, its not either or, you can go to gym to be healthy AND to attract huns. You can hustle to be financially secure AND get huns too.
    I dunno which chakra hun he's tryna impress but hope it works out.

  • @truthbright4977
    @truthbright4977 Рік тому +1

    What's the definition of good looking

  • @yangamakhamba997
    @yangamakhamba997 Рік тому

    Thobile 🤝🤝🤝

  • @siyandantozonkesibiya8139
    @siyandantozonkesibiya8139 Рік тому +2

    Is that fact checker from podcast and chill?

  • @lokishvibes202
    @lokishvibes202 Рік тому

    Nazoke Reece mfwt never fold, women never admit everything

  • @MfundoTheFellow
    @MfundoTheFellow Рік тому +1

    Make the episodes longer

  • @CBTacademy
    @CBTacademy Рік тому +1

    they always bring themselves to the table , ask her what is her largest asset

  • @rivoningomalinga6670
    @rivoningomalinga6670 Рік тому

    all they want to hear is how much do you need.

  • @sibongakonkemoffatngcobo1983
    @sibongakonkemoffatngcobo1983 Рік тому +1

    Guys you're driving the guy with the dreads onto e courner "What if you didn't get the women that you want?" Guys come on😆

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому

      We not we are testing the genuineness of his views and claims cze ai is not make sure 🤣🤣🤣🙆‍♂️

  • @keepit5052
    @keepit5052 Рік тому

    😂😂😂bums are not a problem

  • @innocenttatenda5826
    @innocenttatenda5826 Рік тому +2

    Eish my nigga 😢 don't say the guys are always like butty are short sighted......you ruin my heart 😂😂😂😂 am also the one who looks big butty first before I approach a girl 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉i lik you guys coz always you bring nice topics

  • @SWIFTKACE
    @SWIFTKACE Рік тому +2

    Women need to rethink what they bring to the table you can't be the table , that's like saying you happy not contributing

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому

      Hahah but that’s what they all want though

    • @SWIFTKACE
      @SWIFTKACE Рік тому

      I've got so much to say about this😂but I'll keep quiet... I'd like to come through though and add on you know

  • @simisomthobisi9685
    @simisomthobisi9685 Рік тому

    Ayyy amanye amaNtombazane akwaz ukuba ngamaParasites nje awaziboni esebenza njengamanye amaNtombazane asebenza kanzima😹 ingakho baOwner amadoda aze ababulale ngb bafuna ukuthengwa too much. Kmel nibambisane kuRelationship in all departments....including imali.

  • @moulin1995
    @moulin1995 7 місяців тому +2

    when are you inviting educated women and not baddies and groovists?

  • @thobaninhlapho5944
    @thobaninhlapho5944 10 місяців тому

    Im Hooked

  • @FirstImpressionsChronicles
    @FirstImpressionsChronicles 11 місяців тому +1

    This hun saying she is the table 😂rubbish

  • @MancobaJMotsa
    @MancobaJMotsa Рік тому +2

    People in eswatini sleeping on this podcast

  • @bangizwe_4474
    @bangizwe_4474 Рік тому +1

    The aim is to spin this shawty, period. 😅

  • @sniperxsnipe8587
    @sniperxsnipe8587 Рік тому +2

    sum of us ain't tryna flex for no b***h OG.

  • @codewith_kg
    @codewith_kg Рік тому +1

    My sister a guy don't need to like you to want you, we just got to be attracted to you nd then if i find out i don't like you like you , i bounce

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому

      Correct 🔥👊😂
      Thanks for watching bro 😎
      Same time same place next week Tuesday
      Hope you’ve subscribed 😎

  • @Alcatraz_Official
    @Alcatraz_Official Рік тому +1

    How is she the table ?

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому

      She is the table bro … just take that .. don’t question it 😂

  • @phumlanindlovu5653
    @phumlanindlovu5653 Рік тому

    Is the lady with braces not FACT CHECKER from the podcast&chill?

  • @Roxx128
    @Roxx128 Рік тому +1

    Reece be capping...

  • @houseofgodtelevisionnetwor8467

    bana manga labo lova, the majority of guys are driven by what they see. Those things of personality ayikho comes last last last by bURNA boY

  • @DanielNjuki-kn7fh
    @DanielNjuki-kn7fh Рік тому

    A Gurl wanna be treated like a queen....but can treat him like a king ...match the energy or go date your peace 😜 ✌️

  • @lookdadnomilk
    @lookdadnomilk Рік тому +2

    the host guy was mad simping. kinda made the show hard to watch

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому

      Wooow 😨😮

    • @lookdadnomilk
      @lookdadnomilk Рік тому

      @Open Chats Podcast m8, I tried until the halfway mark but all you did was lay down and ask for more. Your Co host stood by his beliefs throughout but you kept switching to appease the guests. The other show you did with Sino, I think, was far better cause he pushed back and actually made it enjoyable. Otherwise, no hate

    • @sinakhokonkemyeza6660
      @sinakhokonkemyeza6660 7 місяців тому

      This guy wasn't it honestly changing views all the time

  • @truthbright4977
    @truthbright4977 Рік тому +1

    Girls not be deceived you are not an achievement to us

  • @mooketsisbongiseni7250
    @mooketsisbongiseni7250 Рік тому +1

    It is useless to date a pretty women but doesn't treat you good. She can be plus size as long she's treating me shap

  • @1SHENTE
    @1SHENTE Рік тому

    There is no way you can see who the person is until you spend time with them. You are not a prophet guys. If that was the case we wouldn't get hurt. And you guys can't tell me that you never made a mistake with your ex

  • @TshiamoMashishi-v3b
    @TshiamoMashishi-v3b Рік тому

    Lol Reece is a smooth liar🤔

  • @LindoGenius
    @LindoGenius Рік тому +1

    Fresh & Fit. @whatever

  • @KananeloPhali
    @KananeloPhali Рік тому

    What does a woman know about being a man or what it takes to be a man👀 so talking to women about your problems as a man is just pointless

  • @BrownEscape.
    @BrownEscape. Рік тому +1

    So y'all are scared of name dropping 😂

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому +1

      😂 why you say that ?

    • @BrownEscape.
      @BrownEscape. Рік тому

      You cut her off when she said something about Cyan😂 even the people behind the cameras said "heiii" 🤣😂

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому

      @@BrownEscape. haha nah this is a no hate zone 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @rmshumie3987
    @rmshumie3987 Рік тому +1

    as for choice assorted 😂

  • @zwelakhedlamini590
    @zwelakhedlamini590 Рік тому +1

    What did we fat people ever do to Reece? 😭😭

  • @codewith_kg
    @codewith_kg Рік тому +1

    Ww not doing things for huns

    • @OpenChatsPodcast
      @OpenChatsPodcast  Рік тому

      Who you doing it for king 😂😂 ?

    • @codewith_kg
      @codewith_kg Рік тому

      @@OpenChatsPodcast i do it for myself i girls just come as a source of validation for other things, aint no way i want to work hard for a liability.. 😂 nnekes girls aint the competition we compete with myself coz i mean to be honest is there any girl who's in your league earn more than you from theyre hard work not from blessers that aint their money they cant use it how ever they want?

  • @sifisothejaguar4795
    @sifisothejaguar4795 Рік тому +1

    Bums😋🥺indunu, nyash