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I'm just so happy that he can FINALLY be his true self..I'm so proud of him as I know it couldn't have been easy (and many others who can't yet come out)..I just wish that people can just be happy with who ever they want to be with My daughter came out to me at 14yrs old and I'm very proud of her ...I send my love and support to all ❤❤
A família é muito importante nesse processo, parabéns pela sua demonstração de amor pela sua filha, o meu filho se declarou a mim quando tinha 19 anos e está agora com 33, e tenho muito orgulho dele.
Before coming out, you should establish a circle that accepts you for who you are. We are living in a harsh society, and it is difficult to find comfort especially if you know you are still looking for trusted friends. But don't get frustrated, life has many surprises, so enjoy life love yourself first.
As someone who has not come out I completely stand with Yoonghee's decision to protect himself. I'm glad he could get to a place that allowed him to come out and be a positive example in the community.
Korea is still Conservative and there are alot of anti-gay/christian protests. He's 21 and is still so young so ofc it was a risk. Now he has his own bar and has a living so im happy for him. Coming out should be thought through properly.
' _coming out should be thought through properly_ ' surely this still is prudent advice for many in most countries - but the aim should be to make that advice go away. it shouldn't be that way. it should be a _non-issue_ like announcing/introducing your hetero relationship to your friends and family.
@@Melarona23 it is on us to make sure no child today (and it starts early in pre-school or kindergarten) grows up with just the notion of heteronormativity. it has to learn asap that all forms of love are equal and fine. it sadly means we have to correct relatives (and friends perhaps) at every corner when they try to imprint just heteronorms on a child
@@embreis2257 Agreed. It also means accepting the consequences of unbending family/friends/society that refuses to change. Communication is good but sometimes it only goes so far.
I'm so happy for YoongHee. I think the greatest fear before coming out is that the people who knew you 'before' will feel lied to, when it's never about that. Coming out is such a relief and I hope that he continues to feel supported and loved by all those around him. Unfortunately, it's often something that crops up again and again and you find yourself coming out to new people all the time. Even in a very western, accepting society I meet people who just assume I'm straight - and sometimes it's just easier to let them believe that.
Anyone that felt offended or betrayed by him saying that he is straight. I hope they become more open-minded and think from a perspective of understanding one another and not from a selfish and very "me" centered view. You learn so much more by trying to understand others instead of getting others to understand you.
Yeah some people aren't coming out and the things that can come out with that(no pun intended). I don't get how people can get mad at someone pretending to be straight when they're just not comfortable to come out as gay especially in a conservative environment.
I LOVE LOVE LOVE that u did this video!!! Anyone who supports they gay community knows that coming out is very specific to each individual and only that person can decide! If they are outted by something or someone else its considered very very bad form and could potentially get someone hurt. Once again JAY you managed to turn another situation into a learning experience for all! LOVE U FOR THAT! AND U both look HOT!😬😬
rarely leave comments. just want to say your collab with YJ after you're discharged from army was quite evident actually. anyway, no big deal about remaining in closet or coming out of closet. your life is yours to live as long as you dont hurt anybody. all the best!
honestly, he doesnt have to ever "come out" to the public if he doesnt want to.....I will never understand why people believe you have to stand there and tell the whole world who you are attracted to.......anyway, love you both, keep up the good work!
It's a shock to me how people felt "betrayed"... he doesn't owe y'all anything so what's there to feel betrayed about? I personally was SOOOOOOOOO happy!!!, I was screaming at the top of my lungs when he appeared on His Man 2. I was so happy that he felt comfortable with himself and wanted to share it with others. Ignore the delulu people, most of us couldn't be happier.♥
Congratulations on coming out with the truth TK boy! 👏🏽🙌🏾 You have told your truth and that must be a huge relief off your shoulders. Remember you are whom you are at the end of the day and don’t let others say otherwise. Culturally different societies have their own reservations of people living their life different from the “common life” (as you coined it). Just be safe and enjoy your life :-) Proud of you cause it will pave the way for others in your situation. Now can I ask for more content on taekwondo cause it was very entertaining. 😂😂😂
To those who feel YoongHee lie or felt betrayed by him, he is simply doing what he needs to protect himself and he has all the right to do so, he had no bad or malicious intentions on anyone.We don’t need to tell those around us the truth about our sexuality when we are not ready because we don’t owe them anything, and no one can force us to do so, so I fully support YoongHee and YoungJae’s actions
The problem here is not feeling betrayed or gaybaiting. The problem is placing oneself on video that faces the public if one is afraid of adverse reactions. If one clearly understands a country's cultural beliefs, one must accept responsibility and be prepared for whatever response occurs. If one feels it is too risky to show who one really is, they shouldn't place themselves in the public eye. If one wants to break down barriers and be their authentic self, I applaud that act but it still does not change the reality of potential consequences. They must learn how to deal with them.
거짓말이 핵심이 아니라 성소수자를 사회 구성원으로 인정을 안 하려는 게 문제겠지요. 어떤 성소수자든 대놓고 자신의 정체성을 밝히며 사는 사람이 몇이나 되겠어요. 아무튼 융희님 남의 연애 나온 거 보고 깜짝 놀라긴 했습니다만 그럴 수도 있지 하며 잘 봤습니다. 그나저나 ㅋㅋㅋ 태권도 에피소드 3탄도 볼 수 있나요? ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
I'm late to watch this video, but wanted to add that having seen "TK Boy" a few times on this channel, when YongHee showed up on "His Man 2", I was happy to see him and hoped he'd be successful. I wasn't surprised at all to see him on the show. When you mentioned he was headed for the military I instantly understood the need for the 'disguise' such as it was. Thanks for the tip about the word "common"; too. I learn something new about the community every day. Anyways, I'm working me way through the content and hope that at some point both of you find that 'special someone'.
Choosing to come out is your decision and yours only, no one can tell you when or where to come out. People that are questioning his choice at that time are ignorant and need to educate themselves. No one should feel the need to explain themselves to strangers….
i am gonna be honest, i had a feeling and kinda knew already he was gay but was hiding it. i could see it But i am so glad he took his time to come out and do it in a way he finds comfortable, i know it take a lot of effort and it can be scary. I am thankful and proud of him, not only did he help himself but also so many other people out there that are waiting for a chance to come out. YoongHee, you are amazing and an inspiration!
i guess the thumbnail is about the fact that most Koreans thought he was straight and pretended to be gay in His Man 2? but Yoonghee is in *fact* gay. 😅 YJ’s advice about coming out was on point. i don’t feel at all deceived that Yoonghee had to pretend he was straight. people need to come out when they’re ready and until then everyone is going to say they’re straight. i’m just glad Yoonghee had a good experience coming out! 융희님 하트 🫶🏽!
Yunghee você uma pessoa muito especial e tem um caminho de muito sucesso para trilhar, o que importa é o que você pensa de você mesmo e o que quer fazer da sua vida, mesmo em uma sociedade tão conservadora, se você se respeitar e se amar nada de ruim pode te atingir, toda pessoa tem o direito de ser feliz e isso é uma escolha sua, você é um bom atleta, um bom amigo e merece todo carinho e respeito, saiba que você é muito amado, Obrigada por compartilhar sua história, aguardo sua postagens também no seu canal 💛💛
6:41 Rest assured I as a viewer don’t feel any sense of betrayal whatsoever lol coming out or not is none of my business. I’m just enjoying the contents here
Plz everyone can decide about theirself when, with who or even if they want to go out of the closet. That's not the important thing....the point is....YoonHee, you said that if you had been gay you would have dated with Youngjay....ejem waiting for the kiss/lovely moment🥰🤩🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thats i guess the cost of conservatism. But outside of that. From the start i kinda get the feeling that Younghui is a unique person. There is this uniqueness of him. I guess thats true. And we are very thankful youve done it not for us but for yourself. Congrats. Hopefully youll be living your life with no fear moving forward.
No one should have to label themselves - gay or straight does not matter. People should be able to date/marry whoever they want without anyone blinking an eye. I know this maybe wishful think right now but if we just treat it like this won't it just become the norm. I don' t think a person's sexuality defines them as special or should be treated any different. We are all human.
coming out is a decision that profoundly affects everything that you do. with the invasion of korea by american evangelicals, it's created a homophobic grip on korean society that is really sad to witness. i'm korean but was adopted by (white) american evangelicals so i understand the fears of coming out in such an environment. it terrified me when i did it--both the best and most difficult decision of my life. i came out in my early 20s and i'm about to turn 55 next month. i absolutely do not regret coming out and living my life as queer. i was really lucky to have had such a wonderful community of people because over time my adopted family rejected me--i got lots of conversations about "going to hell". disclosing personal information is ALWAYS an individual's right to choose. i am strongly against outing anyone--unless they are a person actively trying to harm a community through words or actions. in that instance they get every consequence that's coming to them. you end up "coming out" over and over again to the people in your life--and even now sometimes i get nervous if it comes up with people. i've been a queer activist my whole life so i don't know any other way of living. i work at a college in a very conservative state so i feel like it's important to be visible so that our students know they are not alone and feel they have support if they need it. we all need to strive for a world where everyone gets the love and respect they deserve. xoxo
I completely understand Yoonghee's decision and he does not need to apologize. Everyone has their own reasons why to not come out and you should respect that - not that they are lying to you, but they are protecting themselves, until the right moment for people to know. Even for me, I decided to come out when I graduated from college and have a stable job (I knew I was gay when I was about 12 years old) to support myself (if I get disowned by my family). So now, I'm out to my parents and my friends and a few cousins of mine, and they all accepted me, but I did not come out to my entire family. Part of being LGBTQI+ - is not just being confident about coming out - but to decide where you belong and having that safe place to be yourself. USA is much more open to this community (depending on family and where you live) but other parts of the world is not - so I completely understand and accept Yoonghee's decision, again he doesn't need to apologize. XD
Nadie está obligado a salir de clóset y mucho menos andar divulgando su orientación sexual. Él salió cuando se sintió preparado así que está bien y es lindo ver que por fin puede ser como en realidad es. Sé que Jay quizá no entienda ni lea esto pero lo dejaré para la gente de hablahispana que pueda estar pasando por algo similar o conozca a una persona en esta situación. Además de que Jay vea que lo apoyamos al otro lado del mundo ♡♡♡♡♡
YoongHee made the right decision to not come out publicly before the military. He could have had to deal with a lot of bullying like his friend did. Thank you YJ for always supporting him, giving great advice, and listening to his concerns. You have been a great friend to him.
He's even sexier to me that he's gay 😊 So I wasn't hallucinating when I thought its was him in Hisman2. Because I don't speak Korean, I wasn't sure. So happy you've gotten it out there and there's no betrayal. You have your right to come out when you want. Viewers shoukd watch the videos for entertainment. I'm 47 years old and still can't come out and that's tough. Love your videos
It was for safety purposes, and besides we don't owe him anything anyway. One's sexuality isn't other people's business, and the world is just too harsh to people like us.
YOU HOLD THE RIGHT TO YOUR TRUTH. NOBODY, nobody can tell you what you choose to do about it. You can keep it to yourself or tell the whole world, they're still yours. We're just a mere audience in your movie. Be who you want to be because you can. Love you Yoong Hee❤
I had the same reaction with others, “I thought he was straight”, it was on my mind since then when I realized that it was YH on His Man 2, but I don`t know why I really got excited when it was YH, and I was really proud of him, I really had no clue that he was not straight, I was fooled by the video I have watche few years ago😭 Nevertheless, it was great to see that YH is finally happy and out, everyone deserves to be happy, “There are good people like us”, which is very true, even though there are people who hated you for who you are, there is somebody who loves you for who you are and respect you. Congratulations and be happy on your next journey, YH! And YJ, thank you for introducing YH to us, you`re so amazing, and I really love watching your videos! Saranghae, Youngjay and Yonghee!
Like everyone else has said, do whatever feels comfortable and do what you want to do. We will love and support you and you will always be our TK boi no matter what.
His reasoning is totally understandable. Only those who been to army knows how harsh life can be, we really don't need extra burden of being different.
seriously.. even back then, .. when he first time came up on a video with YJ and was called after their fun videos together - TK-Boy.. ( even then i knew like.. - naaah.. there is def. somethig about him..and the feeling said to me: ....he may be gay but wont say that... ) so i just guessed that.. hehe 🤭😻💜 and NO. (a clear NO.) i think - it is not a lie. because if someone protects their own or others privacy and RL data - issues - informations - etc etc thats to call a "protection" (and its their right to do so) + its highly supportet & respected by me .... ...rather than to think : its a lie. (bcos - its not!) im fine with all that + everyone who know the truth - should be too :) also: who would go to the army ...and knowingly put themselfs into "danger" + the "unknown" stress that would eventually await them by being bullied or any else horror kind of stuff there.. when they can avoid it? (well, less or more negative stuff - who knows?) but - by saying loudly "im gay" when they not even yet ready for it.. and know few days after the live a lot of ppl could have seen this live and know about that fact - and then see him in the army... pheww. (naah!no way.) ....no1 would do this kind of stupid thing to themselfs on purpose! (no matter who or what it is but - imo - everyone should take their time, with no matter what they have to say or comming out with) But everyone should really appreciate + respect an "explanation" (after all the confusing lol) - simple - appreciate it a lot.. when its comming directly from the person it self (Yoong Hee) to make clear, what happend. Thanks for that YH! 😁💜 even if it wasnt really neccessary for me, but it seems to be to others, so thanks for being so clear and honest to them :) PS: I enjoyed the show + YH! (i remember how i screamed the house + whole neighbour hood down LOLOL when i have seen YH there in the show!!!) 🤣🤣
It's a personal choice whether he wants to come out or not. Whatever makes him happy. Everyone has their own reason. I'm gay, but I don't announce it in public.
actually when i watch the his man 2 show i didnt even knew that this guy is 'Tk boy'😂(cause im YJ Subscriber and watched taekwondo videos of YJ & YG) but when i get to know about him i was sosososos happpyyy actuallyyy😊😊😊 Younghee opppa dont worry those people said bad about u or questioned on u ignore them ❤❤❤we are there with u❤❤it must be hard for u to "COME OUT"but u did and im proud of u❤❤❤❤❤❤love youuuuuu alottt from your indian fan (me😊)
Coming out is very personal, you can't be angry at someone for not sharing this very personal information when they're not ready. Real life and people are much mean than one can imagine. I hope he doesn't face bullying for coming out and that people start minding their own business.
I really get shocked I didn't know yoonghee are gay but I'm so happy that he came out i was so happy every time i see him with yj and always thought how cute they are together 😍
That is very interesting to read the many comments saying they “felt” his was not saying the truth about his sexuality, and I never thought he was gay because he said so, is that “feeling” always trauma got from repression and bullying that many gays suffer or they conclude that by homophobic stereotypes? Because I’m bi and never “felt” someone was lgbt.
I've not seen His Man 2. Just to let you know it, wouldn't have bothered me if he was straight/gay/bi. I know it can be a bit nerve biting for anyone thats thinking of coming out to their family and friends. If no one repects of what you are, it's their loss. Just keep the ones that do accept of who you are.
After going back to his videos 😅well our TK boy had a few hints here and there. And personally I love him the same. Coming out in a conservative society is not easy.
I was initially surprised, but I don't blame him at all cos I'm not openly out to everyone myself. Glad that he felt comfortable (and brave) enough to come out. That said, was waiting to see if he will uphold his word to date YJ but he is taken now. XD
I understand because Don't ask, don't tell was a thing in American until 2011 and there is probably still people who still hide even though Don't ask, don't tell is not a thing anymore in the military
Antigay bullying is no joke. And magnify by 10 in macho military culture, where your life is often in the hands of your mates. Even just in training. Zero judgement!
I am wondering when that perceptions would be ended about this topic "same sex couple"!? We almost all international persons and countries accept as them are...I am waiting for that day of Korea when it will be solved!🥺❤
Thank you so much foe the explanation. I was so confused. Although I never, ever said you were a Liar or thay you were deceitful. People need to understand that coming out is not an easy thing to do and it is solely up to the person when they do. It's none of your business. Are you his boyfriend/Girlfriend? I'm just happy to know why ! (This is coming from a straight girl) Love You Guys! See you next time! Peace & Love!
Here's the thing when he was on his Man 2 I didn't know that it was him both of them look alike but that didn't come to my mind so I fell for him again as tk boy and as the one in his man 2
I'm going to be honest you two. I thought you were gay because you did that BL with Youngjay, but then you said you were, so unless said otherwise who am I to say what your sexuality was. I just thought you were a dude who was very comfortable in his sexuality to be in that position with a guy. I was surprised not gonna lie, but now knowing and realizing you lied to protect yourself and to survive explains everything. Be safe you two and I hope you live your best lives. I am also very happy you guys have good people around you and support you. Being able to come out is a privilege that not a lot of people have
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Just crossed my mind. I think the title should be "Why did YoongHee pretend to be straight?" instead...?
I'm just so happy that he can FINALLY be his true self..I'm so proud of him as I know it couldn't have been easy (and many others who can't yet come out)..I just wish that people can just be happy with who ever they want to be with
My daughter came out to me at 14yrs old and I'm very proud of her ...I send my love and support to all ❤❤
A família é muito importante nesse processo, parabéns pela sua demonstração de amor pela sua filha, o meu filho se declarou a mim quando tinha 19 anos e está agora com 33, e tenho muito orgulho dele.
thank you for supporting her
Before coming out, you should establish a circle that accepts you for who you are. We are living in a harsh society, and it is difficult to find comfort especially if you know you are still looking for trusted friends. But don't get frustrated, life has many surprises, so enjoy life love yourself first.
As someone who has not come out I completely stand with Yoonghee's decision to protect himself. I'm glad he could get to a place that allowed him to come out and be a positive example in the community.
Korea is still Conservative and there are alot of anti-gay/christian protests. He's 21 and is still so young so ofc it was a risk.
Now he has his own bar and has a living so im happy for him. Coming out should be thought through properly.
' _coming out should be thought through properly_ ' surely this still is prudent advice for many in most countries - but the aim should be to make that advice go away. it shouldn't be that way. it should be a _non-issue_ like announcing/introducing your hetero relationship to your friends and family.
@embreis2257 I agree but that's either in a fictional world or maybe much more far into the future. This is unfortunately the sad truth.
@@Melarona23 it is on us to make sure no child today (and it starts early in pre-school or kindergarten) grows up with just the notion of heteronormativity. it has to learn asap that all forms of love are equal and fine. it sadly means we have to correct relatives (and friends perhaps) at every corner when they try to imprint just heteronorms on a child
@@embreis2257 Agreed. It also means accepting the consequences of unbending family/friends/society that refuses to change. Communication is good but sometimes it only goes so far.
I'm so happy for YoongHee. I think the greatest fear before coming out is that the people who knew you 'before' will feel lied to, when it's never about that. Coming out is such a relief and I hope that he continues to feel supported and loved by all those around him. Unfortunately, it's often something that crops up again and again and you find yourself coming out to new people all the time. Even in a very western, accepting society I meet people who just assume I'm straight - and sometimes it's just easier to let them believe that.
Anyone that felt offended or betrayed by him saying that he is straight. I hope they become more open-minded and think from a perspective of understanding one another and not from a selfish and very "me" centered view. You learn so much more by trying to understand others instead of getting others to understand you.
Yeah some people aren't coming out and the things that can come out with that(no pun intended). I don't get how people can get mad at someone pretending to be straight when they're just not comfortable to come out as gay especially in a conservative environment.
I LOVE LOVE LOVE that u did this video!!! Anyone who supports they gay community knows that coming out is very specific to each individual and only that person can decide! If they are outted by something or someone else its considered very very bad form and could potentially get someone hurt. Once again JAY you managed to turn another situation into a learning experience for all! LOVE U FOR THAT! AND U both look HOT!😬😬
rarely leave comments. just want to say your collab with YJ after you're discharged from army was quite evident actually. anyway, no big deal about remaining in closet or coming out of closet. your life is yours to live as long as you dont hurt anybody. all the best!
Your videos NEVER disappoint
honestly, he doesnt have to ever "come out" to the public if he doesnt want to.....I will never understand why people believe you have to stand there and tell the whole world who you are attracted to.......anyway, love you both, keep up the good work!
It's a shock to me how people felt "betrayed"... he doesn't owe y'all anything so what's there to feel betrayed about? I personally was SOOOOOOOOO happy!!!, I was screaming at the top of my lungs when he appeared on His Man 2. I was so happy that he felt comfortable with himself and wanted to share it with others. Ignore the delulu people, most of us couldn't be happier.♥
Congratulations on coming out with the truth TK boy! 👏🏽🙌🏾 You have told your truth and that must be a huge relief off your shoulders. Remember you are whom you are at the end of the day and don’t let others say otherwise. Culturally different societies have their own reservations of people living their life different from the “common life” (as you coined it). Just be safe and enjoy your life :-) Proud of you cause it will pave the way for others in your situation.
Now can I ask for more content on taekwondo cause it was very entertaining. 😂😂😂
To those who feel YoongHee lie or felt betrayed by him, he is simply doing what he needs to protect himself and he has all the right to do so, he had no bad or malicious intentions on anyone.We don’t need to tell those around us the truth about our sexuality when we are not ready because we don’t owe them anything, and no one can force us to do so, so I fully support YoongHee and YoungJae’s actions
@@paulmaspil9563no
@@paulmaspil9563don't be stupid, he literally explained in the video why he could not come out at the time
@@paulmaspil9563XD majority of gay people say they are straight when in the closet like tf you talking about.
@@paulmaspil9563 Thats not what gaybaiting is?
The problem here is not feeling betrayed or gaybaiting. The problem is placing oneself on video that faces the public if one is afraid of adverse reactions. If one clearly understands a country's cultural beliefs, one must accept responsibility and be prepared for whatever response occurs. If one feels it is too risky to show who one really is, they shouldn't place themselves in the public eye. If one wants to break down barriers and be their authentic self, I applaud that act but it still does not change the reality of potential consequences. They must learn how to deal with them.
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 예쁘게 봐주세요...🥰
융희 너무 귀여유❤❤
Yoonghee merry me😘
융희님도 빨간 고글 낀 빅제이셨네요 😮
@@CasC96 공통점 찾아내는거야?ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
@@youngjay1108 어떻게든 하나라도 엮어보기..
거짓말이 핵심이 아니라 성소수자를 사회 구성원으로 인정을 안 하려는 게 문제겠지요. 어떤 성소수자든 대놓고 자신의 정체성을 밝히며 사는 사람이 몇이나 되겠어요. 아무튼 융희님 남의 연애 나온 거 보고 깜짝 놀라긴 했습니다만 그럴 수도 있지 하며 잘 봤습니다. 그나저나 ㅋㅋㅋ 태권도 에피소드 3탄도 볼 수 있나요? ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
서로를 존중하는 사회가 되었으면 좋겠네요
숨어있는 게이들이 얼마나 많은지 알면 일반사람들 진짜 깜짝 놀랐듯
한국에서 커밍아웃한다는건 많은걸 (심지어 가족까지) 잃을 각오를 하고 하는 거죠
I'm late to watch this video, but wanted to add that having seen "TK Boy" a few times on this channel, when YongHee showed up on "His Man 2", I was happy to see him and hoped he'd be successful. I wasn't surprised at all to see him on the show. When you mentioned he was headed for the military I instantly understood the need for the 'disguise' such as it was.
Thanks for the tip about the word "common"; too. I learn something new about the community every day.
Anyways, I'm working me way through the content and hope that at some point both of you find that 'special someone'.
Confusing? Maybe you should title the video “Why did Yoonghee pretend to be straight?” He didn’t pretend to be gay, he is gay🤷♀️
Agree😂
yeah!
I think the title is part of the comment, people asking "Why did YoongHee pretend to be gay?" because at first Yoonghee said he was straight
hummm... agora entendi, obrigada@@yah5700
LMAOOO
Choosing to come out is your decision and yours only, no one can tell you when or where to come out. People that are questioning his choice at that time are ignorant and need to educate themselves. No one should feel the need to explain themselves to strangers….
i am gonna be honest, i had a feeling and kinda knew already he was gay but was hiding it. i could see it
But i am so glad he took his time to come out and do it in a way he finds comfortable, i know it take a lot of effort and it can be scary. I am thankful and proud of him, not only did he help himself but also so many other people out there that are waiting for a chance to come out. YoongHee, you are amazing and an inspiration!
i guess the thumbnail is about the fact that most Koreans thought he was straight and pretended to be gay in His Man 2? but Yoonghee is in *fact* gay. 😅
YJ’s advice about coming out was on point. i don’t feel at all deceived that Yoonghee had to pretend he was straight. people need to come out when they’re ready and until then everyone is going to say they’re straight. i’m just glad Yoonghee had a good experience coming out!
융희님 하트 🫶🏽!
Oh that makes sense! I got confused with the title there for a second
the title had quotient marks which means there could be comments saying those things but yeah your meaning kinda is understandable
Yunghee você uma pessoa muito especial e tem um caminho de muito sucesso para trilhar, o que importa é o que você pensa de você mesmo e o que quer fazer da sua vida, mesmo em uma sociedade tão conservadora, se você se respeitar e se amar nada de ruim pode te atingir, toda pessoa tem o direito de ser feliz e isso é uma escolha sua, você é um bom atleta, um bom amigo e merece todo carinho e respeito, saiba que você é muito amado, Obrigada por compartilhar sua história, aguardo sua postagens também no seu canal 💛💛
어떤 헤테로가 본인을 일반이라고 하겠어 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 수상할 정도로 이쪽 언어를 자연스럽게 사용하는 헤테로 ㅋㅋㅋ
나도 보면서 그 생각함..ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 보통 일반 이반 이런말 모름
4:37 😂😂 yoonghee be like what how did he know about my sexuality is he magician 😂😂
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ아니 밝히던 아니든 그건 본인의
마음아니냐구요ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 애초에 우리나라가 소수자들이 밝히기 편한 환경도 아니구요
해명방송을 해준것도 솔직히 융희님의 다정함이라고 생각해요
My gaydar knew straight away that he was gay
같은 게이라서 이해됨 ㅋㅋㅋ 군대에서 알려지면 진짜 큰일나니깐 ㅠ 오히려 현명했다고 생각들음
그냥 좆되지... 아마 제대할때까지 병균 취급받았을껄
6:41 Rest assured I as a viewer don’t feel any sense of betrayal whatsoever lol coming out or not is none of my business. I’m just enjoying the contents here
You don't need to answer to anyone. And you did nothing wrong. Really happy you're in a good place and can live life your own way now ❤
Respect to all sexuality and respect your choice as well.
6:19 😂😂 bro hence proved yoonghee was bold since his school day 😂 guts to do it in school ahhhhhhh
No one has a right to say they felt betrayed. He has a right to come out however and whenever and to whoever he wants.
Plz everyone can decide about theirself when, with who or even if they want to go out of the closet. That's not the important thing....the point is....YoonHee, you said that if you had been gay you would have dated with Youngjay....ejem waiting for the kiss/lovely moment🥰🤩🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thats i guess the cost of conservatism. But outside of that. From the start i kinda get the feeling that Younghui is a unique person. There is this uniqueness of him. I guess thats true. And we are very thankful youve done it not for us but for yourself. Congrats. Hopefully youll be living your life with no fear moving forward.
We love you TK boy ❤️❤️ we also understand that you had to do protect yourself and everything 👏🏾
그래~~세상에 얼마나 많은 사람들이 존재하는데 사랑가지고 뭐라 하지마라~~~~본인 마음의 거울을 좀보고 뭐라하자~~~~~~
두 분 피부 왤케 뽀얗고 좋으셔...😊
4:30 ㅇㄲㅇㄲ 의문의, 게이더 작동 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
들통내버렸ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
No one should have to label themselves - gay or straight does not matter. People should be able to date/marry whoever they want without anyone blinking an eye. I know this maybe wishful think right now but if we just treat it like this won't it just become the norm. I don' t think a person's sexuality defines them as special or should be treated any different. We are all human.
나 일반이잖아가 진짜 웃겼닼ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
이해함 일반인이여도 군대라는게 획일적이고 강제적인 사회이고 바뀐 환경에 적응도 힘듬. 입대전 커밍아웃을 하거나 입대후 아웃팅이라도 당했으면 성추행부터 불이익까지 엄청나게 당했을꺼고 군생활도 힘들었을꺼임 해명한것도 그렇고 앞으로도 잘되었음 좋겠음
coming out is a decision that profoundly affects everything that you do. with the invasion of korea by american evangelicals, it's created a homophobic grip on korean society that is really sad to witness. i'm korean but was adopted by (white) american evangelicals so i understand the fears of coming out in such an environment. it terrified me when i did it--both the best and most difficult decision of my life. i came out in my early 20s and i'm about to turn 55 next month. i absolutely do not regret coming out and living my life as queer. i was really lucky to have had such a wonderful community of people because over time my adopted family rejected me--i got lots of conversations about "going to hell". disclosing personal information is ALWAYS an individual's right to choose. i am strongly against outing anyone--unless they are a person actively trying to harm a community through words or actions. in that instance they get every consequence that's coming to them. you end up "coming out" over and over again to the people in your life--and even now sometimes i get nervous if it comes up with people. i've been a queer activist my whole life so i don't know any other way of living. i work at a college in a very conservative state so i feel like it's important to be visible so that our students know they are not alone and feel they have support if they need it. we all need to strive for a world where everyone gets the love and respect they deserve. xoxo
Lol i remember the day when everyone was shipping them 😂 and some of us were disappointed that yoonghee is straight but now look 😂 here we are❤
I was curious. But guessed as much. Yoonghee is lovely as usual 💯💯💯
I completely understand Yoonghee's decision and he does not need to apologize. Everyone has their own reasons why to not come out and you should respect that - not that they are lying to you, but they are protecting themselves, until the right moment for people to know. Even for me, I decided to come out when I graduated from college and have a stable job (I knew I was gay when I was about 12 years old) to support myself (if I get disowned by my family). So now, I'm out to my parents and my friends and a few cousins of mine, and they all accepted me, but I did not come out to my entire family. Part of being LGBTQI+ - is not just being confident about coming out - but to decide where you belong and having that safe place to be yourself. USA is much more open to this community (depending on family and where you live) but other parts of the world is not - so I completely understand and accept Yoonghee's decision, again he doesn't need to apologize. XD
Glad he is still on your vlog
Yoonghee is so brave and proud of him ❤
❤배신감 안느껴요~~ 그냥 사정이 있었겠지..라고 생각했답니다
❤그래도 이렇게 해명 영상까지 찍어주시다니 친절하고 착한 태권소년님, 이끼님 애정합니다~~!!
Nadie está obligado a salir de clóset y mucho menos andar divulgando su orientación sexual. Él salió cuando se sintió preparado así que está bien y es lindo ver que por fin puede ser como en realidad es.
Sé que Jay quizá no entienda ni lea esto pero lo dejaré para la gente de hablahispana que pueda estar pasando por algo similar o conozca a una persona en esta situación. Además de que Jay vea que lo apoyamos al otro lado del mundo ♡♡♡♡♡
Just enjoy life and be who tou want to be 🏳️🌈
The best thing to do is to live your life in your own way. I want the world to be like that. I wish you both a happy life 🙂
YoongHee made the right decision to not come out publicly before the military. He could have had to deal with a lot of bullying like his friend did. Thank you YJ for always supporting him, giving great advice, and listening to his concerns. You have been a great friend to him.
He's even sexier to me that he's gay 😊 So I wasn't hallucinating when I thought its was him in Hisman2. Because I don't speak Korean, I wasn't sure. So happy you've gotten it out there and there's no betrayal. You have your right to come out when you want. Viewers shoukd watch the videos for entertainment. I'm 47 years old and still can't come out and that's tough. Love your videos
It was for safety purposes, and besides we don't owe him anything anyway. One's sexuality isn't other people's business, and the world is just too harsh to people like us.
뭐야 영재님 얼굴에 영재님 사과 방송인줄ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 썸넬 사기잖아! ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
0:23 omg the intro has me soo fkn weeeeak 😂🤣😂😂😂🤣😂🤣
WAIT!!! Did TK ever have a crush on Jay? I feel like he kinda had a crush but maybe I just like to daydream lol
YOU HOLD THE RIGHT TO YOUR TRUTH. NOBODY, nobody can tell you what you choose to do about it. You can keep it to yourself or tell the whole world, they're still yours. We're just a mere audience in your movie. Be who you want to be because you can. Love you Yoong Hee❤
응원함니다 😊
맞는말이네요 방송잼나요 아자아자
해명 안됐습니다 아직 제일 중요한 질문이 남아있어요
Q: 게이였다면 영재랑 썸이상 갔을까요?
Cs님 이었다면?? 썸? 노썸? ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
난 노썸~! 썸이 머야?? 먹는거야?? ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
@@smida_art 앗 절 일반이라... ^^
Yoonghee is bold and brave lovehim the most ❤❤
I had the same reaction with others, “I thought he was straight”, it was on my mind since then when I realized that it was YH on His Man 2, but I don`t know why I really got excited when it was YH, and I was really proud of him, I really had no clue that he was not straight, I was fooled by the video I have watche few years ago😭 Nevertheless, it was great to see that YH is finally happy and out, everyone deserves to be happy, “There are good people like us”, which is very true, even though there are people who hated you for who you are, there is somebody who loves you for who you are and respect you. Congratulations and be happy on your next journey, YH! And YJ, thank you for introducing YH to us, you`re so amazing, and I really love watching your videos! Saranghae, Youngjay and Yonghee!
5:45 'you were always gay. *a pure-blood gay* ' LOL, _pure-blood gay_ is a hilarious term. I love it!
YoongHee: "Yea. I always was."
Editor/YoungJay: (A pure-blood gay)
융희 귀여워용❤
Like everyone else has said, do whatever feels comfortable and do what you want to do. We will love and support you and you will always be our TK boi no matter what.
Yoonghee is a very nice person and I respect his choises.
His reasoning is totally understandable. Only those who been to army knows how harsh life can be, we really don't need extra burden of being different.
seriously..
even back then, .. when he first time came up on a video with YJ and was called after their fun videos together - TK-Boy..
( even then i knew like.. - naaah.. there is def. somethig about him..and the feeling said to me: ....he may be gay but wont say that... )
so i just guessed that.. hehe 🤭😻💜
and NO.
(a clear NO.)
i think - it is not a lie.
because if someone protects their own or others privacy and RL data - issues - informations - etc etc
thats to call a "protection" (and its their right to do so) + its highly supportet & respected by me ....
...rather than to think : its a lie. (bcos - its not!)
im fine with all that + everyone who know the truth - should be too :)
also:
who would go to the army ...and knowingly put themselfs into "danger" + the "unknown" stress that would eventually await them by being bullied or any else horror kind of stuff there.. when they can avoid it?
(well, less or more negative stuff - who knows?)
but - by saying loudly "im gay" when they not even yet ready for it.. and know few days after the live a lot of ppl could have seen this live and know about that fact - and then see him in the army... pheww. (naah!no way.)
....no1 would do this kind of stupid thing to themselfs on purpose!
(no matter who or what it is but - imo - everyone should take their time, with no matter what they have to say or comming out with)
But everyone should really appreciate + respect an "explanation" (after all the confusing lol) - simple - appreciate it a lot.. when its comming directly from the person it self (Yoong Hee) to make clear, what happend.
Thanks for that YH! 😁💜
even if it wasnt really neccessary for me, but it seems to be to others, so thanks for being so clear and honest to them :)
PS:
I enjoyed the show + YH! (i remember how i screamed the house + whole neighbour hood down LOLOL when i have seen YH there in the show!!!) 🤣🤣
It's a personal choice whether he wants to come out or not. Whatever makes him happy. Everyone has their own reason. I'm gay, but I don't announce it in public.
actually when i watch the his man 2 show i didnt even knew that this guy is 'Tk boy'😂(cause im YJ Subscriber and watched taekwondo videos of YJ & YG) but when i get to know about him i was sosososos happpyyy actuallyyy😊😊😊
Younghee opppa dont worry those people said bad about u or questioned on u ignore them ❤❤❤we are there with u❤❤it must be hard for u to "COME OUT"but u did and im proud of u❤❤❤❤❤❤love youuuuuu alottt from your indian fan (me😊)
Coming out is very personal, you can't be angry at someone for not sharing this very personal information when they're not ready. Real life and people are much mean than one can imagine. I hope he doesn't face bullying for coming out and that people start minding their own business.
Appologize accepted, YoongHee.
I really get shocked I didn't know yoonghee are gay but I'm so happy that he came out i was so happy every time i see him with yj and always thought how cute they are together 😍
He participated in a gay dating reality show called "his man 2" to find a partner.
That is very interesting to read the many comments saying they “felt” his was not saying the truth about his sexuality, and I never thought he was gay because he said so, is that “feeling” always trauma got from repression and bullying that many gays suffer or they conclude that by homophobic stereotypes? Because I’m bi and never “felt” someone was lgbt.
I've not seen His Man 2. Just to let you know it, wouldn't have bothered me if he was straight/gay/bi. I know it can be a bit nerve biting for anyone thats thinking of coming out to their family and friends. If no one repects of what you are, it's their loss. Just keep the ones that do accept of who you are.
UNDERSTANDABLE
J'adore quand Yonghee est dans tes vidéos, il est si mignon et marrant.
it is totally fine to come out whenever you are ready, there is no need to say sorry about it
These 2 are possibly the funniest 🤣 loveable couple ( not meaning in sexual relationship) in Korea ❤. Thank You 🥰
After going back to his videos 😅well our TK boy had a few hints here and there. And personally I love him the same. Coming out in a conservative society is not easy.
Sean felices y libres siendo lo que son y que la gente prejuiciosa opine lo que quiera! Ustedes son mejores que ellos!!💪🫰
I was initially surprised, but I don't blame him at all cos I'm not openly out to everyone myself. Glad that he felt comfortable (and brave) enough to come out. That said, was waiting to see if he will uphold his word to date YJ but he is taken now. XD
I thought he was straight, because everyone that my type is either straight or i can't get them 😂
배려심 대박인걸..
I understand because Don't ask, don't tell was a thing in American until 2011 and there is probably still people who still hide even though Don't ask, don't tell is not a thing
anymore in the military
Antigay bullying is no joke. And magnify by 10 in macho military culture, where your life is often in the hands of your mates. Even just in training. Zero judgement!
I am wondering when that perceptions would be ended about this topic "same sex couple"!? We almost all international persons and countries accept as them are...I am waiting for that day of Korea when it will be solved!🥺❤
당연히 군대가기전에 공개적으로 까는게 어려웠겠지~!
이해된다 이건!
I like yoonghee and Js from the very start they have the bad boy qualities which I like.
The title is abit misleading. I was thinking hold up he is actually straight??
Thank you so much foe the explanation. I was so confused. Although I never, ever said you were a Liar or thay you were deceitful. People need to understand that coming out is not an easy thing to do and it is solely up to the person when they do. It's none of your business. Are you his boyfriend/Girlfriend? I'm just happy to know why ! (This is coming from a straight girl) Love You Guys! See you next time! Peace & Love!
융희님 게이였군요!! 저도 몰랐네요 오해가 있어서 당황 하셨을것 같아요 앞으로 융희등장 영상이 더욱 재밌을것 같네요 영재님과 좋은 콜라보 영상 기대 하겠습니다 ㅎㅎ
Love Yoongheee his amazing🥰🥰🥰 so sweet and handsome ☺️
Here's the thing when he was on his Man 2 I didn't know that it was him both of them look alike but that didn't come to my mind so I fell for him again as tk boy and as the one in his man 2
ユンヒ君がゲイで良かった‼️もっと親近感が湧きました❤
게이에있어 좋았습니다.
Gay people knew he was gay. He only fooled the str8s 😂🤣. I’m glad he’s comfortable enough to come out on his own.
Yoonghee ❤❤
I'm going to be honest you two. I thought you were gay because you did that BL with Youngjay, but then you said you were, so unless said otherwise who am I to say what your sexuality was. I just thought you were a dude who was very comfortable in his sexuality to be in that position with a guy. I was surprised not gonna lie, but now knowing and realizing you lied to protect yourself and to survive explains everything. Be safe you two and I hope you live your best lives. I am also very happy you guys have good people around you and support you. Being able to come out is a privilege that not a lot of people have