I understand you just try to have your best life but if you don't care like you said in the video why feel the need to tell us you'll do you no matter what? Obv you do you no matter what
Can i ask why it is bad to let men you are seeing know your parents weren’t perfect and treated you badly when you were younger? Is it because it shows you didn’t have a good support system growing up or something?
did not watch the video but I am a Man on the grind. When i look for wifey material , having a healthy relationship with both parents would signify a healthy support system yes , and also less likely to be going through negative behavior patterns associated with trauma. If you worked on yourself like I have , it should be obvious that you are cable of having a secure attachment which is the foundation of a healthy relationship that can last. Hope you have a great group of people around you now! Change is possible / its inevitable actually in nature @@schoolworkaccount3887
Baby girl age doesn’t mean to be mature. You attracted for older men because of daddy issues not because of being so wise and smarter than other girls. There are some man your age that are really mature smart and etc. someone even younger. There are some older guys who’s psychological age is 6-8 y o and they are narcissist. As I see from this video you are narcissistic too. Which is fine. But just don’t make it seem like only older guys are so wise and others are just kids. Girls choose older men so often because they give them care and protection and seem smarter because of age. This is what your father should do when you were a kid. It’s not about partnership of two mature adults. He could be 20 and already grown inside and 40 and still a kid even with money. Think about it.
So true, when she said “never talk badly about your family in front of your man”. Oh, girls never do that, he will use it against you and he will treat your family members bad
"Toxic", "insecure", "narcissist" ... every man in this woman's past is one of those three things, she claims. Yet, the common denominator in all those relationships is her.
From what you described, it’s sounds like none of these men were in love with you or particularly psychologically healthy, which explains why they would want to date a woman 20 years younger than them. A man who loves you and respects you would never weaponise your vulnerabilities or you opening up about your family, against you. If you have to pretend to be something you are not, you are not in a loving but transactional relationship. Also paying rent on an empty flat, just in case the boyfriend decides to kick you out, is also a red flag. I am personally against living together before marriage but that’s another story …
Is her fault for choosing rich man who has more options ,and clearly you see a problem with man choosing younger vvomen but you don’t see a problem with the vvoman choosing to be with older vvomen, 🤣 keep playing games until the wall comes ,hopefully before mister Right 🤣
There is nothing at all about love in her story, it's purely transactional. The men know it, she knows it, she's just a highly paid prostitute providing the "girlfriend experience". All the rest is just rationalization.
Why are women always shaming men’s dating preferences? Meanwhile, women want a 6’3 guy, earns 6 figures, is in good shape, and is usually older than her. Wtf!? Where’s the logic?
Some questions for all you young men and women out there: When do we stop playing games with each other and when do we start loving and respecting each other?
Of course that assumes one actually wants a relationship as opposed to squeezing as much in exchange for access as one possibly can. That is a very specific kind of game by definition.
Good question. I think never. Women and men have been doing this since day one on this planet. And will continue to do it. There are exceptions who don't do this, but they are so, sooo rare. Although, this game is mostly played by women, men have a tendency to be more straight forward and know what they want. Men are a lot simpler than women. Women on the other hand.... Well, that's a different story.
I really hope the girls watching this realise that these advice are just in case you are dating a narcissist. In general they are good advice, but let me give you another - do not date narcissists. No matter how rich or old they are, just stay away from them and don’t play with fire.
Exactly! I never had to worry what my partner thinks of my family to respect us… He just respects us in spite of our issues! No need for games with a good man.
So every singel man she date is a bad guy but she is the angel one and the perfect one . I think she the one who is narcissist who always blame other .
shes not even special, veeeeery average looking even with make up. no billionaire would be interested in someone without at least millions. shes prolly just an esc.
If you've dated "multiple men" and none of them want to be posted anywhere online with you, even in the photos of exotic places you have traveled to together you have to crop him out, you're not a girlfriend, you're an escort.
"Me, me, me, me & ME!" "Follow my terrible advice so that you can be temporarily happy like I am, young girls!" "I am a high value woman! (Not to guys, but me to myself, which is what matters!)" This sums up what I heard in this video. I pray god shows you mercy, Nastya, and you learn the true way to lifelong happiness (it's not going after "the best" experiences always, it's actually forming strong bonds with & serving the few select people that you love, and never leaving them.)
yeah, experience literally fades away. it's not even about relationships -- it's about TRUE fulfillment and meaning. i guess, to be fair, her personality (the context of this situation) is attuned to experiences. giving her long term relationships will be like trying to fit a ballerina's shoe on an ugly giant ocre foot. she will always get bored. so at least she's self aware :)
actually quite good advice in general, but if you pretend to be something you are not that is a recipe for disaster. not being greedy for his money should genuinely come from within and not be some kind of game you are playing.
Just when you thought you "passed" the tests, they actually realized that you realized it's a test, which means you wanted a longer term game. Older (rich) men have no intention to stay long term with younger women.
Первый звоночек,что отношения не будут здоровыми это проверки,что тут же вас перестают уважать за то,что вы "О боже посмела потратить его деньги" которые он сам позволил потратить,не встречайтесь девочки с нарциссами-психопатами-манипуляторами и слушайте внимательно что они говорят и как говорят,чтобы потом не "есть лапшу" которую они любят вешать на уши.
I don't agree with this attitude or lifestyle, but I will admit she does know men. When a woman shows she's interested in me for my money, that's the quickest way for me to lose interest. I recently was dating a woman who was a 10 in looks. She never expressed her gratitude for the money I spent. Then, she asked me if we could go to a nicer restaurant than the special one I had picked out. Such a turn off. I broke things off that week.
You haven't dated a 10, since 10 is perfection and perfection doesn't exist. You might have been blinded by her sexy attitude (which is what most men are instantly attracted by) but not by her beauty. Like the chick in this video, she's a 6,5 out of 10, but some of you guys might think she's a 9. In other words you found a gold digger. But there's no way to find a good, beautiful young girl if you're old. Or better, it's extremely unlikely. Those are already taken by a younger handsome successful man. Unfortunately you have to come to way bigger deals if you want a younger partner. For sure you need assets otherwise why a younger woman would choose you? And then find a big deal with her beauty (like a 5 out of 10) if not with some serious psychological issues. If you aren't ready to accept all of this, you'd better let it go with young chicks.
You know women who are younger and a 10 have plenty to take your place? That’s where older guys delude themselves that somehow their money would keep these young women interested in THEM 😂
@@FlyingSoulworld Lol you act like you've watched a film of my life. You couldn't be farther off bro. Yes, the chick in this video is a 6.5, but I was dating a 10. Not perfection, but in the top 5 percentile of women. My chick had done bikini modeling, and she wasn't one of the fat ones. She had just the right amount of curves. They don't take 6.5s as bikini models bro unless it's one of those woke campaigns. I'm dating a 6.5 now and things are going great. She is not as hot, but her personality is so much better (no red flags). I'm mid 30s so I'm not old old, but getting there for women in their 20s. My advice to you is to go out and touch grass. There are good women out there, but they are hard to find. Sticking to your incel behavior is only going to leave you all alone.
Trust me... when younger women date older millionaires, they are almost always after the money and very thirsty to exist in the jet setting world of the rich & famous! They will always play lil' miss humble pie in the beginning to make it seem like they're not interested in you for your money but their true colors will eventually be revealed very soon.
As an "older" man with enough wealth, I can confirm everything she said. As an older man it feels good to be needed, but it also feels bad to be taken advantage of. The difference is a matter of respect. If a younger woman can show respect to her older man, the relationship has a chance.
Riiiight . . . and how many of your "relationships" have been based on anything more than how much you want to shell out? I mean in reality, not in your imagination. Or does "respect" simply mean a modicum of acting ability?
I notice you don't mention mutual respect or respecting her back. No amount of money is worth a lack of respect. Younger men, rich or not, are underrated.
Facts 💯 elderly grumpy males date women for their youth and young woman date elderly males for money. It's a transactional relationship. It's sounds like she is playing games without anything in return. And the way she is saying she is mature, makes me wonder who many grumpy granny groomed her 😅
The last line basically revealed that you don't like these men, you bear them because of what they offer. Which I assume is lifestyle. I hope you get so successful you can live that life without needing the guy. Just beware, you will realize that it's not all that amazing as it seems from far away :]
to people wondering "what am i doing here in this video": there are still wonderful and meaningful people that desire real and deep connection and realise that this doesn't bother "the fun part". not sharing your traumas and problems and being so protective, because the other is always testing you - that's toxic and sad. :/ i hope we all find meaning and love.
Nastya, love this video. However, I have been there, done that, I have dated older extremely rich men and I realized something. Rich does not always mean emotional vulnerability. I would suggest dating an ambitious man that has emotional intelligence and respects you (most of the times they are nerds that own companies but are not the most outgoing people and often times are shy). However, they treat women well and are generous. I am 32 and know what I am talking about because I am in dating industry. Hope it helps.
And that's the reason why I have no interest in dating rich men. I don't want to be put in situations and tested artificially. I just want a guy to hang out with, no games. If he wants to spend a lot of money on luxuries and expensive hotels, he has to pay for me too, as I don't waste money on needless things, otherwise we would have to do what I can afford. He can't have it both ways.
FROM THE FIRST PLACE, if you are a high value woman/man, you value the person and the human values not the pocket, the appearance and material stuff. The result : less damage and toxicity with the 20 year-old with no age gap, than the 50+ billionaire. If you respect your parents enough, you wouldn't be with a partner their age either. It's so crazy.
Oh yes. "Since always I've been special, better, not interested in things other in my age were. I was more grown up, simply better", and on the same breath "those old narcissist men" xD
"There's two types of men in this world, the ones who look at you as a potential wife and the ones that look at you as a girlfriend who they want to have fun with. " This is true.
Nobody but simps will look at her as a potential wife if she made herself a sugarbaby. The moment she made money a requirement she turned herself into that kind of woman.
I'm married now to a man 15 yrs older than me, but he didn't treat me like a princess when we were dating, it was just like a normal gentleman treatment at first. But when we got married, he already trusted me and showered me a queen alike treatment. I was shocked too of the sudden change after marriage but I'm loving it. lol (queen treatment for me is 'gave me more and more of his love')
The truth is, men have the ability to give their love to a woman. Women, I want to be careful to say this, do not have this capacity. I’m sorry to say.
Me and my husband have been married for 13 years now. I am 40 years old, my husband is 71 years old. He gave me good life. He taught me everything about how to handle 50 houses for rent. He didn't have kids with his ex, and we don't have kid. We live in good life.
Your may be unaware that subconsciously you’re seeking a parental figure that you lack in your childhood that causes you to date older men. So you better question yourself of your upbringing that causes you to date older men. Older men dating a younger women, is a male ego. He wants to feel young, manly, have virility and the all the things that make him feel powerful and dominant. It’s a male fantasy to date young women. You’re there to fulfill his fantasy. You’re there to stroke his ego. I’m a guy and I’ve had much older women that show interest in me. Never dated them because I don’t need a mother figure, as my mother raised me well.
Her makeup and dress make her look more mature. She also carries herself maturely. This comment seems a little rude. Can we just appreciate her sharing her experiences and knowledge?
@@user-fg3sm9db3j I have tons of pictures of myself in mature dress and makeup at 23 when I was a professional student. I still am, I'm not much older than her. I look back at my pictures and I look like a BABY. Her makeup is not what's aging her. I'm just stating an observation, not trying to be rude.
Saying that most of the older men that you dated were narcissistic says as much about you and your poor decision making as it does about them. We attract more of who and what we are and I say this from experience as an older man who attracts younger women without even trying hard and I know that most of them would have positive things to say about our relationship. Money is nothing but a tool that tends to accentuate what and who we already are so just as there are poor and shady people there are also rich and shady people and there are young and narcissistic people as there are older narcissistic people. Character is not a function of age, tax bracket, ethnicity or social status.
As a 19 year old, it's hard to say that this is wrong. But Patrick Mahomes found his wife before he became rich and famous. She showed love by believing in him, and him to her.
You know, I felt a little bad hearing of these girls dating well off men who provides for them, while I’ve only had the opportunity to date poor men, but you have a point…
@@J-in-Japan dont feel bad! its so valuable to truly love a man, who will love you for long beyond your beauty, and will want to provide for you for the rest of your life as long as you are his motivation to keep going :)
@@onemillionpercent That’s true, and encouraging! 👍🏽 I do believe they can’t provide if they don’t have money though. The most recent person I’ve been involved with has a flip phone and shoes from the early 2000s. I asked him why a flip phone and he said he doesn’t want to risk losing an expensive phone. I always pay my end of the bill and he drinks my beer and water. Maybe we’re friends. 🤷🏽♀️😅😭
Something about it is very, very icky though. I say as a 20 yo woman myself. Do men not see us beyond our age and looks? How would that lead to a successful relationship?
Ah yes older men dating younger women means they are a creep or predator. Classic. Did you know throughout 99% of human history this was normal and not frowned upon? Or that men are biologically hardwired to be attracted to youth the most. the only reason it isn't common now a days is because of how demonized any man is for doing so. Men ignore their instincts because they know they will be punished for what is otherwise normal for them. Asking a man to not be attracted to youth is like asking a women to not be attracted to height or muscles or wealth. You are upset that men chase after what they are designed to chase after. Yet will complain when men wont chase after obese or masculine women. And expect tall handsome and rich men to chase after you while expecting society to protect you from short creepy feminine men that you aren't attracted too. Interesting double standard. Women will claim body positivity and everyone deserves love when it comes to women regardless. But when it comes to ugly men that give you the ik, yeah no empathy or support for those men. Funny how it works.
Assuming that what you are saying is true and you date older billionaires, then most definitely they are married and have a family on their own. You (and probably other young girls) are just a side chick. As long as you are ok with the fact that this is a "transactional relationship" then good, you do you, but don't try to make it look as being something good because it isn't. In a few years you will be replaced by other young girls that think the same as you think right now. The most funny thing is that you truly believe that these guys have something to learn from you and that they are not up to date with the technology and job opportunities lol :)). Oh, and I almost forgot that you ended the video with "guys are assholes" which pretty much negates everything that you already said in this video.
@@nastyaswanmindsoul ties ( energy cords ) by sex. All men woman slept are living forever rent free in her head and body. It is easy visible in case of man woman lost virginity with. All best.
@@rockhero2274 Oh no, she wants the kind of true love that only an unmarried billionaire can provide! Just call a hooker a hooker and be done with it. Just don't try to fool yourself, you surely aren't fooling anyone else.
As one of those guys, just two corrections: 1. We are not insecure. We didn't get to where we are in life by being insecure. It's something else. 2. If you're going to not use his card just to pass a test, it's called deception. Don't do it. We will figure it out very quickly. Being honest about why you're with us always works best in the long run. Otherwise good video.
I don’t know about that exactly. I dated a 46 yr old when I was 25 and he got pretty upset because he thought I was embarrassed to show him to my roommates and that was not the case at all. He accused me of not wanting to be seen with him because he’s older and refused to speak to me again. I think it showed how deeply insecure he was about his age
The most successful men are the most insecure especially if they are a narcissist. What drives them to succeed is the insecurity of being not enough ( this is what they subconsciously think about themselves). So they go around overachieving to prove to everyone they are the best . The reason they date young and good looking women is to get validation from other men. Also young women are more impressionable. More likely to dismiss mental health issues and personality disorders as long as they are getting material stuff. Older women can afford a lot of these things themselves and also have experience with insecure men so can judge the character much better. They are far more difficult to manipulate. The main point is that these men overestimate their intelligence. I dated insecure neurosurgeon and a theoretical physicist. Both were brainwashed with marxist communist political ideology ( through their phd programs) and completely ignorant about politics which were so obvious to me coming from a former communist and war thorn country. Insecure rich men are actually very easy to manipulate because they suffer from pride and self importance
@@Amoore1991 You didn’t mention if he was wealthy or not because that’s the topic here, older and wealthy. I will give you girls some pointers though. The men with the expensive cars and the bling, they are usually the insecure ones (which ironically is what a lot of you go for). And honestly speaking most of those men are not really wealthy. Owning expensive things or businesses on credit is not genuine wealth. In fact if he uses a credit card instead of a debit card to pay for things that’s a big red flag. I am very discreet and private, I don’t drive a fancy car. I have nothing to prove to anyone and don’t need validation from anyone. My money is spent mainly on travel, comfort, my hobbies, and new experiences. I don’t use social media either. The young women I choose to share these experiences with respect this. You can’t choose badly then group us all together.
I half agree with you. I think it’s a generalization. Some are in fact insecure and some may have insecurities like a lot of people. I would have definitely used his card and thanked him for taking care of me 🥰
A toxic women who came into a relationship with transaction in mind surprised and upset the man she was with also saw her for the energy SHE brought to the relationship. Fake, what can I get out of this energy.
so this was basically a guide on how to lie to rich men... quote "never ever be honest" and if you know the shittests and act accordingly you are lying as well liars are not high vallue, they are just liars
@@leagueofotters2774 ... i am idealistic and traumatized so its hard for me to swallow that females doesnt know love they only know lust and transactional relationships.
@@leagueofotters2774 Obviously. I'm not a rich man, but I can easily see myself having sex with hot young girls if I were single and had gobs of money to spend on some fun time. I'd be happy to call it "dating" if it makes the girls more eager to please. And if one of these girls pays for her own shit in an effort to make me see her as wife material I'd give her a pat on the back for being such a good girl, but I still wouldn't marry her. Just as the men she "dated" didn't marry her. Why on Earth would they? This girl truly doesn't have a clue, and is in for a rough awakening just a couple of years from now when the well of billionaire "boyfriends" mysteriously dries up.
Your advice isn't bad but what is your end goal? Wife or forever girlfriend? You've given great advice on how to be an independent woman dating a rich guy but what is the over all point of dating the rich guy if you hold back as his girlfriend and have no need for what he can provide you? How does he fit into your life and how do you fit into his? We all need to create a place in our lives for our partner otherwise we never need anyone and never have to try and keep things together.
Girl go watch blink twice the movie , doesn’t matter if you’re from a rich family, you’re vulnerable around these billionaires, they do t have your best intentions at heart
I dated an older woman once that was wealthy and bought me nice things. I did like her but not enough to keep dating her. I was always kind and did what I could to reciprocate, but I felt like it was unfair to her. I broke up with her, because I rather be broke and single, than be bought. Would you date a person more your age if they were less wealthy, but could make your heart melt with love?
Girls don’t think like we do. They have a mentality of being expecting help. They’ll flex their man. Or dad’s money although it isn’t theirs. A man can’t do that without feeling like a moron.
@@ShanaJahsintaWalters Refusing gifts so that she doesn't appear to be a gold digger so that she can form a long-term relationship with these men in order to be a gold-digger long term? That's definitely manipulation.
They have a host of buzzwords when someone dumps them: "insecure", "toxic", "narcissist", "miso*ynist", and about a half-dozen others that allow them to avoid any kind of accountability or self-examination. After all, why should she evaluate herself when she can just call people names like a toddler?
Women like this make me sick. Date with the intention that you have feelings for him don't use him as a project and them talk bad about him sitting on your high horse.
@@ShanaJahsintaWalters You got me I am Raymond Charles and I have not watched the video due to me being blind. I should now remove this comment because I have no clue what I am talking about!
There are very, very, very few high value women in this world that wear high end luxury brands. You're telling people how to succeed in this world if they are a size zero and willing to get piped by anybody with money. It's a very limited skill set with a very short horizon.
Young women like this are considered artwork that adorn vacation homes and enhance our lives by being young and youthful. They never know us and we appreciate that.
Зачем притворяться на счет отношений с семьей? Тут дело в другом: если партнер использует эту уязвимость (плохие отношения с семьей) как аргумент в ссоре, то он просто мудак, и не надо с ним дальше выстраивать отношения 😁
05:00 That's love bombing 07:10 That's narcisistic frustrastion trying to gaslight you for not being in the relationship anymore 08:55 That's projection and trying to use your vulnerabilities against you. Also can be gaslighting. Are you sure your type is older men and not walking and talking red flags?
One thing I don't understand why this lady emphasises pride in using her own card/cash but only specifically aims at rich/billionaires, as you claim. At the end of the day why only rich/billionaires, if love/lovely relationship or marriage is the aim, surely it should not be about their money only as a key criteria for you being interested in them especially if you are "independant financially"? At the end of the day,, nothing wrong with a guy taking care of a girl and himself but if money is the principal driver behind you wanting them, they are going to know that and feel not truly loved or appreciated.
If you have had multiple relationships with older men and you're only 23, does this mean that you were dating them also when you weren't even 18? If yes, this makes them pedophiles... Your piece of advice seems wise, but I would recommend your goal in life to be to find the man PERFECT FOR YOU, not a rich man, or an older man or whatever, but the PERFECT ONE FOR YOU! 🍀
For some reason lately I've been hearing a lot from girls that they broke up with their ex because he was a narcissist! Is it just a trend now to call guys this or are guys really like that!? I wouldn't rush to give an answer...
My boyfriend is 42 and I'm 22 and I get treated like a princess with him compared to my BFs that were around my age. I prefer stability and recieving. Not only financially but emotionally and spiritually. Don't be scared, girls! Work on yourself and don't take BS from NO man.
make sure he is investing in you. A house, bills paided for, a paid of car, if anything happens this relationship should still be of benefit to you when your older. good luck. x
That’s so true. Men love girls who are passionate and stay busy and can provide for themselves if need be. Great advice hun. Wish i never moved in with him
Men are not an individual. Each man is different. Tons of men love strong and independent women. Others love women who need them and make them feel special. Tons of older men date younger girls because they just find them more attractive and fun. Others do it because they are easier to control. Others yet do it for they like helping others.
You are correct for rich older divorced or men over 50 never married. But it isn’t widely true for older men with a gap in age just in general. Someone waiting to be financially secure after gaining a solid career will want a younger women to have a family. And especially those who are waiting for the right woman and refuse to settle. But your general rules like making them respect you, are solid advice in either case. Hopefully everyone understands the difference so they can navigate between the two opposites.
Just curious, have you ever dated any men who weren't billionares and/or who were a similar age to you? How did those relationships go? How were they different and which do you prefer and why?
love love love this. it truly shows you've been through it compared to the bluff some youtubers say and is obviously not backed up with experience. MORE PLEASE. There is a whole fanbase on youtube for such videos. good luck
Surprised at the comments. This 23 year old is emotionally wiser and understands human behaviours more than 99.999999999% of people on the planet. I'd be interested to see what she posts about life / relationships in 10 years.
As a young man I'm probably the furthest point from the target audience of this video but it was still extremely interesting so thank you for sharing. I can imagine it can be a controversial topic.
I am 24 y.o, and I have serious relationship with older man for 6 years, and you know, you are so true. And I am very proud of you that you can say it so confident, cos I am still shy to say age of my husband to my new friends but it’s my life my choice. So thank you for an example of being famous and still true to your own choices
If i am being honest there's no benefit of dating an elderly male for long-term relationship unless you're dating for few months and getting money, cars, connections, and property in return. And if he is old and still single then he is a leftover for reason 🤷🏻♀️ also, you can't create a family with older 40+ quality granny sperm, kids end up being autistic, mentally ill, with auto-immune diseases, and with no proper healthy father figure in their life. Plus they carry a lot insecurities and rejection baggage. Gap age is and should be transactional relationship. If you're not using that elderly male money then you're just wasting your youth with nothing in return. And also most elderly male don't care about money because they have nothing else to offer. And you can't fix that midlife crisis male, unless you're a therapist. Overall, there's no benefit. Each to their own 🤷🏻♀️
I love it that you are so mature, so level headed and switched on 👏🏼 Your advice is truly valuable and some of it I haven’t heard anywhere else! Keep going 🥰
"You're showing your man that you're working, you're grinding..." yeah, like men look for a woman who works her S outdoors instead of raising and teaching their own children. Right. Nice advice for women how to remain a girlfriend for their whole lives.
0:15 Good, now we know you got fake self-esteem right off the back. Pro tip: If you don't really care about criticism, you don't open up by stating "I don't care about criticism" that shit only proves you do care, but you have to many people calling out your shit, and you don't have the first clue on how to fix it xD
I’ve dated much younger women. And I will not shower them with gifts. You sound like you were love bombed and had a man sell you a fantasy. A rich man who gives you gifts right away is strange. Taking you places or having you join him in his life is normal. Woooing a girl who’s 20 years younger than you on day one is a set up for manipulation. It’s much easier to impress a younger woman with your demeanor and if you’re very rich you aren’t flaunting it. As a man you protect it. Men with assets know young women can be volatile so there’s no need to go 100 miles an hour. It’s actually dangerous in 2024. It sounds like you’ve been played. And you talk way too fast. This advise is not universal. It’s actually strange.
So I'm watching this video, and I get to the 8 min mark, and suddenly I think, "wait, whose this video for. It's certainly not for me as I'm a 62 year old man and I'm not looking to shack up with a billionaire. And most women don't have the looks to interest a billionaire, or even a multi-millionaire. So, whose it for"?. I'm thinking there's a very tiny portion of the female population that actually have a shot at a rich man, so this channel is doomed if that's all its about. Also, Rich men, they can have their pick of beautiful women, but you'd think they'd get upset that the women they date just see them as a sugar daddy, but they don't. As it turns out, one of the side effects of being rich is that you become insensitive to the feelings of people around you. It happens because every time you snap your finger and people run to get you what you ask for it gives you a boost of brain hormones. It makes you feel powerful, but over time it makes you an asshole.
I don’t know why this video was suggested and why I decided to watch it, but it’s disheartening and confirms why dating sucks for mature and genuine adults looking for true connections. 👎🏻
@@duckyh9712 These are transactional relationships, the men play an equal part in this nonsense dynamic. It's not one sided. Both sides need to mature.
i hope not , not trying to be any girls atm unless she's going to be my prostitute or sex slave. Either way i'm holding out for a woman who is capable of loving me and not primarily loving what i can do for her. First thirty secs of the video gave so many red flags with her The gold digger energy is strong. Not old or rich yet lol but when that happens these women are being put in the category of fuck only/ no commitment so at least we can have some fun!
There is nothing a 23yr old could teach a 50-60yr old wealthy man that he cant just go learn if he wanted to. The ultimate job of a women thats dating an older wealthy man is to be his Peace and be teachable. That doesnt mean shut up and do what your told, but think before you speak. Make sure whatever your about to bother him about is worth it.
That’s so true!!! In the beginning they want to see how hungry for money are you. Because if you can easily buy a girl it’s not impress them. Would love to hear second part
Of course you feel no shame, cause you lost it. Ah the good old days to label you as you really are and make you think twice. But the biggest mistake? to think there is no God and you will answer for nothing.
You are telling these young women not to accept gifts, not to live with him, be independent and pass his “tests” which begs the question of why you’re going after an older richer man in the first place ? Why not just date someone your own age then? Good Lord. What a waste of my time watching this non sense.
I like how you are really talking from the experience, it is not these surface advices like "take care of yourself" or "have a diet", but actual things that I would not think about) Thank you for your content! It is interesting and new for me. And you always look gorgeous but I guess you know that ahah))
"Dating" or being a sugar baby/prostitute like this one? If all you're after is the money, then the answer is pretty clear. No doubt value is provided, but may as well call a spade a spade.
Love me or hate me, I still do me❤
Keep doing you and I know you're going to get everything that's coming to you.
love you😘
I understand you just try to have your best life but if you don't care like you said in the video why feel the need to tell us you'll do you no matter what? Obv you do you no matter what
Can i ask why it is bad to let men you are seeing know your parents weren’t perfect and treated you badly when you were younger? Is it because it shows you didn’t have a good support system growing up or something?
did not watch the video but I am a Man on the grind. When i look for wifey material , having a healthy relationship with both parents would signify a healthy support system yes , and also less likely to be going through negative behavior patterns associated with trauma. If you worked on yourself like I have , it should be obvious that you are cable of having a secure attachment which is the foundation of a healthy relationship that can last. Hope you have a great group of people around you now! Change is possible / its inevitable actually in nature @@schoolworkaccount3887
Baby girl age doesn’t mean to be mature. You attracted for older men because of daddy issues not because of being so wise and smarter than other girls. There are some man your age that are really mature smart and etc. someone even younger. There are some older guys who’s psychological age is 6-8 y o and they are narcissist. As I see from this video you are narcissistic too. Which is fine. But just don’t make it seem like only older guys are so wise and others are just kids. Girls choose older men so often because they give them care and protection and seem smarter because of age. This is what your father should do when you were a kid. It’s not about partnership of two mature adults. He could be 20 and already grown inside and 40 and still a kid even with money. Think about it.
it's about the money
This is the best comment under this video
She didn’t have that father figure in childhood
And there are some women who are young who are extremely mature and others who are in their 30s yet have the mentality of teenagers
So true, when she said “never talk badly about your family in front of your man”. Oh, girls never do that, he will use it against you and he will treat your family members bad
If he would use it against me, he doesn’t deserve love or the relationship! I’m looking for a man with whom I feel safe!
@@RemaAbdul1 yes!!!
"Toxic", "insecure", "narcissist" ... every man in this woman's past is one of those three things, she claims. Yet, the common denominator in all those relationships is her.
there's a particular kind of older men who date 23-year-olds.
Yes. She is a toxic, insecure narcissist who is projecting like hell.
@@deleted01yup it’s called successful men lmfao
@@duckyh9712Successful men marry young and have one long-lasting marriage with a loving wife.
@@deleted01 damn you right
From what you described, it’s sounds like none of these men were in love with you or particularly psychologically healthy, which explains why they would want to date a woman 20 years younger than them. A man who loves you and respects you would never weaponise your vulnerabilities or you opening up about your family, against you. If you have to pretend to be something you are not, you are not in a loving but transactional relationship. Also paying rent on an empty flat, just in case the boyfriend decides to kick you out, is also a red flag. I am personally against living together before marriage but that’s another story …
Is her fault for choosing rich man who has more options ,and clearly you see a problem with man choosing younger vvomen but you don’t see a problem with the vvoman choosing to be with older vvomen, 🤣 keep playing games until the wall comes ,hopefully before mister Right 🤣
FR bestie
There is nothing at all about love in her story, it's purely transactional. The men know it, she knows it, she's just a highly paid prostitute providing the "girlfriend experience". All the rest is just rationalization.
who wouldn't want to date woman 20 years younger than him? it's normal
Why are women always shaming men’s dating preferences? Meanwhile, women want a 6’3 guy, earns 6 figures, is in good shape, and is usually older than her. Wtf!? Where’s the logic?
Dating billionaires is not an accomplishment. Becoming one is.
Most women billionaires got their wealth from divorce etc.
Correction becoming one, on your own, not as a result of marriage, is an accomplishment.
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Both is terrible there's no ethical billionaire in our world today
They say the highest level of escort is when you keep her from realizing she's an escort and thinking she's a girlfriend.
Broke men who can't attract the women they want are always trying to find some way to insist that these women are escorts when they're with other men.
bahahahaha
Yes cause every younger woman who dates older men are all escorts. You need to get your head examined.
No, she's a gold digger, not an escort.
no, they should just be played by broke guys who don't want to commit.
Some questions for all you young men and women out there: When do we stop playing games with each other and when do we start loving and respecting each other?
Of course that assumes one actually wants a relationship as opposed to squeezing as much in exchange for access as one possibly can. That is a very specific kind of game by definition.
With the ability to play this game with men and then report to UA-cam your results, I don’t think real true relationships are happening any time soon.
Good question. I think never. Women and men have been doing this since day one on this planet. And will continue to do it. There are exceptions who don't do this, but they are so, sooo rare. Although, this game is mostly played by women, men have a tendency to be more straight forward and know what they want. Men are a lot simpler than women. Women on the other hand.... Well, that's a different story.
When women do it first
Never, because women refuse to appreciate men, just use them.
I really hope the girls watching this realise that these advice are just in case you are dating a narcissist. In general they are good advice, but let me give you another - do not date narcissists. No matter how rich or old they are, just stay away from them and don’t play with fire.
This ☝️
Exactly! I never had to worry what my partner thinks of my family to respect us… He just respects us in spite of our issues! No need for games with a good man.
I am gonna repeat that a 100 times over. DONT DATE A NARCISSIST.
@@PAL5041 and dont date gold digger
So every singel man she date is a bad guy but she is the angel one and the perfect one . I think she the one who is narcissist who always blame other .
I will just leave the following quote from Dostoyevsky: "Your worst sin is that you've destroyed and betrayed yourself for nothing".
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In which Dostoyevski's book is that quote and what is the context?
@@ly_lu5923 Raskolnikov said to Sonya in "Crime and punishment." Page 65 in Russian translation.
oh my god, how did she destroy herself? she doesn't have a life that Sonya had, that's so disrespectful...
So irrelative
"I'm a high value woman , I've dated billionaires". Honey you're a high priced escort.
She said she was joking
@@coreykleinman7902 OK, she's a funny escort.
well it's not that bad :-)
shes not even special, veeeeery average looking even with make up. no billionaire would be interested in someone without at least millions. shes prolly just an esc.
Best comment ever 😂
If you've dated "multiple men" and none of them want to be posted anywhere online with you, even in the photos of exotic places you have traveled to together you have to crop him out, you're not a girlfriend, you're an escort.
Nothing wrong with that.
Wait…they’re trash and SHE is the problem in your opinion? Could you get more misogynistic? 😂
Calling her and escort is way too harsh.
How about date guys you're attracted to then? yall are disgusting having some old guy all over you just because he's rich.
@@dragorn3212 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"Me, me, me, me & ME!"
"Follow my terrible advice so that you can be temporarily happy like I am, young girls!"
"I am a high value woman! (Not to guys, but me to myself, which is what matters!)"
This sums up what I heard in this video.
I pray god shows you mercy, Nastya, and you learn the true way to lifelong happiness (it's not going after "the best" experiences always, it's actually forming strong bonds with & serving the few select people that you love, and never leaving them.)
yeah, experience literally fades away. it's not even about relationships -- it's about TRUE fulfillment and meaning. i guess, to be fair, her personality (the context of this situation) is attuned to experiences. giving her long term relationships will be like trying to fit a ballerina's shoe on an ugly giant ocre foot.
she will always get bored. so at least she's self aware :)
"Me, me, me, me" sounds like the man.
@@onemillionpercent shes just the silly kid , naive and being used.
@@natashadickson4819 is that why you have ''dickson'' in your username?
You’re so correct. 💯
actually quite good advice in general, but if you pretend to be something you are not that is a recipe for disaster. not being greedy for his money should genuinely come from within and not be some kind of game you are playing.
She passed that test. But she must not have passed other tests.
Her point is that he’s the one that started the test whether she’ll go crazy with his card or not.
I'm woman, and being woman that had experience like her before, I totally say this comment is correct.
Just when you thought you "passed" the tests, they actually realized that you realized it's a test, which means you wanted a longer term game. Older (rich) men have no intention to stay long term with younger women.
why is that
@@cansukokturk4815 Because rich men don't have to buy a cow when they can buy the milk.
@@DanielFooHello I'd rather buy a cow
@@cansukokturk4815 You are probably not a rich man because that's not how rich men think.
So pumping and dumping?
Первый звоночек,что отношения не будут здоровыми это проверки,что тут же вас перестают уважать за то,что вы "О боже посмела потратить его деньги" которые он сам позволил потратить,не встречайтесь девочки с нарциссами-психопатами-манипуляторами и слушайте внимательно что они говорят и как говорят,чтобы потом не "есть лапшу" которую они любят вешать на уши.
P R E A C H
That did not translate well at all . . .
@@bookernoel6471 is UA-cam translating incorrectly or what?
try google translation
@@bookernoel6471If you're confused about the last sentence, "hang noodles onto someone's ears" is a russian saying, which means "to lie, to mislead"
I don't agree with this attitude or lifestyle, but I will admit she does know men. When a woman shows she's interested in me for my money, that's the quickest way for me to lose interest. I recently was dating a woman who was a 10 in looks. She never expressed her gratitude for the money I spent. Then, she asked me if we could go to a nicer restaurant than the special one I had picked out. Such a turn off. I broke things off that week.
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You haven't dated a 10, since 10 is perfection and perfection doesn't exist. You might have been blinded by her sexy attitude (which is what most men are instantly attracted by) but not by her beauty. Like the chick in this video, she's a 6,5 out of 10, but some of you guys might think she's a 9.
In other words you found a gold digger. But there's no way to find a good, beautiful young girl if you're old. Or better, it's extremely unlikely. Those are already taken by a younger handsome successful man.
Unfortunately you have to come to way bigger deals if you want a younger partner. For sure you need assets otherwise why a younger woman would choose you? And then find a big deal with her beauty (like a 5 out of 10) if not with some serious psychological issues. If you aren't ready to accept all of this, you'd better let it go with young chicks.
You know women who are younger and a 10 have plenty to take your place? That’s where older guys delude themselves that somehow their money would keep these young women interested in THEM 😂
@@FlyingSoulworld Lol you act like you've watched a film of my life. You couldn't be farther off bro. Yes, the chick in this video is a 6.5, but I was dating a 10. Not perfection, but in the top 5 percentile of women. My chick had done bikini modeling, and she wasn't one of the fat ones. She had just the right amount of curves. They don't take 6.5s as bikini models bro unless it's one of those woke campaigns. I'm dating a 6.5 now and things are going great. She is not as hot, but her personality is so much better (no red flags). I'm mid 30s so I'm not old old, but getting there for women in their 20s. My advice to you is to go out and touch grass. There are good women out there, but they are hard to find. Sticking to your incel behavior is only going to leave you all alone.
Trust me... when younger women date older millionaires, they are almost always after the money and very thirsty to exist in the jet setting world of the rich & famous! They will always play lil' miss humble pie in the beginning to make it seem like they're not interested in you for your money but their true colors will eventually be revealed very soon.
As an "older" man with enough wealth, I can confirm everything she said. As an older man it feels good to be needed, but it also feels bad to be taken advantage of. The difference is a matter of respect. If a younger woman can show respect to her older man, the relationship has a chance.
Riiiight . . . and how many of your "relationships" have been based on anything more than how much you want to shell out? I mean in reality, not in your imagination. Or does "respect" simply mean a modicum of acting ability?
I notice you don't mention mutual respect or respecting her back. No amount of money is worth a lack of respect. Younger men, rich or not, are underrated.
@@WynneL i agree :) i am a young woman who loves a young man :D
I had a rich manipulative man
It’s either his way or no way
Need more of your dating experience stories.
😂😂😂
Just pump and dump material......
@@dotcom2528 You can't be more accurate, mate. 😂
So she was on the hook already when she decided that not spending his money is great idea, ok, dear you’re playing games these men want you to play
Are the men complaining?
Facts 💯 elderly grumpy males date women for their youth and young woman date elderly males for money. It's a transactional relationship. It's sounds like she is playing games without anything in return. And the way she is saying she is mature, makes me wonder who many grumpy granny groomed her 😅
she herself has enough money and is not bothered to use his...end of story. If this was a poor girl, she would have used his money!
The last line basically revealed that you don't like these men, you bear them because of what they offer. Which I assume is lifestyle.
I hope you get so successful you can live that life without needing the guy. Just beware, you will realize that it's not all that amazing as it seems from far away :]
Are the men looking for love? Are they victims?
to people wondering "what am i doing here in this video":
there are still wonderful and meaningful people that desire real and deep connection and realise that this doesn't bother "the fun part".
not sharing your traumas and problems and being so protective, because the other is always testing you - that's toxic and sad. :/
i hope we all find meaning and love.
Alexander Grace is going to have a field day with this one. 😄
This is "Pure Gold!" because we're men, ain't we?
The whole Red Pill GANG IS SWARMING IN ON DIS ONE
Nastya, love this video. However, I have been there, done that, I have dated older extremely rich men and I realized something. Rich does not always mean emotional vulnerability. I would suggest dating an ambitious man that has emotional intelligence and respects you (most of the times they are nerds that own companies but are not the most outgoing people and often times are shy). However, they treat women well and are generous. I am 32 and know what I am talking about because I am in dating industry. Hope it helps.
And that's the reason why I have no interest in dating rich men. I don't want to be put in situations and tested artificially. I just want a guy to hang out with, no games. If he wants to spend a lot of money on luxuries and expensive hotels, he has to pay for me too, as I don't waste money on needless things, otherwise we would have to do what I can afford. He can't have it both ways.
exactly
😂😂😂😂 keep that to urself cause what ?!
FROM THE FIRST PLACE, if you are a high value woman/man, you value the person and the human values not the pocket, the appearance and material stuff.
The result : less damage and toxicity with the 20 year-old with no age gap, than the 50+ billionaire.
If you respect your parents enough, you wouldn't be with a partner their age either. It's so crazy.
Oh yes. "Since always I've been special, better, not interested in things other in my age were. I was more grown up, simply better", and on the same breath "those old narcissist men" xD
"There's two types of men in this world, the ones who look at you as a potential wife and the ones that look at you as a girlfriend who they want to have fun with. "
This is true.
there are also the ones who look at you as a wife if you're emotionally mature and else only as a girlfriend
That girl for fun
And there are those who look at women willing to sell themselves to the highest bidder as exactly what they are.
it's a quotation from sex and the city though
Nobody but simps will look at her as a potential wife if she made herself a sugarbaby. The moment she made money a requirement she turned herself into that kind of woman.
need part.2
that’s so wise, really
I second that.
I'm married now to a man 15 yrs older than me, but he didn't treat me like a princess when we were dating, it was just like a normal gentleman treatment at first. But when we got married, he already trusted me and showered me a queen alike treatment. I was shocked too of the sudden change after marriage but I'm loving it. lol (queen treatment for me is 'gave me more and more of his love')
The truth is, men have the ability to give their love to a woman. Women, I want to be careful to say this, do not have this capacity. I’m sorry to say.
Smart man. You passed the gold digger test. You're now getting treated like a queen
Me and my husband have been married for 13 years now. I am 40 years old, my husband is 71 years old. He gave me good life. He taught me everything about how to handle 50 houses for rent. He didn't have kids with his ex, and we don't have kid. We live in good life.
Wow😮❤🥰😍
So he was 58 and you werre 27 when you married.
😮almost double your age
@@franziskani She married the money.
@@nastyaswanmindyou learned real worth yet? Because you dont have it.
that’s so awful when your relationship is like a test: will you spend my money or not. it’s so childish
Your may be unaware that subconsciously you’re seeking a parental figure that you lack in your childhood that causes you to date older men. So you better question yourself of your upbringing that causes you to date older men.
Older men dating a younger women, is a male ego. He wants to feel young, manly, have virility and the all the things that make him feel powerful and dominant. It’s a male fantasy to date young women. You’re there to fulfill his fantasy. You’re there to stroke his ego.
I’m a guy and I’ve had much older
women that show interest in me. Never dated them because I don’t need a mother figure, as my mother raised me well.
I think the issue is actually that they like your looks but its your personality they cannot fathom an existence with
you are only 23 years old and look and sound like you are 10 years older. I thought you were 33. I see why they say older men steal your youth.
She looks like she is in her twenties. I thought she was 25.
@@The-Oneness11 that's you! I thought she was 33. She looks older to ME. European women in general age fast....
Her makeup and dress make her look more mature. She also carries herself maturely. This comment seems a little rude. Can we just appreciate her sharing her experiences and knowledge?
@@user-fg3sm9db3j I have tons of pictures of myself in mature dress and makeup at 23 when I was a professional student. I still am, I'm not much older than her. I look back at my pictures and I look like a BABY. Her makeup is not what's aging her. I'm just stating an observation, not trying to be rude.
@@user-fg3sm9db3j it has nothing to do with her makeup and I cannot even see what she has on. Bye.
Saying that most of the older men that you dated were narcissistic says as much about you and your poor decision making as it does about them. We attract more of who and what we are and I say this from experience as an older man who attracts younger women without even trying hard and I know that most of them would have positive things to say about our relationship.
Money is nothing but a tool that tends to accentuate what and who we already are so just as there are poor and shady people there are also rich and shady people and there are young and narcissistic people as there are older narcissistic people. Character is not a function of age, tax bracket, ethnicity or social status.
No it doesn’t. It’s a certain type of men who want to date women 18 to 23 so not surprising that they are toxic.
Statistically it's unlikely she would have dated several billionaires.
In Russia you need 10 million dollars to be a millionaire
As a 19 year old, it's hard to say that this is wrong. But Patrick Mahomes found his wife before he became rich and famous. She showed love by believing in him, and him to her.
You know, I felt a little bad hearing of these girls dating well off men who provides for them, while I’ve only had the opportunity to date poor men, but you have a point…
@@J-in-Japan dont feel bad! its so valuable to truly love a man, who will love you for long beyond your beauty, and will want to provide for you for the rest of your life as long as you are his motivation to keep going :)
@@onemillionpercent That’s true, and encouraging! 👍🏽 I do believe they can’t provide if they don’t have money though. The most recent person I’ve been involved with has a flip phone and shoes from the early 2000s. I asked him why a flip phone and he said he doesn’t want to risk losing an expensive phone. I always pay my end of the bill and he drinks my beer and water. Maybe we’re friends. 🤷🏽♀️😅😭
Please don’t let men drain your youth and waste your fertility. Your twenties are critical. Best regards.
I'm thankful that I meet these quality women you're describing all the time that don't see dollar signs in me.
Just because a guy wants to date a younger girl doesn't mean hes insecure
It means he is attracted to young women just like everyone else....it is very common.
They are very insecure and leftovers for a reason. Your comment is proving her point
Something about it is very, very icky though. I say as a 20 yo woman myself. Do men not see us beyond our age and looks? How would that lead to a successful relationship?
@@leagueofotters2774 why not attracted to woman ur own age just creepy
Ah yes older men dating younger women means they are a creep or predator. Classic. Did you know throughout 99% of human history this was normal and not frowned upon? Or that men are biologically hardwired to be attracted to youth the most. the only reason it isn't common now a days is because of how demonized any man is for doing so. Men ignore their instincts because they know they will be punished for what is otherwise normal for them.
Asking a man to not be attracted to youth is like asking a women to not be attracted to height or muscles or wealth.
You are upset that men chase after what they are designed to chase after. Yet will complain when men wont chase after obese or masculine women. And expect tall handsome and rich men to chase after you while expecting society to protect you from short creepy feminine men that you aren't attracted too. Interesting double standard.
Women will claim body positivity and everyone deserves love when it comes to women regardless. But when it comes to ugly men that give you the ik, yeah no empathy or support for those men. Funny how it works.
Assuming that what you are saying is true and you date older billionaires, then most definitely they are married and have a family on their own. You (and probably other young girls) are just a side chick. As long as you are ok with the fact that this is a "transactional relationship" then good, you do you, but don't try to make it look as being something good because it isn't. In a few years you will be replaced by other young girls that think the same as you think right now. The most funny thing is that you truly believe that these guys have something to learn from you and that they are not up to date with the technology and job opportunities lol :)). Oh, and I almost forgot that you ended the video with "guys are assholes" which pretty much negates everything that you already said in this video.
these kinds of women think that you constantly need to play tricks to run a relationship.
I don’t date married men.
@@nastyaswanmindsoul ties ( energy cords ) by sex. All men woman slept are living forever rent free in her head and body. It is easy visible in case of man woman lost virginity with. All best.
@@nastyaswanmind Well dammit it's time you start!!
@@rockhero2274 Oh no, she wants the kind of true love that only an unmarried billionaire can provide! Just call a hooker a hooker and be done with it. Just don't try to fool yourself, you surely aren't fooling anyone else.
As one of those guys, just two corrections:
1. We are not insecure. We didn't get to where we are in life by being insecure. It's something else.
2. If you're going to not use his card just to pass a test, it's called deception. Don't do it. We will figure it out very quickly. Being honest about why you're with us always works best in the long run.
Otherwise good video.
I don’t know about that exactly.
I dated a 46 yr old when I was 25 and he got pretty upset because he thought I was embarrassed to show him to my roommates and that was not the case at all. He accused me of not wanting to be seen with him because he’s older and refused to speak to me again. I think it showed how deeply insecure he was about his age
The most successful men are the most insecure especially if they are a narcissist. What drives them to succeed is the insecurity of being not enough ( this is what they subconsciously think about themselves). So they go around overachieving to prove to everyone they are the best . The reason they date young and good looking women is to get validation from other men. Also young women are more impressionable. More likely to dismiss mental health issues and personality disorders as long as they are getting material stuff. Older women can afford a lot of these things themselves and also have experience with insecure men so can judge the character much better. They are far more difficult to manipulate. The main point is that these men overestimate their intelligence. I dated insecure neurosurgeon and a theoretical physicist. Both were brainwashed with marxist communist political ideology ( through their phd programs) and completely ignorant about politics which were so obvious to me coming from a former communist and war thorn country. Insecure rich men are actually very easy to manipulate because they suffer from pride and self importance
@@Amoore1991 You didn’t mention if he was wealthy or not because that’s the topic here, older and wealthy.
I will give you girls some pointers though. The men with the expensive cars and the bling, they are usually the insecure ones (which ironically is what a lot of you go for). And honestly speaking most of those men are not really wealthy. Owning expensive things or businesses on credit is not genuine wealth. In fact if he uses a credit card instead of a debit card to pay for things that’s a big red flag.
I am very discreet and private, I don’t drive a fancy car. I have nothing to prove to anyone and don’t need validation from anyone. My money is spent mainly on travel, comfort, my hobbies, and new experiences. I don’t use social media either. The young women I choose to share these experiences with respect this. You can’t choose badly then group us all together.
I half agree with you. I think it’s a generalization. Some are in fact insecure and some may have insecurities like a lot of people.
I would have definitely used his card and thanked him for taking care of me 🥰
Young girls think everyone is insecure.
A toxic women who came into a relationship with transaction in mind surprised and upset the man she was with also saw her for the energy SHE brought to the relationship. Fake, what can I get out of this energy.
Is the man toxic? This is his preference so he's not a victim. The men in these relationships are getting what they want.
@@natashadickson4819 your right. Problem is she is too but shes making the guy out to seem like the bad guy. Zero type of accountability
@@natashadickson4819 It’s a preference based out of misogyny mostly
so this was basically a guide on how to lie to rich men... quote "never ever be honest"
and if you know the shittests and act accordingly you are lying as well
liars are not high vallue, they are just liars
I think most rich mean see this sort of thing as a business transaction.
@@leagueofotters2774 ... i am idealistic and traumatized so its hard for me to swallow that females doesnt know love they only know lust and transactional relationships.
@@leagueofotters2774 Obviously. I'm not a rich man, but I can easily see myself having sex with hot young girls if I were single and had gobs of money to spend on some fun time. I'd be happy to call it "dating" if it makes the girls more eager to please. And if one of these girls pays for her own shit in an effort to make me see her as wife material I'd give her a pat on the back for being such a good girl, but I still wouldn't marry her. Just as the men she "dated" didn't marry her. Why on Earth would they?
This girl truly doesn't have a clue, and is in for a rough awakening just a couple of years from now when the well of billionaire "boyfriends" mysteriously dries up.
@@leagueofotters2774 Only she thinks she ever was dating them.
Your advice isn't bad but what is your end goal? Wife or forever girlfriend? You've given great advice on how to be an independent woman dating a rich guy but what is the over all point of dating the rich guy if you hold back as his girlfriend and have no need for what he can provide you? How does he fit into your life and how do you fit into his? We all need to create a place in our lives for our partner otherwise we never need anyone and never have to try and keep things together.
Girl go watch blink twice the movie , doesn’t matter if you’re from a rich family, you’re vulnerable around these billionaires, they do t have your best intentions at heart
I dated an older woman once that was wealthy and bought me nice things. I did like her but not enough to keep dating her. I was always kind and did what I could to reciprocate, but I felt like it was unfair to her. I broke up with her, because I rather be broke and single, than be bought.
Would you date a person more your age if they were less wealthy, but could make your heart melt with love?
She doesn't have a heart, only a calculator. Or perhaps a cash app.
Girls don’t think like we do. They have a mentality of being expecting help. They’ll flex their man. Or dad’s money although it isn’t theirs. A man can’t do that without feeling like a moron.
@@bookernoel6471
Calm down.. you need help.
I'm man and what I just heard is crazy :) . Now that's what I call a long term game, pure manipulation :)
Crazy or not, it's been her reality so far and I assume she is not the only one with this specific type of experience....🤷🏼♀️
If you are a woman. Do you think this this is like a psychopath mentality or it's just a situationship? @@stellar.2385
Where is the manipulation?
@@ShanaJahsintaWalters Refusing gifts so that she doesn't appear to be a gold digger so that she can form a long-term relationship with these men in order to be a gold-digger long term? That's definitely manipulation.
@@ReformedAgnostic What language are you speaking to m right now?
"narcissist" .... word gets thrown around a lot when women don't get their way. one sided story as well.
Thank you for highlighting this 😂
You forgot insecure
No. Narc is used when a poorly behaving man treats a woman in an insidious way
The proper term is Narcissist Personality Disorder and, and this is in cluster B, which can possibly be dangerous.
They have a host of buzzwords when someone dumps them: "insecure", "toxic", "narcissist", "miso*ynist", and about a half-dozen others that allow them to avoid any kind of accountability or self-examination. After all, why should she evaluate herself when she can just call people names like a toddler?
Women like this make me sick. Date with the intention that you have feelings for him don't use him as a project and them talk bad about him sitting on your high horse.
Have you watched the freaking video?
@@ShanaJahsintaWalters You got me I am Raymond Charles and I have not watched the video due to me being blind. I should now remove this comment because I have no clue what I am talking about!
@@texas5009 You are absolutely right.
they are dating her for a reason too. y would you even look at someone half your age in the first place?
@@RM-gq5jv Exactly.
Why does the video feel like it's in 3X speed? 😂
I know, I had to slow it down to .50x
There are very, very, very few high value women in this world that wear high end luxury brands. You're telling people how to succeed in this world if they are a size zero and willing to get piped by anybody with money. It's a very limited skill set with a very short horizon.
Women with an education used to be extremely interesting.
Ur comment is ignorant 😂
There are 2,640 billionaires in the world... and you dated more than 1? You're lucky
Or a liar.
Or a sociopath.
Or an escort.
Or a bullshit artist
In Russia you need 10 million dollars to be billionaire, yes she is Russian
This is so sad. Also sad that I watched the whole thing. I hope you love yourself some day.
Coming from a woman. Very valuable.
7:40 “living in your dads era “ gurl you lost me there , that’s wrong in many levels
Young women like this are considered artwork that adorn vacation homes and enhance our lives by being young and youthful. They never know us and we appreciate that.
Genuinely curious, how does this enrich a man's life? I'm confused by men for real. Like this is empty as heck but they keep doing it why?
Зачем притворяться на счет отношений с семьей? Тут дело в другом: если партнер использует эту уязвимость (плохие отношения с семьей) как аргумент в ссоре, то он просто мудак, и не надо с ним дальше выстраивать отношения 😁
05:00 That's love bombing
07:10 That's narcisistic frustrastion trying to gaslight you for not being in the relationship anymore
08:55 That's projection and trying to use your vulnerabilities against you. Also can be gaslighting.
Are you sure your type is older men and not walking and talking red flags?
Her "type" is rich men who can give her the lifestyle she seeks. Their "type" is a sexy young body to have sex with. It's a match made in heaven.
One thing I don't understand why this lady emphasises pride in using her own card/cash but only specifically aims at rich/billionaires, as you claim. At the end of the day why only rich/billionaires, if love/lovely relationship or marriage is the aim, surely it should not be about their money only as a key criteria for you being interested in them especially if you are "independant financially"? At the end of the day,, nothing wrong with a guy taking care of a girl and himself but if money is the principal driver behind you wanting them, they are going to know that and feel not truly loved or appreciated.
If you have had multiple relationships with older men and you're only 23, does this mean that you were dating them also when you weren't even 18? If yes, this makes them pedophiles... Your piece of advice seems wise, but I would recommend your goal in life to be to find the man PERFECT FOR YOU, not a rich man, or an older man or whatever, but the PERFECT ONE FOR YOU! 🍀
For some reason lately I've been hearing a lot from girls that they broke up with their ex because he was a narcissist! Is it just a trend now to call guys this or are guys really like that!? I wouldn't rush to give an answer...
Narcissist is a term to cover all a holes.
If you don't comply you are either that or insecure. It is just noise, really forget it.
Thanks a lot! Feels like sitting with the best friend and listening her stories
My boyfriend is 42 and I'm 22 and I get treated like a princess with him compared to my BFs that were around my age. I prefer stability and recieving. Not only financially but emotionally and spiritually. Don't be scared, girls! Work on yourself and don't take BS from NO man.
make sure he is investing in you. A house, bills paided for, a paid of car, if anything happens this relationship should still be of benefit to you when your older. good luck. x
why couldn't ur bf have someone his own age?
I’m following your advice but I’m scared my bf is 49 and I’m 20 and he already proposed to me but I’m scared that my family will not like him
*This* is one of the reasons dating is broken today.
Things I’ve learned: DO NOT GIVE UP YOUR INDEPENDENCE! If he turns out to be a narcissist like mine was he will destroy your soul!
That’s so true. Men love girls who are passionate and stay busy and can provide for themselves if need be. Great advice hun. Wish i never moved in with him
Men are not an individual. Each man is different.
Tons of men love strong and independent women. Others love women who need them and make them feel special.
Tons of older men date younger girls because they just find them more attractive and fun. Others do it because they are easier to control. Others yet do it for they like helping others.
she admit she was a gold digger and was mistreated by these billionaires and still advise other girls to do it .
You are correct for rich older divorced or men over 50 never married. But it isn’t widely true for older men with a gap in age just in general. Someone waiting to be financially secure after gaining a solid career will want a younger women to have a family. And especially those who are waiting for the right woman and refuse to settle. But your general rules like making them respect you, are solid advice in either case. Hopefully everyone understands the difference so they can navigate between the two opposites.
Just curious, have you ever dated any men who weren't billionares and/or who were a similar age to you? How did those relationships go? How were they different and which do you prefer and why?
She’s meeting these wealthy men on certain sites. And it is a game. Thank the internet for making this all possible.
Looking older and meeting older men doesn’t mean you, are deeper. Nastya, it was just your choice to choose men like a father.
love love love this. it truly shows you've been through it compared to the bluff some youtubers say and is obviously not backed up with experience. MORE PLEASE. There is a whole fanbase on youtube for such videos. good luck
Thank you so much!!
Surprised at the comments. This 23 year old is emotionally wiser and understands human behaviours more than 99.999999999% of people on the planet. I'd be interested to see what she posts about life / relationships in 10 years.
As a young man I'm probably the furthest point from the target audience of this video but it was still extremely interesting so thank you for sharing. I can imagine it can be a controversial topic.
Thaks for that. Waitingt for P2
I am 24 y.o, and I have serious relationship with older man for 6 years, and you know, you are so true. And I am very proud of you that you can say it so confident, cos I am still shy to say age of my husband to my new friends but it’s my life my choice. So thank you for an example of being famous and still true to your own choices
sad that u were groomed
If i am being honest there's no benefit of dating an elderly male for long-term relationship unless you're dating for few months and getting money, cars, connections, and property in return. And if he is old and still single then he is a leftover for reason 🤷🏻♀️ also, you can't create a family with older 40+ quality granny sperm, kids end up being autistic, mentally ill, with auto-immune diseases, and with no proper healthy father figure in their life. Plus they carry a lot insecurities and rejection baggage. Gap age is and should be transactional relationship. If you're not using that elderly male money then you're just wasting your youth with nothing in return. And also most elderly male don't care about money because they have nothing else to offer. And you can't fix that midlife crisis male, unless you're a therapist. Overall, there's no benefit. Each to their own 🤷🏻♀️
Not true, most men in their forties with relatively healthy lifestyles can have normal, healthy babies.its not like they are in their sixties
Please make a second part! It’s such a good advice!
absolutely need the 2nd part of that video
30 secs in: 'toxic' 'narcissist' 'what doesn't kill you mskes you stronger'. Cliché bingo! I got all 3 - where do I collect my prize?
Please part 2!!! This is such an amazing perspective, that shifted what I am thinking on a huge age gap.
I love it that you are so mature, so level headed and switched on 👏🏼 Your advice is truly valuable and some of it I haven’t heard anywhere else! Keep going 🥰
Basically the lesson here ladies is to pretend to be someone your not. She is just 23 yrs old and thinks she has life and men figured out😅.
Amazing advice and really appreciate how humble and honest you are about everything.thank you
"You're showing your man that you're working, you're grinding..." yeah, like men look for a woman who works her S outdoors instead of raising and teaching their own children. Right. Nice advice for women how to remain a girlfriend for their whole lives.
Im sorry but no. If they treat you badly what you do is leave. You shouldn’t prepare to be attacked
0:15 Good, now we know you got fake self-esteem right off the back.
Pro tip: If you don't really care about criticism, you don't open up by stating "I don't care about criticism" that shit only proves you do care, but you have to many people calling out your shit, and you don't have the first clue on how to fix it xD
I’ve dated much younger women. And I will not shower them with gifts. You sound like you were love bombed and had a man sell you a fantasy. A rich man who gives you gifts right away is strange. Taking you places or having you join him in his life is normal. Woooing a girl who’s 20 years younger than you on day one is a set up for manipulation. It’s much easier to impress a younger woman with your demeanor and if you’re very rich you aren’t flaunting it. As a man you protect it. Men with assets know young women can be volatile so there’s no need to go 100 miles an hour. It’s actually dangerous in 2024. It sounds like you’ve been played. And you talk way too fast. This advise is not universal. It’s actually strange.
You are a very strong woman because of sharing this story. Continue please with your awesome content❤️
So I'm watching this video, and I get to the 8 min mark, and suddenly I think, "wait, whose this video for. It's certainly not for me as I'm a 62 year old man and I'm not looking to shack up with a billionaire. And most women don't have the looks to interest a billionaire, or even a multi-millionaire. So, whose it for"?. I'm thinking there's a very tiny portion of the female population that actually have a shot at a rich man, so this channel is doomed if that's all its about. Also, Rich men, they can have their pick of beautiful women, but you'd think they'd get upset that the women they date just see them as a sugar daddy, but they don't. As it turns out, one of the side effects of being rich is that you become insensitive to the feelings of people around you. It happens because every time you snap your finger and people run to get you what you ask for it gives you a boost of brain hormones. It makes you feel powerful, but over time it makes you an asshole.
This is something to learn for both women and men (example: Don't talk bad about your family with who your dating).
I don’t know why this video was suggested and why I decided to watch it, but it’s disheartening and confirms why dating sucks for mature and genuine adults looking for true connections. 👎🏻
Now you see jets men are talking about with these modern women
@@duckyh9712 These are transactional relationships, the men play an equal part in this nonsense dynamic. It's not one sided. Both sides need to mature.
thinks i've learned from this video - you're like any other woman.
i hope not , not trying to be any girls atm unless she's going to be my prostitute or sex slave. Either way i'm holding out for a woman who is capable of loving me and not primarily loving what i can do for her. First thirty secs of the video gave so many red flags with her The gold digger energy is strong. Not old or rich yet lol but when that happens these women are being put in the category of fuck only/ no commitment so at least we can have some fun!
Comment of the day.
Yep
There is nothing a 23yr old could teach a 50-60yr old wealthy man that he cant just go learn if he wanted to.
The ultimate job of a women thats dating an older wealthy man is to be his Peace and be teachable. That doesnt mean shut up and do what your told, but think before you speak. Make sure whatever your about to bother him about is worth it.
That’s so true!!! In the beginning they want to see how hungry for money are you. Because if you can easily buy a girl it’s not impress them.
Would love to hear second part
Of course you feel no shame, cause you lost it.
Ah the good old days to label you as you really are and make you think twice.
But the biggest mistake? to think there is no God and you will answer for nothing.
You are telling these young women not to accept gifts, not to live with him, be independent and pass his “tests” which begs the question of why you’re going after an older richer man in the first place ? Why not just date someone your own age then? Good Lord. What a waste of my time watching this non sense.
Those were very useful pieces of advice, definitely waiting for more parts to come
I like how you are really talking from the experience, it is not these surface advices like "take care of yourself" or "have a diet", but actual things that I would not think about) Thank you for your content! It is interesting and new for me. And you always look gorgeous but I guess you know that ahah))
Love this video ❤❤❤ I am a 22 year old law student dating older & these statements are so true & helpful ❤❤❤
Glad it was helpful!
"Dating" or being a sugar baby/prostitute like this one? If all you're after is the money, then the answer is pretty clear. No doubt value is provided, but may as well call a spade a spade.