Should Men Be the Head of A Household? | Real Life Hard Questions

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  • Опубліковано 19 жов 2024

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  • @TestTest-ei4gi
    @TestTest-ei4gi 3 роки тому +12

    Obviously this woman is married and happy. Submissive women are at a premium. It’s rare to find them so when you do, they are worth everything. It’s funny that the majority of women think they need to be famous and need to adjust their bodies when all they need to do is submit to their partners.

    • @elistari1050
      @elistari1050 2 роки тому +3

      Obviously this man is married and happy. Submissive men are at a premium. It's rare to find them so when you do, they are worth everything. It's funny that the majority of men think they need to be famous and need to adjust their bodies when all they need to do is submit to their partners.
      Oh? You don't like that? You don't like being treated as though you are a child who should "submit" to their partner, as though you can't make decisions for yourself and would be happier being overruled by someone else? That doesn't feel good? That's condescending and demeaning? Shocking.

    • @TestTest-ei4gi
      @TestTest-ei4gi 2 роки тому

      @@elistari1050 every partner should submit to their partner. How is that demeaning? What I’m saying is men are natural leaders unless he’s a vagrant and doesn’t want to do anything with his life. You’re conflating being a leader with imposing tyranny, which is corruption and that’s wrong

    • @KD400_
      @KD400_ Рік тому

      @@elistari1050 shut up feminist

  • @nurrakugy5126
    @nurrakugy5126 6 років тому +18

    Yes! Husband is Head like Christ is Head of church.

    • @LilC2000
      @LilC2000 5 років тому +4

      Nurra Kugy Christ is head over men and men is head over women.

  • @jayontario7285
    @jayontario7285 6 років тому +13

    Ephesians 5:22-33 New International Version (NIV)
    22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
    25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church-30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[b] 32 This is a profound mystery-but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

  • @Ben-Israelreports
    @Ben-Israelreports 7 років тому +19

    It never said equal in the Bible.

    • @elistari1050
      @elistari1050 2 роки тому

      Because the Bible was written by men. Men are flawed and bias. If women wrote the Bible, society would be very different.

  • @austinelkins9303
    @austinelkins9303 3 роки тому +8

    Women can’t not be a pastor either.

  • @TonyZmex
    @TonyZmex 11 місяців тому +1

    why men are so afraid to say, yes I am the head of the house and I will lead my wife and family, there are hierarchies clearly stated by God. They are not equal, men are different than women, why it is so hard to understand this.

  • @pedroeu8647
    @pedroeu8647 2 роки тому +5

    I'm the head of my household

  • @patrickhamilton7849
    @patrickhamilton7849 5 місяців тому

    Simple answer. Yes.

  • @realgems24
    @realgems24 4 роки тому +4

    But at some point a decision has to be made that is opposed to the wife. The man has to put his down

  • @Bayan1905
    @Bayan1905 Рік тому +2

    Nice to see that there are men out are finding women stupid and gullible enough to let the husbands make every decision for them and treat them like doormats and then hide behind the bible to make it all ok.

  • @ChrisHardwickanimaladventures
    @ChrisHardwickanimaladventures 8 місяців тому

    They say head of household, then totally unwind it with equality. Do you know what 'head' means???

  • @amosisreal3392
    @amosisreal3392 4 роки тому +4

    And that's not what submit mean it means to listen and do what your husband tells you based on God scriptures

    • @elistari1050
      @elistari1050 2 роки тому +1

      And that's not what submit mean it means to listen and do what your wife tells you based on God scriptures
      Oh? You don't like that? Is being told to do whatever your wife says demeaning and condescending? Like you can't make a decision for yourself? Like your aren't literally the same species as her and sacrifice so much for you? That's how women feel. Women birth men and this is what we get. Disrespect. I guarantee God strongly disagrees, otherwise he wouldn't have given women equal intelligence and consciousness as men. Also, if women were of inferior intelligence, they would literally be a different species and we wouldn't be able to procreate with men. Sexism being illogical ONCE AGAIN.

    • @finalfrontier001
      @finalfrontier001 Рік тому

      ​@@elistari1050 A man that listen to a woman is doomed household. Woman may have opinions but cannot dictator or assume authority in the household.

    • @Ignite2Transform
      @Ignite2Transform Рік тому

      Lol

  • @Ben-Israelreports
    @Ben-Israelreports 7 років тому +7

    It never said Submit to each other.

    • @jayontario7285
      @jayontario7285 6 років тому +3

      Kwesi-Nkurmah Ben Israel I know....they are slaves to their wives

    • @AmaLoveGoddessTV
      @AmaLoveGoddessTV 6 років тому +2

      Yes it does. Please read again

    • @graciousharry7580
      @graciousharry7580 4 роки тому +3

      @@AmaLoveGoddessTV no it didn't it only said women submit to your husband

    • @graciousharry7580
      @graciousharry7580 4 роки тому

      @@jayontario7285 exactly

    • @graciousharry7580
      @graciousharry7580 4 роки тому

      @@jayontario7285 what it's the other way round

  • @amosisreal3392
    @amosisreal3392 4 роки тому +4

    That should never be a question

  • @PinkYellowGreen2023
    @PinkYellowGreen2023 Рік тому

    Only if I was married would I consider a man to be the head of my household. I'm not married and have learned not to live with men because shacking is not Godly.

  • @jacksonvang3429
    @jacksonvang3429 5 років тому +3

    These day my wife still want to be King of the house hold.

  • @teokastelan2930
    @teokastelan2930 3 місяці тому

    No ! Men should be head of the wife.

  • @imabeast7397
    @imabeast7397 5 років тому

    question is is this a structure to be followed in the dating stage as well or stictly in marriages.

    • @cqualif
      @cqualif 3 роки тому +1

      Marriage, but she must have that personality to adjust to it.

    • @SeanWinters
      @SeanWinters 2 роки тому

      Yeah, dating is all about seeing if you are the right fit for each other, do you agree on things like politics and religion, is she going to be the right kind of wife who will serve and submit to you while meeting your children, is your husband going to be the kind of man who beat you in love and not domineer you, that's what dating is about. If you're dating for anything more than 3 years, then why are you dating? With that being said, while you are dating it's important to show each other what you are going to be like within the marriage, so it is important in my opinion for the man to act as the head of the relationship, and the woman to act in service and submission, but it's definitely never going to be the same degree as it would be within the marriage because you two are not one yet. You don't have a shared Bank account, you don't live together, you don't necessarily have the same friends, your parents might not even know each other yet, so I would say yes the man should be the head in a dating relationship as well, but it's never going to be the same degree as it would when you're married

    • @lukeaustin4465
      @lukeaustin4465 Рік тому

      ​@@SeanWinters Having a shared bank account is foolish, what if one is a saver and the other just spends on anything? That can easily create resentment and conflict.

  • @gilliangiles7589
    @gilliangiles7589 2 роки тому +1

    Submit to ur husband. So if ur husband tell u to do sometin bad. U have to do it. Be submissive toa GODLY Husban

    • @finalfrontier001
      @finalfrontier001 Рік тому

      If your husband tells you to break the law you disobey anything else you must obey.

  • @prad949
    @prad949 5 років тому

    NO....Ooooooooo