Virgo Moon here, I've been helping my loved ones every time they got sick. Whenever I got sick nobody would take a second to help me the same way I helped them. I have a mars in cancer so that hurts too
You hit the nail on the nose with this!! My moon is in virgo. We never quite feel the love and support ever reciprocated at all. Especially the fact that people don’t realize just how much of ourselves and time we give to them. We give our complete and unconditional heart out to others in times of need. Unfortunately never able to receive that in return 🤷🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️😔 But that makes us continue giving our hearts and ears to others even more so. Always two sides too a coin. Always make the best of situations and staying strong and continuing our roles as nurturers and healers ☺️
I needed this so bad I just went through it with a personal planet stellium Virgo sun mars and mercury and Venus. I did everything wrong with him I regret it all
They do it because of many reasons 1. The see that you go above and beyond so they’ll take advantage of that and don’t care when you need help because they got what they needed. 2. They don’t know how to be a true friend or lover or family member that reciprocates. 3. It’s scary when the most stable and helpful person spirals, it’s hard for them to know what to do and they just want the old you back so they don’t want anything to do with the Virgo person until they are back to their usual self. -There are other reasons as well but if someone doesn’t reciprocate what you do for them back it’s a sign that you don’t need them. They needed you. You did your best as a person and good karma comes back around after the storm. Most importantly virgo energy has a tendency to take in “Strays” knowing damn well they aren’t good for them but yet they end up loving them anyways so it’s important to be vigilant of who you let into your life. They may have been a lesson and you deserve better. You need to realize that. I will make a video going in-depth
Can someone explain this “Virgo” stuff to me 😂 - I’m a space nerd but have never heard about this in my life other than the saying “when the starts align” 😂😂😂😂
Im talking about astrology. I’m posting a video soon about this whole Virgo topic and before I get into following up on this short- I’m thinking that I’m going to explain the Virgo constellation and where it’s located in the sky etc
Ohh...but what if your just getting to know them?? I'm female, he's male .I got a vibe..in a work a situation. I actually shut down cause..i didn't know..how to ask or say. We've not spoken..since 2020. I've got moon in gem. Cancer sun so.. I'm a great space giver! How to reapproach??
This video is more about how those Virgo placements feel when they go through a death of a loved one, an extreme heartbreak, or they feel lost in life etc and they can’t be the same person that the people rely on them or want them to be. If your situation was a mutual relationship that just started etc and it was between you and that Virgo then that’s a different situation. This vid is more so if you were a close friend with that Virgo person and something that you didn’t do caused them to spiral downwards and after them helping you and being there for you, in turn you reject them because they are no longer their usual self. It’s different if you are the one that was involved in their pain that caused the spiral like the person that they were in a relationship with and now trying to heal from etc. they are sensitive to rejection and since your situation is a bit different then my video, my advice to you would be that if you genuinely believe that reconnecting is the best thing to do then try because life is short and the people you love deserve to know how you feel and you deserve to express yourself. But with Virgo placements approach them with calm “I feel” statements instead of “you did this” statements if you want to rekindle something. They can be prideful at times and they know what they do wrong so they don’t need reminders but they do need to communicate if the relationship has unfinished business and tension because they will run every scenario in their head of what you are thinking. So if you believe the time is right thing that you need to say in order to express your feelings- do it the most rationally you can but still calm, empathic, genuine, and most importantly giving them room to express their feelings back.
Virgo Moon here, I've been helping my loved ones every time they got sick. Whenever I got sick nobody would take a second to help me the same way I helped them. I have a mars in cancer so that hurts too
I totally understand, trust me. I’m glad u resonated.
Missed this channel! Good to see you’re back 🥹
Thank you!!! I missed posting, the full Virgo vid drop tmw at 12pm est time!
You hit the nail on the nose with this!!
My moon is in virgo. We never quite feel the love and support ever reciprocated at all. Especially the fact that people don’t realize just how much of ourselves and time we give to them. We give our complete and unconditional heart out to others in times of need. Unfortunately never able to receive that in return 🤷🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️😔
But that makes us continue giving our hearts and ears to others even more so. Always two sides too a coin. Always make the best of situations and staying strong and continuing our roles as nurturers and healers ☺️
I’m glad you resonated riz ❤️
Facts!!! I’m a Virgo moon
I needed this so bad I just went through it with a personal planet stellium Virgo sun mars and mercury and Venus. I did everything wrong with him I regret it all
But WHY do people turn their backs on us?! What can I do to not be abandoned all the time?
They do it because of many reasons 1. The see that you go above and beyond so they’ll take advantage of that and don’t care when you need help because they got what they needed.
2. They don’t know how to be a true friend or lover or family member that reciprocates.
3. It’s scary when the most stable and helpful person spirals, it’s hard for them to know what to do and they just want the old you back so they don’t want anything to do with the Virgo person until they are back to their usual self.
-There are other reasons as well but if someone doesn’t reciprocate what you do for them back it’s a sign that you don’t need them. They needed you. You did your best as a person and good karma comes back around after the storm. Most importantly virgo energy has a tendency to take in “Strays” knowing damn well they aren’t good for them but yet they end up loving them anyways so it’s important to be vigilant of who you let into your life. They may have been a lesson and you deserve better. You need to realize that. I will make a video going in-depth
@@fireandwaterastrology thank you! yes, I suspect #3 may be key, but it's still unfair. (I have 3 planets conj Sun in Virgo 12th, Virgo Asc.)
Can someone explain this “Virgo” stuff to me 😂 - I’m a space nerd but have never heard about this in my life other than the saying “when the starts align” 😂😂😂😂
Im talking about astrology. I’m posting a video soon about this whole Virgo topic and before I get into following up on this short- I’m thinking that I’m going to explain the Virgo constellation and where it’s located in the sky etc
Ohh...but what if your just getting to know them?? I'm female, he's male .I got a vibe..in a work a situation. I actually shut down cause..i didn't know..how to ask or say. We've not spoken..since 2020. I've got moon in gem. Cancer sun so.. I'm a great space giver! How to reapproach??
This video is more about how those Virgo placements feel when they go through a death of a loved one, an extreme heartbreak, or they feel lost in life etc and they can’t be the same person that the people rely on them or want them to be. If your situation was a mutual relationship that just started etc and it was between you and that Virgo then that’s a different situation. This vid is more so if you were a close friend with that Virgo person and something that you didn’t do caused them to spiral downwards and after them helping you and being there for you, in turn you reject them because they are no longer their usual self. It’s different if you are the one that was involved in their pain that caused the spiral like the person that they were in a relationship with and now trying to heal from etc. they are sensitive to rejection and since your situation is a bit different then my video, my advice to you would be that if you genuinely believe that reconnecting is the best thing to do then try because life is short and the people you love deserve to know how you feel and you deserve to express yourself. But with Virgo placements approach them with calm “I feel” statements instead of “you did this” statements if you want to rekindle something. They can be prideful at times and they know what they do wrong so they don’t need reminders but they do need to communicate if the relationship has unfinished business and tension because they will run every scenario in their head of what you are thinking. So if you believe the time is right thing that you need to say in order to express your feelings- do it the most rationally you can but still calm, empathic, genuine, and most importantly giving them room to express their feelings back.