Assalaamu A'laykum akhi. I came across your channel a few months ago and subscribed. Saw a few videos in the feed coming up as well as shorts. Watched some of them and had mixed feelings: Sometimes it feels like it is useful to me, sometimes it doesn't. But looking at this video, I can't help but feel euphoric at finding such an entertaining, informative Islamic "self-improvement" videos (broadly speaking, you have business stuff as well if I'm not mistaken) with such good editing! These Non-Muslim videos have taken down my Imaan so much, I really needed a Muslim brother give me pieces of advice in an Islamic context!
I'm a Maronite Christian but I believe in what you are saying. Fear of Allah comes 1st. As a Christian I'm asked to obey my husband. Alhamdullah I got lucky with a loving husband. When a husband shows care and affection, respect follows naturally. I have so much gratitude for him. We have a 17 years difference but his kindness bridges all the gaps. Marriage is half of our faith too. May Christianity and Islam stay on the rise as we share in our core the same fear and devotion to God. Alhamdulillah
Assalaamu alaikum An Ustaadh in a class one time mentioned about marriage, something along the lines of, you shouldn’t be “repelled” by the person’s looks. You shouldn’t find them ugly. I believe this is the same message which is meant to be delivered in this video, but putting it in these words I think makes it clear when you meet someone, you ask yourself “am I repelled by their looks?” “Are they ugly” Allaah knows best
It is also Sunnah to choose a beautiful woman, because it is gives a greater sense of transquillity and is more likely to help him lower his gaze and love her more. Hence Islam prescribes looking (at one's fiancée) before marriage. Some scholars regard it as mustahabb, if a man wants to propose marriage to a woman, to start by asking about her beauty first, then about her religious commitment. That is because it is known that people seek beauty first and foremost. Imam al-Bahooti said in Sharh Muntaha al-Iraadaat (2/621): He should not ask about her religious commitment until he has been told good things about her beauty. Ahmad said: If a man wants to propose marriage to a woman, he should ask about her beauty first, and if good things are said, he should ask about her religious commitment, and if good things are said, he should marry her. If he does not hear good things about her religious commitment, then he will have rejected her because of her religious commitment. He should not ask about her religious commitment first, then if good things are said, the he asks about her beauty, then if he does not hear anything good, he rejects her because of beauty and not because of religious commitment. End quote.
With all due respect, I didn't appreciate the joke about independent women. Women shouldn't define themselves according to a man. What if a divorce happens? How will she get back on her feet without a career? Also, while I agree that taking half the assets of a husband when you have only been married for two years is unacceptable, what if you have been married for 30 years with her as a housewife? You cannot deny that the housework would have contributed to the household wealth.
"while I agree that taking half the assets of a husband when you have only been married for two years is unacceptable" A woman that does this has committed an act of kufr and is stealing. you are not entitled to his wealth.
Please stop saying that. I am a Muslim woman and to keep reading that it really hurts. Not everyone is the same. Imagine if you keep reading that men are this and that...also you are casting doubt upon people who you don't even know
@@BlueBlue23 I don't care if I kept reading men are like this. It's a fact though There are too many consistent experiences from everyone who is saying the same thing. That's y men are looking abroad.
@@abdullahahmad9300 you can not just blame the women. I got a brother telling me he was naughty pretending to be good and that he wanted to corrupt me. And...he looked religious. If you think women are bad, you need to understand that men are not free of responsibility here. I bet they are the ones giving attention to the girls on IG and Tik Tok. Men giving attention to those women are encouraging that bad behaviour as well.
@@BlueBlue23 Yes they are bad as well But let me explain why women are more evil than men in the west Giving women rights in this country to take Your wealth House Kids Away To destroy the man is more evil than what a man can do in this country. Your literally stealing and going to war with Allah by taking the children away as it's Allah's right upon the father that he see his kids. Women are defo more evil In Pakistan and other countries the men are more evil because they have more rights to abuse their power. Both extremes The issue is the system and the system influencing women. Then you have career women who become arrogant think they are independent then they divorce their husbands.
Keep up the good work brother assalam u laikum from Pakistan.
Walaykum Assalam!
Assalaamu A'laykum akhi. I came across your channel a few months ago and subscribed. Saw a few videos in the feed coming up as well as shorts. Watched some of them and had mixed feelings: Sometimes it feels like it is useful to me, sometimes it doesn't. But looking at this video, I can't help but feel euphoric at finding such an entertaining, informative Islamic "self-improvement" videos (broadly speaking, you have business stuff as well if I'm not mistaken) with such good editing! These Non-Muslim videos have taken down my Imaan so much, I really needed a Muslim brother give me pieces of advice in an Islamic context!
Barakallahu feekum akhi, keep going, keep going, keep going!
Alhamdulilah bro. Great to hear that. Allah bless you!
Salamaiaikum from Pakistan. This is a wonderful. short, to the point and accurate guidance . May Allah accept from you.
I'm a Maronite Christian but I believe in what you are saying. Fear of Allah comes 1st. As a Christian I'm asked to obey my husband. Alhamdullah I got lucky with a loving husband. When a husband shows care and affection, respect follows naturally. I have so much gratitude for him. We have a 17 years difference but his kindness bridges all the gaps. Marriage is half of our faith too. May Christianity and Islam stay on the rise as we share in our core the same fear and devotion to God. Alhamdulillah
Assalaamu alaikum
An Ustaadh in a class one time mentioned about marriage, something along the lines of, you shouldn’t be “repelled” by the person’s looks. You shouldn’t find them ugly.
I believe this is the same message which is meant to be delivered in this video, but putting it in these words I think makes it clear when you meet someone, you ask yourself “am I repelled by their looks?” “Are they ugly”
Allaah knows best
It is also Sunnah to choose a beautiful woman, because it is gives a greater sense of transquillity and is more likely to help him lower his gaze and love her more. Hence Islam prescribes looking (at one's fiancée) before marriage.
Some scholars regard it as mustahabb, if a man wants to propose marriage to a woman, to start by asking about her beauty first, then about her religious commitment. That is because it is known that people seek beauty first and foremost.
Imam al-Bahooti said in Sharh Muntaha al-Iraadaat (2/621):
He should not ask about her religious commitment until he has been told good things about her beauty. Ahmad said: If a man wants to propose marriage to a woman, he should ask about her beauty first, and if good things are said, he should ask about her religious commitment, and if good things are said, he should marry her. If he does not hear good things about her religious commitment, then he will have rejected her because of her religious commitment. He should not ask about her religious commitment first, then if good things are said, the he asks about her beauty, then if he does not hear anything good, he rejects her because of beauty and not because of religious commitment. End quote.
Jazak Allahu kheiran for sharing. Yes attraction is very important
Its your RWI student, I actually want to speak to you about this.
Yoo I see you 👀
@@ameenomar__ Ahaha
allahouma barik
Good video mashaAllah.. unrelated question tho, what does the photo in the background mean?
Allahumah barik
With all due respect, I didn't appreciate the joke about independent women. Women shouldn't define themselves according to a man. What if a divorce happens? How will she get back on her feet without a career? Also, while I agree that taking half the assets of a husband when you have only been married for two years is unacceptable, what if you have been married for 30 years with her as a housewife? You cannot deny that the housework would have contributed to the household wealth.
I agree. That wasn’t funny at all, it shows poor character.
I feel sorry for your husband
@@uBmaniac i don't know who you are, don't want to know who you are, and don't particularly care what your opinion of me is.
@@afnandridi9595 welcome to the Internet
"while I agree that taking half the assets of a husband when you have only been married for two years is unacceptable"
A woman that does this has committed an act of kufr and is stealing. you are not entitled to his wealth.
Majority of women are not obedient and grateful today in the west .
Please stop saying that. I am a Muslim woman and to keep reading that it really hurts. Not everyone is the same. Imagine if you keep reading that men are this and that...also you are casting doubt upon people who you don't even know
@@BlueBlue23 I don't care if I kept reading men are like this.
It's a fact though
There are too many consistent experiences from everyone who is saying the same thing.
That's y men are looking abroad.
@@BlueBlue23 I'm from the UK
I think the ratio to good Muslim women to bad Muslim women are
20:80
80% are bad
@@abdullahahmad9300 you can not just blame the women. I got a brother telling me he was naughty pretending to be good and that he wanted to corrupt me. And...he looked religious. If you think women are bad, you need to understand that men are not free of responsibility here. I bet they are the ones giving attention to the girls on IG and Tik Tok. Men giving attention to those women are encouraging that bad behaviour as well.
@@BlueBlue23 Yes they are bad as well
But let me explain why women are more evil than men in the west
Giving women rights in this country to take
Your wealth
House
Kids
Away
To destroy the man is more evil than what a man can do in this country.
Your literally stealing and going to war with Allah by taking the children away as it's Allah's right upon the father that he see his kids.
Women are defo more evil
In Pakistan and other countries the men are more evil because they have more rights to abuse their power.
Both extremes
The issue is the system and the system influencing women.
Then you have career women who become arrogant think they are independent then they divorce their husbands.
Ahaha- 'Actually- no. Noone wants that.'
😆