Rejected with lot of jobs as well because of no confidence...lost jobs...panic attacks...i still dont don't go for jobs because don't have that confidence yet
There are quite a few videos on my channel already regarding conversations that will help you, and I will certainly do more! Also, my next live event in Portland, Oregon is all about turning you into a Conversation Master! Check out the details here: www.socialconfidencecenter.com/events/
I used to be super confident, but now I am like a shell of my former self. I truly believe it all stems from this need to be accepted by EVERYBODY. If I could just not care what people thought about me, my life would be great.. but that’s easier said than done
There are specific approaches and exercises that can help you accomplish that. If you'd like to explore overcoming this for good hit me up here to explore your options: www.socialconfidencecenter.com/coaching/
I really believe spirituality can help with the false beliefs and false narratives that we tell ourselves (and then doing positive self-talk and being your own adviser). You made a good point about remembering to say to ourselves, "It's about Them, it's not about Me" when people aren't the way we want them to be. Interestingly, just yesterday, I stumbled upon this quote by Jiddu Krishnamurti: "Here is my secret: I don't mind what happens." As always, Dr. Aziz, thank you for your inspiring and thought-provoking videos.
For me, it was never my parents that made me feel unworthy. I got bullied a lot growing up by people that I actually considered friends and even now deep into adulthood it still sticks with me.
Today is my first day finding these vedios. ...I'm very muscular nice body abs etc and I'm still very insecure,and misrable with social anxiety, and to be honest when people see me they think oh wow he must be confident because of his muscles but what's weird is I'm more insecure about it.. I beat my anxiety for a while but within the past 4 months my anxiety has came back with a vengeance. And I believe that my void and lack of love and itamacy from the opposite sex has caused me to get worse especially when I see happy loving couples everyday having fun to the point that I fill like I am invisible always alone like I am in a prison and no one can see me .....I'm desperate to escape this prision of self fear and shame ..Dr aziz is there any material or book that you have that can help me to transform from this disgusting waste of fear into a confident alpha male?
Thank you for reaching out Josh! First and foremost. you are not alone. Many men and women share your challenges. The good news is I have many resources to help you out of your prison. Take advantage of all of them... 1) First, stay in the loop by going here and signing up for my newsletter: socialconfidencecenter.com/products/5-steps-to-unleash-your-inner-confidence/ In the process, you’ll receive my ebook that has helped thousands of people, “5 Steps To Unleash Your Inner Confidence.” You’ll also receive a lot of helpful tips and information on a regular basis as well as access to resources only available to subscribers. 2) Subscribe to my podcast here: www.ShrinkForTheShyGuy.com If offers great information for both men and women, including interviews with other leaders in the field of confidence and social anxiety. 3) Subscribe to my UA-cam channel here. (Don’t forget to click on the notification bell icon!) I release at least one new video every week! ua-cam.com/users/GetMoreConfidence 4) Follow me on Facebook! facebook.com/DrAzizGazipura/ 5) Browse through my current published books on specific confidence issues and how to crush them! DrAzizBooks.com 6) Check out my next live event. These weekend intensive experiences are life changing! socialconfidencecenter.com/events/
Something that might help , is to stop judging urself all together. It helped me a shit ton. A quote I read the other day “the person that looks in the mirror and says he or she is beautiful has the same issues as the person that says he or she is ugly”. If you seek justification and value it drains you mentally . Instead if u don’t judge urself at all and just expect urself for everything u are u begin to think why was I so insecure in the first place
Hey dr Aziz, I was wondering if you were still going to make a video on what it means to be a Confident *Centered* man or what it means to have a center?
Rejected with lot of jobs as well because of no confidence...lost jobs...panic attacks...i still dont don't go for jobs because don't have that confidence yet
What are you actively doing to build your confidence?
Hey dr!...Awesome video as always but can u plz make a video on comebacks and replies to give in a group and how to be quite fearless in replying.
There are quite a few videos on my channel already regarding conversations that will help you, and I will certainly do more! Also, my next live event in Portland, Oregon is all about turning you into a Conversation Master! Check out the details here: www.socialconfidencecenter.com/events/
Thanks doc
You're welcome!
Great video as always. But one question: The rejection we tend to SEE even before approaching is a reflection of self rejection?
It can be. It can also be your inner critic trying to prevent you from taking a positive action.
I used to be super confident, but now I am like a shell of my former self. I truly believe it all stems from this need to be accepted by EVERYBODY. If I could just not care what people thought about me, my life would be great.. but that’s easier said than done
There are specific approaches and exercises that can help you accomplish that. If you'd like to explore overcoming this for good hit me up here to explore your options: www.socialconfidencecenter.com/coaching/
I agree. I really struggle with rejection.
I am 5'4, can I get a girlfriend?
Absolutely!
To know at the deep level that you’re “awesome”
Extremely Powerful concluding statement
And YOU are!
I wish , I fucking wish I find this your channel before my hocd
I really believe spirituality can help with the false beliefs and false narratives that we tell ourselves (and then doing positive self-talk and being your own adviser). You made a good point about remembering to say to ourselves, "It's about Them, it's not about Me" when people aren't the way we want them to be. Interestingly, just yesterday, I stumbled upon this quote by Jiddu Krishnamurti: "Here is my secret: I don't mind what happens." As always, Dr. Aziz, thank you for your inspiring and thought-provoking videos.
You're very welcome, and thank you for sharing!
For me, it was never my parents that made me feel unworthy. I got bullied a lot growing up by people that I actually considered friends and even now deep into adulthood it still sticks with me.
Yes, it's amazing how difficult it can be to shake the emotions from those type of interactions. Difficult...but not impossible!
Today is my first day finding these vedios. ...I'm very muscular nice body abs etc and I'm still very insecure,and misrable with social anxiety, and to be honest when people see me they think oh wow he must be confident because of his muscles but what's weird is I'm more insecure about it.. I beat my anxiety for a while but within the past 4 months my anxiety has came back with a vengeance. And I believe that my void and lack of love and itamacy from the opposite sex has caused me to get worse especially when I see happy loving couples everyday having fun to the point that I fill like I am invisible always alone like I am in a prison and no one can see me .....I'm desperate to escape this prision of self fear and shame ..Dr aziz is there any material or book that you have that can help me to transform from this disgusting waste of fear into a confident alpha male?
Thank you for reaching out Josh! First and foremost. you are not alone. Many men and women share your challenges. The good news is I have many resources to help you out of your prison. Take advantage of all of them...
1) First, stay in the loop by going here and signing up for my newsletter:
socialconfidencecenter.com/products/5-steps-to-unleash-your-inner-confidence/
In the process, you’ll receive my ebook that has helped thousands of people, “5 Steps To Unleash Your Inner Confidence.”
You’ll also receive a lot of helpful tips and information on a regular basis as well as access to resources only available to subscribers.
2) Subscribe to my podcast here: www.ShrinkForTheShyGuy.com
If offers great information for both men and women, including interviews with other leaders in the field of confidence and social anxiety.
3) Subscribe to my UA-cam channel here. (Don’t forget to click on the notification bell icon!) I release at least one new video every week!
ua-cam.com/users/GetMoreConfidence
4) Follow me on Facebook! facebook.com/DrAzizGazipura/
5) Browse through my current published books on specific confidence issues and how to crush them!
DrAzizBooks.com
6) Check out my next live event. These weekend intensive experiences are life changing!
socialconfidencecenter.com/events/
Something that might help , is to stop judging urself all together. It helped me a shit ton. A quote I read the other day “the person that looks in the mirror and says he or she is beautiful has the same issues as the person that says he or she is ugly”. If you seek justification and value it drains you mentally . Instead if u don’t judge urself at all and just expect urself for everything u are u begin to think why was I so insecure in the first place
Hey dr Aziz, I was wondering if you were still going to make a video on what it means to be a Confident *Centered* man or what it means to have a center?
You bet!
Awesome! I was also wondering what it mean to stay grounded or stand your ground as a man
Thank you Dr. Excellent video
You are welcome, and thank you!