My GF Wanted an Open Relationship... Here's What Happened | Hearit Stories

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  • @SalemK-ty4ti
    @SalemK-ty4ti 5 днів тому +32

    The moment your partner in a monogamous relationship brings up an open relationship is the second you found out your relationship is over. They are either already cheating on you or has someone else already lined up. If you tell them no they will just cheat on you and when they get caught they will blame you for not opening the relationship.

    • @J.P_INC.
      @J.P_INC. 4 дні тому +1

      Why you just cut ties and thank God you dodged a bullet especially if you aren't married

  • @osvaldocristo
    @osvaldocristo 5 днів тому +21

    There is no need for drama. When one of the spouses talks "I am considering open marriage" there is one and just one single answer: "Divorce. Goodbye". Always the person that bring that subject is cheating, at least emotionally, and look for some way to insure hiss/her wrongdoing. There is no way to improve couple relationship sleeping with others!

  • @NotSleepy-r5y
    @NotSleepy-r5y 5 днів тому +10

    Mark: "I'm just looking for fun."
    Cynthia: "How dare you be up front and honest with me? I blew up my long-term forever for this fun!"
    Mark: "You're just too clingy without Aaron as your back-up plan."

  • @squadfathercrypto
    @squadfathercrypto 5 днів тому +8

    I like that Aaron acted decisively without "reflecting" for weeks and describing every pretentious meal in minute detail.

  • @009AWB
    @009AWB 5 днів тому +9

    06:28. Thinking about this for a while. Most women have been thinking about cheating for 2-4 months before they start to take action and line up potential replacements for their partners.

  • @winniethepoohandeeyore2
    @winniethepoohandeeyore2 5 днів тому +12

    Shouldn't be any drama, as soon as they say open relationship you END the relationship right then and there.

    • @mr_wrx.4616
      @mr_wrx.4616 4 дні тому

      Get out before you get sloppy seconds

  • @draconisdragonheart4248
    @draconisdragonheart4248 5 днів тому +10

    She knows Aaron is a faithful guy. So she wants a free pass to cheat and keep him as backup. He deserves someone who can be faithful and not waste his time on her.

    • @gxr7777
      @gxr7777 5 днів тому +6

      She also knows he's been cheated on so what the hell did she expect.

  • @chrisj.1608
    @chrisj.1608 5 днів тому +7

    Good for him standing on principle most of these guys roll over and suddenly discover the benefits of another relationship so good for him also good for her she got exactly what she wanted no commitment no strength attached intimacy and that's exactly what she has now she should be
    Falling all over herself giddy

  • @Mrwillie95
    @Mrwillie95 5 днів тому +15

    Aaron is so smart that he left Cynthia before he got married to someone who can't stay faithful

    • @gxr7777
      @gxr7777 5 днів тому +3

      Never, never, never get married in 2025.

    • @superbirden57
      @superbirden57 4 дні тому +2

      Or any other year for that matter...

    • @blacksunday4231
      @blacksunday4231 4 дні тому +1

      If he were really smart he would've left the same night she proposed her nonsense.

  • @kennethbarkley1491
    @kennethbarkley1491 5 днів тому +7

    Cynthia is a fool who doesnt realize Aaron will walk away. She wants Mark, but it won't work out with Mark.

    • @gxr7777
      @gxr7777 5 днів тому +1

      Gotta have a backup SIMP!!!

  • @eleethtahgra7182
    @eleethtahgra7182 5 днів тому +9

    Nah...theres no advantage for a relationship guy to be in open relationship.
    Why pay for full price for a rental car???

  • @wdeemarwdeemar8739
    @wdeemarwdeemar8739 5 днів тому +6

    Once a woman bring you an open relationship she is cheating already or has a man or men already lined up. But she wants to cheat without consequence. But nothing more than a cheater.

    • @rapsack7058
      @rapsack7058 4 дні тому

      She might even not cheat or want to cheat. The core problem is that she wants invest her attention and time etc. in another person instead to fully commit to the one relationship. It is all about her very self. It is about to get even more attention and validation. Such a woman has severe personality flaws. Flaws you should not ignore. She will always look oout side to boost her fragil ego. SUch a woman is always on the verge leaving the relationship for a another one or cheating.

  • @sbradley3008
    @sbradley3008 3 дні тому +2

    You can't turn a 304 into a wife. The second the words come out of their mouth, walk away. They're already cheating.

  • @voraginetheheresiarch2338
    @voraginetheheresiarch2338 5 днів тому +1

    The final line should have been something more like. "I wanted freedom. I got it, but I got the kind of freedom that leaves you feeling alone, untethered, and adrift. Vulnerable, lonely freedom."

  • @ace1gl
    @ace1gl 5 днів тому +3

    I alway love the open relationship will make us closer argument. When it is well documented that open relationships fail over 99% of the time.

  • @dougwheeldon
    @dougwheeldon 5 днів тому +4

    This is the moment you call a divorce attorney. This is what happens when women believe garbage from there friends

  • @sureshkadam3480
    @sureshkadam3480 5 днів тому +3

    If your partner is trying to change you according to her wishes without your consent or principal then live her on the spot without wasting time. She is not worthy

  • @chrisclark5204
    @chrisclark5204 5 днів тому +3

    Willing to bet that her friend Claire was not married or in a solid relationship. Also she was so blind/stupid to think that Mark wanted anything more than sex with her.

  • @009AWB
    @009AWB 5 днів тому +2

    05:00. Cynthia has just declared open warfare on your relationship and marriage and you. She has changed from committed wife and partner to an enemy combatant and should be treated as such. Time to get some space and time, lawyer up, separate finances, gather evidence by any means necessary and end this thing ASAP.

  • @richardcox4413
    @richardcox4413 5 днів тому +3

    She says that she's frustrated by his, "Unwillingness to see the bigger picture." However, she clearly doesn't care about his feelings at all. In short she is frustrated by his refusal to let her cheat with no consequences. Attraction is indeed natural. Suggesting that sleeping with other people knowing that it will deeply hurt your spouse, even with their reluctant acceptance, is not natural at all. It's deeply selfish, cruel and emotionally abusive. And as divorce lawyers will confirm. 93% of these so-called open relationships end in divorce. And only 3% of marriages are tried to be open. In summary, there is approximately a 1-in-450 chance that you can have a successful open marriage. It's absolutely ridiculous.

    • @draconisdragonheart4248
      @draconisdragonheart4248 5 днів тому +1

      She is trying to sell this concept to a guy she knows is committed to a monogamous relationship. Aaron deserves better.

    • @richardcox4413
      @richardcox4413 День тому +1

      @@draconisdragonheart4248 She'll probably bake a fantastic cake, using a selection of magical ingredients from all of the world, eat it all in one sitting, and then be shocked when it's not in the fridge the next day. 😆

  • @gxr7777
    @gxr7777 5 днів тому +2

    Funny how they never say this before getting into a committed relationship. Why? Because they know that will end the relationship.

  • @alank9754
    @alank9754 5 днів тому +3

    Why be in a relationship, if you want to sleep with other people.

  • @theinkshrink88
    @theinkshrink88 День тому +1

    OMG🙈 Is there seriously a dude alive who wouldn’t see through this? She’s shamelessly manipulating a free pass to sleep with Mark. Everything else is just military-grade rhetoric BS… you the man Aaron🏆

  • @SDTracyHarper
    @SDTracyHarper 21 годину тому

    The moment any woman wish to talk about an open marriage the marriage is over.

  • @uncle0eric
    @uncle0eric День тому +1

    Have fun with your cats, Cynthia!

  • @J.P_INC.
    @J.P_INC. 4 дні тому

    I'm thinking about a damn thing. I'm straight cutting ties and finding someone who shares my values

    • @theinkshrink88
      @theinkshrink88 День тому

      If the GF says it…IMMEDIATE dealbreaker. If a wife says it, you keep a straight face for a week to hide all your money….

  • @peteh.5142
    @peteh.5142 День тому +1

    Rules for Thee but not for Me.

  • @Behitha
    @Behitha 20 годин тому

    Every relationship experiences challenges, but there is always a way to progress. My marriage was tested by significant problems, but with appropriate help, my wife and I worked through them and strengthened our bond. Solutions are available if you’re ready to put in the effort and work together. Stay hopeful-there’s always a way.

    • @Iyik-t8w
      @Iyik-t8w 20 годин тому

      I’m dealing with major issues in my relationship and can't imagine losing her. I love and miss her dearly and am prepared to do whatever is needed to have her back in my life. Any advice or direction you can offer would mean a lot to me.

    • @Behitha
      @Behitha 20 годин тому

      Moving on from someone you hold dear is invariably challenging, but in my experience, I was guided by a spiritual counselor who prevented the breakdown of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

    • @Iyik-t8w
      @Iyik-t8w 20 годин тому

      Thank you for this advice. I'll promptly start searching for her online. I appreciate it. I'm optimistic that pursuing this approach will also lead to favorable outcomes for me; her absence weighs heavily on me.

    • @Behitha
      @Behitha 20 годин тому

      I promise you will not regret it

  • @michael029138
    @michael029138 5 днів тому +1

    He'd think about it. There is nothing to think about. That relationship is already over. If she brought it up, then she has someone already lined up if she has not already moved on to the next stage. Nothing here to think about, time to break up and move on. Stop being a weak Beta-Male.

  • @patrickh6571
    @patrickh6571 День тому

    7:21 So you're saying you're not carrying his baggage but expect him to carry yours? What an entitled...

  • @popstarprincess123
    @popstarprincess123 5 днів тому

    So it’s good that he’s loyal so she can manipulate him
    Yet she can’t be loyal to anyone but her stupid friend

  • @drl5002
    @drl5002 5 днів тому

    Can't read the last few lines when the what to watch next junk pops up in front of them.

  • @kermitsarlo9191
    @kermitsarlo9191 4 дні тому

    These women are getting a lot more evil and entitled lately. AI has gone dark.

  • @floridashawn7317
    @floridashawn7317 5 днів тому +2

    Blah blah. No need for a long conversation. Just walk away.

    • @Radar-db1bc
      @Radar-db1bc 5 днів тому +1

      I know, right? He needs to go sit on the bed with his chest tight and think about it. Just walk away when it brought up….have some self respect.

  • @Left-2-stray
    @Left-2-stray 3 дні тому

    Haha, was it worth it? Lost something good did we?

  • @ROCKSTAR123620
    @ROCKSTAR123620 16 годин тому

    Dump her 😅😅😅

  • @009AWB
    @009AWB 5 днів тому +1

    05:00. Cynthia has just declared open warfare on your relationship and marriage and you. She has changed from committed wife and partner to an enemy combatant and should be treated as such. Time to get some space and time, lawyer up, separate finances, gather evidence by any means necessary and end this thing ASAP.