My Money Is Not My Husband’s Money, He Pays For Everything, We Are Married The Ghanaian Way - Lady

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  • Опубліковано 15 жов 2024

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  • @jessio4312
    @jessio4312 3 місяці тому +20

    My mom did this ..left me in gh for 15 years. . Now she wants money to be sent to her . Your kids will have no relationship with you and they won't care about you . Raise your own kids

    • @jstartech2812
      @jstartech2812 3 місяці тому +2

      Did you know the struggel she was going through and couldn't have you as a child around that? Just judging parents . You will see one day if your kids find your fault too

    • @jessio4312
      @jessio4312 3 місяці тому

      @tomofosu4081 temporarily not 15 yrs. That's wack. Many gh mothers do this. There is no real bond . Not sure why you are defending this behavior

    • @jstartech2812
      @jstartech2812 3 місяці тому +2

      @@jessio4312 No one is defending this, but could she or did she have papers to bring you? Could she afford a sitter so she went to work? Did you ask her why. Just sitting here shaming your mum also tells me something about you. Where was your dad? It takes two to make a baby. If you did not want grandma where is your dad

    • @jessio4312
      @jessio4312 3 місяці тому

      @jstartech2812 shaming? Accept responsibility for the kids you bring into this world. This is a common practice in African communities. I don't owe you explanation of my mother circumstances. All I know is this practice needs to stop. If you watch the show majority of african women don't raise their own kids. They choose double shift work or leave them in Another country. So just don't have them lol.

  • @gloriasefenyamadzigbe
    @gloriasefenyamadzigbe 3 місяці тому +14

    U see, that archaic mindset that has gotten Africans where we are now, Eventhough she has travelled outside, she still want her children to go through that archaic upbringing 😂😅

    • @kikikeel7695
      @kikikeel7695 3 місяці тому +3

      I'm glad you have brought it up. Self improvement is one of the major keys for developing. Always try and improve upon what's been done before. If you keep doing the same things, you get the same results. If you want change, then you have to be constantly improving

  • @ishowkumasi
    @ishowkumasi 3 місяці тому +17

    Your money is not your husband money but his money is your money, Funny woman, Some of you women are funny with the way you think, Imagine this is your wife or girlfriend, That means she’s only with you because of your money or what you’re doing to her & she will dump you for another man when you go broke & tell you that you’re not her type of man

  • @adelaideokoree-siaw1229
    @adelaideokoree-siaw1229 3 місяці тому +1

    Some parents work too much and do not have time with their kids, always take their kids to Ghana. My kids were born and raised here and do many things for me than kids born in Ghana. The responsibility of raising kids depends on the parents.

  • @NateWeijan
    @NateWeijan 3 місяці тому +3

    So Ghana security,we recruit anyhow
    We Dey use our security Dey play like that

  • @streams8789
    @streams8789 3 місяці тому +3

    Why is she looking up when talking interesting vibes😂😂😂😂 we don’t start national security like that oooooo.

  • @Pansandspice
    @Pansandspice 3 місяці тому +7

    Your kids will resent you for leaving them in Ghana, by the time they get here there will be no bond or love between you, they won’t have time for you because they have lived without you for so long, you will regret it, speaking from experience.

  • @OboyAkyempem-ze2zh
    @OboyAkyempem-ze2zh 3 місяці тому +4

    3y3 wos3 waware, kai, Wokum obiba sunsum, where are you taking this world to, calm down, respect your husband and share everything

  • @MichealDonkor-kd9vu
    @MichealDonkor-kd9vu 3 місяці тому +2

    The married man need to be wise up don’t let the love as your first priority…..?😊

  • @hisholiness2010
    @hisholiness2010 3 місяці тому +7

    46:00, Ghanaian women and money issues in marriage hmmm,no wonder koraaa

  • @josico02
    @josico02 3 місяці тому +2

    how can such a man develop financially well with such a mindset as a wife?
    combining efforts to build wealth you both have to do together at a greater extent 😢

    • @albinasalata9113
      @albinasalata9113 3 місяці тому

      98% of Ghanaian women think like this😂😂😂

  • @mrtourism7998
    @mrtourism7998 3 місяці тому +1

    Great interview

  • @vibewithkobbie4566
    @vibewithkobbie4566 3 місяці тому

    She has agreed to the a traditional woman so every man will be willing to be a traditional man too, the problem with some women nowadays is demanding a traditional man when they themselves are not traditional

  • @karikarijoseph2062
    @karikarijoseph2062 3 місяці тому +1

    DJ is even surprised 😂😂

  • @okweijacob2312
    @okweijacob2312 3 місяці тому +1

    My sister your plans are good I like it

  • @andrewappiah2922
    @andrewappiah2922 3 місяці тому

    God bless you sister 🙏

  • @Deeply248
    @Deeply248 3 місяці тому +1

    I know her very well....she's from Konongo _Patriensa, all what she's saying most are not true. She only completed SHS and she wasn't a nurse. Ntor) nkoaaa🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣...she came here 2 years ago

  • @NicoNico-gu6dk
    @NicoNico-gu6dk 3 місяці тому +1

    This interview is below every interview. She don’t have any input!!! We love u DJ

  • @MichealHubert-yq8wg
    @MichealHubert-yq8wg 3 місяці тому +1

    Dj.before u can save that money it's not easy koraa woo.

  • @AbigailOfosu-heneAsiedu
    @AbigailOfosu-heneAsiedu 3 місяці тому +1

    Is better to apply for thier settlement now before they are 18.

  • @richardop4897
    @richardop4897 3 місяці тому

    And wise woman

  • @WORSHIPSOUNDWITHIDA
    @WORSHIPSOUNDWITHIDA 3 місяці тому +3

    We are learning ❤

  • @THEOTHERBILLIONAIRE
    @THEOTHERBILLIONAIRE 3 місяці тому +1

    😂😂😂 some men Dey marry oooo. Kai what is this😅

  • @richardop4897
    @richardop4897 3 місяці тому

    Very good woman 👩

  • @jasonboamah7831
    @jasonboamah7831 3 місяці тому +1

    Madam do you know the price of the cheapest rolex watches? Ranging from £15k to £100k

    • @PortiaAcheampon
      @PortiaAcheampon 3 місяці тому +3

      The Walthamstow Market one maybe 😅

    • @samuelquaye5325
      @samuelquaye5325 3 місяці тому +1

      Doesn't matter, this means even the little, she appreciates. Better than most ladies who are obsessed with iPhones.

    • @pappykwabee5296
      @pappykwabee5296 3 місяці тому

      Portia Loll hahahha Walthamstow paa don't be cheeky 😝

    • @asamoahebenezer2061
      @asamoahebenezer2061 3 місяці тому

      Full banku😂😂😂

    • @baduconstance2239
      @baduconstance2239 3 місяці тому

      This interview is giving Oseikrom Sikanii ft Jay Bhad 😂😂😂

  • @giftymcfadyen1447
    @giftymcfadyen1447 3 місяці тому +1

    The beginning of her story look boring.

  • @MichealHubert-yq8wg
    @MichealHubert-yq8wg 3 місяці тому +1

    She is saying the truth. D.j

  • @abigailannor5127
    @abigailannor5127 3 місяці тому

    Is never true that when you raised your kids in Africa is the best,such children we call them "born again"when they start misbehaving it will shock you.I have worked with some people who were born in UK and till date their behave still shock me,they have been well trained with Africa values,so it doesn't matter raising your kids here.Leave your nurturing of your kids in the hands of the Lord and do your best that's all.

  • @kenhans
    @kenhans 3 місяці тому

    Lol. Weiii. To each his own though..😂😂

  • @egsie
    @egsie 3 місяці тому

    only your neighbours can testify

  • @karikarijoseph2062
    @karikarijoseph2062 3 місяці тому +1

    Some women are just stingy.... Hmm

  • @phrankho
    @phrankho 3 місяці тому

    Someone’s son 😢

  • @kojoelvis1124
    @kojoelvis1124 3 місяці тому

    DJ Akutuase is notorious for manhandling corpses oo’ that village is trending now

  • @linablack9908
    @linablack9908 3 місяці тому

    Wen it comes to take care of man and home we akua are number 1 And we take good care of home, but don't come close to our money 😅😅😅

  • @mohammedyussif7895
    @mohammedyussif7895 3 місяці тому

    Some navrongo ladies like money papa 😅I was there for 4yrs masa they will show u shage 😢some of them even dating multiple men especially a guy with motor or car hmmm

  • @Deeply248
    @Deeply248 3 місяці тому

    Eiiiiii anomdwa paaa nie🤣🤣🤣🤣....if it's true then ur husband is dieing

  • @damoahlydia1284
    @damoahlydia1284 3 місяці тому

    Very good one ❤❤

  • @ayanidun9535
    @ayanidun9535 3 місяці тому +5

    I believe that when we marry we should do everything together including putting your money together to do things.
    We should be each other’s best friends.
    There should not be anything between the marriage.
    Only God should be in the middle of the marriage.

    • @D2047h
      @D2047h 3 місяці тому +1

      😂that's the ideal oo but......wowc hc aa na asem afa woase

    • @jasonboamah7831
      @jasonboamah7831 3 місяці тому +3

      It's because of her mindset on money in marriage that's why abibifuo are not wealthy. All the financial stress is on the man

    • @hisholiness2010
      @hisholiness2010 3 місяці тому +1

      You are right but Ghanaian women don't accept this

    • @ayanidun9535
      @ayanidun9535 3 місяці тому

      @@hisholiness2010I am a Ghanaian woman, from Eastern Region of Ghana 🇬🇭 but live in Canada 🇨🇦

    • @hisholiness2010
      @hisholiness2010 3 місяці тому

      @@ayanidun9535 Nice one

  • @elizabethdarko2591
    @elizabethdarko2591 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤

  • @stephenjoke7965
    @stephenjoke7965 3 місяці тому +3

    DJ.. FOR REAL DON'T TURN YOUR WIFE AS ROOMMATE IN ABROAD LIKE 50/50 BIL IF YOU WANT TO MARRIAGE A WOMEN NOT BECAUSE SHE IS FROM AFRICA. KNOW MATTER HOW MUCH YOUR WIFE MAKING. AS A MAN PAID YOUR BILLS IN FULL ESPECIALLY RENT AND ELECTRICITY BILLS AND ALWAYS FOOD SHOULD IN THE HOUSE WITHOUT WOMEN'S MONEY..THAT IS REAL MAN TO MARRIAGE A WOMEN..SIMPLE EVEN HEAVEN WILL BE THE SAME

    • @emmanuelcrayon7730
      @emmanuelcrayon7730 3 місяці тому +2

      Continue with this primitive mindset until a woman you are paying everything for still takes over a property you solely financed when the relationship goes sour. The only reason women in Ghana barely contribute financially in a marriage/relationship is cuz of unemployment. It makes no sense to work, get paid and keep everything to yourself expecting your better half to fully finance the household. This is not marriage but enslavement. If women cannot be partners then there is no need for marriage. Keep being ignorant until you finally realise that the laws in western countries do not recognise African values or mindset. Regardless of whether your wife contributes or not, she is legally entitled to a percentage of your wealth if the marriage crashes which is most likely to happen abroad. Your only saving grace will be if she does not siphon off her saved money where you can also use the laws to claim it when the relationship breaks down and you earn less.

    • @ishowkumasi
      @ishowkumasi 3 місяці тому +4

      Are you doing the same thing you’re preaching????….
      Do you think it’s easy to do all this by yourself abroad, Don’t start what you can’t finish, Until you go broke that’s when you’ll start seeing the true colors of your wife, She go run leave you when you go broke, Sit there & be saying anything

    • @EnKaySciFi
      @EnKaySciFi 3 місяці тому +5

      Be there and foot all the bills at home while she takes her savings to do big projects in Ghana. It's only simps who are scared to let their wives contribute in the house. Maybe if you earn 3 times her income, then i might understand. But not when y'all earn almost the same.

  • @nanao8536
    @nanao8536 3 місяці тому +5

    This is definitely your most boring and annoying interview so far.

    • @MarthaYeboahPayne
      @MarthaYeboahPayne 3 місяці тому

      I was just about to say😌
      I just wasted about 1hr of my life😢😢

  • @Stylher23
    @Stylher23 3 місяці тому +1

    SMH

  • @MarthaYeboahPayne
    @MarthaYeboahPayne 3 місяці тому

    😂😂😂

  • @phrankho
    @phrankho 3 місяці тому

    Someone’s son 😢