I have repeated this part: "If a man is too afraid of approaching you, he's not on your level." True! These are the ones who are bold on text and when you meet in person, they just stare waiting for you to talk and do everything.
I love this one. Thank you so much Benjamin for pointing out this very fact. Also, this thing of playing hard to get sometimes you ladies are taking it too far. So there is this lady I was interested in and apparently she was interested in me too. So i tried calling her five or six different times and she could not pick up my calls. So I assumed that she is not interested and I moved on and got and started dating another lady. Then the lady who refused to pick up my calls was like “why did I give up so easily, didn’t you know that I was playing hard to get”. She told me she was playing hard to get and that I should have tried harder. Honestly, I have not time for such nonsense. If you are a good virtuous woman, I already know that, you playing hard to get does not make you any better. But kama wewe ni mang’aa, playing hard to get does not suddenly make you virtuous. Just be nice and have the wisdom to play your cards wisely of playing hard to get while not putting off men and seeming to be mean.
So you should look up to a wrong man? Feminine, warm, lovely is what a woman should be so then what should this warm feminine and lovely woman expect in a man? Imagine wearing a costume that you are not comfortable in. . Honestly some things are too much for women. It's like the world expects women not to have expectations but they are mandated to meet expectations of others ( men). Sounds sad. Imagine that you should allow a man lead you even when he presents zero leadership skills. But women are still expected to be calm whether happy or unhappy. Honestly l have failed to understand what society takes women for. I love Benjamin Zulu so much for once l sense that the compass am expecting to show me direction is faulty l will not allow it to guide me. That's it.
Why should a lady be with a man with zero leadership skills to begin with? That’s what Benjamin is teaching against in this video. You got it all wrong. And to be honest, being feminine and warm comes naturally for a healthy woman.
I have repeated this part: "If a man is too afraid of approaching you, he's not on your level." True! These are the ones who are bold on text and when you meet in person, they just stare waiting for you to talk and do everything.
So beautifuly said. Took notes and shared with friends.
Benjamin Zuulu Asante. You are such a blessing and we love you here in Uganda🎉
Most times when I watch Mr Zulu's vidéos, it's like it shouldn't end😊 I'm so addicted.
Same here!! Grateful that he streams them everyday. Too much to learn from this wise man.
Facts told. You approach him as a lady, he ready to chase him down till the end of time.
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Poit taken ✍
How we finish is what we will be remembered for 💯
I love this one. Thank you so much Benjamin for pointing out this very fact. Also, this thing of playing hard to get sometimes you ladies are taking it too far. So there is this lady I was interested in and apparently she was interested in me too. So i tried calling her five or six different times and she could not pick up my calls.
So I assumed that she is not interested and I moved on and got and started dating another lady. Then the lady who refused to pick up my calls was like “why did I give up so easily, didn’t you know that I was playing hard to get”. She told me she was playing hard to get and that I should have tried harder.
Honestly, I have not time for such nonsense. If you are a good virtuous woman, I already know that, you playing hard to get does not make you any better. But kama wewe ni mang’aa, playing hard to get does not suddenly make you virtuous. Just be nice and have the wisdom to play your cards wisely of playing hard to get while not putting off men and seeming to be mean.
You’ve put it so well
Your guidance,,, really keep guiding me on being intentional on switching to my feminine side everyday
treating your conversation like a dance . thanks guys
Beginning set the temple,the endings set the legacy!🎉
What does it mean when a man calls a lady 'an iron-lady' ? Is it supposed to be a compliment? Or that lady needs to be more feminine 😅
Usiwai daganywa, men don't like independent women 😅 soften up kidogo
Thanks coach,HV been following you,am so educated,n opened up
Thanks coach
The character of the human is defined by others and self definition is deceiving oneself.
So you should look up to a wrong man? Feminine, warm, lovely is what a woman should be so then what should this warm feminine and lovely woman expect in a man? Imagine wearing a costume that you are not comfortable in. . Honestly some things are too much for women. It's like the world expects women not to have expectations but they are mandated to meet expectations of others ( men). Sounds sad. Imagine that you should allow a man lead you even when he presents zero leadership skills. But women are still expected to be calm whether happy or unhappy. Honestly l have failed to understand what society takes women for. I love Benjamin Zulu so much for once l sense that the compass am expecting to show me direction is faulty l will not allow it to guide me. That's it.
Why should a lady be with a man with zero leadership skills to begin with? That’s what Benjamin is teaching against in this video. You got it all wrong.
And to be honest, being feminine and warm comes naturally for a healthy woman.
Can I let a boyfriend to lead or a husband?
Your boyfriend is your future husband no difference there if he cant be your hubby don't waste time run