I love this series, also anyone going through sad and depressive moments I’m sending virtual hugs to you!! Keep fighting it, a good day will come out of it!
@@OliverGreen2Real if they at the point where they have made up their mind to commit suiside then it would be hard for you to stop it anyway. Remember just because the person has the thought that the world is better without them in it, doesn't mean they have a plan of action. If you hear a plan... You have a very short time to save the person's life.
@@latanyasingh9248 yes your right even if someone has tried a couple times to kill them self and you try your best to be there and involve professionals , family . Friends etc they will still find a way until they maybe realise life will get easier it’s just somehow pulling yourself out of that hole and them bad thoughts
I think the whole culture needs to understand the difference between being sad for a few days and depression. Certain people are sad or angry and then say it’s depression. It’s not that!!!
I agree. Depression is a long term of feeling emptiness everyday with no value or meaning to life. Sadness is just feeling alone or just not at your best in the moment as you most likely have nothing to do in that time period.
Lol... I think you might want to research the topic a bit more, variations exist across the spectrum from mild to severe, manic depression for one has highs and lows, I've struggled with it for years and am considered high functioning so while my attitude may or may not be affected or effected, my work never really suffered any diminishes. Roughly 280 mil suffer from some form and many go unreported and many recover. So hard to say either of your statements are close to necessarily true, and sounds like you both may as well suffer from depression symptoms.
@@Damnitjim7 Ofcourse but what I meant was when people say ‘oh I can’t find the eggs in the fridge oh I’m depressed now’. I think people just throw the word around
That was an elite level play by Filly about the friend he caught feelings for (2nd and most recent one). She's probably going to watch this episode (being a real friend) and know she was on the phone with him just before he had a shoot. If she clocks it was her and presses him, could be a win, or if she clocks and ignores it, still - he's managed to avoid having an awkward exchange but still left knowing where they both stand. Either way, by having it on record, he's let his feelings known without ever having to breach that friendship line, furthermore if she isn't on it - he can always fall back on it and say it wasn't her he meant. Football Heritage.
The toxic friendship piece: sometimes u gotta ghost, I had a friend & told them why they’re toxic. They promised to change then went back to old ways and we went through that same cycle 2-3 times. At some point you just gotta ghost they won’t get it
Solid advice on the professional help seeking. I'm a Student Psychologist in Training and it's so important to seek the professional help as the consistent base for help.
When you have had a shit day watch theses 2 any of their videos and it will cheer you up, the vibe these 2 have is just amazing, their laughs are contagious too!
Filly super surprised me on this episode, it’s mad cool to get greater insight by listening onto these guy’s thoughts through conversation, guy’s an onion; got layers man. Darkest a real one too, i enjoyed this a lot
recently i experienced for the first time in my life a period of time i’d classify myself as depressed. what helped was my friends and family. making fun memories with friends and getting out of my own head and solitude helped so much. i was honest with them on how i felt and they were there for me and helped me make some memories i treasure
Loved the honesty in this video, my guys be the realest man on UA-cam! Never be afraid to ask for help peeps, even the most hilarious happiest people you see go through the rough time to time ☺️ we all in this crazy ass world together 💪🏼
Need a video of filly and someone talking about the low moments/ depression. He touched on it abit when he said he’s alone at home etc but I feel it would be a great video for many who suffer in silence. Just a thought.
Darkest man's off beat comedy is what helps me with my depression.............his random lines jolt me back into reality. When he said it's the little things that get him back to reality...... it resonated bro. Two lines that saved me many times: Jack grealish- blue story and when you shout "that's facts you fucking 40year old" to HP
i had a guy friend i became very close with. i realized he was into me but we didn’t have a serious conversation and kept dancing around the subject. ended up ruining our relationship bc we both interpreted the dancing around the subject to be “oh that person is not into me” now we are not close and it does suck when u see them with new people but you have HAVE HAVE to have the conversation if you truly like the person. don’t think “oh i don’t want to ruin the relationship” bc trust me it will get ruined either way. don’t talk about it your harbored feelings will fuxk with how you guys hang out, talk, your actions towards them, etc. unconsciously u will make decisions based off of ur feelings (like trying to make them jealous) take the risk babes
You 2 Kings Are Light In The Darkness!! I Love The Beautiful Heartfelt Energy Filly Always Brings! And The Wholesome Grounding & Realness Darkest Brings! Nuff Love To The Both Of You Everytime. 🖤🖤
Toxic friend section: Just be straight forward & say we are done. I had an extremely toxic friend when I started college & it lasted a year & a bit. I'm the quite one that just took it & just let it slide until my other friendsss that we shared, messages me & kept mentioning "why you let her treat you like that?" That was when I opened my eyes to her slick shit that honestly I just didn't realize was always to put me down to make her feel better. It was always a "Nah he didn't message you fuck him but you know he probably just didn't like you're outfit maybe you should try changing it to fit your body type. Sometimes your fat be showing" real convo. Mind you I was a 18yr old from a super religious family that wore jeans, long sleeves or even just a shoulder length top w/ a cover up [still cute though]. I started hanging out less & told her I'm busy & she didn't get the message. I told her finally I'm done, she apologized but I was done having to explain myself & it was the best decision in my life
i never kept a male bestie bcs they liked me or had other intentions when approaching me to the point one dude gf got a position at our job to harass me
I do it aswell. For me I don't think it has to do with anything, I just can't sit completely still so it feels good to shake my leg or move my fingers etc. It just feels gooooood
Maybe it's just heavy sadness and not depression. Y'all clock that depression is a mental illness? The line is thin, learn more about it before claiming something you don't got fam. Love to everyone suffering from depression tho 💜💜
Literally that’s what I was saying people be out here claiming that they have depression as a trend nowadays not knowing what depression really means and what it does to someone
Filly’s emotional intelligence is something that isn’t always talked about, man’s a pure soul.
He and Darkest complement each other 100%
I'm not even exaggerating when I say he is the most genuine person I know
@@zukhanyemadubane5084…
Filly may not be the most academic, but he’s extremely wise/emotionally intelligent 👌🏾
Straight facts
How many times will u people comment this
@@polot4482 happens when your eager for likes and replies
@@polot4482 don’t disrespect the real Serena Williams you baboon 😤🤣
@@richardzzz_ oh yeah she said in a recent interview she likes rocking the default pfp
As soon as darkest says “I’ll be real” you know a legendary one liner is coming
Filly just snaps and says the most serious shit…car runs on petrol not love
I would honestly listen to a Filly and Darkest podcast. The two of them have so much wisdom 💕
I love this series, also anyone going through sad and depressive moments I’m sending virtual hugs to you!! Keep fighting it, a good day will come out of it!
Thank you :)
You’re welcome!!😙😙
thank you and i hope you’re okay too!
awh, this was so cute, i hope you have lovely day too !!
Also with Jesus things get better because he cares for you 🫶🏾
How to help a friend with depression... Just be there when they need you. Don't overstep, don't push anything, but wait until they reach out to you.
Can’t really answer that question if u don’t know the individual personally tbh
@@polot4482 I'm speaking from experience... If you are a mental health specialist you can answer anything about mental health.
Sometimes if you don’t push sometimes it’s to late for them to reach out as they would of already taken there life
@@OliverGreen2Real if they at the point where they have made up their mind to commit suiside then it would be hard for you to stop it anyway. Remember just because the person has the thought that the world is better without them in it, doesn't mean they have a plan of action. If you hear a plan... You have a very short time to save the person's life.
@@latanyasingh9248 yes your right even if someone has tried a couple times to kill them self and you try your best to be there and involve professionals , family . Friends etc they will still find a way until they maybe realise life will get easier it’s just somehow pulling yourself out of that hole and them bad thoughts
Filly’s huge giddy grin with the little clap of the hands gets me every time😂
I think u in love
Nah filly needs to know that he's smart, he shouldn't let the general knowledge vids define his intelligence
This is spot on🎯
Facts 💯
I think the whole culture needs to understand the difference between being sad for a few days and depression. Certain people are sad or angry and then say it’s depression. It’s not that!!!
I agree. Depression is a long term of feeling emptiness everyday with no value or meaning to life. Sadness is just feeling alone or just not at your best in the moment as you most likely have nothing to do in that time period.
Lol... I think you might want to research the topic a bit more, variations exist across the spectrum from mild to severe, manic depression for one has highs and lows, I've struggled with it for years and am considered high functioning so while my attitude may or may not be affected or effected, my work never really suffered any diminishes. Roughly 280 mil suffer from some form and many go unreported and many recover. So hard to say either of your statements are close to necessarily true, and sounds like you both may as well suffer from depression symptoms.
@@Damnitjim7 Ofcourse but what I meant was when people say ‘oh I can’t find the eggs in the fridge oh I’m depressed now’. I think people just throw the word around
@@moaliize i'm pretty sure when someone says that they are joking😕
@@Janaee.. you’d be surprised
That was an elite level play by Filly about the friend he caught feelings for (2nd and most recent one). She's probably going to watch this episode (being a real friend) and know she was on the phone with him just before he had a shoot. If she clocks it was her and presses him, could be a win, or if she clocks and ignores it, still - he's managed to avoid having an awkward exchange but still left knowing where they both stand. Either way, by having it on record, he's let his feelings known without ever having to breach that friendship line, furthermore if she isn't on it - he can always fall back on it and say it wasn't her he meant. Football Heritage.
Danm bro thinking to much 😂😏
@@aminali2717 😂😂😂
These two are my spirit animal 😭
All jokes aside they gave solid advice for most of these dilemmas una 👊🏾
The toxic friendship piece: sometimes u gotta ghost, I had a friend & told them why they’re toxic. They promised to change then went back to old ways and we went through that same cycle 2-3 times. At some point you just gotta ghost they won’t get it
Philly always makes me feel happy
Filly
Solid advice on the professional help seeking. I'm a Student Psychologist in Training and it's so important to seek the professional help as the consistent base for help.
Straight up , filly ain't academically switched on by paper but when ya listen to these things here , he is intelligent still.
Darkest got that spot on.. living with depression is a lifestyle. It’s literally is! It’s a daily ting no just a phase
real we learn to live with it lol it’s the time period that classifies it
When you have had a shit day watch theses 2 any of their videos and it will cheer you up, the vibe these 2 have is just amazing, their laughs are contagious too!
Filly super surprised me on this episode, it’s mad cool to get greater insight by listening onto these guy’s thoughts through conversation, guy’s an onion; got layers man. Darkest a real one too, i enjoyed this a lot
Filly is a smart guy.
Darkest is amazing
The two together, 100 % compatible
Just need to remember being sad for some time doesn’t equal being depressed.
recently i experienced for the first time in my life a period of time i’d classify myself as depressed. what helped was my friends and family. making fun memories with friends and getting out of my own head and solitude helped so much. i was honest with them on how i felt and they were there for me and helped me make some memories i treasure
This is beautiful Those friends and family members you have are a huge blessing ❤️ I’d be grateful for them everyday
Filly is the most genuine person in this world no one can convince me otherwise, I'm not even exaggerating.
I think filly has got such a beautiful soul... I would love to be with someone like him ❤️
Grateful for Filly on this app tbh, mans literally puts a smile on my face🥺❤️
Darkest saying “Mahal kita” aaauuuggghhh melts my ❤️ heart
this is the most serious I've seen filly, big love man
Damn both off their communication skills are on point 👏🏾
Loved the honesty in this video, my guys be the realest man on UA-cam! Never be afraid to ask for help peeps, even the most hilarious happiest people you see go through the rough time to time ☺️ we all in this crazy ass world together 💪🏼
Watching these boys makes my depression go away
Darkest is so fine😭😭😭
Absolutely!!!! 💯
their chemistry bettween these two is crazy
Need a video of filly and someone talking about the low moments/ depression. He touched on it abit when he said he’s alone at home etc but I feel it would be a great video for many who suffer in silence. Just a thought.
Darkest man's off beat comedy is what helps me with my depression.............his random lines jolt me back into reality. When he said it's the little things that get him back to reality...... it resonated bro.
Two lines that saved me many times:
Jack grealish- blue story and when you shout "that's facts you fucking 40year old" to HP
I love this combo! They're great together
i had a guy friend i became very close with. i realized he was into me but we didn’t have a serious conversation and kept dancing around the subject. ended up ruining our relationship bc we both interpreted the dancing around the subject to be “oh that person is not into me” now we are not close and it does suck when u see them with new people but you have HAVE HAVE to have the conversation if you truly like the person. don’t think “oh i don’t want to ruin the relationship” bc trust me it will get ruined either way. don’t talk about it your harbored feelings will fuxk with how you guys hang out, talk, your actions towards them, etc. unconsciously u will make decisions based off of ur feelings (like trying to make them jealous) take the risk babes
Aww man, I love how these guys are so real...This series is dope 🤌🏼
This sounds mad but I'm kinda glad other people get sad for no reason aswell...ngl I thought I was mad weird for feeling like that
filly is everything 😭😭♥️
And is🥰
Filly looking like a deliveroo delivery guy with that top 🚴♂️😂 love these two
You 2 Kings Are Light In The Darkness!! I Love The Beautiful Heartfelt Energy Filly Always Brings! And The Wholesome Grounding & Realness Darkest Brings! Nuff Love To The Both Of You Everytime. 🖤🖤
6:52 - 7:03 killed me😭😭 Filly was reminiscing
“Cars run on petrol not love”…Filly 2022😁
this made me see a different side to Filly and i like it
6:52 has confirmed Filly as my favourite
Toxic friend section:
Just be straight forward & say we are done. I had an extremely toxic friend when I started college & it lasted a year & a bit. I'm the quite one that just took it & just let it slide until my other friendsss that we shared, messages me & kept mentioning "why you let her treat you like that?" That was when I opened my eyes to her slick shit that honestly I just didn't realize was always to put me down to make her feel better. It was always a "Nah he didn't message you fuck him but you know he probably just didn't like you're outfit maybe you should try changing it to fit your body type. Sometimes your fat be showing" real convo. Mind you I was a 18yr old from a super religious family that wore jeans, long sleeves or even just a shoulder length top w/ a cover up [still cute though]. I started hanging out less & told her I'm busy & she didn't get the message. I told her finally I'm done, she apologized but I was done having to explain myself & it was the best decision in my life
I love you in Swahili is nakupenda 😁..
Both of y'all are great.vibes on vibes
filly is so real i vibe w that hard cmon
Is Filly wearing Deliveroo drip?
😂😂😂😂🤦🏼♀️
These bruddas are on another level of funny 🤣🤣🤣💯💚
Darkest said, “mahal kita” that's a Filipino way of saying “i love you” and I'm from Philippines by the way. So darkest, that's cool fam.
Filly Was In His Bag Here 🔥🔥
"Cuddles over blows"
i put cuddles over blows 😭😭😭
😭😭🤣🤣
Filly is a king
i never kept a male bestie bcs they liked me or had other intentions when approaching me to the point one dude gf got a position at our job to harass me
Pearl of wisdom 🙃
Cuddles over blows is crazyyyyy
You see that leg shake Darkest does? I do that too.. what does that mean? Is it caused by anxiety or it’s just something we involuntarily do?
it can be both tbh
I do it aswell. For me I don't think it has to do with anything, I just can't sit completely still so it feels good to shake my leg or move my fingers etc. It just feels gooooood
He has social anxiety, he’s said it before
I use talking to people too to beat sad feelings
Maybe it's just heavy sadness and not depression. Y'all clock that depression is a mental illness? The line is thin, learn more about it before claiming something you don't got fam. Love to everyone suffering from depression tho 💜💜
Literally that’s what I was saying people be out here claiming that they have depression as a trend nowadays not knowing what depression really means and what it does to someone
@@kiii143 facts 100% it isn’t a joke
@rose_x Absolutely Rose, couldn't have put it better 💯💯
@@kiii143 RIGHT!!!? Very much abused mental state
Eti,"that's Swahili"😂😂. I love u in Swahili is NAKUPENDA. Respect guys; keep up the good work.❤from🇹🇿🇹🇿
Yeah dont catch feelings becaus it proper fuxks up relationships
I can tell this is a great video even before watching it
A car runs on petrol not love- yung filly 21st august 2022
Friendship doesn't take advantage of the other
New footasylum upload, it’s a great day guys.
Darkest😍😍😍hes so beautiful
‼️
Darkest said i love you in Tagalog!! Shoutouts from the Philippines!
Not Filly looking like a Deliveroo rider
Filly runs uk UA-cam right now
Nah filly droppig gems
Filly's laugh makes my day fr
dooo more of these!!
Cuddles over Blows is the motto for 2022
Im just waiting for this to turn to podcast
Fully said he could make someone dumb. I would love to see that.
yall skin is cleannnn!!!
Both y’all great people
You man need a podcast
We need more of this fashoooo!!!!
love this duo
Filipe is an acquired taste ey.
the way filly was talking about the friend he was feeling, is he in love or am i being dramatic??
Probably just wants to jeet
this series is just too good 🤣
Filly looks like a deliveroo delivery driver😭😭😭
WAIT how does Darkest know "mahal kita"??? 😳 I'm Filipino and I got SOOO SURPRISED LOL 😭❤
How do these two not follow each other???!! Y'aaaall😢
Claim your "here within an hour" ticket right here🏆✔️.
Thx
Thx
ty
Here with you my brodda
Here
Why did it feel it when philly was talking about locking of toxic friends that he was talking about LV general
Loving those series 😍 👌
One second and im already dying laughing
Bro this is fire I already know
Ngl, best combo you boys. Big up 👏🏽
Broooo darkest is smart!!!!
6:44 filly loading..
14:44 filly's face😭
Why is filly looking like some deliveroo driver
When filly zoned out😂😂
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