Dear Mr Angry Biracial, thank you for all you wisdom. You helped me out of a bad spot with a modern male by highlighting some realities in dating Kangs as you like to call them. I have long wondered why the ppl who swear to love me almost seem like they hate me at the drop of a hat. You were so right about their entitlement regardless of whether they are doing right by you as a man. Kangs are simply dangerous and I feel safer being aware of what to look out for. The advice you give is priceless and saves lives. It saved mine. Don't stop what you are doing, as a father figure is needed in our community as a whole. Can't wait to see you spread your message even further. ❤
@@silververnallbells191 Exactly, it was his choice where as the lady in the video trying to make him responsible for all the rest of her kids. And if the guy was with you, kids come as a packaged deal, so there is some obligation there if he is in the relationship with the mother, though not as much as a biological parent. The guy in the video is a baby daddy. They're not even together, so he has absolutely no obligation to feed her other kids.
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If he doesn’t want to feed the other kids, just pick your child up and take him out to eat. How does he think the other children will feel watching their sibling eat Mc Donald’s and they don’t have any. He could have bought a pack of meat for what he spent and she could’ve feed all the children.
@@otsdrselse1163 this argument is so aggravating because it’s not about those other kids being his it’s about common decency and having a heart. Do you know how many me take care of kids they know aren’t theirs and not out of obligation but because they are actual decent human beings that know we’re supposed to look out for each other regardless? I’ve feed plants of kids that weren’t mine because what person with a soul would actually watch a kid go hungry?
@@apeeples22 Why didn't she feed her kids? He is responsible for his child period. He could of taken his son out so the other children don't have to see it. I usually agree with him but this one isn't it. Her attitude is horrible.
Sorry but her other children have their own dads. She has a lot of nerve expecting him to take care of children that aren’t his and that he didn’t adopt. She’s in the wrong for trying to make him responsible for her bad decisions.
So does she, having babies by multiple black men is just as idiotic and sickening as BM, why would you do that especially now that we know how black men abandon their children, why are black women still having multiple babies by poor men, I just don’t understand it.
The guy in the first video is trying to take a cheap shot at his ex, but in reality, what he is doing is setting his bio-child up to be ostracized and bullied by their siblings. Kids don't understand how to logically regulate their emotions so, in most cases, when they see that a situation isn't "fair" they act out. And when they act out, they usually direct their negative behavior toward the individual they believe is being treated better...in this case, it would be three children bullying, leaving out and picking on the child who got McDonald's.
Not really. I and all 3 of my siblings are half siblings and we all understood that our fathers are only responsible for whichever child belonged to them. So if they showed up to only give something to their child in front of the other siblings, we never got upset about it. Idk if it’s because we never seen it as a competition or that we just knew that it wasn’t our father and didn’t expect that man to do anything for us since he wasn’t our father. But the only reason one kid would be bullied and ostracized by the other siblings is if the father of the sibling being resented would go out of his way to blatantly make it known that he doesn’t like his child’s siblings.
@@anonnnymousthegreatIf all of the other kids’ dads are in their lives, then not only are they not jealous, but they are excited for their sibling(s) when one dad shows up. But I would say that the mom should be regulating this better. Require that dad take the his son out of the house to treat.
@@melstarr1864the mom is trying to regulate the situation. That’s why she asked him not to bring food for only one kid. The father is causing problems on purpose not only for the mother but for his son as well.
That second dude needs to be behind bars And I've never wondered why I'm lonely because I've never been lonely. I value my peace over "settling" for any man
Becareful children remember who fed them & who didnt. The fact this mother complained means she needed food for the other kids. If you help children, they will remember & help others.
If he starts bringing all the kids food , she’ll expect him to always pick up the other dads slack not just with food but with everything. It’s like the old saying goes you give an inch some will take a mile. He’s doing right…
Exactly. She wants to put the responsibility of all four of his kids on him. The other kids have sh!++y dads, and he wants him to take the full responsibility for them. I am sorry but I am on his side on this one, though I can understand how uncomfortable and guilty the kid probably feels eating McDonalds in front of his hungry siblings.
Right … then it won’t just be McDonald’s. When it’s time for school and he decides to buy his child school clothes, she’ll say why didn’t you buy everybody some new clothes. They don’t have any. It won’t stop at the food. Anywhere the other fathers slack off she’ll make him think it’s his responsibility to fill in the gaps… he’s correct in setting boundaries…
It's so inexpensive to buy 3 burgers, 3 fries, and 3 drinks for 3 children. That's about $9 plus tax. That's how broke these men are. Yes, this is petty and that's why women have checked out.
Tbh, I can't really fault a man for not wanting to bring food to kids that are not his. I understand it may make they others feel a way but on the other side her kids that aren't his are a different story. UNLESS he has chosen to live with her. At that point you are a father to all.
For the first story, the question is: did she ask him if he would get some groceries for the children versus him just bringing over something to eat. If she wasn't specific, I would say that it was on her to have specified that she needed some food for the children. Personally, I think that the man should have taken his child out with him and fed him before he brought the child back to the mother. However, if they were a couple living together or were married, then can I see her point of view. As I see it, the man seems to be taking responsibility for the child he has with her. Otherwise, she needs to take her other children's father(s) to court for child support as it seems to me that she hasn't done anything about it and is "content" to try to make ends meet with just receiving public assistance. For the second story, I hope that she was able to find out where he moved to and took him to court for the damages. The third story, the guy has it twisted. He's living in a fantasy world. He's not an alpha male to think that he's a 1.
😒🫣 I'm with the dude on this. Dad should have picked him up though. She needs to call all the other dudes she had kids with.🤦🏾♀️ They're not his kids and he didn't adopt them.🤷🏾♀️
Why are you with the dude? The mother said she asked him in the past not to do the very behavior he’s doing. He’s in the wrong. He causing his sons other siblings to have rivalry with him. The mother is trying to prevent this from happening within her household and he needs to obey what she wants to occur AT HER HOUSE. He needs to setup a court order to get proper visitation so he can take his son out with him, instead of coming to her house causing problems.
@@apaddy5390 "he needs to obey what she wants to occur AT HER HOUSE." - Then she shouldn't ask him over to her house saying to come feed your kid. She's the one causing problems by 1. Having so many kids w/different fathers 2. asking a man she knows isn't going to take care of kids that aren't his to take care of kids that are his. The sibling rivalry is not his problem especially since kids do that anyway. His only problem is feeding HIS kid.
If he were married to her , I could see it. He’s not obligated to her other kids at all… he could bring the others food as a courtesy but She should make sure they all eat. She created that awkward situation by having children with multiple men shes not married to. Trust if he brought all of the kids food once she would expect it every time. If they were married then yes, they would be a package deal. But he wasn’t wrong. If she didn’t have her food stamps yet she needs to have the other kids father bring them food.
He needed to just take his kid to eat. I'm not mad at this. He's taking care of his kid. It's not on him to take care of the other kids. Sorry, not sorry. She needs to call the other fathers or put them on child support. He should have just picked his kid up and taken them out to eat.
Yea, getting food for all four shouldn’t be expected but it isn’t fair in the eyes of the children. I agree with you, He should take his son on an outing.
I agree. I say this because i’m a woman who is from a blended family. Like i have 3 other siblings and all of them are my half siblings (2 of my siblings and i have the same mother, but all three of us have different fathers….and 1 of my siblings and i have the same father but different mothers). I completely understood when my siblings fathers only attended to whatever sibling belonged to them and my siblings understood as well. Plus, i would feel awkward as a child seeing a man who is not my father treating me as if i am his child when i know he’s not my father, not married or in an active relationship with my mother and i don’t have a close relationship with him. I’m going to sound like a redpiller and say that the mother should’ve taken more precaution when she decided to lay down with multiple men and knew that if she ended up with children from different men, that the father of each child is only responsible for the child that belongs to him.
@@anonnnymousthegreat Nope, you are absolutely right. Nothing redpill about it. It is shameful to have multiple baby daddies. And I say the same thing about men. Even more so because they can get multiple women pregnant. Seems to me that the kids are the ones being punished. Unless this man is married to her or even together and living together, then he isn't obligated to take care of any other kid but his own. But he could take the kid out instead of having her hungry children watch their sibling eat in front of them.
It’s about not creating contention among those kids. It IS his job to improve his son’s life to the extent he can and exercise a little emotional intelligence. Buy a frozen pizza those kids can share. Then he is appreciated among his siblings and not a focus of jealousy. Kids are hungry, feed kids. Even your X’s. Understanding that shouldn’t be hard.
@@1loveharpo Man, I disagree hard with that. Unless they were married or living together, that man is not obligated to feed kids that aren't his. They are not even together. He is the baby daddy being responsible for HIS own child. I don't understand punishing this man for not taking up the responsibility to her other bds aren't doing. The situation she and her kids are in is the fault of her and those other men she had babies by, not the man who actually stepped up to take care of the kid he had by her.
Ladies stop getting pregnant by multiple men. Stop being surprised that men don’t want to take care of other men’s kids. Stop expecting dusty men to treat you and your kids with more respect than you treat yourself. The proper way to handle the first situation: Thank you for bringing your son something to eat. However, so that he won’t be singled out allow him to have his meal in the car with you. Next time just pick him up to take him to have the meal with you at the restaurant. Wait here I will go get him. Then proceed to call the fathers of your other children and ask when they can come bring their children something to eat. He even asked her to bring his son out so that he could eat in the car and she said no. 🤦🏽♀️
I agree so hard with this. She is mad that he only bought something for HIS child, and is mad that that child will have food to eat in front of them. But she said no to him taking his own kid to eat in the car? Make it make sense.
Well, that's what happens when you do the baby daddy thing. It is not a matter of not wanting to help as much as financial obligations. I mean supporting your own kid is one thing, but someone else's as well. It makes no sense logically even if they are siblings. truthfully, the mother had to know what was going to happen once she signed on to being a bay mama type of situation. I feel for them, but at the same time you knew what type of man you were choosing to be the father. More than likely, the nicer guy who would have been there. They did not choose. Frankly, it is not the other man's responsibility to take care of a kid other than his own. We have to evolve above this moral dilemma and teach proper modes of conduct and being responsible with the selection of our mates rather than focusing purely on the moment without looking at larger implications and ramifications. It is a generational thing that must end.
While selecting a good partner is very important, placing blame on a parent because you believe they chose the wrong partner completely ignores the fact that people lie about who they are. Men admit that they lie to women as a means to get what they want from them, so choosing better will only work if men are always fully honest about who they are. "The mother had to know what would happen..." Why? Because you say so? Because she's the woman? It clearly doesnt work that way in reality. I know a woman who was convinced to have a child she didnt want by the father. When the child was born he left and is currently a deadbeat. He trapped her and THEN showed his true self. The real problem is male abondonmemt. If the other father(s) hadn't abandoned their responsibility, she wouldn't be expecting this guy to do it all. I personally thinks she's tripping in this video, but I understand her logic in trying to keep peace in the house. I also think he should have taken his child out to McD's to avoid this, but she probably would've been mad at that too because what she's really mad about is not having enough help/resources for the life she created.
@@SweetBeeNatural "what she's really mad about is not having enough help/resources for the life she created." - She DID create this mess. We ALL know women who get hypnotized by a fairy tale they lie to themselves with FULLY knowing about the men they deal with. If he hits you.. Don't have kids. If he doesn't pay the bills.. Don't have kids. IF he has other kids he's not taking care of.. DON'T have kids. Yes, men lie, but women do to & LARGELY to themselves. It's a choice to create a fantasy.
He's doing this to drop ONE meal off, bcuz he doesn't care if his kid has food any other day. He's trying to play "good parent" by bringing McDonald's. He doesn't care about her (or her other kids) at all. Not everything is for attention.
If he wants to spend less, then he should go and buy the fresh ground beef himself and add cheese, lettuce, sliced pickles, and tomatoes when the ground patties are cooked. The buns aren't very expensive either. That altogether makes more delicious burgers than anything you get from McDonalds, because at least the ingredients are better quality and cheaper than buying the convenience of McDonalds. Fries? Just get some potatoes, cut them into strips, season with all sorts of herbs and seasoning salt, and fry them. The drinks are also cheaper if he bought the full sized soda and poured them into nice thermals. All of that can feed all four of those children, plus himself and the mother. At a much cheaper price and better quality at the same time.
1. That 1st clip is an old clip 2. I'm w/the father. No, he doesn't have to feed YOUR other kids. He only has to feed HIS child. What the other baby daddies do or don't do is not his problem. AND CHANCES are the woman knew the men weren't sh1t when she DECIDED to laid down w/them in the 1st place. Women DO need to take accountability for THEIR CHOICES. If I (as a woman) was in that situation, I sure wouldn't be feeding someone else's kids. And IF the food issue continues you can bet I'd file for FULL custody since she's unable to take care of the child.
Woman here to say: That i don’t see a problem with BD in the first video only attending to his child. Them other kids who are his aren’t his responsibility. All my siblings are my half siblings. When i seen my siblings get certain things from their fathers or mother, i never got offended or upset. And all my other siblings understood that as well. My mother and their mother understood if our fathers only did things for their children and not the siblings, it made sense because the siblings aren’t their kids or responsibility. As for the popbelly dreadhead, the topic of 10’s dating other 10’s should not be the one to be speaking on that topic as if he knows what it’s like to be a 10 with many options.
It's not about that he doesn't need to complain.He knows she had them kids beforehand he don't want to see them.Pick you kid up and leave and go take him but don't eat in front of other kids
She told the ignorant fool the boy doesn’t like eating in front of his siblings. The boy is the youngest and still empathetic as society hasn’t changed it yet. But his dad seems to want him to have a difficult childhood.
Yeah, but an uncle is family. If I had nieces and nephews, I wouldn't mind buying them food if they needed it. But the thing is that man is NOT kin to any of those kids except for the one he had with her. Yeah, it sucks for the other children, but that man is taking of the kid he had with her, and that is all he is obligated to do. Anything more than that is extra and not required. Don't get me wrong. Nothing wrong with a man providing for children who aren't though he isn't together with the baby mama anymore. But obligated? No. No, he's not.
It doesn’t matter if the other kids aren’t his responsibility. Y’all don’t think it’s a little bit cruel for someone to bring food for one child to eat in front of his siblings? That just doesn’t make sense. If I were her, I wouldn’t allow it either. She has to think about all her kids. You can’t let your kids watch one of their siblings seemingly be favored over them. Only someone who is trying to be spiteful would do this.
I understand what you’re saying but…. To say he can’t take care of his own child because the other fathers aren’t taking care of theirs doesn’t make sense either. It’s not his fault at all that the other children has to witness him doing what he should be doing as a father. The issue is not him. The only issue I can see is that the other fathers are neglecting their children and mom is allowing them to.
I'm soryy but the first video he's right. If the Other bandit can't feed her kids that's not on him. He's a bandit too but at least he's feeding the one he got.
If I had kids they all eating or go away. When my uncle took care of us never once did I hear him say them not my kids. We all had McDonald's and whatever else we wanted. People let money dictate family. Family is family. I love that man. My uncle is my dad. These men don't even care that these kids will be grown. Right before my uncle died I called him every day for 3 months just to tell him thanku and listen to his stories. Y'all get old and ain't nobody gonna care to even talk to you. Appreciate these children God puts in your life and stop letting these neanderthals tell u how to treat your family.
All he had to do was pick his kid up to eat or just give her extra money to buy more food in general. I understand that the other children aren't his, but eating McDonald's in front of the other kids creates jealousy and he knows that.
I have mixed feelings about the first video. Dude shoulda picked his son up, and took him for food. If that's an option! We don't know! I do know that the MOM should be able to feed her other 3 kids! Because she said every day! So does she expect him to bring his son food, and then also ger other 3 kids, every day? Because thats completely unreasonable! It just sucks, that no matter what, these kids are at the mercy of petty adults!
I was thinking he may have only bought his child food because he may have had to fill in the gaps before when the other fathers didn’t do what they were supposed to. He may have had to buy groceries for the whole family numerous times and now he’s setting boundaries that he’s only taking care of his kid.
That first story I’m not on the Mother’s side so I’ll leave it alone lol The second story 😮 He is insane and needs to be in a watchlist. The energy he put into destruction smh That chubby guy smh 🤦🏾♀️ 😆🤣 It’s always dudes looking that try to “school” women 😆
I understand this man, and I understand this woman. But just as a man if you can why not just buy for all of them coz now the others will look weird seeing one eating. Like if that’s the case why not just take your child and stay with him instead of all this
Tbh if you know he comes all the time to bring McDonald’s for his child give him money for rest don’t expect him to pay for meals for children he didn’t make if you can’t ask their fathers for money for McDonald’s so they all can have McDonald’s then you do it yourself you had them don’t have kids with broke dudes man. He was broke before the damn kids wtf.
Sorry the first baby mama is wrong for that. I would understand if they were currently married then yes he should take care of all the children. He is taking care of his child and thats all that matters. She is angry with her other baby daddy's and taking it out on this Father. This first woman is in the wrong, period.
the first clip is sooo subjective....alot of women throw their children on men thats one side and other side yea he needed to be more conscious of his movements.....he could have just gave her a few dollars and told her to get the KIDS something to eat......so have children with a man or woman that has more than one is taking a big risk for things like this .....i advise any one with one child to not add more to ur to do list especially with a man who has more than one.....and vice versa...and if u dont have children/child ..dont have any!!!! i say this as a woman with 1 child and who has tried dealing with men who had children b4 me and after my 1......i see potential issues ....my son is an adult now so i am definitely staying away from men who have children that are waaayyyy younger than my son thats 1 and 2 that has more than 2 ...that can get messy as well
Dear Mr Angry Biracial, thank you for all you wisdom. You helped me out of a bad spot with a modern male by highlighting some realities in dating Kangs as you like to call them. I have long wondered why the ppl who swear to love me almost seem like they hate me at the drop of a hat. You were so right about their entitlement regardless of whether they are doing right by you as a man. Kangs are simply dangerous and I feel safer being aware of what to look out for. The advice you give is priceless and saves lives. It saved mine. Don't stop what you are doing, as a father figure is needed in our community as a whole. Can't wait to see you spread your message even further. ❤
Thank you sister 🙏🏽
They barely wanna take care of they own kids let alone someone else child
😂😂😂 exactly
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That part 💅
Just pick up his son and take him to eat …
Seriously, that simple. Or buy bulk items worth the same amount you spend on the one to feed them all.
Well I was with a guy who fed all 3 of my CHILDREN and none of them were his! He fed them and my ex husband didn't!
Ok, but that's his choice.
@@silververnallbells191 Exactly, it was his choice where as the lady in the video trying to make him responsible for all the rest of her kids.
And if the guy was with you, kids come as a packaged deal, so there is some obligation there if he is in the relationship with the mother, though not as much as a biological parent. The guy in the video is a baby daddy. They're not even together, so he has absolutely no obligation to feed her other kids.
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TY Sis!
If he doesn’t want to feed the other kids, just pick your child up and take him out to eat. How does he think the other children will feel watching their sibling eat Mc Donald’s and they don’t have any. He could have bought a pack of meat for what he spent and she could’ve feed all the children.
The other kids aren't his problem. 😒
@@otsdrselse1163 this argument is so aggravating because it’s not about those other kids being his it’s about common decency and having a heart. Do you know how many me take care of kids they know aren’t theirs and not out of obligation but because they are actual decent human beings that know we’re supposed to look out for each other regardless? I’ve feed plants of kids that weren’t mine because what person with a soul would actually watch a kid go hungry?
@apeeples22 Don't try to explain nothing or appeal to them, just take notes and listen. They are telling you how and what they think.
@@apeeples22 Why didn't she feed her kids? He is responsible for his child period. He could of taken his son out so the other children don't have to see it. I usually agree with him but this one isn't it. Her attitude is horrible.
Sorry but her other children have their own dads.
She has a lot of nerve expecting him to take care of children that aren’t his and that he didn’t adopt.
She’s in the wrong for trying to make him responsible for her bad decisions.
I love that it’s a biracial man sticking up for women, it makes me even more proud to be biracial myself.
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You know, she had those kids before he hit it.He needs to make better choices
So does she, having babies by multiple black men is just as idiotic and sickening as BM, why would you do that especially now that we know how black men abandon their children, why are black women still having multiple babies by poor men, I just don’t understand it.
So what if she did? They're still not his responsibility.
The guy in the first video is trying to take a cheap shot at his ex, but in reality, what he is doing is setting his bio-child up to be ostracized and bullied by their siblings. Kids don't understand how to logically regulate their emotions so, in most cases, when they see that a situation isn't "fair" they act out. And when they act out, they usually direct their negative behavior toward the individual they believe is being treated better...in this case, it would be three children bullying, leaving out and picking on the child who got McDonald's.
Not really. I and all 3 of my siblings are half siblings and we all understood that our fathers are only responsible for whichever child belonged to them. So if they showed up to only give something to their child in front of the other siblings, we never got upset about it. Idk if it’s because we never seen it as a competition or that we just knew that it wasn’t our father and didn’t expect that man to do anything for us since he wasn’t our father. But the only reason one kid would be bullied and ostracized by the other siblings is if the father of the sibling being resented would go out of his way to blatantly make it known that he doesn’t like his child’s siblings.
Absolutely! His brothers and sisters will resent him for what his Dad is doing!
@@anonnnymousthegreatIf all of the other kids’ dads are in their lives, then not only are they not jealous, but they are excited for their sibling(s) when one dad shows up. But I would say that the mom should be regulating this better. Require that dad take the his son out of the house to treat.
@@melstarr1864the mom is trying to regulate the situation. That’s why she asked him not to bring food for only one kid. The father is causing problems on purpose not only for the mother but for his son as well.
@@apaddy5390 The mother is trying to be grabby in the situation. She's DEMANDING food from a man to feed children that aren't his.
Third guy: so you just going to ignore all the 1 and 2 men trying to chase a 10 or 9, getting rejected then saying "You were ugly anyway!" ?😂
That part
They are together as a blended family this is wrong. If they were separated then yes he'd be in the right.
These men don’t understand karma. That’s why TMH keeps us running laps around them.
That second dude needs to be behind bars
And I've never wondered why I'm lonely because I've never been lonely. I value my peace over "settling" for any man
The chubby guy explaining 9s and 10s while playing Austin Powers music was hilariously
Becareful children remember who fed them & who didnt. The fact this mother complained means she needed food for the other kids.
If you help children, they will remember & help others.
If he starts bringing all the kids food , she’ll expect him to always pick up the other dads slack not just with food but with everything. It’s like the old saying goes you give an inch some will take a mile. He’s doing right…
Exactly. She wants to put the responsibility of all four of his kids on him. The other kids have sh!++y dads, and he wants him to take the full responsibility for them. I am sorry but I am on his side on this one, though I can understand how uncomfortable and guilty the kid probably feels eating McDonalds in front of his hungry siblings.
Right … then it won’t just be McDonald’s. When it’s time for school and he decides to buy his child school clothes, she’ll say why didn’t you buy everybody some new clothes. They don’t have any. It won’t stop at the food. Anywhere the other fathers slack off she’ll make him think it’s his responsibility to fill in the gaps… he’s correct in setting boundaries…
It's so inexpensive to buy 3 burgers, 3 fries, and 3 drinks for 3 children. That's about $9 plus tax. That's how broke these men are. Yes, this is petty and that's why women have checked out.
He could have gotten a Little Caesar’s pizza. They are around $7.99.
Tbh, I can't really fault a man for not wanting to bring food to kids that are not his. I understand it may make they others feel a way but on the other side her kids that aren't his are a different story. UNLESS he has chosen to live with her. At that point you are a father to all.
For the first story, the question is: did she ask him if he would get some groceries for the children versus him just bringing over something to eat. If she wasn't specific, I would say that it was on her to have specified that she needed some food for the children. Personally, I think that the man should have taken his child out with him and fed him before he brought the child back to the mother. However, if they were a couple living together or were married, then can I see her point of view. As I see it, the man seems to be taking responsibility for the child he has with her. Otherwise, she needs to take her other children's father(s) to court for child support as it seems to me that she hasn't done anything about it and is "content" to try to make ends meet with just receiving public assistance.
For the second story, I hope that she was able to find out where he moved to and took him to court for the damages.
The third story, the guy has it twisted. He's living in a fantasy world. He's not an alpha male to think that he's a 1.
But if she refuses to feed his other kids, he’ll be livid. angry, and ready to fight her.
He's not asking her to do that. Who is to say he even has any other kids?
😒🫣 I'm with the dude on this. Dad should have picked him up though. She needs to call all the other dudes she had kids with.🤦🏾♀️ They're not his kids and he didn't adopt them.🤷🏾♀️
Why are you with the dude? The mother said she asked him in the past not to do the very behavior he’s doing. He’s in the wrong. He causing his sons other siblings to have rivalry with him. The mother is trying to prevent this from happening within her household and he needs to obey what she wants to occur AT HER HOUSE.
He needs to setup a court order to get proper visitation so he can take his son out with him, instead of coming to her house causing problems.
@@apaddy5390 "he needs to obey what she wants to occur AT HER HOUSE." - Then she shouldn't ask him over to her house saying to come feed your kid. She's the one causing problems by 1. Having so many kids w/different fathers 2. asking a man she knows isn't going to take care of kids that aren't his to take care of kids that are his.
The sibling rivalry is not his problem especially since kids do that anyway. His only problem is feeding HIS kid.
If he were married to her , I could see it. He’s not obligated to her other kids at all… he could bring the others food as a courtesy but She should make sure they all eat. She created that awkward situation by having children with multiple men shes not married to. Trust if he brought all of the kids food once she would expect it every time. If they were married then yes, they would be a package deal. But he wasn’t wrong. If she didn’t have her food stamps yet she needs to have the other kids father bring them food.
He needed to just take his kid to eat. I'm not mad at this. He's taking care of his kid. It's not on him to take care of the other kids. Sorry, not sorry. She needs to call the other fathers or put them on child support. He should have just picked his kid up and taken them out to eat.
He probably doesn't want to take his kid anywhere because he would have to spend an hour or two with him.
Yea, getting food for all four shouldn’t be expected but it isn’t fair in the eyes of the children. I agree with you, He should take his son on an outing.
I agree. I say this because i’m a woman who is from a blended family. Like i have 3 other siblings and all of them are my half siblings (2 of my siblings and i have the same mother, but all three of us have different fathers….and 1 of my siblings and i have the same father but different mothers). I completely understood when my siblings fathers only attended to whatever sibling belonged to them and my siblings understood as well. Plus, i would feel awkward as a child seeing a man who is not my father treating me as if i am his child when i know he’s not my father, not married or in an active relationship with my mother and i don’t have a close relationship with him. I’m going to sound like a redpiller and say that the mother should’ve taken more precaution when she decided to lay down with multiple men and knew that if she ended up with children from different men, that the father of each child is only responsible for the child that belongs to him.
@@anonnnymousthegreat Nope, you are absolutely right. Nothing redpill about it. It is shameful to have multiple baby daddies. And I say the same thing about men. Even more so because they can get multiple women pregnant.
Seems to me that the kids are the ones being punished. Unless this man is married to her or even together and living together, then he isn't obligated to take care of any other kid but his own.
But he could take the kid out instead of having her hungry children watch their sibling eat in front of them.
1st Video Does she realize she’s exposing herself⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️
By rights he is only responsible for his own.
The McDonald's dad is really breeding resentment between the other kids Towards His Child.
I don’t think your videos were long at all but either way, I will continue to support 😊
Where's the other children fathers at , that's their job to take care of their own children not his
It’s about not creating contention among those kids. It IS his job to improve his son’s life to the extent he can and exercise a little emotional intelligence. Buy a frozen pizza those kids can share. Then he is appreciated among his siblings and not a focus of jealousy.
Kids are hungry, feed kids. Even your X’s. Understanding that shouldn’t be hard.
@@1loveharpo Man, I disagree hard with that. Unless they were married or living together, that man is not obligated to feed kids that aren't his. They are not even together. He is the baby daddy being responsible for HIS own child. I don't understand punishing this man for not taking up the responsibility to her other bds aren't doing.
The situation she and her kids are in is the fault of her and those other men she had babies by, not the man who actually stepped up to take care of the kid he had by her.
Ladies stop getting pregnant by multiple men. Stop being surprised that men don’t want to take care of other men’s kids. Stop expecting dusty men to treat you and your kids with more respect than you treat yourself.
The proper way to handle the first situation:
Thank you for bringing your son something to eat. However, so that he won’t be singled out allow him to have his meal in the car with you. Next time just pick him up to take him to have the meal with you at the restaurant. Wait here I will go get him.
Then proceed to call the fathers of your other children and ask when they can come bring their children something to eat.
He even asked her to bring his son out so that he could eat in the car and she said no. 🤦🏽♀️
I agree so hard with this. She is mad that he only bought something for HIS child, and is mad that that child will have food to eat in front of them. But she said no to him taking his own kid to eat in the car? Make it make sense.
Well, that's what happens when you do the baby daddy thing. It is not a matter of not wanting to help as much as financial obligations. I mean supporting your own kid is one thing, but someone else's as well. It makes no sense logically even if they are siblings. truthfully, the mother had to know what was going to happen once she signed on to being a bay mama type of situation. I feel for them, but at the same time you knew what type of man you were choosing to be the father. More than likely, the nicer guy who would have been there. They did not choose. Frankly, it is not the other man's responsibility to take care of a kid other than his own. We have to evolve above this moral dilemma and teach proper modes of conduct and being responsible with the selection of our mates rather than focusing purely on the moment without looking at larger implications and ramifications. It is a generational thing that must end.
Well tell the other father/fathers to take care of there kids.
While selecting a good partner is very important, placing blame on a parent because you believe they chose the wrong partner completely ignores the fact that people lie about who they are. Men admit that they lie to women as a means to get what they want from them, so choosing better will only work if men are always fully honest about who they are. "The mother had to know what would happen..." Why? Because you say so? Because she's the woman? It clearly doesnt work that way in reality. I know a woman who was convinced to have a child she didnt want by the father. When the child was born he left and is currently a deadbeat. He trapped her and THEN showed his true self. The real problem is male abondonmemt. If the other father(s) hadn't abandoned their responsibility, she wouldn't be expecting this guy to do it all. I personally thinks she's tripping in this video, but I understand her logic in trying to keep peace in the house. I also think he should have taken his child out to McD's to avoid this, but she probably would've been mad at that too because what she's really mad about is not having enough help/resources for the life she created.
I agree.
You got kids from different mothers, don’t you? That doesn’t sound like a comment from a level headed man, just a bitter baby daddy.
@@SweetBeeNatural "what she's really mad about is not having enough help/resources for the life she created." - She DID create this mess. We ALL know women who get hypnotized by a fairy tale they lie to themselves with FULLY knowing about the men they deal with. If he hits you.. Don't have kids. If he doesn't pay the bills.. Don't have kids. IF he has other kids he's not taking care of.. DON'T have kids.
Yes, men lie, but women do to & LARGELY to themselves. It's a choice to create a fantasy.
Pick the boy up… he’s not obligated to do that. Ask him nicely, and maybe he will pitch in… she’s unreasonable…
He knows he can spend quality time with his son and take him out. He’s doing this to get the reaction out of her .
He's doing this to drop ONE meal off, bcuz he doesn't care if his kid has food any other day. He's trying to play "good parent" by bringing McDonald's. He doesn't care about her (or her other kids) at all. Not everything is for attention.
@@silververnallbells191 yes that too I agree
If he wants to spend less, then he should go and buy the fresh ground beef himself and add cheese, lettuce, sliced pickles, and tomatoes when the ground patties are cooked. The buns aren't very expensive either.
That altogether makes more delicious burgers than anything you get from McDonalds, because at least the ingredients are better quality and cheaper than buying the convenience of McDonalds. Fries? Just get some potatoes, cut them into strips, season with all sorts of herbs and seasoning salt, and fry them. The drinks are also cheaper if he bought the full sized soda and poured them into nice thermals. All of that can feed all four of those children, plus himself and the mother. At a much cheaper price and better quality at the same time.
1. That 1st clip is an old clip 2. I'm w/the father. No, he doesn't have to feed YOUR other kids. He only has to feed HIS child. What the other baby daddies do or don't do is not his problem. AND CHANCES are the woman knew the men weren't sh1t when she DECIDED to laid down w/them in the 1st place. Women DO need to take accountability for THEIR CHOICES. If I (as a woman) was in that situation, I sure wouldn't be feeding someone else's kids. And IF the food issue continues you can bet I'd file for FULL custody since she's unable to take care of the child.
Woman here to say:
That i don’t see a problem with BD in the first video only attending to his child. Them other kids who are his aren’t his responsibility. All my siblings are my half siblings. When i seen my siblings get certain things from their fathers or mother, i never got offended or upset. And all my other siblings understood that as well. My mother and their mother understood if our fathers only did things for their children and not the siblings, it made sense because the siblings aren’t their kids or responsibility.
As for the popbelly dreadhead, the topic of 10’s dating other 10’s should not be the one to be speaking on that topic as if he knows what it’s like to be a 10 with many options.
I'm with him. Them other kids ain't his problem. She had them other kids with deadbeat dad's.
It's not about that he doesn't need to complain.He knows she had them kids beforehand he don't want to see them.Pick you kid up and leave and go take him but don't eat in front of other kids
Childish, immature nonsense. Who brings one burger to a house with four kids? Shameful ignorant BS. SMDH
She told the ignorant fool the boy doesn’t like eating in front of his siblings.
The boy is the youngest and still empathetic as society hasn’t changed it yet.
But his dad seems to want him to have a difficult childhood.
@@l.austin2371 I agree. A far, better solution.
How about COOK and feed your children ACTUAL FOOD.
U need to have him pick up his kid and take him to eat so he doesn’t have to eat in front of his siblings, we don’t know this man’s pockets.
Exactly. She should meal plan so the kids will be able to eat everyday.
Yeah, but an uncle is family. If I had nieces and nephews, I wouldn't mind buying them food if they needed it.
But the thing is that man is NOT kin to any of those kids except for the one he had with her. Yeah, it sucks for the other children, but that man is taking of the kid he had with her, and that is all he is obligated to do. Anything more than that is extra and not required.
Don't get me wrong. Nothing wrong with a man providing for children who aren't though he isn't together with the baby mama anymore. But obligated? No. No, he's not.
It doesn’t matter if the other kids aren’t his responsibility. Y’all don’t think it’s a little bit cruel for someone to bring food for one child to eat in front of his siblings? That just doesn’t make sense. If I were her, I wouldn’t allow it either. She has to think about all her kids. You can’t let your kids watch one of their siblings seemingly be favored over them. Only someone who is trying to be spiteful would do this.
I understand what you’re saying but…. To say he can’t take care of his own child because the other fathers aren’t taking care of theirs doesn’t make sense either. It’s not his fault at all that the other children has to witness him doing what he should be doing as a father. The issue is not him. The only issue I can see is that the other fathers are neglecting their children and mom is allowing them to.
I'm soryy but the first video he's right. If the Other bandit can't feed her kids that's not on him. He's a bandit too but at least he's feeding the one he got.
If I had kids they all eating or go away. When my uncle took care of us never once did I hear him say them not my kids. We all had McDonald's and whatever else we wanted. People let money dictate family. Family is family. I love that man. My uncle is my dad. These men don't even care that these kids will be grown. Right before my uncle died I called him every day for 3 months just to tell him thanku and listen to his stories. Y'all get old and ain't nobody gonna care to even talk to you. Appreciate these children God puts in your life and stop letting these neanderthals tell u how to treat your family.
That's your uncle though...he is a blood relative to you. You are comparing apples to potatoes rn.
All he had to do was pick his kid up to eat or just give her extra money to buy more food in general. I understand that the other children aren't his, but eating McDonald's in front of the other kids creates jealousy and he knows that.
Naw naw naw, he was right to feed his kid. That's not his responsibility. He could have got a hot and ready or something.
I have mixed feelings about the first video. Dude shoulda picked his son up, and took him for food. If that's an option! We don't know! I do know that the MOM should be able to feed her other 3 kids! Because she said every day! So does she expect him to bring his son food, and then also ger other 3 kids, every day? Because thats completely unreasonable! It just sucks, that no matter what, these kids are at the mercy of petty adults!
I was thinking he may have only bought his child food because he may have had to fill in the gaps before when the other fathers didn’t do what they were supposed to. He may have had to buy groceries for the whole family numerous times and now he’s setting boundaries that he’s only taking care of his kid.
8:45 I wonder if he dates level 1 women or does he also try to date out of his league.
That first story I’m not on the Mother’s side so I’ll leave it alone lol The second story 😮 He is insane and needs to be in a watchlist. The energy he put into destruction smh
That chubby guy smh 🤦🏾♀️ 😆🤣 It’s always dudes looking that try to “school” women 😆
I understand this man, and I understand this woman. But just as a man if you can why not just buy for all of them coz now the others will look weird seeing one eating. Like if that’s the case why not just take your child and stay with him instead of all this
He should just take his child and feed his kid them not his kids i dont feel bad for her or jim and why drop seed if u cant stay dont play
Tbh if you know he comes all the time to bring McDonald’s for his child give him money for rest don’t expect him to pay for meals for children he didn’t make if you can’t ask their fathers for money for McDonald’s so they all can have McDonald’s then you do it yourself you had them don’t have kids with broke dudes man. He was broke before the damn kids wtf.
Sorry the first baby mama is wrong for that. I would understand if they were currently married then yes he should take care of all the children. He is taking care of his child and thats all that matters. She is angry with her other baby daddy's and taking it out on this Father. This first woman is in the wrong, period.
"She is angry with her other baby daddies and taking it out on this father.". BINGO! Exactly.
Ni she is mad at herself 😢
the first clip is sooo subjective....alot of women throw their children on men thats one side and other side yea he needed to be more conscious of his movements.....he could have just gave her a few dollars and told her to get the KIDS something to eat......so have children with a man or woman that has more than one is taking a big risk for things like this .....i advise any one with one child to not add more to ur to do list especially with a man who has more than one.....and vice versa...and if u dont have children/child ..dont have any!!!! i say this as a woman with 1 child and who has tried dealing with men who had children b4 me and after my 1......i see potential issues ....my son is an adult now so i am definitely staying away from men who have children that are waaayyyy younger than my son thats 1 and 2 that has more than 2 ...that can get messy as well