Another reason is that no one ESPECIALLY parents understand issues that come with suppressin desires,we are expected to just fast and "COnTrOl oUrSeLvEs" as if it were to be easy as breathing air.
Fact. I'm in my mid-20s and my dad has no interest in getting me married. I guess he thinks I'm his innocent little princess who would never ever do anything wrong, well, jokes on him because I've already had a boyfriend. Am I proud of it? No. But I'm a human who's struggling with temptation every single day and my parents have zero interest in facilitating the halal for me and instead expect me to be single for god knows how long. It's absolute insanity
@@Fifi6799 Same ukhti,I have never been in haram relatonships (may Allah forgive you)But have felt deep temptations,the guilt i get from it lingers for weaks,even a month,I hope you have a lower libido then me because the pain i go through i cant wish it upon anyone else. the pain combined with my other weakneses i get makes me feel hopeless,"ya i wont ever be married and just suffer",and i m only 18 feelin like this,God knows what i will be through in my 20s.
@@Azothoth827 if your male you can get married anytime without your parents permission. The reason why I'm struggling is because I'm a woman and that option isn't open to me because I unfortunately can't do anything without my wali. Men have no such restriction in this regard so they have it easier.
@@Fifi6799 that is not true,culture has made it so that men also now have wali, I m bound by my mom just like how you are bound by your father,I m told to never speak about marriage not until i "become something" and "am presentable(YK $$$)" no matter how much pain i m in because of it ,when in reality i DONT HAVE A SKILL TO BASE A FUTURE CAREER OFF OF!(i do but it requirs a damn degree which is out of my level
I travelled to Morocco and the racism i went through simpely because of my skin colour was hard for me to enjoy my vacation! And i am from Somaliland living in Norway.
Getting married has been delayed or even not been taken into consideration at all anymore in some Western countries where muslims are living. This is a huge problem. The ummah will weaken and weaken. Unfortunately it is made easy to do haram. While marriage in islam is actually so simple. May Allah preserve the ummah.
the biggest reason people not getting married specially men, is the involve of state and government in the marriage institute and how they became in favors of women against men thanks to feminism, not to mention the high unrealistic expectations of women in lifestyle after get married ... That's why you see movement like MGTOW and redpills got popular in the last few years
Then why not move to a country where that’s not applicable ? Like Pakistan or Egypt or Malaysia ? Why not get skills that can help you get hired anywhere and live comfortable from anywhere, why not emotive so you can be hirable ? Why stay in a place like that ?
@ then why not simply move to a country (and there are plenty of Muslim majority countries) who’s constitutions are derived from the sharia and where the marriage laws are favoring Islam in 90-95% proportions ? Why not simply move ? If you have a western passport you have this privilege of being able to move anywhere and get residency way easier, getting better payed jobs and so on even getting married is easier. Why stay in a country where the laws are not benefiting you ? Why insist on remaining there ? Paying taxes there ? When you can go somewhere better for you?
@@CA-qw7qk First of all I don't have western passport so I don't know who do you mean specifically by that statement. Second, you do realize most of the world being westernized endorse liberalism and feminism so it's not just the west. Most countries apply secular laws including Muslims countries there is no such as Sharyah law anymore...even If you marry a traditional "Muslim" woman then bring her with you to the west she will be brainwashed by the western women cutler which is the case for many families who moved to live in the west, women get hocked up easily with the western woman propaganda. The only solution is if you marry a girl from rural village small town place in pore countries that has strong father figure endorse traditional value and STAY there with her don't bring her to the west AND THAT WHAT I DID AND IT WORKS FOR ME ...married for 21 years alhamd lillah
@@CA-qw7qk First of all I dont live or have western id so I dont know who you talking to, second you do realize most of the world endorse secular laws including Muslims country and feminism is everywhere, even if you marry a woman out off the west but when you bring her to the west she get programed by western / feminism agenda . Unless you marry her and stay with her in traditional rural area or small village etc
Appeal to every Muslim, my brother or sister, the owner of the channel, I know that it is not my right to comment on your channel, but God is my witness that our circumstances are harsh and forced me to do this. Please forgive me. My brother, there is still a brotherhood of faith. I asked you for a bag of flour. My brother, we women cannot go out among men. There is still a woman with you. My brother, God has honored you. You are men. We are women. We cannot go out or work like you. My brother, where is the brotherhood of faith in your hearts? We are women. There is no brotherhood, no mercy, no compassion, no humanity. And give good tidings to the patient. It is the greatest hope while waiting for what we want. '''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' How many times I called and talked and tried hard, but no one responded. Oh man, we are with you. My mother ordered us food from the restaurant. More and today. My mother left. Crying. She said, Why are you crying, my mother? She said, My daughter, I ask. God, that I may be honored by death. She said, Why, my mother. She cursed us. She said, "My daughter, today the restaurant owner insulted me. I said, 'Why?' I said, 'How can I be better than people?' I ask God, my daughter. May God gather me. With death alone, a gathering that is better than this humiliation and this humiliation. It is true. I am saying this. It diminishes my value and respect. But, man. I swear to God that I did not say this. I kiss your boots. I am so hungry that my conscience no longer allows me to let you go and ask us for food. I kiss your boots, man, and I ask you by God Almighty and in the Book of God, man, I kiss your boots, man. He has caused us harm, my brother, so that we can buy a kilo of flour and pay the rent. My brother, have mercy on us. He who is in the show will have mercy on you, He who is in the sky. My brother, this is my WhatsApp number: 00967711500090. Whoever can help us, message me on WhatsApp. We will send him the full name. He will transfer us as much as he can. May Allah reward you. Allah knows that my family and I, our house rent is 15 thousand Yemeni riyals per month, and now we owe 45 thousand for 3 months. The owner of the house is one of those people who do not have mercy. By Allah, my brother, he comes every day and humiliates us and talks about us and wants to throw us out of the house and into the street because we were unable to pay him the rent. We will have until the end of the week, and if we pay him, he will swear by Allah that he will throw us out into the street without mercy. See my situation for yourselves. I ask you by Allah, the Living, the Eternal, to help me. By Allah, the Almighty, even at night we cannot sleep from fear. We do not have mattresses or blankets to warm ourselves from the cold. Everything is flooded from the rain, and we have no one but Allah and then you. My brothers, I kiss your boots, don’t turn me away empty-handed. Help us with whatever you can. Is it acceptable to you that we live in this place? We are girls and we have no one. Our father died in a car accident. Consider us your daughters and your honor, and help me with whatever you can. May God reward you with good =>[[}>] ^][/*&;;&;&&;•̥·-`.`.`.`.`.•.,¸-•.,¸°꒰·̮ •̥·°`.`.`.`.`.,.•¯,.•¯}:;:;:;;::;;::;;::;;-,'-|.................،,..،،,,,,,,,,،،،،،،،,,,،،،،،،
I delayed marriage just financial matter, i have knowledges and strong mentally but not with financially.. Alhamdulillah the feminism in my country in village area is not a thing like western country and city area.. If i marry i'm sure im gonna find woman in village area.. When it comes to City women.. Bruhh they're hijabi but they're wild in their lifestyle and friendship environment, i don't want to mention what they did but you can imagine what i meant with wild,,i don't want to Associate with them cause so many repulsive stuffs they did... They're not wife even mother material..
Two other reasons you left out are...marriage being expensive and spiritual sicknesses. Nowadays, it's cheaper to date and have zina. Additionally, there are people with spiritual sicknesses and they are dealing with marriage block and need to be treated with rukayah, etc.
We surround by things that activate sex and our parents don't care at all. So find someone good and permanent and do nikah and enjoy your life with them. Your parents will get use it. Lesser of the 2 evils. I don't have time with irrational parent worship. Be a rational Muslim. Don't let parents interfere in your shahawaat
Only one reason, more fear, care and love for others or one own self and the worldly life than Allah and the next life. And most of them believe their reasons are justifiable but they are not and they don't even realize it. (Just like Allah says about munafiqs that and they don't even realize it)
You should go against your parents and get married if you need to get married. Marriage is like food. If you need it, you do it even if your parents are stupid and selfish and say no. Many parents are stupid when it comes to marriage. Mine were too. I married without their agreement saved myself from zina and enjoyed my kids and a lovely woman. If I listen to them I wouldn't still be married or have kids.
@@alanab5735 prenup in America it's. not helping in England... even in America most of the time it's not a guarantee solution there are a lot if cases where men put prenup and they still lost everything
@@constantmotivation8489I think because they can go and complain to the gov courts that will trump the Islamic contract and go in favour of the kafir law
My message to every Muslim, my brother or sister, the owner of the channel, I know that I do not have the right to comment on your channel, but as God bears witness, our circumstances are harsh and you forced me to do this, something. Please forgive me. I honor you because you are men. We are women. You cannot go out or work like you, my brother. Where is the brotherhood of faith in your hearts? We are women. Brotherhood. There is no mercy, no compassion, no humanity. Giving good news to the patient is the greatest hope of waiting for what we want.'''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' how much. I called, how many words I spoke, and how hard we are, but there is no life to whom you call. Brother, we are with us. My mother orders us food from the restaurant. Zawidah and today. My mother went. She was crying. She said why is Yami crying? You said, my daughter. I'm asking. God is mine. He consoles me with death. She said it. why. Yami. You claim against us. She said: My daughter, today is a friend. The restaurant. Why? The most beautiful people in terms of people. I ask God, my daughter. God is gathering me. Death alone is a better insect. Who is this foolish and this insignificant? True, true. I am saying this. It diminishes my value and my respect. But, brother. I swear to God that I did not say this, kiss your boots. I was so hungry that my conscience no longer allowed me to let her go and ask us for food. I kiss your boots, brother, and I ask you by God Almighty and in the Book of God, brother, I kiss your boots, brother. We have nothing to do with it, brother. Even a thousand Yemeni riyals. We can buy us a kilo of minutes. 00967717018744. Have mercy on him. He who is in the show will have mercy on you. He who is in heaven will have mercy on you. Brother. This is my number. The one who can help us. Message me on WhatsApp. We will send it. The full name will transfer us as much as he can. May God reward you well. God knows that the owner of the house takes us out in the street in the rain because of... Please see my condition for yourselves, I ask you by God, the Ever-Living, the Ever-Subsisting, to help me, and God is the Great, even at night we cannot sleep from fear. We have neither mattresses nor blankets to keep us warm from the cold. Everything has been drowned by the rain, and we have no one but God. Then you, my brothers, kiss your boots. Do not let me be disappointed. Help us as much as you can. So, do you please us that we live in this place? We are girls and we have no one. Our father died in a car accident. Consider us your daughters and offer and help me as much as you can. May God reward you well =>[[}>] ^][°] €] €] €] €...' ',,,,,,,,;-'-"!;'(')"\|\(/()\|¶€(/)'|\€\>|\≧≫;;/😢🎉:; -/;;!;?;"?😢🎉???✓]}>>]}]}]\>]}
Alternative Title: 5 Reasons why Muslims delay marriage
So right. Current title is totally misleading and absurd.
Looking at it from another angle - imaging someone came for the title - and then got educated!
It's deliberate. Clickbait
Another reason is that no one ESPECIALLY parents understand issues that come with suppressin desires,we are expected to just fast and "COnTrOl oUrSeLvEs" as if it were to be easy as breathing air.
Fact. I'm in my mid-20s and my dad has no interest in getting me married. I guess he thinks I'm his innocent little princess who would never ever do anything wrong, well, jokes on him because I've already had a boyfriend. Am I proud of it? No. But I'm a human who's struggling with temptation every single day and my parents have zero interest in facilitating the halal for me and instead expect me to be single for god knows how long. It's absolute insanity
@@Fifi6799 Same ukhti,I have never been in haram relatonships (may Allah forgive you)But have felt deep temptations,the guilt i get from it lingers for weaks,even a month,I hope you have a lower libido then me because the pain i go through i cant wish it upon anyone else. the pain combined with my other weakneses i get makes me feel hopeless,"ya i wont ever be married and just suffer",and i m only 18 feelin like this,God knows what i will be through in my 20s.
@@Fifi6799 what is worse and serious insult to injury is that i would be wierd to think about and desire marriage!that is why i keep quiet mostly
@@Azothoth827 if your male you can get married anytime without your parents permission. The reason why I'm struggling is because I'm a woman and that option isn't open to me because I unfortunately can't do anything without my wali. Men have no such restriction in this regard so they have it easier.
@@Fifi6799 that is not true,culture has made it so that men also now have wali, I m bound by my mom just like how you are bound by your father,I m told to never speak about marriage not until i "become something" and "am presentable(YK $$$)" no matter how much pain i m in because of it ,when in reality i DONT HAVE A SKILL TO BASE A FUTURE CAREER OFF OF!(i do but it requirs a damn degree which is out of my level
I travelled to Morocco and the racism i went through simpely because of my skin colour was hard for me to enjoy my vacation! And i am from Somaliland living in Norway.
Lol😂😂😂. Seems u have self hate as a somali dude .. just marry from ur country. Somalia is cheap compared to norway
Somaliland is not a country akhi, why divide the muslim ummah even further
*Number 1: you're a high value man in terms of finances, status, looks and you wanna preserve your wealth and retire your parents*
Preserve wealth? From what?
@@studyprintsfrom a woman who at the moment of bad emotions will divorce you for half of your assets
@@hamzahhussain6580true
@@hamzahhussain6580prenup akhi
Preserving wealth while we will leave this dunia anyway😂😂😂 do some charity and live a little.
Getting married has been delayed or even not been taken into consideration at all anymore in some Western countries where muslims are living. This is a huge problem. The ummah will weaken and weaken. Unfortunately it is made easy to do haram. While marriage in islam is actually so simple. May Allah preserve the ummah.
Yeah but thats what allah wanted
@@1010BARCA1010Which verse of the Quran supports your false statement?
the biggest reason people not getting married specially men, is the involve of state and government in the marriage institute and how they became in favors of women against men thanks to feminism, not to mention the high unrealistic expectations of women in lifestyle after get married ... That's why you see movement like MGTOW and redpills got popular in the last few years
Then why not move to a country where that’s not applicable ? Like Pakistan or Egypt or Malaysia ? Why not get skills that can help you get hired anywhere and live comfortable from anywhere, why not emotive so you can be hirable ? Why stay in a place like that ?
Even without involving the state living together will make them be seen as a couple
@ then why not simply move to a country (and there are plenty of Muslim majority countries) who’s constitutions are derived from the sharia and where the marriage laws are favoring Islam in 90-95% proportions ? Why not simply move ? If you have a western passport you have this privilege of being able to move anywhere and get residency way easier, getting better payed jobs and so on even getting married is easier. Why stay in a country where the laws are not benefiting you ? Why insist on remaining there ? Paying taxes there ? When you can go somewhere better for you?
@@CA-qw7qk First of all I don't have western passport so I don't know who do you mean specifically by that statement. Second, you do realize most of the world being westernized endorse liberalism and feminism so it's not just the west. Most countries apply secular laws including Muslims countries there is no such as Sharyah law anymore...even If you marry a traditional "Muslim" woman then bring her with you to the west she will be brainwashed by the western women cutler which is the case for many families who moved to live in the west, women get hocked up easily with the western woman propaganda. The only solution is if you marry a girl from rural village small town place in pore countries that has strong father figure endorse traditional value and STAY there with her don't bring her to the west AND THAT WHAT I DID AND IT WORKS FOR ME ...married for 21 years alhamd lillah
@@CA-qw7qk First of all I dont live or have western id so I dont know who you talking to, second you do realize most of the world endorse secular laws including Muslims country and feminism is everywhere, even if you marry a woman out off the west but when you bring her to the west she get programed by western / feminism agenda . Unless you marry her and stay with her in traditional rural area or small village etc
Appeal to every Muslim, my brother or sister, the owner of the channel, I know that it is not my right to comment on your channel, but God is my witness that our circumstances are harsh and forced me to do this. Please forgive me. My brother, there is still a brotherhood of faith. I asked you for a bag of flour. My brother, we women cannot go out among men. There is still a woman with you. My brother, God has honored you. You are men. We are women. We cannot go out or work like you. My brother, where is the brotherhood of faith in your hearts? We are women. There is no brotherhood, no mercy, no compassion, no humanity. And give good tidings to the patient. It is the greatest hope while waiting for what we want. '''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' How many times I called and talked and tried hard, but no one responded. Oh man, we are with you. My mother ordered us food from the restaurant. More and today. My mother left. Crying. She said, Why are you crying, my mother? She said, My daughter, I ask. God, that I may be honored by death. She said, Why, my mother. She cursed us. She said, "My daughter, today the restaurant owner insulted me. I said, 'Why?' I said, 'How can I be better than people?' I ask God, my daughter. May God gather me. With death alone, a gathering that is better than this humiliation and this humiliation. It is true. I am saying this. It diminishes my value and respect. But, man. I swear to God that I did not say this. I kiss your boots. I am so hungry that my conscience no longer allows me to let you go and ask us for food. I kiss your boots, man, and I ask you by God Almighty and in the Book of God, man, I kiss your boots, man. He has caused us harm, my brother, so that we can buy a kilo of flour and pay the rent. My brother, have mercy on us. He who is in the show will have mercy on you, He who is in the sky. My brother, this is my WhatsApp number: 00967711500090. Whoever can help us, message me on WhatsApp. We will send him the full name. He will transfer us as much as he can. May Allah reward you. Allah knows that my family and I, our house rent is 15 thousand Yemeni riyals per month, and now we owe 45 thousand for 3 months. The owner of the house is one of those people who do not have mercy. By Allah, my brother, he comes every day and humiliates us and talks about us and wants to throw us out of the house and into the street because we were unable to pay him the rent. We will have until the end of the week, and if we pay him, he will swear by Allah that he will throw us out into the street without mercy. See my situation for yourselves. I ask you by Allah, the Living, the Eternal, to help me. By Allah, the Almighty, even at night we cannot sleep from fear. We do not have mattresses or blankets to warm ourselves from the cold. Everything is flooded from the rain, and we have no one but Allah and then you. My brothers, I kiss your boots, don’t turn me away empty-handed. Help us with whatever you can. Is it acceptable to you that we live in this place? We are girls and we have no one. Our father died in a car accident. Consider us your daughters and your honor, and help me with whatever you can. May God reward you with good =>[[}>] ^][/*&;;&;&&;•̥·-`.`.`.`.`.•.,¸-•.,¸°꒰·̮ •̥·°`.`.`.`.`.,.•¯,.•¯}:;:;:;;::;;::;;::;;-,'-|.................،,..،،,,,,,,,,،،،،،،،,,,،،،،،،
Where can I get those sunglasses
Jazakallah khair, great message
I delayed marriage just financial matter, i have knowledges and strong mentally but not with financially.. Alhamdulillah the feminism in my country in village area is not a thing like western country and city area.. If i marry i'm sure im gonna find woman in village area.. When it comes to City women.. Bruhh they're hijabi but they're wild in their lifestyle and friendship environment, i don't want to mention what they did but you can imagine what i meant with wild,,i don't want to Associate with them cause so many repulsive stuffs they did... They're not wife even mother material..
Two other reasons you left out are...marriage being expensive and spiritual sicknesses. Nowadays, it's cheaper to date and have zina. Additionally, there are people with spiritual sicknesses and they are dealing with marriage block and need to be treated with rukayah, etc.
We surround by things that activate sex and our parents don't care at all. So find someone good and permanent and do nikah and enjoy your life with them. Your parents will get use it. Lesser of the 2 evils. I don't have time with irrational parent worship. Be a rational Muslim. Don't let parents interfere in your shahawaat
Do you eat Harvey’s? Following sheikh hakims opinion?
Change the title
Decency is too hard to find and the right values in a woman. Compromises have to often be made on looks and a lot more. Feminism hasn't helped either.
Only one reason, more fear, care and love for others or one own self and the worldly life than Allah and the next life. And most of them believe their reasons are justifiable but they are not and they don't even realize it. (Just like Allah says about munafiqs that and they don't even realize it)
You should go against your parents and get married if you need to get married. Marriage is like food. If you need it, you do it even if your parents are stupid and selfish and say no.
Many parents are stupid when it comes to marriage. Mine were too. I married without their agreement saved myself from zina and enjoyed my kids and a lovely woman. If I listen to them I wouldn't still be married or have kids.
I'm not getting married because I don't want all my wealth and hard work to be taken away in a blink of an eye.
What country
@embraceislamandeventuallyy1006 England.
@@alanab5735 prenup in America it's. not helping in England... even in America most of the time it's not a guarantee solution there are a lot if cases where men put prenup and they still lost everything
Why not marry islamically without involving the gov ?
@@constantmotivation8489I think because they can go and complain to the gov courts that will trump the Islamic contract and go in favour of the kafir law
My message to every Muslim, my brother or sister, the owner of the channel, I know that I do not have the right to comment on your channel, but as God bears witness, our circumstances are harsh and you forced me to do this, something. Please forgive me. I honor you because you are men. We are women. You cannot go out or work like you, my brother. Where is the brotherhood of faith in your hearts? We are women. Brotherhood. There is no mercy, no compassion, no humanity. Giving good news to the patient is the greatest hope of waiting for what we want.'''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' how much. I called, how many words I spoke, and how hard we are, but there is no life to whom you call. Brother, we are with us. My mother orders us food from the restaurant. Zawidah and today. My mother went. She was crying. She said why is Yami crying? You said, my daughter. I'm asking. God is mine. He consoles me with death. She said it. why. Yami. You claim against us. She said: My daughter, today is a friend. The restaurant. Why? The most beautiful people in terms of people. I ask God, my daughter. God is gathering me. Death alone is a better insect. Who is this foolish and this insignificant? True, true. I am saying this. It diminishes my value and my respect. But, brother. I swear to God that I did not say this, kiss your boots. I was so hungry that my conscience no longer allowed me to let her go and ask us for food. I kiss your boots, brother, and I ask you by God Almighty and in the Book of God, brother, I kiss your boots, brother. We have nothing to do with it, brother. Even a thousand Yemeni riyals. We can buy us a kilo of minutes. 00967717018744. Have mercy on him. He who is in the show will have mercy on you. He who is in heaven will have mercy on you. Brother. This is my number. The one who can help us. Message me on WhatsApp. We will send it. The full name will transfer us as much as he can. May God reward you well. God knows that the owner of the house takes us out in the street in the rain because of... Please see my condition for yourselves, I ask you by God, the Ever-Living, the Ever-Subsisting, to help me, and God is the Great, even at night we cannot sleep from fear. We have neither mattresses nor blankets to keep us warm from the cold. Everything has been drowned by the rain, and we have no one but God. Then you, my brothers, kiss your boots. Do not let me be disappointed. Help us as much as you can. So, do you please us that we live in this place? We are girls and we have no one. Our father died in a car accident. Consider us your daughters and offer and help me as much as you can. May God reward you well =>[[}>] ^][°] €] €] €] €...' ',,,,,,,,;-'-"!;'(')"\|\(/()\|¶€(/)'|\€\>|\≧≫;;/😢🎉:; -/;;!;?;"?😢🎉???✓]}>>]}]}]\>]}