He Never Knew His Maid Was So Beautiful Until He Saw Her On Her New Dress Cleaning The House

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  • @thearcherofjustice1492
    @thearcherofjustice1492 3 місяці тому +26

    This man is always complaining, and never happy. Everytime he comes home. No happy interaction with his wife nor children. And downtalking on the mom before the children giving a bad image and education. He doesn't deserve such a wonderful woman and children.
    Also the baby is always crying, she must sense all the tension in the house through her mother

  • @tonyu8784
    @tonyu8784 3 місяці тому +35

    Lazy man you should have stayed single

    • @kathleenpierre781
      @kathleenpierre781 3 місяці тому +3

      Absolutely

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  • @MutesiJesca-ct6rf
    @MutesiJesca-ct6rf 3 місяці тому +18

    Some men should try to dwell in their wife's life and see what they are going through and be helpful to them

  • @glenisjemmott959
    @glenisjemmott959 3 місяці тому +15

    Girlfriend! Let him do the house work and look after the children just for a week. Stay on your bed.

  • @theyluv_tshego
    @theyluv_tshego 3 місяці тому +13

    This man is selfish 😢. He only cares about himself. Career women we are suffering from these men 's inferiority complex.

    • @rosannaburgess714
      @rosannaburgess714 2 місяці тому

      😂that's why I don't have one, I can do bad by myself, don't need a dictator or boss in my life

  • @chrisukwuoma75
    @chrisukwuoma75 3 місяці тому +12

    Why is the man not helping the poor woman? He is so annoying

  • @LisaFaith-oe4ql
    @LisaFaith-oe4ql 3 місяці тому +11

    That's reality!! Real life is hard especially when both partners are not cooperating & having intelligent conversations with each other to solve big issues in life. Women are suppose to be a helper, friend and a compliment and not a slave

  • @laforrestinebrown6136
    @laforrestinebrown6136 3 місяці тому +24

    Great lesson to learn. If you help making children than help nurtured them.

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  • @christinmoore5192
    @christinmoore5192 3 місяці тому +12

    If only men could switch rolls with the woman (including carrying the child and giving birth) just a few days, they would have 50 times more Respect

  • @josephinelugwana
    @josephinelugwana 3 місяці тому +27

    I can never forget such moments,its hard to have a neat space,husband has to be cooperative,otherwise you can go crazy.

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    • @rosannaburgess714
      @rosannaburgess714 2 місяці тому

      It would help if the husband helped his wife with the housework and children instead of fussing with his wife.😢

  • @angellawilliams4898
    @angellawilliams4898 2 місяці тому +4

    Man you're wife is not helper she's helpmates please 😂😂😂,

  • @ChosenEssien
    @ChosenEssien 3 місяці тому +27

    Nothing so sweet in a relationship than to co-operate❤.

    • @Vstaenttv
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    • @ChimaOkponwa
      @ChimaOkponwa Місяць тому

      1a❤😮😅😮​@@Vstaenttv

  • @m.wnjoroge3408
    @m.wnjoroge3408 3 місяці тому +12

    Best Naigerian movie ,all actors waooo ,the baby 🎉

  • @FaithPraise-dk8vk
    @FaithPraise-dk8vk 3 місяці тому +24

    Mothers are multi-tasking in nature, the need to be appreciated

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  • @Maryclair-q2i
    @Maryclair-q2i 3 місяці тому +35

    I love movies like this because its unique, different, emotional and so real. These are the real struggles in marriage, and whoever says marriage is easy.

    • @Vstaenttv
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    • @deborahdarlington7721
      @deborahdarlington7721 3 місяці тому +2

      I really enjoyed watching this

  • @eetsandtreats
    @eetsandtreats 3 місяці тому +10

    A movie which stirs up different emotions from beginning too end.❤

  • @gratful280
    @gratful280 3 місяці тому +5

    Nice movie! Wrong title, but I enjoyed it.

  • @mrsbrownpowell5565
    @mrsbrownpowell5565 3 місяці тому +31

    The husband said his wife's career died when paid her dowry. Lol. Thank God I am an independent Jamaican woman.

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    • @sharonfairley4390
      @sharonfairley4390 3 місяці тому +3

      Wait until you get old alone and full off regrets of what should have would have and could have been if you had thought of family instead of your own comfort😢

    • @okoboiibrahim
      @okoboiibrahim 2 місяці тому

      Bro calm down failures and arrogant people speak same like her 😂and I can ​@@sharonfairley4390

    • @okoboiibrahim
      @okoboiibrahim 2 місяці тому

      Registered failure in different relationships due to poor attitude 😂😂

    • @anthoniasegun7000
      @anthoniasegun7000 2 місяці тому

      If a woman is too understanding and polite, the man will continue taking her for granted thinking the woman was born to take all manner of shits. Same shits himself won't even take. Me I no do that rubbish oh. You wan please man, early grave go just call you be that.

  • @KhethiweMzamo-p4p
    @KhethiweMzamo-p4p 3 місяці тому +5

    Nice movie indeed. Uncle Derrick has learned a lot he'll be able to take care of his kids once he gets married. The title doesny match with the movie, the was no maid in this movie.

  • @mablemcclymont5287
    @mablemcclymont5287 2 місяці тому +3

    Great movie there's a sayings that goes cow never know the use of its tail until they lose it well this husband never know the value of his wife until he has to take care of his family and home see when his wife comes back how much he appreciate her love it ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤watching from Jamaica 🇯🇲

    • @MelvaWilliams-e7j
      @MelvaWilliams-e7j Місяць тому

      Watching from Jamaica 🇯🇲 and trust me,,I almost cuss,,when you're trying your best and it's not appreciated,,me glad him get the chance to stand in her shoes so hi know how much it hurts 😢 glad how it ended though, I told my son the other day, not everything is a woman's job 😮

  • @BuyiswamabuyieMabuyie-pu6pc
    @BuyiswamabuyieMabuyie-pu6pc 3 місяці тому +7

    Nc movie guyz & teaching a lot ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @patriciagranberry8186
    @patriciagranberry8186 3 місяці тому +13

    I loved her voice and mom's should be appreciate..Great movie ❤

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  • @ssentongohenry4161
    @ssentongohenry4161 3 місяці тому +4

    my dear sisters, be carefully with those old men, they don't appreciate however much you put alot of efforts.
    i don't advice you to marry men who are too older than you please

  • @doreendzimuuzani7180
    @doreendzimuuzani7180 3 місяці тому +4

    I don't like movies like these ,they remind me of my past. Living like a slave while trying to make ends meet as a mother and a wife to ungrateful man

    • @felixodhiambo304
      @felixodhiambo304 2 місяці тому

      I used to cry a lot seeing ma self as aslave

  • @Maryclair-q2i
    @Maryclair-q2i 3 місяці тому +24

    I appreciate all the mothers out there. Men need to realize motherhood is not easy. It takes more than the pains of a child's birth to be called a mother. Men need to appreciate a good mother and wife because when you have both in a woman,she is definitely a keeper. A man is welcome to snatch a good wife and mother from a careless man.

    • @Vstaenttv
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  • @treelady4760
    @treelady4760 3 місяці тому +10

    The sound was perfect. You did not hear the echo in the background like in other movies. A real family situation that was truly enjoyable.

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  • @elletamccrobie7720
    @elletamccrobie7720 3 місяці тому +4

    When she finished do so much running their is no time for her self 😮 my God

  • @patricianalls7779
    @patricianalls7779 3 місяці тому +4

    Good plot. Fiona really plays her part with the crying...lol. Nowvhe understands a part if a woman's job. It can be very overwhelming at times. Good movie and well-played❤

  • @elletamccrobie7720
    @elletamccrobie7720 3 місяці тому +4

    Not a good father at all no he is a slave driver 😮😮

  • @LisaFaith-oe4ql
    @LisaFaith-oe4ql 3 місяці тому +3

    He is so ignorant and very arrognt.

  • @vickieathalone1292
    @vickieathalone1292 2 місяці тому +4

    He should be helping instead of complaining

  • @rosabull4662
    @rosabull4662 2 місяці тому +3

    So Mom, why don't you make the children clean up their MESS? HA,HA, ERROR NUMBER ONE AND INCORRECTABLE 😂🎉

  • @DavidAnderson-rx5ec
    @DavidAnderson-rx5ec 3 місяці тому +6

    I really these movies from Africa. However, why is it that only men that have home ownership. In most of the movies that I have watched, the men are telling the women to leave the home. It's 2024, please make movies where the females have home ownership. Otherwise, you continue to show little girls that they are beneath boys. The men have all the power in these movies. In Canada and the U.S, women are homeowners so little girls grow up achieving their dreams which may or may not include a man.

    • @bernadettebesong7831
      @bernadettebesong7831 3 місяці тому +1

      Unfortunately societies around the world have different cultures and rules. Most African cultures are patrilineal. So men run the show to an extent. And in some cases the man already had his house etc before marriage. So just like people do prenuptial agreements in the West, in Africa we already understand it so we don't bother going to sign it . But during divorce, the judge will decide what happens. But it's the man's house till the court rules. Except it is the woman's name in the house agreement or rent etc.

  • @user-carolynjohnson
    @user-carolynjohnson 3 місяці тому +4

    Oh my God!!❤❤ That’s the kind of husband I would want. I want to take care of the house and kids exclusively.!! I’m able to shop by myself nice things, my major was computer science, but that’s not what I want to do now

  • @adeltermason6226
    @adeltermason6226 3 місяці тому +2

    Abusive husband, crying baby 💔 too much for me o. Can't handle this drama 😢

  • @PhatCleo6991
    @PhatCleo6991 3 місяці тому +24

    No one is saying anything about how that baby played her role pretty well.😍 Please give her some love, including the other two well-managed kids!

  • @thearcherofjustice1492
    @thearcherofjustice1492 3 місяці тому +4

    The brother should get up from the sofa and respectfully greet his brother's wife!!! What a macho upbringing is this 😡😒
    Maybe it has something to do with tradition(?) it's a macho world. But we are making progress. As a woman myself,, I'm 69 now, I raised 3 boys all by myself. I never minded to serve, and care for my partner, for as long as I was appreciated and not taken for granted. Men of my time, even in Europe (my dad, grandpa, uncles, brothers etc etc) were still considering the woman as their maid (too long to develop), we are supposed to complement each other with love, care and respect. No-one is superior nor inferior.
    Anyway, I loved the lessons of this story and enjoyed it especially from where the husband starts to "walk in his wife's shoes ".

  • @thearcherofjustice1492
    @thearcherofjustice1492 3 місяці тому +10

    Hahaha that was the best lesson 🤣 who looks ridiculous now?! 🥰 This was my life in my younger days too and that of many women. I raised my 3 Sons to be better understanding and they are hands on dad's, companions.
    Beautiful movie, great acting. Thank you for this wonderful entertainment and I'm happy the couple could end up understanding each other better instead of divorcing after the first small obstacles!!! Like nowadays.

  • @NamuyigaBabilye
    @NamuyigaBabilye 3 місяці тому +3

    I think the baby is having a sponsor for cringing every time

  • @herminesaddler8734
    @herminesaddler8734 2 місяці тому +1

    This man is selfish and he has no heart for is wife no companion my God yes he is always complaining let him clean the house cook and look after the children house work never finish this lady will have nervous brake down he is just a bully or a slave master

  • @pamelacollins8028
    @pamelacollins8028 2 місяці тому +2

    Love love love this movie. Great movie ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @777records2
    @777records2 3 місяці тому +4

    Super mom

  • @NancyAchieng-oj7hi
    @NancyAchieng-oj7hi 3 місяці тому +5

    The baby crying alot

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    • @candiceberry9713
      @candiceberry9713 3 місяці тому

      Too much man

  • @khadeejarahman8372
    @khadeejarahman8372 2 місяці тому +1

    Oh my goodness, what an unbelievable Housewife, can you imagine how she dealt with all of that to the point of her making a Househusband out of him, speechless (Ha-Ha)! I must commend the Husband's Friend as well for he was really cooperative, oh(laugh)! Anyways you all know I just can't, hence my being Single but still love Kids oh, lonta(laugh)! Cheers, do keep entertaining us and hope all goes well for your Country! Always! Khadeeja Alghali-Rahman (London, UK)🤜🤛😭🤣🥳🎉🕴️🎥🐓🦃🐌🦌🦋🦗🐡👁️🐄🐑🐔🕊️⚓🐾❤️🌴🏞️🦕🐉🐊🐢🦖🤼⭐🏜️🌈🏖️🌜🌛

  • @rosannaburgess714
    @rosannaburgess714 2 місяці тому +1

    😂😂😂 I have to get rid of him for the following reason: "FAILURE AS A HELPMATE!" 😅😅😅😅

  • @patriciagrant3174
    @patriciagrant3174 3 місяці тому +2

    I thought i would see both husband and wife doing some chores together after she returns from her mom spicy up the ending a little nevertheless it was a lesson well thought to men to be considerate and supportive, also to women to be respectable and coolheaded which the wife display, she could have acted differently notwithstanding his behavior towards her was hard. (Help meet not maid)

  • @elsiesakaria3147
    @elsiesakaria3147 3 місяці тому +5

    The second comment!! Yepii!!🎉🎉

  • @rosabull4662
    @rosabull4662 2 місяці тому +1

    Remember, Oga, you have three unmanageable children! Are you trying to make another one? Wonderful birth control strategy. KEEP THE KIDS IN YOUR ROOM

  • @everaldforrest2757
    @everaldforrest2757 3 місяці тому +2

    His maid is beautiful yes, but what about him, where is the balance in this movie. It’s another beauty and the beast story. It is like money run things, in who gets who and what. We need to see a balance couple in these movie to give people some kind of dream of enjoying the watching of these movie.

  • @lydianewman2415
    @lydianewman2415 3 місяці тому +6

    Great movie!!❤

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  • @gracewairimu937
    @gracewairimu937 2 місяці тому +1

    This man no empathy at all raising children is not both a man and woman responsibility. By the time this woman is done she has no energy left. Women train your sons that it’s ok to help with the children and home front duties .

  • @lindelwamthinkulu863
    @lindelwamthinkulu863 2 місяці тому +1

    At least he realized how bad he was and was prepared to CHANGE .Happy for maam her home is becoming A REAL HOME , her patience has paid her well . May men stop taking their home experiences to their own homes because now this lady suffered because of what he saw her sisters do

    • @MelvaWilliams-e7j
      @MelvaWilliams-e7j Місяць тому

      He had 6 sisters, but only one wife, he believed he married a Trojan horse 🐎 to carry every weight, really glad she got a chance to make him feel a little of what she was going through, then he realized how he was really maltreating her, love the ending though ❤

  • @gaboiphiwenkgowe9685
    @gaboiphiwenkgowe9685 3 місяці тому +1

    This movie somehow abused the little child, crying like that often ng ng too much

  • @MiriamManyando
    @MiriamManyando 3 місяці тому +3

    I love this movie❤❤❤

  • @patriciagrant3174
    @patriciagrant3174 3 місяці тому +3

    If you move i will move you! frustration at its heights.

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  • @squeaky332
    @squeaky332 2 місяці тому +2

    I love the happy dance when the wife is coming home.😂😂

  • @danielbaidoo9147
    @danielbaidoo9147 3 місяці тому +1

    Your wife is not your maid or slave. Lending a helping hand as a man takes away your ego as a man? Oh no. Man, you've got to help a little with the chores now? Aba

  • @MONDAYNNANNA-j8g
    @MONDAYNNANNA-j8g 3 місяці тому +3

    I love this movie

  • @angellawilliams4898
    @angellawilliams4898 2 місяці тому +1

    Man you 😂see never easy for your wife 😂😂😂😂,,

  • @MONDAYNNANNA-j8g
    @MONDAYNNANNA-j8g 3 місяці тому +3

    I love this movie❤😊

  • @NyarodongoJaber
    @NyarodongoJaber 2 місяці тому +2

    The most insensitive husband I have ever seen

  • @TacyG
    @TacyG 2 місяці тому +1

    The baby should have been taken to the doctor!

  • @josephineaboyewa1158
    @josephineaboyewa1158 3 місяці тому +1

    This baby is crying that hard, is it not abuse, even though it's a play

  • @celestinemuhamad747
    @celestinemuhamad747 2 місяці тому +1

    What kind of man is this. She's working so hard the house the children. The supermarket she running. He have no love in him

  • @lovelynzarah8348
    @lovelynzarah8348 3 місяці тому +3

    Pls can someone tell me the title.

  • @genesiajames3293
    @genesiajames3293 3 місяці тому +3

    Wrong title

  • @saundrajohnson1134
    @saundrajohnson1134 3 місяці тому +1

    That baby was good and the two kids all so good at the beginning that father was a jerk getting mad at the wife cause she didn't clean or cook for him every day same thing its hard she trying to take care of the kids and clean and cook that's a twenty four hour job seven days a week he didn't lift a finger to help her they are his kids to when she left he finally found out how hard it is for her at leat he had help from his brother he still didn't work hard as she did the father was not a good baby sitter why he was jumping for joy when his wife said she was coming home in three days to it looks like he want to get away from them marriage is a partnership not just one parent do all the work it took both of you to make them so now you both take care of them

  • @CollinsNdira
    @CollinsNdira 2 місяці тому +1

    The baby is a good actresss she can proffetionally cry😂😂😂😂😂

  • @user-imoooo
    @user-imoooo 3 місяці тому +2

    Sometimes I keep quiet when my mom complain about me because I understand what they passing though 😢

  • @LisaFaith-oe4ql
    @LisaFaith-oe4ql 3 місяці тому +1

    My house. Is he for real?? When you get married, you are no longer two but one so he is treating his wife as a slave and not his partner. I'd hate to end up with a fake man like that one.

  • @lolettabrown4081
    @lolettabrown4081 2 місяці тому +2

    This man is just like my husband

  • @OssyOssy-i7r
    @OssyOssy-i7r 3 місяці тому +2

    The baby can Cry sha

  • @lindelwamthinkulu863
    @lindelwamthinkulu863 2 місяці тому +1

    Ey this baby is a professional crier 😂😂😂

  • @user-carolynjohnson
    @user-carolynjohnson 3 місяці тому +1

    Oh my God😮❤❤ the woman singing in the background. Her voice is so gorgeous.!! who is this? Somebody please tell me.

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  • @brooklynn6805
    @brooklynn6805 3 місяці тому +3

    Keira Hewatch is a good actress 🌟

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  • @lindelwamthinkulu863
    @lindelwamthinkulu863 2 місяці тому

    Ey but men sometimes can be sooo hard no matter how much you try as a woman , Tis hard to be a woman shem , now it seems as if these kids are to be cared forby the mkther huuuuuu breakfast , housework , bedroom work , being stopped from things of your interest mmmm " THAT CAREER DIED WHEN I PAID YOUR DOWRY ! WOW men you are oppressive shem in the name of love or marriage . I rather be single and free than liviing to be scolded at all times . If it was me I would have left this man loooooong ago . Women LOVE YOURSELVES more . Leave them with their all times SORRY , SORRY . This is a sad reality unfortunately

  • @magdelinetshabalala3063
    @magdelinetshabalala3063 12 днів тому

    I wish she changes her mind. Men think we don't deserve helpers or we're lazy. Good lady taught him a lesson 😂😂😂😂

  • @rosabull4662
    @rosabull4662 2 місяці тому

    Other Women husband's help their wives with child care and home chores. Why are you HEARTLESS?

  • @marymbugua8875
    @marymbugua8875 2 місяці тому

    I feel so angry watching this movie. I see how I dropped my career to raise my kids and now, it's like I was picked from a street somewhere.
    Men can really stress up women...yet they don't want to be asked for everything.

  • @junecox8274
    @junecox8274 2 місяці тому

    Very good movie enjoyed it thanks to all the actor's and the kids❤❤❤👏👏👏👏👏💕💕💕

  • @angelaoboh1048
    @angelaoboh1048 2 місяці тому

    Not only you married your wife to take care of your household but to nag and turn her to wife slave 🤨 haba now! Big Bro 😂 you should be proud of your wife and cooperate🥰

  • @kandegomdah4718
    @kandegomdah4718 2 місяці тому

    That is what you think. Your wife is not your slave. You both made the babies. Other men go and come home to still help. What is wrong with that guy?

  • @jenniferthomas5014
    @jenniferthomas5014 2 місяці тому

    The. Baby. Is a real actress,poor woman fraustration is killing her and she is so calm with it,,what a inconsiderate man.

  • @MariaDoretheaAbrahams
    @MariaDoretheaAbrahams 2 місяці тому +1

    Great movie, I love it❤

  • @KahindaJustus-m6i
    @KahindaJustus-m6i 2 місяці тому

    Foolish terrible bad husband should be the tittle. Guy lacks common sense😢😢

  • @margarettemorake5046
    @margarettemorake5046 2 місяці тому

    This man is arrogant, how does he shout at the lady like this and can't even.give chance to.explain herself.

  • @JohnSunday-s6r
    @JohnSunday-s6r 2 місяці тому

    Very interesting film, men should learn hw to appreciate their good wives, but the title of the film is not what we watched

  • @rosabull4662
    @rosabull4662 2 місяці тому

    Na wa oh, IS MARRIAGE BY FORCE? MARRY A TRADITIONAL WOMAN! IF THAT IS YOUR WISH. 😮

  • @maryjooste6161
    @maryjooste6161 3 місяці тому +1

    Who's baby is ths??

  • @susanwhaley4191
    @susanwhaley4191 3 місяці тому +1

    ❤😢😢

  • @stacyannfairweather2787
    @stacyannfairweather2787 2 місяці тому

    This baby cries too much😮.plus these kids need training

  • @TendaiBhasvi-kn1pc
    @TendaiBhasvi-kn1pc 2 місяці тому

    Did they intentionally made.the baby cry for the movie

  • @RosenahMakina
    @RosenahMakina 2 місяці тому

    Men be there for women they are humans.Nice movie❤

  • @BArbaraTucker-y7t
    @BArbaraTucker-y7t 3 місяці тому +1

    Like this movie very 🤣🤣❤❤❤❤❤

  • @worshiprose3932
    @worshiprose3932 Місяць тому

    Best actress award goes to baby Fiona😂❤😅😅😅

  • @kandegomdah4718
    @kandegomdah4718 2 місяці тому

    Some men have no clue what it takes to care for children.

  • @janiceborne8882
    @janiceborne8882 2 місяці тому

    Don’t get another baby now, he can’t handle the three you have

  • @lysezaidi9923
    @lysezaidi9923 Місяць тому

    At least he has conscious
    When the table is reversed

  • @rosabull4662
    @rosabull4662 2 місяці тому

    OGA, YOUR WIFE NEEDS A HOME HELP IF YOU ARE SO AROGANT.

  • @faithosborne6599
    @faithosborne6599 3 місяці тому +1

    The word is unkept not unkempt