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The big brother just doing big brother duty to help little brother. Sometimes divorced people are divorced for a reason.
Ti koj thiab os ib tu tij laug pheej hai lawv caug koj lub neej thiab na kuv mloog koj yeej g nyiam koj tu niam ntxawm koj thiaj coj koj tu kwv thiab os nkawv lub neej xi nkawv ma
Poj nrauj yeej tsis phem txhuas tus? Tabsis yog yuav tau tus phem ces yeej phem tiag tiag lis.
Tau poj ncauj ncab ces npaum nkaus koj thab tau ib tug poj dab, tau poj tsis tab cuab ces tseev zoo txiv neej yawg los peem tsheej ua neeg vuab tsuab.
Tus mom dev ko es kj tseem yuav siv kj lub sij hawm mus nrog tham thiab kav tsij muab dov kauj vab sai li sai tau xwb ces thiaj paub maj
Ua poj nrauj lawm los txhob siab dub li ntawv lawv yom Tsis nyiam yus yus yim ua kom zoo xwb hos.
Tim koj ua ntej koj ua tsis yog lawm yog koj yuav hais , hais thaum tseem tsis tau yuav xwb twb yuav lawm es koj tseem hais tim koj lawm os.
yog tsis phem ces luag yeej tsis muab nrauj li os mog, yus los ib yam yog tsis phem yus yeej tsis nrauj thiab ov mog, vim nej niam chim chim es thiaj npam thiab thiaj li khaum ov mog pom tsis pom paub tsis paub,
Tau poj niam xob txhiaj ces zoo li ko tiag. Ho koj niag kwv ko mas zoo coj mus tua na thiab tua mos lwj kawg.
Niag pojnrauj ko phem dhau lawv thiaj nrauj povtseg. Nej Niag kwv ruam hlwb rwj tseem mus khaws los tshoj cuab. Nkawd ces npam tsawg dhau, twb noj niam&txiv 30k ces muab qhov life ins, los rau nej ua ntees. Ins Yog kwv npe nws txhob txwm tsis kam sign rau niam ces hnub no tsis lees nws ua kwvtij los yog kawg lawm.
Cov niag neeg es yus txaus yus siab mus yuav pojnrauj ces yeej muaj2 tswv yim li ko os. Tsis muaj neeg ntxub los yus pheej xav tias luag ntxub yus. Ntuj aw..coj lub siab qub xwb ces kawg rov tau ua pojnrauj dua xwb os. Pojnrauj yawg nrauj los yus puag pw xwb es niam yog luag teeb meem os.
Tus neeg phem ces yeej phem os cov neeg phem2 ua neej yeej tsi txog twg os
Tej laus yeej hais tias muab lo lus phem los hais ua ntej lo zoo ces yog ntshai tsam thaum kawg zoo li no
Niag poj nrauj qias neeg niag poj nrauj phem ces yog niag ko lawm tiag kj tham xwb twb tsaus rau peb ntxub lawm
Nyab poj nrauj es tseem phem npaum li ko thiab ces muab nkawv 2 niam txiv ko xab lais mus tau lawm os....tos tau ua poj nrauj los yeej siab phem li ko thiaj tau ua poj nrauj. Tsim nyog mas yus twb yog poj nrauj lawm yuav tsum rub lub siab kom ntev luag thiaj tsis cem2 yus, luag thiaj xav hlub yus hos.
Kuv nkag suab koj zoo vim kuv muaj ob tug niam hluas yau uas yog ib khub twin thaum ib tug ntxaib tham tau ib tug yawg rauj muaj ib tug me nyuam tub kuv niam thisb txiv nkawd ruam sim tag lawm kuv yog ib tug niam uas paj kuv niam tu ob tug me nyuam khub no ces kuv kuj yog tus nyob ze nkawd kuv thiaj tau nug li koj nug thiab tab sis kuv tus niam hluas nrog rau tus txiv hluas tseem chim thiab tu sisb rau kuv thiab yog tseem muaj niam muaj txiv muaj nyab muaj nus ces xav kom kuv hais los kuv yeej tsis hais li os
Hais rau koj tu nyab koj nrog nyob thiab ma kuv yog poj nyiam kuv twb tsi nyiam los lu koj thiab
To all the sisters, stay away from cov family zoo li tus txivtsev no. Luag tsi nyiam koj, ces txhua yam teebmeem tim koj ib leeg tag nrho. Txhua yam nws hais, hais kom tau cai xwb. Hom tibneeg no, you will never win. He has excuses for everything under the sun. I know family likes this.
Your niam ntxawm siab me2. My brother-in-law did worse to my kids but I forgave him. My husband and his 2 brothers are not close so the wives are not close either. Sometimes it’s better to keep distance and only come around when necessary. Less drama and stress.
Cov niag poj nrauj siab yeej phem luag yuav tsi tau thiaj muab nrauj es tseem mu khaw thiab
Tus neeg siab phem tus xeeb ceem yeej tsis pauv, cia ua qauv rau lwm tus ua chaw kawm, thov kom tsawg tiam los txhob ntsib.
The bil has the right to ask her. It's the niam ntxawm that is wrong. She needs to fix herself
There’s always 3 sides to every story. Your side, her side, and the truth. We still need to hear how you and your family treat her too. I know most Hmong families look down on women who are divorced.
Right. Kuv tsis ntseeg tus older brother tag,vim nyias pom nyias qhov yog xwb.
Nej tsis paub tiag vim lis cas nws thiaj au poj nrauj na vim siab me thiab siab npau lis ntawm los ma .
Nej tsis paub tiag txog kev poj nrauj yog dab tsis 😂😂😂😂
Yuav tsum muaj dab tsis xwb ma 🤣 🤣 tu kwv ntawv los phem un Yam lis tus poj nrauj ntawm thiab tsis yog Tim ib tus xwb os 😂
Damn it was the point his mom dying wish was to come after her youngest son if he was a righteous son nothing would happen to him🥲
I understand where the big brother is coming from. I will ask my son the same thing, not because i don't like the divorcee lady, but bcuz i know hmong men how they will change their mind when they realize that they married a divorced lady and they were a single man. I do not want the other lady to go through another divorce with another set of kids. I have nothing against the divorcee, but i know how our hmong community works. So, let's not be too quick to judge the big brother and his family. To the divorcee sister i understand your pain and frustration but you should have at least tried your very best to integrate your husband's family, and if after you tried all your best, you see that they still hate you, then you can stay away from them, but taking the money from your parents in law was not right at all. Do not envy our takeaway money or things from others.
Koj yog ib tug txiv neej coj tsis tus li koj tus kwv yuav xwb twb tsis yog koj yuav li neb
Tus tijlaug no xav tsw tus khwv lub neej
I understand why the question was asked in the beginning, but let's be honest here, there are much better words to use than the words used by the older brother. No need to say she is a divorcee, you are a single guy, you should marry a single girl. If the intent was as pure as the older brother explained, no need to use the same words the elders use. Just be straight forward. Maybe say, if you truly want to marry her, you need to love her to the end, don't ever use her being a divorcee in the future as a reason to want another woman.
Umm, why not? It's not a stupid question. Many divorcee do give themselves a bad name. Lots of times, this is exactly what happens. The brother gets tired of the divorcee wife and the divorcee wife is bad. Wow, and it happened here too. Exhibit A.
Totally agree. If I were her, I'd feel offended and believe that this older brother doesn't like me already knowing that I'm a divorced woman.
Why waste so much time on her? It’s not your wife or life. She’s divorced for a reason.
Hmong women divorcee is automatic discriminated. We all know this. SMH for the older brother to not give a shit about his niece or nephew to let them fall into the system that's foul when he had loved and care for your kids like his own at one time in his life for many years. The lease you could do for the innocent children.
Too much of traditions caused for a family to tear each other apart. Love have nothing to do with a person status as a single or divorced person, but it has everything to do with how each felt about the other. 😮😮
Tsis tsim nyog koj tus kwv pab2 koj thaum ub. Zov2 koj cov menyuam es koj tau tes mus ua hauj lwm tau nyiaj ntau2. Yuav tau pojniam los saib tsis ntau, thaum lub neej puas los koj zoo siab nyho nws. Cas koj yuav tuaj hais qhuas ntxias cuag li koj zoo2. Koj twb tsis zoo coj twb tsis ncaj, tej zaum koj yeej tau ua ntau yam koj tsis hais rau hauv no xwb. Txhob muaj plhus luag nws koj zeeg tej zaum tseem yuav los.
Yog tu tij laug yog neeg siab phem tom heev
The oldest brother was already biased from the beginning. The whole family was. Never gave her a chance and before marriage had already gave her an ultimatum. If I was the younger brothers wife. I would have ran away!
She not wrong
She treat you all like you treat her
She is wrong for taking people money that don’t belong to her and wrong for not helping with the in-law funeral. No wonder she’s a divorcee! 🤦🏻♀️
You are probably like her that's why you said she is not bad. I don't said the brother did it right, but she can't take other people's money. She is who she is that's why she got divorced
I don’t believe she was upset because of your words. It’s most likely an excuse
The new and younger generation don’t realize that they will eventually become old one day too!!
Niampog ua tau haujlwm zoo kawg. Good story and hais tau zoo kawg.
It’s very sad. I am woman who had kids with a man who didn’t want ti marry me so I left. When I met my husband now. I knew that he was a single man never had kids before and never married. His family said the samething this brother said ti his brother wife. To me I didn’t take it any type away or felt anything because I would have said the same thing ti my sisters and brothers too. Been married to my husband for 17 years have two kids. Totally if 4 kids. His family is good to me and my children. I mean we have our ups and downs but they respect me and always come to me for anything and I do the same. It’s all up to the person.
This brother sister in law makes excuses and play victim. It’s sad
Ua nyab ces yeej tsis muaj ib tug uas luag yuav nyiam tag tag tabsis tus neeg zoo ces yeej zoo. Kev zoo yeej tau tej kwvtij txoj kev hlub.
Nej ces phem sib phim xwb
Tsis txhob chim nawb. Kv xav hais tias tus ntxhais no thiab pab hmb no yg peb cov hmb leeg. I might be wrong.
Your brother's and his wife's marriage aside. Your brothers helped you raise and love your kids but you don't even care about his kids? You'd rather have his kids go into the system than take care of them? His children are innocent and had no part in mistreating your parents. What's wrong with that picture?
Ego.
Every family has one of those poj nrauj in the family. We have one in the family too and she’s the same way.
Probably it's not her and it's ya 😂😂😂😂😂
This story is a prime example of generational culture gap difference. The older brother was only playing his fatherly role as a guide and protector. Traditionally, our elders asked questions and gave advise as a cautionary tale. The younger brother's brain is not matured enough to handle the older brother's words in the right meaningful ways. He communicated back to his wife in the wrong ways, and she too is not matured enough to distinguish the good and the bad. She proved why she became a divorced woman in the first place.
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Yes!!! He meant well and she took it the wrong way.
She should not be mad at the brother before marrying to his younger brother because the truth was true (she was poj nrauj not single). One reason why she got divorced.
Vuag cas nkawv yuav siab phem ua luaj li os..nrog koj niam thiab koj txiv tu siab kawg li😭😭😭
Hmong og need to get their finance situated. So giving all your money to your favorite children and when that child don't give the money up, the rest of your kids you didn't leave anything to have to pick up the bill. Annoying! So many story like this
Man! You guys are so lucky to have brothers who will take care of your kids
Man,dude, it's your fault too. How you worded that question wasn't right. If your words were exactly like how May said it then it totally came across that you and your family would decide for your brother if she's worth marrying. You are just...🙄 and your mom was so dramatic about her life insurance policy and your brother wanting to kill her. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
The nyab was wrong but you were wrong for not taking in his kids when he helped raised your kids. Smfh!
Let them be. No worries
Hypocrisy is real. You have one sentence at the end of the story that you’re not criticizing divorcees but really, the rest of your lecture are. SMH. There are many divorcees out there made better wives than some first wives.
Maybe the way she is that's why her ex divorced her.
Koj yog tus niag tij laug phem xwb koj hus koj kwj tse xwb I don't believe it mine your own business
This is a true perspective of hmoob people of looking at a divorced woman. But they still play the victim at the end.
totally disagreed. they'd done 1 wrong. but she's done 100 things wrong. she's the bad one, the kind who you don't want to deal with. bad peeps
That was really unnecessary to say. Not his relationship, not business. I wouldn’t want to join any of their events either! Some people can be so inconsiderate. It’s embarrassing. 🤦🏻♀️
Hmg people need to go back to understand hmoob cov kev cai no unless your backbone is soooo strong that u no longer rely on hmoob culture anymore...yes, not all is right or sound stupid but at least, ut is what you may need to close your shitty situation...
Koj twb xuv hais lus tsis zoo coj tsis yog lawm na
Too little too late to ask for forgiveness!!
Dude!! You need to stay in your lane!!! Not your life/marriage!
Both of you are wrong. You want to regulate your brother’s wife. You should just mind your business. Your sil is also stubborn and unforgiving.
Very sad for both brothers.
Unfortunately the older brother was only doing his due diligence as an older brother because he has experienced life when it comes to kev ua noj ua hau/kev koom kwv koom tij. He only tried to prepare his brothers for success and to avoid kev tu siab such as when the younger brother/niam Ntxawm did their daws npe laus and no one attended their event. I can’t imagine how it’ll be when it’s an even bigger event such as kev ploj kev tuag for the younger brother/niam Ntxawm. Thaum ntawv nkawv xav tu siab los tu tsi tau, because they were never at their relatives events to “donate” their time .
However, the younger brother is stuck between choosing his family and his wife. I understand the wife’s anger and frustration with the family. Being labeled/judged from the get go will make you have boundaries. So don’t label her as “siab me”. She was probably never siab me until she got fed up with the judgements. Cause we all know how the Hmong community is when it comes to divorced women. 😒
However, keep loving your brother and don’t give up on him. One day he will come running back to you and the family.
Still, it's not his problems to begin with.
@@ir0nm0nkey123 if it not his problem to begin with than why ask the older brother to help do the wedding?
@@bosslady8498 All he did was asked for help with the wedding, he didn't ask for their decision or judgements. Let me ask you this"is't so wrong to ask your brother for help". The least he could say is no, right? And here I thought I was trying to give the woman a hand.😂😂
That’s why nej tus niam ntxawm raug uas ib tug poj nrauj vim kev siab phem.
First of all. If you dont know how a person is, dont speak so formal with them. Because one day, this will happen. I understand that hmong og people speak their mind all the times. But it's too much weights on someone you just barely knew.
Second. Your brother is a ruam! He cant tell his wife anything because his brain cant function for himself. If people owe you money, they're not gonna pay you back but only start a war to escape the debts.
Lastly, if you are a good brother. You should have taken his kids. Those kids are innocent, they dont know you guy's problems. Adults should not finger pointing at each other's flaws. But you guys are all immature and playing victims.
You and the brother wife are just the same. No one better than the other. Why do you think you are innocent? 🤦♀️
He didn’t steal his parent money , he wasn’t the one that won’t switch off the name on the life insurance policy and most importantly he helped do the parent funeral. 😉
cia poj niam coj cai ces zoo li no.hwm niam hwm txiv thiaj tau txoj hmoov zoo
There are so many other question you can ask. Why would you ask that question? You have to look at what you and your wife can do for your parents and your relations first. You can’t fault her or your brother. You can’t play good guy and bad guy. Some people just can’t keep their mouth shut. You created this to yourself and your brother. It’s not the other way around. Imagine someone say the same thing to you and your wife? How would your wife feels?
He was only looking out for his brother when he asked him & her those questions before they got married. Majority of Hmong men cannot accept divorcé with or without children. The older brother was just being realistic & honest. Regardless, the younger brother & his wife had no right to spend the $30,000 or life insurance. Her attitude only reinforced how right they were/felt about her from the beginning.
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She’s divorced the first time because this is how she acted. Even the older brother didn’t ask the question, she still acted this way. She is who she is.
Yeej Yog li Koj hais lawm os tij, yus yuav tsum tau xov lus kom zoo rau 2 tug. Tab sis tus niam ntxawm nws tsis txawj xav xwb. Yog nws rov ua rau nws xwb
This all happened because your little brother is a POJNIAM. She's wearing the pants 24/7 and he is ok with it! Let them be....
Tu siab. Kawg peb cov poj nrauj 😢
Hahaha vim tib daim Av luaj 3 nti khub hnyiab xwb...
I actually enjoyed this story overall. Its been a while.
Yawg nrauj cais tus twg Los yeej yog poj nrauj xwb
Wow the mom is just as bad as the baby son and his wife..how its funny how much the mom n dad love the youngest baby son and at the end how much they HATED HIM 😢1975 parents 😢😢😢
Tau nyab phem ces kwv tij niam pog txiv yawg yeej yog tus phem xwb moj. Yog tau tus nyab poj dab.
Koj niam tuag lawm ces nws tsis txawj ua dab tsi hem cov ciaj, tab sis yog leej twg raug npam vim siab phej rau koj niam lawm ces tus ntawv thiaj raug lub ntuj thiab daim av tsim txom kom nws paub nws txoj kev lim hiam xwb.
You are the problem. You keep nagging and making a problem out of it. She didn’t even bother you. She do she you do you.
Kv muaj ib tus kwv ua kiag li no rau kv niam/txiv
I can understand how the rejection of the wife can cause the division. What I don't understand is why the wife spent the $30,000? That's the father's life saving. That was totally wrong. Our family has a brother and sister-in-law like that. We just leave each other alone. We don't expect anything or depend on them for anything.
Sorry to said but you are at wrong from the beginning. Don’t treat someone so ill in the beginning and expect for that person to be nice. She is not wrong you guys are. I don’t understand why most Hmong people keep thinking and saying things to people who are divorced.
But she didn't need to be so ill towards the WHOLE family and didn't need to do that to the inlaws. And look how she ended up.
Tej zaum yog nyab neej tsa xwb thiaj li mag ua poj nrauj koj niag kwv ruam thiaj li yuav xwb....
Koj tus kwv hlwb tsawg dhau.
Moral of the story is stop blaming your siblings’ spouses for how your siblings treat you. Families need to hold their person responsible and accountable for their behavior. I know it’s easy to blame their wives, but deep down inside, you know your brother is allowing those things to happen and he’s truly the one behind treating you all this way.
Koj tug nam ntxawm hab kwv ces saab lawm laus. Nam hab txiv 2leeg tuag es txawm yuav tsis thaaj tsob hab tsis care le ko mas tsis tau. Nyaj meb muab siv taag lawm ces yuav npam laus meb 2tug ua kwv na. Sad!!
We have an older sister inlaw thats divorce married after me and my husband, she told the whole world that because she was a divorced i hated her, she played victim, when word got back to me she played 2 face and told me they was lieing about her spreading rummers, and bagged me to forgive her i never trusted her after that
Nej tau ib poj nrauj dab.
Your sister in law have the right to be mad at u, but both them shouldn't take your parents money!
ua neeg yus tseb dab tsis ce yus yuav tau sau yam ntawd
This story is pointless.
I be so sick of ya playing around like btches like this don't exist. I know quite a few and I'm just sorry these cousins didn't leave those women sooner. Screwing around n leaving their kids behind then running back to take the kids so they don't end up with child support. Wrecking family relationships everywhere. Ya can stop lying.
And tbh I'm American born n I married outside hmong. Bc I can't promise I can be a good hmong nyab. I'm not bout to go wrecking everyone's life bc I wanna live mine differently. But some of ya females be acting like the world owes u.
The older gen survived on daily trauma. How the hell else ya think they make it day by day today? But ya come in acting based more on ur entitlement then grace.
This isn't a story based on her tu siab day 1 bc of wedding lectures we all got. (Yes even I got lecture bc I had a hmong wedding not meskas per my husband). There are stories of horrific in laws n then there's stories of dils like this that ya will forever make excuses for.
If u wanna make excuses for em why not say the same bout every story posted? But if ur bias just say so. Lub neej ua nyab yeej nyuaj tabsis yog koj ua teeb meem rau txhua tus, seb lawv phem los yus phem.
Ib tse neeg yeej muaj ib tus tub ruam nyab phem li kos os. Peb twb raug los lawm thiab os. Xav kom peb tus pom tej laus li kos thiab.
If my bil told my husband to find a new wife just because i dont come around, then it is a "you" problem. You blame her for majority of the problem when the brother had access full access to the money. While she is not innocent, your brother isnt too.
Advice for everyone: worry about your own marriage and leave the marriage advices out. Dont worry sbout the future. Let then live and learn from their mistakes. Most couldve been prevented had the advives and comments been left out in the beginning
tos tau ua poj nrauj lo yeej siab phem ne....ua cas es yuav hlub tus tub no ua luaj na.
ua niam ua txiv kiag es yuav muab txhua yam rau tej tug neeg zoo li no tuav ... tsis tau 1 lub ntees zoo nrog luag os
Tos tau ua poj nrauj yeej phem 😂😂 tub ua tsis taus txiv tub 50 50 xwb😂😂
Hmong people love family drama don’t they. So much expectations and so controlling over everything.
Did I read the title correctly? "Ua puas tag?"
I wonder if she was born and raised in the US not to understand Hmong culture. When you married, you married into their family too not just your husband.