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  • @mamaw9950
    @mamaw9950 5 місяців тому +146

    Thank you for sharing! It's very informative not kuripot when it comes to sharing numbers. My husband and I enjoyed it while nagtutupi ng damit. We tried for almost 3 yrs and we got tired and frustrated, we lifted everything to god. God listens and now I am four months pregnant, conceived naturally without pressure. Sending baby dust to all the girls dreaming to become a mom! ❤❤

  • @Quack248
    @Quack248 5 місяців тому +16

    2 of my cousins had their IVF in Singapore and spent millions just to have a baby. One cousin was supposed to have triplets but 1 baby died while inside the tummy and only 2 survived (boy and girl). They flew back when my cousin is already 3mos pregnant and spent most of the time at the hospital because of placenta previa and bleeding. She gave birth when both babies were 7months. The babies stayed at the NICU until they were ready to go home. My other cousin had the same pricedure but only had 1 baby (girl) . The baby was born premarture and stayed at the hospital for a long time. She was smaller than a coke bottle. Thank God, all of them are now healthy and very talented. IVF babies are very precious. Praying for those who want to have a child already. God is good.

  • @bajdcmp
    @bajdcmp 5 місяців тому +40

    The part when you were praying during the embryo transfer and when the doctor was doing it & saying multiple times “God bless you” to the embryo made me tear up too! 🥹❤️
    You are such a strong mom!!!! And Ben is such a great, supportive partner.

  • @rosetiffanyruiz5708
    @rosetiffanyruiz5708 5 місяців тому +23

    Currently 34 weeks pregnant, conceived naturally. But hearing her what she went through! Hands down. 🙌 Praying for your healthy pregnancy Miss Vern.. Mamas power all the way..🙏🙏

    • @user-ow6qv1sn8r
      @user-ow6qv1sn8r 5 місяців тому

      Why do you have to pinpoint that you conceived naturally hahaha i think thats unnecessary especially in a video like this 😂

  • @jessahtutor667
    @jessahtutor667 5 місяців тому +10

    Got pregnant because of the app Ovia that you suggested last 2022. Got pregnant year 2022 of december gave birthday August 2023 now my baby is almost one. I am actually praying for you when I got pregnant. And now seeing your baby bump makes me happy for you 😊 praying for a safe delivery and a healthy baby lim❤

  • @jennylipon_ph
    @jennylipon_ph 5 місяців тому +4

    Congrats, mommy Vern! Hearing how strong your faith is made me tear up and proud to have followed the right influencer. 🥹
    God bless you, Ben & your lil one! 💙

  • @bbblckshp
    @bbblckshp 5 місяців тому +194

    IVF is really for the rich. Hope those who are having a hard time conceiving will soon conceive naturally. 🙏

    • @Nikeenike
      @Nikeenike 5 місяців тому +12

      Karamihan kase sa mahirap mabilis magka anak pag mayaman mahirap bakit kaya? 😂

    • @wooniepatootie
      @wooniepatootie 5 місяців тому +18

      ​@@Nikeenike weird pero parang true to 😅 probably because of the lifestyle or people on the upper class tend to worry and think a lot, not really invalidating people's way of thinking.

    • @Nikeenike
      @Nikeenike 5 місяців тому +5

      @@wooniepatootie may kilala naman ako adik sila mag asawa at halos wala makain pero 3 healthy baby nila 😅

    • @Nikeenike
      @Nikeenike 5 місяців тому +3

      @@wooniepatootie tapos ung pinsan ko naman naka 4 na laglag at 1 ovary nalang sya nabuntis parin 😅

    • @Rosalie-o3d
      @Rosalie-o3d 5 місяців тому +2

      Mahirap mag conceive pag wala pa baby tapos matagal nag birth control.

  • @iamjerose-oldchannel
    @iamjerose-oldchannel 5 місяців тому +7

    “Just enjoy the season you’re in because it’s going to prepare you for the pregnancy you are meant to have and the baby you are meant to have.” - this struck me so much. I hope one day, it will come to us, Vern! I’m so happy for you!!

  • @IreneAndJack
    @IreneAndJack 5 місяців тому +3

    I’ve done 8 cycle of IVF and I did everything you could possibly imagined! I’m so lucky to have 1 beautiful boy.:) 😊 Congratulations🎉

  • @miannyl824
    @miannyl824 5 місяців тому +7

    Naiyak ako dun sa Hail Mary ms Vern. I prayed the same during my delivery and true enough it was smooth normal delivery having a huge 3.7kg baby. Baby came out after 3 pushes. Happy for you and your hubby. Indeed that is God’s gift.

    • @nitsanchez99
      @nitsanchez99 5 місяців тому

      you are not only beautiful but super brave....2 pushes and dalawang HAIL MARY and my baby came out🙏❤️🙏. Take good care of yourself gorgeous Mama😊.

  • @abigailenciso7767
    @abigailenciso7767 4 місяці тому +1

    am so glad that your IVF journey took a shorter period compared to mine! God really give blessings at His perfect time. Congratulations in advance!
    We are expecting twins too ( 2 embryo ) comes December after 14 years and 14 tries with IVF. Above all the science , God is the final answer to our prayers and IVF is one of His ways . Praise God for answering our prayers.

  • @Itz_preppyplayz846
    @Itz_preppyplayz846 5 місяців тому +2

    The last part of ur story got me emotional and crying while watching. I can't imagine what u were going thru during the whole process of conceiving. Your lil one inside ur tummy is really so so precious. GOD really finds a way f meant for u. GOD bless your pregnancy, praying for u a healthy baby and safe delivery soon. Always hold on to your faith! 🙏❤️

  • @zeamayrizaga7929
    @zeamayrizaga7929 5 місяців тому +4

    Praying for youuu 🥹 Got teary eyed listening to how strong your faith is 🥹

  • @Zcharmalou
    @Zcharmalou 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you, vern! I know it's not easy to talk too long when you're pregnant but you managed to share whatever you can. God bless your pregnancy and your soon delivery.

  • @maiying2874
    @maiying2874 5 місяців тому +4

    I have an 8 month old baby. Delivered naturally. I don’t know why I’m watching this. But the dedication and hardwork of all ivf moms!!!! 🥹🥹🥹

  • @Garrido-u2p
    @Garrido-u2p 5 місяців тому +2

    I cannot wait for your delivery day, so exciting for a-bundle of joy to come. Love those years of motherhood, was so very fulfilling. God has been gracious to the both of you,… 😇🙌🏼✨

  • @gracegelin3722
    @gracegelin3722 5 місяців тому +4

    why am I crying? 🥺 im 34, not in a relationship, but im just so so happy for all the things you went through and Ben. godbless your family

  • @nicoletubice6171
    @nicoletubice6171 5 місяців тому

    I have a 7 months old healthy and happy baby boy. And he was unplanned. BUT he’s the best surprise ever! Hearing your story and actually been following you since V&V (no wife life diaries yet), got a happy tears for you, knowing that you went through a lot during your whole process. God bless and your family Vern ❤

  • @BaneeBunny
    @BaneeBunny 5 місяців тому +3

    praying for a safe pregnancy and smooth delivery for both you and baby! us, online titas, are so excited na :)

  • @GlitterDiaries-hi6dr
    @GlitterDiaries-hi6dr 4 місяці тому

    Thankyou for this Co-endo warrior. You’ve inspired me so much to fight this complication ♥️♥️

  • @christinejakebunor
    @christinejakebunor 5 місяців тому +1

    I have three kids already but still.invested on your IVF journey miss vern. I dont know but maybe I was one of the online titas that is very happy that finally you havr your own little angel. ❤. Hoping and praying for healthy delivery. ❤❤

  • @rheesmiles
    @rheesmiles 4 місяці тому

    My mom’s cousin had a hard time conceiving but they went to a church somewhere in the Philippines (I forgot where) and surrendered to God their worries if they were going to have a baby or not but they were able to have a healthy baby girl.
    Another story my mom (she’s a fiance broker) told me about her clients who had a hard time conceiving a child so they went to a different state here in Australia to get IVF and they were blessed with two sons. Doesn’t matter if you’re rich or not but they were destined to be parents and worked a lot to get IVF. I’m sooo happy for them 🥰

  • @melodyyabut4280
    @melodyyabut4280 4 місяці тому

    Have a safe delivery Vern. So proud of you ..all the sacrifices and for being brave...GodBless ❤❤❤

  • @roanmoniqueguerzon-hernand534
    @roanmoniqueguerzon-hernand534 5 місяців тому +2

    You look so happy! Happy mom, happy baby. Congratulations! 🥺💙

  • @avarageplayer200
    @avarageplayer200 5 місяців тому

    ivf journey is not easy! mentally, emotionally & financially prepared. I did ivf here in 🇺🇸 & luckily got conceived in 1 cycle and now she is 6 months happy baby ❤🎉

  • @sammirasol1378
    @sammirasol1378 5 місяців тому +4

    Love how detailed this vlog. Very raw. Praying for self delivery mommy vern..❤

  • @jaynekutscher1321
    @jaynekutscher1321 5 місяців тому +4

    Wow the price is indeed more affordable in Thailand to do fertility work-up. We spent probably around 8k to 10k usd, testings; laboratory works, then we did IUI twice, etc. when we did ours, and we had to pay out of pocket although we get discounts from our medical insurance, but danggggg! The IVF with genetic testing but without egg freezing is around 18k usd at the clinic we went. This is just the financial part, the things we do to just get pregnant.
    Praying for a safe delivery, sleep as much as you can now momma!

    • @annarodriguez4275
      @annarodriguez4275 5 місяців тому

      Yeah just for the PGT-A alone we paid around 5000 usd.

  • @claudetterabusa
    @claudetterabusa 5 місяців тому

    thank you for this mama Vern! your baby is lucky to have u as his mom. praying for your safe delivery as well. hugs! 🫶🏼

  • @rosemariesandigan
    @rosemariesandigan 5 місяців тому

    Thank you Vern for sharing this. Sooo happy for you I cried. Praying for your safe delivery to a healthy baby boy 💕✨

  • @vanessamariecanete3466
    @vanessamariecanete3466 5 місяців тому +1

    we are going to welcome our own dragon baby!! i’m so so happy for you, Vernica! ❤ on my 24th week too! 😭

  • @alohadayto
    @alohadayto 4 місяці тому

    Faith moves mountains! Thanks for sharing your experience, your love for God and the cost estimates 🥰

  • @jieshelbal777
    @jieshelbal777 5 місяців тому

    Indeed, a million dollar baby! 😍 so so so happy for you you Ms. Vern! ❤️ prayed for you so bad! Excited to meet Baby Lim ❤️

  • @abigailpagentelau3so
    @abigailpagentelau3so 5 місяців тому +2

    Inspirational journey indeed. Praying for your healthy pregnancy Ms. Vern 🤍

  • @grayceheart
    @grayceheart 5 місяців тому +2

    Nakakaiyak sa Hail Mary and God bless you sa part ng video. God is good, all the time ❤❤❤

  • @thelmasarinocahill8808
    @thelmasarinocahill8808 2 місяці тому

    Congrats Ms Vern, can you give me the exact name of the clinic you went in Thailand? Please🙏🏼

  • @prettymarsh
    @prettymarsh 5 місяців тому

    Thabks for sharing your IVF Journey. I can totally relate, it is something that you have to be mentally and physcially prepapred to do. Did IVF one time here in the 🇺🇸 and it failed😢 i did not repeat it again because hubby & i believe that if it does not take then it’s not meant for us. We’re now 25 yrs together & looking forward to retiring soon. Goodluck and praying for a healthy full term pregnancy and a safe delivery❤❤❤

  • @victoriasagisi8917
    @victoriasagisi8917 5 місяців тому

    Imagine little Ben watching this when he grows up and he’ll learn how blessed he is to have you as his parents ❤

  • @hannakatrinerazonable9686
    @hannakatrinerazonable9686 5 місяців тому +2

    I always watch your vlogs Vern and your journey ♥️ so happy for you and your hubby. God is good!

  • @MaytenMalabanan
    @MaytenMalabanan 5 місяців тому

    I am so happy to see you in this stage of your life God is really good..his plans are much better than us... Having a healthy and happy pregnancy is your reward in listening and following him and the best reward for it is coming soon😍... Praying for you and ur baby... I so love watching your vlogs on ur pregnancy journey... You and ur husband is a one good testimony of God's love to his children who follows and believe in him...🙏🙏🙏☝️☝️☝️

  • @princesseia1
    @princesseia1 5 місяців тому

    Pregnancy glow is glowing 🥰 Praying for a safe delivery and healthy baby 💙

  • @MariaMaria-nz5ib
    @MariaMaria-nz5ib 5 місяців тому

    So much love for you, Ben and the baby lim. All the struggles you went through and the all worth it. It’s coming na. ❤

  • @cherryltagaan1204
    @cherryltagaan1204 5 місяців тому +2

    di man ako nakaranas niyan but sobrang iyak ko nung last part na kc na fefeel ko yung hard at pagsasakripisyo niyo para lang mabuo ang batang to para talaga yan sa inyo kc binigay talaga cya sa right time

  • @ItIsMeTinF
    @ItIsMeTinF 4 місяці тому

    I had mine back in 2014 in Singapore. Before you start with your ivf journey, all you could think about was how expensive it's gonna be/is. But as you go along, you realize, though it is indeed expensive, it's not the finances that will drain you. You end up having to fight for your mental, emotional and physical health. If your relationship with your husband is not that strong, that too may shake.
    Once your ivf is done, whether it fails or not, how much you spent would be at the bottom of the list.

  • @gemmarobredillo-agnes4626
    @gemmarobredillo-agnes4626 5 місяців тому

    You are at your most glowing aura on cam,pregnancy suits you well. God bless you Ms Vern.

  • @wgem7966
    @wgem7966 5 місяців тому

    I love this video Vern! Thank you for sharing your journey. 👶🏻🤍

  • @dannilyncozzens4298
    @dannilyncozzens4298 5 місяців тому +1

    Hello, I’m a Filipina who live here in the US I do IVF as well, egg harvesting twice. It’s not an easy journey especially financially, physical pain through injections but doing IVF is worth it. I had my daughter two years ago and this time I’m pregnant again thru IVF for the second time. It’s worth it all the pain.

    • @rosienerodriguez8079
      @rosienerodriguez8079 5 місяців тому

      Hi. Just wondering if its thru insurance? If so, what insurance are you in? Thanks

  • @redeeminglove1609
    @redeeminglove1609 5 місяців тому

    so true. you will forget the pain once you have the baby!!! God bless ❤

  • @samselim2310
    @samselim2310 5 місяців тому

    Praying for a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby, Miss Vern! God bless!

  • @maricelbernales5504
    @maricelbernales5504 5 місяців тому +1

    So excited malapit na mommy vern❤️😍

  • @aissaminoza2868
    @aissaminoza2868 5 місяців тому +12

    I had ectopic pregnancy 10 yrs apart, so the only solution I would get pregnant is thru IVF, it's never an easy journey esp for moms who tried to get pregnant to get an IVF, so lucky of you, you made it. Good luck and enjoy this journey. God is so good.❤

  • @beverlyhazeldiaz4464
    @beverlyhazeldiaz4464 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing your story maam. 😍😍😍
    Next week po start ng ivf namin sa Davao, thank you for this information po

  • @mariegracebasay3108
    @mariegracebasay3108 5 місяців тому

    Praying for your baby and safe delivery. He is already blessed with very loving parents.

  • @juliepasicaran8618
    @juliepasicaran8618 5 місяців тому +1

    🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤ this vlog speaks blessings... will say a prayer 4u...

  • @angelgreen9310
    @angelgreen9310 5 місяців тому

    32:25 me bawling*
    🙏😭🥺🥹 God is good all the time ❤

  • @mintnmed
    @mintnmed 5 місяців тому

    God really blessed you!!! ❤ Happy how your relationship with the Lord grew more! 😊

  • @sharmainesamson2275
    @sharmainesamson2275 5 місяців тому

    We are just so happy and excited for you and Ben. ❤

  • @rosearandia4549
    @rosearandia4549 5 місяців тому

    SO INFORMATIVE ❤😊 so excited for baby vlogs sooooon 😊🫰

  • @rosie6091
    @rosie6091 5 місяців тому +1

    Hi! can someone please help me with her answer on 19:39. Hindi ko naintindihan 😅

  • @bamakiana
    @bamakiana 5 місяців тому

    thanks for this very informative vlog, vern!! love you so much!!! 🤍🤍

  • @maSSfam
    @maSSfam 5 місяців тому

    My gosh!!! Cried a lot in this vid 😅 God bless your family

  • @iamroseannepao
    @iamroseannepao 5 місяців тому +2

    On my 28th week now and I’m happy going through this pregnancy with your videos. Having a girl here so I hope our babies meet someday❤

    • @ejfortez2073
      @ejfortez2073 5 місяців тому

      Same on my 28th weeks and having a girl. We can do it mama’s ❤

  • @Dani88808
    @Dani88808 5 місяців тому +1

    Been married for 5 years. Praying for God’s blessing and favor for me and my husband. We can’t afford to do IVF 😔
    In God’s time I know he will give us our baby naturally ❤🙏

  • @tenaantenna
    @tenaantenna 5 місяців тому

    wishing you a safe delivery vern!! ❤

  • @challenpascua3408
    @challenpascua3408 5 місяців тому

    y am i crying?🥹 God bless u miss vern hoping for ur success delivery with a healthy baby boy🥰

  • @cbgodsamazing
    @cbgodsamazing 5 місяців тому

    Praying for your safe delivery Vern ❤

  • @jessica141008
    @jessica141008 5 місяців тому

    IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU ATE VERN 🤍🫶🏻✨ God is good 🤍 Im so happy with your answered prayer 🫶🏻 God is good indeed 🤍

  • @abigailjoyreyes2203
    @abigailjoyreyes2203 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for this!!! God bless vern & ben ❤

  • @03kenjoy
    @03kenjoy 5 місяців тому +1

    😢😢 God bless your pregnancy Vern. Waiting for ours din soon ❤

  • @JilaicaBenz
    @JilaicaBenz 5 місяців тому

    So proud of you Mommy Vern 💙

  • @sheenamaebulatao9312
    @sheenamaebulatao9312 5 місяців тому

    Praying for you Vern.. for your safe pregnancy until your baby comes out.

  • @aimeedy8374
    @aimeedy8374 5 місяців тому

    Very good info…especially those who are trying IVF. I did it here in the US and cost almost 20K just ivf alone. Storage cost $750 per year

  • @leizelbenavidez
    @leizelbenavidez 5 місяців тому

    Aww your journey, really really adore you for being so brave at the same time became more closer to god 🙏🏻 godbless you

  • @applepomme
    @applepomme 5 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for all these Vern ❤😍

  • @annexgtrrzx
    @annexgtrrzx 5 місяців тому

    Very informative. ❤ thank you, Vernica! 🤍

  • @vy7970
    @vy7970 5 місяців тому +3

    Praying for healthy and safe pregnancy🙏🌷🥰

    • @VernVernieceVlog
      @VernVernieceVlog  5 місяців тому +3

      Thank you 🤍🙏

    • @vy7970
      @vy7970 5 місяців тому

      @@VernVernieceVlogmy pleasure ❤

  • @tribonijaytin2285
    @tribonijaytin2285 5 місяців тому

    I feel you! My Twin girls are already 15 months old for 2nd attempt of IVF.

  • @angelragandang5332
    @angelragandang5332 5 місяців тому

    I'm crying..❤😭
    GOD is just soooo good..❤😭😭
    God bless your little family.

  • @pdjs9794
    @pdjs9794 5 місяців тому

    The part of the story where you were just praying in the OR and the doctor also praying for you and the embryo was just 😭. Hoping for your safe pregnancy and delivery, Vern. To all the women out there - you all are amazing ❤

  • @hanjekzvlog3929
    @hanjekzvlog3929 5 місяців тому

    Nakunan ako 3 times na and then nag pa test ako apas panel pero di ko ma gets yung result kc yung OB ko sa public di gaano ka ditalyado mag exolain sa result😔

  • @marieworld8077
    @marieworld8077 5 місяців тому

    Thank you vern, such a helpful testimony🙏🏽

  • @emeequiban4381
    @emeequiban4381 5 місяців тому

    Praying for you and the baby ❤

  • @islandgirlfromboracay
    @islandgirlfromboracay 5 місяців тому

    True! Dahil nong na buntis ako, i enjoy every moment and document every moment. Dahil hindi ko alam kung kelan ulit ako mabubuntis ulit.🥹

  • @avalon0908
    @avalon0908 5 місяців тому

    good thing your doctor really push you to freeze and do ivf asap ❤❤❤

  • @renatura5640
    @renatura5640 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing Vern 🩷🙏

  • @joannericoph
    @joannericoph 4 місяці тому

    thank you for sharing your IVF journey. I did my IVF in India just last month. Total full IVF package costs only PHP172,000. The IVF hospital has good record of IVF success rates too.

  • @lengamat
    @lengamat 5 місяців тому

    Very informative vlog :) thank you so much mommy Vern for sharing!

  • @Chel.Q
    @Chel.Q 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing! This is very helpful. I would like to ask how many days one needs to stay in Bangkok for egg freezing. Wishing you a healthy and smooth delivery 🙏🏻

  • @shiemangjalmaani5810
    @shiemangjalmaani5810 5 місяців тому +1

    Praying for healthy baby easy and fast delivery mommy vern❤

  • @markodenysenko3001
    @markodenysenko3001 5 місяців тому

    You’re lucky its okay to choose the gender. Here in Australia, its not allowed to choose it. But im happy with what we have. I have a boy which is turning 5 this coming Dec. Take care always.❤

  • @xyzmsbright
    @xyzmsbright 5 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing Vern. God bless you and baby.......By the way, watching you for 45 mins, mura na kag si Donna Cruz hehehe ka may-ong na mo 🥰

  • @maritonimatibag4489
    @maritonimatibag4489 5 місяців тому +1

    Indeed a roller coaster of emotion, salute to all moms! 🫡

  • @krystle08
    @krystle08 5 місяців тому +1

    I hope alex gonzaga might try this IVF treamtment. I want to see mini alex or mikee in Gods time :)

  • @fourteen155
    @fourteen155 5 місяців тому

    Blooming mommy Vern 🥰🥰🥰💖💖💖

  • @IamBelle1974
    @IamBelle1974 5 місяців тому

    Praying for a healthy pregnancy and healthy baby for you. God bless you

  • @SuperMaze09
    @SuperMaze09 5 місяців тому +1

    omg i cried. this is so informative. thanks for sharing.💕

  • @kimnicolea
    @kimnicolea 5 місяців тому

    God’s timing is always perfect. ❤

  • @cloydcatud940
    @cloydcatud940 5 місяців тому

    Congrats po😢😢😢🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @jennylayfi4155
    @jennylayfi4155 4 місяці тому

    YOU LOOK LIKE BEA ALONZO and MARIEL RODRIGUEZ HERE. SO PRETTY

  • @sweetkristinaquino-gibela6548
    @sweetkristinaquino-gibela6548 5 місяців тому

    OMG so expensive to do IVF. I had my rainbow baby naturally conceived. Sending baby dust to all dreaming mamas out there!

  • @colleenafdal1266
    @colleenafdal1266 5 місяців тому

    Excited for your baby to come out. 😢❤