உங்கள் எதிரிகளை தோற்கடிக்க இதை செய்ய /தன்மானம் எல்லார்க்கும் சொந்தம்/ I am Not Ok

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  • @sammys1010
    @sammys1010 Рік тому +15

    Bold and open speech... hatsoff Sonia. ❤

  • @rekharajeshkitchen
    @rekharajeshkitchen Рік тому +5

    நீங்கள் சொல்வது உண்மையே சோனியா

  • @mariammala602
    @mariammala602 Рік тому +10

    நீங்கள் சொல்வது நிதர்சனமான உண்மை நானும் ஒரு வித வை நான் கலங்கும் போது உங்கள் வீடியோ பார்த்துக்கொண்டு மன ஆறுதல் அடைகிறேன் 🙏💕

  • @chennaivasi2
    @chennaivasi2 Рік тому +13

    Very well spoken thoughts. Sonia you should not stop speaking your mind. Keep rocking! Neenga sonnathu 💯 correct. Reality is much more shocking to take. Boundaries oda relationship ah maintain panrathu is the right way to go!! 👏Keep marching in your shoes!!

  • @selviharitha5015
    @selviharitha5015 Рік тому +4

    மனசு பாரமா இருந்தது. பதிவுக்கு நன்றி

  • @alexiisharshini8815
    @alexiisharshini8815 Рік тому +6

    Yes it's true Soniya.Always be ready to rid of people who are toxic, dysfunctional and narcissistic.Dont waste your time and resource on people who are not making a positive impact on your life.Always be ready to walk away from a situation that doesn't serve your best interest.Your need for affiliation you can always get from your parents,supporters and your child.Take care.

  • @malathiannamalai2858
    @malathiannamalai2858 Рік тому +2

    ஹாய் சோனியா உனதுஒவ்வொரு பதிவை பார்க்கும் போதும் தன்னம்பிக்கை தைரியம் தரும்.அதனாலே என்பெண்ணுங்க 2பேரும் நானும் தங்களின் class அட்டன் செய்துள்ளோம்.❤❤❤❤❤
    இப்பதிவும் அருமை வாழ்த்துக்கள்💐💐

  • @latharajendran5703
    @latharajendran5703 Рік тому +1

    100% right words. Big big salute to ur attitude. Same situation than naanum. Sai kutty maathiriyae enakum oru paiyan irukan. Enakaga mattumae sonnathu pola irunthuchu. Athae maathirithan naama lonely ah irukom. Ellorum vaenum vaenum nu ennia avamana paduthinavangakitayae vaetkamae illama marupadiyum avangala koopitu paesuvaen. You r my great inspiration. Inimael sathiyama apdi iruka maataen.Inimael Give respect and take respect than. Intha video paarthu manasu romba happy ah iruku. Very very useful to me this video. Love u so so so so much. Ammaku advance happy birthday. Stay healthy and happy

    • @MadrasMomOnDuty
      @MadrasMomOnDuty  Рік тому +1

      Super dear yes when people want us in there they should give respect if not bye bye 🤣 i am sure one day or other they will come to us giving respect.

    • @latharajendran5703
      @latharajendran5703 Рік тому +1

      @@MadrasMomOnDuty Ss. Kandippa varuvanga

  • @sumathigoa9151
    @sumathigoa9151 Рік тому +1

    Lots of love Sonia,am also a single mother, am also facing this nonsense problems ,if we are not stand our self who stand,i always keeping in this my mind keep rocking Sonia!!!

  • @kviswanathan3051
    @kviswanathan3051 Рік тому +14

    Really nice to see you open your heart. We pray that you always get respect in your life. You have to face so many challenges. Your parents will always support you and Baba's blessings will give you confidence to be brave. Mrs Viswanathan ❤❤

  • @arumugamarumugam3133
    @arumugamarumugam3133 Рік тому +1

    Soniya sis neenga solrathu sari than enakku ippathaan mind relaxsa irukku thanks . My name prema

  • @usharanijs
    @usharanijs Рік тому +9

    Sonia... Just go ahead... You are in the right direction n you are bringing us the right content....
    Proceed ma...

  • @kirthikas9617
    @kirthikas9617 Рік тому +8

    Hi i now only saw ur video of not attending blood relatives functions, it's true there are people who hurt us. I'm mom of two girl kids nowadays I'm also thinking like you, because there are people who degrade me for giving birth to girl kids... so i will attend the function only if the person is very nice... don't worry Sonia I'm with you..
    God bless

    • @laavanya496
      @laavanya496 Рік тому +3

      Exactly. Namma kuzhandaikku school irundhalum, exam irundhalum, LEAVE POTTAVADHU invite panna function ku POITU VARANUM.
      Excuse sollave kudadhu. Exam time la, guest varen sonnakka, NO SOLLAKUDADHU?.
      WHO IS SAYING ALL THESE? Our own family members.

  • @manoharamexpert9513
    @manoharamexpert9513 Рік тому +4

    vanakkam mam
    Good afternoon
    3:25 adadaaa, hope sai kannamma is recovering mam. My prayers to our Baba.
    4:56 , 6:26, 7:01 , 8:34, 13:07 so true mam 10:41 suuuuuuuuuuuper mam.
    7:28 mouth watering
    10:59 YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEY Amma black and ur green dress supero super mam.
    Maaaaaam, EXCELLENT speech mam, very very motivating , inspiring mam
    GREAT SALUTE for that dear mam.

  • @kavithanjali123
    @kavithanjali123 Рік тому +2

    You are so true Sonia. Some people are lucky enough but others go through a lot. In one book I read a beautiful line “please show that you are vulnerable, if you restrict yourself you are not only blocking the judgment but also genuine help”. So share whatever you go through people are there to relate and give shoulders 😊

    • @MadrasMomOnDuty
      @MadrasMomOnDuty  Рік тому +2

      Very true 👍 exactly 💯 u got it if you are following me from many days yes i read lots of books and many books says ask and you will get it . We should know what we want in life .

  • @josephj.s.7256
    @josephj.s.7256 Рік тому +9

    Well said Akka 👍👍those who are in pain and problems they only can understand the feelings not everyone Akka👏👏 just keep rocking👌 baba is always with you akka 🙏🙏feel happy 😊 advance wishes happy birthday Amma😊😊

  • @srividhyaramprasath286
    @srividhyaramprasath286 Рік тому

    Super sonia correct point give respect and take respect. But blood relation ku adhu puriya matengudhu. Parents kaga paninchu poga vendi eruku pa.romba feel paninen morning dhan. You motivated me thank you

  • @kanthimathi8126
    @kanthimathi8126 Рік тому +1

    Excellent..... motivational speech......

  • @laavanya496
    @laavanya496 Рік тому +2

    What a relief!
    Atleast there is someone Who is agreeing with my view points on the NOT SO WANTED N HYPED: BEING LONELY or LONILINESS.
    Why should a woman accept all the trash thrown to her willingly just because She is dependent on her Family.
    This happens to each one of us after marriage. Specially U are a Home Maker?
    Whether u like or not, treat the Mean Neighbours or relatives Or whomsoever sweetly and politely.
    DONT IGNORE THEM OR TAUNT OR INSULT THEM.
    OTHERWISE u would be lonely throughout your life.
    Cant a Woman ever has a freedom to remain happy amongt her Choice of people around her?
    A VERY BIG QUESTION???

  • @premalathav8596
    @premalathav8596 Рік тому +1

    Ladies are very efficient nowadays.but life is very challenging day by day.God bless U

    • @MadrasMomOnDuty
      @MadrasMomOnDuty  Рік тому

      True 👍 because we are apposing it and becoming strong both financially and emotionally

  • @தமிழ்-ல4ற
    @தமிழ்-ல4ற Рік тому +2

    மிக சரி,என்னை என் கூபப்பிறந்தவங்க,என் பெற்றோர் என்னை பயன்படுத்திக்கிட்டு மரியாதை கொடுக்கவேண்டிய இடத்தில் என்னை கறிவேப்பிள்ளைமாதிரிதான் தூக்கி போட்டாங்க,😢
    சோனியா நீங்க பேசிய வார்த்தை என்னை சோர்வடையாம தூக்கி நிறுத்தியது🤝👍👍👍👍👍👏

  • @sowmyakp1551
    @sowmyakp1551 Рік тому +1

    Hai sonia. Arisi tumbler. Kamithi vekkakoodathu. Athila 2 mani arisiyapottu nimmithiye vaiga. Appothan namukku annathukku koravu varatha irukkum. 🙏

  • @musicmanic3724
    @musicmanic3724 Рік тому +3

    Hi Sonia, I watch all your videos without fail. I don't get enough time sometimes to comment on all your videos. Though I keep thinking that I should.
    There is so much I would like to say. But above all I'll simply say one thing.your words about self esteem were so powerful! They are such quote-able amazing words.
    Thank you for speaking on this. Salute to u.

  • @suhasinibhaskhar6165
    @suhasinibhaskhar6165 Рік тому +1

    I heard you fully dear...What I am saying is Let them Give Insult but let us not take the insult...we need only love

  • @rupagopal7032
    @rupagopal7032 Рік тому +3

    Soniya really inspired by you. Ur such a strong women. Beautiful soul. This vlog will give grt mess to so many.

  • @revathyrajendran8568
    @revathyrajendran8568 Рік тому +1

    Unga vatha kuzhambu recipe podunga, any secret powder?

  • @yasodhakrishnamoorthy2659
    @yasodhakrishnamoorthy2659 Рік тому +1

    Fantastic speech excellent sonia well done u r doing great

  • @aarthihariprasad5100
    @aarthihariprasad5100 Рік тому

    Excellent Sonia ooru vaaiya adaika mudiyathu pesathan mudiyum nama position oru naal thaaki pudika mudiyathu mana vazilimai mukiyam ❤ vazhga vazhamudan

  • @affmamohamed1913
    @affmamohamed1913 Рік тому +2

    Correct soniya self respect is most important nanum athuthaan neenaipain romba kastama iruthuchu ippo unga video pathain I boost my self don't worry soniya u r motivation

  • @DrDrunkMithu
    @DrDrunkMithu Рік тому +2

    💯 Correct..Wish you all the best ,May God bless you all !!!

  • @catchupwithbindiya
    @catchupwithbindiya Рік тому +3

    Love to see more of u with this attitude.. speaking my kind of language.. U go girl.. cheers💐👌👌👌🫶💕🤝🤝🤝🤝🙌🙌🙌

  • @neeladevi4283
    @neeladevi4283 Рік тому +1

    Great And Bold Talks!!
    *Really,, You and your Vlogs are a Great Motivation to innocent and Ladies who need Justice❤*
    *Thanks Sonia Maa,, I feel Confident too🎉🎉🎉🎉*

  • @helennaveen6782
    @helennaveen6782 Рік тому +9

    Well said sonia !lots of love and power to u

  • @priyaprasanna97
    @priyaprasanna97 Рік тому +4

    I like your honesty! I am able to relate to what your saying. Every word is truth ❤

  • @vijrever2770
    @vijrever2770 Рік тому +1

    Great speech Soniya ! Please keep remaining strong for your son.

  • @gangaraja-bf7zn
    @gangaraja-bf7zn Рік тому +2

    Super sister I will trying dear good news forever one

  • @sonamuthappan7641
    @sonamuthappan7641 Рік тому +2

    Sonia, pls try to change to stainlesssteel cooker and kadai which is better than alimum ...bcz our type of indian foods we use these two utensils every single day ...a small suggestion

  • @sumathisreedharan814
    @sumathisreedharan814 Рік тому +3

    Hai Sonia why again this much feeling kick those people and go ahead lead your life happily by seeing Sai face. Cheer up 🎉😊

  • @vandanavandu8174
    @vandanavandu8174 Рік тому +1

    Nice to see you with open heart Sonia nicely spoken

  • @jayamanickam8164
    @jayamanickam8164 Рік тому +3

    Super Sonia,give respect take respect

  • @yamunagovindarajan2975
    @yamunagovindarajan2975 Рік тому +1

    Super soniya meenakshi.. 100% true

  • @kavithasubramanian1828
    @kavithasubramanian1828 Рік тому +2

    100%correct soniya really great love u ma 👍❤️

  • @revathyrajendran8568
    @revathyrajendran8568 Рік тому +3

    சரியா சொன்னிங்க கஷ்டத்தை அனுபவிக்குறவங்களுக்கு மட்டும் தா இது புரியும் பணம் என்கிட்டே இருக்கு ஆனா எனக்கு நிம்மதி இல்ல நானும் நாராயப்பேற்கு உதவி பண்றேன் அதெல்லாம் யார்கிட்டயும் சொல்ல மாட்டங்க எனக்குன்னு யாரும் வரத்து இல்லங்க ஆனா நா நெறய அவமான படுறேன் ,கஷ்டப்பட்டு தா எல்லாரும் சம்பாதிக்குறோம் ஆனா அதையும் தாபா சொல்ராங்க , உன்னோட புருஷன் தா சம்பாதிக்குறாரேன்னு

  • @gayathriramesh1477
    @gayathriramesh1477 Рік тому +1

    Forget yes but don't forgive
    Move on don't worry about people who talking behind our back

  • @janakilacs1430
    @janakilacs1430 Рік тому +1

    Hi Sonia good thoughts u r right we r not live for others

  • @aarthi12ll
    @aarthi12ll Рік тому +4

    Super sis what you said is cent percent correct

  • @prabhabalaji8896
    @prabhabalaji8896 Рік тому

    You are an inspiration for so many ladies. Please ignore all the negative comments.

  • @nirmalas5778
    @nirmalas5778 Рік тому +2

    other channela bore adikartha nanna sonneenga. Continue yr videos. we will support you as usual always

  • @nalina01
    @nalina01 Рік тому +1

    Soniya arsi measure pabratha kavuthu vaikadhiga nimithu vainga adhu glass irrunthalum paravailla

  • @usharamanathan5526
    @usharamanathan5526 Рік тому +1

    Really super mom. Motivational speech

  • @lakshmip6283
    @lakshmip6283 Рік тому +1

    Super sonia solldravanga sollitudhaan irupanga adhuellam kandukaatheenga

  • @kspersonal6025
    @kspersonal6025 Рік тому +4

    Not only humans, every being born on this earth is deserving of respect. The shameful part is that only human beings are capable of bad behaviour.

  • @selvenfamily5030
    @selvenfamily5030 Рік тому +1

    You are correct Soniya, it is better to be alone rather surrounded by trashy creatures!

  • @reshmamurali8993
    @reshmamurali8993 Рік тому +3

    Well said Sonia ❤ give respect and take respect 👍👍 more power to you dear ❤️ ❤️

  • @vedaji6577
    @vedaji6577 Рік тому +1

    Neegga sollvathu correct ma 💯

  • @ranjaniramesh2240
    @ranjaniramesh2240 Рік тому +2

    Hi Sonia. What u said is 100 percent true. Give respect and take respect. Only few people give back the respect we deserve. Nice vlog sonia. God bless u

  • @rdgold7722
    @rdgold7722 Рік тому +1

    Super Sonia 👃👃I am from Bangalore I feel moral support from Chennai from my dear Sonia

  • @krishnavenialphonse1462
    @krishnavenialphonse1462 Рік тому +1

    Sonia dear...as usual very good video..and yummy looking lunch too❤❤

  • @priyadharshinijagadheesan3278
    @priyadharshinijagadheesan3278 Рік тому +1

    Soniya100℅true dear, husband irundhum lonely ya feel panren. Great your my inspiration🎉🎉

    • @MadrasMomOnDuty
      @MadrasMomOnDuty  Рік тому +3

      Read books it will expand knowledge and give confidence in life and a best company for lonely people

  • @panjavarnamprakasam7339
    @panjavarnamprakasam7339 Рік тому +3

    Soniya எதுக்கும் கவலை வேண்டாம் பாபா இருக்கும் போது ஏன் கவலை பட னும்

  • @meeramenon2521
    @meeramenon2521 Рік тому +2

    Big salute to ur attitude

  • @priyadharshinijagadheesan3278
    @priyadharshinijagadheesan3278 Рік тому +1

    Soniya dear inniku indha video 4 times parthutten satiyana padhil, enakku avalu encourage irukku, na ennoda hubby yale avlo ignore panna pattu iruken.

  • @gowriparasu731
    @gowriparasu731 Рік тому +1

    Soniaji supera sonninga

  • @southasianspicekitchen5972
    @southasianspicekitchen5972 Рік тому +1

    Excellent speech👍 keep it up.

  • @ashakrishnan2767
    @ashakrishnan2767 Рік тому +3

    Soniya, your value is great 👍❤

  • @pd-pov
    @pd-pov Рік тому +3

    I always admire you and you really really nailed today by adorable speech ma. But please don't put down someone indirectly. It's my humble request ma. Every body is unique in a way 😊 kudos to all women like you 👏🏼🔥

    • @MadrasMomOnDuty
      @MadrasMomOnDuty  Рік тому +1

      I am not putting down anyone if we don't express really some will not understand and no one is inferior or superior to anyone if you just try to ignore and go they will make the same mistakes with someone else too and everyone are not strong enough like me to take things some will also go in depression suicidal thoughts and many things , i am saving some ones life . Never be silent when something is wrong in this way we are encouraging others to do wrong . 👍

    • @pd-pov
      @pd-pov Рік тому +1

      @@MadrasMomOnDuty no no ma. Sorry, you misunderstood. நான் சொல்ல வந்தது... நான் என்ன சமைத்தேன்... கார் ஓட்டினேன் .... பிளவுஸ் தச்சிட்டேன்... என்று நீங்கள் சொன்னதற்கு Soniya. Rather than that u rocked ✌🏼

    • @MadrasMomOnDuty
      @MadrasMomOnDuty  Рік тому +1

      True i am telling you again don't mistake my vlogs, not only for that . Including myself i am telling are u happy now

  • @revathyrajendran8568
    @revathyrajendran8568 Рік тому +1

    So many vlog channels irundalum urs is incompatible, i am watching only yours, it's not to impress you but to show my presence for you.. PPL like me like you and bless you.

  • @radhikanarendhiran9324
    @radhikanarendhiran9324 Рік тому +3

    Being empathetic is important 100%

  • @nishanair4244
    @nishanair4244 Рік тому +1

    Very well said Soniya.Learning a lot from you.

  • @ushasukumaran284
    @ushasukumaran284 Рік тому +3

    Very good information to all👌👍🌹🌹

  • @priyadharshinijagadheesan3278
    @priyadharshinijagadheesan3278 Рік тому +1

    Aduthavanga kashtatha ninaichi santhosha paduthra ulagam, Idhu😢

  • @akilaethiraj661
    @akilaethiraj661 Рік тому

    True ma neria per worry pamratha illa apadimudiyumo

  • @jyothin2804
    @jyothin2804 Рік тому

    U r true... Only when we earn, our own family respects us. I am waiting for a break to happen.

  • @visu808
    @visu808 Рік тому

    Great dear 😘 👍
    Your words are 100% true ❤❤
    Keep going 🎉❤

  • @ilayaraja3622
    @ilayaraja3622 Рік тому +2

    Super sister 🙏 om muraga potri 🙏

  • @meemee832
    @meemee832 Рік тому +4

    Giveaway kku sombu Thukra jenmangal romba per irukkanga sis, you are polite lady sister, god bless u ma😍💪

  • @aravindsriram3701
    @aravindsriram3701 Рік тому +1

    yes really true and my that's soniya

  • @sapnarao910
    @sapnarao910 Рік тому +1

    Well said Sonia.. wish u a beautiful life , God Bless you 🙏 ❤️

  • @shalumathu3848
    @shalumathu3848 Рік тому +1

    B hapy dr sty blesed I cn feel ur pain

  • @ranjanabuwanabala8834
    @ranjanabuwanabala8834 Рік тому

    You are so true Sonia. Be brave, God will be with you 🙏🏽

  • @florenceanthony6645
    @florenceanthony6645 Рік тому

    You don't worry sister. You have God's help and Grace. You will do well, God bless you...

    • @MadrasMomOnDuty
      @MadrasMomOnDuty  Рік тому +1

      Thank u so much sister i feel good listening to your words about god 🙏💕 he is helping me very true 👍

  • @prabhabalaji8896
    @prabhabalaji8896 Рік тому

    Every word you speak is true. Hats off to you Soniya

  • @saruatheray9642
    @saruatheray9642 Рік тому +1

    Absolutely true Sonia 👌

  • @hariharanl1555
    @hariharanl1555 Рік тому +1

    Super very nice vlog jayanthi Hariharan

  • @shalinip76
    @shalinip76 Рік тому +1

    Very very true words Sonia tku

  • @NextdayCooking
    @NextdayCooking Рік тому

    Well said sonia… i m your silent falower …I m also facing such a situation …I was in the confusion… now I m very clear… thank you 🙏

  • @KavithaKavitha-ow6me
    @KavithaKavitha-ow6me Рік тому

    Nammali kadauvl kaivittovetdarmam

  • @jecinthakishokumar770
    @jecinthakishokumar770 Рік тому +1

    Very well said,hats off to you

  • @jmmenswearcollections7652
    @jmmenswearcollections7652 Рік тому +1

    Sis no words , really helpfull your words

  • @parimalasubbarayan418
    @parimalasubbarayan418 Рік тому +2

    Fantastic Sonia 👌👌👌👌👌

  • @manonmanimuralikumar9138
    @manonmanimuralikumar9138 Рік тому +35

    நீங்க சொல்வது 100 சதவீதம் உண்மை பேசுங்க சோனியா

  • @savithasuresh6767
    @savithasuresh6767 Рік тому +1

    Hi soniya, you continue speaking the real facts that the women are facing in their life. Don't worry about others. We are always with you and I will continue watching your videos in the future as well.

  • @vidya4728
    @vidya4728 Рік тому +1

    Singa penne! Wonderfull open talk and inspiring 🤩

  • @lathadhanabagyam8874
    @lathadhanabagyam8874 Рік тому +1

    Sure ma what you said is true 👍

  • @vanajagovind1734
    @vanajagovind1734 Рік тому +1

    👌👍 Soniya, God Bless U All, Take care

  • @akshayasaiprasad
    @akshayasaiprasad Рік тому +1

    Excellent video akka, you're my great inspiration❤ luv you akka❤

  • @devisegar8343
    @devisegar8343 Рік тому

    Hats off Sonia... U r my inspiration

  • @akilaramki1713
    @akilaramki1713 Рік тому +1

    Super speech chechi love from kerala❤❤❤

  • @ranjanianand2592
    @ranjanianand2592 Рік тому +1

    Thxs sonia..last month I was in very depressed...i asked ur advice to talk about this nu...one related topic... about relationship...but whatever and i need i got this vlog...thx 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @lavalavanya9596
    @lavalavanya9596 Рік тому +1

    Akka. Advance happy 200k🎉🎉🎉