Melissa two things can be true at the same time. You can be interested in something that you also don’t condone. You ever watch a murder mystery and find it intriguing? That doesn’t make you ok with murder...it means you find it interesting. People tend to have a hard time holding two seemingly conflicting ideas as true. Liking something or finding interest in a story doesn’t mean you condone it. It means you think it’s interesting and that’s it. Their story isn’t for you to condone, it’s simply their story and they’re sharing it with you. I agree with kev! This absolutely shows growth and evolution as a person to be able to say while I wouldn’t do this, I respect this as their story.
I come from a similar story to "Cheat Code." My parents were married for about 14 years when my dad started up an affair with a co-worker who was also married. Mom packed herself and us 3 kids up and left. They eventually divorced. Dad married the co-worker he had the affair with, and they have been married for 40 years now. Mom eventually moved on and got in another relationship that led to marriage. She's been with him for about 35 years. So the second marriage worked out better for both of them.
I always think about the innocent kids that have their worlds turned upside down because of adult decisions. That's the hardest part of these stories. Thanks for sharing.
Adults should be able to communicate "I am unfulfilled or unhappy, or beginning to have different thoughts regarding our marriage"...they should be able to offer exploring different channels to keep them together or decide mutually to part ways...NOT CHEAT AND HURT PEOPLE AS A RESULT OF SELFISHNESS!
I say do it. Have them on the show. I think everyone has a story that's valid, even if it's controversial or unpopular. If nothing else, theirs might reinforce my own perspective
I've watched 2 episodes so far and I have questions and judgments galore so I say get them in here. From the beginning I hear what Liss heard that made her feel bad for even listening because they definitely romanticize the hook up. Dude met this chick when his wife was pregnant with twins and the chick knew about the brand new babies when the affair began. I'm judging...
I totally agree with Kev to where Melissa should take the "Ask A" approach. You don't relate to them, but you're interested with simply learning about their lifestyle. I think the episode with them should be themed around the warning signs of an affair or what I wish I did before I had an affair (like what they could've done instead of cheating).
I don't view this as a pure church based podcast/video. I am non religious and I love you two. You have awesome values that I appreciate. Putting on the couple that cheated and broke up their marriages won't hinder your podcast because you will bring them on as a learning experience. Your values will show through with your questions and comments. I don't believe you will say or do anything to hurt their reputation either. Cheating in marriages happens. To have a different perspective is great. Also accepting people for who they are without judgement is a wonderful value (or would that be moral) to have.
That message from Alexis Fields though!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 More of an acceptance rather than a discovery... Man! That is beautiful. She was right, you are helping and inspiring so many of us! Thank you!❤️
Cheat Code was weird for me. My husband and I listened earlier this year and whew! But I'll say that they've gone on other podcasts for a debrief. Black Millennium Marriage Podcast had them on and it almost came to virtual blows lol. So look for that episode if you want differing opinions on their tale, ep 90 and 97!
Melissa I hope you know how much you mean to so many people. When you said “my overly deep emotional mind” I felt that in my spirit! There was another video where you talked about not going on your friends podcast because you didn’t want to change the mood and I completely understood what you meant. Thank you for making so many of us with deep emotional minds think harder, challenge our beliefs, and live honestly. You truly are a gem💎
Divorce, cheating, abuse, toxicity, etc can all apart of human relationships and marriage. People’s Love Stories can be built out of the mud. We can’t just see love through rose color glasses. Everyone does not have a pretty story. I appreciate you showing various origin stories. Even like Adrienne and Israel
I went and listened to that podcast, it was so interesting!! I’m married and sent it to my single friends and they said it triggered them and didn’t want to listen to it, I think it would interesting to have them on the show!!
I can't believe Melissa is thinking contemplating on this story, it would be a great story I'm sure I mean people interview guest all the time it doesn't mean the interviewer agree with their guest views. I for one would like to hear the story especially hearing the couple have very interesting perspectives on how and why they made the decision that would change not only their lives but their family lives forever.
I think you should reach out to them because like Kevin said it would challenge the beliefs of not only you but a lot of people that follow you guys. I think as long as it's a safe space to have a discussion I again agree with Kev and saying that you may not agree with the lifestyle but you're open to talk about it and I think it would widen your platform as well just my thought.
I completely agree with you! Its a part of their evolution as hosts. You cannot always just have people that you completely agree with because you cannot evolve as a person if you automatically judge someone who is different from you. That's something wrong with our society now, if we don't agree with something then it's wrong period.
In regards to what you were saying about doing the fashion lookbook for what you wore to Napa Valley, keep this in mind when you feel like an imposter. There are plenty of people who specialize in doing look books, and those people have their platform. What makes it's so beautiful about people wanting you to do a lookbook is that they want to see YOU! There's nothing imposter about you being you. So, if you chose your outfits in the way that you are saying, people are going to love how you present your train of thought and how you decided on your outfits.
All you (Melissa) regarding your faith lifestyle...is always in the forefront of my mind when considering posting content. So, I understand your position.
Oh soooo many lessons! Realizing my triggers are controlled/managed by Me. Grant myself Grace and move through it whilst healing Me. I love y’all. Waiting for your book.
I was cheated on and they ended up married. I would never condone cheating. I haven’t been in a relationship in 9 years. That kind of pain destroys ppl. Thanks to this podcast and its endorsement of therapy I’m healing. But since you are a marriage champion I would reach out to them. Everyone’s relationship story is different including cheaters. You can want to know more about their story and share it without agreeing.
I feel like everything you listen to(or research) doesn't have to be put on a platform. You can listen to it for your own knowledge/interest. Also, ask yourself "why is this important enough to share?"
Melissa, thanks for mentioning The Cheat Code. I just finished the last episode. It was really good and thought provoking. I'm looking forward to hearing them on your podcast.
As a married woman and what the covenant of marriage means to me as a Christian is completely understand your feeling toward even giving these folks time but what can be learned if anything. This is appreciate about you, you have values morals and your belief and respect to others that do. Thank you
Okay...Lis you had me so intrigued that I went and found and listened to the podcast. I'm hooked! They are excellent story-tellers, but that's besides the point. Let me begin by saying, I am not married, but I do believe in the sanctity of marriage. Now, I listened with an open mind and heart and I appreciate their situation. They were both unhappy in their individual marriages but wanted to stay dedicated the the life and marriage they "built". What I found interesting is that they found out that their spouses were cheating BEFORE they consummated their relationship. Anyway...I think you should invite them to be on #TheLoveHour, you never know who they might help. Happy Holidays and God Bless!
My favorite love hour episode is "This is us, is us". I am pretty sure you guys have gotten this before, but a This is us review series would be great.
I'm not sure why the first portion frustrated me so much. And it could literally be because I don't have a platform, but the hesitation about having them on is rooted in what ppl think about you? And im not oblivious to what that means. But anybody that knows this podcast and Melissa knows her heart. Idk... BUT I listened to the cheat code and I'd love to hear an intelligent conversation regarding their experiences
I agree with you. People who listen to the podcast know that Melissa is a marriage champion. If a person can’t handle the discussion, don’t listen to that episode. Sticking your head on the sand doesn’t mean these things don’t happen. Let’s have the discussion.
Kev, you a pro black brotha. You support other pod cast merch like 85 and rdc.Also, talk about black issues. Plus help other black comedians. Most importantly you a beautiful black fam. You are rare and few.
I understand Melissa's reluctant, but we watch this podcast because we love the genuisity and sincere podcaster. I understand also that she is herself struggling with it in her mind cause one thing black church ingrained in us is judgement, when God is love. Maybe we just struggle with stepping in truth without judgement. And also, the internet is a bully
I think that the podcast y’all are mentioning is someone’s story. The same way as a black woman I want to see representation, people that start relationships in affairs can desire the same. Pre-therapy I would’ve judged them too, but now that I’m more understanding, I get them having a podcast. “It happens everyday and people wanna hear about it” **Betty Wright’s Voice**
Heres the thing. If you believe in soul mates then you could absolutely understand how to people got together and wasnt meant to be together. The problem is. Why arent people adult enough to communicate thay with tneir SPOUSE. DONT CHEAT LEAVE. For you to even be looking at someone other than your spouse shows that there is an issue and there are steps to cheating. Getting someones number, meeting up with them in private. You know where its heading just get a divorce.
As curious as I am, I’m gonna vote for NOT bringing them on. If there is a hint of “God brought us together”, I’m gonna have to repent for my judgy thoughts. 💯AND this show is bomb without promoting an anti-marriage narrative.
It’s not an anti marriage narrative though. It’s a “we initially married the wrong ppl and it got toxic” narrative. They are married to each other now. I looked them up.
I listened to 2 episodes so far and I'm judging. I hate the "sexy" nature of the presentation of a married man whose wife is pregnant with TWINS goes out to "see what happens" and meets a married mother who was to available herself. It makes my skin crawl...but I'm have to finish now.
Good job Kev on keeping your learned moral code to yourself. Y'all don't have to bring people on the show whom you're not sure you won't antagonize. Growth is beneficial but can be harmful when forced.
Ooo Liss ain't lying. I have watched videos on others platforms and then read comments where ppl start coming up with different scenarios like, "she did this cuz..." or "He only said that because...". And I'm like, that's not what she did and not what he said. Wait, did I miss something? Have me rewinding videos. Ppl r crazy.
I tried so hard to listen to this on A pple podcast and just couldn't do it; I have to see y'all. it gives more context to some things you are saying and it makes it funnier. I would have missed Kev's shirt off and Liss' amazing eye roll.
You should reach out to them! I listen to the whole thing and what I got out of it was just not the affair. You think its just 2 but it was all 4....which got me really thinking. What was going on in the marriages?! You had 4 people not happy. Jason clearly says he married the wrong person. And the woman I forgot her name but realized that she has trauma from both of her parents. She was seeking validation. I think this needs to be a conversation had. Again its more than the affair... Also have been loving the show!
Lis, I was all for you inviting the couple on the podcast until you said they had kids and the wife was pregnant. My judgy side came out full force but I’d still watch........lol
Same and listening to the first 2 episodes of the podcast has only flaired my judgement more. TWINS, his wife was pregnant with TWINS!!!! And the side chick knew about it...I can't
Melissa two things can be true at the same time. You can be interested in something that you also don’t condone. You ever watch a murder mystery and find it intriguing? That doesn’t make you ok with murder...it means you find it interesting.
People tend to have a hard time holding two seemingly conflicting ideas as true. Liking something or finding interest in a story doesn’t mean you condone it. It means you think it’s interesting and that’s it. Their story isn’t for you to condone, it’s simply their story and they’re sharing it with you.
I agree with kev! This absolutely shows growth and evolution as a person to be able to say while I wouldn’t do this, I respect this as their story.
I come from a similar story to "Cheat Code." My parents were married for about 14 years when my dad started up an affair with a co-worker who was also married. Mom packed herself and us 3 kids up and left. They eventually divorced. Dad married the co-worker he had the affair with, and they have been married for 40 years now. Mom eventually moved on and got in another relationship that led to marriage. She's been with him for about 35 years. So the second marriage worked out better for both of them.
Wow!
Wow
Crazy 😯
I always think about the innocent kids that have their worlds turned upside down because of adult decisions. That's the hardest part of these stories. Thanks for sharing.
Melissa is beautiful. That's it!
Gorgeous!!
Honestly, truly, the definition of chef kiss👩🏾🍳💋
The first thing I said when I clicked on the post 😩😩😩❤❤❤❤
I looked away for two seconds...where did Kev’s shirt go???? 😩🤦🏽♀️🥴 lol
Right!!!! 😂😂😂
Mannnnn listen , I had to run it back cuz I’m like wait what happen?? How did we get here?? 😳 😂😂😂
Like 😄😄😄😭😅
🥴😂🤣😂 I’m like waittttt!!! You hot or something? Melissa has continued to talk unbothered. This is so funny.
LOL i’m sitting here waiting for the reason why that shirt was off!! 😩😂
Adults should be able to communicate "I am unfulfilled or unhappy, or beginning to have different thoughts regarding our marriage"...they should be able to offer exploring different channels to keep them together or decide mutually to part ways...NOT CHEAT AND HURT PEOPLE AS A RESULT OF SELFISHNESS!
Completely agree
Exactly
If you know you gone cheat. Tell me you gone cheat so we can both figure iut these exit strategies
True. But why are Christians afraid to talk about this issue?
I say do it. Have them on the show. I think everyone has a story that's valid, even if it's controversial or unpopular. If nothing else, theirs might reinforce my own perspective
I've watched 2 episodes so far and I have questions and judgments galore so I say get them in here. From the beginning I hear what Liss heard that made her feel bad for even listening because they definitely romanticize the hook up. Dude met this chick when his wife was pregnant with twins and the chick knew about the brand new babies when the affair began. I'm judging...
You got Adrienne and Isreal?! Lis, 👏🏾 you betta!! 👏🏾
I totally agree with Kev to where Melissa should take the "Ask A" approach. You don't relate to them, but you're interested with simply learning about their lifestyle. I think the episode with them should be themed around the warning signs of an affair or what I wish I did before I had an affair (like what they could've done instead of cheating).
I'm in love with Liss makeup today,really beautiful!
Liss, Mel is her sister.
@@johannawebley4101 oh no thanks I keep switching them up!
@@SD-hs2pk no worries, a lot of people mix them up and its only natjral to want to call her Mel for short.
@@johannawebley4101 glad you get me. It's really because the Melissa I interact often I call Mel for short.
Melissa, I love the fact that you are now unbothered by Kevin's shenanigans. You don't even blink now.
Liss was side eyeing Kev like "Were gonna talk about the placement of that shirt in one minute. " 🤣🤣 LOVE THESE TWO!
I don't view this as a pure church based podcast/video. I am non religious and I love you two. You have awesome values that I appreciate. Putting on the couple that cheated and broke up their marriages won't hinder your podcast because you will bring them on as a learning experience. Your values will show through with your questions and comments. I don't believe you will say or do anything to hurt their reputation either.
Cheating in marriages happens. To have a different perspective is great. Also accepting people for who they are without judgement is a wonderful value (or would that be moral) to have.
There was absolutely no reason for Kev’s shirt to be off in that ad man! Why ???😥😢😭😪
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂 I was legit confusion
I was thinking the same thing!! Like why is his shirt off? I thought maybe I missed something.😂🤣😂
Yes. I'm part of the StageKrew and I'm sick of it! It's all love though.
I appreciate it. Now I know where the ads are so I can skip them (No judgement)
That message from Alexis Fields though!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 More of an acceptance rather than a discovery... Man! That is beautiful. She was right, you are helping and inspiring so many of us! Thank you!❤️
I KNO RIGHT!! ❤️ Melissa sharing her journey has blessed soooo many
Im ready to see Karen and Miles on the podcast!
I wasn't ready for Shirtless Guitar Kev!!! 😂😂😂
Cheat Code was weird for me. My husband and I listened earlier this year and whew! But I'll say that they've gone on other podcasts for a debrief. Black Millennium Marriage Podcast had them on and it almost came to virtual blows lol. So look for that episode if you want differing opinions on their tale, ep 90 and 97!
Listening now, thanks girl!
Yeah, Melissa. I do understand how the idea of highlighting this can be challenging. Someone else wrote maybe have it in the patreon.
They could bring back Love Hour After Dark! 👏🏽🤷🏽♀️
Melissa I hope you know how much you mean to so many people. When you said “my overly deep emotional mind” I felt that in my spirit! There was another video where you talked about not going on your friends podcast because you didn’t want to change the mood and I completely understood what you meant. Thank you for making so many of us with deep emotional minds think harder, challenge our beliefs, and live honestly. You truly are a gem💎
Melissa's sweatshirt is speaking to my life! I need it!
Divorce, cheating, abuse, toxicity, etc can all apart of human relationships and marriage. People’s Love Stories can be built out of the mud. We can’t just see love through rose color glasses. Everyone does not have a pretty story. I appreciate you showing various origin stories. Even like Adrienne and Israel
The GMA 3 episode was so good.
I went and listened to that podcast, it was so interesting!! I’m married and sent it to my single friends and they said it triggered them and didn’t want to listen to it, I think it would interesting to have them on the show!!
As a single woman, I agree. I was triggered and I'm not sure why. I know the commentary about Love & Basketball really pissed me off. What a cop out
Kev’s vibrato sends me, he is the tenor in the choir that is the loudest, the funniest and gets the rest of the choir hyped.
I can't believe Melissa is thinking contemplating on this story, it would be a great story I'm sure I mean people interview guest all the time it doesn't mean the interviewer agree with their guest views. I for one would like to hear the story especially hearing the couple have very interesting perspectives on how and why they made the decision that would change not only their lives but their family lives forever.
28:51 You know you churchy when you relate percentages to paying tithes in church😂😂😂
RIGHT!! 🤣🤣
I think you should reach out to them because like Kevin said it would challenge the beliefs of not only you but a lot of people that follow you guys. I think as long as it's a safe space to have a discussion I again agree with Kev and saying that you may not agree with the lifestyle but you're open to talk about it and I think it would widen your platform as well just my thought.
I completely agree with you! Its a part of their evolution as hosts. You cannot always just have people that you completely agree with because you cannot evolve as a person if you automatically judge someone who is different from you. That's something wrong with our society now, if we don't agree with something then it's wrong period.
In regards to what you were saying about doing the fashion lookbook for what you wore to Napa Valley, keep this in mind when you feel like an imposter. There are plenty of people who specialize in doing look books, and those people have their platform. What makes it's so beautiful about people wanting you to do a lookbook is that they want to see YOU! There's nothing imposter about you being you. So, if you chose your outfits in the way that you are saying, people are going to love how you present your train of thought and how you decided on your outfits.
Now I've binged the cheat code in one day lol SOOO GOOODDD!!!
All you (Melissa) regarding your faith lifestyle...is always in the forefront of my mind when considering posting content. So, I understand your position.
"You're singing SO loud and wrong🙉" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Poor Liss❤❤
Yes have them on! Love hearing other people’s perspectives and experiences. The “ask a” approach perfect.
Well I hope u read this Melissa: we love you on all platforms because your real!!!!
Oh soooo many lessons! Realizing my triggers are controlled/managed by Me. Grant myself Grace and move through it whilst healing Me. I love y’all. Waiting for your book.
I was cheated on and they ended up married. I would never condone cheating. I haven’t been in a relationship in 9 years. That kind of pain destroys ppl. Thanks to this podcast and its endorsement of therapy I’m healing. But since you are a marriage champion I would reach out to them. Everyone’s relationship story is different including cheaters. You can want to know more about their story and share it without agreeing.
I feel like everything you listen to(or research) doesn't have to be put on a platform. You can listen to it for your own knowledge/interest. Also, ask yourself "why is this important enough to share?"
Ok I'm ready for the Houghtons
You guys are such blessings in my life in this season you don’t even understand... thank you for being honest and being willing to share
Kev keep some 85SOUTHSHOW merch on deck
Melissa, thanks for mentioning The Cheat Code. I just finished the last episode. It was really good and thought provoking. I'm looking forward to hearing them on your podcast.
As a married woman and what the covenant of marriage means to me as a Christian is completely understand your feeling toward even giving these folks time but what can be learned if anything. This is appreciate about you, you have values morals and your belief and respect to others that do. Thank you
My word for 2021 is PIVOT!
1:04:13...that run though...c'mon Kev! I hear ya!
yall have gotten me thru some real problems, I enjoy listening to yall
I'm with you Liss, Im like 😳 about the cheat code podcast. I dont need any doors to the enemy open in my marriage/family
Okay...Lis you had me so intrigued that I went and found and listened to the podcast. I'm hooked! They are excellent story-tellers, but that's besides the point. Let me begin by saying, I am not married, but I do believe in the sanctity of marriage. Now, I listened with an open mind and heart and I appreciate their situation. They were both unhappy in their individual marriages but wanted to stay dedicated the the life and marriage they "built". What I found interesting is that they found out that their spouses were cheating BEFORE they consummated their relationship. Anyway...I think you should invite them to be on #TheLoveHour, you never know who they might help. Happy Holidays and God Bless!
My favorite love hour episode is "This is us, is us". I am pretty sure you guys have gotten this before, but a This is us review series would be great.
+1 for This is Us.
Wow that word from Alexis 🙌🏾 pans to your shirt 👏🏾also omgosh Adrienne 😱🔥
I opine The AskA approach would be the best. Lol!!!!
Liz is 100% correct. My mind sent straight to Meg the Stallion. You have to be a Jedi master when you are a social media personality.
When Kevin said, “CHILDREN INVOLVED??!!!” 👀👀🤣🤣
I'm not sure why the first portion frustrated me so much. And it could literally be because I don't have a platform, but the hesitation about having them on is rooted in what ppl think about you? And im not oblivious to what that means. But anybody that knows this podcast and Melissa knows her heart. Idk... BUT I listened to the cheat code and I'd love to hear an intelligent conversation regarding their experiences
I agree with you. People who listen to the podcast know that Melissa is a marriage champion. If a person can’t handle the discussion, don’t listen to that episode. Sticking your head on the sand doesn’t mean these things don’t happen. Let’s have the discussion.
Omg I feel my consent was read! So excited yall reviewing 90 day fiancee. I swear that show is comedy gold!!! I 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yess The Undoing🔥I was thinking of you guys reviewing it while I watched it straight through lol I stayed up til 7 am today finishing it 😅
Kim Fields was also Penny's classmate on Good Times.
I don't understand Kev needing to do the promos with his shirt off. Just why? LOL! 😳
Yes, Kev, shouldn’t have that shirt off...put that shirt on Kevin...don’t be exposing us
Soooo what happen to kev shirt lol
Ima assume they filmed advertisements after the recording and kev was already in relax mode
I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOO excited for Israel and Adrienne!! My favorite content creators in one video!! ✨❤️✨
I learn so much from watching you guys!! Thank you❤❤
I loved it, yes bring Andrea and Jason on
This was a blessing
Kev, you a pro black brotha. You support other pod cast merch like 85 and rdc.Also, talk about black issues. Plus help other black comedians. Most importantly you a beautiful black fam. You are rare and few.
I understand Melissa's reluctant, but we watch this podcast because we love the genuisity and sincere podcaster. I understand also that she is herself struggling with it in her mind cause one thing black church ingrained in us is judgement, when God is love. Maybe we just struggle with stepping in truth without judgement. And also, the internet is a bully
Listening to The Cheat Code. This is riveting!! I see what Liss is talking about.
Kev!! Your whole vibe when Liss was talking about Alexa Fields! 😂😂😂😂
I think that the podcast y’all are mentioning is someone’s story. The same way as a black woman I want to see representation, people that start relationships in affairs can desire the same. Pre-therapy I would’ve judged them too, but now that I’m more understanding, I get them having a podcast. “It happens everyday and people wanna hear about it” **Betty Wright’s Voice**
Bring them on...
Heres the thing. If you believe in soul mates then you could absolutely understand how to people got together and wasnt meant to be together. The problem is. Why arent people adult enough to communicate thay with tneir SPOUSE. DONT CHEAT LEAVE. For you to even be looking at someone other than your spouse shows that there is an issue and there are steps to cheating. Getting someones number, meeting up with them in private. You know where its heading just get a divorce.
People like to monkey-bar w their relationships- don’t let go until you have a hold on the next...
@@ThankGod4Jesus whew. Something i never understood
Yes, unfortunately people don’t always know how to communicate...yes it’s a very unfortunate circumstance 😩😢😢😢
Omg! The Undoing was soooo good!
the sweatshirt Liss is wearing - please and thank you
Working on it for Christmas.
I listened to the cheat code over the weekend; Liss we need them on
Working on it.
I like when Kev cracks jokes
As curious as I am, I’m gonna vote for NOT bringing them on. If there is a hint of “God brought us together”, I’m gonna have to repent for my judgy thoughts. 💯AND this show is bomb without promoting an anti-marriage narrative.
It’s not an anti marriage narrative though. It’s a “we initially married the wrong ppl and it got toxic” narrative. They are married to each other now. I looked them up.
I listened to 2 episodes so far and I'm judging. I hate the "sexy" nature of the presentation of a married man whose wife is pregnant with TWINS goes out to "see what happens" and meets a married mother who was to available herself. It makes my skin crawl...but I'm have to finish now.
I am about to listen to that podcast Melissa
Where can I find the sweatshirt Melissa has on... love it!
Exactly what I was thinking!
Hey y'all. I'm here. 💙
Good job Kev on keeping your learned moral code to yourself. Y'all don't have to bring people on the show whom you're not sure you won't antagonize. Growth is beneficial but can be harmful when forced.
Love the show 😊
I’m loving your sweatshirt!!!!!
Ooo Liss ain't lying. I have watched videos on others platforms and then read comments where ppl start coming up with different scenarios like, "she did this cuz..." or "He only said that because...". And I'm like, that's not what she did and not what he said. Wait, did I miss something? Have me rewinding videos. Ppl r crazy.
Wow Alexis gave you an entire word! I’m going to check out the cheat code podcast.
Lis said a word at the end. Yes, I am a "strong, independent, black woman" but I am also human!
Are yall ready for 90 Fay Fiance??? That is a whole train of OMG🤣
I dont think they will like 90 day but since MAFS is coming back they will focus on that more i think.
"I am strong and I am weak" wow can't be more true "I am human" 🤎
Ok. So im on ep 3 of the cheat code and it is a YES please have them on!!!!!!
You guys make such a great couple
You can always make it a bonus for patreon only
Can someone please tell me how I can the sweater LISS is wearing ?? PLEASE. Thx u.
Girl you talked about that podcast now y'all paused cause this story is juicyyy lol
So did the shirt drop? I absolutely love it and I want one! When can I get one?
I tried so hard to listen to this on A pple podcast and just couldn't do it; I have to see y'all. it gives more context to some things you are saying and it makes it funnier. I would have missed Kev's shirt off and Liss' amazing eye roll.
Melissa, where did you get your sweater?
You should reach out to them!
I listen to the whole thing and what I got out of it was just not the affair. You think its just 2 but it was all 4....which got me really thinking. What was going on in the marriages?! You had 4 people not happy. Jason clearly says he married the wrong person. And the woman I forgot her name but realized that she has trauma from both of her parents. She was seeking validation. I think this needs to be a conversation had. Again its more than the affair... Also have been loving the show!
“If you live for the applause you will die by the boos!” 😰😰😰 whew chile!!!! A WORD 🙌🏾❤️
1 min in and I am so excited for next week, i love the Houghtons and 90 day fiancé
First of all, you read her DM when you were supposed to! God knew that part too!
Look at Kevin wearing The 85 South Show tshirt!
Wow! “If you live for the applause you will die by the boos.”
Lis, I was all for you inviting the couple on the podcast until you said they had kids and the wife was pregnant. My judgy side came out full force but I’d still watch........lol
Same and listening to the first 2 episodes of the podcast has only flaired my judgement more. TWINS, his wife was pregnant with TWINS!!!! And the side chick knew about it...I can't
@@Lodeenie Even worse! SMH I’m actually shocked someone would send it to Melissa, a married woman 😳
@@sabrinasaidso9699 a married Christian woman who takes relationships seriously! It's weird!
It’s not judgement. It’s concern for the others they’ve hurt. I’m not here for the selfishness at all
Yay!