We Broke Up...

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  • Опубліковано 29 лис 2024

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  • @karenwilds512
    @karenwilds512 Рік тому +1294

    Alex, you've said several times that she deserves happiness. Don't forget that you are no less deserving. You deserve to be just as happy. Wait on God's timing for the perfect fit for your life. ❤

    • @carmenjones6816
      @carmenjones6816 Рік тому +10

      God bless you alex

    • @hollytravis7238
      @hollytravis7238 Рік тому +15

      I came to make a heartfelt comment, but Karen Wilds said it perfectly. We love you Alex, and YOU deserve all the happiness in the world! ❤❤

    • @Christine-yh6dz
      @Christine-yh6dz Рік тому +9

      Alex always remember you both deserve happiness but like you said you both need to figure things out its always best to stay as friends because but like you said you never know what the future holds maybe this was not the right time for you both but things do happen for a reason. I have always watch you and Savanna, you both are good people and I agree you both don't deserve any hate you both are human beings and you both have feelings
      but never give up and take it day by day. I will continue to support your channel.

    • @mariem5623
      @mariem5623 Рік тому +7

      Alex you have whole life ahead and you are still young. Focus on your education first and later pray for the right partner. Wait for God's timing and enjoy your young age. You both are young still.

    • @michellesantiago1235
      @michellesantiago1235 Рік тому +1

      ​@@mariem5623 AMEN 🙏

  • @jessicaperry7277
    @jessicaperry7277 Рік тому +21

    Alex, at age 19 I got engaged. It ended on what was supposed to be our wedding day. It felt like the end of the world, but Im now very happily married to a man that suits me so much better and we’ve adopted an amazing son. Let your heart break and then let it heal. It will happen in its own time. Same to you, Savannah.

  • @abrarazwar4380
    @abrarazwar4380 Рік тому +190

    Dude hang in there, you have my respect for being so mature and emotionally strong.

  • @sazmyster
    @sazmyster Рік тому +358

    I don't know if I'm in the minority here, but I think this is the best thing for them both. Ever since that relationship q+a, I felt like there was a lot of immaturity. I'm not against marrying young, I think for some, it works! But these 2 need to gain more life experience before settling down I think I dunno, might just be me

    • @CynthiaWilson-cp1oj
      @CynthiaWilson-cp1oj Рік тому +20

      Honestly the way Alex is handling this shows that he's a mature young man. Most men his age wouldn't care what anyone had to say about the girlfriend and he genuinely does.

    • @floidee
      @floidee Рік тому +11

      I think that they were fairly mature for their age and compared to the others their age. I agree that they both need more room to grow before they marry, coz marriage is difficult so not taking away from the pain they're having at the moment but in a way it's good that they haven't reached that point yet coz divorce is messier. It's going to get better and the good thing is they have a great support system. ❤

    • @valerieherrera8516
      @valerieherrera8516 Рік тому +6

      Same..as if things were a surprise

    • @NoeliaSalaz
      @NoeliaSalaz Рік тому +20

      They are so so young!!!!! And have so much to learn about themselves as individuals FIRST before marriage! I’m glad they figured it out now rather than later

    • @colleenfarrell832
      @colleenfarrell832 Рік тому +11

      You are 100% right! It's like you could cut the tension with a knife sort of thing! That q&a was hard to watch..I felt bad for him. They're too young to feel that way. Some get married very young and it's a long happy marriage. But not everyone can. I think this is best for him, he should find out what he wants next in life...enjoy it!! They both have some growing up to do. Which is perfectly normal!! They're 20 and 21!!!

  • @kaylamclemore207
    @kaylamclemore207 Рік тому +433

    You can tell this isn’t what he wanted… I’m so sorry, Alex😪 feel your emotions, don’t hold them in. YOU deserve to be happy!!!

    • @jenniwilliams3295
      @jenniwilliams3295 Рік тому +8

      Yeah it's very clear who made the decision and has turned very cold apparently. I have an 18 year old and a twenty-year-old their religion does tend to have people get married young but sometimes people are just started mature enough for that my 18 year old has his first girlfriend my twenty-year-old has been in love with the same girl since he was 8. But they are so far from talking about marriage or anything like that. They're going to the same very very good college in the fall my eighteen-year-old starting as a sophomore because he's been doing it in high school too. And my twenty-year-old is going to be a they're going to be living in dorms but dear God I had to have one take a 20-minute lesson on how to order his own pizza and one was supposed to cook garlic bread and it took five phone calls and they have been taught to do things they are mature enough to do them but as my son said when he asked about the pizza you're my mom it's your job to do that. So thinking of marriage and engagement with either is hilarious. they are both extremely driven and very intelligent have Bright futures in front of them marriage and kids can come after

    • @kaylamclemore207
      @kaylamclemore207 Рік тому +19

      @@Cheyenne-vi6fi that’s not true lol. If one person isn’t happy, and one person doesn’t want to be with the other, then they can end the relationship even if the other person doesn’t want to..

    • @cattabyss
      @cattabyss Рік тому +4

      @Cheyenne Elizabeth the person wanting to stay in the rs has to accept the break up... it's not always a two way street. You sometimes have no choice but to accept it.

    • @Cheyenne-vi6fi
      @Cheyenne-vi6fi Рік тому +1

      @@cattabyss
      I got it!

  • @klmn14658
    @klmn14658 Рік тому +155

    Oh, Alex...I'm terribly sorry to hear this sad news. You are NOT alone, you have all of us.
    Hang in there, Pal.
    Big hugs to you.

  • @kimmykallberg2596
    @kimmykallberg2596 Рік тому +425

    Give yourself permission to feel your emotions. Be pissed off. Be sad. Be happy. Whatever you have to do, but do it. Please don’t bottle it up and go emotionless like this video. You will get through it. Remember you don’t owe your audience anything even an exploration.
    Take time if you need. Take care of yourself. We love you Alex!

    • @skunkrepo2467
      @skunkrepo2467 Рік тому +13

      Agreed not worth staying bottled up inside.

    • @glowsuds
      @glowsuds Рік тому +7

      Love this!

    • @kathypoindexter8982
      @kathypoindexter8982 Рік тому +3

      I agree 💯 percent don't get in that bottle and close the lid you're a good man smile laugh and cry when you want to be happy 😊 look she's probably smiling laughing and doing her thing I would like for you to do that as well .. stay positive hold your head up high we ALL are here for YOU we ALL LOVE U too!! That would be cool if you could go and serve in our Military! you would forever have a great future and career! if you ever need to talk I'm sure you have a few here that would gladly open up their ears and heart and listen to you! Take care and stay strong! God's watching over you don't ever doubt him! Close one door and another will open 🙏🙏

    • @Lucailey
      @Lucailey Рік тому +10

      I don't think he was being emotionless at all in this video. I think it is obvious that he is feeling sad and still has hopes that they may even get back together. What he was trying to do is protect Savannah's image. He does not want people going after her for breaking his heart and I can respect that. I feel like we got a glimpse of the "old" Alex in this video. He is trying to be mature about the situation and I think he chose his words carefully and said what he needed to say.

    • @skunkrepo2467
      @skunkrepo2467 Рік тому +2

      @@Lucailey ITA plus he's still young there's plenty of fishes to explore and meet.

  • @annpage8192
    @annpage8192 Рік тому +22

    Sorry for the break-up. Your announcement was classy, good job letting the public know.

  • @jaybai8930
    @jaybai8930 Рік тому +57

    A wise man once said better to have loved and lost than never have loved before. You both will heal and find love again.

  • @lindasimon8342
    @lindasimon8342 Рік тому +18

    People break up. Nobody deserves negative attitudes towards it. You are both young and things change. I wish you both the very best, you deserve it. Alex your light has been dimmer lately and I look forward to the time when it's bright again. You are such a kindhearted and caring young man.

  • @kristinclark3304
    @kristinclark3304 Рік тому +83

    I'm so sorry Alex. You are so young and have your whole life ahead of you. It's better this happened now, instead of the two of you ending up getting married and then divorced.
    I'm sorry about the dogs too. I will miss seeing them!
    You & Savanna will be in my prayers ❤

  • @christybarton7140
    @christybarton7140 Рік тому +114

    I’m so sorry Alex. This video was very mature and heart felt. I can’t imagine having to share everything with the world. I hope you find happiness no matter what that looks like.

  • @sherylrodriguez5678
    @sherylrodriguez5678 Рік тому +161

    Alex, as a Mom and Grandma, my heart hurts for you. I can see how difficult it was for you to say all that.
    We love Savannah too, and wish her well.
    Keep us posted on how you are, we care.
    Take the time you need to heal, we will wait for you.

  • @carlimoncher8043
    @carlimoncher8043 Рік тому +127

    I’m sorry Alex. I appreciate the grace and respect with which you have handled this.

  • @gracemaryguerrero2340
    @gracemaryguerrero2340 Рік тому +202

    You’ve always been a good guy, your parents raised you well. Take your time, your young and there’s so much more. Take care and we’re here to support you.

  • @randil3208
    @randil3208 Рік тому +377

    A lot of us have noticed a change in you, and this is the first video where I feel like old Alex is "back". This was mature and heartfelt, well versed. You can see the growth you've made ❤

    • @kermit3375
      @kermit3375 Рік тому +28

      Crystal allowed them to get married incredibly young and allowed his son to propose to a girl he hasn’t known for very long. He had no job and is riding his parents success with no real life experience. He is a dumb kid who did things out of blind love and it sucks that crystal didn’t make an effort to slow it down, in fact she encouraged it. Alex needs to let go of his parents coat tails and become his own person and grow. He had no business rushing into marriage like this 🤦‍♂️

    • @randil3208
      @randil3208 Рік тому

      @@kermit3375 first of all, they aren't married. Secondly, crystal has no control over what her adult son does. It's also incredibly disgusting of you to come into someone's page and watch them yet spew such hateful shit in the comments of their actual channel. Don't be such a dick sneeze.

    • @joannabirch1152
      @joannabirch1152 Рік тому +46

      @kermit3375 I'm sorry, but your comment has REALLY bugged me! How dare you say this is Crystal's fault! Alex & Savannah are adults..... fair dos only young..... but in all aspects, an adult. You only see minutes of clips perfectly pieced together.... you don't know what Crystal & Aaron have said and talked about with their son.
      I no of other youtubers on her who married young..... Matt & Abby, The beeston fam (Sarah & Derik), Cam & Mal..... just a few to mention. This guy is going through a breakup, back off!

    • @ChildofGodslove73
      @ChildofGodslove73 Рік тому +21

      ​@@kermit3375 I don't believe they got married just engaged and living together. Why kick someone when they're already down... Wow 😲

    • @skunkrepo2467
      @skunkrepo2467 Рік тому +4

      @@kermit3375 ITA he pushed things to fast and not even get to know each other more before starting the engagement. I knew this was going to happen as it did to me.

  • @pennygreen255
    @pennygreen255 Рік тому +30

    Ah....I just want to give you a big hug! You can hear the pain in your voice. Take your time dealing with this. It's hard and you're not only losing your fiance, you're losing your fur babies too. 😢 Just know that you both are very much loved and we wish you both the very best!! Hopefully you'll work it out out in time.

  • @tanyascheibe2125
    @tanyascheibe2125 Рік тому +134

    So sorry Alex and Savanna. I wish both of you the best!!

  • @nancyfarkas3592
    @nancyfarkas3592 Рік тому +25

    This is why you don’t jump into engagement and marriage before you get to really ‘now each other! It was too fast imo. And now it’s over before it started

  • @DeannaIta-vo7qr
    @DeannaIta-vo7qr Рік тому +9

    I'm so sorry for you both. Break ups suck. You've handled this with such grace. Proud of you Alex!

  • @tammymyers6613
    @tammymyers6613 Рік тому +71

    Not sure why anyone would be mad Alex. It’s much better to figure this out now,then after marriage or a child is brought into it!! Much love kiddo. You have your whole life ahead of you!!

  • @jowotjo
    @jowotjo Рік тому +14

    You told your story with such maturity , im really sorry you're going through such heartache. Take care if yourself and lean on those closest to you x

  • @thacker3086
    @thacker3086 Рік тому +72

    It is okay to be alone for awhile. Take your time and heal your heart. ❤

  • @GoTeddy
    @GoTeddy Рік тому +94

    Alex and Savanna hoping you both have long lives filled with happiness. So sorry you are going through this pain right now.

  • @DianneCarmichael-d7f
    @DianneCarmichael-d7f Рік тому +4

    So sorry to hear about the breakup. I'm proud of you to stand up for Savanah. Your a real man to being honest and transparent to your audience.

  • @lisafranklin6945
    @lisafranklin6945 Рік тому +129

    It's thoughtful of you to announce this life change to your fans.
    Chin up. This is life, and the entire point of dating is to find the right person for forever. When it's not the perfect fit, the best thing you can do is split so you dont waste each others time or cause missed opportunities.
    Good luck, Alex. You are a good person, and you deserve your happiness. Unfortunately, it wasn't with Savannah.

    • @juliamclane8319
      @juliamclane8319 Рік тому +9

      Right now it is not with Savannah but you never know he said one day maybe he will and she will find
      each other again

    • @nonondriessen
      @nonondriessen Рік тому +2

      ​@@juliamclane8319 I agree with you. Separation doesn't mean you stop loving. Often it is the opposite.

  • @caroldickens3028
    @caroldickens3028 Рік тому +18

    I'm so, so sorry to hear this Alex. I know as a mum how hard it is when one of your children's relationships break down, it hurts to watch the pain. Take time for yourself, be around your family, life will eventually fall into place for you. Stay strong Alex. ❤

  • @lynnebriggs6184
    @lynnebriggs6184 Рік тому +25

    Keep your head up Alex! The right person is out there for you. Good luck to you both.

    • @debkeller2440
      @debkeller2440 Рік тому +1

      I don't hate nobody hates I'm sorry but she's going to feel I don't hate nobody I might put things down the I don't hate nobody she's a nice person she's a nice girl and she's pretty guard she's she's going to watch time you are going to have time to live in your own house is fully hard hope you find somebody who will love you who you are I watch the show everyday your family also show everyday clean your family you have a big family and I know your mom's always there for you to talk to Mom and ask mom mom I need you you always talk to Mom your mom's always there for you but I'm always there for you Michelle I have my own UA-cam channel if Michelle UA-cam channel alright you have wonderful day don't worry it's life I was people's break up people's makeup but I always get I was married before divorce and I have two kids so I know how you feel I'm glad you're not married and have two kids love your heart we have dug your your son and I hear kids😊 her dog died buy for her I like you guys very much you have a good day have a good day and keep up with smelling get up the work Christian brothers and sisters and mom and dad who they can help you I can go to her now cuz it's doing on the way to get there

    • @debkeller2440
      @debkeller2440 Рік тому +1

      He's not used to love her my what I know you can you find somebody I know it's hard for you and her hi Mom how's your mom feeling about this a family is your family family to get hard your mom probably taking it hard and comes taking a hard breaking up and breaking out angel from first taking it hard. Just keep praying to God don't worry you find somebody special I'm trying to find something give up never give up on somebody maybe if you have if you have to talk go on Facebook maybe find somebody Facebook when you find somebody you can go out once it's plenty cuz I'm Facebook Facebook but I don't go in that much have a good day I'm sorry what happened to you and your girlfriend keep laughing smile it will be okay how's your mom and your whole family taking it to talk taking it hard Hauser family taking it hard how long you guys been how long you guys been together😊😊😊

  • @SusieQ2389
    @SusieQ2389 Рік тому +13

    I hope you learned from this - this relationship went way too fast. I wish both of you the best in life. Good things to come.

  • @emmieann2037
    @emmieann2037 Рік тому +94

    Oh Alex, I haven't even finished the video and I just wish I could give you a virtual hug!!! By the time your 28 like me, 21 will feel like a life time ago and you will feel like a literal new person. Don't let anyone bring you down about this situation. You're an awesome guy with an amazing support system, with lots and lots of strangers that love you so much! You and Savannah both deserve happiness and it's OK if it's not with eachother. I hope you heal in your own time and know that all of us "true crazy pieces family" will be here every step of the way.

    • @sarahandy9981
      @sarahandy9981 Рік тому +2

      Well put. I couldn't agree more with you.💜💛

  • @ElsaInCa
    @ElsaInCa Рік тому +31

    I’m so sorry this happened, breakups are hard. Your situation gets more complicated because you get to share it with thousands of people. You’re wise to just give yourself time to process it all. Thank you for updating us.

  • @carlynelsen-wright3391
    @carlynelsen-wright3391 Рік тому +27

    I'm so sorry for the both of you. You two both deserve happiness and if this relationship does open a new door down the road, I pray you both find a way to open it. No matter what, you'll always be each other's first true love. Both of you have a lot of growing ahead of you. There's no right or wrong way to go. Sad you both decided to part ways.

  • @TexasbyStorm
    @TexasbyStorm Рік тому +48

    You have an amazing family that you need to plug into during this hard time. There is zero reason anyone should be mad at you or Savannah. Nobody knows the intricacies of your life off camera. Obviously breaking up is so much wiser than staying in a situation that isn't working. We will support you and pray for you! Never forget that you deserve happiness and love too. Give yourself the freedom to grieve how you need to and lean on your family to help you when the void seems too hard to bear. You're such a great kid and so considerate of everyone's feelings. People like you are not common, which makes you a treasure to behold.

  • @carrieannwarby3485
    @carrieannwarby3485 Рік тому +30

    I’m so sorry Alex, this one hurt because you truly loved her. Take your time to heal and work on yourself. ❤ You both deserve happiness.

  • @silviv1320
    @silviv1320 Рік тому +5

    I’m Sorry Alex not only do you have to heal from the break up, but also not having the dogs around. Very standup of you to share this with us and thank you for being a gentleman through this process.. you are loved by many people. My heart goes out to the both of you.
    Take your time for the next video, but not too long! You were cared for by many!

  • @mrsthornhill26
    @mrsthornhill26 Рік тому +13

    Praying for you Alex! I’m so sorry you are hurting. Better Days are coming ❤️

  • @erinlyon1554
    @erinlyon1554 Рік тому +166

    I’m so sorry Alex, as a mom to both boys & a girl in their 20’s my heart breaks for both of you.

    • @175muffin
      @175muffin Рік тому +2

      Alex 😊😊I AM P😊

    • @demilandry7122
      @demilandry7122 Рік тому +3

      I am so sorry for u all
      God bless you all
      You are so sweet

    • @demilandry7122
      @demilandry7122 Рік тому +3

      🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @mariamadia9204
      @mariamadia9204 Рік тому +2

      Alex you’re both very young and it’s best now. You’re good people. God Bless you both.

  • @Nicola-oh7hp
    @Nicola-oh7hp Рік тому +1

    You’re both so young. Time heals and it will for you both two. If it’s time apart you need then so be it, but if you want different things then wish each other well as you have, process it and move on. I don’t mean start dating. Start living your life, love will find you when you least expect it and you may realise actually she wasn’t the one. Hugs & love from 🇬🇧 x

  • @iheartthissong
    @iheartthissong Рік тому +3

    It will get better! One day you wont even remember the sadness or the pain. I am glad to see you spending more time with your family .

  • @monayhawthorne9420
    @monayhawthorne9420 Рік тому +26

    aww Alex hope you are doing ok I was so excited for the wedding and you guys living happily ever after and new adventures with each other praying for both you guys

  • @Shelly-bts
    @Shelly-bts Рік тому +7

    I’m so sorry to hear this news. I am however very proud of how responsible and respectful you are being about everything. Best wishes to each of you and your journeys and if meant to be, the paths will cross again at the right time.

  • @hannahmontana939
    @hannahmontana939 Рік тому +79

    I'm so sorry Alex! We are all here for you! It will all be ok:)

  • @deborahlevesque4362
    @deborahlevesque4362 Рік тому

    I pray you can remain friends and be able to still see your shared fur babies because it isn’t just a life change for you both but also change for your fur babies 😢😢😢❤❤❤

  • @angelalacy1828
    @angelalacy1828 3 місяці тому

    You both are phenomenal people and who knows what the future holds?
    As a mom, I hope my daughter, Hailey Paige Wileman finds someone as kind as you.
    May you both have bright futures! Congratulations on meeting your lil sis and it’s always good to allow someone in for a season or a reason

  • @maccifyme
    @maccifyme Рік тому +8

    I'm sorry about this. I'm also very proud of how much you've grown from being with her. You are so much more mature now, and the way you talk about her is very respectful and kind. I hope life holds amazing futures for both of you!

  • @skunkrepo2467
    @skunkrepo2467 Рік тому +21

    Alex as a single dad myself I was in your shoes before. I learned the hard way where I was being used. I'm always thankful to have a live in mum help take care of my special needs daughter. I prefer being single as I have 2 FT job's as priority. Wish you the best brother

  • @cowgirlatheart8204
    @cowgirlatheart8204 Рік тому +59

    Alex, you sound very mature. Most of us watching this have been through a break-up and heartache. We know how hard it is. Know that both of you are in my thoughts and prayers.

    • @kermit3375
      @kermit3375 Рік тому

      Crystal allowed them to get married incredibly young and allowed his son to propose to a girl he hasn’t known for very long. He had no job and is riding his parents success with no real life experience. He is a dumb kid who did things out of blind love and it sucks that crystal didn’t make an effort to slow it down, in fact she encouraged it. Alex needs to let go of his parents coat tails and become his own person and grow. He had no business rushing into marriage like this 🤦‍♂️

    • @SparklyStoner360
      @SparklyStoner360 Рік тому

      @@kermit3375 Alex was an adult when he proposed. His Mom didn’t “let” him do anything. Your comment is very immature and childish. Grow up, you sound ridiculous. Keep your crap “advice” to yourself and mind your own business.

    • @theelusive11
      @theelusive11 Рік тому +1

      @@kermit3375 you are rude and disrespectful. When your children turn 18 they are adults. You do not tell them what to do or how to do it. Alex is not dumb. He didn’t get married. You don’t allow your children to get married. Your children do what they want. Alex is an adult with a job. You Kermit have no business disrespecting him or his family.

    • @kermit3375
      @kermit3375 Рік тому

      @@theelusive11 nah the meat riding is crazy on that 🤣 crystal definitely encouraged it when she should’ve did the opposite. Y’all crazy pieces are a bunch of white Mormon Karen’s 🤣🤦‍♂️

    • @kermit3375
      @kermit3375 Рік тому

      @@theelusive11 alex has a yt channel that is only doing somewhat successful due to his parents. He works minimum wage at target and there is absolutely no way his small channel is bringing in enough money for his new Kia, apartment, home, food, and resources. His parents are supporting him still it is obvious. You’re too ignorant to see that Alex is basically still dependent to his parents and had zero reason to rush into a marriage with a girl that he’s known for less than a year 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @kasper1944
    @kasper1944 Рік тому

    Oh I am so sad for this news but you deserve happiness in your life. Sometimes these relationships just don’t work but as you said, you are both young with lots of life to live. One moment at a time.

  • @RollerCoasterFan
    @RollerCoasterFan Рік тому

    I am 35 and have been with my boyfriend for 7 years and still not married. Sometimes you just have to take it slow, you will find the right person. Hang in there and i am so sorry this happened to you. But believe me do not rush because the right person is out there and even if you dont get married to them just know that love is all that matters

  • @becauseiamagirlxx
    @becauseiamagirlxx Рік тому +13

    Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together - take care ;)

  • @blairandjacquelineadams5936
    @blairandjacquelineadams5936 Рік тому +25

    Alex, that was pure class on your part. As sad as it is thank you for taking the high road.

  • @skybright275
    @skybright275 Рік тому +4

    You are such a kind and mature man. Im the same age as you and i RARELY and i mean rarely meet anyone who is our age and has the strength and maturity that you show. It is a testament to your character. You have this Alex. Your such a gentle soul that deserves happiness. The right women is out there, im rooting for you!

  • @user-nr2km1kz3o
    @user-nr2km1kz3o Рік тому

    I'm sorry to hear about you and Savannah. You are a wonderful young man. Take your time and heal yourself before getting back into the dating scene. You're still very young.

  • @smilingjacks83
    @smilingjacks83 Рік тому +5

    ❤ to you Alex and ❤ to Savannah. Prayers for both of you, and for your families ❤

  • @kelleybrown840
    @kelleybrown840 Рік тому +26

    My heart goes out to you Alex! It’s ok to not be ok for as long as you need and please know your worth - you deserve someone who will love you for all that you are ❤

  • @sheriwilson7063
    @sheriwilson7063 Рік тому +23

    My prayers for you and Savannah as you go through this difficult transition. You both deserve happiness, even if it's not with each other.

  • @Toretto_the_pup
    @Toretto_the_pup Рік тому +7

    Everyone saying how he should keep one must not have dogs…. If the dogs get separated they might become depressed and have separation anxiety. These babies need to stay together since they are bonded together so Alex is actually making the right and most mature decision!

  • @Allietracks
    @Allietracks Рік тому +2

    You just really need to take your time. Stop jumping into relationships so quickly. If you’d have got married as fast as you originally wanted to this would be one giant mess! Take your time, it takes a good 2 or 3 years to properly get to know someone. You need to make sure it’s the right person. Best wishes

  • @cathleenoneil1338
    @cathleenoneil1338 Рік тому

    I am so sorry dear. Life will go on & you will be good.. one day at a time. Hugs

  • @SpecialEdTalk
    @SpecialEdTalk Рік тому +16

    I'm so sorry Alex, I hope that both of you find what you need. Sometimes a break up can bring you back together, stronger than ever. ❤ Prayers for you both.

  • @rosemarquez3544
    @rosemarquez3544 Рік тому +8

    I’m so sorry, Alex I know that you are so in love with her and she is such a beautiful woman inside and out and I am just so sad that this didn’t work out for the two of you, but I will pray that the two of you can find your way back to one another and that your love will be stronger than it was before ❤

  • @PatriotafVenise
    @PatriotafVenise Рік тому +7

    Break ups are just a part of life … sometimes we just need to be apart to figure things out. ♥️♥️ wish you well & good health Alex ♥️♥️🙏🏼
    Maybe y’all find your way back to each other ♥️♥️

  • @MamaDeLauro
    @MamaDeLauro Рік тому +5

    Alex, growing into a mature person takes hard work! We need to protect our heart and not give it away to the first person who comes along. We also need to take care of ourselves and choose our paths wisely. No one can do it for us. Once you have decided what path you will take, you need to commit to that goal and not give up easily.
    Take a deep breath, Alex, and look around to find your path. I know you will find love again, when you are ready! Don’t worry about getting another dog right now - you can always get your puppy fix whenever you go over to your parent’s house!
    I told my daughter when she was 15, not to rush into dating and to give herself time to grow and mature as a person and to carefully observe what is going on around her. I suggested that she wait until she was “26” before she even started dating.
    My reason for that number was based on the fact that she had decided on certain difficult career path when she was quite young. If she wanted to pursue her dream, she would have to educate and prepare herself. This would require her to be focused and true to herself, and not allow herself to be sidetracked or influenced by other people.
    I encouraged her to go to college and make some good friends and observe the choices that they made. I also encouraged her to develop many emotional and intellectual strengths to help her to be better prepared for her future.
    She graduated from high school in 2003 at 17, then she graduated from college in 2007 at 21. She had worked at job on the university campus for 4 years and was well liked and admired by the people she worked with while she was a student. So, I encouraged her to take another job at the university that would help her grow in confidence. After two years years, she felt ready to go to graduate school to get a Masters degree in her chosen field.
    She was 24 when she moved across the country and started grad school in 2009. She was was 26 when she graduated in 2012.
    She did not date anyone while she was in college or grad school, because it would have been too stressful for her to dedicate herself to her studies and navigate a new relationship at the same time.
    She met her future husband while they were both in grad school, but they did not start dating until after she graduated in 2012. They had been friends for 2 years before they actually started dating. The got engaged in 2013 and were married in 2014.
    She moved to New York City after graduating and worked in some very expensive restaurants, while learning all about living in a big city. She lived there for nearly 5 years, but her husband did not like living there and she was beginning to realize it was time to move. They decided to move to Atlanta in 2018, since her husband is from Georgia and there might be better job opportunities for both of them, but then Covid came along in 2020 and the world is still trying to recover from that!
    My daughter’s husband is two years younger than she is, and he was not as mature as she was when they got married. He will be 35 in June, and I think he is finally reaching his maturity level.
    They have been married for 9 years now and they are still working towards to establishing their careers. It takes time to achieve your goals, especially in the their chosen field!
    Best wishes to you Alex! Give your heart a chance to heal and trust that everything will work out!
    God Bless You!

  • @bellesierina2073
    @bellesierina2073 Рік тому +1

    Sorry to hear Alex! Not to sound horrible but the relationship seemed rushed from the beginning! It was so so obvious you are overwhelmed with emotions and love, bot knowing how to relax and enjoy it! Young love!

  • @catheemartins5223
    @catheemartins5223 Рік тому +7

    Feel so sad for you Alex...keep your self strong...just do you

  • @Rob_Morrison_GB
    @Rob_Morrison_GB Рік тому +6

    Alex, i've watched a few videos, you're such a genuine honourable young man, things will end up better for the both of you whether together or not. You're very brave for putting this video up and you deserve every happiness!

  • @KeepPushingForward76
    @KeepPushingForward76 Рік тому +8

    So sorry Alex, stay strong there’s someone out there for you and she’ll come along when you least expect it❤

  • @staceykeiser3014
    @staceykeiser3014 Рік тому

    You are so young...please go slow. It takes time to really get to know someone. You are a wonderful person, you'll find The One ....when it's the right time.

  • @Quila1125
    @Quila1125 Рік тому +1

    so sorry you guys broke up. im sure it was very hard. seems like you guys were mature about it. thats really nice of you to let her keep the dogs. i know that was also not easy. I can tell Savannah is a really nice person and no1 should give her hard time same for you as well.. hope for the best for both of you. will you guys just be friends now even though you broke up? just take your time the right person will come your way 1 day until then just enjoy life and be happy.

  • @miabeckworth3714
    @miabeckworth3714 Рік тому +42

    We love you Alex. I hope your okay and heal completely. I know it’s hard but it’ll be okay one day.

  • @melissawolford1422
    @melissawolford1422 Рік тому +5

    as sad as this whole situation is you are handling it maturely.. I am so proud of you as a momma of 4 it breaks my heart for you both life is full of lessons and you will get thru this whose to say later on you wont be together if so great if not so be it.. it hurts now and will for awhile but you have an amazing family and friends to help you.. remember you have to get thru the emotions in order to heal so give yourself that time to deal with it love u much prayers for u all

  • @LovinElvis247
    @LovinElvis247 Рік тому +5

    Very proud of you for handling it so well telling us. I am so very sorry that this happened but I wish nothing but the best for both of you in the future.

  • @arctic_ginger9194
    @arctic_ginger9194 Рік тому +1

    My heart breaks for you going through this so public when it is young and private. Take a step back and maybe not every part of your life needs to be content it adds a huge unnecessary layer. I get that it is all you know and have been taught but it is also toxic

  • @markschmidt8191
    @markschmidt8191 Рік тому +1

    Where are you working now? You will get through this tough time, stay strong!

  • @Chosen1-i2s
    @Chosen1-i2s Рік тому +40

    Even after you guys parted ways you still have so much respect for her with the way you speak about her that’s very mature of you Alex! Its not easy but just know if it’s meant to be you guys will find your way back to each other! Take a lot of time to yourself focus on what you really want out of life just because someone leaves doesn’t mean it’s the end of the world you are young and have so much to look forward too in the future!

    • @debkeller2440
      @debkeller2440 Рік тому +1

      Work I know you want to date find that South a job and work with your face and be with your family it was your family before you ever date a girlfriend family comes first and you come first so I believe it really does you come first and your family you first😊

  • @nildahernandez3232
    @nildahernandez3232 Рік тому +4

    You have our support. We have been here with you since way back. I had a feeling something was not right when you showed up more on Crazy Pieces vlogs alone. Take the time to focus on you. When the time is right you will find that special person who will love and appreciate you and your ways. You are an amazing guy and always gives your all. Hugs to you from Chicago!!💝

  • @heatherengert-1089
    @heatherengert-1089 Рік тому +3

    I've been worried about you guy's and didn't want to listen to rumours.
    The saying that one door closes another opens. I wish you both every happiness that you both deserve. ❤️

  • @krislynnekrukoski5089
    @krislynnekrukoski5089 Рік тому +1

    It's wise to take your time when you do start to date again. I dated my now husband for 2 years were engaged for 1 year and now married for almost 15 years. Never rush into marriage.

  • @yvetteordaz1286
    @yvetteordaz1286 Рік тому +1

    I am sorry to say this but I did see this coming . They didn’t seem like a fit since the beginning at least to me !!!
    They both deserve happiness wish you all luck !!!

  • @paulinekerstgens4766
    @paulinekerstgens4766 Рік тому +10

    So sorry to hear this Alex ur a good person and u will get through this u have a great family to help u get there xx stay strong xx

  • @laurengilbert5506
    @laurengilbert5506 Рік тому +3

    Something good always comes out of a break up... either you work it out and your happily ever after or you don't and you find happiness. Either way happiness is coming.

  • @vanessat5500
    @vanessat5500 Рік тому +3

    I’m sorry you lost so much all in one, break ups are hard. We don’t expect up beat and happy content right after you have been through what you have. You are entitled to your feelings and no one can be mad at you while you’re healing. That being said having been through something similar all I can say is there is a light at the end of all the hurt and time does heal. You have family and friends and us to help you through this, don’t feel like you have to do this all alone! We got shoulders for you to lean on and ears for you if you need to vent. You’ve got an army behind you.

  • @graciasophia3771
    @graciasophia3771 Рік тому +1

    Hi! I normally don't comment ever but Iam going thorugh the same thing. Relationship of 6 years and it tore my heart it is very difficult. But this experience helped me get closer to God and learn MANY things about myself. He has shown me that amidst the pain He is there and He has a bigger plan for my life. And I am sure that He has a plan for you as well. If you felt like you had amazing things with her KNOW that the woman and the olans He has for you is 10x better.

  • @corrinneclout6787
    @corrinneclout6787 Рік тому

    Sorry for the break up n I wish you both the best in the future

  • @debbiejess9035
    @debbiejess9035 Рік тому +2

    Oh Alex I'm feeling so sad for you. But you are so mature in your outlook from the breakup. Keep your chin up.

  • @nicoleficchi8411
    @nicoleficchi8411 Рік тому +35

    I’m so sorry Alex we are all here for you take as long as you need to heal❤️

  • @vloging_with_amanda
    @vloging_with_amanda Рік тому +7

    I’m so sorry to hear this Alex we are all here for you!! Keep up with the great work

  • @isabellhansen2864
    @isabellhansen2864 Рік тому +1

    Breakups are hard to do, especially when you saw your whole life with them. I recently went through one as well and it isn’t easy at all. Day by day, it’ll become more and more normal. You are being so mature about it and I hope you’re allowing yourself to process these big emotions. I send you and Savannah so much love individually!

  • @cristinab6985
    @cristinab6985 Рік тому

    Fight for her talk about how you feel with each other you two will be back together trust me.i said the same thing i wasnt going to date again i was in a 7 year and was talking about wedding too and i had a date too then i broke it off and found this amazing girl and i love her so much. Keep our spirt high up

  • @Bindi111
    @Bindi111 Рік тому +4

    Big hugs Alex! I am sorry to hear this. Life challenges us and as you said will help you grow. I know it’s hard to see right now but there are many good things coming your way. ❤️

  • @klmn14658
    @klmn14658 Рік тому +4

    Alex, just checking in to see how you've been doing. Every day it will get a little easier. You will start to laugh & have fun again & actually mean it. You're a great person & deserve all the happiness that life has to offer.
    Looking forward to your next vlog.
    HIGH 5!!

  • @lifeaccordingtotheo9643
    @lifeaccordingtotheo9643 Рік тому +6

    Study as many books as you can and meet with a counseler and work towards not being codependent. There were a lot of codependent behaviours on your end. That will help a lot in the next relationship. A wise person told me once that breaking up with their fiance, though it seemed the hardest day of their life, ended up being the 2nd best day of their life as the next relationship was the person they married.🎉

  • @sharminrahman7182
    @sharminrahman7182 8 місяців тому

    Alex, I completely understand what us going on, its ok not to be ok sometimes , we are all here for you

  • @sandi.huskisson
    @sandi.huskisson Рік тому +2

    You changed while with Savannah, so perhaps your old Alex will come back , so sorry for the heartache, not what I would want for you .... I think you have the strength to get through this and be back to who YOU are . Much love to you❤🇿🇦♥️

  • @SystemAsherath
    @SystemAsherath Рік тому +24

    All I can say is you're seriously so mature about this and to go out of your way to say don't hate on her is so kind. You both are going down different paths and that's ok. Focus on what makes you shine and if your paths with Savana turn back to each other then so be it and if not that's fine too as life holds many opportunities to meet other people and love other people as well. Time will tell and I'm sorry you're having a hard time right now. We all love the both of you and wish the two of you happiness. Alex you didn't owe us any explanation but we all appreciate that you felt the need to come out and say it. ❤ Your future is bright and so is hers continue to grow and thrive you have so much support and we as your UA-cam fam support you in whatever you feel is right. Love you Alex you're an amazing person.

  • @fredhall5460
    @fredhall5460 Рік тому +5

    As hard a time that this is for both of you thanks for allowing us to be a part of your lives we will miss seeing her as she is a gorgeous young lady and wish you both the best lives you can have! It has been a as joy meeting and getting to know you both.. wishing you the best that life can give you both!❤

  • @_Rainbowshadows_
    @_Rainbowshadows_ Рік тому +5

    I saw this coming , There was so many Red flags in the videos She never really seemed happy in this relationship bit clearly wasnt if she had said she wouldnt wear her ring , Dont dread on the sadness from a breakup people come into your life in an unexpected time

  • @Islandgirl58
    @Islandgirl58 Рік тому

    Enjoy life you’re still young. Getting married at such a young age isn’t for everyone. Travel, enjoy time with your loving family.

  • @SaundraMcKenzie
    @SaundraMcKenzie Рік тому +2

    So sorry. Hang in there. It will get better. You deserve so much.don't gorget how special you are and how many people have your back.

  • @kellymorrison3414
    @kellymorrison3414 Рік тому +5

    love you alex. heartbreak sucks , wouldn’t wish it on anyone . but time heals and i hope you can see that ❤️