The Real Cause of Food Guarding Showdowns Surprises Victoria | It's Me or the Dog

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  • Опубліковано 26 вер 2024
  • Dog training expert Victoria Stilwell observes a dog displaying food guarding behavior... but is shocked when the culprit turns out to not be what she first assumed!
    It's Me or the Dog USA Season 1 Episode 8
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 239

  • @aamikkalinin6385
    @aamikkalinin6385 3 роки тому +233

    That is so sweet that they gave a cake to her, she deserves it!

    • @Mitsuki_Hikari
      @Mitsuki_Hikari 3 роки тому +10

      Exactly she deserves it and so much more she is amazing

    • @IheartMalxoxo
      @IheartMalxoxo 3 роки тому +1

      Yes LOL !!

    • @Mkmc18
      @Mkmc18 3 роки тому +8

      It looked like she was about to cry about it like she doesn’t get enough appreciation 😭

    • @aamikkalinin6385
      @aamikkalinin6385 3 роки тому +2

      @@Mkmc18 It really does look like it

  • @Chloe-rq4dw
    @Chloe-rq4dw 3 роки тому +344

    They were so confident and so sweet by giving u a cake!
    Tysm for all the likes i really appreciate it ya,ll are so sweet!

  • @GG-kn2se
    @GG-kn2se 3 роки тому +292

    Here before the “omg FOR ONCE it’s not the owners!!!!!” comments that are under almost every video.

    • @annahalko-angemi
      @annahalko-angemi 3 роки тому +15

      Well it is actually. They are not addressing resource guarding and allowing one dog to RG over another.

    • @GG-kn2se
      @GG-kn2se 3 роки тому +11

      @@annahalko-angemi this is one clip from the full episode. they clearly didn’t even know it was happening, if you bothered watching before running your mouth, you would have seen their surprise when Victoria informed them. “well it is actually” no, actually, so jump down from your high horse.

    • @turoreal
      @turoreal 3 роки тому +2

      @@GG-kn2se Had a bad day?

    • @Ruby..lalala
      @Ruby..lalala 3 роки тому

      @@turoreal Probably

    • @annahalko-angemi
      @annahalko-angemi 3 роки тому +1

      @@hwfq34fajw9foiffawdiufhuaiwfhw of course you can't. But you have to set them up for success. For example, you do not leave them unattended with food or toys that they resource guard.

  • @GamerplayerWT
    @GamerplayerWT 3 роки тому +75

    Doggy dysfunctional relationship. Who would’ve thought?!

  • @cutedoggoz1692
    @cutedoggoz1692 3 роки тому +502

    Man those dogs are in a pretty toxic relationship

    • @zzizahacallar
      @zzizahacallar 3 роки тому +14

      Very sad

    • @the11382
      @the11382 Рік тому

      I get the impression that the dog trying to steal food needs better dog manners. Maybe some separate socialization will help?

    • @PaigeRobins-ky4qc
      @PaigeRobins-ky4qc 7 місяців тому

      Indeed.🐕🐕🐶🐩🐾💯

  • @Yaara__
    @Yaara__ 3 роки тому +41

    You should be a dog detective well you already are 😂

  • @allegra9171
    @allegra9171 3 роки тому +41

    I love seeing the transformation of all theses dogs

  • @noraphelan5598
    @noraphelan5598 3 роки тому +28

    Ooh what a beautiful cake. Well deserved, Victoria! Also, congratulations on 1 million subscribers!!

  • @mermer3572
    @mermer3572 2 роки тому +3

    The owner's excitement at the fact that Barnsley at all his food was so wholesome

  • @tala6996
    @tala6996 3 роки тому +59

    why are this so fun to watch-

    • @Ruby..lalala
      @Ruby..lalala 3 роки тому +8

      No idea. I've literally watched most of their videos now. There just so addicting and enjoyable.

  • @RayTheRat06
    @RayTheRat06 3 роки тому +20

    aww.. the cake made it even more adoreble

  • @monoclenarwhal
    @monoclenarwhal 3 роки тому +13

    That cake at the end was so cute

  • @rubenarreola9993
    @rubenarreola9993 3 роки тому +121

    "Shes controlling him"
    Same barnsley Same

    • @ZeriocTheTank
      @ZeriocTheTank 3 роки тому +3

      I knew there would be a comment like this somewhere lol!

    • @angeliki5135
      @angeliki5135 3 роки тому +3

      Was looking for this kind of comment. 10/10

  • @COVbadman79
    @COVbadman79 3 роки тому +17

    Hugs for Victoria X

  • @bresciaanabella7750
    @bresciaanabella7750 3 роки тому +38

    Me when I know im not supposed to drink boba tea-

  • @snaz6421
    @snaz6421 3 роки тому +29

    i don’t understand why these videos are so fun to watch 🧍‍♀️

  • @CleodeNile85
    @CleodeNile85 3 роки тому +4

    I hope this series NEVER ends

    • @CleodeNile85
      @CleodeNile85 3 роки тому

      👍🤩🥰💗😍😘😀😜⭐️😝🥳😚😋🤗 😊forgot to put my emojis lol 😂😂

  • @normadelacruz6613
    @normadelacruz6613 3 роки тому +2

    Victoria was like YAPPP

  • @donnacalderhead3843
    @donnacalderhead3843 3 роки тому +145

    Barnsley: *Cutley walks upstairs*
    Cashmere: RABABABA no way this is MY territory
    Barnsley: Excuse me i- LOOK WHATS THAT!
    Cashmere: I ain't falling for that
    Barnsley: :< Yessir..

    • @donnacalderhead3843
      @donnacalderhead3843 3 роки тому +1

      @SAMHITA SARKAR - STUDENT Awwwh! Thanks!

    • @donnacalderhead3843
      @donnacalderhead3843 3 роки тому +1

      @SAMHITA SARKAR - STUDENT Are you being sarcastic or are you not loo coz if your not I really appreciate that

    • @donnacalderhead3843
      @donnacalderhead3843 3 роки тому +1

      @SAMHITA SARKAR - STUDENT Aww! Thx! x

    • @donnacalderhead3843
      @donnacalderhead3843 3 роки тому +1

      I... I got 94 likes I'm shaking... OMG OMG OMG! AHHH!

    • @donnacalderhead3843
      @donnacalderhead3843 3 роки тому +1

      @SAMHITA SARKAR - STUDENT 113 now you guys are actual the best

  • @heathenwolf4997
    @heathenwolf4997 3 роки тому +6

    Would LOVE to see full episode of this

  • @ritacita
    @ritacita 3 роки тому +4

    Why did I cry when they gave Victoria the cake? Lord

  • @heenalpatel781
    @heenalpatel781 3 роки тому +3

    Yayyy new vid!!

  • @lotte__unknown
    @lotte__unknown 3 роки тому +2

    Always good video

  • @Di777
    @Di777 3 роки тому +3

    If you think about it Victoria is not a dog trainer, she's both a human AND dog psychologist :)
    Also, she's amazing and the owners are really nice to have given her a cake, she totally deserves it :)

  • @gargidutt7531
    @gargidutt7531 3 роки тому +5

    Obsessed with these videos ✨

  • @JG-cy2wf
    @JG-cy2wf 3 роки тому +1

    Victoria is so amazing and insightful. I would love to meet her one day!

  • @rachaelmurphy1369
    @rachaelmurphy1369 3 роки тому +2

    Always get so exited for a new video

  • @stormfly2275
    @stormfly2275 3 роки тому +2

    Love your content 💙💙💙

  • @jazmariesummers5774
    @jazmariesummers5774 3 роки тому +1

    You taught me how to train my future dog i lov ur vids keep up the good work

  • @Motherofdragons4780
    @Motherofdragons4780 3 роки тому +7

    This kind of reminds me of how my aunt’s dogs are. I don’t live with her and I’m blind so I can’t exactly see what they’re doing, but when she tells me stories this is what it sounds like. I’m not exactly sure who is the bossy one since I don’t live with her, but she has two female Boston terriers and one male Frenchy. I stayed with her when she only had the two Boston terriers, and one of them would eat her food and then go over and eat the other dog’s food so the other dog was refusing to eat. When she would try to eat I would hear growling. They would also fight over toys a lot, but she told me they were just playing and maybe they were. Ever since she got the Frenchy puppy almost 6 months ago they will take toys away from him and then fight over the toy and the fights are bloody. Maybe they’re just reestablishing the pecking order, but I don’t like that the girls take toys away from the puppy. She said the fights are getting better, but they’re still happening and they don’t take things from the puppy when my aunt gives him empty bottles instead of their toys. It’s almost like they’re being possessive and don’t like sharing. I want to help her with her situation, but I have no idea how.

    • @joachims_corner
      @joachims_corner 3 роки тому +2

      Separate the dogs?

    • @Ysckemia
      @Ysckemia 3 роки тому +2

      there are some other videos on that channel, about issues involving two female dogs, or two female dogs AND a male. Sorry, i can't give you a precise link, but you can still browse the videos by yourself. you should be able to find some ideas.

    • @crosita1
      @crosita1 3 роки тому +2

      Hi Meghan! Dog trainer here. Your situation sounds really concerning. Fights where blood is drawn are serious and are likely to get worse as the dogs build a long-term distrust and dislike of each other that is increased by every fight. In addition, a puppy who is bullied like this will be insecure and distrustful of the bullies--and with good reason! This will suddenly become a much bigger problem when the puppy starts entering adulthood. Puppies don't defend themselves or their stuff, but eventually they will try out standing up for themselves as they mature. If your puppy is 9mo old now you may have much time before this begins. 9-15 months is usually when dogs begin to act socially as adults. I am also concerned about you being in physical proximity to dogs who fight without being able to see their body language. This puts you in danger of collateral damage just from being too close.
      The first thing that needs to happen is that the dogs should never, ever be loose together when there's a resource they will argue over accessible. If it's a certain kind of toy, they must be gated or crated apart before any of them can play with it, and it must be out of sight the rest of the time. You and your aunt really need to get a trainer over asap to keep this from blowing up when the puppy decides he has had enough. It's dangerous for all three dogs, you, and your aunt as well. Please, don't let this escalate.
      This is such a complex and dangerous situation that I really think a trainer that can physically go to your house would be preferable. If this isn't a possibility for you, I could try to see you online or at least help your aunt learn to read the dogs better visually and find a management solution. If cost is a problem, don't let that stop you--I have options to make my work more affordable.
      Unfortunately I am not experienced working with blind clients, and my skills in canine body language are overwhelmingly visual. If you have any guide dog trainers in your area, they may have more experience in using your other senses to read your dogs, and if you explain your situation they might be willing to stop by and help you out. I hesitate to advise you feel for tail carriage or muscle tension when that puts you close enough to get chomped in a situation that's already tense and likely to get chompy. I have a mobility disability myself, so I know that experience in finding workarounds is extremely valuable for people with limitations, but someone more experienced than I would likely have a lot more ideas for you specifically.
      Let me know if I can help at all, and please try to talk your aunt into having a good positive trainer over to try to reverse this before the puppy takes matters into his own teeth!

    • @Motherofdragons4780
      @Motherofdragons4780 3 роки тому

      @@crosita1 I don't live with her, but I want to help her. She wants to get help, she just doesn’t know how. Sometimes when we talk on the phone I’ll hear a fight break out and it’s almost scary to listen to. Do you have a Facebook where I can message you more details?

    • @robinrutherfordcost4748
      @robinrutherfordcost4748 2 роки тому +1

      Contact Victoria Stillwell and maybe they can do an episode of the 3 dogs. Am sure your Aunt is probably not the only one who has issues with 3 dogs fighting. I have 3 dogs as well and they each eat in a separate room. I insist on calmness in the house so they stay on their own beds or pieces of furniture. That's got to be very stressful for your Aunt as well, especially if a vet trip is warranted. Sounds like that's where it's headed. Every rehearsal of this behavior makes it worse. Victoria does have a few videos of 3 dogs fighting over the couch that might be helpful - Shih-tzu and a Miniature poodle I believe. Hope this helps.

  • @mminh6565
    @mminh6565 3 роки тому +1

    HAPPY 1 MIL!

  • @heenalpatel781
    @heenalpatel781 3 роки тому +2

    Congrats on a mil!! U guys worked so hard!!

  • @InTeCredo
    @InTeCredo 3 роки тому +3

    Ohhhhh, that gorgeous Lincoln Mark IV in the background!

  • @ryproar11
    @ryproar11 Рік тому

    My huskies are like this too with the female being bossy with my boy. This made me make a room just for her to eat in with a baby gate so she doesnt get so snippy with him.

  • @IMINYOURWALLS..
    @IMINYOURWALLS.. 3 роки тому +13

    Wait was this just posted? I didnt look at the time it was posted but all the comments are really close to the time my comment was posted.
    To anyone who knows welsh:
    Dw i’n wedi blino...

    • @sillyface6950
      @sillyface6950 3 роки тому

      yeah I think it was posted an hour before you commented this.

  • @natw08
    @natw08 3 роки тому +2

    this is amazing

  • @Eile_ghayes
    @Eile_ghayes 3 роки тому

    Love your videos

  • @hinaldave1230
    @hinaldave1230 3 роки тому +2

    Loved it how you train 🥰🥰🎀🎀😇😇👍👑👑💐🙌👏👏

  • @idkmeganidk
    @idkmeganidk 3 роки тому +2

    I love to watch ur video and idk why

  • @diarmuidkelly1973
    @diarmuidkelly1973 3 роки тому +1

    Love watching ya

  • @EventingZoeyy
    @EventingZoeyy 3 роки тому +5

    my dog maggie is kinda like that but she will just give space between me and my sister's dog blue. Like if he comes near me and jumps on me she will bite him but not hard and sometimes when I come home from school or when we are sitting by the fire at night she might aggressively attack him but kind of like a domination attack when that happens we run to them and tell them to stop I might need victoria to train maggie and blue. and by the way, Maggie is a girl and blue is a boy who is related to maggie he was her sister's pup I don't wanna talk about what happened to her sister but anyway my neighbor shot her for chasing cows when my mom was at work and my dad was getting feed for them and she figured a way to get out and yeah she is the only one who got out cause she was the runt of the litter but we had her for a year

  • @sibelu.8684
    @sibelu.8684 3 роки тому +3

    These dogs like my parents she rules everything but when he gets angry oh! he s guilty 😂😂

  • @octipuscrime
    @octipuscrime 3 роки тому

    I thought the cake was for the dogs 🤭

  • @asheriyermusic
    @asheriyermusic 3 роки тому +42

    Fun fact: 5 people cant be first

    • @moltenxdlmao
      @moltenxdlmao 3 роки тому

      lol true

    • @diarmuidkelly1973
      @diarmuidkelly1973 3 роки тому

      Ikr

    • @mayadraws7934
      @mayadraws7934 3 роки тому

      @ReboundSpirit well they can- oh wait I’m not suppose to tell you that....they are coming soon good luck.

    • @annahalko-angemi
      @annahalko-angemi 3 роки тому +1

      Also fun fact: no one cares if they are anyway.

  • @strawberrybubbles7577
    @strawberrybubbles7577 3 роки тому

    Congratulations on 1 million

  • @theonlytwo3727
    @theonlytwo3727 3 роки тому +3

    First i love how you solve everything i love you ♥️❤️

    • @theonlytwo3727
      @theonlytwo3727 3 роки тому +1

      Nah sorry u are not and also i am not i said i was first because i was ONE of them

  • @user-mv1kj4zh4v
    @user-mv1kj4zh4v 3 роки тому

    Yay You Uploaded

  • @mojosbigsticks
    @mojosbigsticks 3 роки тому

    Have they ever been to Barnsley? Sheesh!

  • @betanialacoste7945
    @betanialacoste7945 3 роки тому

    My mother & me and why I don't work; just collect.

  • @ellahawley981
    @ellahawley981 3 роки тому

    I love this show it makes me happy

  • @anneselby2293
    @anneselby2293 3 роки тому

    That was fascinating! 😳👍

  • @saradavis3288
    @saradavis3288 3 роки тому

    *me trying to watch the video*
    Ads:my time to shine :))))))

  • @NancyPetrik
    @NancyPetrik 3 роки тому +1

    Congrats on one mil subscribers Victoria. You earned every sub including mine.

  • @emilydelacruz2984
    @emilydelacruz2984 3 роки тому

    I love your shows

  • @Wolfdawg504
    @Wolfdawg504 3 роки тому

    I know these families aren't dog training professionals or anything...but you'd think some of these issues would be common sense. Like, if you see one dog bullying another dog, and that dog being tensed up while eating around the bully...why not completely separate them to solve the issue??? Why does Victoria need to provide that nugget of wisdom to them?

  • @juniperroo
    @juniperroo 3 роки тому +2

    Hi

  • @rachy4488
    @rachy4488 3 роки тому

    I need Victoria's help. My husky is an aggressive food resource guarder against my GSD. We feed them separately but want to get rid of the behaviour.

  • @blacksheep1756
    @blacksheep1756 3 роки тому +1

    Why was that hard for the owners to figure out between the two dogs?🤔

  • @janyaaaaaaaa
    @janyaaaaaaaa 3 роки тому +9

    I feel like I've seen these people before when Cashmere was a pain to there cat maybe ??? I guess

    • @lyreparadox
      @lyreparadox 3 роки тому +10

      Yeah, these are just parts of hour-long episodes. So you'll see the same dogs & owners working on several different problems.

    • @janyaaaaaaaa
      @janyaaaaaaaa 3 роки тому

      @@lyreparadox Hmm I seee

  • @kiarimarie
    @kiarimarie 3 роки тому

    I've seen this type of dynamic, my golden retriever would always bully our older dog when it came to getting attention from us. My current neighbors seem to have two little pekingnese who seem to have a bad dynamic, as the one will start beating up the other one if they keep barking. It sounds nasty but when I've seen it, it's actually little contact thank goodness. Hopefully they aren't worse in the house 😅
    Sucks when you got this dynamic but Victoria as always showing how you can work to mitigate issues.

  • @butterpeakx4562
    @butterpeakx4562 3 роки тому +2

    Doggo

  • @ladysyrus1788
    @ladysyrus1788 3 роки тому

    My dog torgue guards his food because when he was in possession of my grandmother they never fed the dogs enough so him and his siblings fought for food. So he gets defensive I'm currently working on the problems myself because I don't wanna have to get rid of him. So I'm hoping to improve our situation around our dogs

  • @-sleepybear-6572
    @-sleepybear-6572 3 роки тому

    I need help with my dog- She’s Precious but her CLAWS ARE JUST-

  • @thebanasfam4997
    @thebanasfam4997 3 роки тому

    The dog's are sooooo cute

  • @atashaabbasi1440
    @atashaabbasi1440 3 роки тому +2

    When they filmed this was it 2021? Can somone answer?

    • @birdypie7743
      @birdypie7743 3 роки тому +3

      Nope. Quick google search says it was filmed between 2008 and 2012 (original release of the US It's Me or the Dog). These are just clips from the show

    • @atashaabbasi1440
      @atashaabbasi1440 3 роки тому

      @@birdypie7743 but when do they film at 2021?

    • @boniboni4912
      @boniboni4912 3 роки тому +2

      @@atashaabbasi1440 the show doesn’t exist anymore so they aren’t going to film in 2021

  • @eligualtieri1612
    @eligualtieri1612 Місяць тому

    Why do these people have the exact same car in the driveway as that 20 year old from the episode with the out of control giant dog?

  • @bennymanku1751
    @bennymanku1751 3 роки тому

    What breed is Barnsley

  • @pixie4599
    @pixie4599 3 роки тому +6

    LOL I JUST SAW THAT IT HAD 17 VIEWS AND 33 COMMENTS THEN I REFRESHED AND IT HAD 340 VIEWS

  • @teforamokoka5857
    @teforamokoka5857 2 роки тому

    My dog resource guards all the blankets, what should I do?

  • @sukainaaseeri3614
    @sukainaaseeri3614 3 роки тому

    I love your vid

  • @elizabethsomers1340
    @elizabethsomers1340 3 роки тому

    Just like some relationships 😆

  • @ashleejoseph1418
    @ashleejoseph1418 3 роки тому

    Ok 20-30 likes I will get a dog and someone Will choose what kind of dog breed I get. I will comment on your comment and say OK thank you this is the dog and that will be the kind of dog I get. Remember 20 to 30 comments I’m not sure but if you guys think it’s a good idea then I’ll do it. The kind of dog I want is a energetic one but one that’s calm one that’s beautiful doesn’t shed too much and is small

  • @loramatthews9951
    @loramatthews9951 3 роки тому

    Is it me or ate they rlly nice

  • @freyaross3265
    @freyaross3265 3 роки тому +1

    Can I get a owa owa

  • @renataklein9371
    @renataklein9371 3 роки тому +1

    Hiii

  • @ItsViolaRose
    @ItsViolaRose 3 роки тому

    It seems more like shes the older dog puppy guarding him but the trainings the same, if your house is big enough. Im curious how she'd deal with this in an apartment, or with dogs who jump the gate

  • @laylaandsashatideswell1380
    @laylaandsashatideswell1380 3 роки тому +6

    Clam your early tickets here 💵

  • @Gabbi808
    @Gabbi808 3 роки тому +2

    hi :)

  • @commonlyknownasaly
    @commonlyknownasaly 3 роки тому

    When it says 16 minutes ago

  • @freyaross3265
    @freyaross3265 3 роки тому +2

    Doggyyyy

  • @user-mv1kj4zh4v
    @user-mv1kj4zh4v 3 роки тому

    I have two dogs used to have 3 but when he was a puppy he died my old one belle and hector hectors the pup he used to be scraed of belle bc she would groul bc she wloud get if he was gonna take her duck toy😂 but now there friends

  • @123YMR
    @123YMR Рік тому

    Feed the dog on his own, in peace, not around the other dog or people. It’s not difficult.

  • @lvp6905
    @lvp6905 3 роки тому

    I find it amazing that any dog owners had to call someone in for a situation like this. It goes to show a certain amount of common sense is simply lacking for many of us.

  • @TheGamer-co4ck
    @TheGamer-co4ck 3 роки тому

    Victoria I did help with my dog plz respond ASAP plz I really really did help with my dog (plz respond)

  • @ruhankhan110
    @ruhankhan110 3 роки тому

    omg-

  • @lorenamantia4428
    @lorenamantia4428 3 роки тому

    i love you

  • @misssincere5762
    @misssincere5762 3 роки тому

    Well, these people seem very calm collective & very well put together! Until the yearly purge!

  • @mohammedplays2343
    @mohammedplays2343 3 роки тому

    2

  • @blitz-o-byte
    @blitz-o-byte 3 роки тому +1

    For once the owners actually seem really cool??

  • @flaree8971
    @flaree8971 3 роки тому

    90s Computer, wut?

  • @は私です彼の名前
    @は私です彼の名前 3 роки тому +3

    They don’t call them bitches for no reason. She’s the alpha alright. Poor Barnsley.

    • @annahalko-angemi
      @annahalko-angemi 3 роки тому +1

      There's no such thing as Alpha. She is resource guarding.

  • @Beanss_999
    @Beanss_999 3 роки тому

    Bruh

  • @weeb535
    @weeb535 3 роки тому

    My Female dog is controlling of my male and hes like 5 times bigger then she is. They eat in different rooms tho

  • @Mmmmwa
    @Mmmmwa 3 роки тому

    Wow 1 dog control another dog n owner have no control to both of them 😂😂

  • @amaarascott7633
    @amaarascott7633 3 роки тому

    123 comments rn

  • @Juicewah
    @Juicewah 3 роки тому

    Random fact:
    She is not wearing a mask

  • @ricardoronco9632
    @ricardoronco9632 3 роки тому

    Can we stop talking about the comments and more about the video?

  • @ashgaming8176
    @ashgaming8176 3 роки тому

    Supernanny for dogs lol

  • @learningtoyoutube9033
    @learningtoyoutube9033 3 роки тому

    The Dobermans tail is the most beautiful tail ever.

  • @mohammedplays2343
    @mohammedplays2343 3 роки тому

    4