Why young men aren't growing up & society is collapsing
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- Why young men are lonely and not growing up - huge social issues that spell the doom of the West.
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0:00 - intro
1:24 - Relationship decline
7:18 - Brotherhood
8:28 - Land ownership vs. Fantasy
14:37 - Religious decline & hero worship
We used to have an economy where an average guy could go to high school, get a job or good apprenticeship right after graduation, and be ready to buy a house and become the primary breadwinner by 23 to 25. This made for radically different dating dynamics. People in high school or right out of high school took relationships seriously because they knew they would be ready to start hitting those traditional “ milestones” within a few short years. After the 1990 recession our politicians and the ultra affluent offshored most of the solid middle class jobs and left the American people
with crappy service jobs that paid 1/2 as much and had no benefits.
Yes as a young woman….. women want providers and to have sexual polarity it’s recommended to always be with a man who’s at least 7-9 years older….. and I’m attracted to men who are 15-25 years older than me
Why would I be loyal or want a man who can’t provide
I’m a feminine beautiful woman and I can pick and choose … and I choose 100% provider men
@@Sunshineandrainbows234 Sad thing is that most men I know would love to be providers and for myself I can only say I thrive in that sort of position. Unfortunately that power to provide has been taken away more and more.
@@xAudiolith well it’s your job to man up and find a way… with the internet these days there are lots of opportunities…. And I understand it’s impossible almost to get inspired by a girls radiance and beauty these days bc most girls have sex waaaaaaaaaay to easy easily and waaaaaaaaay too early and they are masculine energy women and not that good looking either
@@xAudiolitha woman telling you to man up, lol
I was thrown out of the family home at 16 in 1986, I was on the streets and got addicted to drugs running with a bad pack.
Managed to get a skill and found jobs, got clean found a girl and climbed out of the hole.
If I had to do all that today I seriously think that I would not make it.
I don't have any children of my own but I'm deeply worried about the you that of today and how badly they have been screwed over. It's sickening.
Society is pushing the bear to the corner calling it names, telling him he is the enemy, not needed, not liked, not useful, forced to not be better than others, can't have bear spaces and then expect the bear to not lash out and burn the whole village down to feel it's warmth.
Everyone who is reading this, sort by new, they are censoring the real answers
The actual top comments are censored lmao 😂😂
Sort by new if you want to see the real scoop
SLAVA ROSSIYA!!!!!!
They shadow banned one of my comments for awhile
You’re right about most young men are being ignored by women. Women today collectively decided it’s better to be in a harem or be side chicks or sugar babies than be in a relationship with a normal decent dude.
Yep. Had to laugh at the results. Feminism promised women freedom and power and delivered a 7th century Middle east Harem culture.
Congrats!
That's part of the problem. I think the bigger issue with the ladies is that many of them are whores now. Just think about how many of them have OnlyFans.
Good work young man, I'm 70 and I have been coaching à 27 year old teenager virgin guy going nowhere and now he's starting to feel testosterone in his veins for the first time in his life, he was totally feminized and being passive and ”nice” and he's now so excited, girls want to be around him, he has goals, depression left him.
Teach him to vet these females. The wrong one can easily set him back developmentally (temporarily). Great to hear that men like you are invested in the young. It's sorely needed in these times.
Men operate on a cost-benefit analysis. It is simply not worth it
Bingo!
YESSIR!
The landlords nor women will never understand! Religion places have been hijacked by the landlords and insurance companies! They would rather call you lazy, whinny and to be a man!
scary how accurate this is
Yeah, best case scenario for a man now is to not be divorce graped
Glad young guys are seeing through the scam. Juice hasn't been worth the squeeze for decades
Its not that the juice isn't worth the squeeze - the "juice" doesn't even exist , it's evaporated , it's just the mirage of an oasis in a desert
You are 100% correct.
But your baseball team cheats!!!😂
Life is hard enough but I was willing to work to achieve. My issue is that opiates killed my whole family and left me with a disabled and depraved father who needs 24/7 care we can't afford. Which means, you guessed it, taking care of him and having no life; being broke and having no space to bring anyone over or have personal time. Something a lot bigger going on here than just "you didn't try hard enough." For reference my dad used to be someone who could easily make six figures in a few months. Prescription drugs flooded my family from all sides and suddenly he's like a 9-year-old who plays foul dirty pranks and is abusive despite depending on us. It is insanity. I stopped going to therapy because there is nothing wrong with me and talking about it doesn't change the circumstances. I shine whenever he's not around. God help me. All the money I saved up got spent buying my family a car. Instead of having my own kids I'm taking care of my dad. Sigh.
For what it’s worth, just seek God. Not like a fanatic, I mean accept the cross. My son is autistic and doesn’t speak. He will probably live with me his whole life. I don’t think he’ll ever have a girlfriend, or a job. We live in a two bedroom apartment. Yet I love him, and I accept the cross. I don’t know if this helps at all.
Honestly, that sounds so bad, man. Wish you the best.
That happened to me. I had my 4 brothers, mom & dad depending on me. I finally moved out.
Live your life. Leave your dad to his fate.
Dont
Finally someone who shares my insights. Its really hard to be gen Z and try to live with purpose.
Same but im female, and not a feminist. The boomers had it all, my mom is gen X and she had 15 relationships by the time she was 30, here i am 21 with no relationships 😂 im nerdy and introverted.
I was raised as a Jehovah Witness. There was religion. There was community. The young ladies were often gorgeous and dressed to the nines at our conventions. Yet none of it helped me because my father was abusive, controlling, manipulative and failed to teach me any man skills. Not only was I not allowed to chase the young beauties I also didn’t have the confidence and fortitude as a man to even say “hi” to them. So community isn’t everything. Our fathers are everything. And if they’re neglectful most likely we won’t win.
look at the bright side: your father taught you self control and not follow your little head. You likely would have been divorced by now. Simp.
i feel you bro.. JW is a cult like ANY OTHER CHRISTIAN DENOMINATION.. this guy has no clue what is he talking about and i seriously doubted that he is a member of a christian denomination or non denominqational christian group.. i have been there.. i use to be a christian for almost 8 years i switched between like 3-4 denominations then i was without denomantion with my own understanding of the bible... but this whole "faith" religious thing almost killed me.. literally.. its only like one month ago since i finally let go this whole idea of christian God and Jesus as my "saviour" etc.. and i literally felt like a giant dark cloud was blown away from me and instantly my physical condition went better. Religion is here for thousands of years and it never made any good... look at the history.. only wars hatred, suffering, manipulation etc.. like do you think in medieval times people were happier becouse of the religion? Seriously? The last thing what this society need is a more of a psychopatic christian religion which is totally abusive ... And no, christianity is not at the decline... more and more people worshipping at the streets, christian conferences are bigger every year... I liked this video until the third part which is totally false
@Streetzurnal 1. To blame Christians for the current state of affairs is silly
2. Regardless of whether or not religion would have existed humans would still have fought and conquered each other for different reasons.
3. Christianity gave hope to the people during the dark ages and helped to keep Europe alive
@@petervizzini4006 lol is this really your argument? That if would not have been christianity (which was) the reason of dark ages, wars, hatred, burning people alive, torture etc.. it would have been something else? Youre a joker mister
@@petervizzini4006 also look at all that cultures which have been destroyed in the name of christianity.. nordic, native americans, Indian cultures in south america.. there is literally no better way in history for wiping out the whole cultures and civilizations then christianity.. everywhere this desert jewish christian devil came was only destruction and chaos..
We didn't do shit. We came into this. The question is what will we do about it.
nothing... still, at the moment. but soon i expect society to unravel and when money stops flowing, masks start falling. it will be only then that a reset of values will be possible.
till then, find a good life setup, make money, convert into various assets, learn skills, make your circle of homies, and prepare for impact.
For real i did not want to be born into the digital age What the fuck is this garbage. I would rather live in the 1800s.
Nothing to be done besides resist and wait. Time will bring this together but not without extremely harsh times to teach a lesson
The reason you can't own land anymore and the prices are skyrocketing for even basic housing is because people at the top realized that EVERYONE needs a place to live, and that if they just start buying up loads of houses and create a shortage of houses, they can then dictate the price of rent. This will then drive up the price of rent since the supply of houses is WAY lower than the amount of people looking to buy a house. So they are forced to rent, and the cost of rent is beyond insane. I currently pay $2k a month for rent on a one bedroom one bathroom apartment. Couple that with my own expenses and how am I supposed to even begin saving for a house? Not realistic.
Try to move to the middle of the country. I'm in a major city in ohio and rent for a 1 bedroom is like half that if not lower
@@user-jv4hy4xy5c good advice.
I bought my 1st house in 2000. One year later it had tripled in value. I wouldn't have been able to afford it. If people weren't willing to pay these ridiculous prices they wouldn't skyrocket.
Here in Canada things are ridiculous. The whole economy is based on increasing house prices caused primarily by very high immigration and restrictive regulations. This is all part of the plan to make the rich richer and normal people poor and dependant on the state.
Zoning laws are also a huge issue. The laws on what kinds of shelter are allowed to be built need to be relaxed.
"Juuuuuuuuust goooooooo outsiiiiiiiiide, braaaaaah". And shower, lift, shower in a lift, lift a shower.
Just lift weights in a cold shower while cold approaching while mining crypto and dropshipping bro! Just... just.. i give up
My next door neighbor is a 30-something who bought 5 acres of raw land in western Oregon a couple of years ago for 50g. He uses solar panels, trucks in water. Lives in an RV with his gf. Lives about 18 miles from work. Forest heaven! Someday he hopes to build, drill a well, get power. For now they're fine. We're rough up here!
I'm not lonely just not planning on women being able to squeeze a drop of $ out of me. And many others are like me
Exactly. They say im not entitled to anything "just because I pay", then i'm not gonna pay. lol. Fucking clowns.
Most women are sick of depending on men for $, it’s the delusional ones who dig for gold. Most of us in our early 20s have enough common sense to know that men our age don’t have the money to support 2 people during our current financial crisis.
That’s why I’m working my a## off to make sure I have the money to take care of myself, not depend on a guy’s $.
facts.
You are right man. Stay far away from women. Cause guess what, they are not planning on spending their life ironing your shirts and picking up your stinky socks from the floor when they come home after work after shopping and having to make supper while you are on the couch watching your favourite series. Maybe then giving birth to your child and having to go back to work when he's 4 months old so that you can keep saving your own money for yourself. ..... Oh yeah, please don't ever bother a woman with that type of attitude, please.
Men of financial means don't think this way. That's why women want successful men who can support a family. The predatory oligarchs have robbed today's young men in middle class families of avenues to financial success. Their goal is a controllable two-tier society where they have all the world resources.
I'm very surprised... As an argentinian I can say this hasn't reached us yet for some reason, but it's really saddening if that's the reality in America and probably Europe too
Yeah, i think the US is leading the pack in the decline of traditional values and masculine aspirations.
Im a West-European guy, I can confirm.
Yeah its garbage, and there's still many simps who have Stockholm Syndrome and defend the system. But recently their numbers are decreasing.
It's worse in the cities, rural areas lack girls and women nowadays though. Men are being destroyed by indoctrination of women, who are following societal grands blindly.
The comments with the most likes aren't at the top they are screwing with this guys channel since his last video blew up
How about women to come back to reality and stop living in La La Land ?
They aren't even worth it dude peace alone is great especially if you have good friends
You missed the point. It's not about women, it's about the breakdown of society. Our women are sick because our society is sick.
I don't think they can at this point, when they say they'd rather be with a bear in the woods than a man, so many of them unironically mean it.
When women bring nothing to the table opting out is the smart move. Telling me to grow up and wife up a 304 will not work
Most women I met were smash and run material.
the fact you can’t see what a woman brings to the table shows you’re a boy that doesn’t even deserve a woman.
so true
What should a woman bring to the table ?
@@Itsa_chaa purity, home making skills, calmness, charm and warmth
Brother. I have a degree in computer science and have been in the industry for 6 years now. You say you don’t have a degree, and that blows my mind. You’re smarter than most the kids I went to school with. Well done! This video is filled with great knowledge.
A smart kid not having a degree "blows your mind?" A degree is sitting through a number of classes-- it isn't intelligence. I went to college, too. They were MORONS. If you're smart, it comes out in various ways, but a degree isn't a litmus test for intelligence. Maybe it reflects that person's opportunity and their ability to stay with something until it's done, but that's about it.
Honestly, I dont care anymore. I've fought my battles, gave my absolute best as clueless, guideless and confused as i was, and I got royally shafted. now im over it all, all the striving nonsense. From where i'm looking, i just wanna make sure my dear ol mum has a good old age and for the rest work, make that money, settle family debts, buy a nice used car and enjoy my little life.
Whatever.
i love how fatalism is just "the good side failed me". naw. you failed and you're licking your wounds as i have before you.
luke lost to his first encounter with vader
i believe in your redemption arc, find the father, what you cannot do alone you can do with his help.
@Anotherhumanbean12345 we are talking about reality, you are talking about star wars. Really nothing more needs to be said other than that 😂😂😂
@@Anotherhumanbean12345 Nice advice, but i still dont care. now sitting and watching life unfold. clown world brah.
But i'll tell you this; if you have the blind audacity to refer me to an individual whose attributes you dont know just on account of his status (a "father") then you are one naive sucka, LOL.
@@KarenReturns I need to say that _Star Wars_ is based on The Hero's Journey. George Lucas consulted Joseph Campbell who knew his stuff when it came to human psychology, sociology, mythology, literature, religion, pretty much everything WW just talked about in this video.
Same here. Ran out of fucks to give. Did all I could and what society expected of me,only get every door slammed in my face. Now I quit the rat race, work an easy 32 hr/week job and watch society crumble. Fuck it all.
Nobody ever owns land if they’re paying land tax on it, the state owns it.
I’m 25. Never been in a relationship or had my first kiss. No friends since I left the marines. I seriously can’t comprehend how another sentient being can want to be with me or even see me. I’ve just started realizing that the other seats in my car are for other people. I work 10 hours a day but can’t afford an apartment. Despite everything, I spend time spearfishing and playing music in my free time. I’m alone. I’m decently happy. I just hope the next life is better
Brother, you're not alone. Sure, you may not have a relationship, but you got your brothers who are in very similar situations. There's millions of us.
I just got debanked today. The only reason I haven't given up so many times before is I know this system will break, and I want to stand with my brothers and watch the fire.
Stay strong.
damn you make it sound so depressing. Brother, you are free! Go pursue your passions. There must be something you want from life.
Bro you aren’t missing out on much. The women I’ve had to deal with have destroyed my soul. Focus on happiness and fulfilment and eventually something in your head will click. Once you are truly happy, you will be unstoppable. Women will gravitate to you also.
Women aren't worth it. Listen to what other people here are saying. Pay for a higher class escort or go somewhere like Australia where there's legal prostitution if you want to experience sex. It's fun but not really worth all the hassle in my experience
Do you want a friend?
Video games in a sense are one of the last bastions for men where cooperation exists and with updates it ticks that itch.
Real life is harder, time consuming with no certainty you will succeed and many many other factors.
Computer games used to be made by highly intelligent men. Now they are another hijacked platform
The answer is philosophy. Religion provided values, meaning, and purpose. The modern era threw that away and gave way to hedonism and nihilism. With teachings on justice, moral good, virtue, and vice, we can have everyone pursue lives worth living. Finding meaning in suffering. Understanding that we did not choose this crumbling society, but that we can and WILL make a better one. Good men and women. It's not over.
I'm in shape, 6'0, fairly good looking, make a good income out of school (60k) and can't get a date with anyone above a 3. It's over. Frankly older people can kiss my ass
Women don’t care about your looks
Im seriously looking into leaving the US and living in some other country.
Maybe this generation of women is lost to you but you know what? You could still raise a familly at forty while it would be so much harder for women... They always pay the hard price whatever they believe it or not.
You need to be way above average as a man just to be able to attract average women. Dating and society as a whole is basically a scam for men nowadays.
@@MojoVince Girls who play games in their teens and twenties end up aging like milk and looking sad in their social media pictures. It's almost like a rhyme.
Super discouraged after the last girl I went out with completely catfished me. I'm almost 30, 6'3" homeowner, veteran, six pack abs, and I run my own business and she had horrible meth teeth and was going bald.
I keep going out and trying to meet women but they are ALWAYS dating another guy or have more red flags than a commie parade. And forget finding a nice single woman at church. I think out of the 27 years I've been alive only dated one woman I went to church with.
I used to donate platelets like twice a month, caring about the community, but now just don't think the average people I see on TV or the news is worth it.
You should never donate blood. You think the Red Cross is donating their blood to the hospitals? Hell no! They are selling your blood for hundreds of dollars.
Don’t assume all men look for group action with other men. Many happy loners exist who operate and succeed in frontiers and prefer solitary effort.
Most of my friends who went to a 4 year school are completely turned off from any type of long term relationship with those womem
Older guys are the problem they are weak
College is an orgy now for the top 5% of men and most of the women
Can you imagine how many sexual partners a moderately attractive woman has had by the time she gets out of a four year university?
The construction industry is an excellent place to battle for success. Licensed electricians, plumbers, heating, ventilation and air conditioning, insulation, building professionals as small business owners can have great lives. Average age is 42 so lots of room for young people.
Feminism is the culprit
Blame women that’s been going on for centuries
@@user-it5ub8gq6e like a plague
DEI incentives prevented me from getting many jobs i was qualified for while women were given the red carpet. Got a bachelor in medical lab science too which i was told was in demand
That is in demand, it's just the majority of people in the field are female and you are second class citizen in america. Let it rot and let the delusional older people cry.
DEI is why I left the West.
I have a STEM post-graduate degree from Cambridge and worked as a middle-manager in a FTSE-100 pharmaco.
Left in 2015 and set-up business in central Europe. No regrets.
Keep your head up bro.
@@threethrushesbro if that’s true wtf who are they hiring instead ? Also where are you located now ?
They call this women advancing and men falling behind. Its artificial, forced, contrived.
It would be fascinating if it wasn't so tragic, looking back over the last fifty years at the path of destruction of the feminist movement. Having lived through it, you'd be hard pressed to convince me that the entire thing wasn't a psyop intended to result in the destruction of our society. I'm not placing blame on men or women -- we only know what we're taught. It's my observation that young men AND young women on the whole are pretty unhappy, despite the masks they wear or what they present on their socials. My hope is that the pendulum begins to swing the other way and enough young people wake up, wrestle back control of their lives, and recognize the importance of strong community for their futures. Kudos to you for working to help that to happen. Huge challenge.
America is toxic right down to the so called food we eat.
It's like 90% women dude. They literally lack interpersonal skills becuase they are endlessly catered to.
To add to your point, I think Feminism (while incredibly destructive) is itself a symptom and not a cause. Nietzsche’s “God is dead and we have killed him” was acknowledging a void of the human spirit in what would become modernity.
It’s my belief that this void was the space needed for Marxism/resentiment (Nietzsche preferred the French word due to it being bigger in scope) to creep into our collective unconscious and take root.
I’ve noticed a trend lately. Young men speaking in an effeminate voice. I was discussing this with a friend and his theory is that young men have been told that masculinity is ‘toxic’ and that men are violent, so they attempt to portray themselves as non threatening.
I still talk loud and be assertive. F the narrative
@@WaveLord14
This dude is right there's no light at the end of the tunnel
nothing is permanent, actually right now is a great time to influence society because its so unstable.
Man, you are making me feel younger again, keep going 🔥
I have been seeing this happening to people under 25 years old as of this year. Most of the guys do not care much about anything; no standing up for rights, freedoms, and comradery. I understand I had my own form of anti-social behavior when I was younger, but this is getting out of hand. As time progresses, the attitude within the USA are diminishing and this is spreading in other nations as well. Good video.
Another tremendous video, Kristian. Give thanks for putting this out there 💙
I am an older guy and this is the truth. It began in the 1980s and has just gotten worse. It is a result of feminism that began as a movement of equality and has become a movement of dominance and degradation of men.
And what motivated the feminist movement and mass desire for women to liberate themselves to and not be dependent on crappy men? It didn't just spring up out of nowhere I'm afraid. A considerable percentage of men have always failed at their role, it just wasn't obvious from the outside with a wife and children to help him appear better than what was really going on. Women don't stay or get hitched to these types of men today because they don't have to. Feminism is a symptom not the cause.
BS. We don’t feel we need to dumb ourselves down - is that what you need? To be able to lord over us and control us when you haven’t earned our admiration and respect? Is that what you want for your own sons and daughters someday?
@@user-zw1cg8yz8rFunny, considering how feminism nowadays pushes for men in dresses into women's spaces, encourages women to hate men, and teaches young boys to hate themselves
Forcing women through the door and degrading men does not equal empowerment. Get a clue
I noticed a lot of male characters in 80s movies are weak wimpy not masculine dudes, dependent on the approval of a woman. That didn't help. Of course there are the Rambo/Terminator movies too, but much more of the former.
I'm a 62 yr old woman from London. It's the same for young people over here. Reading these comments by young men who should have the world at their feet is heartbreaking 💔
Just because you're a man doesn't mean you're OWED a relationship in life.
@@nathanielleeson7263 yeah the strange entitlement some guys seem to have is strange. My generation knew from an early age that girls probably won’t find us attractive if we sit inside and play videogames all day, never exercise and don’t work on social skills. Yet guys today just expect women to like them how they are and it’s not reality ..
I am a 62 year old male who's been alone most of my life. I have learned it's not a good idea to be interested in women if they just want to be teasy flirty silly immature and not intellectual. Both my parents who were born around 1920, never understood why lfelt estranged and preferred to spend my time alone with my own hobbies.
@brianmeen2158 woman are way fatter than men on average, especially in america, please stop with the bullshit
@@nathanielleeson7263 One of the primary purposes of any society is to provide opportunities to its young people, whether those be economic, social, or sexual. Nobody feels "entitled" to anything, but young people today feel like they don't even have any opportunities.
Your mindset ("pull up your bootstraps, bucko") just shows how broken our society is.
I just came across your video. Watched another one. You're a very bright young man discussing important points and topics and bringing together some relevant ideas in a thoughtful yet intellectual way. Kudos to you ... I'll be watching more. Thank you for your unique insights about these meaningful concepts. I'm hearing you ...
I'm 37. Couldn't find even one date for more than 8 years now.
44 here, same deal. Haven't been on a date since 2016.
35 and it’s been many years since I found a decent date.
High five bro! 40 y.o. 10 years no nothing. You ain't crazy.
I went 11 years until recently. It didn’t last long.
It’s not just the men I’m 39 female and can’t find a man who wants anything serious.
Finding a good Women is like buying a second hand car. Most have had more than 5 owners, high millege, poorly maintained, abused and misstreated, and very expensive to keep on the road ect....so i just dont both anymore, im 45 and lost interest completly...
well if you can’t appreciate the ones you can have then it’s probably in their best interest to leave them alone.
@@sweetcheeks5775 lmao salt mine detected
@@sweetcheeks5775 what's worth appreciating?
They eventually develop a leak too
@@mooseyman74 And drain you wallet with problem after problem (even if you DIY and buy parts, then your time). Eventually it has to be let go, you have nothing to show for it.
Wow! its like you take my thoughts and observations and put them into coherent words. I really loved what you said about "Land ownership vs. Fantasy". Thank you for making these videos and sharing these ideas!
I’m just glad I’m not insane and other people are truly experiencing this , I thought something was wrong with me , I’m a relatively handsome man who’s outgoing but can’t find a single woman that would give me the time of day , but at the same time I don’t really reach out to any of them because every woman I see has a ego the size of Jupiter
No they don't. You are afraid of being rejected. Face your fears and watch what happens. Women love fearless men more than anything. Having purpose and financial means helps.
@@kathrynj.hernandez8425your a women so everything you jus said abt men, u jus won’t understand what we go through.
aren't growing up? lol they are growing up. They are told to not bother women, to basically be a jelly fish and good luck finding great male spaces and role models
In addition to my comment on your other video, I just wanted to add that you are a brilliant speaker, and so, so intelligent.
Not just religion. Social spaces that push the betterment of people have shrunk and are not in vogue or high status anymore.
Can't start a family or date when 50% of your income is going to food, housing and utilities. The government is to blame for a collapsing society. Men need to start preparing for hyperinflation because it is coming fast.
So much Wisdom packed into a video keep it up.
Love your channel man 👍🏽
The same thing happened during the later years of the Roman Empire. It was a slow multi-century collapse, very painful....
Yet during that time, little Tiberius the farmer had a wife, raised kids, avoided the roaming barbarians and now his descendents are still living in Italy. All our ancestors lived through good and bad times, the trick is to not let the family line end.
@@neroursus little Tiberius xD
"Men need women...", then just go ahead and marry them and let's see how that goes, and don't give up even after your 3rd, 4th.. divorce etc, since like you said "men need women..". You must love pain.
I can't get a promotion despite being the most qualified person on my team, i grew up, in fact i carry the load for others but thanks 👍 maybe i should become a youtube grifter
Lol. That’s hilarious. Plan an exit strategy. Maybe start your business, find alternative employment etc etc. don’t drop this job with an exit plan.
Very good points bro. Agreed
Because the older generation doesn’t care about us they care about AI, everyone cares about AI
The older generation wants to be impressed by the enthusiasm of youth
@@mooseyman74Happy to disappoint you
I care, I care deeply.
Men need to bring back "Praying Together". "Affirming Together". I plan on bringing that back....
what an intresting young man! I truly agree with most of the things you explain in the video, great job! earned yourself a new sub.
I already knew this stuff, but only through a thousand videos, I've never seen so much delivered in such a concise way, where did you learn all of this?
Thank you for this video, you really hit the nail on the head!
About the 'Landownership vs. Fantasy' part, really hit home...
Young people can't start families here because housing prices are going trough the roof and beyond. An avarage home here in The Netherlands cost €433000,- / $462000,-, and the highest rent prices of Europe.
Which is unaffordable for the youth!
25 y/o man here from the Netherlands. Single. Still living with my parants. Taking care of my family and working full time. Now playing with my music group twice a week. Making long walks in nature every day, does wonders.
I have a few people around who TRULY care about me, and I care a LOT about them. But as of the day of today: Making truly deep new connections is like finding a nail in a haystack.
Mainly as from a social point of view,
people are way too serious about themselves and their (unrealistic) standards. It is killing themselves. Because no one can meet those standards even the one who sets the standards (consciously and unconsciously).
If we realise to start beign 'sincere' instead of beign 'serious', a lot of change can happen.
When we can look at people for who they are, instead of who whe wish them to be... Imagine...
There are enough Men for Women and enough Women for Men. Even with autism spectrum, I too find it difficult to make new meaningfull connections, not as diffucult as it was in the past. But I'm not giving up!
This is just my perspective, feel free to criticise...
Kind regards
Really great video thank you
Excellent observations!!!
Very insightful new take
never stop doing your work., everyone in the universe needs help but the way i see men turning its just so sad they wont listen to anyone ! iv never seen something like this before ... never shut up keep speaking !!!!
As birth rates fall, we need to develop young men more and more. Society has changed so don’t judge success by old rules.
It's not going to be solved at all. We will hopelessly just see all of us drop to the lowest of the wall until possibly very hard times that will come in decades.
This dude gets it
Liked what you said about masculinity and "the frontier" ... makes me realize I absolutely need to find my frontier. Also, what you said about renting rings true (I currently rent an apartment in a city.)
0:15 - They're woke/leftist activists, not journalists.
Things are incredibly worrisome in general i’m Gen X and I’ve always had amazing friends relationships, etc. and now I’ve lost my friends which is something that’s never happened to me before I don’t know what’s going on. I’m glad you’re talking about it so just be aware that is not just your generational, though you guys have it all much more difficult because at least we had it but you guys haven’t even had the time to truly experience the marvelous human interaction like we used to have it. Let’s try to fix this together. Sorry I’m dictating and not much punctuating.
Bravo - I'm 100% with you, and not just as a young man, but all ages need to embrace this. You see the situation well
One thing - don't burn out your energy as doing these YT's can't be sustained and naturally shouldn't as you grow
One thing, if you're in Colorado, you're at a good age to relocate?
Dude you are wise beyond your years. You articulate grand ideas so well. And i say that as only a 27 year old
brilliant man
Great points. It’s too bad most folks don’t see these points anymore.
All of the concerns you raised are only going to increase; we need to consider remedies for them, considering that the workplace and a shared common pursuit may also go away due to automation. We need to develop more common pursuits that involve physical proximity!
You are very smart. Good quality
I am really impressed about your video !!!!! I would like to know how I can reach you because I have so much questions to ask you about !
I mean I offer consultations and coaching. There is a link in desc
Awesome video my friend! It's full of food for thought! On the matter of video games now, I personally love playing them whether alone or with friends and I use them as insipiration and motivation other than enternaintment only. The problem arises only when you have an addiction and are using video games to constantly escape from real life challenges or problems. As long as you conquer your goals in life no matter how small they are and have other hobbies as well, then you can enjoy video games fully. They are meant to make your life a little more fun and drive you to move forward, not destroy you. It is you who can be your worst enemy, not video games.
I've been researching extensively on reverse engineering religion in a way this generation can receive. It's very difficult because it pretty much has to be secular from the outside, and the spiritual components kinda have to be hidden in other ritualistic activities, music, art, and community-building.
Unless your religion controls women It's useless
The moment you try to obfuscate the truth in order to pander to ignorance, all you're doing is breeding the conditions for greater ignorance to arise because ultimately the mystery will intrigue a percentage and they'll inevitably misinterpret the obfuscated image in their attempt to unveil it.
The zeitgeist will shift. I think it is about to happen, in the same way it happened for a short while back in the 60's. Out of pressure and trauma, more people are forced to start thinking, and become receptive.
The truth can withstand scrutiny. Always. I think we're mature enough now to not need to sugar coat anything. What we really need is living demonstration. If someone could just figure out how to walk on water.. just once..
Why did Jesus and the prophets before him speak in parables? The aforementioned strategy is effective and valid.
Yup, it's all over for us. 🔥
People talking too much about women but us men we lack ambition and we lack a goal, something to strive for.
I agree, so many of the comments totally missed the point and wanted to make it all about women. Women are a symptom of the problem. Our women are sick because our culture is sick.
The Hero's Journey - Campbell. The pendulum does always swing
Back in the day people would just go hang out at a friend's house, go to the beach, camp, BBQ, whatever ... it seems like these days people only want to meet for a specific goal. But mostly people just seem to be home. Looking at the census data there should be younger people living in the area but we rarely see them at all. We went camping a few months ago and there barely any kids or young adults, mostly just elderly boomers.
Most people in my generation have been dumbed down intentionally, the rabbit trail is very deep and goes to a dark place....
Camping gear got expensive basiclly sky rocketed in price and even camp spots are charging double what they used to be just for a spot
I go tent camping alone, pretty fun
@@user-us7ok9sx1zfloride in the water for sure
YOU ONTO SOMETHING! I think it's because the casuality is gone from our culture, and you gotta fill your life with focused busy time. so no more causal hanging out, except in ghettos (no wonder ghetto culture is so popular).
32 and im just sick of trying with no results, i am broken fundamentally never had any friends as a kid so i think i just never developed socially and to be honest at this point i dont like being with other people, tried to get an apprenticship going over the last 12 years and was layed off 8/8 plumbing jobs i got, so i just gave up, i do what i need to to not be homeless and besides that i play video games.
Please make the video about your thoughts on college.
Good friend of mine gets sucked into the digital world gaming. Horrible for a young man. Kills it financially, but besides that, he’s not enjoying his life. About 30-31.
2:55 Damn where did you find that picture of me?
Good observations. Don’t give up the fit will survive. Leave a legacy, descendants. God will make a way. The fruit of the womb is a reward and a good wife is a gift from heaven’s store house. Be faithful and righteous. The Creator directs your circumstance.
Remember you dont need women. You need A woman. They are not all gone.
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So then where’s my wife to leave descendants with? Im still waiting at 26
Wow dude, hammering nails on this
I still can't figure out what to do about land ownership/conquer. It's not like we are going to form a group of friends and invade some place. What can we do to replace it but still feel the "sensation" or glory of conquering?
The same with bronze age mindset. It ends advocating for creation of piratical bands. But let's be honest, no one will become a real pirate. Wat do?!
Political movement, sports that's why so many young people do the stuff they "can", men typically work out, women form groups behind ideas. The boomers just occupy too many resources still...stunting all generations behind them.
Well, searching for the lands nobody wants, recreating communities in contrysides if big companies are not buying all of it...
Not an expert in USA but everytime i look at it, it looks like a bloodbath comming...
Keep in mind that the landlord boomer generation is getting old and that they'll be gone in the next 15-20 years.
I think it's just a matter of time
Bro where are you sourcing ur knowledge from. This is groundbreaking for me to understand.
I highly recommend getting into combat sports like jiu jitsu, kickboxing, boxing, mma
He is so right, I also said this years ago. It creates a warped reality.
Never trust a man who just rated himself
Honestly, even life inside colleges is pretty lonely. When you are not studying (which is pretty rare), it's hard to find someone that you actually have fun with, you can't really have another conversation than about the academic subject you both study. Making friends in high school was way more fun and relationship had way more purpose !
Universities are just tools the elites use to shape the managerial middle class to their liking. They have gone downhill during other periods of history too. Not new.
College is absolutely brutal for young men without a social edge. If you're like me and do what you came there for expect to be alone 100% of the time. Girls will ignore you, and if you're lucky, maybe you're good with words and can say a word or 2. It's the best time to get into a relationship but the hardest time. 23 and still 0 luck with women. You feel broken.
@chibuezennodim1438 there's nothing to feel broken about they are complete idiots
Men need to stop worrying about women and form bands of friends, live cheaply, let the rotten society crumble. Get a rural house with a cheap mortgage and enjoy your hobbies
@@ShawnPhillips-ud7kpI agree
It’s time brothers…
Dude, I think you'd really enjoy college and it would be great for you. You're clearly very bright and I think you'd thrive connecting with intellectually curious people. I can see you doing great in the social sciences.
With the way he thinks the professors and hlf the class would eat him alive not that he shouldn't go for specific courses (online) in person a lot of U.S colleges are not great for thinkers
@@stacycarlton2056 there's plenty of moderate and conservative colleges to choose from. The far left woke schools get media attention, but most colleges aren't that extreme you just don't hear about them.
There’s a handful of things I disagree with you on. Like the loneliness for example. However the housing prices absolutely spot on. My grandfather could make 40k a year and pay for a big house and a family of 3 with a wife who could stay home. This is the main issue in my opinion. The value of money is collapsing. You shouldn’t need to make 80k, 90k and 100k plus to support a basic family. It’s outrageous.
Complicated issue. You are right on here. But there is way more. We have a 21 year old son. I’m 63. I was able to buy a house when I was in my late 20’s. No way to do that now. Worried about our young people not being about to own. Join clubs and community to meet people. That’s what you mean about religion. You’re right. But it is still not easy even if you are out going with strangers, but it helps. Everyone needs to get off their phones and do something with others. Try something new and move you body with others in new communities.
Attracting friends or romantic partners requires SOMETHING of a person. Young men can EXPLORE interests, hobbies, potential skills that might turn into future work. VOLUNTEER for a good cause or Non-Profit. The "lonely young men" you describe at least have SOME responsibility for their own lives. Spending all one's socil time ONLINE or Playing Video Games or smoking weed, does NOT make one attractive ass a friend or romantic partner. (And women are NOT responsible for so many young men being STUCK in this teenager mode). No one's gong to come knock on the basement door and say "'I'd like to be your girl friend" In short: GET OFF LINE, Get OFF Dating Apps. LIMIT time playing videos. MAKE SOME EFFORT to grow and improve and EXPAND your life
Indirectly related, but as a guy in my thirties dealing with long-term unemployment and social isolation, I've been recently wondering why all adult socializing has to be done around activities that are otherwise self-destructive. I mean, I don't have the budget to go out drinking or partying every week. But even if I did, those aren't the sorts of thing I would _want_ to be doing with others. ...Wait, did you just say I spend a lot of time playing video games in order to cultivate my will to power because there's no avenues available to do it in reality? Well, judging by the specific ways in which play games, that's... exactly what it's all about, I'd think.