Your dream reality will cost you your current self.
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- Опубліковано 26 вер 2024
- In this episode, Joy discusses the key difference of the mindset, attitudes and actions between those who are able to manifest successful changes and change their reality and those who are not. She covers topics like fear of the unknown, facilitating change by breaking out of autopilot, maintaining sustainable change, and how small things like habit building and consistency can accumulate massive results overtime.
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I didn't realize how caught up some of yall would get over the origin of a quote lol. Whether Einstein said it or someone else, it doesn't really matter.
@@10pmmemes88 doesn't feel like she is giving life coaching, more like giving us her point of view from life experience. I enjoyed this video and it really gave me some insight on myself, and feeling much better to clear up some of the fog in my head of trying to pursue some of my goals in life. So I hope she keeps making these.
Those who get caught in the quote's author over its substance are building strawmen to stay the same. Pity. Thank you for the video:)
I have my own quotable phrase:
"America used to be a country of great people, now we are a country of people who think they are great."
2023, Everyday Nobody, me lol.
And this response is exactly what you follow this sort of video with when you step out of your comfort zone into full hypocrisy.
Are you korean/chinese/japanese? Btw thanks for the words of wisdom you shared with us.
@@redensoncruz8988 As if it matters, I would guess at Taiwanese/Chinese.
Daily reminder
Worrying does not take away tomorrow’s troubles
It just takes away today’s peacefulness
so deep
my anxiety is the only thing keeping me afloat lol
Matthew 6:34 is “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
@beaubeau8693 But worry is essential to avoid negative consequences and future problems
Thx this cured my anxiety 😍😍 problem solved!
Very well said. Unless one is willing and determined to leave their so called comfort zone, which quite ironically is uncomfortable, one cannot truly transform. One must just do the work and surrender. The mind, despite all the hype, is limited in its grasp of what is truly real.
@@lemurianchickthey’re saying the comfort zone IS uncomfortable
@Awoken777 I read it as the comfort zone was uncomfortable. The meaning was that the leaving is uncomfortable.
Huh
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The ChRisT...ThaT's You.!! TesT YouRSeLveS and see wheTheR you are by hoLding to the FaiTh. Do you noT ReaLiZE thaT YeShuA The ChRisT is WiThiN You.!? WeLL ReaLiZe thaT righT now.!! And beLieVe thaT.! YouR liFe is easy foR CReaTioN iS FiniSheD and you are The S0N oF 90D.!
JusT ReaLiZe thaT, how do we do iT though? Do you jusT decide you are or do you jusT know thaT one day.?
IT was decided beFoRe the WoRLd was. You, me, We, aLL made thaT decision beFoRe we puT on these fLeSh suiTs. This isn'T a leaRNinG process, iT's simpLy a ReMeMBeRinG pRoCesS. ToTaL amnesia oF who We are encompasses us aLL. So choose to ⏰ WaKe The FvxK Up !!! 🙏 💪 👑
people just leave their current comfort zone when they see another more comfortable zone, when they feel they are not safe with their current comfort zone. its simple like that.
Girl I stepped outside my comfort zone recently and I was so nervous I almost had a panic attack but I still did it and i will do it again 😂😂
So proud of you 🫶💜
you're not the only one, but ahh well in terms of studying yes I'm outside comfort zone but in terms of socializing I have to work on it I guess I don't know how to balance my social life and study
@Dreamwithjoy, thank you. I needed to hear this. I mean, lately, I've been trying to step out of my comfort zone more often. In fact I'm trying to change the way that I think and make my comfort zone to be when I'm stepping out of my comfort zone. I'm trying to get so used to stepping out of my comfort zone that my comfort zone comes from stepping out of my comfort zone. Another words I'm trying to get very very comfortable with stepping out of my comfort zone. I have made positive changes in my life but sometimes it's good to hear a video like this. I'm taking this video to Heart and I promise from this day forward I'm going to change the way I think the way that I am for the better not change the good things about myself or who I am in terms of being someone I'm not by changing myself as in growing as a person. I can tell you generally care about people and want to help people and I think you because your video helped me a lot.
Why does it seem like everybody I see in real life socialize just fine but I see so many people going through this struggle in the comments of videos like this. If you knew me IRL u would say I’n quiet. nobody at my job is like me
@@kyoufuwooshieteyarou7206I one hundred percent relate to this and wonder the same thing. Feel like a alien alot
If you don't change, nothing will change. It's scary, but change is never as bad as you imagine it is going to be, and life becomes a lot more meaningful when you are willing to take a risk. Great video. I really enjoyed watching it.
the most polite and gentle "call out" i've ever had ☺️🙏🏾
One of my favorite quotes to live by (and ignore) is "Change happens when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change." I see that theme repeated everywhere and this video is another example of why it's way past time to choose to change, so there's no time like now to be doing those small things that add up and carry me to a better version of myself in weeks, months, years... This was comforting to listen to while doing my morning routine, and I will probably watch several more times (like I do the rest of your videos, I just loop them a few times til the whole message sticks). Everyone reading, I hope you have a beautiful day (because it's made beautiful by you). ❤
You helped my day be a little more beautiful. Thank you ❤
"They have the awareness to step out, to look at the bigger picture and to choose differently." Beautifully said, love.
@@vaniechristo I'm not doing this alone, I have myself and everything around me. I am connected to everything and everything is connected to me. I love "you must be born again" I relate to that a lot. It's like a death of the version of myself and the birth of a new one. So thank you for that! For me what I believe in is the universe, I am the universe and the universe is me! Thank you for your kind words
@@lessonswithlauren you are bot
The other way to expand is to laugh lots knowing life is just a game and not to be taken too seriously. A light Heart is a grateful heart and is free and unburdened. Laughter and Love are the Highest Vibrations 💖
I'm not Vincent! 🤦
lol life is not a game
Thanks! ❤
“not to be taken too seriously” you only live once, dont waste your time goofing around
make the most out of your one and only life
@@HighProteinPowder I meant be playful with life. Be as a child, for only as a child can you enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Those who have the most fun win at life.
If the only constant in life is change, then the sure path to constant disappointment is to cling to current conditions, and the sure path to never-ending joy is to delight in change.
I love that
This reminds me of my first Ego Death. It was at my job and it was triggered by stress. When it happened I felt sick to my stomach, similar to the feeling of throwing up but instead of throwing up my Ego was shattered. I felt scared because It felt like I was God and everyone was made up by me and also is me. I came to realize the person I was, was just a character. One of these many characters I made up, living in this world I made. It felt lonely and fake because you realize everyone is you and you just made them up to keep yourself company. To keep yourself from knowing that you really are a lonely God who forget who they were on purpose. But I also felt so free, I was so close to getting up and walking out my job because I felt like I could do anything 😂. My slate was clean and the limitations of the character I was playing were gone. After the Dark night of the soul. The next day there was nothing but bliss and a deep love and connection for everyone and everything in this story we made up ❤ I could probably fly if I believed in it.
Can you tell more about this? Did it just happened or you were aware of Ego deaths? I've heard it before
@@ursinhobloodyit’s funny you say that because the knowledge of it played a big role in triggering it. There was a video by a guy named Timothy Hall describing “what depersonalization disorder feels like” in POV. This peaked my interest because once he started describing what it was I knew I had this experience since I was a kid. Feeling like I’m not looking out at the world using my eyes but through a window or VR glasses. I always felt like everyone might be a robot because there is no real way to prove they are experiencing life exactly how I am 😂. In the comments someone mentioned Ego death aka Awakening and I looked it up briefly interested but not thinking much of it. I worked an overnight job that was extremely stressful with a crazy boss. Around 4am while stocking, I just played with the depersonalization idea kind of like in the video and Boom it hit me outta nowhere.
@@namelessvermillion8188 wow. Amazing, I am going to look it up this now. I'm also overworked and stressed, so I have nothing to lose (maybe ego lol)
@@ursinhobloody I mean it’s like dying but while you’re alive lol. Most people need lsd to experience this, I had it while sober 😬. I wish you luck though it is a bit scary and also sorry about your stress. There was a streamer that took his life years ago if you recall named “Etika”. Just by listening to his last words in his last video I knew that he experienced it 100%. It’s weird because it ended in his death which is sad but if you had ego death before you also understand completely. It’s a doubled edged sword please be careful seeking this experience. Love you, take care 🙏
@@namelessvermillion8188 yes, I remember him 😭😭 ty for your words I'll be careful ♡♡
One thing that has helped me is transcendental meditation, which helped me observe my thoughts as just the neutral conscious observer, and I started realizing negative thoughts and belief systems are so nonsensical. Thoughts and beliefs, particularly subconscious ones, shape our reality, so figure out your fears/limitations, let go of them and your reality will shift. All of our ascended masters have always pointed to infinite consciousness of the creator and you are literally that creator. Consciousness and the Universe is a beautiful paradox.
You are so wise, I am enlightened each time a video of yours pops up
Couldn't agree more💯
It's all about choices, which we make every second of our day.
I love how she delivered everything in simpler way as possible but still remind meaningful speech
You're absolutely right even though am guilty of being in the "Auto Pilot"-type crowd of people who stays home all day, looks at my screens/browses the internet, and hasn't manifested my dream life despite being 40 and hate my life so much. I usually don't like being around people and am a misanthrope. I'm shy too to some extent and i have a hard time believing in myself since childhood.
One of my lady friends (named Sabrina and she's one of the staffs) whom i met at the family success center in Millville where i used to volunteer at in 2015 offered me in 2022 to volunteer at the Food Pantry which is located in my current city that i moved into in 2018. I wasn't interested in volunteering there at first because i felt that the food pantry would be out of my comfort zone but i took her offer because she said that it would be good for me and she works there as well so I've been volunteering there for over a year now and am well appreciated over there.
What's the point of any of us having a comfort zone if it's unhealthy to stay in our comfort zone? It's called the Comfort Zone for a reason.
Please make a video about Resistance & VICTIM MENTALITY
i really like the way you did the intro with a summary of what you’re going to be talking about before you said “hi..” i absolutely was able to make the choice to click and watch without trying to scan ahead or just skipping the video altogether. THANKS, for the excellent and helpful reminder!
Joy, always bringing more Joy to the day!
😂❤️
this is the videos I want videos that pushes you to do better rather than comforting you
From my experience making change isn't linear either , there is often a relapse inbetween and you got to pick your up through all of that.
Simply putting it your older version fights back when you evolve because it knows it will die. Last year I made a good process , so did I this year but the process seems so slow because of the fight the mind puts up every step of the way.
Oh my God y'all. This came up and I closed the app. Didn't find it when I reopened it. Tried to remember it because I really wanted to watch it but I just said if it's meant to find me I'll see it again and now I'm here.
I'm going through a change now. It's difficult but I'm staying away from a toxic situation and trying to improve on myself.
Ps my name is Joy too
This has to be one of the best explanations on this topic I've ever heard. I got a note pad out and wrote along your message.
What ? @@vaniechristo
I like the idea of replacing habits and changing yourself. Reality is basically a mirror of yourself. I've been trying to be more social lately, but I find it still takes a lot of practice. But like they say, you can't play guitar a handful of times and be good at it, you have to do it daily. I went to a birthday party on the weekend, and it took me a while to realize one of the women kept looking at me. I should have went up and talked to her right then, but I hesitated a bit and she ended up going home early. I ended up introducing myself to her and I asked if she was on Facebook, but she wasn't, so I asked if I could text her sometime, and she put her name and number in my phone. The next day the told me she just started dating someone, so she can't text back and forth with me right now, but said she I seem like a really interesting person to talk to and we'll probably cross paths again. I told her it was my mistake for assuming she was single because she was at the party alone and left it at that. I could have done better, but at least I got out of the house and met a few people, and I was being totally authentic with her.
At one point in my life i weighed 325 lbs. Through focus and determination I dropped down to 210 in less than a year. I remember my father being surprised and asking me how I felt with that accomplishment. I felt the same . I’m 340 now. Feel the same . I don’t know where I lost my spark . I have no purpose. Work and work and work it’s all I do.
The carnivore diet is the best way to lose weight! 2 years haven’t looked back!
We’re falling apart so we can put ourselves back together.
Do what makes you feel.
Preferably feel better.
Sending love and healing thoughts.
I believe work kills a person. It makes you lose yourself. That's why so many people struggle with meaninglessness nowadays. All they do and think about is work. Work for money, work for reputation. Our societies promote hard work as a virtue. "Laziness" (= not doing what you are "supposed to do") is a sin. As if work was the meaning of life.
I sometimes get jealous of our hunter-gatherer ancestors, their life wasn't easy either but they got to enjoy it. Was civilization really worth it? Modern scholars understand that we didn't choose civilization but that it has chosen us. And then we started telling ourselves that we are better than those uncivilized barbarians.
But civilization has its advantages, too. And I believe or hope that eventually we will learn and be able (with the help of technology) to enjoy the benefits of civilization without losing our humanity. But in the mean time we have to find a way to do this in today's world.
Sorry, but I wanted to get this off my chest.
Without Jesus it's pointless I wish Jesus' Father saves you but only He knows if you are His sheep yet He wants all saved.
Losing your spark without really knowing why is a form of depression, you could try if that is the case by trying an anti-depressant
This is the FIRST UA-cam video I'm watching today :)
Very well said, I’ve never seen your page before, but I’m glad I had the opportunity to listen. This is exactly how I see things when shifting to new realities. Have a grace with ourselves and know that every day new amazing growth is happening.
I'm completely fine with discarding this current self. In fact that's what I'm actively trying to do with my manifestation journey right now.
It just been 1:15 mins I started the video and I already saved it to my favourites!
Really grateful! Thank u so much friend 💙
I have manifested everything I ever dreamed of. And you are correct. You must be willing to sacrifice your current self in order to manifest yourself in another reality. But there’s more steps you need to perform. ❤👍 you need to master the law of attraction and you need to master astral projection.
How did you go about it?
The thing is, in my own little space, im very comfortable. Its very hard to get out, its DANGEROUS!
Very helpful. Thank you for your video. Please, keep it simple like this, very minimalistic, laid back, not flashy intros. I swear this way your message hits harder
We in the recovery landscape have known this very thing to be the core of change...a good life however is when you make that change in the right direction.
I love an Epic life now.
Live*
I had a dream of spending my time creating and selling unique vehicles. So, I started a real estate business to fund it- thinking it would take loads of disposable income to make my dream happen. I just ended up in the real estate business and unhappy with no time for my craft. After several years I finally took a breath and ran numbers to see what I would "need" to do what I actually loved vs. trying to fund it. I felt ridiculous because it really takes very little money to build mini-bikes and off-road toys for people to enjoy. Now I had lots of money and no time. I cashed out (basically got out of it with enough money to live on for a short time) and now I engage in many passions and make a little from each. I'm so much happier, have all the creature comforts I did before, and more free time. I don't miss the big (looking) bank balance or social credit. And, no one gets what I do, lol. And, that's just fine. I'm more me than I've ever been and more happy because of it.
I love this girl !!! and I LOVE THIS CHANNEL !! GRATEFUL FOR BOTH !!!
Besides conveying very good ideas and messages you also have a very pleasant voice. It's almost like listening to a spiritual, profound ASMR. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us and for overcoming your shyness so you can follow your calling and thus helping many people.
People would have thought I was nuts a few years ago if I explained this. Especially the wording. Putting it into words is the most difficult part.
Thank you.. I like the way you "kickstart" yourself into change.
Love your stable, confident and beautiful self!
I find great displeasure in the act of small steps that are required for the dreams that I conjure in my mind
The title of this video is very good. It's the reason I clicked on the video. It made me think. And made me reminisce one exercise that helps you move forward. If you've been stuck for a while in life, then there must be actions that you take that keep you there. So you can ask yourself "What do I love about staying stuck here?". It's like if someone were punching you in the face continuously, then you would move away, because you wouldn't like that. But if you kinda want to move away and you're not taking action to accomplish that, that means there's something that you like about it. Typically that something is "getting out of your comfort zone". Which is what this video is about. Sacrificing your current comfort for change. No pain, no gain, I guess. So if you're not getting any gain, I guess you're scared of the pain. It do be like that sometimes...
Also, at the beginning you said you're going to call out some of us. And true, I, for example, am guilty of staying stuck in my current reality while wanting a different reality... But I am also going to call you out in return :) hahaha
At 9:17 You said you're tired of people selling overnight success
But what about your videos titled "Change your circumstances in an instant" or "Transform FEAR into LOVE and change your life today" ? 🤔
Saying change doesn't happen overnight is in direct contrast with defining insanity as doing the same thing and expecting different results. And is why I'll always reject that claim as a lazy "logical" fallacy
Emerson, "a true 'hu'man is one whom in the midst of a crowd can remain true to themselves." ("Self Reliance").
2:00 People who don't accomplish their dreams expect something outside themselves for help. Love it.
this is so real!! i once heard that if you want something you’ve never had, you’ll have to do something you’ve never done
Good intuition! Indeed everything is a sort of elastic band in infinite oscillation.
great video. I needed this! thanks Joy :)
Thank you so much Joy for bringing calmness, peace and love in life♥️
Bravo 👏 the rubber band snapping really resonated
i had this realization when i began my mental health recovery process a few years ago. it was a great stepping stone, even though i’ve had ups and downs and relapses that occurred last year and this year, it was definitely worth it as i essentially felt a rebirth process throughout this time
three years later my mind is more clear than ever and i finally know what i really want to do in this life. being content and living in the present was key and i’m glad this vid came up on my recommended. instant subscribed for sure
Got this video just when I needed it. I thought I'd gotten through the dark nights of soul but I'm relapsing back to the fears consuming me. Thanks joy for getting me back on track! It's calming listening to you.
Staying stagnant only impairs and stuns one’s growth and evolution. Change most often intimidates or triggers fear in those who are conditioned to being imprisoned by the insecurities, constraints and notions of their mind. Reinventing oneself is foolishly regarded as only strictly for those of elevated caliber or resilience however everyone is endowed or hardwired with this ability to achieve the inevitable or impossible. Keep both your mind and heart elevated in synchronicity and you will defy the limits of the sky. Only you choose what altitude to pursue! ❤
that first 54 seconds. all I need. thank you so much for being a beacon of light! thank you for your service to all of life!
i really needed to hear this, thank you.
You are so young and you already have so much wisdom 🙏🤍✨ everything you said i validate it's been a long process to change who i am now and it will be till my last breath 🌱☀️ So Be It ✨
One must want / one must have a goal and desire// that makes them lively.
Everything you said is just spot on.
And also I like the way you talk..it's the perfect balance. Not too loud nor too soft.
Read the entire dictionary and am all ears 😁
Thanks for the beautiful message!
Great video, I’ve watched this over and over to make sure I remember it all
Joy you're a real life angel 🙏
This was definitely synchronized stumbling on this video, haha your so adorable but you speak volumes of truth here & it hit very much so for me. Thank you dearly
i bow before you in gratefulness. This is the last reminder i needed -w-
Thank you, I love your content. I have been stuck in limbo for months now, I missed an audition for something important to me, and I kind of feel like my goals are lowkey difficult for me because every time I try and get myself unstuck, I regress back from time to time, but your video explains the basics of why I should try the small things out first before fearing the bigger things. Hoping your channel grows more. Thank you for the enlightenment.
I think you are right on this one. And I assume in 95% of all cases, we are not willingly make the necessary changes to radically change our selfs and thus our reality. In most cases we are stuck in patterns, that make us go through suffering, that has to reach certain high peaks in order to make or break us.... Okay, I am positive: Make us. :)
"Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate"
Carl Jung
It’s important to understand that success doesn’t mean making money, getting girls, and having things. There’s a lot of material people that think unless you making over 100k money you are a failure in life. Success and growth is not about money. I know plenty of people with a lot of money that are miserable people and difficult to be around so money has nothing to do with it. Change how you see success.
This is easy to say when ur in a certain place. Still good advice for some in a certain place!
I don’t even know my comfort zone is let alone leaving there, but i feel stuck af😢
You are so enlightened & lovely 🌹,thank you for your channel
I had no idea this was the channel I was looking for. I've been trying to manifest my sp back since the day she left. I appreciate this so much.
Thank you Joy for this video. I always felt grateful for fear. You see, fear does not only scare. It also helps you to pull away from stagnation. Looking forward for more epic creations.
I love your calm, clear, rational delivery and good content. Thank you.
Glad she said it differently, if I had a dollar for everytime I heard: "Go outside of your comfort zone" I wouldn't have to do a thing because I'd be a billionaire!
This was helpful and gotta get out of comfort zone to create change and success stories
I wish to find someone as amazing as you to share my life with. So that together, we inspire each other every day, supporting one another to reach new heights of success and happiness.
I found you first time on the channel. Really refreshing. You must be by reborn child’s 🤭 you are talking completely clear. Good luck with all your projects 🥰
*Starseed here!!*
*Life can be as simple or as complicated as you want it to be*
*Be the LOVE and LIGHT be with you always!!* 😁😁😁👍👍
Something I took from Jordan Paterson; you won't put in proper effort because you're content enough with who you are
If you're unhappy, then you must put in effort to become more
beautiful joy. so nice to see you. excellent work. youve outed your self, and ive witnessed. You wanted me to see you and i have. Excellent work.
"They become bigger than their circumstances."
I was gonna say youre wrong but while listing pros and cons i realized you definitely shared a gold nugget there. Thank you for making this video!
i am very confident at holding eye contact with people.
but however, there comes zero words out of my mind until they start asking me if i need something.
This is true. And I might have not forcefully or intentionally changed myself but rather I was put into different, (difficult) circumstances for the better, I cannot recognize myself anymore. Ive lost all the people that was once important to me, but are now gone since they do not align with me anymore. It's been very lonely and difficult and sometimes I feel alienated in this new body. But I know all this is for the better. Im constantly trying new things, meeting new people, joining communities and so much more. While I miss the familiarity of my old self, I always have to remind myself that the act of forgetting is also healing.
i love listening to you.
thank you.
Excellent video full of wisdom! It took me many years to learn these lessons after much trial and error😅 small changes work wonders I promise
As I start this painting. As I start to fear. As I scroll through UA-cam. Haha thank you ma'am.
You're so calming to watch. Thank you for this video, I'm subscribed to you!
Thank you ❤
this is one of my fav videos ever
We can do what we put our minds to. Lovely
Don't hit us with a title that good bruh I almost did not click it is life changing in itself brooo
change is a lot easier when you have a destination to head towards
otherwise you wander aimlessly into the abyss
that's a so good explanation video, for me right now in my illusion mind body complex experience to understand it fully.. thank you very much 🙏💚 i love your YT name *Dream with Joy* new subscriber 👍
Fear is the cause for why most people dont wanna change its actually a great thing to do great message love 🙌🖤💯🔥!!!
Well explained! Thank you.
Joy I just wanna say - In the past I've watched quite a lot of this kind of content, and this is one of THE MOST BASED & succinct, clear, holistic yet deeply powerful messages I've heard. Thank you for this epic reminder 🤍🚀
my problem is that i suffer from major depression and nothing seems to help because nobody is being helpful and the things that make me feel bad are right at the center of my life.
and for some reason i dont want to go out and try and fail and persevere but my soul is tired all i want is some peace and being able to feel good from little things like a chocolate i wanna stay in my house. i have no hope or motivation to go and try different things and for years i can't fix this
Thanks!
I will,,after I'm dead I'll be back,,like the last time
ThankYOU :)
7:47 that's probably most important piece of knowledge here.
Helping which is rare