Remembering Cyril - 10 Years On

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  • Опубліковано 7 лис 2024

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  • @ThoseVeganGuys
    @ThoseVeganGuys  Рік тому +8

    The Tribute Vlog mentioned: ua-cam.com/video/zSjsqmhHeEw/v-deo.html

  • @asmrpillow457
    @asmrpillow457 Рік тому +4

    Time flies. I wish I could fly backwards and forwards through time at will. We are all restricted to this one moment in time, and restricted to our one physical form, flaws and all. Funny old reality we have here.

  • @leeoconnor123
    @leeoconnor123 Рік тому +3

    Good God, I am in tears, couldn't pass this video by because we lost an uncle Cyril recently. My husband has terminal cancer, the treatments aren't working and well, he's hardly lived his life at 48 now..but what you said about how you cope with the loss made a lot of sense, we've seen him in bouts of pain where new treatment starts, then stops working, then the pain, then more morphine..and it's a horrible thing to go through, no one should live in pain, no sentient being. I will hold on to that when the time comes. Thank you for giving other people like me the courage to carry on. 💓

  • @VictoriaHemmingsMUA
    @VictoriaHemmingsMUA Рік тому +10

    Such a beautiful tribute to a lovely Dad. Sending you guys and Joan loads of love today 💕

  • @PSUK
    @PSUK Рік тому +3

    My late father’s name was Cyril. My mum and dad were together from the age of 5. Proper childhood sweethearts. When my dad went away to war my mum waited, and upon his return, they produced three boys, of which I am the youngest.
    When dad died we thought mum would fall apart. She surprised us all, and with us all rallying around her she went on to live another 20 years. This shows how important family is.
    Mum rejoined dad 5 years ago. Nobody but nobody could’ve wished for better parents. ❤️

  • @dd1394
    @dd1394 Рік тому +2

    Sorry for your loss, even after all this time it still hurts. A suggestion for a your Mum is a “memory quilt” created for her with your Dad’s remaining clothes. Google examples. If you know a quilter the outcome can be remarkable. After my father passed we created a memory quilt for my mother, now it’s her most cherished possession.

  • @wendyt8341
    @wendyt8341 Рік тому +1

    What a lovely thing to do. All the milestones. It's good to stop and remember loved ones gone, not forgotten. Sending big hugs to you all, especially Joan. Happy days as my Mam always used to say. Xxx

  • @CeravvvEgan
    @CeravvvEgan Рік тому +2

    Beautiful tribute and song ❤ love to your family at this anniversary. I’m off to Cape Town to go and see my nearly 73 year old dad, in 3 weeks time. I see him infrequently so must make the most of the time we have now ❤

  • @GezButterworth
    @GezButterworth Рік тому

    Much love to you and Joan, Paul. Beautiful, beautiful memories and photos, you are the spit of you’re Dad. Loved the story of the wheelchair! An important reminder to be kind to everyone xxx

  • @MissFlutterGirl
    @MissFlutterGirl Рік тому

    My late dad was a Cyril the squirrel too. This was a lovely look back on your dads life.

  • @christina-olivia5655
    @christina-olivia5655 Рік тому +4

    Beautiful tribute Paul and Joan ❤❤❤❤❤ I lost my dad suddenly and unexpectedly end of last October so this has been extra touching ❤

  • @janegoodfellow1529
    @janegoodfellow1529 Рік тому

    The toffee Poppets used to be my absolute favourite sweeties!
    What a sweet start to an amazing partnership.
    Your mum's devotion is very touching 😭
    I hope this was a healing conversation for you both 🤗

  • @chiarimsveganmum
    @chiarimsveganmum Рік тому +3

    It's just over 3 weeks till it will be 1 year since my dad died. Valentine's Day will be memorable for other reasons.
    It was so difficult to watch such an active, busy man slowly fade over 2 long years.
    He was also loved by everybody who knew him.
    R.I.P.

  • @gillianjones6242
    @gillianjones6242 Рік тому +2

    Four times I have been through losing someone it takes a bit of you away 💔

  • @richardwinter8740
    @richardwinter8740 Рік тому

    Paul, you're a spit of your dad, lovely vlog with your mum, beautiful word's ❤️❤️

  • @marieince1479
    @marieince1479 Рік тому +2

    My late husband bought me Paynes poppets on our second date you can still buy them in poundland and b&m .

  • @allyp1088
    @allyp1088 Рік тому +1

    Your mums lovely Paul special memories never easy the passing of years since loved ones left us thanks for sharing these lovely memories hugs to you all ❤

  • @lfking9778
    @lfking9778 Рік тому +2

    What a lovely tribute an celebration of your father 💗
    I lost my dad when a was 9 years old. I wish I had more memories to treasure.
    Big love x

  • @frankmachale343
    @frankmachale343 Рік тому +1

    Aww Paul, a beautiful tribute to your Dad on his 10th anniversary. And your Mam is such a wonderful and strong human being. Thinking of you and all the family at this the 10th anniversary. xx

  • @richardbenham1475
    @richardbenham1475 Рік тому

    Beautiful video, brought a tear to my eye listening to your mum speaking, 8 years this March for us when we lost dad but you are right in that we always laugh when speaking of him. Memories are so important 💚

  • @caitlinrangecroft9082
    @caitlinrangecroft9082 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this xxx

  • @sandrarollinson4726
    @sandrarollinson4726 Рік тому

    Bless you both he is in your heart forever, sending you both lot's of love🥲

  • @raymcdonald6734
    @raymcdonald6734 Рік тому +4

    I’m absolutely in tears. I held it together until the end when you played the video and music and photos then I welled up 😢. What a wonderful family you have Paul. Love the song. Jason should be signed . Bless you both xxx

  • @leighwagstaff2100
    @leighwagstaff2100 Рік тому +1

    Aww that was sweet ❤ xx

  • @gardenroom65
    @gardenroom65 8 місяців тому

    18 yrs since my Dad died of MND. My husband left me that yr., I lost both my men. I still got 2 teenagers through university. My biggest achievement.

  • @jaktag
    @jaktag Рік тому

    Its 17 years today i lost my Dad. I also lost my husband 27 years ago on the 18th January he was only 46 and we had a 2 yr old little girl at the time 😭Your Dad sounds so nice bless him💕💕xx

  • @roshimafair7603
    @roshimafair7603 Рік тому +4

    What a great song! Sending all best wishes to Joan at this time and to you x

  • @tamcon72
    @tamcon72 Рік тому +3

    These anniversaries can be difficult, but retaining the good memories helps healing and honors the lost loved one. I wish you peace, Paul, and fortitude to Joan; my mom was a true-love widow, and no matter how strong a woman is, it's still hard. I enjoyed learning more about such an important influence in your lives; thanks for posting : )

  • @SimoneJaegerFrauPanPan
    @SimoneJaegerFrauPanPan Рік тому +2

    Sending love to mum and you Paul. 💞

  • @aislingsibeallyons3416
    @aislingsibeallyons3416 Рік тому

    Ahhhh lovely 55 years that's love 😘

  • @gillianc8106
    @gillianc8106 Рік тому

    Only just saw this, but I wanted to say firstly that I’m so sorry that you lost your dad, Paul - he sounds like a fantastic person who you obviously both loved very, very much. Secondly, it sounds like my own dad (who passed 9 years ago) and yours would’ve got on like a house on fire! He also loved the sun, adored Tenerife and Malta, and was a down-to-earth, loving and funny man who I think you’d have loved.
    [Edited to add, because somehow I typed this but then didn’t end up posting it with the rest of the comment!] I also had a very complicated relationship with my dad for many years, but we started to heal our rift when I was in my mid-20s. He sincerely apologised for his behaviour over the time I was growing up, and he meant it. He went on to change his behaviour in some pretty remarkable ways, and for the last couple of decades of his life we had a wonderful, close, supportive and loving relationship. When anyone says that “a leopard can’t change its spots” or uses their upbringing as an excuse for abusive behaviour, I tell them the story of my father - the man who DID change all of that, and who regained a loving relationship with his entire family because of it. [End edit: sorry about that!]
    So lovely to hear you talk so fondly about your dad and his life, even though I do understand how bittersweet that can feel. Much love to all of you.

  • @mollyw5429
    @mollyw5429 Рік тому

    What a lovely video, and a beautiful song at the end ❤❤❤

  • @meadowlark1414
    @meadowlark1414 Рік тому +1

    Precious!❤️😘❤️

  • @rachel8717
    @rachel8717 Рік тому +1

    what alovely tribute to your father paul.Also you can still get paynes poppets in b&m bargains they have the toffe mint and coffe in there oh and in tescos they sell the mint ones x

  • @claireslattery7
    @claireslattery7 Рік тому

    Love to you all. 🙏❤️🙏❤️

  • @flanny5419
    @flanny5419 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for uploading this vlog, it was both heart warming and adorable to watch. I (Debs) have just been looking through my Dad's photographs, preparing for his funeral, as he passed away two weeks ago today. This vlog was very lovely to watch and the comment about not suffering anymore is a very important one. thank you once again you wonderful people

  • @paulmagus2133
    @paulmagus2133 Рік тому +1

    🤗love to you and yours xxxxx

  • @RainbowVegansRock
    @RainbowVegansRock Рік тому +2

    Thanks for sharing, tears are important too. Beautiful song as well ❤️

  • @MostlyLoveOfMusic
    @MostlyLoveOfMusic Рік тому +4

    thank you for sharing, both of you

  • @Ligaya1980
    @Ligaya1980 Рік тому +3

    Your Dad lives on forever in the hearts of all those who loved him. Sending love and hugs to all those who want or need them💚🌟

  • @MostlyLoveOfMusic
    @MostlyLoveOfMusic Рік тому +13

    I am genuinely troubled and confused by how fast time has been going in this last decade - even David Bowie died 7 years ago, and it seems more like 3 years ago. Perhaps we spend too much time in the virtual world where we can travel back in time so easily, and hence we are losing our connection and grounding in the real-world at the present time.

  • @HYPERPEACE
    @HYPERPEACE Рік тому +1

    You're fortunate to have a nice father. I was thinking about my own, I'm constantly in conflict with him because of his confusing 'leave it to God' view on my sexuality and gender, and in general overly ableist and abusive upbringing. Looking back on it, there were some good aspects of it. He certainly inspired my tastes in games, music, and TV. Everything from old eurobeat/dance to The Simpsons. To my tastes in foods even. Even though I certainly have a lot more love and respect for my mom, I think those parts of my life that were shaped by my dad are at least something I'm grateful for with his upbringing.

  • @addamhewitt
    @addamhewitt Рік тому +2

    You've had me on the verge of tears to laughing. God bless you Cyril. I said it b4 on bandcamp, the song look to him, is a masterclass, and that was b4 I knew the meaning behind the song. But now it's even more powerful 💚💚💚

  • @jennymatthews4901
    @jennymatthews4901 Рік тому +1

    Beautiful ❤

  • @clareperkins9192
    @clareperkins9192 Рік тому +1

  • @aislingsibeallyons3416
    @aislingsibeallyons3416 Рік тому

    😎 Love 😎 the 😎 water 😎 fountain 😎 very 😎 relaxing 😎😎

  • @naomimsmule5072
    @naomimsmule5072 Рік тому +1

    🫶