Time flies. I wish I could fly backwards and forwards through time at will. We are all restricted to this one moment in time, and restricted to our one physical form, flaws and all. Funny old reality we have here.
Good God, I am in tears, couldn't pass this video by because we lost an uncle Cyril recently. My husband has terminal cancer, the treatments aren't working and well, he's hardly lived his life at 48 now..but what you said about how you cope with the loss made a lot of sense, we've seen him in bouts of pain where new treatment starts, then stops working, then the pain, then more morphine..and it's a horrible thing to go through, no one should live in pain, no sentient being. I will hold on to that when the time comes. Thank you for giving other people like me the courage to carry on. 💓
My late father’s name was Cyril. My mum and dad were together from the age of 5. Proper childhood sweethearts. When my dad went away to war my mum waited, and upon his return, they produced three boys, of which I am the youngest. When dad died we thought mum would fall apart. She surprised us all, and with us all rallying around her she went on to live another 20 years. This shows how important family is. Mum rejoined dad 5 years ago. Nobody but nobody could’ve wished for better parents. ❤️
Sorry for your loss, even after all this time it still hurts. A suggestion for a your Mum is a “memory quilt” created for her with your Dad’s remaining clothes. Google examples. If you know a quilter the outcome can be remarkable. After my father passed we created a memory quilt for my mother, now it’s her most cherished possession.
What a lovely thing to do. All the milestones. It's good to stop and remember loved ones gone, not forgotten. Sending big hugs to you all, especially Joan. Happy days as my Mam always used to say. Xxx
Beautiful tribute and song ❤ love to your family at this anniversary. I’m off to Cape Town to go and see my nearly 73 year old dad, in 3 weeks time. I see him infrequently so must make the most of the time we have now ❤
Much love to you and Joan, Paul. Beautiful, beautiful memories and photos, you are the spit of you’re Dad. Loved the story of the wheelchair! An important reminder to be kind to everyone xxx
The toffee Poppets used to be my absolute favourite sweeties! What a sweet start to an amazing partnership. Your mum's devotion is very touching 😭 I hope this was a healing conversation for you both 🤗
It's just over 3 weeks till it will be 1 year since my dad died. Valentine's Day will be memorable for other reasons. It was so difficult to watch such an active, busy man slowly fade over 2 long years. He was also loved by everybody who knew him. R.I.P.
Your mums lovely Paul special memories never easy the passing of years since loved ones left us thanks for sharing these lovely memories hugs to you all ❤
Aww Paul, a beautiful tribute to your Dad on his 10th anniversary. And your Mam is such a wonderful and strong human being. Thinking of you and all the family at this the 10th anniversary. xx
Beautiful video, brought a tear to my eye listening to your mum speaking, 8 years this March for us when we lost dad but you are right in that we always laugh when speaking of him. Memories are so important 💚
I’m absolutely in tears. I held it together until the end when you played the video and music and photos then I welled up 😢. What a wonderful family you have Paul. Love the song. Jason should be signed . Bless you both xxx
Its 17 years today i lost my Dad. I also lost my husband 27 years ago on the 18th January he was only 46 and we had a 2 yr old little girl at the time 😭Your Dad sounds so nice bless him💕💕xx
These anniversaries can be difficult, but retaining the good memories helps healing and honors the lost loved one. I wish you peace, Paul, and fortitude to Joan; my mom was a true-love widow, and no matter how strong a woman is, it's still hard. I enjoyed learning more about such an important influence in your lives; thanks for posting : )
Only just saw this, but I wanted to say firstly that I’m so sorry that you lost your dad, Paul - he sounds like a fantastic person who you obviously both loved very, very much. Secondly, it sounds like my own dad (who passed 9 years ago) and yours would’ve got on like a house on fire! He also loved the sun, adored Tenerife and Malta, and was a down-to-earth, loving and funny man who I think you’d have loved. [Edited to add, because somehow I typed this but then didn’t end up posting it with the rest of the comment!] I also had a very complicated relationship with my dad for many years, but we started to heal our rift when I was in my mid-20s. He sincerely apologised for his behaviour over the time I was growing up, and he meant it. He went on to change his behaviour in some pretty remarkable ways, and for the last couple of decades of his life we had a wonderful, close, supportive and loving relationship. When anyone says that “a leopard can’t change its spots” or uses their upbringing as an excuse for abusive behaviour, I tell them the story of my father - the man who DID change all of that, and who regained a loving relationship with his entire family because of it. [End edit: sorry about that!] So lovely to hear you talk so fondly about your dad and his life, even though I do understand how bittersweet that can feel. Much love to all of you.
what alovely tribute to your father paul.Also you can still get paynes poppets in b&m bargains they have the toffe mint and coffe in there oh and in tescos they sell the mint ones x
Thank you for uploading this vlog, it was both heart warming and adorable to watch. I (Debs) have just been looking through my Dad's photographs, preparing for his funeral, as he passed away two weeks ago today. This vlog was very lovely to watch and the comment about not suffering anymore is a very important one. thank you once again you wonderful people
I am genuinely troubled and confused by how fast time has been going in this last decade - even David Bowie died 7 years ago, and it seems more like 3 years ago. Perhaps we spend too much time in the virtual world where we can travel back in time so easily, and hence we are losing our connection and grounding in the real-world at the present time.
You're fortunate to have a nice father. I was thinking about my own, I'm constantly in conflict with him because of his confusing 'leave it to God' view on my sexuality and gender, and in general overly ableist and abusive upbringing. Looking back on it, there were some good aspects of it. He certainly inspired my tastes in games, music, and TV. Everything from old eurobeat/dance to The Simpsons. To my tastes in foods even. Even though I certainly have a lot more love and respect for my mom, I think those parts of my life that were shaped by my dad are at least something I'm grateful for with his upbringing.
You've had me on the verge of tears to laughing. God bless you Cyril. I said it b4 on bandcamp, the song look to him, is a masterclass, and that was b4 I knew the meaning behind the song. But now it's even more powerful 💚💚💚
The Tribute Vlog mentioned: ua-cam.com/video/zSjsqmhHeEw/v-deo.html
Time flies. I wish I could fly backwards and forwards through time at will. We are all restricted to this one moment in time, and restricted to our one physical form, flaws and all. Funny old reality we have here.
Good God, I am in tears, couldn't pass this video by because we lost an uncle Cyril recently. My husband has terminal cancer, the treatments aren't working and well, he's hardly lived his life at 48 now..but what you said about how you cope with the loss made a lot of sense, we've seen him in bouts of pain where new treatment starts, then stops working, then the pain, then more morphine..and it's a horrible thing to go through, no one should live in pain, no sentient being. I will hold on to that when the time comes. Thank you for giving other people like me the courage to carry on. 💓
Such a beautiful tribute to a lovely Dad. Sending you guys and Joan loads of love today 💕
My late father’s name was Cyril. My mum and dad were together from the age of 5. Proper childhood sweethearts. When my dad went away to war my mum waited, and upon his return, they produced three boys, of which I am the youngest.
When dad died we thought mum would fall apart. She surprised us all, and with us all rallying around her she went on to live another 20 years. This shows how important family is.
Mum rejoined dad 5 years ago. Nobody but nobody could’ve wished for better parents. ❤️
Sorry for your loss, even after all this time it still hurts. A suggestion for a your Mum is a “memory quilt” created for her with your Dad’s remaining clothes. Google examples. If you know a quilter the outcome can be remarkable. After my father passed we created a memory quilt for my mother, now it’s her most cherished possession.
What a lovely thing to do. All the milestones. It's good to stop and remember loved ones gone, not forgotten. Sending big hugs to you all, especially Joan. Happy days as my Mam always used to say. Xxx
Beautiful tribute and song ❤ love to your family at this anniversary. I’m off to Cape Town to go and see my nearly 73 year old dad, in 3 weeks time. I see him infrequently so must make the most of the time we have now ❤
Much love to you and Joan, Paul. Beautiful, beautiful memories and photos, you are the spit of you’re Dad. Loved the story of the wheelchair! An important reminder to be kind to everyone xxx
My late dad was a Cyril the squirrel too. This was a lovely look back on your dads life.
Beautiful tribute Paul and Joan ❤❤❤❤❤ I lost my dad suddenly and unexpectedly end of last October so this has been extra touching ❤
The toffee Poppets used to be my absolute favourite sweeties!
What a sweet start to an amazing partnership.
Your mum's devotion is very touching 😭
I hope this was a healing conversation for you both 🤗
It's just over 3 weeks till it will be 1 year since my dad died. Valentine's Day will be memorable for other reasons.
It was so difficult to watch such an active, busy man slowly fade over 2 long years.
He was also loved by everybody who knew him.
R.I.P.
Four times I have been through losing someone it takes a bit of you away 💔
Paul, you're a spit of your dad, lovely vlog with your mum, beautiful word's ❤️❤️
My late husband bought me Paynes poppets on our second date you can still buy them in poundland and b&m .
Your mums lovely Paul special memories never easy the passing of years since loved ones left us thanks for sharing these lovely memories hugs to you all ❤
What a lovely tribute an celebration of your father 💗
I lost my dad when a was 9 years old. I wish I had more memories to treasure.
Big love x
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Aww Paul, a beautiful tribute to your Dad on his 10th anniversary. And your Mam is such a wonderful and strong human being. Thinking of you and all the family at this the 10th anniversary. xx
Beautiful video, brought a tear to my eye listening to your mum speaking, 8 years this March for us when we lost dad but you are right in that we always laugh when speaking of him. Memories are so important 💚
Thank you for sharing this xxx
Bless you both he is in your heart forever, sending you both lot's of love🥲
I’m absolutely in tears. I held it together until the end when you played the video and music and photos then I welled up 😢. What a wonderful family you have Paul. Love the song. Jason should be signed . Bless you both xxx
Aww that was sweet ❤ xx
18 yrs since my Dad died of MND. My husband left me that yr., I lost both my men. I still got 2 teenagers through university. My biggest achievement.
You clearly did amazing. X
Its 17 years today i lost my Dad. I also lost my husband 27 years ago on the 18th January he was only 46 and we had a 2 yr old little girl at the time 😭Your Dad sounds so nice bless him💕💕xx
Sorry to hear that
What a great song! Sending all best wishes to Joan at this time and to you x
These anniversaries can be difficult, but retaining the good memories helps healing and honors the lost loved one. I wish you peace, Paul, and fortitude to Joan; my mom was a true-love widow, and no matter how strong a woman is, it's still hard. I enjoyed learning more about such an important influence in your lives; thanks for posting : )
Sending love to mum and you Paul. 💞
Ahhhh lovely 55 years that's love 😘
Only just saw this, but I wanted to say firstly that I’m so sorry that you lost your dad, Paul - he sounds like a fantastic person who you obviously both loved very, very much. Secondly, it sounds like my own dad (who passed 9 years ago) and yours would’ve got on like a house on fire! He also loved the sun, adored Tenerife and Malta, and was a down-to-earth, loving and funny man who I think you’d have loved.
[Edited to add, because somehow I typed this but then didn’t end up posting it with the rest of the comment!] I also had a very complicated relationship with my dad for many years, but we started to heal our rift when I was in my mid-20s. He sincerely apologised for his behaviour over the time I was growing up, and he meant it. He went on to change his behaviour in some pretty remarkable ways, and for the last couple of decades of his life we had a wonderful, close, supportive and loving relationship. When anyone says that “a leopard can’t change its spots” or uses their upbringing as an excuse for abusive behaviour, I tell them the story of my father - the man who DID change all of that, and who regained a loving relationship with his entire family because of it. [End edit: sorry about that!]
So lovely to hear you talk so fondly about your dad and his life, even though I do understand how bittersweet that can feel. Much love to all of you.
What a lovely video, and a beautiful song at the end ❤❤❤
Precious!❤️😘❤️
what alovely tribute to your father paul.Also you can still get paynes poppets in b&m bargains they have the toffe mint and coffe in there oh and in tescos they sell the mint ones x
Love to you all. 🙏❤️🙏❤️
Thank you for uploading this vlog, it was both heart warming and adorable to watch. I (Debs) have just been looking through my Dad's photographs, preparing for his funeral, as he passed away two weeks ago today. This vlog was very lovely to watch and the comment about not suffering anymore is a very important one. thank you once again you wonderful people
🤗love to you and yours xxxxx
Thanks for sharing, tears are important too. Beautiful song as well ❤️
Absolutely!!
thank you for sharing, both of you
Our pleasure!
Your Dad lives on forever in the hearts of all those who loved him. Sending love and hugs to all those who want or need them💚🌟
I am genuinely troubled and confused by how fast time has been going in this last decade - even David Bowie died 7 years ago, and it seems more like 3 years ago. Perhaps we spend too much time in the virtual world where we can travel back in time so easily, and hence we are losing our connection and grounding in the real-world at the present time.
Totally get that
You're fortunate to have a nice father. I was thinking about my own, I'm constantly in conflict with him because of his confusing 'leave it to God' view on my sexuality and gender, and in general overly ableist and abusive upbringing. Looking back on it, there were some good aspects of it. He certainly inspired my tastes in games, music, and TV. Everything from old eurobeat/dance to The Simpsons. To my tastes in foods even. Even though I certainly have a lot more love and respect for my mom, I think those parts of my life that were shaped by my dad are at least something I'm grateful for with his upbringing.
You've had me on the verge of tears to laughing. God bless you Cyril. I said it b4 on bandcamp, the song look to him, is a masterclass, and that was b4 I knew the meaning behind the song. But now it's even more powerful 💚💚💚
Beautiful ❤
Thank you! 😊
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😎 Love 😎 the 😎 water 😎 fountain 😎 very 😎 relaxing 😎😎
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