Youniversity | Phlegmatic and Melancholy | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 159

  • @tomiwafaith
    @tomiwafaith 2 роки тому +17

    I’m definitely phlegmatic.. so calm & chilled. I don’t like problem or whenever people are upset too. I like to take things easy with no stress either

  • @ibfrancistoomuch7408
    @ibfrancistoomuch7408 3 роки тому +55

    When you train humans to understand human behaviors they’ll start living in peace

  • @liz9664
    @liz9664 Рік тому +4

    I’m 100% Melancholic. My melancholic nature is also melancholic. 😊
    Perfectionist, excessive planner, organized, analytical, and with the help of the Holy Spirit, I am perfect in Christ. ❤

  • @ellaobans8727
    @ellaobans8727 3 роки тому +40

    Mel-Phleg here, I used deny it but while researching for my book I published last year, I had to accept it because that's the first step to live above my temperaments.
    Thank you so much ma, this is comprehensive enough.🌹

  • @eyes9860
    @eyes9860 3 роки тому +48

    I’m definitely phlegmatic...in fact I’ve never ever heard a more accurate description of my personality and how I am inside. This is actually crazy spot on.

  • @PureWellness_Hub
    @PureWellness_Hub 14 годин тому

    Thank you Ma
    And God bless my pastor's wife for recomeding this video.

  • @uncledotun
    @uncledotun 3 роки тому +37

    Read 'Why you act the way you do' by Tim Laye. He described the temperament nature of human very well.

    • @oluwasanmiidowu
      @oluwasanmiidowu Рік тому +3

      The book changed my life. The blessed part is that the author kept emphasizing how important the Holy Spirit was for balance notwithstanding the temperament.
      God bless Pastor Mildred for doing a great job explaining this too.

  • @user-ur7km9fx2c
    @user-ur7km9fx2c 3 роки тому +31

    The way pastor M brings the bible home is for fantastic! The way she described the bible stories is just 👌

  • @korankyewaa247
    @korankyewaa247 3 роки тому +33

    Thank you so much ma!
    Please we would like another version that teaches temperament compatibilities for marriage and teamwork. Thank you once again

  • @olaoluwaokewole1615
    @olaoluwaokewole1615 3 роки тому +11

    Brilliant message!!
    Love how she tied scriptures (with precision) to each temperament!!
    God blessed Pastor.K with this woman!!
    Pastor.M is another 5Bs woman {Born again; Baptised in the Holy Ghost; Beautiful; Brains; and Bonds well}.
    Who said 5Bs women no dey?
    Another proof that: you will find who you're looking for!!

  • @HikatekileTshimbana
    @HikatekileTshimbana 2 роки тому +7

    I'm definitely a melancholy!❤

  • @emmanuelgilbertnwizi7859
    @emmanuelgilbertnwizi7859 3 роки тому +22

    I'm just laughing all through the video watching this woman describe my life in 30minute.

  • @chiomadayo-matt6901
    @chiomadayo-matt6901 3 роки тому +18

    So I've been a Melancholy all these years and thought I was sanguine. Thank you ma for opening my eyes

    • @TheHelpedWoman
      @TheHelpedWoman 3 роки тому +5

      Lol a sanguine and mel are opposites, how do you confuse that?

    • @uncledotun
      @uncledotun 3 роки тому +2

      Everyone has a portion of each temperament. You can't be a full melancholy, sanguine, choleric and phlegmatic. Two of it that you developed will be dominant while the others will be recessive. Read this book by Tim Laye "Why you act the way you do". It will help you know how you relate with human.

    • @agnesadeoye5418
      @agnesadeoye5418 3 роки тому

      @@uncledotun Yeah. And spirit controlled temperament by the same author🥰

    • @matildaafifetse2649
      @matildaafifetse2649 Рік тому

      😂

  • @morahsheryl.i.1313
    @morahsheryl.i.1313 3 роки тому +9

    Mel-phleg here.
    I just love yhu ma. Most times I feel you are talking to me directly. Thank you for the insight always.

  • @thelilinuel
    @thelilinuel 3 роки тому +9

    I've been a little unsure about my temperament until today. She discribed me in minutes. I'm a proud Mel! Thank you Pastor M! ❤️

  • @toyinayanwole
    @toyinayanwole 11 днів тому

    Wow! This is great 👍👍👍
    Thank you so much ma'am ❤️

  • @chidinmaoti8025
    @chidinmaoti8025 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you ma for this message l have gotten so many revelations about myself@melancholy, yes ma carry everything on my head but the holy spirit is helping me reduce so many of this especially on the side of depression, and now l enjoy peace of mind despite everything and knowing fully well that perfection does not exist, thank you for this beautiful message and God bless you.

  • @eyitayosharon1546
    @eyitayosharon1546 Рік тому +3

    Over the Years, I alwys asked myself! Why I'm so hard on myself, why I alwyz find fault in everything 😪 why if I have issues with people, they usually never bothered to call me or want me back, all my exes wen we had quarrel alwys accused me that I'm too hard on them, I don't appreciate them, I looked down on them & I wondered whenever we broke up, they will be very happy & blocked me everywhere & nvr make frds with me again😭💔 Now I know I'M A MELANCHOLY & nvr knw! I'm jst myself with this character. Oh God help me to work on myself & give me someone that will help me to Change for good. I'm so sad😥😔 & depressed

  • @Nuellalove
    @Nuellalove 3 роки тому +23

    I waited so long for this 🥺
    I’m phlegmatic btw

  • @aweleanigekwu8291
    @aweleanigekwu8291 3 роки тому +2

    I neva even watch am...I just Love Pastor M🤗...oya make I settle down watch am. Pastors K and M we love una for Connecticut oooo.. come and bless us here. You are welcome. My Pastor knows una but neva meet una!😊

  • @demaestro012
    @demaestro012 2 роки тому +7

    I am definitely a Phleg-Mel.

  • @parbeyphyllis5590
    @parbeyphyllis5590 3 роки тому +4

    Mum you are a gem 🤗🤗🤗full of grace and wisdom. More grace upon grace 😍much love Pastor M

  • @AshAbe7
    @AshAbe7 5 місяців тому

    Noone taught this tittle better!!!!
    Thanks pastor❤️

  • @Emma4dfuture
    @Emma4dfuture 3 роки тому +11

    Before I even begin to watch, let me just say that I was about checking for videos on temperaments. Then I was about checking PK's channel. Then the Holy Spirit nudged me to type just your name, and boom! The first item in the search result is this video.
    Thank you for this! E get why.

  • @HBrifo
    @HBrifo 3 роки тому +3

    I watched this last 2 Fridays ago and my life have been changed 🤯.. This message is like the Gospel... very liberating..
    I didn't know how key it was to know and understand oneself until I watched this. I'm a MelPhleg, but stronger on the Mel.. and I've been so hard on myself and blame myself a lot that it was driving me into depression ..
    Please let's not just watch this but share as well

    • @HBrifo
      @HBrifo 3 роки тому

      Let's know that it is only God that can change us.. So let's lean to God to receive strength and Grace to overcome our various personality and personal weaknesses... and His grace and Wisdom on how to harness our Strengths for His glory..and his Kingdom ... we have eternity in mind😍.
      And if you're sharing to an unbeliever be sure to share the Gospel of Jesus Christ to them.. no amount of motivational talk can change a person but Christ, so teach them give themselves to Christ and to lean in to the Holy Spirit to help them overcome their weaknesses not just those "you can do it" motivations

    • @HBrifo
      @HBrifo 3 роки тому

      For my Mels here 😃👋🏾, this song by for KING & COUNTRY titled "Control" really taught me that, I have to learn to GIVE UP CONTROL to God.. I won't always get it PERFECT, so in all my plannings, I have to give up Control to God, and be FLEXIBLE to His leadings🙏🏾.
      One of the duo, Joel Smallbone, opened up about his control addiction and how God taught him which led to the production of the song "CONTROL"
      This version of song was recorded in a Concert, and Joel shared his story at time stamp 22:09.. link ua-cam.com/video/RLk66XHE3ak/v-deo.html. Song itself starts at 25:25 during the concert
      The song only, CONTROL recorded is on this video link ua-cam.com/video/E4wusq61dmw/v-deo.html
      But do well to follow his story from the concert show at the beginning.
      God bless you Joel for sharing, God bless you For King & Country

  • @LoisPrunelle_
    @LoisPrunelle_ 8 місяців тому

    I love this Woman❤️🔥. You are blessed Pastor M.

  • @kemisjourney
    @kemisjourney 2 роки тому +4

    Finally learning to accept my MEL-PHLEG temperament. Thank you PM ❤

  • @qmina1
    @qmina1 3 роки тому +6

    Originally Mel-Phelg ... now with a dash of Chol which I truly believe has been a blessing in balancing/strengthening my personality more 🤗

    • @joshuaadeolu5553
      @joshuaadeolu5553 Рік тому

      Yes exactly same here too. I was just saying now is it possible for one to have a bit of 3 temperaments. This is a lovely confirmation 😊

  • @florencenkiru7274
    @florencenkiru7274 3 роки тому +2

    My personality is melancholy
    Very well detailed message
    Thank you for sharing ma'am

  • @AshAbe7
    @AshAbe7 5 місяців тому

    Wow!!!
    I'm so blessed by this!! Thank you so much

  • @suzanpaul1860
    @suzanpaul1860 2 роки тому +1

    God bless you ma.
    You described me perfectly. I am phlegmatic.

  • @toyinayanwole
    @toyinayanwole 11 днів тому

    This is powerful

  • @EttaDaniel
    @EttaDaniel 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you momma.... You just blessed my life this night

  • @patrakirungi4851
    @patrakirungi4851 2 роки тому +1

    Thank u for this. Blessings from Uganda 🇺🇬 🙏

  • @Dworkchannel
    @Dworkchannel 3 роки тому +2

    Oh Pastor M! The way you break down the scriptures🔥🔥❤️ I am blessed watching this.

  • @Thetanyael
    @Thetanyael 3 роки тому +3

    melancholic as charged Ma’am

  • @samgtabu
    @samgtabu 2 роки тому +2

    This teaching was so well delivered.

  • @blessingsbelle7619
    @blessingsbelle7619 3 роки тому +6

    😆 OH BOY...VERY REVEALING! I LOVE HOW YOU USE SCRIPTURE TO DESCRIBE EACH TEMPERAMENT, & HOW YOU'VE LEFT US WITH HOPE VIA THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT. KNOWLEDGE OF TEMPERAMENTS, LIKE THE LANGUAGES OF LOVE IS GREAT ON PERSONAL & CORPORATE LEVELS. THANK YOU!!! 💃

  • @agnesadeoye5418
    @agnesadeoye5418 3 роки тому +67

    Melphleg please gather here😄😄😄😄

  • @amakachukwu2304
    @amakachukwu2304 Рік тому

    Wow 😲.. this is really me. Now I am sure I am a melancholy.

  • @akinwaletosin8619
    @akinwaletosin8619 2 роки тому +1

    God bless you greatly Pastor M.

  • @olowolafeoluwatoyin3881
    @olowolafeoluwatoyin3881 3 роки тому +5

    Proudly PhlegSan

  • @gladnessparadiso2412
    @gladnessparadiso2412 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you Pastor M...I'm really enjoying this sermon and getting to know my own temperament and those of my family and friends....
    I am a phlegmatic and I no like wahala 😍

  • @joshuaarthur-yartel1553
    @joshuaarthur-yartel1553 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing exposition. I'm really blessed by your teaching. God bless

  • @VanEssa-el7so
    @VanEssa-el7so 2 роки тому +5

    😂 l now understand why l like sitting on the fence every time. 80% phlegmatic l remember the day l was forced to buy tickets to go to club l just agreed and bought the ticket(expensive) for peace to reign. l knew l was not going but l planned with them and went missing on the day. 🤣🤣🤣 l am always in trouble

    • @ChristabelFelix-rc8tz
      @ChristabelFelix-rc8tz 3 місяці тому

      Now I know why I procrastinate a lot🤔 and why I can please everybody and displease myself 🤦 #phlegmatic#

  • @rekiyaE
    @rekiyaE 3 роки тому +4

    I'm a choleric-melancholic. Though my melancholic is 32% but i really appreciate it, it helps with my dominant choleric side.

  • @patricia.nasike
    @patricia.nasike 3 роки тому +7

    "He that believeth shall not make haste" 😄😄😄😂 yesss.

  • @giwajohn847
    @giwajohn847 2 роки тому

    Everything said about Melancholy is so true...

  • @mimatakon
    @mimatakon 3 роки тому +2

    Can’t wait 😇😇
    I’m a melancholy 🥰🥰

  • @kellynjinkeu6320
    @kellynjinkeu6320 2 роки тому

    I just love the way you dissect the Word Ma'a

  • @DinmahMichael
    @DinmahMichael 3 роки тому +1

    Wow thank you pastor M for youniversity... It was really eye opening to me and has made me understand me better

  • @dessyonoja7025
    @dessyonoja7025 3 роки тому +1

    Reminder set! I can't wait

  • @BlessedLPT.
    @BlessedLPT. 3 роки тому +5

    Where are all my MelChors🗣🗣🗣

  • @Its_lady_tee
    @Its_lady_tee 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much Pastor Mildred.

  • @preciousglory6735
    @preciousglory6735 3 роки тому

    Greater you go mummy, I 'm melancholy you just preach me 😄💯 thanks

  • @adebanjofolashade8165
    @adebanjofolashade8165 2 роки тому +2

    I am so melancholic even my melancholic is melancholic

  • @Barnabas_Akinrinola
    @Barnabas_Akinrinola 2 роки тому

    THANK YOU, Pastor M!♥️🙌🏾

  • @Ellaceeceebee
    @Ellaceeceebee 2 роки тому

    Beautiful message. I'd really love it if the prayer sessions are also included

  • @faustinanyarkokoduah6634
    @faustinanyarkokoduah6634 3 роки тому

    God bless you woman of God

  • @nokulungamoyo2296
    @nokulungamoyo2296 2 роки тому +2

    I'm Melancholy + Choleric. I get shocked a lot by the things people do... or do not do 😅

  • @davefx_
    @davefx_ 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you mama, please my question is can someone's temperament change as they grow?

  • @danielvifa510
    @danielvifa510 4 місяці тому

    Very interesting

  • @nana_ama_rose
    @nana_ama_rose 3 місяці тому +1

    The way I condemn myself to God I think He is seeing me as Moses reincarnated 🥲.

  • @ireenchewe8261
    @ireenchewe8261 2 роки тому +2

    Just realized am a melancholic 😅😅no wonder I find it difficult to socialize

  • @mindbuilders6147
    @mindbuilders6147 3 роки тому +1

    You just disected me as a phlegmatic

  • @erinmaonwuchekwa
    @erinmaonwuchekwa 3 роки тому +6

    Melancholy +Choleric

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare Рік тому

    Well explained insights 👍

  • @dammymelaye6376
    @dammymelaye6376 3 роки тому

    Blessing Osogbue

  • @chinyereotaka7517
    @chinyereotaka7517 3 роки тому

    Amazingly inspiring

  • @faustinangozichukwu1343
    @faustinangozichukwu1343 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much ma

  • @ineokujagu8795
    @ineokujagu8795 Рік тому

    Great knowledge

  • @IamTheRarestGem
    @IamTheRarestGem 3 роки тому +6

    I am primary a Phlegmatic and secondary a melancholy.
    I can't understand why someone will not put things back in the place I put them in the first place. At home they think I am dominantly melancholy because of this 🙆🙆🙆
    "If you cannot do it the way I do then its not good enough." Is that a perfectionist there 🤔

    • @agnesadeoye5418
      @agnesadeoye5418 3 роки тому

      😂😂😂😂 my children are tired of me already. No matter what i told them to do i will still do it all over again🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @IamTheRarestGem
      @IamTheRarestGem 3 роки тому +2

      @@agnesadeoye5418 😂😂😂😂😂
      The Holy Spirit is working on me reminding me of our uniqueness and that we are not born knowing everything, we all learn and with time perfect our craft.
      I pray He helps you too.

    • @agnesadeoye5418
      @agnesadeoye5418 3 роки тому +1

      @@IamTheRarestGem Amen🙏🏾 Thanks for sharing🥰

  • @peterfrancanationtv2830
    @peterfrancanationtv2830 Рік тому

    Thank you PM

  • @damolaibraheem9283
    @damolaibraheem9283 3 роки тому

    I am definitely a melancholy..

  • @sapphire78blue
    @sapphire78blue 2 роки тому

    I am definitely a melancholi

  • @patiencemagoola101
    @patiencemagoola101 2 роки тому

    Thank u

  • @nwajuoginikachy7952
    @nwajuoginikachy7952 3 роки тому +1

    I think I'm a blend of San+phlegmatic

  • @idowumarvellous5881
    @idowumarvellous5881 2 роки тому

    I think we should add HolyGhostmatic

  • @ayivisusan6284
    @ayivisusan6284 3 роки тому +2

    That is the word, we loss out a lot. Melancholy, I can tell from experience

  • @donbaker007
    @donbaker007 Рік тому

    Bravooooooo

  • @ifeyinwaobienu
    @ifeyinwaobienu 3 роки тому +12

    It's unique that men and women have different traits, now throw in temperament into the mix🤦🏽‍♀️... Jeez! It's no wonder you're given a marriage CERTIFICATE 🤷🏽‍♀️
    Only God can give you "expo" to succeed in that institution 😌😏

  • @Joshua99911
    @Joshua99911 7 місяців тому

    Question please.
    Is it proven that someone can function in the realm of these four temperament?
    I seem to alternate between the four temperaments; depending on who and what I am dealing with.

  • @blessingandrew1751
    @blessingandrew1751 3 роки тому +1

    I didn't even know what my temperament was before now.... 😂😂😂 I'm phlegmatic
    Wow😂

  • @olaoluwaokewole1615
    @olaoluwaokewole1615 3 роки тому

    Lovely community, please I'd like to ask if one of your mantras is: '#Do You; knock yourself out; just don't touch me or cross into my private space or boundary' is that a phleg, a Chol or a mel? And is that mantra faulty? If it is why?

  • @AshAbe7
    @AshAbe7 5 місяців тому

    Where can we get the one where she taught the previous one about the extroverts. Please help

  • @chidiebereamujuogu4417
    @chidiebereamujuogu4417 2 роки тому

    I'm a perfectionist

  • @adaobiobi4658
    @adaobiobi4658 3 роки тому +1

    I think I am phlegmatic. Then again, mama explains that phlegmatics always have the backs of their loved ones and can do anything which I agree but then again, they are self preserving?

  • @rumeokodili5063
    @rumeokodili5063 2 роки тому +1

    Im melancholy and hubby phlegmatic

  • @mindbuilders6147
    @mindbuilders6147 3 роки тому +4

    I am a phlegmel

  • @zaria2turay968
    @zaria2turay968 3 роки тому +1

    The phlegmatic in me ehn😂🙌🏽

  • @dackwiszytv9368
    @dackwiszytv9368 Рік тому

    Im a phlegmatic and you just described me A to Z😅

  • @HildaZion
    @HildaZion 6 місяців тому

  • @tehillarbanda1930
    @tehillarbanda1930 2 роки тому +1

    Phlegmatic for life🤣🤣🤣peace!!

  • @DestineCaius
    @DestineCaius 2 роки тому

    Mel-San. Definitely a Mel-San

  • @tina09eg
    @tina09eg 2 роки тому +3

    I am both phlegmatic and melancholy.

  • @Jen_makes_ppt
    @Jen_makes_ppt 3 роки тому

    Seems the melancholic temperament is the most controversial among the four.

  • @timbam1000
    @timbam1000 3 роки тому

    Since anger is among the tendency of melancholics, am I sure I'm a melchol?! 🤔

  • @faithbishop1444
    @faithbishop1444 Рік тому

    I’m a Phelg😫😫😫😫

  • @DinmahMichael
    @DinmahMichael 3 роки тому +2

    Oh by the way they stole my biology note in school. Very detailed with drawings

  • @kongnyuisonita5055
    @kongnyuisonita5055 2 роки тому

    Melphleg here