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  • @rosyjupiter
    @rosyjupiter 2 роки тому +1146

    "i will not just f my way to the top of the company. i will f my way to the top of the world" was a girlboss move of that lady

    • @changingmind2522
      @changingmind2522 2 роки тому +33

      I want to meet her

    • @wig84
      @wig84 2 роки тому +81

      the "My teeth will regrow. I am sharklike." was also girlboss af

    • @Yourlocalsnatcher6
      @Yourlocalsnatcher6 3 місяці тому

      @@wig84fr

    • @xoxnataiie
      @xoxnataiie Місяць тому

      need to queen out with her

  • @camicovin2011
    @camicovin2011 2 роки тому +865

    "my teeth will regrow, I am shark-like and powerful" made me cackle. just so out of left field.

    • @hiraidiamond5933
      @hiraidiamond5933 2 роки тому +58

      I love the girl from that story she's sounds hilarious

    • @rjs2035
      @rjs2035 2 роки тому +13

      @@hiraidiamond5933 I know, I wanna meet her 😂

  • @jacksonsd6
    @jacksonsd6 2 роки тому +345

    the guy saying his mom had “nervous energy” was so funny to me😭 like is she a chihuahua?

  • @tannerv259
    @tannerv259 2 роки тому +305

    This video was so funny! My favorite part was when

  • @ImElliePaige
    @ImElliePaige 2 роки тому +169

    This was such a fun video to watch because you guys are actually so insightful and mature when you’re not screaming at each other in phasmophobia.

  • @Marissa-Gerrity
    @Marissa-Gerrity 2 роки тому +275

    This should honestly be a series! It's so funny!!!

  • @2hania
    @2hania 2 роки тому +181

    on my knees begging for you to make a part 2 to this

    • @FlowersOfAmity
      @FlowersOfAmity 2 роки тому +6

      they most definitely will, the ending is proof

    • @ameliaschulte
      @ameliaschulte 6 місяців тому +4

      One year later- PLEASE

  • @ruiinx
    @ruiinx 2 роки тому +593

    You guys need to do “ would you rather “ together it will be so fun

  • @angiegrande1989
    @angiegrande1989 2 роки тому +154

    jenn and the two boyfriends always slay

  • @oisin8940
    @oisin8940 2 роки тому +76

    Love you guys just chilling and talking! Hope you do more in th-

  • @ItsIliana
    @ItsIliana 2 роки тому +38

    18:36 OP IS ICONIC

  • @indyisthebestcat
    @indyisthebestcat 2 роки тому +69

    jenn and her boy friends

  • @changingmind2522
    @changingmind2522 2 роки тому +74

    I usually get bored with aita videos, but having a group of people debate these is so fun!

  • @imjustjordi
    @imjustjordi 2 роки тому +64

    me seeing Ricky just opened a whole part of my memory

  • @jadewahaila7162
    @jadewahaila7162 2 роки тому +24

    8:14 - this is so true but in my family we have these two cousins that are literally loud, annoying, and dont know how to respect boundaries, and everyone in the family knows it except their parents. their parents just see them as little angels 🤨

  • @AtinyKitty
    @AtinyKitty 2 роки тому +76

    The picky eater one hits close to home for me too. I'm super picky! I'm American and don't like most foods that aren't popular in America, even many that are. I had a Vietnamese boyfriend and his family got together often to eat. I wasn't comfortable with the food they made, so I brought my own meal and was still included. I think they were disappointed as they wanted to share, but that's all. It wasn't a huge fight or anything.

    • @notme8606
      @notme8606 2 роки тому +23

      @@cryfly1 the point isn't that picky eaters CAN'T eat something it's that they don't WANT to and no one should have to do things they don't want to do if there's a better option. Of course if someone is starving and the only thing available is something they don't like then yeah it'd be dumb not to eat it but that isn't the case most times. Like good for you for being able to eat foods you don't like but you shouldn't try to force that mindset on others. /nm

    • @notme8606
      @notme8606 2 роки тому +22

      @Cry Fly I'm sorry that you've grown up to think this way, but it's simply not true. Not eating someone's food is not disrespectful, and it's honestly a very old and outdated opinion. As someone who is a cook AND a picky eater I would never be offended if I made something for someone and they said "I'm sorry but I can't eat this because I don't like *xyz*" in fact I would never cook/buy something without asking the person if they liked it because THAT is self centered. Today, I went to a Thanksgiving party where multiple people brought different dishes, and none of them got upset with me when I declined their food. A compromise isn't doing something you don't want to do. A compromise is an agreement with both sides making concessions. It is not bratty to politely decline something, and it's definitely not childish in fact, I think the opposite. I get that we've been socially programmed that we should take what we're dished, but it's honestly a harmful narrative that leads to a lot of uncomfortable situations on both parts. Again, I'd hate it if I cooked something for someone, and they told me afterwards that they disliked it. It would make me feel like I've created an unsafe environment where they feel like they can't openly express their feelings without fear of my reaction. Also, the fact that you keep comparing "not wanting to do something" to a child is very weird, in my opinion, and honestly, it is very egotistical/conceited. An adult's opinion is in no way superior than a child, especially when it comes to such mundane things as what you choose to eat. I'm not going to cook meat and expect a vegetarian to eat it, I'm not going to cook gluten and expect someone who doesn't eat gluten to eat it, and I'm not going to cook cilantro and expect someone who hates cilantro to eat it because I care about my guests and as a cook I should be asking before doing (as you should with most things tbh). In no way would I think down on anyone for their preferred eating habits, and I don't think anyone else should either. So while you maybe didn't say "you should eat foods you don't like" you definitely implied it by asking, "You know you can, right?" ( btw, not to nitpick, is very condescending wording), which is why I decided to respond. Talking about your feelings and boundaries is not childish in fact its very mature, sorry. /nm

    • @notme8606
      @notme8606 2 роки тому +18

      @Cry Fly You do not know me. Not once did I make an assumption on how you grew up, and yet you did that to me. But since you assumed my background, I'll tell you it. I grew up poor, and my family struggled to make ends meet most of the time. My mom was a drug addict and we were basically hopping from place to place. When I was 8, the house we were basically squatting in burned down in a fire, and we lost everything. We were then homeless. We completely relied on gifted food/food banks to live. I didn't have access to water 24/7. I am an adult now, and we are just now at a place where we aren't completely struggling 24/7. So please do not try to say "you're privileged you don't understand". I have multiple disabilities, mental and physical, as does everyone in my family. We have had to walk hours to get medicine for my sister who has seizures. My body does not tell me when I'm hungry/full because food was so scarce that my brain did not develop that connection properly. I have never once thought the world revolved around me in fact, I've struggled with suicidal thoughts since I was 12 and have tried to attempt multiple times. When I said I'm a cook I meant I enjoy cooking for people not that I am a rich person who works at a restaurant. But none of that matters because not once did I say "everyone has access to whatever foods they want". Like I said previously, unless you do not have any other options, you CAN choose what to eat and what not to eat because it is your life and you deserve to be able to live it how you want to as much as you are able to without people like you guilting others into doing things they dont want. Of course I know people who get their feelings hurt when people don't eat their food, those people are childish, sorry, as someone whos gotten hurt from that before I can say that I just matured and got over it. I'm someone who will spend a whole day cooking food for people just because I want to and I don't expect them to eat everything, if I did I'd be the selfish/childish one. Also please do not preach to me about what Thanksgiving is about, I am Native American and do not need to be told to be thankful for what I have, it is a day of mourning and celebration of my people. You are not special or above other people just because you force yourself to do things you don't like, just like I am not special or above you. If you think someone bringing their own lunch because they prefer to eat their food is childish, then I'm sorry, but you are childish. I'm sorry to hear about your background, no one should ever have to go through that, but your background does not make you better than anyone in this case. I don't think I'm going to continue this conversation, seeing as you keep using very abrasive language/wording, and after I pointed out that you sound condescending, you doubled down?? Lol okay, but I hope you have a life you deserve and hope that maybe in the future you won't try to inforce your person opinions onto others :) /gen /nm (also happy holidays idk what you celebrate or if you even celebrate anything but still!! )

    • @tsukette.
      @tsukette. 2 роки тому +11

      @@cryfly1 it’s because as another picky eater, i physically can’t eat food i don’t like, as it makes me extremely nauseous and nervous, because there is also the fear of food poisoning that goes into me being a picky eater

    • @cole7726
      @cole7726 Рік тому +1

      ​@cryfly9854 you're wild. Please stop taking food personally.

  • @gmac11
    @gmac11 2 роки тому +30

    The post it note was funny and not weird it never would have been a problem if the mom didnt snoop

    • @999Svettie
      @999Svettie 12 годин тому

      RIGHTTT like don’t snoops through peoples stuff if you’re not gonna like what you find 😭😭

  • @lailacannon3492
    @lailacannon3492 2 роки тому +49

    Feel like My life revolves around waiting for jenn to upload atm 😂😂❤️❤️

  • @didionbabitz
    @didionbabitz 2 роки тому +64

    am i the [REDACTED]hole?

  • @kcylajones
    @kcylajones 2 роки тому +20

    my favorite people ever !!! today, i am feeling very thankful for u and ur two boy friends

  • @ymmit999
    @ymmit999 2 роки тому +22

    im just amazed at how well yall read these and barely stuttered

  • @joannanewbold9577
    @joannanewbold9577 2 роки тому +14

    i love this video this is a thanksgiving miracle thank you jenn

  • @katiegreenow3369
    @katiegreenow3369 2 роки тому +22

    There is no circumstances where that last guy is not the asshole

  • @rjs2035
    @rjs2035 2 роки тому +8

    WE WANT A PART 2 OF THIS TYPE OF STREAM🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @Twi_
    @Twi_ 2 роки тому +6

    You should do this more often! Love this type of videos feels like I’m with friends

  • @pizzabaddie
    @pizzabaddie 2 роки тому +2

    i’ve been watching your videos for so long!! i’ve really enjoyed watching you and your channels grow and change so much throughout the years. i would love to see you play the long dark and possible a few videos on it.

  • @tyishakeys
    @tyishakeys 2 роки тому +3

    “Y’all happy now⁉️” 😂😂😂

  • @mirasdiary
    @mirasdiary 2 роки тому +8

    happy thanksgiving queen

  • @itsyoungie
    @itsyoungie 2 роки тому +5

    JEN STOP I WAS JUST THINKING ABOUT U U MAKE ME SMILE ALOT UR LIKE MY FAMILY SO I LOVE U SM

  • @ruiinx
    @ruiinx 2 роки тому +5

    HAPPY THANKSGIVING JENN

  • @eddie7559
    @eddie7559 2 роки тому +12

    I LOVE HOLES

  • @shylahjohnson352
    @shylahjohnson352 Рік тому +9

    the finger getting amputated.. my opinion is UR NOT THE ASSHOLE.. my mom recently got both her legs amputated and i had to cut off a friend bc they weren’t there or seeious about the situation my mom was severely depressed and had multiple blood clots it took the biggest toll on her and my family i fully love her and will always cherish her no matter what forget that friend seriously IMAGINE GETTIHG SOMETHING OF UR BODY GETTING AMPUTATED???? like hello NOT THE ASSHOLE

    • @birdie7910
      @birdie7910 3 місяці тому

      Nah they're the asshole. I went through many surgeries and as much as I was stressed out. Hearing about other ppl's problems helped me a lot bc I felt like the world wasn't stopping for me. Everyone is different which is why it's important to communicate that you are not the type of person to be talking about friend breakups. They are the asshole for yelling at their friend instead of being respectful because at the end of the day, amputated person felt like they weren't taking her seriously and didn't understand the situation. The friend felt the same way with a different situation. Could've been resolved with communication. Everyone is different and everyone has different needs. I prefer to put my focus on other ppl when i'm sick and you, just like the girl in the post, like the opposite. Both very valid but it's up to YOU to tell ppl. Some prefer making jokes and make light of their own situations while some like to discuss the severity of it. YOU have the responsibility to share what you prefer. "Hey i'm going through this and i'd rather we not joke about it or bla bla bla" obviously if they keep going that's on them but in that situation it was a one time thing. She yelled, the friend left.

  • @mads_1210
    @mads_1210 2 роки тому +4

    oh my god i've seen "i'm in love with a mama's boy" on TLC and that shit is wildddd

  • @nessiefanatic
    @nessiefanatic Рік тому +3

    that dad is literally saying if his daughter wants her father to be at his wedding and pay for his half as promised, she can’t have not only her aunt and uncle but her COUSINS there, one of who is close enough with her to be a flower girl??? he’s TA for sure

  • @MilesDodsworth
    @MilesDodsworth 2 роки тому +4

    JENN AND THE MEN! RICKY AND THE J'S! JACOB AND THE GAYS!! MY FAVOURITE BAND

  • @neodxlso
    @neodxlso 2 роки тому +7

    just jenn and her boy…friends

  • @novaelizabethhh
    @novaelizabethhh Рік тому

    LMFAOOOO @ 43:06 "pull up to thanksgiving with McDonalds"

  • @gcmatters
    @gcmatters 2 роки тому +8

    Jenn you NEED to play the game A Little To The Left! I'm 100% sure you'll love it!

  • @marisamcbroom
    @marisamcbroom 2 роки тому +10

    Petition for episode 2 of AITA

  • @mondler107
    @mondler107 2 роки тому

    LMAOOOO plsss the wallet story is EVERYTHING 🤣

  • @jadathai88
    @jadathai88 2 роки тому +4

    baking video with jenn and the men PLS 🫶

  • @beam.ay1313
    @beam.ay1313 2 роки тому +4

    jenn you should play episode again, a story suggestion i have for you is mystery on hanging hill lane

  • @kirstenbrowne9223
    @kirstenbrowne9223 2 роки тому

    Really enjoyed it, I would definitely love to see a part 2 but also, I'd love to see you play cooking simulator, minecraft or a new sims series

  • @karmalicious7551
    @karmalicious7551 2 роки тому +2

    oh my god,, core memory unlocked!

  • @meowziv
    @meowziv Рік тому +1

    the picky eater story is a really YTA moment like this one made me so sad. TT i always bring my own food to a lot of places because i'm heavily uncomfortable and often feel ill when i eat foods i don't like. it's actually gotten worse as i've gotten older. him AND the mother are both the assholes. I'm glad she spent it with her family.

  • @mondler107
    @mondler107 2 роки тому +3

    "By the way, the title of this one is: "Am I the @$$hole for calling the police on my mother in law" 🤣💀

  • @maddy7418
    @maddy7418 25 днів тому

    I’m playing this over my speaker as I do dishes. I hope it’s not too wild and my neighbors judge me for it

  • @galeflower3272
    @galeflower3272 Рік тому +1

    Should do more of these

  • @kianaawai
    @kianaawai 2 роки тому +5

    we need a reddit series !!

  • @brissarodriguez4840
    @brissarodriguez4840 2 роки тому +5

    for the brothers and the wedding i think he wasn’t the asshole because his brother and his cheating ex got married. it’s a constant reminder. if he is going to be paying for half the wedding, then he gets a say on who is invited or not. in my opinion, i would respect my father’s boundaries because he is my father. my father comes before my uncle.

    • @brissarodriguez4840
      @brissarodriguez4840 2 роки тому

      although, i do think he could’ve gone and maybe avoided them? but he would still see his brother and the girl be happy and he might feel sad or angry. and who knows what could’ve happened if he went. Maybe the dad would’ve gotten too drunk and started problems at the wedding, and in the end would take the attention away from his daughter.

    • @mymelody9966
      @mymelody9966 2 роки тому +2

      i dont think the fact he pays for the wedding means he gets to have a say in that. it's a cultural thing, you pay because you love your daughter, not because you want to have some kind of control over the wedding planning. that's just weird. he's an adult man that definitely could have just avoided them for one day for his daughters sake

    • @matheusd123
      @matheusd123 8 місяців тому

      exactly, and the daughter literally built a relationship with the uncle in secret for years and close to the wedding wanted her father's understanding? the daughter is the asshole 100%, or at least have the knowlege that if your uncle is coming your dad won't go. imagine being betrayed by your brother and having to deal with that for the rest of your life, and then being betrayed by your own daughter that coudn't even be honest with you for years.

  • @camerontreyy5395
    @camerontreyy5395 2 роки тому +4

    Like the video every time one of these stories involves family harassment

  • @gefen314
    @gefen314 2 роки тому

    I want more
    This is so entertaining

  • @mariethesizzler
    @mariethesizzler Рік тому

    This is so annoying! Specially the laptop story! I relate so much 😒 my little nephew shattered my moms mirror and his mom just laughed and didn't replace it.....I was and still am mad! I hate those type of parents

  • @michaelwade9170
    @michaelwade9170 2 роки тому +2

    Hi Jenn Happy Thanksgiving 🦃 & I hope you like your new Scooby-Doo John Cena Figure enjoy your Holiday

  • @ToxicGals
    @ToxicGals 2 роки тому

    We need more of this

  • @briclare
    @briclare 10 місяців тому +1

    watching 🌽 is crazy but watching it on someone else’s laptop is INSANEEEEE

  • @loganatorexit
    @loganatorexit 2 роки тому +3

    I suggest you guys all play ‘The Devil in Me” if y’all ever looking for a new scary game.

  • @hyukaLuvr
    @hyukaLuvr 2 роки тому

    PLEASE a part 2 😭😭😭

  • @Stryder3
    @Stryder3 2 роки тому +1

    Yes plz do this again with more diverse answers 😂

  • @jacksonsd6
    @jacksonsd6 2 роки тому +1

    my power

  • @Nekarion_n
    @Nekarion_n 5 місяців тому +2

    That dude with the Thanksgiving story about his wife not eating his mother's cooking is DEFINITELY the asshole and his wife should not be his wife.. what if she has allergies or stomach problems or sensory issues like food textures. Her compromise was very mature and thoughtful and he was very rude and not willing to compromise with her. It's okay to not like certain foods and not wanting to eat them. It's so stupid when people are so hurt by others' food preferences. It's not personal??? what's the issue??
    EDIT: And his update was very immature and childish.. he is no husband that any woman should have to deal with. Hoping she leaves him for his behavior.

  • @coney_island_queen
    @coney_island_queen 2 роки тому +2

    How can people live their lives knowing that their kids are MENACES.

  • @HannahDrone
    @HannahDrone Рік тому +1

    Jacob reading is so me

  • @cait1774
    @cait1774 2 роки тому +4

    For your next video with your boyfriendz, you should read fanfic of yourselves

  • @shannon_skye
    @shannon_skye 4 місяці тому

    Make a part 2‼️

  • @erminbegic
    @erminbegic 2 роки тому

    i didint finish the video first time i watched it cause i feel asleep and am rewatching it but omg u deciding on what u would double still😭

  • @jessicam6841
    @jessicam6841 2 роки тому +5

    Where’s sims series 😭

  • @rox2001
    @rox2001 2 роки тому

    45:27 Ricky is so funny pls 😭😭

  • @ax.olotls
    @ax.olotls Рік тому +2

    Jenn, you should do another AITA stream but with viewer submissions!

  • @cassandraclover777
    @cassandraclover777 Рік тому +1

    the person who had their finger cut off it NTA AT ALLLLLL!!! i've been in that situation sooo many times as a chronically ill person. you don't ramble & rant about your problems to someone lying in a hospital bed in agony unless they ask you to to distract them. gossip can be a fun distraction lol but only if its invited in that situation. the poster was not the one being careless of a friend's feelings, their friend was.

  • @parkerfrazo8376
    @parkerfrazo8376 2 роки тому

    chat is sending me omfg

  • @tearsfordears
    @tearsfordears Рік тому +1

    The complaining about someone to a friend thats about to go through surgery is absolutely NTA 😭

  • @444haileyy
    @444haileyy 2 роки тому +3

    I think you should play Jackbox with Jacob and Ricky!!!

  • @chronicallysoap
    @chronicallysoap Рік тому +1

    the dad in the "not paying for my daughters wedding" one was the asshole. it's her family and her wedding and she wants her dad there as well as her uncle! he should be able to recognize that this is important to his daughter and set aside his feelings for one singular night.

  • @YourGuyDan
    @YourGuyDan 6 місяців тому +1

    why was jacob so contrarian for no reason like damn why are all men like this

  • @meowziv
    @meowziv Рік тому

    how do u get ur bangs to look so nice ong every time i see u they look so amaze

  • @F4YRUZ
    @F4YRUZ 2 роки тому +2

    Let’s find out

  • @mariethesizzler
    @mariethesizzler Рік тому

    "What about me?!"
    *crickets*

  • @elle-oh1of
    @elle-oh1of 2 роки тому

    yes

  • @Indihannah4
    @Indihannah4 2 роки тому

    More! More! More!

  • @slaymamas
    @slaymamas 2 роки тому +2

    pls the censor beep is sending me

  • @angiegrande1989
    @angiegrande1989 2 роки тому

    im still not over rickys performances he ate that up

  • @isabellaspisok1138
    @isabellaspisok1138 2 роки тому

    It’s time for Jenn to go on Two Hot Takes

  • @that._.w3ird._.person97
    @that._.w3ird._.person97 2 роки тому +1

    Just got here but pretty sure ita another good video

  • @abbym11111
    @abbym11111 2 роки тому

    That was my favorite part tooo- :0000

  • @shaneebersole6050
    @shaneebersole6050 2 роки тому +2

    it’s me, Hi! I’m the problem it’s me.

  • @erminbegic
    @erminbegic 2 роки тому

    YEASSS

  • @angelviolet8252
    @angelviolet8252 2 роки тому

    Yassss❤❤❤

  • @flinderssss
    @flinderssss 2 роки тому +1

    surely the next stream is would you rather

  • @iseetheWAYVision
    @iseetheWAYVision 2 роки тому

    20:06 a slay honestly

  • @annabelodom1638
    @annabelodom1638 Рік тому

    as a picky eater, I just don't eat at family events lol

  • @MadisonM1
    @MadisonM1 2 роки тому +1

    I think with the picky eater thing she could have brought food she herself would eat, but enough for others to have someone. That way it doesn’t seem like a clear disrespect to the mom, but just her contributing and making sure she has food to eat. I understand not wanting to offend the one cooking for everyone, but the fact that he didn’t defend her in the first place about the food issue and then didn’t appreciate her compromise…And then he told her not to come which is unnecessary and hurtful and literally choosing sides. I could understand him saying things he doesn’t mean but then after that you tuck your tail between your legs and apologize and beg your wife to spend it with your family because you want her there.

  • @crysmol
    @crysmol Рік тому +1

    the porn virus story:
    its not unrealistic. when i was like 10? a full grown ass man had stayed with us, used MY laptop to look up porn n jack off to it, my mom ended up catching him ( thankfully not me or my brother ) and kicked him out. he was staying in our living room too, so it was super possible for me or my brother to have found out, some ppl are just really fucked.

  • @gcmatters
    @gcmatters 2 роки тому

    never been this early omg jenn i fucking love youuuu!!!!!

  • @mckenzieroeder2157
    @mckenzieroeder2157 Рік тому +1

    is that fuckin jacob whitesides?!😂

  • @bumblebeeboba1408
    @bumblebeeboba1408 2 роки тому +1

    Why did no one mention that the 13 year old boy was watching 🌽 at a family event 😭

  • @carleebarrett1226
    @carleebarrett1226 Рік тому +1

    Can you play The RATCHELOR IS REALLY FUN

  • @mohamedninja85
    @mohamedninja85 2 роки тому

    HI TWITCH SEE YOU COMMENTE WELCOME BACK

  • @z_bennet4208
    @z_bennet4208 2 місяці тому

    jacob was being a brat about the finger story

  • @camerontreyy5395
    @camerontreyy5395 2 роки тому +2

    Personally I don’t think you’re the [CENSORED]