Ntuj aw. Yog neb hlub neb txiv Ces thaum neb twb loj no Ces neb yeej ntiav neb txiv lawm. Neb yeej tsis hlub neb txiv na. Yog neb txiv tsis muaj cov nyiaj no tso tseg rau neb Ces ntshe nej pab niam tub yeej tsis k txog neb txiv li os. Yog yus yuav hlub yus niam yus txiv mas yuav tsum hlub thaum luag tseem muaj txoj sis tsis txhob cia tos txog thaum luag twb tuag lawm es yus mam muab los ua dab neeg hais qhuas rau Tom qab xwb.
Too little too late. I guess money CAN buy love. I'm sure if not for your father's $200k, you wouldn't be telling this story. You even said yourself that you didn't care first when your friend told you about your dad and second, when your aunt told you about your dad being ill. It's only after you heard you got $100k and your brother also got $100k that you started to care.
Yeah I agree too. You would think after the years of abuses that they would tu siab and would want to reach out for their real dad out of curiosity to want to see if their dad treat them any different. Even when they have the chance, they still didn’t even try. But now when there is money involved oh my real dad love is the best! ????
Why didn't everyone get the principle of the story. It is not the money that they come after or because they got their dad's inherited that they talked nice about him. It the matter that they never get close to him so they don't know how to react anymore.. she is sorry already.
I’m disappointed in you for not making the effort to see your dad even after you found out the truth from your mom and heard of your dad’s sickness. You really should have made the effort to at least go see him. The worst thing about divorcing is brainwashing your kids to hate the other parent. Being divorced myself I never said anything bad about my ex. Let the kids see it for themselves and encourage them to have a relationship with the other parent. Your mom wronged you guys. She didn’t think she needed your dad and so she brainwashed you guys to hate him. Your mom got her karma for what she did to your dad. I hate women/men like that.
I am not disappointed. Time is what buy it through. I said this because I hope someday my kids will come through too. When one parent make it every possible bad about the other. Life it hard.
Sister u & ur brother never made any effort r attempt to see ur Dad, even after ur mom confessed & ur friend & ur Aunt urged u to go see him & told u how much he missed u & ur bro. Now u only miss him becuz of his life insurance money. Looks like u have ur mother's heart too.
It's not black and white like you think. Many times, the parent with custody file a restraining order preventing the other parent from seeing their children. Sometime they move across the country to hide. With privacy laws and protective services, it would be extremely difficult for the non custodial parent to locate their children. Even if the children are located, it would require tremendous amount of financial and time resources to reopen a custodial case in court in a different jurisdiction.
It took $200k for you and your brother to realized how much your dad loved you both? I understand your mom manipulated you and your brother when you both were young, but as an adult you chose not to know your dad and see for yourself the type of person he really is. $$$ sure changed your perspective of him... sadly after he's gone already.
This story does not need to be told. This story is so irritating. It's about you and your brother not caring about your father so I don't understand why it's being told.
As parents, one shouldn’t bath mouth the other parent to the kids even in divorce. The kids will find out and they do observe the parent. Kids are not stupid. Even after divorce, no need to bath mouth. Let the kids choose, she shouldn’t have done that to keep the kids to herself. She’s very selfish to do that. And those niam tais cob ntxhais mas dhuav tshaj plaws. Glad your mom realized it, but it’s too late and she will only have to regret it what she did to your dad. Your dad is a good dad.
So sad they're old enough to find their dad and know who he is but they chose not find too till its too late. If their dad didn't leave his life insurance to them I think they will not even care too.
Wow, even though your mom lied to you and your brother but you guys never took the chance to reach out to your dad after your mom admitted. You and your brother know deep down that your father never did anything bad to you guys from the start, it was just between your your mom and dad and yet you guys still chose to not reach out to find him. I feel sad for your father. May he RIP and next lifetime be better for him.
@@judysaykao-lee7336 she knows where her dad is when he still alive but chose not to have anything with him cuz he is sick, she only love him after he pass away and gave her the insurance money.
I agree ....if you had a wonderful life with your step dad and believed your mom's lies, that's more understandable that you didn't make an effort. Your life was miserable with your mom's second husband, you should have made that extra effort to see him the first time you found out who he was ...even though you weren't close to him. You're probably only saying all these nice things about your dad after getting the hundred grand.
It’s not their fault. They grow-up being told their dad is bad. The same thing as we grow knowing demon is bad. How do we know? We don’t. This is from people mouth.
Well that true too but when her friend n aunt told her that their dad very miss them n been looking for them all the times also he is illness too but she doesn’t care at all when it come to the money part then she’s very care Her bro n her have been abused from their step dad but end up know that their biological father very love,care, n looking for them but act like she not hear anything at all n her tears never drop for this at all heartless
@@hangc10 their mom already told them the truth while their dad still alive and they both know where he is but chose not to go see him. They only say they love him after he gave them $200k of life insurance
Cas twb Hais npaum ntawv los cas tsis mloog thiab tsis mus saib nas tsis tsim nyog neb 2 nus muag tau neb txiv qhov nyiaj li os… tsis tsim yug neb li os
In a divorce, women almost always have the power to get custody of the children in this country. And most of them would bad mouth (lies) about the father so they wouldn't go to him because she needs the child support. She wants to make sure he would not have a good life. The children get brainwashed and suffered at the end. Women need to stop lying and preventing the kids to have visitations with their father.
So sad how you and your brother didn't give a care about your dad even after your mom told you two the truth. 😪😪 I feel so sad for your father. He deserves so much more.
Sad that your father did not get to see his children during his time leaving this earth. He still left both of you his life insurance. I wish u both the best and hopefully remember his love in ur heart.
You had many chances to meet your father. I made the decision to meet my dad. I understand that his love will be different because he didn’t raise us and he has other kids but in the end I know deep down that I got the answers I looked for. If you don’t ask you will never know.
PLEASE, MAY, just say "txiv/niam tshiab" when referring to the step dad/step mom and just keep it like that throughout the whole story!!! In any story PLEEEEEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's your mom fault for failure to protect u from your step dad abusive u both. It wrong for your mom to take u both away from your dad. I'm glad you both found out the truth. Stay away from your step dad n your mom since u got money.
I agree if it were not for the life insurance. We may never hear this story. She sounds like a splitting image of her mother, only want the dad when it benefits her. When she didn’t know, she did not know. But after getting beat and torture by the stepfather and after hearing her mother admit that her birth dad was a good person, this girl still chose to ignore her father when on his death bed. What a waste of this man’s life to suffer so much for kids and a horrible wife that never loved him. When he coulda moved on to start a new life and have kids with a loving wife that will love him. Then he wouldn’t even have to die alone.
Yus yug thiaj mob siab thiaj hlub xwb os txhob cia siab tias koj mus yuav tus tshiab es luag yuav hlub koj cov me nyuam. Zoo siab nrog neb ob nus muag os txiv txoj kev hlub yeej loj dua lwm tus
Kuv tus ntxhais niam coj los mas zoo li kuv tseem hlub dua cov kuv yug. Vim kuv xav tias yuav tau hlub nws tshaj zog nws thiaj tsis tu siab. Good story. Thank you for sharing.
That is sad. Sounds like your Mom didn't have a good reason to leave your Dad at all, that was stupid of her. Your Dad leaving you both the insurance policies already says alot of how much he loves you two. RIP to your dad.
So the whole points of the story is love your dad because he gives you insurance policy. I hope your dad never meet you guys again, this life or next. You, your brother and your mom don't deserve his love.
Nej cov me nyuam ntsuag txiv koj na tsis txhob ntseeg ntseeg nej niam tej lus dag hais tias nej txiv no yog tus phem! Tsam muaj ib hnub nej tau kev tws ces nej txiv qub twb tu siab rau nej lawm thiab!
Ua cas neb twb tias neb Nim ntshiav2 neb txiv ua cas thaum paub tias neb txiv nyob qhov twg ua cas neb ho twb tsis mus saib thiab neb hnov neb txiv lub moo twb tsis yg 1 zaug twb 2-3 lawm neb yg tsis muaj life insurance ces lub npe txiv siab zoo twb tsis hais txog pob Yom dag tiag2
Thaum me ces tsi paub xyov yog tim leej twg. Tab si thauj koj loj lawm koj hnov txog koj txiv lub moo los koj twb tsi K. 🤔🤔🤔🤔 yog txiv tsi tseg nyiaj es txiv lub npe zoo puas yuav muaj tu hnov, just wondering 🤔🤔🤔
This is my life right now, l haven't seen my 2 children's in 15 months because my ex wife took them and moved outta state. I miss them both alot....Hopefully, one day.....GOD will return them both back to me.
Why didn't you go to court and 50/50 custody. You could've prevented her from being able to take the kids and moving out of state. You could work with her and get visitation alternating holidays. Especially if your paying child support
My precious & Koua Vang : I'll just let karma do it's job. Eventually, she'll fucked up on her own someday and I'll go and press charge. She did me dirty and ive got proofs to have her lock up then ill just go and pick them up.
@Koua Vang well 99.99% chances are kid's will be place wmom unless she's unfit or you both have an arrangement. But we all know that women can be very bitter and hateful, plus they want that child support. Divorce isn't easy on the kids. Get joint custody. Mom Monday to Thursday and dad Friday to Sunday. Unless you fight and go to court to make arrangements, you'll not see your kids especially if your ex hates you.
I don’t understand why after years of the abuses from your step dad that you guys don’t try harder to reach and gave your biological dad a chance. Your loss but I agree if it wasn’t for the money you wouldn’t be here telling this story. If you are not anything like your mom when u have kids you will know the unconditional love your dad have for you and your brother.
If you are a divorced parent and keeping your children from your ex out of spite, please rethink your decision. Your decision will negatively affect your children in the long run. Life’s too short to have any regrets. To the daughter and son who’s loving father left you $200k in life insurance, I don’t blame you for making the decision not to see you father, although it was the wrong decision, it’s a lesson learned. May you never ever behave like your mother and keep your children from your spouse/partner.
After parents divorce, whoever takes care if u is one who care more about u. ..if father really care about u, he would have done at court to have u with him. ...most divorced parents care kids at the time they need care of kids only ...do not assume that mom is bad. At least she feed/care of u in bad n good... ... ...any parents u live with... after they marry 2nd, they do not really care about u. ..any parents after they remarry they do not really want u no more. .
Shame on you for not even considering to visit him once at all even after you heard the truth from your mom. Too late and you shouldn’t cried at all or use his money at all.
You will have children one day. Pray they will have mercy on you - unlike you who didn’t have any for your dad. Seems like your mom may have helped you because she is hoping to have some of that life insurance money one day. Shame on all of you!
Yes, this is the encouragement the children need to hear only. They need no more judgmental issues. They are fold blind by someone else that is also their right hand.
You and your brother should be ashamed of yourself for accepting your father's life insurance money. That money, after paying for the funeral and spirit releasing ceremony, should have been given to family members who actually helped care for your father. Although you both were lied to by your mother about your father, she admitted her cruel lies to you both when there was still plenty of time to reunite with your father, but you both CHOSE NOT to find him. A normal person would have gotten angry at the mother for lying to them all these years and soon after start searching for their father to make up for loss time. Even when you finally were told about his whereabouts, you still CHOSE NOT to visit him. You are making lots of excuses and I don't buy it since you & your brother were both adults when you found out the truth. The only person I feel sorry for is your late father. I don't even feel badly about you & your brother's mistreatment by your step-father after I heard that you made excuses to yourself (and to us in your story) to not reunite with your father who was actually a very good husband and parent. Your mother was at fault up until she told you & your brother the truth. After that, the fault of not reuniting with your father was on you two. You will have to live with the guilt and shame for not reaching out to him for years before he died.
I had to say, my husband Ex did the same thing (lied), to their kids too, same way. One day, they had the courage to ask their dad, and he tells them the truth. Please be truthful so the kids can have both parents.
I’m sorry you never got a chance to see your dad before he passed away. All of you missed the opportunity to get to see and live each other. Your mother is a selfish person. She did that to you and crushed your father’s heart for her own self. How sad. I wish you a happy marriage and am glad you and your brother survived the darkest days of being abused by your step father. Love the people who love you, your brother.❤❤
Yeah, she was brain washed into believing her father was a horrible father, husband and person. Being continually abused by their step father, it would have been easily convinced them that their father is no different than their step father. There would be no benefit for them to search out their birth father to learn the truth.
twb nyob meskas teb no lawm es tseem cia neb rau txiv tshiab tsim neb na report rau school xwb mas hos koj niam mas nyuam qhuav haum mag txiv tshiab tsim xwb od.
Annoys me to the max when people try to make peace after someone is already dead! 🙄 you know what?!?! If you don't give a damn about someone when alive, just don't try to be anything else when dead. If he didn't leave you that money, you would have continued to label him deadbeat! And no story to tell here.
Fathers love their kids as much if not more than mothers. Who can protect the children other than the father... cuz even the mother sometimes need protection. But in the US, the law is on women's side so women tend to use the children to get back at the husband. I can understand if the husband is truly abusive and has affairs but when the wife is the one who's abusive and having an affair, the wife also uses the children to torment the husband.
I'd say any Parent who wants full custody of their Children, make sure you are assertive enough to take care of your children when your current spouse don't love them! If not, leave them because you can't love them & stop being selfish!!!
What a selfish woman anyone who said they loved their children but yet they turned their children against the children’s mom or dad then they don’t know the meaning of love because your children always come first don’t ever using your children against each other just to punished & hurt the other parent of course if the other parent is abusing the child or children then you have to do everything you possibly can to protecting your children otherwise put your problems aside and put your first and let both parents be in the children’s lives!
She should know better how can some one else can love you more than your own flesh. she’s very selfish took that love from your dad away from you kids..for her own desires.
I hope he comes back and get that lady. What a heartless person she is. I knew the heartache of kids and as parents, that's why after my divorced, I still let my kids go see the ex-wife. Kids are innocent.
I feel sorry for your father. Wish he had better daughter. You could of at least let your brother know. 🤦♀️ how could you be so heartless? I don't get it. Sorry not sorry for you.
I couldn't believe you believed your mom too much, but not your dad at all. When you heard about his health and where dad was, you didn't even care go see him while still alive. If he didn't have 200k life ins, you still didn't want to go to his funeral. Your dad is the only one has good n big heart in your family. It's too late to say your birth dad is a good guy.
I despise parents whom used their kids against the other parent. A person never know the truth until the death of one. I feel sorry for your dad, but not for you and your brother. As you grew you were able to make that decision to reach out to your father. You ignore what they told you. You didn't want to see your father when he was ill. That was your choice not your mother. If your father did not passed you probably wouldn't even contact him. That sorrow will be with you for the rest of your life and everyday that you use the money he left behind for the two of you. Your father is in a better place- may he rest in peace.
90% of divorces are filed and initiated by women! We men don't want to avoid marriage, we just want to avoid divorce. Sadly in this modern era we live in, this is a believe all women. This story is heartbreaking
Call the cops , people need to go to jail so no one will be hurt. Irresponsible parents that Are not able to protect their kids . You choose an abuser aver your kids should also go to jail
Most peoe have no self awareness and don't see what they do wrong. I've seen many abusive spouse/parents claim they are great. They can love and still be abusive and it won't be enough to stay.
Vuag cas neb txiv tshiab yuav siab phem siab nyoos ua luaj os koj niam los ntshe txiv tuag tag xwb thiaj yuav thiab os tos neb txoj nyem siab ntsws npaum ko os!
You should listen to your friend and your Auntie. You so stupid. Now you got your dad life insurance and go back to love your dad ?. Shaij tshaj koj na. You will so regret why not visit your dad before he passes. Now you got to becarefull your txiv tshiab will poison you. Hlig dhau lawm. Thaum neb loj neb muaj chances mus hriav neb txiv. Too late hope you don't get your mom bad heart.
Ntuj aw. Yog neb hlub neb txiv Ces thaum neb twb loj no Ces neb yeej ntiav neb txiv lawm. Neb yeej tsis hlub neb txiv na. Yog neb txiv tsis muaj cov nyiaj no tso tseg rau neb Ces ntshe nej pab niam tub yeej tsis k txog neb txiv li os. Yog yus yuav hlub yus niam yus txiv mas yuav tsum hlub thaum luag tseem muaj txoj sis tsis txhob cia tos txog thaum luag twb tuag lawm es yus mam muab los ua dab neeg hais qhuas rau Tom qab xwb.
yog kawg
Yog
Yog tshaj li os
Too little too late. I guess money CAN buy love. I'm sure if not for your father's $200k, you wouldn't be telling this story. You even said yourself that you didn't care first when your friend told you about your dad and second, when your aunt told you about your dad being ill. It's only after you heard you got $100k and your brother also got $100k that you started to care.
Image she has to come up with money to do her dad’s funeral, the story would be different.
Yeah I agree too. You would think after the years of abuses that they would tu siab and would want to reach out for their real dad out of curiosity to want to see if their dad treat them any different. Even when they have the chance, they still didn’t even try. But now when there is money involved oh my real dad love is the best! ????
Why didn't everyone get the principle of the story. It is not the money that they come after or because they got their dad's inherited that they talked nice about him. It the matter that they never get close to him so they don't know how to react anymore.. she is sorry already.
......GOOD one. One good man. Tear jerky story for some good men. You know who you are! Stay blessed and stay strong.
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Neb 2 nus muag siab yeej phem kawg twb hnov hais tias neb txiv yug neb mob2 no los neb twb tsis k txog neb txiv li Yog neb tsis tau neb qhov nyiaj ces hnub no koj yeej tawm tuaj qhuas txog koj txiv txoj kev hlub li
Parents who use their kids against each other are evil themselves. That’s all I can say
Amen
I’m disappointed in you for not making the effort to see your dad even after you found out the truth from your mom and heard of your dad’s sickness. You really should have made the effort to at least go see him. The worst thing about divorcing is brainwashing your kids to hate the other parent. Being divorced myself I never said anything bad about my ex. Let the kids see it for themselves and encourage them to have a relationship with the other parent. Your mom wronged you guys. She didn’t think she needed your dad and so she brainwashed you guys to hate him. Your mom got her karma for what she did to your dad. I hate women/men like that.
I am not disappointed. Time is what buy it through. I said this because I hope someday my kids will come through too. When one parent make it every possible bad about the other. Life it hard.
Sister u & ur brother never made any effort r attempt to see ur Dad, even after ur mom confessed & ur friend & ur Aunt urged u to go see him & told u how much he missed u & ur bro. Now u only miss him becuz of his life insurance money. Looks like u have ur mother's heart too.
I agreed.
For real
Yup
True...if you truly loved your Dad, you would've made an effort to meet him when he was dying 😢
Agreed 👍. He never got the chance to see you both . He probably won't recognize either one of you even in death.
As a man of a house. This story brings my tears 😭. Wow such sad story miserably
It's not black and white like you think. Many times, the parent with custody file a restraining order preventing the other parent from seeing their children. Sometime they move across the country to hide. With privacy laws and protective services, it would be extremely difficult for the non custodial parent to locate their children. Even if the children are located, it would require tremendous amount of financial and time resources to reopen a custodial case in court in a different jurisdiction.
It took $200k for you and your brother to realized how much your dad loved you both? I understand your mom manipulated you and your brother when you both were young, but as an adult you chose not to know your dad and see for yourself the type of person he really is. $$$ sure changed your perspective of him... sadly after he's gone already.
This story does not need to be told. This story is so irritating. It's about you and your brother not caring about your father so I don't understand why it's being told.
Yep.
As parents, one shouldn’t bath mouth the other parent to the kids even in divorce. The kids will find out and they do observe the parent. Kids are not stupid. Even after divorce, no need to bath mouth. Let the kids choose, she shouldn’t have done that to keep the kids to herself. She’s very selfish to do that. And those niam tais cob ntxhais mas dhuav tshaj plaws. Glad your mom realized it, but it’s too late and she will only have to regret it what she did to your dad. Your dad is a good dad.
So sad they're old enough to find their dad and know who he is but they chose not find too till its too late. If their dad didn't leave his life insurance to them I think they will not even care too.
Wow, even though your mom lied to you and your brother but you guys never took the chance to reach out to your dad after your mom admitted. You and your brother know deep down that your father never did anything bad to you guys from the start, it was just between your your mom and dad and yet you guys still chose to not reach out to find him. I feel sad for your father. May he RIP and next lifetime be better for him.
Time will tell. I feel 4 the kids too. When you don't see it through u can't see. Until some hit it through. Stop negative talked about them
@judysaykao-lee7336 it's true ppl always like to negative talk but wait till it hits them, they will understand
@@judysaykao-lee7336 she knows where her dad is when he still alive but chose not to have anything with him cuz he is sick, she only love him after he pass away and gave her the insurance money.
Thanks for sharing your story sister it’s sad story wishing you and your brother all the happiness and blessings in life
You don’t even deserve your dad’s life insurance money. You didn’t even make an effort to see him
I agree ....if you had a wonderful life with your step dad and believed your mom's lies, that's more understandable that you didn't make an effort. Your life was miserable with your mom's second husband, you should have made that extra effort to see him the first time you found out who he was ...even though you weren't close to him. You're probably only saying all these nice things about your dad after getting the hundred grand.
Agreed, money can buy love😢I’m feel srry for her dad
It’s not their fault. They grow-up being told their dad is bad. The same thing as we grow knowing demon is bad. How do we know? We don’t. This is from people mouth.
Well that true too but when her friend n aunt told her that their dad very miss them n been looking for them all the times also he is illness too but she doesn’t care at all when it come to the money part then she’s very care Her bro n her have been abused from their step dad but end up know that their biological father very love,care, n looking for them but act like she not hear anything at all n her tears never drop for this at all heartless
@@hangc10 their mom already told them the truth while their dad still alive and they both know where he is but chose not to go see him. They only say they love him after he gave them $200k of life insurance
Cas twb Hais npaum ntawv los cas tsis mloog thiab tsis mus saib nas tsis tsim nyog neb 2 nus muag tau neb txiv qhov nyiaj li os… tsis tsim yug neb li os
Use your parent’s life example and be a good parent for your own family ok, never let history repeat again.
......GOOD one. One good man. Tear jerky story for some good men. You know who you are! Stay blessed and stay strong.
Mloog zaj no nrog koj thiab koj txiv tu siab os
Every case is different when it comes to being divorce. This lady have no right to brainwash her kids when this is her and his problem.
Her mom is a typical maum dev who cheated, ruined the family and used the kids to hurt their father... Hope he comes grab her in sleep
Koj txiv thiaj yog lub ntuj nawj miv ntxhais
What's a sad, disappointed, painful story I ever heard. I'm feel sad for the father.
In a divorce, women almost always have the power to get custody of the children in this country. And most of them would bad mouth (lies) about the father so they wouldn't go to him because she needs the child support. She wants to make sure he would not have a good life. The children get brainwashed and suffered at the end. Women need to stop lying and preventing the kids to have visitations with their father.
So sad how you and your brother didn't give a care about your dad even after your mom told you two the truth. 😪😪 I feel so sad for your father. He deserves so much more.
Sad that your father did not get to see his children during his time leaving this earth. He still left both of you his life insurance. I wish u both the best and hopefully remember his love in ur heart.
hai tau zoo heev li o🥰
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Wow tu siab ua li os ntuj aw!!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
You had many chances to meet your father. I made the decision to meet my dad. I understand that his love will be different because he didn’t raise us and he has other kids but in the end I know deep down that I got the answers I looked for. If you don’t ask you will never know.
PLEASE, MAY, just say "txiv/niam tshiab" when referring to the step dad/step mom and just keep it like that throughout the whole story!!! In any story PLEEEEEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's your mom fault for failure to protect u from your step dad abusive u both. It wrong for your mom to take u both away from your dad. I'm glad you both found out the truth. Stay away from your step dad n your mom since u got money.
You are wrong for not wanting to go see your dad. You had few chances but you didn't care. Sad.
She didn't care. She only pretended after she got the money.
I agree if it were not for the life insurance. We may never hear this story. She sounds like a splitting image of her mother, only want the dad when it benefits her. When she didn’t know, she did not know. But after getting beat and torture by the stepfather and after hearing her mother admit that her birth dad was a good person, this girl still chose to ignore her father when on his death bed. What a waste of this man’s life to suffer so much for kids and a horrible wife that never loved him. When he coulda moved on to start a new life and have kids with a loving wife that will love him. Then he wouldn’t even have to die alone.
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Koj tseem yuav mus ua lub neej koj tseem yuav muaj koj ib cov thiab es koj mas li paub os.
Ua caa neb ob tug me nyuam lub siab yuav nyoos thiab tawv ua luaj li ho ntseeg niam xwb es tsi noog yu txiv li
Yus yug thiaj mob siab thiaj hlub xwb os txhob cia siab tias koj mus yuav tus tshiab es luag yuav hlub koj cov me nyuam. Zoo siab nrog neb ob nus muag os txiv txoj kev hlub yeej loj dua lwm tus
Kuv tus ntxhais niam coj los mas zoo li kuv tseem hlub dua cov kuv yug. Vim kuv xav tias yuav tau hlub nws tshaj zog nws thiaj tsis tu siab. Good story. Thank you for sharing.
That is sad. Sounds like your Mom didn't have a good reason to leave your Dad at all, that was stupid of her. Your Dad leaving you both the insurance policies already says alot of how much he loves you two. RIP to your dad.
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I feel sorry for the dad. If he didn't leave the kids any $, the kids probably never acknowledged that he was a good dad
Yog Niam Tais Yawm txiv cob ntxhais xwb os mog
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So sad. Tsi muaj leejtwg hlub yus tshaj li yus Niam thiab yus Txiv lawm.
So the whole points of the story is love your dad because he gives you insurance policy. I hope your dad never meet you guys again, this life or next. You, your brother and your mom don't deserve his love.
Kv hnov 2 zaj tib si lawm o
The only dead beat is a mother who keeps their child from the dad who want to be their life.
Nej cov me nyuam ntsuag txiv koj na tsis txhob ntseeg ntseeg nej niam tej lus dag hais tias nej txiv no yog tus phem! Tsam muaj ib hnub nej tau kev tws ces nej txiv qub twb tu siab rau nej lawm thiab!
Not surprised many women tend to do this here in the US I don't even get to see mines and it definitely hurts.
Yup women lied a lot after divorced
yg koj txiv yg tu hai li koj niam neb pua ntxub koj txiv yg neb nrog koj txiv koj niam pua tso 2pua txhiab nyiaj rau neb thiab
Ua cas neb twb tias neb Nim ntshiav2 neb txiv ua cas thaum paub tias neb txiv nyob qhov twg ua cas neb ho twb tsis mus saib thiab neb hnov neb txiv lub moo twb tsis yg 1 zaug twb 2-3 lawm neb yg tsis muaj life insurance ces lub npe txiv siab zoo twb tsis hais txog pob Yom dag tiag2
I’m so disappointed at these two sibling. After they all grown up, they didn’t not make any effort to connect with their father. So sad.
Thaum me ces tsi paub xyov yog tim leej twg. Tab si thauj koj loj lawm koj hnov txog koj txiv lub moo los koj twb tsi K. 🤔🤔🤔🤔 yog txiv tsi tseg nyiaj es txiv lub npe zoo puas yuav muaj tu hnov, just wondering 🤔🤔🤔
Yog koj Txiv tsev tsi tau nyiaj ntauj rau koj no nub no koj Txiv puas yog tug zoo tiab os.
Koj niam mas txhaum loj tiag2 rau koj txiv, tsis ntev no xwb ces koj niam yuav lawv koj txiv qab tiag lau.
Ieej niam siab phem... ce zoo lis koj niam no mas ..muab me nyuam...lub siab ntsws mus rau txim .
This is my life right now, l haven't seen my 2 children's in 15 months because my ex wife took them and moved outta state. I miss them both alot....Hopefully, one day.....GOD will return them both back to me.
Why didn't you go to court and 50/50 custody. You could've prevented her from being able to take the kids and moving out of state. You could work with her and get visitation alternating holidays. Especially if your paying child support
My precious & Koua Vang : I'll just let karma do it's job. Eventually, she'll fucked up on her own someday and I'll go and press charge. She did me dirty and ive got proofs to have her lock up then ill just go and pick them up.
@Koua Vang , I really want to see them. If you can help me , I would really appreciated.
@Koua Vang , Minnesota and you....
@Koua Vang well 99.99% chances are kid's will be place wmom unless she's unfit or you both have an arrangement. But we all know that women can be very bitter and hateful, plus they want that child support. Divorce isn't easy on the kids. Get joint custody. Mom Monday to Thursday and dad Friday to Sunday. Unless you fight and go to court to make arrangements, you'll not see your kids especially if your ex hates you.
I don’t understand why after years of the abuses from your step dad that you guys don’t try harder to reach and gave your biological dad a chance. Your loss but I agree if it wasn’t for the money you wouldn’t be here telling this story. If you are not anything like your mom when u have kids you will know the unconditional love your dad have for you and your brother.
If you are a divorced parent and keeping your children from your ex out of spite, please rethink your decision. Your decision will negatively affect your children in the long run. Life’s too short to have any regrets.
To the daughter and son who’s loving father left you $200k in life insurance, I don’t blame you for making the decision not to see you father, although it was the wrong decision, it’s a lesson learned. May you never ever behave like your mother and keep your children from your spouse/partner.
After parents divorce, whoever takes care if u is one who care more about u.
..if father really care about u, he would have done at court to have u with him.
...most divorced parents care kids at the time they need care of kids only
...do not assume that mom is bad. At least she feed/care of u in bad n good...
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...any parents u live with... after they marry 2nd, they do not really care about u.
..any parents after they remarry they do not really want u no more.
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You must don't understand the system here if you think it is that easy
OMG 😢😢😢😢tu siab dhau!
Dhuav cov pojnrauj uas koj niag txiv tshiab tsi hlub koj cov me nyuam tsim ntau lo koj ua ntsej lag muag dig tsuav koj tau txiv puag koj pw hmo ntuj xb ntxim ntxub heev li
I hate it when divorce happens and one parent brainwash the kids to hate the other parent. Why!? You both made them.
Shame on you for not even considering to visit him once at all even after you heard the truth from your mom. Too late and you shouldn’t cried at all or use his money at all.
You will have children one day. Pray they will have mercy on you - unlike you who didn’t have any for your dad. Seems like your mom may have helped you because she is hoping to have some of that life insurance money one day. Shame on all of you!
Your father is watching you from above. May he rest in peace. Such a sad story
Yes, this is the encouragement the children need to hear only. They need no more judgmental issues. They are fold blind by someone else that is also their right hand.
Koj yog ib tug me nyuam tsis txawj xav koj txiv thiaj hlub kj xwb kj tsis hlub kj txiv twb paub ntsoov tias yog yus txiv los tseem tsis mus saib thiab koj yuav g tau koob hmoov li os
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My son's father puts things in his head to make him think I'm the bad person. He'll tell him that I love my other kids more. Like who does that?!
Txhob qhia koj niam pog thiab koj tus txiv lawv paub os. Yog qhia ces koj rov qab qhia koj lub qe siab phem xwb os vim koj twb paub tias koj txiv nrhiav nrhiav neb thiab mob mob no es neb twb tsis mus saib nws ne. Yog nws tsis tseg nws li life insurance rau neb ntshe neb tseem zoo siab tias nws yuag lawm xwb pob?
I hate parents who doesn’t protect their children. They don’t deserve to have children.
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Koj thiab koj tu nus neb yeej phem ib yam koj niam na neb ma nyuam qhuav ntxim txiv tshiab tsim neb xwb
Lair, lair, lair!!! Live in the same town, how can you can't find him? Hmong knows each other.
You and your brother should be ashamed of yourself for accepting your father's life insurance money. That money, after paying for the funeral and spirit releasing ceremony, should have been given to family members who actually helped care for your father. Although you both were lied to by your mother about your father, she admitted her cruel lies to you both when there was still plenty of time to reunite with your father, but you both CHOSE NOT to find him. A normal person would have gotten angry at the mother for lying to them all these years and soon after start searching for their father to make up for loss time. Even when you finally were told about his whereabouts, you still CHOSE NOT to visit him. You are making lots of excuses and I don't buy it since you & your brother were both adults when you found out the truth. The only person I feel sorry for is your late father. I don't even feel badly about you & your brother's mistreatment by your step-father after I heard that you made excuses to yourself (and to us in your story) to not reunite with your father who was actually a very good husband and parent. Your mother was at fault up until she told you & your brother the truth. After that, the fault of not reuniting with your father was on you two. You will have to live with the guilt and shame for not reaching out to him for years before he died.
I had to say, my husband Ex did the same thing (lied), to their kids too, same way. One day, they had the courage to ask their dad, and he tells them the truth. Please be truthful so the kids can have both parents.
Peb ua neej nyob zoo thiab phem los Tsi cuag roj ntsha nawv mog, so sad😢😢
I’m sorry you never got a chance to see your dad before he passed away. All of you missed the opportunity to get to see and live each other. Your mother is a selfish person. She did that to you and crushed your father’s heart for her own self. How sad.
I wish you a happy marriage and am glad you and your brother survived the darkest days of being abused by your step father. Love the people who love you, your brother.❤❤
Yeah, she was brain washed into believing her father was a horrible father, husband and person. Being continually abused by their step father, it would have been easily convinced them that their father is no different than their step father. There would be no benefit for them to search out their birth father to learn the truth.
She got the chance but chose not to...she only wants the money
twb nyob meskas teb no lawm es tseem cia neb rau txiv tshiab tsim neb na report rau school xwb mas hos koj niam mas nyuam qhuav haum mag txiv tshiab tsim xwb od.
Annoys me to the max when people try to make peace after someone is already dead! 🙄 you know what?!?! If you don't give a damn about someone when alive, just don't try to be anything else when dead. If he didn't leave you that money, you would have continued to label him deadbeat! And no story to tell here.
Tis niam thiab txiv tsis sib hlub menyuam tia ua ntsuag 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Nrog kj txiv tu siab kg 😭
yog kj tug nwg neb tsi tau kj txiv qhov nyiaj no neb tsi paub hlubbneb txiv os tab lig dhau lawm
Fathers love their kids as much if not more than mothers. Who can protect the children other than the father... cuz even the mother sometimes need protection. But in the US, the law is on women's side so women tend to use the children to get back at the husband. I can understand if the husband is truly abusive and has affairs but when the wife is the one who's abusive and having an affair, the wife also uses the children to torment the husband.
I'd say any Parent who wants full custody of their Children, make sure you are assertive enough to take care of your children when your current spouse don't love them! If not, leave them because you can't love them & stop being selfish!!!
Neb los siab phem kawg twb tsis kam mus saib neb txiv thaum nws tsis tau tuag
What a selfish woman anyone who said they loved their children but yet they turned their children against the children’s mom or dad then they don’t know the meaning of love because your children always come first don’t ever using your children against each other just to punished & hurt the other parent of course if the other parent is abusing the child or children then you have to do everything you possibly can to protecting your children otherwise put your problems aside and put your first and let both parents be in the children’s lives!
😭😭😭😭😭😭txaus tu siab ua luaj
She should know better how can some one else can love you more than your own flesh. she’s very selfish took that love from your dad away from you kids..for her own desires.
Lucky you sis, 1txhia niam &txiv twb tsis hlb menyuam ncaj ncees li kj txiv.
I hope he comes back and get that lady. What a heartless person she is. I knew the heartache of kids and as parents, that's why after my divorced, I still let my kids go see the ex-wife. Kids are innocent.
Wow this is so sad. The good always die 1st:(
I feel sorry for your father. Wish he had better daughter. You could of at least let your brother know. 🤦♀️ how could you be so heartless? I don't get it. Sorry not sorry for you.
I couldn't believe you believed your mom too much, but not your dad at all. When you heard about his health and where dad was, you didn't even care go see him while still alive. If he didn't have 200k life ins, you still didn't want to go to his funeral. Your dad is the only one has good n big heart in your family. It's too late to say your birth dad is a good guy.
I despise parents whom used their kids against the other parent. A person never know the truth until the death of one. I feel sorry for your dad, but not for you and your brother. As you grew you were able to make that decision to reach out to your father. You ignore what they told you. You didn't want to see your father when he was ill. That was your choice not your mother. If your father did not passed you probably wouldn't even contact him. That sorrow will be with you for the rest of your life and everyday that you use the money he left behind for the two of you. Your father is in a better place- may he rest in peace.
cas koj ruam ua luaj thiab thaum koj paub tia yg koj txiv cas koj g mu saib koj yeeb g muaj lub siab hlub
90% of divorces are filed and initiated by women! We men don't want to avoid marriage, we just want to avoid divorce. Sadly in this modern era we live in, this is a believe all women. This story is heartbreaking
Call the cops , people need to go to jail so no one will be hurt. Irresponsible parents that Are not able to protect their kids . You choose an abuser aver your kids should also go to jail
Most peoe have no self awareness and don't see what they do wrong. I've seen many abusive spouse/parents claim they are great. They can love and still be abusive and it won't be enough to stay.
What a sad story, koj txiv yuav tso txoj kev zoo rau koj nawb.
Vuag cas neb txiv tshiab yuav siab phem siab nyoos ua luaj os koj niam los ntshe txiv tuag tag xwb thiaj yuav thiab os tos neb txoj nyem siab ntsws npaum ko os!
koj niam niag maum dev laum kom npam loj thaj ua2 koj muaj mob tas neb tseem raug tswm txom nyob txom nyem thaj txiv tshiab niag siab phem kom tsw hlub log tsw npam neb os
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So sad. I cry so hard
You should listen to your friend and your Auntie. You so stupid. Now you got your dad life insurance and go back to love your dad ?. Shaij tshaj koj na. You will so regret why not visit your dad before he passes. Now you got to becarefull your txiv tshiab will poison you.
Hlig dhau lawm. Thaum neb loj neb muaj chances mus hriav neb txiv. Too late hope you don't get your mom bad heart.
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Such a sad story. 😔