GENTLE HOMEBIRTH *feels good* & surprise gender

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  • @gliorchisonocomelecipolle
    @gliorchisonocomelecipolle 9 місяців тому +428

    This is wholesome. A bunch of toddlers happily watching you give birth without disgust or fear. I'm sure they will all be amazing and supportive people in the future🥺

    • @valvihk3649
      @valvihk3649 5 місяців тому +15

      I love how their brain is not conditioned to perceive birth as "eeewww"

  • @praaajal
    @praaajal 2 роки тому +2002

    The way scout kept giving you hugs and kisses throughout your labour really has my heart

    • @EllenFisher
      @EllenFisher  2 роки тому +205

      shes my best little girl friend thats for sure! love them all so much

    • @praaajal
      @praaajal 2 роки тому +16

      @@EllenFisher She surely is, I wish you and your family a happy life

    • @an-ic6gs
      @an-ic6gs Рік тому +6

      Congratulations 🎉 May God always 💕 bless your 💞 family health wealth and safety 🤞 good luck . Now Father should stop thinking to go for the next birth and taking or giving you more responsibilities . It's enough

    • @RebeccaEWebber
      @RebeccaEWebber Рік тому +15

      I'm in tears! So much love in that child. Clearly raised beautifully!

    • @aizanrajaeva8373
      @aizanrajaeva8373 Рік тому +1

      @@EllenFisher ³

  • @nattyophelia7879
    @nattyophelia7879 2 роки тому +760

    Omg the moment after you tell Scout she has a sister and she cradled your face, what a little LOVE! Made me cry. Congratulations everyone

    • @hunnyl0ve
      @hunnyl0ve 2 роки тому +12

      I'M BALLING!!! 😭😭😭 What a precious moment!! 💖

    • @jessicawatt2925
      @jessicawatt2925 2 роки тому +1

      Sobbing at that moment❤️

    • @lenog9946
      @lenog9946 2 роки тому

      😭😭😭😭😭😍😍😍😍

    • @MJCastaner
      @MJCastaner 2 роки тому +1

      Mee too!!! incredible this feeling!

    • @MamaJonesie
      @MamaJonesie 2 роки тому +1

      yes same, crying my eyes out!

  • @ednsav
    @ednsav Рік тому +978

    The pain face turned INSTANT smile as the baby was born is all I needed to know that I can do this in February. I can do this.

    • @lilyandrews3239
      @lilyandrews3239 Рік тому +29

      You can do it! I’m also due in February and in tears watching this right niw

    • @ednsav
      @ednsav Рік тому +12

      @@lilyandrews3239 Congratulations!! We got this

    • @kass_G59
      @kass_G59 Рік тому +8

      You both got this!! I just gave birth in September & that was the same facial reaction I had as well 🥲🥹
      Congratulations guys, take every moment in 💞

    • @Ty-uj3zu
      @Ty-uj3zu Рік тому +1

      You can do this!!!

    • @beatesetzer2441
      @beatesetzer2441 Рік тому +4

      Warm water is so soothing!

  • @hindayfel7282
    @hindayfel7282 Рік тому +560

    As a student midwife, seeing this video made me so emotional. Every day I see and hear of women not being given enough choices on how they want to welcome their newborns into the world. Some don't even get to choose which position to birth in. They lay on their back, in pain, with their adrenaline through the roof making it 10x worst for them. Some leave with traumas and scars for life and it pains me to see that. As a student, there is only so much I can do to support those women. Seeing you give birth in the most beautiful and heartwarming way is so inspiring to me. This is what I would like for my women to feel like. I want to teach them that birth is not something to be feared but to be welcomed instead. Labor, if approached correctly can feel joyful, orgasmic, and blissful. I will definitely be signing up to your course to learn more about your approach. it is so inspiring!

    • @christinebazemore5800
      @christinebazemore5800 Рік тому +22

      I'm glad you showed this because I've seen women giving birth where they had their legs stretched wide apart their knees are up to their chin and it just looks so horrific me I thought there must be a better more natural way of doing that

    • @ilovejulie89
      @ilovejulie89 Рік тому +24

      The medical system for birth is built the wrong way. Instead of supporting women during pregnancy and birth (and postpartum), women are put into uncomfortable positions and choices and told that's the way it has to be done. Informed consent is thrown out the window and the number of women having traumatic births is so high! My first was a beautiful homebirth after watching Ellen and others for so long and really educating myself on what is best for me and what's in the interest of the medical system. I'm pregnant now with my second and having another homebirth. It's the best way ❤️

    • @lechodessixreines5823
      @lechodessixreines5823 Рік тому +4

      J'ai pleuré en voyant la vidéo . J'ai effectivement été traumatisé par mon accouchement ☹ J'ai mal de savoir que je ne pourrais jamais vivre ce qu'elle a vécu. Je remercie qu'il y ai des gens comme vous dans le monde qui accompagnerons des mamans avec toute leur bienveillance 🙏

    • @chatgpt4135
      @chatgpt4135 Рік тому +6

      @@ilovejulie89 Also pregnancy, how childbirth occur , miscarriage, Post natal care are not openluly talked in society but related rumors n myths are talked instead

    • @ayasusi456
      @ayasusi456 Рік тому +3

      Le tue parole stupende q

  • @j.j1999
    @j.j1999 2 роки тому +913

    Scout is just such a special girl😭 She made me cry throughout the whole video. Such a compassionate, empathetic, smart little girl. Congrats Mom 💛 You really are such a natural.

  • @rach6926
    @rach6926 2 роки тому +676

    Your daughter, Scout, is such a empathetic and compassionate little girl. So thoughtful and caring.

  • @Daydreamerr13
    @Daydreamerr13 2 роки тому +631

    I love how much Ellen loves motherhood. You can tell she really pours her heart and soul into her family . Her energy exudes even through the screen, and it’s why I have watched this channel all these years❤

  • @angelmahree8635
    @angelmahree8635 Рік тому +228

    First of all, that baby girl is taking CARE of her mommy, ok! All those cute hugs and kisses. Shooing any flies away from her mommy's face. She's such a sweetheart 💕

    • @brendabenitez7359
      @brendabenitez7359 7 місяців тому +1

      Did you see that?!!! How cute 🥰 girls are so sweet

  • @itsmeliska1186
    @itsmeliska1186 2 роки тому +2237

    "Gentle" and "easy" were words I never associated with birth until I found your channel. It is comforting to see that birth doesn't have to be an everlasting trauma.

    • @JYYB
      @JYYB 2 роки тому +38

      So glad you can find wonderful women like ellen who can help you feel and understand how beautiful birth is.
      Most of the time mindset plays a key part and most women forget to have an open mind to birth and how we can change our atmosphere to our liking either it’s before or during or after the birth in any situation. 🥰🙌🏻

    • @marisathemidwife3827
      @marisathemidwife3827 2 роки тому +34

      Please trust this, listen to her, as a midwife I promise this is the way. I’m also a vegan mama of 5, we are fully cable off this work.

    • @malvinadelolmo2606
      @malvinadelolmo2606 2 роки тому +6

      Yo pensé exactamente lo mismo, una esta acostumbrada a ver solo tormento. 👌

    • @jakotacopeland1020
      @jakotacopeland1020 2 роки тому +25

      My first birth was also traumatic but after Releasing my fears through the tapping method, via Ellen’s channel, and reading a book called supernatural child birth, I had a pain free home birth🎉
      My next child I plan to get her birth course and video my birth. This really works!❤

    • @nanaronhano337
      @nanaronhano337 2 роки тому +11

      I had a pain free third birth - a scheduled C-section! It was amazing. 🙂

  • @mellymelbabeth
    @mellymelbabeth 2 роки тому +293

    Scout during this whole video has made me well up so much. All the children show love and care towards their lovely mum but there is just something about the way she was constantly checking on Ellen and giving her hugs has really hit me. It’s such a beautiful video. Congratulations to your whole family ❤

    • @i-spy-ty
      @i-spy-ty 2 роки тому

      It was so amazing to see! If Scout chooses to have children she'll be so lucky to have this experience. Birth is beautiful.

  • @h22nn22h
    @h22nn22h 2 роки тому +463

    The fact Scout was right about the baby being a girl and how comforting she was during the birth, she’s going to be an amazing big sister 💛 congratulations you guys

  • @tartarthesauce
    @tartarthesauce Рік тому +212

    I never comment and I’m usually a silent viewer, but I just wanna acknowledge how special of a kiddo Scout is. She is absolutely one of the most empathetic and caring children i’ve ever seen. She’s gonna be an amazing big sister and amazing person in general. She’s so precious, Ellen 🥹

  • @kayciblizzard2742
    @kayciblizzard2742 Рік тому +69

    I delivered my last daughter myself after an awful hospital experience, doing it at home is such an amazing experience you just can’t believe the difference until you do it. I’m 36 weeks pregnant now and plan to have my baby at home with my husband and daughters, regardless of how many of these videos I see I can’t help but cry every time I watch them- you have a beautiful family ❤

    • @tarabithia4509
      @tarabithia4509 3 місяці тому +1

      Hi, did you free birth or have a midwife? I didn't like my hospital experience and just want to do it at home but I also don't want a midwife there either lol

  • @brandikae1291
    @brandikae1291 2 роки тому +667

    I’m crying. This was the most beautiful birth video I’ve seen. Scout knew it and her sweet little smile and tears were perfectly precious! So happy for your family.

  • @christinfox6231
    @christinfox6231 2 роки тому +683

    And that's how you normalise birth. Your kids will not be worried to either give birth one day or become a father. As a midwife this makes me incredibly happy. Sending lots of love

    • @InesBabyreborn
      @InesBabyreborn Рік тому

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    • @lillianp8900
      @lillianp8900 Рік тому +1

      @@jaderobson-glyde555 yeah it's been done billions of times

    • @idreambig5970
      @idreambig5970 Рік тому +16

      Well, there you have it....all hospital births cause multi-generational PTSD. If we don't fix this....Margaret Atwood's best selling novel could become a reality.🙄🙄

    • @sitcomchristian6886
      @sitcomchristian6886 Рік тому +7

      I mean, I feel like I did my 2 year old a favor not having her at my birth. My baby was OP and there was a lot of screaming. Still a normal birth, mind you. But my girl would have been terrified lol

    • @teresalipot3585
      @teresalipot3585 Рік тому +6

      As "a midwife" I expect you to understand that there are numerous birth scenarios that REQUIRE medical intervention to result in a LIVING mother AND baby. ALL are quality births. A hundred years ago women like me would have died trying to have "a normal birth". Thank GOD for C-sections.

  • @ghadeer7031
    @ghadeer7031 2 роки тому +243

    The fact that she did not know the gender of the baby and held her with so much love from the moment she gave birth to her is just so beautiful❤❤ It feels so much more natural to do it this way

    • @FruityHachi
      @FruityHachi 2 роки тому +19

      why would she not hold the baby with love if she knew the gender?

    • @mitchellgrace2886
      @mitchellgrace2886 2 роки тому +36

      @@FruityHachi I think they were just implying that it was so sweet that she didn’t immediately look to see bc in the moment it didn’t matter!

    • @FruityHachi
      @FruityHachi 2 роки тому +17

      @@mitchellgrace2886 that’s a natural reaction, the mother and the child need to bond immediately, it’s the doctors who are messing with that
      and unless the parents specifically want a boy or a girl, the gender doesn’t matter, so getting oxytocin from holding the baby takes precedence

  • @MelodysCharme
    @MelodysCharme Рік тому +60

    My god...she did it all on her own without any help. What a brave, strong and wonderful woman. Congrats.❤️❤️

    • @sara092
      @sara092 Рік тому +1

      After the second time you kind of get the hang of it 😅

  • @Deplorablehomemaker
    @Deplorablehomemaker Рік тому +246

    At first I was like “she’s letting her kids watch?!” Then I saw all of them look in amazement at their new sibling and was wow that was so beautiful. The most beautiful video I have ever seen. Seriously. great job momma. Congrats!

    • @karenmcqueen7764
      @karenmcqueen7764 Рік тому +20

      I honestly have never even considered the thought of having my children watch me give birth. But when I watched this video and say how incredibly beautiful it was…I’m seriously reconsidering. One of the most beautiful things I have ever seen

    • @junewaterford
      @junewaterford Рік тому +19

      I wish it was more normalized for other children to watch, it's so beautiful and it's natural. great job mama!

    • @helllllloworld
      @helllllloworld Рік тому +16

      it’s beautiful but I would have been so annoyed with so many people surrounding me and touching me 😭

    • @gliorchisonocomelecipolle
      @gliorchisonocomelecipolle 9 місяців тому +4

      ​@@helllllloworldthey all seem to be precious kids though. They didn't stress her and the little girl in particular was such a supportive daughter 🥺

    • @valvihk3649
      @valvihk3649 8 місяців тому +2

      What's wrong with letting your kids watch a natural process such as birth?

  • @funnyjcutie
    @funnyjcutie 2 роки тому +525

    I admire this woman so much. I don't have kids, but I absolutely adore how much you are changing the paradigm on giving birth. I just think how lucky your kids are to see an example of such strong, female empowerment! Your little girl won't be afraid to give birth. Congratulations!

    • @thetruthwillsetyoufree5567
      @thetruthwillsetyoufree5567 Рік тому +3

      Girls* she's got two now!

    • @michelinamai1752
      @michelinamai1752 Рік тому

      But it is the fifth birth. That would be abnormal if it were heavy, and it was heavy enough. 🙂👍👍

    • @lexyarnold437
      @lexyarnold437 Рік тому +3

      Right!!!! I just imagine how her boys will be so well equipped knowing how to support and serve their wives/partners if they go through pregnancy and birth too.

    • @funnyjcutie
      @funnyjcutie Рік тому +2

      ​@@thetruthwillsetyoufree5567 True but the one that was just born didn't witness the birth, so to speak. Maybe they will have another and she will! :)

    • @Kathy-pr4wu
      @Kathy-pr4wu Рік тому

      @@funnyjcutie I fully expect they will have another.

  • @chadra_
    @chadra_ 2 роки тому +203

    This was truly so beautiful Ellen. I cried with you guys when you realized it was a girl. Oh my gosh. Thank you for sharing such a special, intimate moment with us. She is absolutely perfect. You did such a good job mama. 💗🥺

    • @EllenFisher
      @EllenFisher  2 роки тому +16

      it was the best moment! I was so happy for Scout!

    • @colleenross8752
      @colleenross8752 Місяць тому

      ​​@EllenFisher , does this new princess have a name?
      Edit: Dagny is very sweet. What a unique name

  • @katescrimgeour3884
    @katescrimgeour3884 2 роки тому +163

    The look on Scout's face when she realized she had a sister is quite possibily the most beautiful thing I have ever seen.

    • @adorable3817
      @adorable3817 2 роки тому +9

      Scout knew all along it was a girl. Notice she said "finally" I get to hold you? So seeet 💕

    • @user-no2mz9hl4f
      @user-no2mz9hl4f 2 роки тому +7

      The way she beamed with pride when she said, “This is my first time holding baby standing up,” was just precious.

  • @1snqty
    @1snqty Рік тому +46

    Getting to know that birthing is “gentle” and “feels good” is so relieving to know as a girl just relieves me and just tells me that I shouldn’t be worried about it

  • @knowninhighplaces
    @knowninhighplaces Рік тому +51

    This empowered me SO much. I’m pregnant with my 3rd child. The first was an epidural, vaginal birth with tearing. The second was an emergency c-section. But the 3rd I’m taking a completely different route with an at home birth and a midwife. I’m so so so motivated and hopeful i can have a natural birth! I LOVED this. Thank you for sharing this. 🥲🥲🥲

    • @valdinerene9956
      @valdinerene9956 Рік тому +1

      Good luck mommy ❤️🤞🏽🥹

    • @Alexxisunbound
      @Alexxisunbound Рік тому +2

      I'm going through the same love to hear how it goes i have 48 days left

    • @deborahandryantabor4909
      @deborahandryantabor4909 Рік тому

      You got this. It’s will be a beautiful experience! 🙏

    • @vivianarickert8230
      @vivianarickert8230 Рік тому +4

      I am wishing you the best of luck with your home birth with a midwife!!! As a kid with a doctor mom i think it will always be assumed that I will have my kiddo in a hospital but I think i wanna do it at home with a midwife (who I think are kinda more qualified than most doctors to help with childbirth tbh). You are a superstar!

    • @rebeccamartin2265
      @rebeccamartin2265 11 місяців тому

      Did your baby arrive ok? X

  • @alexisprovax
    @alexisprovax 2 роки тому +107

    This was so powerful 😍 it made me realize the power of raising little girls, I have 3, and it always seems people focus on the fact that we haven’t had a boy yet. Just look at Scout and how she cared for you, even at such a young age. Women are so powerful, so amazing and have such a strong role that I see it more everyday. The moment Scout realized it was a girl, so beautiful, I bawled.

  • @nikkis9570
    @nikkis9570 2 роки тому +158

    I swear she came out smiling. And what a wonderful support Scout was during the birth 🥰🥰🥰

    • @EllenFisher
      @EllenFisher  2 роки тому +12

      she truly is amazing. thanks for the love!

    • @ezgieftekin4495
      @ezgieftekin4495 2 роки тому +2

      Yeap I catched that too. 😍

  • @KeyonnaD
    @KeyonnaD Рік тому +19

    I just had a conversation with my husband two days ago saying I missed my labor and delivery experience and couldn’t wait to do it again. This type of birth is exactly why. We’ve always wanted 5 kids. I’m 10 days shy of 6months postpartum with our second child. My labor and delivery was so quick and AMAZING! I’ve been watching you since I was a teenager. I’m now 26years old. You’ve inspired me to study and prepare for labor and delivery initially in order to become a nurse midwife and doula. But this time it paid off for my own birth. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us and changing the way we view birth. I can’t wait to experience this again.

  • @spiwegiggs3409
    @spiwegiggs3409 Рік тому +62

    Let's take a moment to appreciate how this turned out to be a family event rather than too private. Im scared but then watching this made me wanna embrace that journey positively.....

    • @chatgpt4135
      @chatgpt4135 Рік тому +4

      Yeah and in olden days or medieval time close family members like mother, sister or a child of that pregnant woman used to be with her to motivated n calm her during delivery
      Even In animals in wild, females give birth surrounded by her children (cubs) and other female associates of animal pack, they cheer her, calm her, guide her, and motivate her to go thru labor
      ChildBirth is treated as an auspicious event and birth of new life is happy thing for animals except humans, cos humans have far sexualised n put in bad light pure events like even labor n delivery or birth of new baby , and many doctors or nurses today behave abusively with mothers n infants lol and in olden days this abuse was there too, but that's the fact, Pure 'Childbirth' is viewed in a bad sense only by humans, cos they evolved into societies but somewhat wrongly n away from nature

    • @JonBarnes-g1w
      @JonBarnes-g1w 10 місяців тому

      ​@@chatgpt4135u typed alot

  • @soarhighyandow9109
    @soarhighyandow9109 Рік тому +50

    I have had 7 children and the best advice I can give is breathe deeply. When the contraction comes you will feel like holding your breath, but just breathe through it.

    • @Warefamily2024
      @Warefamily2024 6 місяців тому +2

      I feel like my body gets frozen rigid and I can never take an actual deep breath even though I’ve done natural twice. How do I break through that for my third come
      April?

    • @jessb9514
      @jessb9514 3 місяці тому +4

      ​@@Warefamily2024 my tips are to sigh, and with each sigh, release tension somewhere in your body- shoulders, jaw, back, belly, bottom. When you tense up, your breaths get more shallow. Once you start sighing and releasing tension, then you can slow your breathing and breathe deeper.

  • @jazmynej9012
    @jazmynej9012 2 роки тому +56

    I think you know how much a family means to you when you watch Ellen share her pregnancy and birth. I cried when scout found out she had a little sister! So happy for you, I’ve been watching since Elvis was a little boy and I’m so happy to watch your family grow. Congratulations 🎉🎈💘

    • @EllenFisher
      @EllenFisher  2 роки тому +6

      wow thank you for the long time love and support. it truly means so much to me!

  • @nataliesmith2458
    @nataliesmith2458 2 роки тому +71

    The way Scout tended to you during labour was beautiful 💞

  • @kareno6222
    @kareno6222 2 роки тому +144

    Ellen was born to be a mom. I love how Andrew so openly shows his love of Ellen. Thanks for sharing

    • @misslesliepink
      @misslesliepink Рік тому +1

      Yeah, ikr:') I truly hope I'll have a hubby like Andrew and be mum just like Ellen. Also, I'll have beautiful kids like them 5. Astungkara, svaha.

  • @cynthiahughes1315
    @cynthiahughes1315 Рік тому +48

    This is the most beautiful birthing experience I've ever had the honor of witnessing. The family all around, loving on mom. The deep love between mom and dad being expressed. The little girl showing her love and support to mom. The purest love pouring out from everyone. The children holding their new sister. I will forever remember and cherish this amazing moment. Thank you!

  • @eautifulchaos1439
    @eautifulchaos1439 Рік тому +60

    I’m 5 1/2 months pregnant with my first baby and I’m literally sobbing watching after you gave birth to her. Your kids are so sweet and got me really crying over here lol I’m so excited to meet my daughter. Your a great mama

  • @emilyemily7837
    @emilyemily7837 2 роки тому +31

    Oh my God, i'm crying my eyes out! That’s just it, that's the magic that you can't get in a c-section (i had two). Watching this video i can't stop looking at your kids and thinking that when they grow up they will truly want to be parents and live the same experience! You're incredible mama!!!

  • @PhoenixAurelius-138
    @PhoenixAurelius-138 2 роки тому +44

    Done like a goddess! This is the real promise of giving birth, right here. Not the fear porn women are fed. Even when birthing is VERY hard (can anyone relate!?) we women have the opportunity to feel like, and literally be, superwomen. THANK YOU Ellen for yet again being vulnerable to show us the beauty of these moments!

  • @faeithhwryd8459
    @faeithhwryd8459 Рік тому +38

    Wow, the way your daughter kept comforting you was the most beautiful feminine and masculine balanced force I have ever felt and seen for support.... That truly touched my heart

  • @mogichi7490
    @mogichi7490 Рік тому +78

    Ellen I just wanted to say thank you. Before I found your channel and saw the love in your family, I wanted to be sterilized when I turned 18. I was 15 and looking up ways to talk doctors into it, thinking ‘Why should I bring a child into this world? So many other children need homes, I’d rather adopt. I’d rather die than be pregnant.’
    But I found your channel during Scout’s pregnancy and you showed something so different to what I’d always known pregnancy, birth, and having children to be. It wasn’t contractions.. it was waves. It wasn’t pregnancy the state of feeling huge, ‘like a whale’, sickly, it was bringing a new life into the world. It wasn’t a parasite, it was getting to meet your baby at the end of the day. It wasn’t a live or death battle with pain and your own body, it was embracing yourself in its most powerful, ancient state. Giving birth to a new life.
    It’s so profound to me now, so sacred and so beautiful.
    You’ve changed me Ellen, and I seriously can’t thank you enough. Please continue to teach other women the value of family and that having children is not the bane of existence it is portrayed to be nowadays. That family is worth fighting for and we would be lost without it. ❤

  • @mentiaier9708
    @mentiaier9708 Рік тому +26

    I never knew home births would be as gentle and calm as this , this is beautiful , I’m seven weeks pregnant now and I couldn’t be happier watching this bcuz I was super worried. Bless your family ! Congratulations!

    • @marshmallow7640
      @marshmallow7640 Рік тому +1

      Well, is the baby born 😅

    • @mentiaier9708
      @mentiaier9708 Рік тому +4

      @@marshmallow7640 yes I’m bow blessed with a very healthy two month old baby boy!

    • @milky8471
      @milky8471 5 місяців тому

      Waa it home birth ?

  • @anujak8106
    @anujak8106 Рік тому +7

    Scout comforting Mommy with hugs and kisses. She is precious!! What a beautiful video. The moment they found out it was a girl, the joy on Scout's face was so so precious!!

  • @michiTHAyachi
    @michiTHAyachi 2 роки тому +37

    I'm in tears and so happy that you're showing this to the world.
    I freebirthed both my babies, and it is a desicion that I am grateful to have made every single day.
    I grieve deeply for the women who get pushed into unnatural and traumatic birth situations.. it's incredibly unfair, and I just wish for all women to remember how natural this is, and that it is HER power, to reclaim and to ride out on her terms. It bring me peace to see someone so wise and experienced to be guiding others through this sacred passage of bringing the next generations earthside. ♥︎

  • @mimms321
    @mimms321 2 роки тому +80

    I’ve never seen a baby look this comfortable in their environment, this baby knows so much love. I’m not going to let give me baby fever bye 😭

  • @lauvasquez7198
    @lauvasquez7198 Рік тому +564

    Women and naturally drawn to this. That little girl keeps comforting her mother and she looks just in awe witnessing this. I know the boys are also there but that little girl is just so overly “mothering” her own mom and checking on her. Just adorable. That little woman might be a midwife someday ❤️

    • @chivonev
      @chivonev Рік тому +42

      I thought the same thing. She'd make great midwife. She was her mother's doula❤️

    • @alinagorelova1147
      @alinagorelova1147 Рік тому +14

      that's sexist

    • @byersfamily138
      @byersfamily138 Рік тому +43

      @@alinagorelova1147that’s biology

    • @lauvasquez7198
      @lauvasquez7198 Рік тому +49

      @@alinagorelova1147 yeah? So? I believe in the power of women and the awesome special gifts they bring to the table. Men have other gifts. A world in balance with men and women.

    • @hereforthechaos7614
      @hereforthechaos7614 Рік тому +2

      @@byersfamily138 It really isn't, honey.

  • @hanab837
    @hanab837 Рік тому +9

    I've got chills. 🥰 My last baby (#5) was a waterbirth, and I loved it. But oh, waterbirth or not, that feeling when baby is born! Every time I see a birth video I remember SO vividly how it felt after each baby was born - a relief and joy and rush of peace that is indescribable. Congratulations!! Babies are such a gift. I am so glad more and more people are spreading the truth that childbirth is beautiful, safe, natural and not to be feared. ❤

  • @iw1459
    @iw1459 Рік тому +57

    Giving birth in this environment looks so relaxing compared to a sterile hospital!!

  • @hunnyl0ve
    @hunnyl0ve 2 роки тому +63

    Congratulations, Ellen! Scout will now be able to have that special kind of sister relationship you have with your sister! So beautiful! 💖

  • @carolinecoitino5782
    @carolinecoitino5782 Рік тому +26

    Omg scout was so gentle and caring hugging and kissing you over and over too cute.
    I love how when you were checking what the babe was she was telling herself “it’s a girl, it’s a girl”
    Congratulations 🎉

  • @alyssareyes3143
    @alyssareyes3143 2 роки тому +42

    I have watched everyone of your birth videos. You empower me and make me so grateful and excited to birth one day. Truly an icon to women!!!!!!!!

    • @EllenFisher
      @EllenFisher  2 роки тому +5

      woww that makes me wanna cry!! I love helping other women feel confident and excited going into birth. thanks for the love

  • @x0MissKitty0x
    @x0MissKitty0x Місяць тому +1

    I love how your daughter keeps holding you or touching you and giving you love 🥹 made me wanna cry!

  • @vsailorsv
    @vsailorsv Рік тому +9

    New viewer, watching your girl grab your head and hug you in the beginning of the tub birth had me SOBBING. That's why we do it, folks. That love is peak motherhood right there.

  • @kaseymarquardt8125
    @kaseymarquardt8125 2 роки тому +19

    i felt like i was sitting there next to you guys the whole time.. that was the most incredible birth video ive ever watched. how peaceful and seamless it all went blew me away. the song choice made me cry so hard too.. wow.. thanks ellen for sharing your experience with us

  • @Ellieoli23
    @Ellieoli23 2 роки тому +70

    I hope one day I can mother my children the way you have yours. I’m 23 and a primary teacher and I’ve watched you since I was 16. I’ve watched your children grow and have been in awe at what kind beautiful souls they have become. They are children that will benefit this planet and make it a better world to live in when they grow up. I can only hope that one day I can parent in a way that makes my children as thoughtful, gentle and loving and genuinely lovely little humans as yours. You and Andrew should be extremely proud not only of them but yourselves.

    • @avah9353
      @avah9353 2 роки тому +1

      I’m 21 and have watched Ellen for years too. I feel the same! She is such a beautiful witness to motherhood and the true goodness of family.

    • @mitchellgrace2886
      @mitchellgrace2886 2 роки тому

      I feel the same way! We’re still a couple years out from having kids, but I can’t wait to soak up all the pregnancy + birth + parenting knowledge here when the time comes!

  • @nia3741
    @nia3741 2 роки тому +35

    I love how your midwife is off to the side allowing your family to have your sweet moment

  • @jmkass
    @jmkass 10 місяців тому +2

    For everyone watching this, homebirth is the best option you have if you have a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby. I have 4 children, all born breech. One cesarean and 3 home breech VBACs and it had been the most amazing experience of my life.

  • @lilliaothon9029
    @lilliaothon9029 Рік тому +11

    I just had my second baby 4 months ago, after going through a traumatic birth I found your channel and remembered EVERYTHING you said to yourself and it really helped me with my own birth. CONGRATS! 🎉

  • @sarahohlemiller
    @sarahohlemiller 2 роки тому +14

    What a peaceful and beautiful labor. I’m the youngest of 5 and the only girl so this really got me in my feelings. So sweet seeing the kids love on their new baby sister! I’ve been watching your videos since Sandy was a baby, it’s just so incredible how fast the time goes by and how much changes. Congratulations on your beautiful baby♥️

  • @manda1956
    @manda1956 2 роки тому +29

    Never have I ever been able to watch one of Ellen's birth vlogs without ending up with teary eyes, a full heart and a smile on my face. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us, Ellen. You are amazing.

  • @tracymarie5
    @tracymarie5 Рік тому +17

    YOUR DAUGHTER THAT WAS HUGGING AND KISSING AND COMFORTING YOU IS SUCH A BLESSED GIFT

  • @Wholesomebae
    @Wholesomebae Рік тому +13

    The way your daughter is so supportive is the cutest thing

  • @salomekalu9032
    @salomekalu9032 Рік тому +7

    I'm not crying I promise 😭😭😭 Your first daughter! Oh my God,she's such a precious soul. The Lord bless her heart❤️

    • @salomekalu9032
      @salomekalu9032 Рік тому

      I lied! I'm crying...I'm watching a beautiful birth video by 5:57 in the morning and crying,just great!😭

  • @rhyleecooper7518
    @rhyleecooper7518 2 роки тому +41

    I love that your little kids are so confident holding a newborn, and I can only imagine that comes from parents who are so fully trusting and supportive. I don't know that I've seen someone allow their 4-5 year old carry an infant around, and I love that you trust yours to do so safely. I can't wait to see who Scout grows into.. you can already see her innate desire to be a caretaker

  • @sylviatz1338
    @sylviatz1338 2 роки тому +10

    The happiness in Scout's eyes especially, was the strongest moment, it made me cry. It was so nice to be able to see this happy moment with the baby's coming. Thanks for sharing it with us!!!! ❤

  • @bekahrohrbough7671
    @bekahrohrbough7671 2 роки тому +15

    The way I immediately started sobbing the moment Dagny was born. 😭 So happy for all of you. ❤

  • @KeepingItVerticalMinitries
    @KeepingItVerticalMinitries Рік тому +17

    Scout is such a nurturer and going to be an awesome big sis.

  • @carrieminns9782
    @carrieminns9782 Рік тому +3

    This is so powerful. Birth has sooooo much fear around it for so many women. Im not a mom nor a I expecting, but I want children in the next few years. This video made me...excited for labour. When the time comes, I will definitely be taking this course. THANK YOU for doing this and sharing your knowledge and invaluable experience

  • @sdiponioXx
    @sdiponioXx 2 роки тому +21

    7:52 “it a GIRL” - I burst out crying with happiness! What a beautiful family 🥰❤

    • @ekornz.z
      @ekornz.z 2 роки тому

      The "are you sure" right afterwards 😂😂

    • @sdiponioXx
      @sdiponioXx 2 роки тому +1

      @@ekornz.z Awh I know!!! So sweet isn’t it 🥰 they’re all in disbelief they’ve been blessed with such a beautiful girl! So nice seeing a family all so excited and so welcoming for a new baby 🥰

    • @ekornz.z
      @ekornz.z 2 роки тому

      @@sdiponioXx yes, absolutely. Big congrats to them 🥰🥰

  • @gaiagabby420
    @gaiagabby420 2 роки тому +5

    Tears in my eyes when you told Scout she has a baby sister. Sooo beautiful Ellen. I have watched your videos for YEARS and continue to be inspired by your way of living and motherhood. I had my first baby almost 6 months ago naturally at a free standing birth center and I am so so thankful. ❤️

  • @Ninitschga
    @Ninitschga 2 роки тому +5

    The way you can also physically see the belly drop lower and lower, the body contracting… the change in breath… You are such a goddess Ellen! Thank you for sharing this magic with us ✨♥️✨

  • @maryroche5633
    @maryroche5633 Рік тому +3

    I've watched many home births. Yours was so amazing. Your whole family was watching with wonder and love. Your husband is so sensitive to your needs, he really is in tune with you. I love the way the kids share your joy in her birth. Scout was so precious when she realized she will be a big sister. Blessings of love to you all.

  • @iwasadeum
    @iwasadeum Рік тому +10

    Beautiful. God's greatest creation at work. Motherhood is so beautiful. Those scenes of the children and husband making physical connections to her throughout the labor process are just beautiful. Pure love. God bless our wonderful mothers

  • @EllenFisher
    @EllenFisher  2 роки тому +221

    Thank you so much everyone for all your love and support! Check out The Empowered Pregnancy & Birth course here: go.theempoweredbirth.com/ellen

    • @CBlem92
      @CBlem92 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much Ellen. You are truly an inspiration to me. I had my own amazing first home birth with my son and can't wait to see how much more pleasurable and wonderful for my next birth. xo

    • @itstoogs
      @itstoogs 2 роки тому +3

      I've watched every birth video and I still cry!!! Just beautiful 😍

    • @jessicachavez7518
      @jessicachavez7518 2 роки тому

      Congrats all your kids are so beautiful and the baby is so so adorable thanks for sharing your video with us so inspired...how much did Dagney weigh was curious she looked smaller than Koufax??? Thank u again for sharing your amazing family

    • @vegabulous2284
      @vegabulous2284 2 роки тому +1

      Still crying... You are the best, Ellen 💓

    • @paf2587
      @paf2587 2 роки тому +1

      Can this course be applied if you deliver in a hospital?

  • @ruxandrapaveloana1825
    @ruxandrapaveloana1825 2 роки тому +17

    Praise the Lord for this beautiful healthy little girl. I am so happy for you guys. You did such a good job Ellen! As a mama myself this video brought me to tears of joy. The first time we get to see and hold our new born baby is just irreplaceable. I wish you a fast and easy recovery.

  • @laurareichert
    @laurareichert 2 роки тому +22

    Ellen, every time you upload I think to myself that this time it’s the most raw, beautiful video of memories I’ve ever seen. but you outdo yourself every time. this one is just untoppable though. pure, honest and so special. thank you for sharing these moments of your life with us ❤ congrats on your newest family member! welcome to the world :)

    • @EllenFisher
      @EllenFisher  2 роки тому +8

      we thank you for being here and for your encouragement and love!

  • @nffannow
    @nffannow Рік тому +4

    Oh my goodness I just balled throughout the whole birth video. To see Scout and your kiddos hug and kiss you throughout and to see Scout cry with joy when she heard she had a sister-what a beautiful moment

  • @catherinerostanti1738
    @catherinerostanti1738 Рік тому +7

    This woman is just an amazing mum , I'm in awe. God bless this wonderful family ❤

  • @helennelson9620
    @helennelson9620 2 роки тому +33

    This is one of the absolute best videos I've ever seen on UA-cam! Your love was so immensely felt in this video! And to have all your kids around to experience such a beautiful birth was so heartwarming. Congratulations and best to you and your loving family!

  • @syd1776
    @syd1776 2 роки тому +7

    Your kids are going to be the best parents one day. The love they show to each other is just 😭❤️

  • @cammyaustralis
    @cammyaustralis 2 роки тому +20

    I pretty much spent the entire time balling! What a wonderful experience you all got to share. A vivid recollection is the expression on Scout's face when she learned she had a sister. :) Best wishes to the Fisher family! ❤

  • @leahcook5225
    @leahcook5225 11 місяців тому +1

    Gosh this was beautiful! Scout helping her mom with kisses and hugs. The boys seeing first-hand how incredible their mother is. The bonding. Beautiful family. Good job Ellen!

  • @Celeste-dp5ur
    @Celeste-dp5ur Рік тому +1

    your girl Scout has obviously been given so much love and comfort in her little lifetime and look how that came out in her loving and comforting you with hugs and pats and kisses... absolutely wonderful. That is how you raise decent human beings. Well done xxxxx

  • @Claudiadavena
    @Claudiadavena 2 роки тому +4

    You have no idea how much expansion and healing you are bringing to me - so it feels like the rest of the world too, crying my absolute eyes out seeing how much love is within this video - it’s incredibly healing for me to see, I cannot thank you for sharing this raw vulnerable experiences with us ❤

  • @thelittlehomeaustralia
    @thelittlehomeaustralia 2 роки тому +161

    Hi mama's out there who, like me, had births that weren't like this one. Please know you also did an incredible incredible job

    • @bettysmith4527
      @bettysmith4527 Рік тому +11

      The most important part is that you get your baby safe and sound, and sometimes home births can risk that. There is no OR down the hall, or a blood bank etc. Home birth is a personal choice, but you are taking a risk.

    • @hanab837
      @hanab837 Рік тому +1

      @@bettysmith4527 Many times, hospitals and their protocols are far more dangerous than home birth. They are necessary sometimes, but that is a very, very small percentage. Homebirth is statistically less risky than hospital birth. Watch "The Business of Being Born." It will start to show you the truth.

    • @bettysmith4527
      @bettysmith4527 Рік тому +3

      @@hanab837 ok, just watch some videos about home births gone wrong, especially the ones that have resulted in the death of the baby secondary to shoulder dystocia and other issues!

    • @PEEWHENYOUNEEDTO
      @PEEWHENYOUNEEDTO Рік тому +18

      @@bettysmith4527 babies die in hospital too. Birth is a risk period. This is why having an educated midwife there is important.

    • @PEEWHENYOUNEEDTO
      @PEEWHENYOUNEEDTO Рік тому +9

      My first was 10lb 4oz baby at home. Big head as well! 9.5 hours of pushing and 2 episiotomies later and he came. Yes, it was painful but totally worth it. I had a hospital birth with my second. It was very traumatic because of the way me and my baby was treated. Wish I could go back and have her at home. Moral is, you are right. w
      We do what we can and I'm thankful for all the healthy babies born!

  • @Mellow0grl
    @Mellow0grl 2 роки тому +8

    I cried watching this! I am so happy for you guys! I started watching when Sandy was a toddler and now there’s 3 more babies after him! I’m even more happy that Scout got her sister 🥰❤️ congratulations to you all xxx

  • @adriannagattuso5442
    @adriannagattuso5442 11 місяців тому +3

    The way you scream IT'S A GIRL took me right back to Scout's birth. That is my favorite birth video, but this is sooo beautiful to watch Scout love on you and the JOY she experiences watching her sister be born. Thank you for sharing this intimate part of your life ❤

    • @anulaania3811
      @anulaania3811 16 годин тому

      To nie wiedziała, że urodzi córkę? USG nie robiła? 🤔🥴

  • @ia1193
    @ia1193 Рік тому +3

    Your videos completely empowered me. I watched this one almost every night towards the end of my pregnancy and when I finally went into labour I ended up having a water birth, no pain relief, music in my ears as I was contracting and breathing and I did it!!! It was the most amazing birth! Thank you!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @helenwood1000
    @helenwood1000 2 роки тому +6

    I’ve never had the good fortune to become pregnant or give birth, despite many years of fertility treatment. I watched all your birth stories and I’m so happy for all of you, particularly Scout having the little sister she so wanted. I’m an only girl with brothers and I so wanted a sister but that wasn’t to be. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful experience 💚

  • @StephyLocas
    @StephyLocas 2 роки тому +10

    I’ve had the privilege of being at many births and they were all wonderful but this is absolutely the most beautiful birth I’ve ever seen. Everyone looks so completely elated and you can feel the love through the camera. Congratulations ❤

  • @lenadamiano1888
    @lenadamiano1888 2 роки тому +5

    I've seen your last three home births and while each one was beautiful, seeing Scout tear up over having a baby sister made me cry happy tears. Congratulations to your wonderful, loving family!

  • @LexiWyatt1024
    @LexiWyatt1024 Рік тому +4

    Scout is such a loving girl😭🥹❤️ all of your children are so caring and so incredibly sweet! You guys are amazing parents!❤️

  • @eileenkenney
    @eileenkenney Рік тому +1

    This made me cry. You have such a wholesome, loving, beautiful family. I wish everyone could be blessed with such a wonderful home life. Thank you for sharing.

  • @mawrawmiller561
    @mawrawmiller561 2 роки тому +5

    This..."relax in the places you are most afraid to go to" so much more than birthing. Just watching this video shows how much giving up stress can do for you. 🙏❤️🙌✨

  • @clairefreer2872
    @clairefreer2872 2 роки тому +19

    Literally bawling seeing scouts reaction. So beautiful

  • @kelliyunge6863
    @kelliyunge6863 2 роки тому +8

    This brought me to tears 😢please young woman, do not be lead by fear, you too can do this! After three traumatic hospital births I stopped my family sooner than I wanted to. This is how birth is meant to be! God Bless your family ❤

    • @by159w
      @by159w Рік тому

      @@karmiefen3464 Pray for your husband to have a change of heart, or to find a doctor that will be very low-intervention + support your desires/respect you in a hospital setting ✨ I hear of some women that keep having their babies at a hospital just because they found a doctor that respects them so! 💛

  • @KourtneyRust
    @KourtneyRust 8 місяців тому +3

    I’m not sure if it’s my hormones or what but I cried throughout this beautiful movie. It solidifies my decision of doing a home birth & brings me comfort that it’s possible to have a peaceful birthing experience.

  • @Drkhadidjafatimaelhorri
    @Drkhadidjafatimaelhorri Рік тому +4

    Such a beautiful video, I got tears in my eyes, i am a paediatrician and I totally encourage this method of birth, no stress no hospital vibe, it is a sacred moment for parents and it needs to be so intimate like you did, congratulations 😊

  • @KateLJ1799
    @KateLJ1799 2 роки тому +38

    I don't have any children yet but I've always thought that if I am ever blessed enough to have children I couldn't wait the whole nine months to find out if it's a boy or a girl. As soon as I know it's possible to find out, I'm just so impatient that I don't think I could wait any longer. But seeing your reactions in the moment that you found out that it was a girl honestly might have completely changed my mind now.

    • @NicolesNaturals
      @NicolesNaturals 2 роки тому +2

      I waited each time I gave birth and it was so worth it.

    • @greentree730
      @greentree730 2 роки тому +3

      I waited all three times and was glad I did. You only get a small handful of surprises in life and this is the best! People do these reveal parties now, its a trend I guess.

    • @jmk1962
      @jmk1962 2 роки тому +3

      I think it helps when going through the birth to not know the gender, it keeps you going because you want to know what the baby is going to be and then you get the joy when you find out what it is when it's born.
      I hate when people find out before, it takes away the surprise.
      The only time I think it's better to know is if you have say 2 boys and are wanting a girl, then it's probably best to know before the birth so you don't feel dissapointed when the baby comes if it is another boy. It gives you time to adjust and realise you are never going to have a daughter so by the time the baby arrives you are over it and welcome your 3rd son or vice versa.

    • @alisalaska1786
      @alisalaska1786 2 роки тому

      I mean most people have that big of a reaction when finding out during pregnancy. It’s just a personal preference thing.

  • @ali_plz
    @ali_plz 2 роки тому +5

    I just love how sweet Scout was giving you hugs and kisses. So sweet!! 💕Congratulations!! She’s your newest daughter is perfect!!

  • @laraw4191
    @laraw4191 2 роки тому +16

    Her daughter is so empathetic.. it’s so lovely to see

  • @sp00kybbies
    @sp00kybbies Рік тому +8

    I love how empathetic your little girl is. She is going to grow up strong like her mama.

  • @ria5950
    @ria5950 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much for sharing your birth experiences and lives through your beautiful and inspiring videos! i have had 4 traumatic hospital births that were non-elective due to ''protocol'' in the country i live in. i have been educating myself on vba4c as i am now 6 months into our 5th pregnancy, and feel so incredibly compelled to stand in my divine power as a wombyn and share this gift of creation that was bestowed upon us to bring life earthside.
    Willing to do whatever it takes to have our baby at home safely with the right Midwife and perhaps doula. Growing with the flow! Much love beautiful souls!!!!