Wathinta indaba enkulu maKhumalo:generational trends/genetic dispositions are major contributors to the manner inwhich Men treat their women emshadweni. Sometimes my background as a women also attracts me to a man with such background traits bese zitholana phezulu🤛🤜. This is so complex and painful, bcos as you said it's recurring. Siyabonga kwiGumbi, Mseleku Queens. Big Up!!
Mayeni & maNgwabe are my best though ngilithanda lonke ladies, unity and respect that's what I see and love from all you, Angazi lenzanjani lizwane kanje li share indoda, I salute you ladies, and loving you gals.
First of all your unity. Humbleness, indlela leninikana sikhatsi ngayo nakuphendvula lomunye I love it. I was in an abusive relationship for almost 15 years, ngangitsi wentiwa tjwala, ngoba nase a sober is a nice and caring men, emaphoyisa bese adziniwe agcina atsi sekatobopha mine nyalo, kulapho ngacala khona kuvuleka nekucabanga kutsi ngifune indlela yekuphuma but it was not easy ngokuyitjela ngiyathanda la angiyindawo, kwase kuta bhusha afuna kungicoba , ngasindza, wabuya ngelelinye lilanga washo watsi bengifuna kukwenta I mince meat namuhla ngabe bayangibuka bayangenyanya bantfu and no police case, kunzima langaphandle bomama julani kulendaba, nkulunkulu namadlozi can help to free yourself from abuse
I love u bomake kakhulu... Ayikho nayinye nje intfo lekumele ihlalelwe ngumake loshaywako emshadweni... Make loshaywako u are enough just leave this man lokuhlukubetako.... Remember u are your own woman... U were before this man nd u will be after him.... Makhumalo I love you so so much...
Woow what a topic, I'm glad I went out to the toxic relationship it been 13yrs of marriage and I went out i don't blame myself this thing is so huge even children get affected it's not about us only
I concur with what Thobile and maYeni said about men who beat up wo men when they are drunk and those that have grew up in the eyes of abuse. Some men fail to express themselves when they are sober, they bottle up, hence they resort to alcohol to be more violent. Then those who grew up with abusive parents saw it as a norm and thus they are practicing it
I pray that all women everywhere in the world will find strength from God to leave any kind of toxic relationship. God bless💜. I would love to add on the love part, in a relationship love alone is never enough and if you see women leaving long term relationships, its not cause they no longer love their partner. Sibashiya uthando lusavutha kakhulu ngoba basixakile.
I love you o mama mseleku mina i think you guys should have your own talk show .. televised .. it shows to me ingani akha nani nje on your relationship as sister wives ..
Ngiyafumelana noMakhumalo the background part before you get to marriage it's important cos whatever bad or good habits of family it follows you mina I have experienced that in my family
Mina nganishayelwa ukuthi asikwazi ukuthola abantwana.ngokuhamba kwesikhathi sathola ukuthi uye unenkinga kodwa ngisho esetholile akazange asho kubo wabayeka baqhubeka bacabanga ukuthi inking ikimi. Lento kshuthi yayimudla bese ekhiphela kimi konke ukucasuka kwakhe eskhundleni sokuhlala phansi sithole isixazululo, this went on for years ngaze ngakhetha ukuhamba ngoba ngase ngibona ukuthi ngizofela ubala.two years after I met a new man n we have a handsome baby boy.
Ngingamane ngibeyisahluleki, why do I have to tolerate into engilimazayo, abuse is abuse whether its physically, or verbal nor emotional. Hlukumezeke in the name of love.
Mamkhulu ngyazifela ngawe🥰MaK has so much to say kuba engathi uyabeqa abanye awubaniki ithuba ayke we don't blame you it's wisdom, kodwa take note on that ukuze sizokwazi ukuyilandela kahle into yenu nikhuluma nonke♥️
Mina ngazi ukuthi umuntu okthandayo akakuzwisi ubhlungu kuzekuphindeke ngoba, as a lady pain it's a pain alibekezeleleki ukuhlukumezwa masingakwenzi isikho singabantu besfazane
This is A sensitive issue ti me as A young guy because We Almost Lost my Mom due to that My Late Dad Stabbed Her Almost to Death towards that She ws hospitalised for Months We almost grew up withot A Mother she never Enjoyed Her Marriage Period that Devalued Her And Her state of Well being She suffered indeed in Her Marriage after the Hospital case dats wen she Was out of the Marriage " She never Enjoyed Her Marriage Period"
I don't understand women sometimes. What kind of love that makes a woman to tolerate abuse? In my case you start a verbal abuse, that is enough to indicate that you have lost respect for me and you humiliate me and further you don't love me at all. Let alone like. My life is too expensive whether I am poor or not. My life is above all these things. Bye.
MaKhumalo hlezi unolimi olwakhayo🔥🥰❤️
I love you MaKhumalo❤❤the way she is and her energy is the best for me. MaMkhulu is the true definition of uMfazi or inkosikazi yomntu❤❤
Always here for maKhumalo.♥️
Ubuhlakani obukuwe sisi.😇
I loooove Mayeni and Mangwabe
Mayeni your wisdom I see you
MaKuumalo I hear you madam...your words are from an intelligence women
MaYeni ❤️👌
Mayeni is so calm.. What a soul!
Mayeni is rude sometimes
She's rude nxa kufanele
@@euserbiamatadirappoppyt6130u sometimes wakho kuxa kumelee aberude if u see it as rudemna ndiyibona as standing up for herself ,akawumeli udoti nix
This is beautiful boomama bakwa Mseleku❤ Ma'K wethu omhle, Ma'Yeni ngomoya ophantsi, ma'Ngwabe ongayithathi noba ayiyo, awu Ndlunkul'uCele umqolo wooDuma😍🥰❤ Ma'K no Mhuntuza kodwa ninani🔥😍🥰❤
Makhumalo ave ungibusisa sis wam 🙌❤️❤️😍🥰🔥
I love these ladies too much and Mayeni takes a cup
Uhlakaniphile MaK😍
MaCele and MaKhumalo 💕🥰 love and respect you.
Makhumalo❤❤❤👌 so intelligent ❤❤😍😍Mzilikazi 🤗
Loving someone doesn't mean that they are good for you,sometimes it's best to love someone from a distance.
Muhle Mangwabe. Unomoya ophansi ❤️❤️
MaYeni MaKhumalo ❤❤❤
Wathinta indaba enkulu maKhumalo:generational trends/genetic dispositions are major contributors to the manner inwhich Men treat their women emshadweni. Sometimes my background as a women also attracts me to a man with such background traits bese zitholana phezulu🤛🤜. This is so complex and painful, bcos as you said it's recurring. Siyabonga kwiGumbi, Mseleku Queens. Big Up!!
Makhumalo hleeee
Mayeni, your Wisdom though i just love you
MaKhumalo 🙌🙌🙌🙌
BIG UP TO YOU LADIES... MAYENI YOU ARE VERY CALM ....ALL I SEE HERE IS RESPECT
I love you mamkhulu ❤️❤️😍
Me too l really love her
T good to see u guys together ubudlelwane buzodlondlobala❤️
Mayeni & maNgwabe are my best though ngilithanda lonke ladies, unity and respect that's what I see and love from all you, Angazi lenzanjani lizwane kanje li share indoda, I salute you ladies, and loving you gals.
Ngangimncane ngina 23 esengilobola Sina bantwana ababili esejola Uma ngimbuza angishaye ngakhetha impilo yami okundlula loyo mendo ngabaleka nabantwana bami... Ngaphola ngazimela Kodwa indlela ingangihlukumezeke ngakhona isiphelile iminyaka eminingi Kodwa kusenzima ukuvula inhliziyo yami ngithande futhi
Makhumalo ❤️😊
Mayeni 🥰🙌
Ngthanda Makhumalo❤️
First of all your unity. Humbleness, indlela leninikana sikhatsi ngayo nakuphendvula lomunye I love it. I was in an abusive relationship for almost 15 years, ngangitsi wentiwa tjwala, ngoba nase a sober is a nice and caring men, emaphoyisa bese adziniwe agcina atsi sekatobopha mine nyalo, kulapho ngacala khona kuvuleka nekucabanga kutsi ngifune indlela yekuphuma but it was not easy ngokuyitjela ngiyathanda la angiyindawo, kwase kuta bhusha afuna kungicoba , ngasindza, wabuya ngelelinye lilanga washo watsi bengifuna kukwenta I mince meat namuhla ngabe bayangibuka bayangenyanya bantfu and no police case, kunzima langaphandle bomama julani kulendaba, nkulunkulu namadlozi can help to free yourself from abuse
Ave ngimthanda uMamkhulu ❤
I love u mamkhulu all the way from Lesotho 🇱🇸
Makhumalo
Kwesinye iskhathi umuntu ukuhlukumeza ngoba esazi kakhulu ngawe ,wazi kahle ukuthi noma engakwenzani akekho ozokulwela.
Futhi akukho la uzoya khona that's why independent's is important
@@iamanafricanmashamase546 true
True
Love you MaYeni ❤️❤️❤️
GUYS mayeni is such an inspiration
Mayeni is the best 👌❤
I love u bomake kakhulu... Ayikho nayinye nje intfo lekumele ihlalelwe ngumake loshaywako emshadweni... Make loshaywako u are enough just leave this man lokuhlukubetako.... Remember u are your own woman... U were before this man nd u will be after him.... Makhumalo I love you so so much...
Woow what a topic, I'm glad I went out to the toxic relationship it been 13yrs of marriage and I went out i don't blame myself this thing is so huge even children get affected it's not about us only
Mayeni mamkhulu😊😘😍
Nice intro MaYeni.🥰
Makhumaloh💞👌
Nginithandani nobayi 4 bakithi stylish woman's of Baba uMseleko nibahle sengathi ningavumeli usathane phakathi kwenu love u beautiful♥️
They are all beautiful. Wow...
This would absolutely be a hit show. the view but make it sister wives
Definitely would be a hit show, have them host different sister wives and get their views on relationships and marriages 👌🏾🙌🏾
Mayeni girl I love
Mangwabe😍
I love you Makhosi kazi.
Sanibonani bomama mina ngiyanithanda nje mahala ❤❤do what you do best love the platforms of adressing women issues ..
Yoh laze lamnandi igumbi look amakhosikazi lisinikeza I foundation e strong Keep it up bomama Siyabonga nangesizotha senu🙌👋
Oh ladies I love you so much the way eni humble ngayo,Indoda ezothola Mina izoba nenhlanhla ngoba I learned a lots from you all 🙏
KODWA Mayeni 🥰 mft
Makhumalo uyakhona ukwakha sisi ungayeki sisi ubancende abanenkinga sifundalukhulu kuwe
Into ebalulekile ukuthi uma ungena kurelationshp noma ngabe isemshadwen ubeke wena phambili noma Injabulo yakho phambili unganikeli ngawe ngenxa yothando
Al of you Queens are so beautiful. The show is inspiring 🙏🙏
I concur with what Thobile and maYeni said about men who beat up wo men when they are drunk and those that have grew up in the eyes of abuse. Some men fail to express themselves when they are sober, they bottle up, hence they resort to alcohol to be more violent. Then those who grew up with abusive parents saw it as a norm and thus they are practicing it
Some men just want to feel superior in their own homes.
Mayeni 👑
I love Mma Khumalo and Mma Yeni
Inzima Indaba yokuhlukumezeka thanks bomama amazwi enu ayasakha
I pray that all women everywhere in the world will find strength from God to leave any kind of toxic relationship.
God bless💜.
I would love to add on the love part, in a relationship love alone is never enough and if you see women leaving long term relationships, its not cause they no longer love their partner. Sibashiya uthando lusavutha kakhulu ngoba basixakile.
Mamkhulu Nkosi🔥❤️
Mayeni ❤️❤️❤️
Mmmm wow this show supposed to be on TV. Yafundisa kakhulu
Makhumalo uyitshaye ngqo
You have a good and inspiring content ladies , I love 💕 you maK ur thinking capacity is very smart
MaKhumalo🥰❤
Mahle amakhosikazi kamseleku ❤️🌹
Please add English subtitles 🇧🇼
home girl😀😘🇧🇼
Noma kungaze kube nesizathu akusho ukuthi kumele aze akushaye ikhona indlela yokulungisa izinto for the fact that ukubeke isandla kumele ubheke ngenye indlela bese uqaphele ngobakungenzeka angagcini
MaNgwabe😍
Macele Mamkhulu I love you girl ❤️
Love her too❤
I love you o mama mseleku mina i think you guys should have your own talk show .. televised .. it shows to me ingani akha nani nje on your relationship as sister wives ..
Ngiyafumelana noMakhumalo the background part before you get to marriage it's important cos whatever bad or good habits of family it follows you mina I have experienced that in my family
Weeeee ngahamba ngangabheka emuva ngasengifile isbhaxu ngibekezela lapho njalo ungshayela ukth ubuya ezintombini zakhe zimphathise umphako kungonakele lu2o nje ngoth ngyaphendula nje sixoxa sengozwa ngesbhaxu nje ngishawelwan awu we bakwethu ngashiya bo
Siyabonga ukuthi ukhe the wena cc uphuma usaphila.
Mina nganishayelwa ukuthi asikwazi ukuthola abantwana.ngokuhamba kwesikhathi sathola ukuthi uye unenkinga kodwa ngisho esetholile akazange asho kubo wabayeka baqhubeka bacabanga ukuthi inking ikimi. Lento kshuthi yayimudla bese ekhiphela kimi konke ukucasuka kwakhe eskhundleni sokuhlala phansi sithole isixazululo, this went on for years ngaze ngakhetha ukuhamba ngoba ngase ngibona ukuthi ngizofela ubala.two years after I met a new man n we have a handsome baby boy.
So why didn't you get him arrested? Y'all always let these men get away with so much.
Ngingamane ngibeyisahluleki, why do I have to tolerate into engilimazayo, abuse is abuse whether its physically, or verbal nor emotional. Hlukumezeke in the name of love.
so lovely .and beautiful
We need English subtitles please family..some of us don't understand 😢The topic sounds interesting
the show is for isizulu not mabhunu
@@mduduziMavundla7242 andihleki🤣🤣🤣
@@mduduziMavundla7242
but they have an international audiance
and it will make commercial sense ( more money)
bahle omama Mseleku bahlakaniphile bonke indlela abayphatha ngayo inkinga yomuntu iyakha ksala kuwe ukt ukhethan
Ai Mawami Makhumalo unobuhlakani ngimthanda iscefe❤️
Mamkhulu ngyazifela ngawe🥰MaK has so much to say kuba engathi uyabeqa abanye awubaniki ithuba ayke we don't blame you it's wisdom, kodwa take note on that ukuze sizokwazi ukuyilandela kahle into yenu nikhuluma nonke♥️
Always and I wonder what is wrong with her
Niyalona uhleli labantu bakhuluma isizulu lemfundo yenu ayi angisho lutho umuntu ofuna ukwazi ngeke azi Ngoba vele luxoxwa ngesizulu Nina ke🤷
Mina ngazi ukuthi umuntu okthandayo akakuzwisi ubhlungu kuzekuphindeke ngoba, as a lady pain it's a pain alibekezeleleki ukuhlukumezwa masingakwenzi isikho singabantu besfazane
There is no love in being abused women out there start loving yourself and stop thinking that your love is around a man. Only God loves you
Yabona eyokubekezela ayisebenzi bagcina besibulala labantu wakushaya nje baleka ngenyawo zombili ungalindi ukuze akuphinde impilo iyodwa ayikho eyesibili
So interesting 🤔
This is A sensitive issue ti me as A young guy because We Almost Lost my Mom due to that My Late Dad Stabbed Her Almost to Death towards that She ws hospitalised for Months We almost grew up withot A Mother she never Enjoyed Her Marriage Period that Devalued Her And Her state of Well being She suffered indeed in Her Marriage after the Hospital case dats wen she Was out of the Marriage " She never Enjoyed Her Marriage Period"
Love you all my beautiful sisters ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yhoooo bomama nayithinta lendaba mna ndoyika nokungena emendweni ngoba iyajika indoda ibeyinto ongayazi sekuphakathi
Eish Makhumalo, yho i thought she was absent. Yhu cant keep quiet.
Hhay uyakhetha uMseleku we bantu, mahle lamakhisikazi
Sanibona kwaMseleku , eyokushaywa cha bantu besifazane awusiyo inja yakhe azohlezi ishaywa,colleague wami wafa edutshulwe boyfriend ehlezi kwi abuse relationship
MaK is the best❤
Yaz ngyamthanda umamkhuluu
Beuty Queens ❤ U nina 😘😘😘😘
Woow ❤️ ❤️ MA K
Into ebuhlungu ukuthi ngisho ungamuceba kubo bayamuvuna ngoba uye oletha isinkwa, usaba nokubuyela ekhaya ngoba awufuni ukubukeka njengesahluleki.
Molo mntase Makhumza❤️💐
Sanibonani zithandwa zami ave nginithanda yazina. Baqinisile bathi love is blind. Ngelinye ilanga lomlisa uzobubona ubu wrong bakhe
Hawu yaqamuka ivideo isengakapheli lendaba, sicela ichubeke boMseleku, ngiyanithanda nonke makhosikazi aMseleku nami ngiyafisa ukuganwa noma sengehluleka ngokuthi bamane babe babili nje kuphela
Makhumalos wisdom 👏
I don't understand women sometimes. What kind of love that makes a woman to tolerate abuse? In my case you start a verbal abuse, that is enough to indicate that you have lost respect for me and you humiliate me and further you don't love me at all. Let alone like. My life is too expensive whether I am poor or not. My life is above all these things. Bye.
Mangwabe for me❤❤
I like to follow the wives from namibia but they don't use English more and I can't keep up cause I understand nothing.sad
Ngizithandela umaYeni nje no Makhumalo guys niyasakha nje nonke niyathandwa yithi