the advice is very general.although this not bad but almost every guy does this. so heres some real advice to all guys who want to become better: 1) do not go for the best looking girl in the room. this is the first advice i give because it makes guys learn not to approach each girl with dating or sex at the back of their mind. it also makes them see which girl is genuinely interested in them and is compatible with them instead of just blindly chasing hot girls. 2) do not give a fuck. never think about getting girls. think about making yourself better. as i said in first point : u do not wanna have an ulterior motive subconsciously girls pick up on it. 3) be the best possible version of you. improve your body to look like a god, be passionate and ambitious for ur job, improve your fashion sense, improve your social skills etc improve at your strengths and weaknesses whatever they might be. 4) finally dont be scared to fuck up. it might take you years before you figure out everything. it took me 2. i cant stress enough , you learn from your mistakes. there will be times u feel bad but u have to make sure ur doing this for the right reasons. ur not doing this to get girls. u are doing this to become a better human and girls are just a bonus.
I love the way you talk about this. On facebook and instagram you often see people with way too high expectations talking about what kind of guy they want. "He has to buy me gifts! He has to be melting down with joy every time he sees me! He's not allowed to find other girls attractive! He has to treat me like a queen! He always has to put me first! He will always choose me over his friends! He has to spend every single minute with me! He has to send me goodnight texts every single day! When I say I'm 'fine', he has to spend his entire precious life time trying to figure out why I'm NOT fine! He puts my well being over his! He has to always agree with me! He has to put up with ALL my bullshit and bitchiness! If he doesn't constantly think of me day and night, he's not worth my time! He has to do this for me! He has to do that for me!" (Obviously this was exaggerated, but sadly, not that much). Whenever I see these things, I wonder... "What do YOU bring into the relationship? What makes you think you DESERVE a guy who does these things for you? What will you do for him?" This is one of the first relationship advice videos I've agreed with because I can actually relate! Almost all these things are what I search for in a guy. He doesn't need to be a super-human or sacrifice his health and every spare minute of his life to make me happy. It's the little things. I feel like some people forget that men are only human and that they don't only exist for their girlfriends' pleasure. For all you guys: not only those men whose only purpose in life it seems to be to make their girlfriends happy deserve a good girl. It's TOTALLY enough if you're respectful and have a good sense of humor. You're great the way you are.
Ok, The most important quality that women look for that was left out from this video is: Financial Independence. You will never meet and have a long term relationship without this quality. You need a decent job, pay your bills, and know how to save for the future. If you aren't a good provider, none of the other qualities will really matter. Take it from the happily married guy, who has been around this block before. If you have a crappy job or no job, forget about dating and focus in your career. Women will rarely openly admit it, but it is the cornerstone of a healthy long term relationship.
As long as you can take care of yourself I mean she should not be carrying your load as well. As long as it is just that I'm fine with it plus I have my ambitions and hobbies which are kinda expensive.
1st rule for figuring out what women want in a boyfriend: Don't ask women. 2nd rule for figuring out what women want in a boyfriend: DON'T. ASK. WOMEN.
Scott K guys who complain about women's preferences in men are so annoying and it's honestly so telling of their personalities. You rarely hear women complaining about men's preferences even though men have a larger reputation for being jerks and only caring about sex/looks
+starsee73 - It's not that I find women's preferences annoying. It's that women are rarely forthcoming (and/or often times simply unaware) of the *real* forces behind their attraction to any given man. Every women will list the same cliché qualities: "I want an intelligent, ambitious, chivalrous, confident man, who is caring and funny and has a passion for what he does" Blah blah blah. They list these qualities because they are the characteristics they can list without fear of being judged, and because they watch too many chick flicks. Truth is, if you can make her cum, maker her laugh, decide where to eat, and aren't socially inept, you are infinitely more likely to keep your girl hooked than the most "ambitious" "chivalrous" "intelligent" "polite" guys who lack these abilities. Definitely not saying this is an excuse to be lazy, inconsiderate, or un-chivalrous. I think being chivalrous and caring and intelligent and hard working are all very important. But they are definitely not the deal makers/breakers that women pretend they are.
no offense it is the most general advice one can give..... and most guys do all of this. this is general courtesy and basic stuff. to be perceived as attractive you must become the best version of yourself in all areas if ur having trouble with girls. sorry to break this to u there are no short cuts. if u just follow the advice she gave you u probably will be a friend to her and nothing more.
john smith No, the ship didn't bother her. She even said she's ok with that. What bothers her is people trying to force their way to get the gossip on her personal life.
I like how she said 2 really bad jokes that just had me dead faced and then said "good things guys don't always want a funny girl" and thats what made me laugh. Cho with the long con
It's kinda hard for me to imagine doing something sexual with some girl cause what i really wanna do with my girlfriend (if i have one) is just like talk some really deep things, anything randomly, lying down looking at the stars, not sexual things cause i believe it's more romantic than something sexual
You should maybe check if 'asexual' represent you :3... I mean, it's something that people are not familiar to. (Like lesbian, bi, and homosexual...etc) but it's also in the LGBTQ+ community :3 And I'm sure you'll find a girlfriend who's not interesting in sexual thing. (I have a friend in this situation who find someone :D)
There's one guy did that every time for me. Open car doors, let me enter the car first, take food for me n see me eat first, sit beside me every meal (and not sit opposite me)
This was actually really good advice and not just some personality transplant into being some sort of jerky or something like that. Thank you, this really helps!
Chivalry is one thing, but what types of chivalry are reserved only for your significant other as opposed to the general populace? (eg You hold open doors for everyone, but you don't lend your coat to girls other than your girlfriend...)
was literally about to Google "traits in guys that girls like" and this video popped up lol. Thanks for the tips, Arden! Love your energy and smile. You're beautiful
This was actually so proper..rather than focusing on body image or other this that only represent you on the outside....I love how u talked bout feelings and this was so true on my part. As a girl I approve of this message...Also *UNRELATED* but REALLY MISSED U IN TEEN WOLF FINALE !!!!!!! 😍😍😍😍😍
+Cras gomez Of course not, however Arden and Ryan sort of secretly have a relationship, that's why people are only mentioning him, because he might have been her inspiration for this video.
money. more content for us. life producing more life... topics about the process of the mating ritual to create.... its a good thing, I guess im hating.
When advice number 10 said "take it slow" I thought you meant in the bedroom haha. I was thinking the advice was the best I seen on youtube up to that point lol. Keep it up this is great stuff!
Wtf ..I used to send these types of lame ass jokes to my crush..I wonder if she liked it or not , her reply used to be just a smiley face😂😂..LMAO feels so cringy remembering these 😂😂
I think it depends on where you live too... a lot of guys my age (college age 18-25) will often find themselves being called a misogynist for just holding a door open for a woman, or told that they are part of the patriarchy... so a lot just don't even bother anymore...
+Ammar Anwar Well, some women just don't like chivalry. Some do. And that's fine. If a woman doesn't like you going out of your way to seem like a gentleman, then why is that such a problem for you? Personally I'm not a fan of chivalry either. And no, it's not because I think it's "sexist", but because I'd rather like to be treated like a woman and not like a little girl, but that's just me. Others like it and that's okay too. You just have to find out yourself if the girl you're with even wants a chivalrous guy or not. If she doesn't, just stop. If she does, carry on. And if she calls you a sexist....dodge the bullet and leave lol.
chivalry is something you can't do on a person by person basis, that's like saying be polite to people who like being polite to and rude to those who don't, chivalry is something a man either is or isn't, otherwise he is just faking it....
May I also recommend guys making sure their eyebrows are nicely groomed? Because I recommend that. You can get them waxed and then maintain them on your own. Another thing along with 9: no one likes it when guys ask them out by saying "Do you wanna do something sometime" and then when you agree and ask about it they say "Whenever and whatever you want."
Well when you ask out a girl 3 different times with 3 different ideas and she doesn't accept either one then it comes to that point. Yes she was interested in me because she kept in contact and kept asking me to hang out with her.
Ho Brahh you gotta be careful with those, it seems like most women who are feminists have really really bad experiences with men and hence why they are feminists. Many of them are super mean like that not all but some.
I feel like Arden and Ryan are in this stage of i-like-you-but-i-am-not-sure-if-i-should-confess-yet and this video is a subtle hint of what Arden looks in for a guy aka Ryan 😍😍
Lmao I love all the people in the comment section that are super butt hurt like "Omg I am ALL of this and girls won't date me >:(" They're all the kinda people on r/niceguys
lmao I actually didn't know about the history behind the "guy walking on the roadside of the sidewalk" thing, but I had always done it because in my country ppl would snatch your purse easier from a vehicle
@Andrew Cromartie yes it's over for women in these next years. They gave them all the freedom to benefit from men, and they sabotaged us now they pay the price and they will pay it for years that come
Thank you Jay!!!!! This is the underlining thing right here and nothing else. Friend zone: Real simple, ask a girl out, and say hey you, (give complement here like your cool girl that I would like to get to know more) seem like a cool girl I'd like to get to know you more, wanna grab a bit to eat or an ice cream? if she says no (and you know her) tell her ok, call me if you change your mind I'd love to see you again.
just be a well rounded individual. I feel when you work on yourself it pays dividends for yourself going forward. Take care of your health by eating well, taking care of your skin, exercising, grooming with regular haircuts/shaving.Have an income in either a trade or thru college (a specialization). Dress into clothes that fit you well and have a decent variety. Be interesting by learning and doing new things you become passionate about. Be a decent person to everyone around you. Amazes me as a dude how easy it is to stand out as most guys don't do any of these.
@ardenBcho it used to be the other way around when it comes to the walking on the sidewalk (a long time ago, before running water). Women would walk on the side closer to the "road", because in the time before a house had running water, people had water buckets that may (more than likely) have been completely filthy, and they would simply throw it out of the window of their home. By the man standing closer towards the house, he would take that shot of filthy water
Um no, what girls want is guys who are interested in them, can talk to freely, laugh along with them, have common interests, who they don't have to put up a farce for and whose company makes them happy. Idk what arden's list is ever gonna do in the real world, but please, attractiveness and money is completely unattractive if the person has a shit personality. Also, the door pulling, chair pulling thing is probably a conditional thing....depends on the woman you're dating i guess. I'd rather my bf would NOT do stuff like that. The only chivalrous the thing I want from guys is to make sure your girl is in for sex before initiating it. Respect a serious "No". And voila, you're totally a guy worth dating.
Title should be "Type of guys that girls want to date, but never do" 😂
the advice is very general.although this not bad but almost every guy does this. so heres some real advice to all guys who want to become better:
1) do not go for the best looking girl in the room. this is the first advice i give because it makes guys learn not to approach each girl with dating or sex at the back of their mind. it also makes them see which girl is genuinely interested in them and is compatible with them instead of just blindly chasing hot girls.
2) do not give a fuck. never think about getting girls. think about making yourself better. as i said in first point : u do not wanna have an ulterior motive subconsciously girls pick up on it.
3) be the best possible version of you. improve your body to look like a god, be passionate and ambitious for ur job, improve your fashion sense, improve your social skills etc improve at your strengths and weaknesses whatever they might be.
4) finally dont be scared to fuck up. it might take you years before you figure out everything. it took me 2. i cant stress enough , you learn from your mistakes. there will be times u feel bad but u have to make sure ur doing this for the right reasons. ur not doing this to get girls. u are doing this to become a better human and girls are just a bonus.
Alejandro Chavez tbh bro😂
zubair khan you don't look like a god though soooooo
zubair khan too much based Zeus for today
what women say and do are complete opposites
"Asking a girl for dating advice is like asking a deer for hunting advice"
Tristan Mark Ebenezer 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Fak im dead
I love the way you talk about this. On facebook and instagram you often see people with way too high expectations talking about what kind of guy they want. "He has to buy me gifts! He has to be melting down with joy every time he sees me! He's not allowed to find other girls attractive! He has to treat me like a queen! He always has to put me first! He will always choose me over his friends! He has to spend every single minute with me! He has to send me goodnight texts every single day! When I say I'm 'fine', he has to spend his entire precious life time trying to figure out why I'm NOT fine! He puts my well being over his! He has to always agree with me! He has to put up with ALL my bullshit and bitchiness! If he doesn't constantly think of me day and night, he's not worth my time! He has to do this for me! He has to do that for me!" (Obviously this was exaggerated, but sadly, not that much). Whenever I see these things, I wonder... "What do YOU bring into the relationship? What makes you think you DESERVE a guy who does these things for you? What will you do for him?"
This is one of the first relationship advice videos I've agreed with because I can actually relate! Almost all these things are what I search for in a guy. He doesn't need to be a super-human or sacrifice his health and every spare minute of his life to make me happy. It's the little things. I feel like some people forget that men are only human and that they don't only exist for their girlfriends' pleasure. For all you guys: not only those men whose only purpose in life it seems to be to make their girlfriends happy deserve a good girl. It's TOTALLY enough if you're respectful and have a good sense of humor. You're great the way you are.
Ok, The most important quality that women look for that was left out from this video is: Financial Independence. You will never meet and have a long term relationship without this quality. You need a decent job, pay your bills, and know how to save for the future. If you aren't a good provider, none of the other qualities will really matter. Take it from the happily married guy, who has been around this block before. If you have a crappy job or no job, forget about dating and focus in your career. Women will rarely openly admit it, but it is the cornerstone of a healthy long term relationship.
Alaadeen Thabit Is not about the money, is about stability.
Few will understand, let alone, agree with the remise of your point.
Dmg Control
Don’t Bullshit me.
As long as you can take care of yourself I mean she should not be carrying your load as well. As long as it is just that I'm fine with it plus I have my ambitions and hobbies which are kinda expensive.
My friend ended his first date with only a high five. I am going to retell this story at their wedding.
Omg tell me how it goes:)
1st rule for figuring out what women want in a boyfriend: Don't ask women.
2nd rule for figuring out what women want in a boyfriend: DON'T. ASK. WOMEN.
thats what coach corey wayne says
Scott K ...Everybody know what women want in a Guy : Good sex and plenty of resources...Period.
Scott K guys who complain about women's preferences in men are so annoying and it's honestly so telling of their personalities. You rarely hear women complaining about men's preferences even though men have a larger reputation for being jerks and only caring about sex/looks
+starsee73 - It's not that I find women's preferences annoying. It's that women are rarely forthcoming (and/or often times simply unaware) of the *real* forces behind their attraction to any given man. Every women will list the same cliché qualities: "I want an intelligent, ambitious, chivalrous, confident man, who is caring and funny and has a passion for what he does" Blah blah blah. They list these qualities because they are the characteristics they can list without fear of being judged, and because they watch too many chick flicks.
Truth is, if you can make her cum, maker her laugh, decide where to eat, and aren't socially inept, you are infinitely more likely to keep your girl hooked than the most "ambitious" "chivalrous" "intelligent" "polite" guys who lack these abilities.
Definitely not saying this is an excuse to be lazy, inconsiderate, or un-chivalrous. I think being chivalrous and caring and intelligent and hard working are all very important. But they are definitely not the deal makers/breakers that women pretend they are.
this is the mentality of somebody who doesn't even try and just blame women for being so EVIL
I like how this list is actually real, and not some bullshit advice.
Proper advice here!
EXACTLY!!!
Yes! I love how she didn't put unrealistic and super high expectations on guys like most other online relationship "advice".
no offense it is the most general advice one can give..... and most guys do all of this. this is general courtesy and basic stuff. to be perceived as attractive you must become the best version of yourself in all areas if ur having trouble with girls. sorry to break this to u there are no short cuts. if u just follow the advice she gave you u probably will be a friend to her and nothing more.
Want some advice on how to get laid?
Real load of shit maybe lol
This should be titled "How to get friendzoned"
I'm literally the king of friend zones
@Mr. Plain and Simple well now I got in the brother zone
Gitarth Sonowal for reaaaaallllll
@Callan Williams thik ase kla
@@gitarthsonowal6703 damn still alive dude
RYAN HIGA 100%
Marcus Chan yaaaahhhhh
*hey!! hope youre having a great day! could u check out my recent vlog
Marcus Chan there channels are similar because they used to be a thing so there channels are are somewhat intersecting
Marcus Chan À
Marcus Chan
I was going to say that as well!
Not only because i ship Ryden but also because Ryan is perfect and I love him 😂😂😂
So u need to be perfect. Lmao im out
Just give up
😂😂☝🏼
She said any one of these would be beneficial. You obviously weren’t even listening 01:23 in. Haha good one
Yeah is hard to have all of those qualities but is not impossible, you just need to work on some of the areas you think you need to get better at.
This vid is not made for us bro
Arden likes puns
Ryan does puns
Ryden confirmed
Sup shipper 😄
I like cinnamon puns
Vielt Barrios yes!!! I ship it!!
I don't think Arden's and Ryan's love life is any of our business. She made a video about "Ryden", hinting that the "ship" bothered her. So drop it.
john smith No, the ship didn't bother her. She even said she's ok with that. What bothers her is people trying to force their way to get the gossip on her personal life.
dont listen to her, be yourself , dont be a person you are not, if you lie to yourself you most likely gonna lie to HER as well
Facts. If it’s all an act you will not hold up. Better to just be yourself.
My life is a lie anyway
I like how she said 2 really bad jokes that just had me dead faced and then said "good things guys don't always want a funny girl" and thats what made me laugh. Cho with the long con
after do all these and still get friendzone
It's kinda hard for me to imagine doing something sexual with some girl cause what i really wanna do with my girlfriend (if i have one) is just like talk some really deep things, anything randomly, lying down looking at the stars, not sexual things cause i believe it's more romantic than something sexual
Satria Perwira me too! Glad to have a guy like that one day, hopefully
You should maybe check if 'asexual' represent you :3... I mean, it's something that people are not familiar to. (Like lesbian, bi, and homosexual...etc) but it's also in the LGBTQ+ community :3
And I'm sure you'll find a girlfriend who's not interesting in sexual thing. (I have a friend in this situation who find someone :D)
Azu no he is just romantic and that is amazing
swamidude he didn't say he won't have sex with her he want to love her first ok
swamidude i think u misinterpreted his opinions. It’s okay if u don’t reach the real understanding cuz others sure will
"Pulls chairs, open doors, offers jacket"
EVERY ROMANTIC MOVIE ANYONE??
S I thought that too omggg rydeennn
There's one guy did that every time for me. Open car doors, let me enter the car first, take food for me n see me eat first, sit beside me every meal (and not sit opposite me)
Done these but became their bestfriend 😐
Hans Baes Friend zone can be a slow painful death.
sorry for you
this
Hans Baes 👏👏👏👏👏👏🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😣😣😣😣😭😭😭😭😭😭
You can't get stuck in the friend zone if you value female friendship
A simple compliment, humor, patience, smells good and being a gentleman with a touch of confidence, sprinkled in. Check.
"You would look really good next to me."
Probably because I'm fugly, and anyone would look like a supermodel in comparison.
😂😂😭
This was actually really good advice and not just some personality transplant into being some sort of jerky or something like that. Thank you, this really helps!
Shivering is not dead either.
YOOO REFERENCES
John Esgarth I always shiver in the cold
Ryan.......
Only people who've watched a long time know. :) Ryannn
John Esgarth The reference!!😂💕
The lame jokes you told were presented in a similar style to Ryan Higa.
Couples tend to assimilate into one person over time. I'm still shaking off some of my ex's sayings and mannerisms lol
Oh really? I can name others who are like that, like Brent Rivera
Some Dude why do you think so?
Typical asians dude
Priya H I
She basically describes Ryan Higa 😂😂😂
Darren Vega How? Do you know him?
Aye smart
Darren Vega hhhhh loooool
1:00 is a "nice guys finish last" reference!!!! Omg!!
Chivalry is one thing, but what types of chivalry are reserved only for your significant other as opposed to the general populace? (eg You hold open doors for everyone, but you don't lend your coat to girls other than your girlfriend...)
As they say--use your judgement.
Me : * walks to random girl on the street *
Me : Your armpit looks fantastic
well.. shes just describing a someone hmm
Who could that be 🤔
Hyan Riga I believe.
*H Y A N R I G A*
Oh I was thinking Rope from BgA but it could be Hyan Riga I guess
Rachel Espinosa w
Hint hint, my boi Ryan Higa
#10 will get you friend zoned.
In the dating game, as soon as we leave, memories slowly fade, and new flirtations arise.
Who else clicked on this vid to see if Arden is describing Ryan Higa?? Lol :))
After a date, Im gonna do what you say and give a long warm hug and see if she texts me the next day. If she did , you’re the best Arden!!!!
So basically.. Ryan.
Zo Kashif dude
was literally about to Google "traits in guys that girls like" and this video popped up lol. Thanks for the tips, Arden! Love your energy and smile. You're beautiful
Am I the only one who went to the comments to look for Ryden shippers? Lol
RedNin samee
yup
nope
Well guess what they're dating
I do miss the " be yourself/honest" one. Because if you can't be yourself around the one that you like it won't last.
I ended too many dates with a high five... smh
You got a high five? Jealous brah
Were you doing sports LOL?
FlogTheNitwit HeDeservesIt IM DEAD
I'm not surprised you see she has an album! Her voice is so nice I can listen to her talk on and on! Subscribed at 598K.
This was actually so proper..rather than focusing on body image or other this that only represent you on the outside....I love how u talked bout feelings and this was so true on my part. As a girl I approve of this message...Also *UNRELATED* but REALLY MISSED U IN TEEN WOLF FINALE !!!!!!! 😍😍😍😍😍
My god you are adorable! Those jokes along with that cologne dance made me smile.
description_of_ryan_higa.mp4
Rachel Espinosa that’s cute but he’s not the only one
+Cras gomez Of course not, however Arden and Ryan sort of secretly have a relationship, that's why people are only mentioning him, because he might have been her inspiration for this video.
money. more content for us. life producing more life... topics about the process of the mating ritual to create.... its a good thing, I guess im hating.
+Cras gomez What.
I really love this positive radiant Arden!!!
My dream is to get noticed by Arden Cho because I love her
When advice number 10 said "take it slow" I thought you meant in the bedroom haha. I was thinking the advice was the best I seen on youtube up to that point lol. Keep it up this is great stuff!
She’s describing Ryan lol
This was super wholesome. I feel warm and fuzzy now.
why Is arden always so smart and nice, whoever is with you is lucky (DON'T REPLY WITH "she's with ryan" just plz stop)
This is so accurate! Pretty much all the guys I've dated fall under most of these categories.
Why couldn't the toilet paper cross the street?
Because it got stuck in a crack!
Elbert Traister HHHHAAAAAAAA
Wtf ..I used to send these types of lame ass jokes to my crush..I wonder if she liked it or not , her reply used to be just a smiley face😂😂..LMAO feels so cringy remembering these 😂😂
Yes finally someone makes a video on this thank you.
YESSS Chivalry is not dead 😫 I wish some guys knew, i will always fall for a gentleman 😘
I think it depends on where you live too... a lot of guys my age (college age 18-25) will often find themselves being called a misogynist for just holding a door open for a woman, or told that they are part of the patriarchy... so a lot just don't even bother anymore...
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umm, no, chivalry IS dead, and women killed it! (dave chappelle reference anyone? anyone?)
+Ammar Anwar Well, some women just don't like chivalry. Some do. And that's fine. If a woman doesn't like you going out of your way to seem like a gentleman, then why is that such a problem for you?
Personally I'm not a fan of chivalry either. And no, it's not because I think it's "sexist", but because I'd rather like to be treated like a woman and not like a little girl, but that's just me. Others like it and that's okay too. You just have to find out yourself if the girl you're with even wants a chivalrous guy or not. If she doesn't, just stop. If she does, carry on. And if she calls you a sexist....dodge the bullet and leave lol.
chivalry is something you can't do on a person by person basis, that's like saying be polite to people who like being polite to and rude to those who don't, chivalry is something a man either is or isn't, otherwise he is just faking it....
Nowadays even if guys being polite or just having a simple greeting , they literally instantly turn you off by either walking away or say im busy
May I also recommend guys making sure their eyebrows are nicely groomed? Because I recommend that. You can get them waxed and then maintain them on your own.
Another thing along with 9: no one likes it when guys ask them out by saying "Do you wanna do something sometime" and then when you agree and ask about it they say "Whenever and whatever you want."
pugtrees this comes from experience but girls i know always complain about how guys naturally have perfect eyebrows so.....
Well when you ask out a girl 3 different times with 3 different ideas and she doesn't accept either one then it comes to that point. Yes she was interested in me because she kept in contact and kept asking me to hang out with her.
Much appreciated Arden. Much appreciated
Sounds like she is just describing Ryan Higa!
Your voice made me feel calm
Chivalry.....I opened the car door for a neighbour.......she was a serious feminist........Carnage Followed.
Ho Brahh you gotta be careful with those, it seems like most women who are feminists have really really bad experiences with men and hence why they are feminists. Many of them are super mean like that not all but some.
Lol move to Idaho 😂
I don't call that a feminist mindset, I call that a nutcase. Or maybe she's just VERY attached to her car....and stray fingerprints on it xD
Chivalry is Dead cause women killed it
@@peterraab3411 yes
You're one spray and your little dance was adorable, made me laugh.
You don’t let a fish
teach you how to fish
Debatable
i love how pure, raw, and honest u are its adorable XD even when ur awkward its so cute ahh ily arden !!
Next video...how to get out of the friendzone!
There is none, you only have to wait till they get desperate and run out of options.
You don't lol
RE #9: That goes both ways. I don't mind planning dates, but I will never date a girl who expects me to plan every date.
I feel like Arden and Ryan are in this stage of i-like-you-but-i-am-not-sure-if-i-should-confess-yet and this video is a subtle hint of what Arden looks in for a guy aka Ryan 😍😍
Actual list:
1) hot guys
2) hot guys
3) hot guys
4) hot guys
5) hot guys
I end up envying those hot boys, that’s when my intelligence turns me into a douchebag
Assa Darlingtoni you forgot the money
why does this reminds me of ryan?
oh thats why i want to date ryan lmao
Realistically there is three aspects to a relationship social, mental and physical
OMG I JUST DIED BC OF YOUR JOKE! My mom just asked me why I was laughing and I told her Arden made me laugh!
clicked on this thinking the title was 'Girls that Guys Want to Date'
Got the epitome of run of the mill common advice videos
Stop being nice, and just be honest to the girl. If she doesn't appreciate a man being honest, then she isn't worth a man's time.
David C Dun we are honest they dont get
Basically I'll gladly play the guy part since no one is willing to play the "first move" ...
I'm taking a note
(Just in case)
Raihan Mappuji Listen to Tom Leykis.
Agreed 100%. These tips are good and i think this is what a man should improve instead of looks
LOVE YOUR TOP
This video is so heartwarming and relatable! It is upfront and simple. I really love your videos!
Hi Ryan!
Feels good to know that other people do the "spray and dance" method :D
This is the "Guys that girls want in the friendzone" video
We need a video of Arden telling us really bad jokes!
Hey, I think you're really beautiful and would love to take you out for a cup of coffee.
Walk the plank buddy>_
I can hear crickets to this comment...is that normal?
this vid is so buttery smooth
Okay, now I need one thing.
A guy that ACTUALLY likes me
I'll take those to heart Arden. Thanks
Lmao I love all the people in the comment section that are super butt hurt like "Omg I am ALL of this and girls won't date me >:("
They're all the kinda people on r/niceguys
Well I won't say I'm angry at them but I'm just confused how this works now after 6 attempts in 4 years.
lmao I actually didn't know about the history behind the "guy walking on the roadside of the sidewalk" thing, but I had always done it because in my country ppl would snatch your purse easier from a vehicle
Funny?Seems like she's talkng about a youtuber I know #ryden
catfood yap #RyDenForTheWinnnn
You mean Ryan ?
She sounds so in loveeeeee and inspired! So adorable!
She forgot to tell you the most important type of all guys ,a rich guy with a lot of resources ,it compensates everything and her 7:27 video.
@Andrew Cromartie yes it's over for women in these next years.
They gave them all the freedom to benefit from men, and they sabotaged us now they pay the price and they will pay it for years that come
I really love your videos, Arden!! They're so relatable! :D Glad you post regularly!!
Chivalry goes towards women who deserve it. If you want a gentleman, then you must be a lady first.
Absolutely right.Very rare to happen from women when they still expect men to be gentle.
Thank you Jay!!!!! This is the underlining thing right here and nothing else. Friend zone: Real simple, ask a girl out, and say hey you, (give complement here like your cool girl that I would like to get to know more) seem like a cool girl I'd like to get to know you more, wanna grab a bit to eat or an ice cream? if she says no (and you know her) tell her ok, call me if you change your mind I'd love to see you again.
The last tip you give is the best well done
I think I have lot of this qualities but unfortunately I'm still single. So saddd.
just be a well rounded individual. I feel when you work on yourself it pays dividends for yourself going forward. Take care of your health by eating well, taking care of your skin, exercising, grooming with regular haircuts/shaving.Have an income in either a trade or thru college (a specialization). Dress into clothes that fit you well and have a decent variety. Be interesting by learning and doing new things you become passionate about. Be a decent person to everyone around you. Amazes me as a dude how easy it is to stand out as most guys don't do any of these.
beautiful shirt :)
(or dress? )
@ardenBcho it used to be the other way around when it comes to the walking on the sidewalk (a long time ago, before running water). Women would walk on the side closer to the "road", because in the time before a house had running water, people had water buckets that may (more than likely) have been completely filthy, and they would simply throw it out of the window of their home.
By the man standing closer towards the house, he would take that shot of filthy water
Lies
Be 1. Rich or 2. Handsome. Thats all that matters
Khaled Jouda be white if you want to date an asian girl
Hey... personality is the most important
Um no, what girls want is guys who are interested in them, can talk to freely, laugh along with them, have common interests, who they don't have to put up a farce for and whose company makes them happy.
Idk what arden's list is ever gonna do in the real world, but please, attractiveness and money is completely unattractive if the person has a shit personality.
Also, the door pulling, chair pulling thing is probably a conditional thing....depends on the woman you're dating i guess. I'd rather my bf would NOT do stuff like that.
The only chivalrous the thing I want from guys is to make sure your girl is in for sex before initiating it. Respect a serious "No". And voila, you're totally a guy worth dating.
And be a asshole
I'm good at that one I'll never be 1 and 2
@@onthescene7897 if ur attractive personally doesn't matter at all
It’s official! Ryan and Arden have been together for 2+ years 😍
1. money
2. confidence
that is pretty much all.
Oh gosh those jokes cracked me up! Especially the 0 and the 8 one lol xD
Type of Guys That Girls Want to Date...
JERKS
Recycle BinLaden OMG 😂 ur name
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