I absolutely agree with chunkz, especially when you’ve been on the receiving end of harsh criticism it makes you very aware to not treat others like that
Filly is insecure in his character. He wants to seem the real one. Real isn't met with contradiction. He is talking just to talk. We want the real filly.
@@user-mg9hi5ln8n my guy says, he says his girl looks fat in the dress and then says he doesn't say it like that. Real isn't met with contradiction. He is just talking to talk.
@user-mg9hi5ln8n yes many prospectives for many different things. Saying something in one breath and then back tracking and saying a completely different thing, shows no real thought in the words used. Hence my reasoning behind questioning his authenticity.
ye i agree wit chunkz too I feel like bein negative the whole time doesn’t get anywhere because like if u don’t wanna see ur girl in that fit bcuz u think it looks bad on her then what else would u like to see her in? like add input, maybe suggest a better outfit, help her look for one etc etc yknow? it helps than jus telling ur girl she looks fat n that you don’t like the outfit + if ur with a bigger girl being fat is a visual thing and there’s not much u can do to hide it not even with the slim body stuff sooo, 9 times outta 10 she’s gonna always look big in anything she wears and that’s fine! its about body distribution and finding cute clothes that match and fit her proportions and will flaunt them flawlessly. so instead of being negative about it or like jus bringing up like something ur girl is insecure about jus try making her feel good about it with better clothes while being honest in a supportive way
I reflected on this concept years ago, and I came to the conclusion that honesty is a great policy, but it must be balanced against cruelty. At some point, if you're just blatantly honest without considering the effect on the listener, then you cross into cruelty, and that's unacceptable.
I agree with you, You can say the truth and be honest but without hurting people's feeling, just be respectful in delivering your opinions.but being honest always is like impossible why ? Imagine someone is fat and he is doing his best to lose weight , you've noticed that even though he is exercising but nothing changes, that person asks you if he looks better or no , in this case what are supposed to do? are you going to tell him the truth even though you know that this will hurt his feeling or you will lie , actually I don't consider it as a lie because your protecting him from being sad , and I have another thing to add don't give comments on things that are not controlled by people like the weight , the height these kind of comments really hurt especially if the person is looking for change( weight , height can't be changed)you can comment on a bad behavior or something which is controlled ,but other things it would be better if you avoid comment on them .
Honestly, chunkz is a really hard worker and I like his hustle and i appreciate chunkz for all that he has brought to us on UA-cam
I absolutely agree with chunkz, especially when you’ve been on the receiving end of harsh criticism it makes you very aware to not treat others like that
Filly is insecure in his character. He wants to seem the real one. Real isn't met with contradiction. He is talking just to talk. We want the real filly.
@@user-mg9hi5ln8n my guy says, he says his girl looks fat in the dress and then says he doesn't say it like that. Real isn't met with contradiction. He is just talking to talk.
@user-mg9hi5ln8n yes many prospectives for many different things. Saying something in one breath and then back tracking and saying a completely different thing, shows no real thought in the words used. Hence my reasoning behind questioning his authenticity.
ye i agree wit chunkz too I feel like bein negative the whole time doesn’t get anywhere because like if u don’t wanna see ur girl in that fit bcuz u think it looks bad on her then what else would u like to see her in? like add input, maybe suggest a better outfit, help her look for one etc etc yknow? it helps than jus telling ur girl she looks fat n that you don’t like the outfit + if ur with a bigger girl being fat is a visual thing and there’s not much u can do to hide it not even with the slim body stuff sooo, 9 times outta 10 she’s gonna always look big in anything she wears and that’s fine! its about body distribution and finding cute clothes that match and fit her proportions and will flaunt them flawlessly. so instead of being negative about it or like jus bringing up like something ur girl is insecure about jus try making her feel good about it with better clothes while being honest in a supportive way
I reflected on this concept years ago, and I came to the conclusion that honesty is a great policy, but it must be balanced against cruelty. At some point, if you're just blatantly honest without considering the effect on the listener, then you cross into cruelty, and that's unacceptable.
I don’t think honesty can be exaggerated. If you want to be honest then fine. You can choose to go further in details or withhold information.
It’s the way you deliver the honesty
No diddy is a new one 😂
I agree with you, You can say the truth and be honest but without hurting people's feeling, just be respectful in delivering your opinions.but being honest always is like impossible why ? Imagine someone is fat and he is doing his best to lose weight , you've noticed that even though he is exercising but nothing changes, that person asks you if he looks better or no , in this case what are supposed to do? are you going to tell him the truth even though you know that this will hurt his feeling or you will lie , actually I don't consider it as a lie because your protecting him from being sad , and I have another thing to add don't give comments on things that are not controlled by people like the weight , the height these kind of comments really hurt especially if the person is looking for change( weight , height can't be changed)you can comment on a bad behavior or something which is controlled ,but other things it would be better if you avoid comment on them .
CHUNKZ DIDNT LIKE THE FAT COMMENT
Yes
CHUNKS DIDNT LIKE THE FAT COMMENT 🤣
yes
Filly i have the same mindset here
It needs working on though cos chunkz is kinda right
Ngl the more I hear Philly talk the more brain cells I lose
Why you watching then 😂
@@Ibby_Days21 I like chunks init and I like Philly but brother seems a lot slower these days just being honest 😹
@Harris.azj.97 he always been slow tho it's just seen much more cos u watch him in longitudinal form so it seems much less bearable
@@Ibby_Days21he’s just being brutally honest like Philly!
The worst thing filly could do was start a podcast because he’s just outing himself for being a bad person lol