CHILDHOOD TRAUMA?! | EP 365 | ShxtsNGigs Podcast
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This Week The Guys Discuss:
0:00, CHILDHOOD TRAUMA
10:19, INTRO
11:24, BACK TO SCHOOL
17:45, WHOOP UPDATE
31:29, STORMZY PROPS
35:16, DILEMMA
40:29, QUESTION FOR THE TEAM
49:48, TRASH NEWS
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The Fuhad gambling intervention is crazyyyy🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He was so defensive tooo 😂😅
@@phoenixx3951 Fr. Out here looking like he was one word away from gambling James’ life 🤣🤣
When I say he got triggered! 😂😂
I have no idea why I am laughing SO HARD.
You mannnn! 👀 *james voice*
Fuhad uses 'Wow' in a myriad of ways😂
It can convey anything from disbelief to outrage😂
I love this description so much🤣
It is a black cultural thing 🤣
“Next segment, cuz you’re chattin’ shit.” “Fair.” Killed me. 😂
That part???dead 😂😂😂😂😂
James saying "Thank God you're going to therapy, what the fuck" 8:03 killed me 😂
When James says: “Did I ever tell you guys the time …”
That’s when I whip out the skittles, popcorn and chocolate for a crazy story with a crazier lesson 🤣🤣🤣
😩😫😄😆😅😂🤣
The parables of James
@@lololollololol4819LMFAO!!!!!!! FAAAAAAAAAACCCCCCTTTTTSSSS!😅😂😂🤣💀
On God 😂
🤣🤣🤣
Rem cackling at James coming for Fuhad's gambling. He cackleddd
He (Remski) also admitted that he was concerned 😟
James said “we all feel” and I LOST ITTT 😂😂😂😂😂😂
The two much needed guests on the show this year are Tobi and James's brother
This did not go as planned. Fuhad stood firm in his choices. My man!!!!😂
“Did I ever tell you “ is becoming one of my favorite sentences 😂😂
It’s like a special extra part of the episode 😂
Remski hair ATE!!!!!!!❤❤💕💕
You all misunderstood the Jay-Z comments. He was talking about Beyoncé (rightfully so), but also talking about Black people as a whole being snubbed by the Grammys. That was the bigger picture you all missed that’s what the Grammy needs to get right. Black artists dominate the music industry the Grammy’s should reflect it.
I love James and obviously he has a right to his opinion but I often find his take on racial inequality disappointing. I don't know if it's because he grew up with a challenging sense of racial identity or because of how they perceive race in England but yea. I also wish Rem was more thorough when presenting his trash news. Like if he had a full sense of the stories he brings up. Sometimes he's looking up basic notes in real time. But it's just for entertainment. It's not journalism, but I think it would really improve the integrity of the show if he did.
Yep. Beyonce and other black artists keep winning the R&B categories but never the main ones. A grammy voter said they don't vote for Beyonce in the big categories because she wins too much. That's dumb because she only wins the "black" awards. Mariah said years ago that they said the most popular album would win, but then when the R&B became the most popular, they changed to saying the most "artistic" albums should win.
@@boogiedownjj They said a while back they don’t really research the information so I listen with that understanding, but some of them still lead me to say something because I hate to think that people take the information presented as factual. I love the show and find it entertaining but the takes on race issues I find lacking
This isn't the news, the podcast is purely for entertainment
@@Blessedmom6 things can be entertaining and still be researched. It doesn't HAVE to be, but I think if they are going to share their opinion about something it would be better for them to have as much perspective as possible to avoid coming off bad because they didn't have enough context
4:55 Fuhad really said “Andddd??? what about it?”😂😂😂
04:52 Fuhad standing on business 😂😂
Exactly what an addict would say in the throws of their addiction being cornered by loved ones😂🤣🤣 jk jk
Missy Elliot needs her own superbowl halftime show
I feel like the Grammy convo was missed cause when Macklemore won best Rap album over Jay and Kanye and Kendrick and think that was the reference. Not this year. And when Lemonade lost AOTY and Adele mention that on stage too. I think Jay was mentioning it as a whole- not complaining about “we have this so we deserve that” but “if you can recognize us for all of this how the hell can we not win AOTY?” just the blatant disparity between Black artist and everyone else and our standard here in the USA.
The failed intervention was hilarious!!!
If she’s putting hairs in an envelope and gives them to you, AT WORK and you proceed you deserve whatever madness she brings 😂.
You man!
He actually went out and bought her a black babydoll - which I bet was Lacey and skimpy… He knew what he signed up for, or was agreeing to…
@@murasakinomorado7210I assumed he used the doll's hair to as his pubes😂😂😂
James:” Daddies Stop”😂😂
I legit love the back to school segment and how happy everyone gets while learning/remembering what they've learned and showing off! You'll get them next time Elis!!!
the way Fuhad just shut down the intervention killed me 😭😭😭😭 “I regret nothing”
Rightly so. Because even if it's true, we didn't need to know. It's Good James apologized.
Fuhad saying that he was scared when he heard his parent's keys on the door....made me think that his future kids would be the same. Fuhad gives off strict dad energy.
That’s a little unfair don’t you think?
He'll be softer and not as traumatizing, at the very least. He's too aware to go all out, and maybe a nice, loving lady and some therapy might smooth his edges out.
@@tshegofatso1239 I don't mean that he'll be abusive. Just strict. I don't see him letting his kids get away with anything. Like he'd be the parent that tells his kids that he's not their friend, he's their parent....even when they're 40.
@@moomoocachoo9025you’re a proper weirdo
Lol! Most Nigerians felt this way! Most of us are traumatized but most people are making an active effort to unlearn things they grew up with..
The jingling of parents keys is a common thing!
“GUH FIND SUM’N FI DO!”
Ellis can get it ngl😂😂I like me a calm guy... you can tell he's getting buff from the work outs and it's givinggg
Crazy! When they filmed this they didn’t know they’d WON a MOBO!! 👏🏾👏🏾. Fuhad looked FINE on the night, ladies! That suit 😩
He looked sooo good. Also, James really is taller than Fuhad! They've said but like seeing is believing.
That colour against his skin 🏆he looked like Mel mad him do it!!
righttttt they looked soooooo good. but yeaaaa the green was going crazyyyyy‼️
Them suits looked TIGHT af! 😂😂All I could see was the bunda shelf stacked liked Tesco at 6am on them both! Defo time for them to be held accountable and do a topless podcast 😂I say we spam them until they do what THEY said!
Damn, I need to google this now
When Fuhad said he had PTSD everytime he heard his parents’ keys in the door, YEEEES! I have tried to explain this feeling to people so often throughout my adult years. I had so much anxiety with just sitting down to do nothing. I couldn’t relax and just watch tv or chill without intense feelings of guilt and feeling like I should be doing something or I’m going to get “caught” or something. And I realized it was from when I was a teenager and I would instantly jump in the air off the couch and busy myself with something every time I heard a car door outside. I had my first son as a teen and my parents really hammered it home, the message of, “you’re a mom now, mom’s don’t sit down, moms don’t rest, you have no you time, etc.” I understand what they were trying to do for me and I’m sure it was helpful in some ways, but it certainly did some damage simultaneously.
Sending you massive hugs. I'm a Nigerian man that grew up in Nigeria so I can massively relate to what you and Fuhad experienced. I hope we can do better as parents and walk the fine line between raising good, disciplined kids and raising anxious nervous wrecks.
For me is was feeling the vibration of the car pulling into the driveway (my room is like right next to the driveway)
Wow I feel this so much 😅😢I’m a mom now and don’t want my kids to be lazy but I refuse to create a traumatic household environment for them as it relates to chores and keeping our home clean. Our kids and my mental health are way more important. Sending you hugs & peace.
@@dajayjayzee Thank you for the hugs🫂
I could not agree more🤍
@@volktol4432 I bet! The tiniest "hummm" and the heart palpitations are on level 10 within seconds 😟
Y'all should've done more research into that Grammy speech because you guys missed the entire point of what he was talking about. It was not just about Jay & Bey. It's about the entire system.
Drake JUST stopped submitting his music last year because of the BS, but not everyone wants to walk away.
They are missing so much of the racial context of this Grammy convo. You’d have to be a Black American or know how the Grammys have snubbed Black Americans to get it. Jay was using Bey as an example not just talking about how the two of them have or haven’t won things.
Was thinking the same. Context is everything!
Like that some Grammy voters refuse to give Beyoncé album of the year even though they think her album is the best because she’s won a lot. Even though she’s primarily won in urban categories. They’re essentially telling her, she’s good for a black woman.
The Grammy convo is very relevant to the conversation of how the industry is being run ... it's bigger than the number they've been awarded. I don't agree with every move Jay-Z makes, but he is attempting to shift the atmosphere for generations of artist to come. It starts with addressing their practices.
Respectfully, a lot of ppl missed the point in where Jay Z was going in his speech. He wasn't talking about himself. He was using his wife as an example. He was speaking about our culture and how the metrics (goal posts) are moved for US. He's also using show up as a double entendre, show up to the event, and show up in your art. He's speaking on behalf of the culture because of the position he sits in. I personally didn't hear the speech like everyone else heard it. #ForTheCulture
Yeah i don't think he means him and beyonce need to get another award. They are talking about the culture and how we get nominated to seem fair but dont win. Definitely with respect you missed the point of the speech everyone.
Yes! This! So many people missed the point.
I completely agree
100% he literally used DMX as his first example but all anyone heard was beyoncé
Yeah, not that I don't believe that Jay Z is coming from a massive position of privilege, but when he said 'some of you don't belong in the category' I thought that was more of a comment on how music by black artists is often shoehorned into 'rap album of the year' or 'r&b album of the year' when the music is actually more pop, country, or alternative. However because of the colour of your skin, the only category they're going to give you is rap
You guys have to listen to the entire Grammy speech to understand what he was really saying
Fuhad telling the story of cleaning his mom's shoes reminds me of the time I was at home one day & my mom saw me laying around and said the house needed to be cleaned (it didn't) she said at least vacuum the floor. She left, I did nothing, she came back
"Did you vacuum the floor?"
"Yes"
"Good. It looks so much better in here"
GIRL WHY IS YOU LYING 😭😭😭
Bruno Mars did do the Super Bowl with Beyoncé and Coldplay! You guys HAVE to watch it 😍
I thought I was going crazy, they were all oh JT already did it and I was all 🥴
He also did it by himself in 2014
ua-cam.com/video/SDPITj1wlkg/v-deo.htmlsi=7SmUWFNF0lPW8kpN
The Super Bowl halftime was preformed by Usher
@hopebest9246 she’s referring to the 2016 Super Bowl Halftime show…
Shout out to Roberto from Futurama. That scene where he is locked up with Fry is intense.
The sounds James made imitating Roberto were on point. Couldn't help laughing 😂
I couldn't stop laughing at how well that impression was!!
It’s the fact Rem blinked again 😂😂
I was looking for this comment 😂
😂😂😂
The wink re up was WORTH IT! 50:33
My man blinked again tho lol 😂
@@nyetarich455 Exactly! 😂
Plot twist:they selected this subject to give Fuhad an intervention 😂😂
And they failed cause it came on too strong 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Fyi: the tyler comment was reffered to tyler the creator. When he received his grammy in hiphop/rnb, he didn‘t want it as he doesn‘t beleive to be that (just because he is black) and actually sees himself as pop. Which was the inception of the album with songs like SEE YOU AGAIN, etc. i don‘t think it was a shot, it was acknowledgment of his comment
That dilemma had me SHOOKETH!!😵💫🤣
I relate to Fuhad. When I heard my mums car pull up. Playtime was shut down😭 moving like sonic making sure everything’s in place
Fam!!!!? sonic has nothing on me boy. My sneaking skills got major upgrades just from trying to sneak downstairs to watch the telly. Lmaooo
The moment i hear the car i clean up and then go to my room and won’t leave until it’s dinner time
Can't imagine my kids feeling like that when I come home, I want them to feel joy when I comeback from a long day of work
Bipolar dad would get mad I didn't come say hi cause I was afraid and beat me nonetheless. Rest in peace, honestly, but goddamn that man was never supposed to be anyone's dad.
@@diegocastaneda3829 So sorry you experienced that
43:40 Bruno mars did perform in SB was one of the best ones in 2014.
Fuhad unlocked his inner dad”what’s a basic taste? “
“THE TASTEBUDS” 😂😂😂
Trueeeeeeeee
My mum coming home from work always filled me with anxiety period ! The mood instantly changes ahah
I think the Grammy thing, Beyoncé was used as an example for how the metrics don’t make sense when measured on black people. he was talking for black people as a whole not Beyoncé alone.
I think this was the point they missed...he used Beyoncé as the example because how could she win the most Grammys but not album of the year? If she isn't able to what does that say for other black artists trying to enter the category? Shame they missed that point but they are only human
@@checedeno1278yeah I think a lot of people (outside of the pod) are ready to see what J & B do as anti-black, doing the most, begging it etc and maybe sometimes they are I don’t know, but with that mindset it’s easy to not see things for what they are but see your bias confirmed instead. In this case I think the majority of the internet ran with it. That may have also filtered through to the guys here when reacting because they’re usually really good at playing devils advocate but like you said, we’re human and we can apply grace.
I hated their commentary on this. Black women already have to work 1000x harder than their white colleagues… Beyoncé has changed the music industry, marketing, and performance standards. She employs and supports BO businesses and creatives collaborates with B songwriters and producers and puts people ON!! And you chatting bout T swizzy 😮 who can coast with her yt ness, be accepted and not have to do as much as Beyoncé or B people. J’s acceptance speech was encouraging to keep pursuing excellence and setting the standard as WE already do.
@@belindakae724 girl I hear you. That T Swift comment bothered the hell out of me and I was extremely disappointed, but not surprised. Black men praising a yt woman for the minimum but disparaging a black man for defending black people and using his black wife as an example for how hard they/ we all have to work to be seen as G.O.A.T.S. But hey, they have 56 Grammies so shut up
Also, Jay Z did say he was nominated for awards when DMX dropped 2 of the number one albums in one year. He boycotted the Grammys. They should have watched the whole speech.
back to school has me feeling like a genius
Facts 😂
gang
Nah the way it has me feeling my age we clearly learned nothing in the 1900s😂
Rem losing it in the background laughing is always 👌 😂 ❤❤
49:13 - 49:21 Fuhad's face - this is how I look at the screen at McDonalds for my order to be ready
Being in an African household, I had the same PTSD. I found out in therapy that whenever I hear the garage door opening noise my heart would squeeze. Even if I'm not around a garage but hear the noise, I immediately would feel dead for like 2 secs then I shake it off like naw that's not him.
Oh my God! When I someone yells at me in the slightest I have a panic attack because of the trauma. Growing up in an African household is terrible. I remember my brother strangled me till I passed out and my mother still blamed it on me(I was 14)😂
@MaliAbdallah in an African household, unfortunately its always the daughter's fault 😅😭
" men on pause " 😂😂😂
I HAVE A CRUSH ON REEEMMM
My child hood trauma is growing up in Ireland in the 80's and 90's ,the fathers were always drunk or drinking,mothers were always pregnant or just after having a baby, we'd be starvin , im 40 now still here, and my daughter has tge best of everything, kids today don't know the struggle ❤❤
"Stand back, I gotta practice my stabbing" 😂
Just in time for the morning spliff
Great minds think alike 😂
It’s 3pm
It’s 3pm
4pm for me
It's 5pm fam
‘’We all feel’’ LMAOOOOOOO
The wink made me HOLLER
Childhood trama!!!
Me "I aint got the time or enough space to share on this platform."
Facts (sighhh
Daddies❤❤❤, award winning daddies😊
I’m literally a table game dealer in Las Vegas and I’m WHEEZING at the intervention
My goodness I got 5/5. That Oxford degree was not wasted
The intervention was brazzyyy💀
this podcast is successful because these are genuine good guys with clean hearts and energy,you cant fake that
Half this entire 365 ep cast is them lads chatting on about how they've lied and cheated.
44:20 Burnaboy performance at the SuperBowl would be wild!!
James is the Niko of this group, he wins everything.
Bruno already performed at the Superbowl. Killed it, of course. Usher just set a new bar last night.
I'm now so addicted..I watch it as soon as it drops..less than 5 minutes 🤣🤣
🤣 I get mad when they take long to upload.
Addiction is real
Too real🤣🤣
THE DILEMMA HAD ME IN SHAMBLES 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I said this last video and hoping these men understand!! So many factors, not just weight, height, age, but also medical history, mental health, and even childhood trauma can affect physical strain. The body is so much more intricate than just working out. I know James says it’s not fair but the human body is so incredible that their body is doing what it needs to do for each of them and maybe Fuhad needs more strain, Ellis more recovery, etc. These men are putting in the work and that’s what matters most!!
This thing about Nigerian childhoods is no joke! We would scramble once the parents came home. It’s a shame that fear is the primary way Nigerian parents run the home.
That dilemma was WILD 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I got 4/5 on the class segment and I was hype!
We were rooting for you Rem!!!
Walking in on parents mid-stroke is the one 😭😭 with the sound effects too.
50:25 “who is this for?”😭😭😭😭😭 james is hilarious
Valentines in the way Manscaped would be a great gift!!
Y’all I need it this weeks episode. the childhood trauma is so funny only because I have so much of it do I find it hilarious 😂😂
Fuhad:' Next segment you're chatting s-'. James: Alright lolololol
Had me dying g, I’ve replayed that bit about 8 times 😂
Ellis saying “Ellis 1 “ with such base and confidence is so exciting 😁🤤☺️
pitbull would do a SICK halftime show
Blue Ivy is the 2nd youngest Grammy winner because Hazel Monet, Victoria Monet’s 2yr old daughter won a grammy when her mother won Best R&B album this year
😂😂😂😂wink away REM had me hollering
I love Fuhad!!! He does what he does and says what he said. You cannot confront him, he locks down! 😂
Like a true Nigerian
Just an fyi. Beyoncé did not have any music submitted for this years Grammy awards. Her album came out in 2022, she got 9 noms and won 4. I think Jay Z’s statement was more in a general sense. In 2023 she toured the album. People are confused thinking she would get noms or awards in 2024 with no music submitted. I think for them it’s more the fact that she’s never gotten recognition for a “whole body of work”, since she puts a lot into creating cohesive albums, more so than random singles. I.e “album of the year” award is the one she really wants and feels truly reflects her body of work, whenever she drops a project.
But at the same time, the woman has more Grammies than anyone on this planet. Think it’s very personal for her, since she’s the one putting together these very well thought through projects.
A day in the life of james n fuhad would be soooo awesome honestly yall would get soo many views because fans want to know what u do on a day to day even if its boring or busy i think a lot of people are interested in what u do outside of the podcast!!!
Anyone else agree??
I'm always ready for a STORY when there's a segment that has anything to do with childhood trauma 😭
43:20 Bruno Mars has done the Super Bowl. Twice. It was fire 🔥
The discussion around Jay Z feels super premature when they didn't listen to the whole speech. The point he was making was valid about Black artists not getting credits. Did you know that only around TEN Black artists have won Album of the Year since the 50s?!?! They give these artists best rap album, contemporary r&b, contemporary urban, dance electronic, etc. It's wild. He used his time to highlight the same things he's been saying. The same thing Eminem has been saying for decades. Same thing Drake has been saying. Last year, Beyonce lost Album of the Year to HARRY STYLES. Make it make sense. Another year she lost to Adele, who was in shock, got on stage, and apologized saying that even SHE thought Beyonce should've won over her album. I'm usually on board with your conversation, but this seemed way off. Hoping you do better next time around....
The comparison to Kanye/Taylor is also WILD -- Kanye got on stage and interrupted Taylor's acceptance speech for an award SHE WON. Jay Z used HIS OWN TIME for an award he was given to highlight how Black artists, and specifically hip hop and R&B artists are used by the Grammys to stay relevant and attract viewership and interest, but then won't give them the accolades they deserve. There are years where you'd laugh out loud when you see who won Album of the Year vs. the artists who lost....
It's not that deep, even they have said most times they are talking shit and out their ass, it's for entertainment
Saw the gambling clip and ran here immediately 🤣🤣🤣
"Thank God you are going to therapy" 😂😅 it's ok, Fuhad, my friends felt the same lol
The polish shoe thing has happened to every Nigerian😂
The grammys named an award after dr.dre and dre gave the first one to jay.
just peeped yall winning the best personality award at bet uk awards . FUEEEEEEEGOO gang . press on !
That dilemma was actually insane ☠️
Yes Beyonce is the most awarded Grammy winner but those wins are made up of rnb or whatever other category they decide to shove her album into that year (Not that it makes those wins less important but they usually try to relegate her to a box/genre instead of acknowledging her overall succes/influence. There was literally a line of celebs queuing to take a pic with her)She rarely if ever wins for any of the big ones. Album, records etc. She won 3 last year if I'm not mistaken, the most for any artist that night on one album but Rennaisance still lost to Harry Styles for some reason. It's not Taylor's fault but even her own fans are saying SZA should have won over her as Taylor's wasn't even one of her best. No black woman has won album of the year since Lauren Hill in 1999 and it's really weird. There was even an article last year where they anonymously interviewed Grammy voters and they said they barely listen to the albums and everyone is expected to just bow down to Beyoncé everytime she does something which shows a voting bias against her. Jay Z was right. It doesn't make sense and his commentary extends beyond Bey to how other artists are treated as well. Even when Adele won over Beyonce for Lemonade she said it wasn't right in her speech. Even self titled, there's a reason people release music on Friday now and why people have tried doing drops with no promo, she's your fave celebrity's fave celebrity.
This! You wrote it beautifully which I wish they would've gotten more context than from whichever article that was being read.👏🏾
@@ashlynjones1608 right and they barely watched the clip. There's a lot more to the conversation than "oh Beyonce is whining because she didn't get the Grammy she wanted" if they're doing this to Beyonce of all people what about other artists? By their own metrics it just doesn't make sense.
what traumatized me was when i used to chill under a laundry basket for fun, one day my brother came and sat on it knowing I was underit. He refused to get up till I was nearly crying. Im still claustrophobic till this DAY lmaooo
James’s laugh makes everything 100x more funny 😂😂😂
Man said “SHUT UP it’s just me and you” crack ups😆🤣
It’s Monday y’all !! It’s not Monday without this podcast!! Have a great week everyone 🎉 shout out to the Caribbean famalay 🇧🇧
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Rem repeating the wink is the best part today 😂😂😂😂
i just love it when daddies upload, including ellis and rem . makes my day
5/5 for Back to School this week. 🔥