It's been eight months. I’m over it; I don't care if they come back. Hang in there if you're struggling. You'll get to the point where you won't want someone who hurt you so bad. Be patient with yourself; it takes time. You'll get there.
@@cpt.dr.hawkeye1740 Even abandonment is a form of hurt. If you focus on improving yourself and your own life, after a while it won't be much different for you whether he/she comes back or not. It's been almost 6 months since my breakup and believe me I still miss her but nothing I say to someone who isn't receptive will do any good. That's why they come back when they realize that you are not in your life and maybe they will never be able to have you again so stop waiting. Trust me you are going to be okay but it takes time.
He is totally gone from that day when I said my last word. He seems happy without me. So I will never ever disturb him again 😭🙏 💔. God is preparing better person than him. I will better accept my fate
Yea as others have commented, we need to hear how it works when it’s a woman and she has either monkey branched or rebounded shortly after breakup, within a few weeks. How does that play out? I assume they will be in honey moon phase and have dopamine high that will need to wear off over at least 4 months. Then they will have already moved on? Or will those emotions and memories come back to surface at that point in time?
Many of them won't wear their 50% contribution to the break-up, they cannot self reflect nor do they apologize. They set themselves up to be the victim then jump into rebound relationships for the sugar hit, the never ending honeymoon. But of course it does end, they get to become the victim once again with the help of their family and friend enablers who have usually seen this many times over. Their cycle continues, they are completely unaware of their trail of destruction because the people closest to them won't say anything.
@@sreach93 Wow sounds familiar. My ex is just starting on her cycle, she was with her ex husband for 10 years since high school, married for 4 years, then left him. Her and I started dating 5 months later which in hindsight was probably still too soon, and was a red flag, but she told me they had been sleeping in separate beds for a year before that already, and she told me the reason for leaving him was he was “emotionally abusive”. I now know that was probably a lie, and she had a couple enablers from her family, but not all of them were on board with it, there were some who tried to get her to think it over and didn’t approve of her behavior, and she lost some friends for leaving him like that too. She told me she loved me a few days before she discarded me. I assume she did a smear campaign on me as well like she did her husband but I can’t be sure, we were together 1.5 years, and she was already hooking up with a guy 3 weeks later at least, maybe even before she dumped me, I can’t be sure though of that either. She then was showcasing the new guy on social media like 5 weeks after our breakup calling him babe and other lovey dovey stuff already that quick. I assume some of her friends are wondering what is going on, and the same family members probably are either enabling and the others are disapproving same as before. With how fast she jumped into this one, I assume it will crash and burn within 6-12 months once the infatuation wears off and then she will jump to the next one, or hopefully for her sake she takes some time to heal and work on her issues. She’s 30 years old now, and it is just sad honestly. She suffers from depression and is on meds, and I believe she was having a depressive episode when she discarded me, and uses the dopamine high of new relationship to feel better. She can’t regulate her emotions properly. She seemed like a good person deep down, kind, thoughtful and generous, but her inner mental demons take over and make her unstable.
Memories and emotions that are suppressed will always resurface. Rebounds/monkey branching into relationships will help them "get over" you in the short term but they won't forget about you and can't even if they wanted to.
My ex never care will not care ever. He had someine else and was reverse discarding me. On the day, he made me feel crazy again. I was almost cruashed on the phone. It is only the people on the scene who thought tgat I was trying to commit suicide. It is only when I told them thag I had been on the phone with my ex and explained to them wgat had happened, the men told me that it was obvious that he is trying to make me go and tgat it will get worse. I loved him like crazy. I let him go. I was never confident iny decision and I still suffer. He is happy with the woman he was cheating with. I just wonder why je hated so much. I am tge only one suffereing. I am hanging in there.
Ahh boohoo. Who cares if they start missing me? I actually want them to enjoy their life without me because when they were with me I was always the bad guy. And tbh? It feels so damn good not being labeled that anymore 😂🙏
It's been eight months. I’m over it; I don't care if they come back. Hang in there if you're struggling. You'll get to the point where you won't want someone who hurt you so bad. Be patient with yourself; it takes time. You'll get there.
Not every situation is like yours. Some of us are waiting for someone who didn't hurt wish to hurt us at all.
@@cpt.dr.hawkeye1740 Even abandonment is a form of hurt. If you focus on improving yourself and your own life, after a while it won't be much different for you whether he/she comes back or not. It's been almost 6 months since my breakup and believe me I still miss her but nothing I say to someone who isn't receptive will do any good. That's why they come back when they realize that you are not in your life and maybe they will never be able to have you again so stop waiting. Trust me you are going to be okay but it takes time.
@@cpt.dr.hawkeye1740 I hope everything works out for you.
I hope the roles reverse and this happens to me !
I hope I can get to that point !
If someone truly values and wants you in their life… they will never put themselves in a position to lose you. So it’s all about his ego games.
Avoidants dont deserve a loving partner they need to be alone and heal
She cared....came back with all the fairytale feelings and turned out to be the same person and did the same exact thing....
They always do the same thing
@musclehead1992 what do you do after they do that again because high chances are that they will come back again or they won't?
He is totally gone from that day when I said my last word. He seems happy without me. So I will never ever disturb him again 😭🙏 💔. God is preparing better person than him. I will better accept my fate
If he tries to tell me he misses me I’m going to tell him to remember how “dissatisfied” he said he was and that he’ll get over it.
I walk away from avoidants.. not the other way around.
I got rid of my ex.And he is begging but I don't ever want to take him back.Cheating disgusted pig cheating at a doggie park.With the dog I gave him.
God I need you in my life!
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Some actually won’t care. It’s just best to get on with your life and never look back. It’s easier said than done, but it’s absolutely possible.
They probably will never care
Yes I affirm and claim it Amen Thank you Universe Thank you Lord Jesus Christ Amen Amen ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yea as others have commented, we need to hear how it works when it’s a woman and she has either monkey branched or rebounded shortly after breakup, within a few weeks. How does that play out? I assume they will be in honey moon phase and have dopamine high that will need to wear off over at least 4 months. Then they will have already moved on? Or will those emotions and memories come back to surface at that point in time?
Many of them won't wear their 50% contribution to the break-up, they cannot self reflect nor do they apologize. They set themselves up to be the victim then jump into rebound relationships for the sugar hit, the never ending honeymoon. But of course it does end, they get to become the victim once again with the help of their family and friend enablers who have usually seen this many times over.
Their cycle continues, they are completely unaware of their trail of destruction because the people closest to them won't say anything.
@@sreach93 Wow sounds familiar. My ex is just starting on her cycle, she was with her ex husband for 10 years since high school, married for 4 years, then left him. Her and I started dating 5 months later which in hindsight was probably still too soon, and was a red flag, but she told me they had been sleeping in separate beds for a year before that already, and she told me the reason for leaving him was he was “emotionally abusive”. I now know that was probably a lie, and she had a couple enablers from her family, but not all of them were on board with it, there were some who tried to get her to think it over and didn’t approve of her behavior, and she lost some friends for leaving him like that too. She told me she loved me a few days before she discarded me. I assume she did a smear campaign on me as well like she did her husband but I can’t be sure, we were together 1.5 years, and she was already hooking up with a guy 3 weeks later at least, maybe even before she dumped me, I can’t be sure though of that either. She then was showcasing the new guy on social media like 5 weeks after our breakup calling him babe and other lovey dovey stuff already that quick. I assume some of her friends are wondering what is going on, and the same family members probably are either enabling and the others are disapproving same as before. With how fast she jumped into this one, I assume it will crash and burn within 6-12 months once the infatuation wears off and then she will jump to the next one, or hopefully for her sake she takes some time to heal and work on her issues. She’s 30 years old now, and it is just sad honestly. She suffers from depression and is on meds, and I believe she was having a depressive episode when she discarded me, and uses the dopamine high of new relationship to feel better. She can’t regulate her emotions properly. She seemed like a good person deep down, kind, thoughtful and generous, but her inner mental demons take over and make her unstable.
Memories and emotions that are suppressed will always resurface. Rebounds/monkey branching into relationships will help them "get over" you in the short term but they won't forget about you and can't even if they wanted to.
@@Freudster21 I keep hearing that rebound relationships don't workout.
They have so many videos about exes getting into a relationship or seeing someone matter the break up. Look them up
Thanks for the sharing
Not when He’s MARRIED 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thank you for the great message ❤❤
Amazing
Don't rush, no problem.
What if it’s bc they have to deal with mental health stuff and family issues
Sorry guys and girls there not coming back and gone forever,been there many times move on ✌️
That's good it's called karma thank you Jesus for saving me amen
Good morning my coach, my decision is working on together with him he still has a big impact on him he never fix everything together
God damn
You read my mind 😮😮.
And that’s definitely will happen
Amen 🙏 👍 😊
My ex never care will not care ever. He had someine else and was reverse discarding me. On the day, he made me feel crazy again. I was almost cruashed on the phone. It is only the people on the scene who thought tgat I was trying to commit suicide. It is only when I told them thag I had been on the phone with my ex and explained to them wgat had happened, the men told me that it was obvious that he is trying to make me go and tgat it will get worse. I loved him like crazy. I let him go. I was never confident iny decision and I still suffer. He is happy with the woman he was cheating with. I just wonder why je hated so much. I am tge only one suffereing. I am hanging in there.
Yeah it's usually when you are fully healed .. they come a creeping back in and you fully ate at a full stop ummm NO
So true 💯🔥❤️🙏
What if they broke up with you for the second time and they have someone else
Same thing happened to me.
Just not sure if there is something else.
F@&k em Move on
She just forgot about me and moved on.
I don’t wanna her you can have her. She’s too corrupt for me. God show me to leave her alone. Stay away from me.
Even if they’ve monkey branched to someone else? (the someone else being now an ex friend of mine)
I claim ! 😢
And what's the reason to accept the ex back of being with other person?
Ahh boohoo. Who cares if they start missing me? I actually want them to enjoy their life without me because when they were with me I was always the bad guy. And tbh? It feels so damn good not being labeled that anymore 😂🙏
The ditch is cold and wet
I'm waiting for her decision
I filed for a divorce, that what he ask for
She long gone for me
It's been 6 months he ghosted me was very good to him but he treated me not nice I left 10 yrs o n off I broke up the friendship
Is that really happened?
I'm tired of these break upset. He hasn't tried.
🙏🙏🙏
What if last he said he moved on and got engaged
Really ? ❤
A few months already gone…
What if she forgets me
This is most definitely not true
🤞🏽
Not true
I have a gf