As a side, I personally prefer the intimacy of just being close to someone. The physical act of "sex" in the traditional sense just doesn't do it for me. Way too much hassle, and it's too tiring. Life in SG is tiring enough..lol.. I just wanna hold and be held.
Glad to see people touching on topics like this. It’s probably not a fair statement to say all sides have commitment issues given humans are layered individuals. I’m a 31 year old side and I’ve been with my partner for almost 9 years now, and navigating sex/intimacy while still giving focus and space for sexual exploration and growth has been a wonderful journey for us. It would be cool to get the perspectives of sides as part of the panel to open up the conversations further.
I'm a side and the reason why I'm one is because the tops who I have had sex with were usually jerks. I don't top because I don't enjoy it and don't have the necessary appendage size for it either. I can bottom, yeah, but it will take a lot of trust. I also have an anxious avoidant attachment style, so the part where you guys said that sides will eventually break your heart is true for me - anxious avoidant people can be extreme (hence why I am not in a relationship). On the other hand, as an anxious avoidant attached person, I am also very particular with hierarchies and balance in a relationship. This means that if I am doing a lot to prepare as a bottom and if my top is not compensating enough, then I will lose interest and will end up feeling like I was only used. This is a very complex and nuanced topic in general, though.
Wishing you to complete adulting and become a secure person very soon. Knowing your attachment style is a great start for your enlightenment journey. It is not an end point for sure. The goal is to have a secure attachment style.
W(y the big deal about anal sex, if you meet the guy you like , think you guys will love it all an emotional feeling ……. It’s all bullshit trying to anylise It it’s how you like and towards the person your with….. all this discussion means nothing if you really want to be with the person you like and visa bursa . This all a waste of time of time there will come a day when none of your silly talk will matter . I was born in Singapore it made no matter he was the right person. at the time …..good luck with your search . Cheers
Congratulations on covering a super interesting topic. They are all cute and beautiful. The blonde, besides being friendly, is very intelligent and direct in his thoughts.
Yes, side stuff can be quick, but with the right guy, it can last a long time; make it a whole body experience. Don't focus on just 1 part of the anatomy or technique, go explore.
That was so much fun to watch. My preference is normally a bottom but I can be versatile if needed. To me, sex is adventurous and the more I explore, the more I get out of it. I prefer being safe than sorry. Being open minded can be exciting.
Wow, I have never heard the term SIDES before, but I would definitely consider myself a SIDE. You guys are hilarious! Love that you can joke and laugh about this topic.
ok, I have to say the thumbnail of the video got me here, I have nothing to do with SG but I am not complaining. Already love you guys! I would like to know more about all of you! 😘😘😘
Sexual positions does not necessarily means they are inflexible, it’s just a preferred position. That’s why there are versatile top/bottom. Maybe in future there will be side top/btm/vers/vtop/vbtm.
Thats bullshit. We should reject any kind of labels not normalize adding more. It’s already bad enough that labels affecting a huge part of the gays’ stereotype.
Hmm this guy on the left has too strong of a personality or opinion, which i presume stemmed from past traumas. Just because u got hurt before doesn’t mean u should go around spurring toxic to hurt others. Be insightful. Sides aren’t sides all the time, they can top or btm when the person is right. You’re equating sides with people who avoids commitments. From how judgmental you portray yourself, maybe they’re just avoiding commitments to you.
you guys are doing a great job, as a side I can say we do not have commitment issues, I belive in intimacy beyond the sexual pleasure of peneterating, thank you for talking about this because I think most of the side may face this issue in explaining to people what side is. being gay is hard enough and on top of that being a side like, I don't know
I don't think that's how it is. It's just some of them that are. It is getting more recognition. There are far more gay men that are just versatile and willing to do what the moment calls for
I think the important thing is to remember that all sex is sex as long as both partners are pleasured. In another podcast they talk about how rarely they have felt hands off orgasms, i.e. sole penetration orgasms. This goes along the line of women's "only penetration". With the difference that anal is less pleasure more effort more pain. And here comes the question: if being penetrated isn't necessarily pleasure why on earth would you? It makes all the sense in the world to prefer attention where it works. I get it, penetration CAN be pleasurable, but what if it never was for x amount of experiences? Why wouldn't you choose non-penetration? There are women who want sex but think penetration is the part where men become boring and useless. There are lesbian women who never do penetration. Why the need to impose penetration as the end-all, the only measure of sex?
@@agnetehtthis is what I want to know, why do bottoms even enjoy bottoming in the first place if they've never experienced a hands free orgasm? I hope they do an episode on what is so great about bottoming.
Hi guys. 'Don't mean to be an Auntie here (I'm a 90's queer) and up until the queer millennials blossomed & entered the Gay/Bi playroom, Queer sex is any act that involves the "sex organ". To us, kissing was kissing, body/booty touching/grabbing was just grabbing. We call it sex once each other's penis is involved. So with us, "sides" is considered sex. F-kng is just a more involved sex. Curiously, Millennials like to complicate the gay lifestyle. In my generation, LGBTQ was all. The 80's generation only had LGBT. Q was added to stand for anyone that identify as anything but straight. So in my time, we were all called queers wether you are Les/Gay/Bi/Trans. ... Afterall, there is only male/female. Even if you transgendered, you still fall as either male/female. Having now added more labels (LGBTQ++) (Cis, pansexual,etc.) just confuses non-millenials (who are still very much part of the Queer community). Given that for both romantic & sexual partnership, we only have male/female or both to date & sex with. So WHY? -Why is just "sides" seem to be discounted as "unfulfilling" sex act?
When I met my first boyfriend, I was so in love/obsessed with that I kinda avoid the thought that I might bottom at some point. The first time I did it, never thought I will be folded in different ways T_T
🤣🤣🤣I laughed so much. Just found this video by accident. I'm a fan of BL series since last year so I'm interested in what you guys talked about......learned some new things today. Will continue to watch your other videos.
as a woman i find it kinda funny the term side.. because thewore always women that actually not enjoy sex and preffere just cuddles so to see that guys get some stink eye because of that prefference is doesnt feel right to me... a person should be able to express his affection in any way he or she wants
Hi, I'm sorry but you can't say "ALL Singaporeans" have commitment issues. There are people who doesn't have commitment issues and this is kind of offensive to them. And tbh, Kieren sounded like he had a lot of not so good stories / experiences happened to him.
Whether it is a hand job, a blow job, anal sex or vaginal sex they are all sexual acts. Which can be used in courts of law when it comes to filing for divorce, the division of property and custody of children. Least, that is how it works in Canada. If I am in a monogamous relationship with my partner (I'm a Bi woman) does any of the aforementioned sex acts, it is a betrayal of the relationship. If I'm single and looking to score I have done all 4 of these sexual acts as part of my sexual encounter. Or just one of them. It depends on the mood, the location and the person I am having sex with. It also depends on who a relationship is defined. Poly relationships, introducing a third person into the relations to become a thruple or even a quad needs a lot of give and take, discussion, boundaries and commitment to make these types of relationships work.
Very interesting subject to discuss. It’s so fleshing to hear others perspective of sex. You guys are so funny and so passionate about sex. So glad I came across your channel. Keep it up. A fan already. Aloha Hawaii
What’s the point of being so hung up over the definition of what counts as “sex”. Explore and know what aspects you enjoy and be proud of it. Hearing your personal authentic sharing is more interesting than your assumptions of “all” Singaporean gays being whatever.
I think they're just experiencing what us women have had to put up with when it comes to men in the bedroom. Men are selfish when it comes to sex and that's why women don't want it. Sex is a chore for a lot of women. It isn't enjoyable, but it can be. It just takes time and effort, and men don't want to do that. They just want to get off. On the other hand, maybe the bottoms and women aren't being honest. 🤷🏽♀️
I'm a bottom gay. So I established myself as a girl among people. If there is a girlish attitude in the homosexuality of boys, absolute happiness is met. In the same way, if there is a boyish attitude in the homosexuality of girls, absolute happiness is met. As in the case of boys, so in the case of girls. I think homosexuality will be in heaven 😲
Aiyah...end of day...personal preferences lor! Apa apa job, hand job kah, blow job kah and apa apa play pun NOT considered SEX leh. doesn't matter AC/DC kah, Gay kah...suka hati lor but work things out beforehand during the early stage of any relationship. Don't let it slide. Make it clear of what each other needs. Don't start to blame those those who ate out. For us GAYS and especially Sides, no matter how deep the love is (erm erm...believing to be loyal and SEX is NOT important)...years go by and people DO change. We somehow are very different to the straight/lesbian relationships. If we don't work things out or even come close to an agreement, the relationship won't be a happy one. It's like a Chinese dinner. Relationship/foundation is based on RICE. Both liking each other/each other's cup of tea. Then followed by dishes aka mutual interests/willing to try out new things/adventures with your partner. Lastly condiments...to enhance/spice up the relationship/lust/crazy fetishes. Now back to Anal or even the Vagina...it feels great to be inside someone you love/like. Somehow there's a deeper connection/emotionally and warmth. Both will try to understand deeper of each other needs. It's fascinating to explore deeper.
Kieran has every right to not want a side, but he needs to be more open to the fact that some people truly just don't like penetration and it has nothing to do with commitment phobia or any other indication of their personality. Just bc he enjoys penetration, doesn't mean that others should. Everyone is different. But obviously if penetration is that important to him then it wouldn't be fair to him to be with a pure side. Also, sex may be the ultimate intimacy and love to Kieran, but, for instance, I personally consider intellectual connection way more intimate than sex, so again, we're all different. Please remember that.
I don't know for Singapore but I lived 6 years in Malaysia and I noticed a great proportion of sides too. Many guys looking for "lite fun" compared to other places I lived in Europe, Australia and South America. I was thinking it would be an influence of islam but if it's also in Singapore it might be something else. Maybe something in the water? 😂
Get it correct/ men should not use the bottom as a vergina/ it is not/ men should use you penis in sex not you bottom/ you are not a woman/ anal penetration by a man with man is not sex / call it something else/ it is not sex/ do not use an exit for entrance
As a woman I can sympathize with anal being unpleasant but I've learned that it's up to me to figure out what my body likes and teaching my partner how I want it. If my partner doesn't want to play my way, this is not the partner for me. Also playing with a toy should be painless. You're learning how to control your sphincter muscles so if it's too big get a smaller toy and work up. First tip, push out a little when putting the toy in. If you play after a movement or after an enema there won't be any feces to push out so you're safe..
But, it’s not really true 😂 The real issue is that Singapore being a small island state/city, gay people know that word gets around quickly about what they’ve done with whom, so they are cautious over who they meet and what they do. As a visitor I have seen no shortage of guys keen to explore everything because the story is outside that closed community.
The concept of a Side is completely childish and immature. You want to participate in sex but still maintain innocents and respectability. Like stop it already 😂
What if they simply don't like topping or bottoming? Everyone is different. For example, there's a lot of women that don't like sex bc penetration doesn't do it for them but clitoral stimulation does. I mean, if they are in love with someone then they should be willing to compromise to make their partner happy as long as they aren't the only one compromising, but it also isn't wrong if they prefer another side.
Great to broach this topic. Like gays in the past, until Sides gain greater public legitimacy, then I think rships are less likely. And I'm guessing you're talking monogamous rships.
Hehe i think its more towards flings being something transient so i dont wanna put too much effort in douching and prepping for a guy who'll most likely ghosst me after!!
I am a woman and it surprised me that a lot of your comments and feelings are very similar to how a woman feels when having sex with a guy. Interesting…
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The blue shirt guy is very pragmatic and observant; knowledgeable. The guy in the middle is enticing! The blond guy seems to be just what everyone expects him to be, a severe conformist. Are Gays pre-planning their escape route? Sides? Its all good...
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As a side, I personally prefer the intimacy of just being close to someone. The physical act of "sex" in the traditional sense just doesn't do it for me. Way too much hassle, and it's too tiring. Life in SG is tiring enough..lol.. I just wanna hold and be held.
Same here
My explanation of an asexual tuber . Got it correct 😊
Because you never got real sex with someone u really like yet!
Meaningful relationship
can't agree more ... :)
Glad to see people touching on topics like this. It’s probably not a fair statement to say all sides have commitment issues given humans are layered individuals. I’m a 31 year old side and I’ve been with my partner for almost 9 years now, and navigating sex/intimacy while still giving focus and space for sexual exploration and growth has been a wonderful journey for us. It would be cool to get the perspectives of sides as part of the panel to open up the conversations further.
I love these guys. The blond guy is the best. He is smart, funny and honest. Can't wait for the next show...
We’ve got new episodes coming every Wednesday, 5pm (GM+8). Stay tuned 😊
The blond person has a dwarf vibe with his outfit.
❤ Aiman is AWESOME!
Aiman's level headedness really balances out some of the nonsense from Kieran haha
I'm a side and the reason why I'm one is because the tops who I have had sex with were usually jerks. I don't top because I don't enjoy it and don't have the necessary appendage size for it either. I can bottom, yeah, but it will take a lot of trust. I also have an anxious avoidant attachment style, so the part where you guys said that sides will eventually break your heart is true for me - anxious avoidant people can be extreme (hence why I am not in a relationship). On the other hand, as an anxious avoidant attached person, I am also very particular with hierarchies and balance in a relationship. This means that if I am doing a lot to prepare as a bottom and if my top is not compensating enough, then I will lose interest and will end up feeling like I was only used.
This is a very complex and nuanced topic in general, though.
Maybe they’re just need human hole only
Wishing you to complete adulting and become a secure person very soon. Knowing your attachment style is a great start for your enlightenment journey. It is not an end point for sure. The goal is to have a secure attachment style.
W(y the big deal about anal sex, if you meet the guy you like , think you guys will love it all an emotional feeling ……. It’s all bullshit trying to anylise It it’s how you like and towards the person your with….. all this discussion means nothing if you really want to be with the person you like and visa bursa . This all a waste of time of time there will come a day when none of your silly talk will matter . I was born in Singapore it made no matter he was the right person. at the time …..good luck with your search . Cheers
Congratulations on covering a super interesting topic. They are all cute and beautiful. The blonde, besides being friendly, is very intelligent and direct in his thoughts.
Yes, side stuff can be quick, but with the right guy, it can last a long time; make it a whole body experience. Don't focus on just 1 part of the anatomy or technique, go explore.
That was so much fun to watch. My preference is normally a bottom but I can be versatile if needed. To me, sex is adventurous and the more I explore, the more I get out of it. I prefer being safe than sorry. Being open minded can be exciting.
Wow, I have never heard the term SIDES before, but I would definitely consider myself a SIDE. You guys are hilarious! Love that you can joke and laugh about this topic.
I never heard of sides until this podcast 😅
Come to Singapore! They’re everywhere here 😜
ok, I have to say the thumbnail of the video got me here, I have nothing to do with SG but I am not complaining. Already love you guys! I would like to know more about all of you! 😘😘😘
Welcome aboard! New episodes of The Unfiltered Gay Podcast drops every Wednesday at 5pm (SG time). Stay tuned!
Sexual positions does not necessarily means they are inflexible, it’s just a preferred position. That’s why there are versatile top/bottom. Maybe in future there will be side top/btm/vers/vtop/vbtm.
Thats bullshit. We should reject any kind of labels not normalize adding more. It’s already bad enough that labels affecting a huge part of the gays’ stereotype.
Yes, also I see positions becoming a trend in different times. Suddenly everyone is a btm then some days later it's vers later it's top
I'm side top
Hmm this guy on the left has too strong of a personality or opinion, which i presume stemmed from past traumas. Just because u got hurt before doesn’t mean u should go around spurring toxic to hurt others. Be insightful. Sides aren’t sides all the time, they can top or btm when the person is right. You’re equating sides with people who avoids commitments. From how judgmental you portray yourself, maybe they’re just avoiding commitments to you.
Kieran makes the podcast super entertaining to watch tho
you guys are doing a great job, as a side I can say we do not have commitment issues, I belive in intimacy beyond the sexual pleasure of peneterating, thank you for talking about this because I think most of the side may face this issue in explaining to people what side is. being gay is hard enough and on top of that being a side like, I don't know
Quite innovative program. Pls consider to put subtitles. And i believe the interaction will be more in tune with more shows coming on. Pls keep it on.
Hey, you can turn on the auto generated subtitles. It’s pretty accurate 😊
@@DearStraightPeopleclosed captions is the end goal though
More and more gay men are being honest about how much they dislike anal sex. Particularly as they get older. I think it’s something you grow out of.
I don't think that's how it is. It's just some of them that are. It is getting more recognition. There are far more gay men that are just versatile and willing to do what the moment calls for
I think the important thing is to remember that all sex is sex as long as both partners are pleasured. In another podcast they talk about how rarely they have felt hands off orgasms, i.e. sole penetration orgasms. This goes along the line of women's "only penetration". With the difference that anal is less pleasure more effort more pain. And here comes the question: if being penetrated isn't necessarily pleasure why on earth would you? It makes all the sense in the world to prefer attention where it works. I get it, penetration CAN be pleasurable, but what if it never was for x amount of experiences? Why wouldn't you choose non-penetration? There are women who want sex but think penetration is the part where men become boring and useless. There are lesbian women who never do penetration. Why the need to impose penetration as the end-all, the only measure of sex?
@@agnetehtthis is what I want to know, why do bottoms even enjoy bottoming in the first place if they've never experienced a hands free orgasm? I hope they do an episode on what is so great about bottoming.
Hi guys. 'Don't mean to be an Auntie here (I'm a 90's queer) and up until the queer millennials blossomed & entered the Gay/Bi playroom, Queer sex is any act that involves the "sex organ". To us, kissing was kissing, body/booty touching/grabbing was just grabbing. We call it sex once each other's penis is involved. So with us, "sides" is considered sex. F-kng is just a more involved sex. Curiously,
Millennials like to complicate the gay lifestyle. In my generation, LGBTQ was all. The 80's generation only had LGBT. Q was added to stand for anyone that identify as anything but straight. So in my time, we were all called queers wether you are Les/Gay/Bi/Trans.
...
Afterall, there is only male/female. Even if you transgendered, you still fall as either male/female. Having now added more labels (LGBTQ++) (Cis, pansexual,etc.) just confuses non-millenials (who are still very much part of the Queer community). Given that for both romantic & sexual partnership, we only have male/female or both to date & sex with.
So WHY?
-Why is just "sides" seem to be discounted as "unfulfilling" sex act?
love the middle guy.... so clean.
Kieran is funny. Aiman is insightful. Isaac is cute... Great job guys!
One of the most entertaining podcasts I've watched in a LONG TIME.
When I met my first boyfriend, I was so in love/obsessed with that I kinda avoid the thought that I might bottom at some point. The first time I did it, never thought I will be folded in different ways T_T
I need this podcast to be longer 😭😭😭
🤣🤣🤣I laughed so much. Just found this video by accident. I'm a fan of BL series since last year so I'm interested in what you guys talked about......learned some new things today. Will continue to watch your other videos.
Love Asian GUYS, guys that act like guys and speak like guys.
Sorry to say they act more than gay
It's the first time I watched you and I really enjoyed it !!!! 😊💯
as a woman i find it kinda funny the term side.. because thewore always women that actually not enjoy sex and preffere just cuddles so to see that guys get some stink eye because of that prefference is doesnt feel right to me... a person should be able to express his affection in any way he or she wants
This is exactly what I thought. Sides just sound like women. 😂
Not saying sides are feminine men. I'm saying they have the same mindset that women have in hetero relationships
It's nice to know that guys are experiencing what us hetero women have experienced with men in the bedroom though.
Great job bros… looking forward to the next episode
Hi, I'm sorry but you can't say "ALL Singaporeans" have commitment issues. There are people who doesn't have commitment issues and this is kind of offensive to them. And tbh, Kieren sounded like he had a lot of not so good stories / experiences happened to him.
Whether it is a hand job, a blow job, anal sex or vaginal sex they are all sexual acts. Which can be used in courts of law when it comes to filing for divorce, the division of property and custody of children. Least, that is how it works in Canada. If I am in a monogamous relationship with my partner (I'm a Bi woman) does any of the aforementioned sex acts, it is a betrayal of the relationship. If I'm single and looking to score I have done all 4 of these sexual acts as part of my sexual encounter. Or just one of them. It depends on the mood, the location and the person I am having sex with. It also depends on who a relationship is defined. Poly relationships, introducing a third person into the relations to become a thruple or even a quad needs a lot of give and take, discussion, boundaries and commitment to make these types of relationships work.
amazing how wholesome and normal they look
Very interesting subject to discuss. It’s so fleshing to hear others perspective of sex. You guys are so funny and so passionate about sex. So glad I came across your channel. Keep it up. A fan already. Aloha Hawaii
Thank you ❤ We’ve got new episodes coming every Wednesday, 5pm (GM +8), stay tuned!
I like how issac asking the question. If theres two sides what do you call it.. its call LESBIANS 😂
what about risk of hemorrhoids and other lacerations, isn't that also a reason for preferring identity as side
Right I was thinking about the same thing that may be many are scared to do the act because it might feel risky.
What’s the point of being so hung up over the definition of what counts as “sex”. Explore and know what aspects you enjoy and be proud of it. Hearing your personal authentic sharing is more interesting than your assumptions of “all” Singaporean gays being whatever.
Why is there a need to complicate things....just enjoy it.....go with the flow......
You are so educational and entertaining ! As a straight women i find your candor refreshing and your views on anal sex enlightening
This is because a good reliable tops are a dying breed. I guess I am a prize to keep ;)
I think they're just experiencing what us women have had to put up with when it comes to men in the bedroom. Men are selfish when it comes to sex and that's why women don't want it. Sex is a chore for a lot of women. It isn't enjoyable, but it can be. It just takes time and effort, and men don't want to do that. They just want to get off. On the other hand, maybe the bottoms and women aren't being honest. 🤷🏽♀️
I must say the swallowme section is very insightful lol
I'm a bottom gay. So I established myself as a girl among people. If there is a girlish attitude in the homosexuality of boys, absolute happiness is met. In the same way, if there is a boyish attitude in the homosexuality of girls, absolute happiness is met. As in the case of boys, so in the case of girls. I think homosexuality will be in heaven 😲
I prefer side it's safe but it's inevitable without hardcore lol char!
The term side was coined in 2013 by the sex therapist and author Dr Joe Kort.
hah!? "Sides will eventually break your heart" hmmmmm... interesting theory
Aiyah...end of day...personal preferences lor! Apa apa job, hand job kah, blow job kah and apa apa play pun NOT considered SEX leh. doesn't matter AC/DC kah, Gay kah...suka hati lor but work things out beforehand during the early stage of any relationship. Don't let it slide. Make it clear of what each other needs. Don't start to blame those those who ate out. For us GAYS and especially Sides, no matter how deep the love is (erm erm...believing to be loyal and SEX is NOT important)...years go by and people DO change. We somehow are very different to the straight/lesbian relationships. If we don't work things out or even come close to an agreement, the relationship won't be a happy one.
It's like a Chinese dinner. Relationship/foundation is based on RICE. Both liking each other/each other's cup of tea. Then followed by dishes aka mutual interests/willing to try out new things/adventures with your partner. Lastly condiments...to enhance/spice up the relationship/lust/crazy fetishes.
Now back to Anal or even the Vagina...it feels great to be inside someone you love/like. Somehow there's a deeper connection/emotionally and warmth. Both will try to understand deeper of each other needs. It's fascinating to explore deeper.
I have bottomed many times before but I am definitely a Side. I hated being bottomed. plus the preparation is laborious.
At 4:43, he really said: 🫖🫖🫖
Kieran has every right to not want a side, but he needs to be more open to the fact that some people truly just don't like penetration and it has nothing to do with commitment phobia or any other indication of their personality. Just bc he enjoys penetration, doesn't mean that others should. Everyone is different. But obviously if penetration is that important to him then it wouldn't be fair to him to be with a pure side. Also, sex may be the ultimate intimacy and love to Kieran, but, for instance, I personally consider intellectual connection way more intimate than sex, so again, we're all different. Please remember that.
Because the bottom mostly mascular huge body....when they as normal size top to carry them while......
Difficult life
I don't know for Singapore but I lived 6 years in Malaysia and I noticed a great proportion of sides too. Many guys looking for "lite fun" compared to other places I lived in Europe, Australia and South America. I was thinking it would be an influence of islam but if it's also in Singapore it might be something else. Maybe something in the water? 😂
Guys, this is great 👍🏾
Should ADD a Straight or TOP Guy to speak it will be more FUN😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Subscribed immediately. Yep.
Thank for the video ❤
Gurrrrls it ain’t true at all actually majority of SG Tops loved it and they didn’t like to wear condom for sure! 😢😢
True look in reality in X.... there's a lots.....they prefer raw instead playsafe
Gurls really 😂. Even Singapore gays talk like this .I think it's a gay personality thing
Thank god for power bottoms
Get it correct/ men should not use the bottom as a vergina/ it is not/ men should use you penis in sex not you bottom/ you are not a woman/ anal penetration by a man with man is not sex / call it something else/ it is not sex/ do not use an exit for entrance
As a woman I can sympathize with anal being unpleasant but I've learned that it's up to me to figure out what my body likes and teaching my partner how I want it. If my partner doesn't want to play my way, this is not the partner for me. Also playing with a toy should be painless. You're learning how to control your sphincter muscles so if it's too big get a smaller toy and work up. First tip, push out a little when putting the toy in. If you play after a movement or after an enema there won't be any feces to push out so you're safe..
Wow this is very interesting! It's it easy to be gay in SG, given also the prohibitive law?
But, it’s not really true 😂
The real issue is that Singapore being a small island state/city, gay people know that word gets around quickly about what they’ve done with whom, so they are cautious over who they meet and what they do. As a visitor I have seen no shortage of guys keen to explore everything because the story is outside that closed community.
The concept of a Side is completely childish and immature. You want to participate in sex but still maintain innocents and respectability. Like stop it already 😂
What if they simply don't like topping or bottoming? Everyone is different. For example, there's a lot of women that don't like sex bc penetration doesn't do it for them but clitoral stimulation does. I mean, if they are in love with someone then they should be willing to compromise to make their partner happy as long as they aren't the only one compromising, but it also isn't wrong if they prefer another side.
Great to broach this topic. Like gays in the past, until Sides gain greater public legitimacy, then I think rships are less likely. And I'm guessing you're talking monogamous rships.
Wait, does that mean all lesbians are technically sides?! 🤣
So then according to Kieran, lesbians don't have sex. 🙄
Because they dont have bidet in most of their public toilets
technically what aiman said about only doing side with a fling is similar to the point about sides being non-committal, right?
Hehe i think its more towards flings being something transient so i dont wanna put too much effort in douching and prepping for a guy who'll most likely ghosst me after!!
Tampines to Jurong 😂😂😂
The dude in the middle is sexy AF! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
YES!.😍😍😍
what is a side??
Explained at the starting of the video.
Ang cute ng nasa gitsa. Pero parang iba mukha nya sa IG o mali ung nakalagay na IG. Hehehe
Ok, I live in the US and I have never heard the term SIDES, can someone be so kind as to explain what it means?. Is it just a Asian thing or what?
I am a woman and it surprised me that a lot of your comments and feelings are very similar to how a woman feels when having sex with a guy. Interesting…
You guys are so cute.
It was very interesting to listen to, but please get a better microphone next time. It sounds like the audio is not sourced from the microphone.
Hey, we're thrilled to hear that you find our podcast entertaining!
Just a heads-up, all our episodes were filmed on the same day. Unfortunately, we only discovered during post-production that the mics weren't working properly. As a result, the audio quality will be subpar for a few more episodes.
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Guys can you add the translate English for us because some word they said we cant understand 😄 thats probably can help
It’s hard to understand singlish
Hey, you can turn on the auto generated subtitles. It’s pretty accurate 😊
@@DearStraightPeoplethank you
i love this :)
Issac super handsome
Do yr homework before yr sayin. Yhe title is not Right. Pls dun act cute
You guys are funny.
sorry... what is a "side"?
Is it because singaporean are picky that of the movement...the beat, the brand of lubrican, the hotel standard, the bedsheet not luxurious cotton?
Mabuhay .. isaac is so cute
No, you need to include good fibers with your meals. No need to do the crazy thing.
What is sides?
Please use a traffic cone.
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Well std also .i wish more gay men would be sides
you get at std as a side too
Me too.
@@TheGoldenDonuttt but not easily 🤨.. most HIV cases are anal sex between men .
IT is painful when you even prick a needle in your body - so don’t talk about pricking with that ….. 😢😢😢😢😢😢
Kieran is was spewing s*** throughout this ep. Sometimes when you have the wrong opinion you should learn to stay quiet lol
So, they dnt represent Sg Gays in general... coz I ve jus saw Titus vis got b*tt*med 😅😅
So, isn't a Side simply an Asexual?
No bc sides still enjoy/want other things to get off.
Your audio needs fixing. I can't stand the rough sound and noise.
When's the next episode !
New episodes are released every Wednesday at 5pm. The uncut version of the episodes are released on Patreon a week earlier www.patreon.com/DearStraightPeople
The blue shirt guy is very pragmatic and observant; knowledgeable. The guy in the middle is enticing! The blond guy seems to be just what everyone expects him to be, a severe conformist. Are Gays pre-planning their escape route? Sides? Its all good...
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Plzzzz la,guy disappeared inside ur hole and since have been considered as missing
She's a mess
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can someone tell me the name of the guy in the center? lol
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????smalll???
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😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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sides are the most boring species I've ever met
What is a side???
@@donaldewert2332 dont know. ask those weirdos
Did you watch the video??!
@@lukeoticsare you a top?