Honestly, this isn't even a dating problem. It is a more general problem where kids in our country are not taught how to treat other people, including the opposite gender.
In India, parents & society prohibits their kids talking to opposite gender until they get married to a stranger of their choice and expects them to get intimate. This is super awkward. Talking to opposite gender with friendliness & respect should be normal but not with nervousness & desparation. Girls also made it hard for boys because they are fed up with creepy and desparate guys.
@@val-schaeffer1117That's provocative dude. I'm not haryanvi, but those people might take offense to your statement. Again etiquette, respect needs get better irrespective of gender in Indian society.
@@kishor.k8092 Its not that bad to be single. Yeah i understand that hunger but its better to spend 6000 then to have a responsibility/cageness. TrustMeBro.
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As a girl, this explains a lot. I rejected guys that approached me because I was like we have nothing in common, why are you approaching me!? Then I figured out that they have no interest in me, they just want a gf, doesn't matter who. They approach a new girl every month, it was just my turn. There was no attraction or interest there in the first place. I am also someone who's never had any relationships, so I understand wanting to have a partner.. But I would rather die lonely than date someone who's only with me because I happen to be female. Tbh I think these guys would have much better chances if they just focus on their own health, personality, and hobbies instead.
As a boy , I realized that there is something a trend to have one gf but they don't respect her after this that girl ask everyone that boys are fake and not reliable. I personally feel this when I came to city for my college studies, I realized that girls have a high standard for a boy friend or partner no matter how he is treating to girls, is he love with heart, it's just a social influence and the guys like me stays single for a reason that we don't match that type of level even I'm good looking🫤
After reading the title, I was like, "Mohak, Ye kis line mein aagaye aap" lol, but it turned out to be on an issue I had no idea even existed, probably because in most tier 3/4 cities like mine, it's like bringing a revolution in your family to even think about dating, let alone taking coaching for getting a date.
I'm from a boys college, and can't tell you how popular these courses are, people literally swear by these so called gurus and save money from their below minimum wage intership to buy these courses 😂😂😂
Man, how do you not have more subscribers? No other mainstream youtuber I know makes videos on such topics. This is the type of content that our youth really needs. Kudos to you for making this video, Mohak. Do keep bringing us more such videos.
Not only the content quality is high but the actual video itself is of high quality. With such good research and video quality he should've had more subscribers!! But well our youth are already eating those garbage Anime, Drama, And reels shit. Nobody gives a fuck about real problems and content :) DO keep up the great work tho Mohak bhai!!
@@painlesskun3959how is stuff about dating and all real issues? Ek baar sun liya, samajh liya theek hai, ye practical cheeze hai these days society is v toxic too
As a girl, I have had experiences where guys claim to love me and do things above and beyond for me just for s*x, and then when I tell them that's it's too soon and I don't feel comfortable they start to guilt trip me. First thing I would recommend to you men is please get over your fear of committed relationship or opportunity to get in relationship with someone you start developing feelings for, Second thing please make your intentions clear, if you just want physical intimacy tell that directly to the girl, telling lies just in order to get laid is pathetic and if the girl gets to know about this no matter what you do your image will never raise in her head also she will tell bad mouth about you to others.
@@aena5995 maybe he is looking for a partner to marry maybe that is his intention to get into the dating scene if not like he is not in position to marry any time soon and talks about marriage into first month of relationship then you gotta be careful
@@redrighthand3383 yeah I found he's been married and divorced before at only 22/23 👀 is this a red flag he has a little son I just turned 22 too and he's a different race 😬 he's so nice thooo💀💀
@@aena5995 take your time to judge them thoroughly, be very sceptic in such situations to ensue you're emotional safety. no need to be cold, just cautious. observe his behavior around other women, specially the ones he is related to (cousins, sisters, etc.). wish you all the best in this journey.
Guys always remember , if a woman rejects you , do not settle for friendship, it's not worth it. Just be confident, express your feelings and if she rejects you, move on.
that's kinda messed up though, you're literally saying the same thing bollywood movies say, that a man and woman can't be just friends even though yes they can be. If she rejects you, just don't force anything and continue your friendship.
@@speedforce8970Wtf dude, you think a guy is a rock or something? It hurts to see someone you're romantically interested in be with someone else. Why should any guy (or girl) willingly put him/herself through that torture? Also, this is not the same as saying men and women can't be friends. You can be friends with other women. You know, the ones you are not in love with. You are not owed a friendship just like a guy is not owed a relationship or hookup.
@@HemantKumar-id3jg this really depends on the type of friendship the two had prior to the confession, if you two were really close friends and she rejects you, I don't see why you should let go of a close friendship especially when those kinds of friends are hard to find anyways. Now of course, if you two barely know each other and she rejects you, you're free to move on since you aren't really losing anything in that case.
@@speedforce8970 Again wrong, there is a giagantic reason. You want to be happy. You want to have close friends who's presence comforts you rather than make you bitter and frustrated. People find other romantic partners to commit to, you can easily find a friend. Friendships even close ones fall out all the time, that's life. You know what you do? You make new friends. If you can't find friends, that's on you. Also, what kind of sadistic person keeps clinging onto a "friendship" when it's eating their "friend" alive? That person especially doesn't deserve a friend who's happiness he/she cares so little about. This hell is what guys call "the friendzone" where you don't cut off contact with your "friend" either because she guilt trips you or you are still hoping for a change, and are miserable all the time. Tldr- You are not OWED a friendship. Move on.
@@HemantKumar-id3jg what if their presence still comforts you? I don’t see why you’re so insistent with this since you’re just one human being with a couple hundred anecdotes in a world populated by billions. Not everyone will feel frustrated or bitter if this happens to them, for some, confessing and being rejected might be their way to move on, that doesn’t they’ll stop being friends. I had a friend who had a crush on a girl and he was pretty close to her, he ended up confessing and she rejected him, he moved on and both of them found partners and they’re still close friends. I am sure there’s many more cases like this, you don’t burn an old bridge because you failed in making a new one. Your experiences and my experiences don’t matter, because the world is too big and too populated to be predicted by one person.
Don't wish to offend you. But I was just browsing through the comments hoping to find atleast one girl. So here it goes. Just take it lightly. Very soon there will be no predators left. Guys are simply losing interest in girls. I am myself divorced and all my friends are divorced too. But if you learn about the reason why I got divorced, you will probably be laughing out loud. Sex is glorified and guys fantasize a lot about it. But when I finally got to have it, I was disappointed. I thought, this is it? For this I worked so hard since my school days, through changing one job after another to get a better salary. I just wanted this and I worked really hard for it. But it is simply not worth it. There is nothing great about it. And you can say that I am mean, selfish or whatever you want to call me. But this is the only reason why I divorced my wife. Don't wish to marry ever again.
@@MrVarunAnanddbrother sex is not everything that you wants from a relationship, sex is a very small part in a relationship, there are many things that you're looking for from a relationship, and more importantly a partner a person you trust, a person close to your heart with whom u can share everything in your hearts, a person who will always be there for you in your hard times motivating you by your sides and also be there cheering you up while you achieve you success.. She is more like your best friend and more like someone other than yourself whom you choose to trust the most in this world.. The earth is a cruel place to live in and the girl we love is more of a company than anything else that helps us to survive the heat and raged of this earth... There are many things you need to know bro, sex is a very narrow part in a relationship so don't be late to enjoy all the beauty in a relationship and yeah don't let it fade away as your desire for sex accomplished, think for it before it's too late brother ❤❤...
@@MrVarunAnanddit's your fault bro you must have paid sex before marriage to know it's nothing that's why like bad guys not good guys like us we are stupid, I am not anymore. Aur sadi bas sex ke liye nhi bestfriend (as wife) dhudne ke liye Krna chahiye tha bro. Womens are not a sex object mister in India we treat womens as Devi wich is way more, But still don't just sexualize lady, they are also for cooking (Just kidding)
Here are few things that are not mentioned in this video :- 1. Every woman is different and has different likes and dislikes, like any other person... Don't go on changing yourself for that, just so you have something common. 2. Just because you don't have gf you don't automatically become a loser, likewise if you do have one you don't become successful. 3. Having a gf just for sake of having one is a bad idea on par with doing engineering cause everyone else is, try to build relationships like humans were meant to do.
Dude, we have been saying these same things for a decade now and the problem still persists. Maybe we need to teach guys something else too. Something better.
Firmly written. 1) The issue is going to persist because we're taking our ideas from movies which are highly imaginative. 2) Do girls also act desperate like some of the men to have a boyfriend? Why is it only one gender is running behind? 3) The male:female ratio is highly skewed. Since males are more and give constant attention to females, the females also then have more options and might start thinking in want of higher quality males (as per their standards).
@@pg18099 about second point I think it is because its always guys that are expected to approach and the rise of social media also contributes in inflating the egos of women thinking they have too many options and hence never have to chase any
@@shreyassharma8277 May be yes. And males end up chasing girls. If you look 40-50 years behind (1-2 generation before) or more, it was the females family asking males mostly, since the culture was as such or may be then the females: males ratio was higher or balanced. And now it has reversed. Just an ecosystem's way of doing tit for tat.
From a female perspective, the Indian education system has done similar harm for girls too. Now in my early twenties, I find myself struggling with aspects of physical intimacy and sexuality - I've become so indifferent to both these things. Also, love the video by the way!
I honestly had no idea all these things are going in india 😂😂😂 I guess this is the rise and era of smartphones When free Internet comes before free education 😅 they r copyingThe onlineDatingCoaches of usa and using the same lingo, "game", "pick up g.." etc..😂
u r pretty young and born in the modern times where dating is normalized, imagine if u were born before 95 or before 1990, how things would have been for u😅
In India , especially parents should not see relationships as against culture or tradition etc... Thats the reason men become desperate and girls feel boys are cheap,, equal respect and love should be there in relationships..
I studied in Russia🇷🇺 for 2 years, and a major issue many people there face is receiving unsolicited messages from Indian creeps asking about their gender 😅and requesting explicit photos. As an Indian, It hurts me.🥲 It tarnishes the reputation of our country, as we have a strong cultural value of respecting women. 🥲
I work in an MNC in Mumbai, and now I have many international friends who are closer to me than my Indian friends. Most female friends from my organization expressed the same sentiments about the issue. In fact, they told me they expected me to be the same, but were surprised that I wasn't creepy. Such is the image these dumbasses have formed about Indian men. That's just sad, man, and we don't even know the solution.
You don't even need to go outside, i am sure there isn't one Indian girl with social media that haven't received the same. I was 17 when i got my first smartphone and fb was the rage in those days. There was no pictures or dp in my profile, the only proof of my gender being my name and the avatar. Still the amount of weird and creepy messages. I cried when someone send me a d pic for the first time and at that point i thought the world has fallen to its lowest.😂😂
As a boy I can certainly say one thing people around me view girls as another type of prani like they jst dont consider girls as same as us, in fact my gf also told me that people just look them as a object instand of a real person how has their own wishes and desires.
Vahi to problem hai har animal ke species me 2 gender hote hai human species me bhi 2 hai but ek gender dusre gender ko unka apna hissa hai Aisa dekhte hi nhi, as if Female gender is not in Human😅
@@unknown-gq7bm Because girls can only exert 80% of their physical strength as compared to males. Also, they are more emotional which hinders their survival in emergency situations.
I am 20 year old guy, now studying in college. I am facing the exact problem that Mohak said in the video. I am very anxious and afraid towards with interaction with girls. Being lived with abusive strict overprotective parents, makes me extremely shy and introverted, socially reserved and awkward and makes me difficult for socialization and interaction, especially with girls. Also previous bad experience of bullying also makes my confidence low and makes me more socially reserved and awkward for interaction with girls. When I see my fellow friend and guys, having gf and female friends and have strong confidence with interaction with girls, it makes me jealous, frustrated and my mind and heart get broken and having inferiority complex. I haven't experience the essence and warmth of love and relationship of girls. And also, I missed the teenage love, that makes me broken
we are all human, girls and guys are a lot more similar than we think, we are not some different species...i know kehna asaan hai but just try to talk to girls like you would with any guy, dont overthink it, and like mohak said, dont think of girls as some prize you need to win, bs insaan hai baat krni hai...just create a normal friendship (how u would with a boy) and from there if a romantic connection sparks then see where it goes from there. And u know a lot of girls also get awkward around boys 😂due to lack of male-female interaction throughout our life...just chill, and be yourself :)
Just listen to mohak. Talk to them like they are your friend. Don't expect them to be your girlfriend only. Dont think they are some object or prize. See them as your friends too. I bet you will enjoy their company.
The new generation has to unlearn the weird expectations of the society. We must not forget that while we are doing great as an economic power, our society also has the most embarrassing and bizarre problems. Honour killing, dowry related harassment, female infanticide, caste based discrimination in marriage, and the list goes on. It will take a while but I think things are definitely changing.
Needs to be mentioned: the amount of Disrespect and Abuse Women go through cause of such immature and Desperate Men. And yet the women Problems are yet widely made fun of, overlooked and QUESTIONED, so as to secure male dyanmics in the society.
Soo true . Just saw a comment where someone pointed this out but a guy blatantly said no and how women are objects . And let's not start with men never accepting their wrong doings .
You're missing the other side of the story. You're only highlighting the female issues which are not undeniable. But men are also not taught to express their emotions to women and so they are ignorant about the art of courtshipping the other gender. Isn't that a huge problem too? Isn't that the main cause of sexual offences in three society too?
Even otherwise women in India do not feel comfortable having a conversation with men. They sometimes have trouble continuing a conversation too. An Indian society has some bullshit expectations on Gen Z kids and these boomers have to change.
This was a great video. Thanks for starting a conversation around Dating and picking the topic up. There is no shame in trying to learn about dating, sex, and other things as there is no shame in learning about fitness, finance, health, etc. For the Soch by Mohak Mangal team, this was a great initiative by you guys. Keep it up.
Let me be very frank. I am a 22 year old guy but sometimes i do struggle to keep up conversations with a new girl that i met recently. What I think is, people should change their thinking, both are equal and both the genders are humans, that is it. As a man for me, I love to build long-term relations whoever it is (A friend, colleague, family, a girl).
Dono humans hai . Baat kro n Karo, koi difference hai ? Haan , zindagi kaise jiyega practically half population avoid karega to . Sabzi nahi kharid payega
Phele toh tum log yeh equality ka bewakoofi band karo. Men and women are NOT equal. They are the exact opposites. Don't be so delusional. Have some sense. That's why you have to learn to talk, treat and court a woman. Right is a completely different issue.
Truth is we still do not have a dating culture in India. That leads to a lot frustration inside and that results in a lot of em send DMs to random women on social media coz they do not even know how to approach a woman in real.
How to to girls easy ways:- 1. Don't see them as a object and treat them equally. 2. Have confidence in yourself. 3. Talk normally like when you are talking with your male friends and share your genuine thoughts. 4. Stop watching these fake dating coaches. Thankyou for reading and Thankyou Mohak bro you are literally picking some genuine yet unique topics. Have a good day 😊
@@pran10000 start with talking normally, and once you are both a little more comfortable with each other you can shift towards flirting and making a romantic connection.
@@pran10000 that's where you ara wrong. As a girl I won't date a guy who directly starts flirting. I mean we don't even know you how can someone flirt with an unknown.
The modern new dating methods of tinder, bumble and these courses are ruining maximum young people (obvi exceptions are there) and driving them into depression and low confidence . ... Be classy, confident, work on your personality, develop soft skills, don't be cheap and respect girls - for sure you will be never be single.
Japan and Korea like countries even have a Girlfriend/boyfriend on rent concept or professor cuddlers...its not to have sex but to have relationship experience, feedback and emotional support! This problem is more in the boys who don't have sisters or good relationship with their siblings. Coed education is also very important for overall personality development and treat every gender with respect
Exactly!! I've seen most guys Ik (including my own brother) say they would like to "cuddle" honestly s*x should be the last thing on their mind if they're planning on a long term relationship. Can completely understand the cuddling part tho. That's a part of inner child healing
@@abhijeet4799yeah they don't understand that. I studied in co-ed and hated it because even though I wasn't interested in girls or didn't approach them I had a problem with them because they would sometimes treat you like shit and if you be friendly with them they would mock, make fun, not all were like that some girls did became good classmate friends with me , but most of were too much egoistic and pieces of shit. So I wanted to go to all boys school but didn't had chance because of shifting problem.
@@abhijeet4799my brother who studied in all boys school later went on to have good aqauitance with girls who were his classmate friends. But I rather have problems with some girls (not all ) especially those who are too much talkative and carry too much pride in their minds. This is because they were the ones who would hurl insults in my school years. This why I don't think co-ed idea will work with all.
@@akashchowdhury8922english samajh nhi ati? Every human have their own thoughts, opinions, desires, views. Just bcq u like something doesn't mean i have to like it too, that's what he is talking about.
I am a girl and I can more less confirm that the guys that usually approach you such weird ways usually think of you as a prize , or thing they need to win. I have been approached by many such men, and I try to the best of ability to tell them what they're doing wrong and how it's not their fault and how they need to see the girl as a "person" rather something to achieve or win. You know what, just talk to them like how you would approach other guys. If you're from a village try to think of them as if you were approaching a "city guy", and ofcourse know your boundaries. I know lots of guys who are great at just doing that and are always surrounded by girls. Girls also love guys who are chill to talk to, don't be afraid and the most important thing is respect.
@@anuragchakraborty8766 I'm sorry what do you mean? If you mean that what should guys below poverty do, even then my advice would be same, it's not taught in our culture so we need to learn how to interact, both men and women.
@@shrutimeshram2560 I don't give a damn about interaction. All I'm wondering is why the Indian youth of today, people like you guys are so fixated on silly things like dating & relationships when you should be far more focused on actual issues like the state of Indian poverty. For example, are you aware that 1 Billion Indians are currently living in poverty?
@@anuragchakraborty8766 look people are free to discuss whatever the topics they want. If you're so worried about poverty go help the poor, get a job, don't read comments here. And according to the current data about 250 million people are living below poverty, that does not mean we're doing any well or good. We need to improve and the road to that big change is education, acceptance, change, and awareness about snall and sensitive topics like this. Small steps like this contribute to the big change you're talking about. As far as dating is concerned, it's a basic human need and if you're not capable to understand something as basic as that, then well, all the best.
@@anuragchakraborty8766bro💀😂, You're saying 2/3rd of the pop. is below poverty line? check the data properly, although you're somewhat correct that we need to focus on on other aspects but that point is like what idiots say about India, don't fund isro deal with poverty first, a very idiotic approach to such things We must deal with everything together And afterall we're human beings, socializing and having partner/family is how we've come this far.. Also People have their own interests so stop taking the burden of all the poverty on your shoulders until the bare thought kills you from inside...👍🏿 Peace
Bro this single quotation sums up all the actual problem with indian mentality. We indians our whole life believe that we will "find" our love,we will "find " the one,we will "find" our soulmate.and thats why most of the indians are left single throughout their teenhood and adulthood.but we have to understand that love is 'build'.we have to go out and talk to people we like.we have to work on ourselves.we have to make efforts to get love in our life.very well said by Gautam Buddh
ज्यादातर कॉलेज के स्टूडेंट्स की कोई पॉकेट मनी नही होती ,जिससे बॉयज खुद ही गर्ल्स के बारे में सोचते नहीं है, क्योंकि मोस्टली बॉयज को पता है बिना मनी के गर्लफ्रेंड ज्यादा दिन नहीं टिकेगी ,और गर्ल फ्रेंड बनाने से ज्यादा करियर पर फोकस करना पड़ता है।
@@saulgoodman5663 Friendzone is just rejection but polite. There is no obligation for women to date someone who asks her out. We need to teach Indian men stoicism.
This is an issue that needs to be talked about, so kudos for that. But it wish it was more balanced in terms of gender. Finding a partner is not specific to boys. I wish the video had been "How to find a partner in India" and covered female experience as well. When Mohak talked about how ghosting means boys don't het feedback on their dating behaviors, I wish he made it clear that it is not the girls' responsibility to educate them. While I don't condone ghosting itself, there are a myriad of reasons why girls prefer to just not respond. The list is not exhaustive, but here are few reasons. 1. Safety - Not just in the dating environment, but knowledge of their presence in a dating environment can be extremely unsafe for girls. 2. Girls are also brought up in the same environment as boys were just as (if not more) discouraged from talking to the opposite gender. Also, lot of girls get blamed for themselves being subjected to unwanted attention. Girls don't either know how to talk to boys, let alone enough to educate them. 3. Rejection leading to escalation - More often than not, rejection is not taken well. The situation might escalate to them being worried for their safety. Like I said, even knowledge of them dating can be dangerous to girls as they face mistreatment from their own families or their complaints not being taken seriously (or even taken advantage of) by authorities. I hope these coaching institutes are teaching boys how to handle rejection and that it is OK for their feelings to not be reciprocated.
I had no idea that such a thing or concept even exists. Thanks to you and your team, for bringing up and discussing this topic with utmost empathy and dignity. Great job!
The problem can be only solved in schools, since childhood there it must be normal to interact with opposite genders..my school use to have pathetic rules of not talking to girls, if we do then we would be in principal's office.
Maybe I can give girls POV why the girls choose not to mess with guys. 1. Threat of blackmailing after breakup-Many boys threats women to release their romantic photographs or videos after breakup and some boys actually released these things on internet. The girl is considered to be the absolute fool in these cases and no-one blame boys for these type of behaviour. 2. Start taking granted- Many boys starts taking her gf granted after sometime of their relationships.They start finding the girl irritating. 3.Chasing popular girls- Boys generally chase most desirable and popular girls in society and ignore the average girls.It's hard to see a guy is in relationship with lesser good looking girl. 4.Girls take on the career - Since this is the first generation of girls in India are getting opportunities to build career so they don't want to loose this opportunity.They have seen their mother's life being a housewife is disrespectful .Hence Girls don't want to take risks and end up having a horrible life . Because in many cases Indian parents immediately marry their daughter after they find out the girl has a boyfriend. 5.Societal pressure-Many Girls doesn't want to try more than 1-2 men since the society start label those girls as slut and chances of getting good respectable guy decreases for those girls. 6. Commitment Issues - Boys avoid marriage commitment . So the girls ended up feeling used and cheated. Especially if she had a physical relationships with the boy. Because the virgin girl are still a absolute demand in Indian society. 7. High Expectations of girls from relationship-The expectation of immature girls treated as a princess in a relationship is also one of the reason why they ghost boys. 8. Blame Game- Boys are good at blaming the girls at the end of their relationship and completely ignore their mistakes. 9.India's problem- Intercaste, Interstate, Interreligion and many more boundaries in Indian society where girls observe no hope of marriage .So they don't even start romantic angles even though the boy is perfect for her. Disclaimer-I don't have any data like mohak to prove my points .I am writing these points on the basis of my observation. Maybe these points can help to understands girls mentality.I have no intention to hurt or offend anyone.
1st point happened to me . The guy I dated for barely 8 months tried to force me into telling my parents about us, tried to control me , would get jealous about petty things and yes the blame game if a guy looked at me it was my fault. So when I broke up with him , he tried to blackmail me. But we didn't do much so he couldn't do anything. I consider myself lucky and have been single since then.
*The problem is that nobody wants to address the elephant in the room which is that dating is easier for women than men cuz men have to take the first initiative,jump through the hoops the woman throws at them and qualify themselves to her only for the average woman to requite that effort with just her attention,this dynamic automatically puts the woman on the pedestal,because of which a lot of women have inflated egos which makes them think less of the opposite gender due to endless attention showered upon them by men.There is no equality in dating,men have to be charming and ambitious to get attention women just have to breathe*
Thank you for addressing this. It is partly men's fault though too that we let this happen. Both men and women need to be a bit more understanding to each other.
So glad you talked about this!! The self proclaimed “pick up artists” like Andrew Tate are really ruining a whole generation of men Great vid as always Mohak ❤️ Edit : I don’t know why so many incels in the comment section got defensive because I mentioned Andrew Tate, he might or might not be a pick up artist, but he’s def influential among young boys and having a negative effect on their psyche. To top it off, he’s also a sex trafficker 👍🤡
Andrew tate is not even a pick up artist. There are so many bad things about him like sex trafficking and stuff but I don't know why people just invent new stuff to get mad. Like he literally shames pickup artist because he thinks they are cringe 😂 what video you saw of him where he self proclaimed that he is a pick up artist?
As a person who somewhat has experience in teaching. I would like to add its a both way issue. Its not only boys don't know how to talk to girls but also many girls dont know how to talk to boys and interact. Sadly its the truth of society , i hope to see it change one day.
@@clashingemperors8280 There are many examples bro of not good looking rich guys dating very attractive girls. Anyway I'm gonna concentrate on money only. Money is most beautiful thing in the world.
Men really really really need dating / relationship advice in India! They need this for their gf and / or wife!! Women who tell men what went wrong just creates a ego issue. I would respect a guy who is open to learning to get better at something...be it relationship skills or money!
@@thenoobinvestor6930 O..100% open to change for me personally. Infact I think along with sex education, we need to start teaching relationship skills also at school level... all relationships for all genders - with parents, family, friends, romantic ones ofcourse.. even professional ones. It's part of emotional intelligence; but it's really the key to happy life.. I have personally been wondering if there is some guidance for how to have a better relationship with my mother as an adult women
Playboys are more successful in dating and relationship. Why??? U know very well Similarly,, like playboys,,if any decent guy start see women as sexual object ,,then they won't have any fear of rejection.
@@axelashu bcuz if i really love u & wish u to be my partner;;then my dream might be shattered if u reject. So fear of rejection.😭 But like a Playboy,if I see u as sex object & want to fool & use u in the name of love;;i definitely wouldn't have any fear of rejection. I will try to apply it on other girls.
Very Glad&Blessed tht my Cbse School ; 🏫 was not only make us to Sit with opposite gender’s but also told to hold hands while walking in a line . We’re told to call them actually as partner and not as Benchmate and now being 20 ; i haven’t faced any issue with being or finding a girl . Thanks to my School ❤Kkps (Kids Kingdom Public School)
Unfortunately I was also like those lonely depressed guys wanting female attention and relationship. But I didn't resort to any dating coach. I tried everything myself started chatting interacting and talking to girls on my own. I know it's very tough to start but when you do talk with first girl interacting further becomes easier. Just after you get over your fear and nervousness you gain confidence. I feel everyone should study and understand male female dynamic before entering any relationship and also identify the reason you are getting into the relationship and the terms first.
@@sachins5784 Well, it is the general understanding of how to behave with them. There is a difference between how you engage into conversation with a woman and a man respectively. You can't treat a woman same way you treat a man. We are supposed to have some unspoken boundaries. Women are more mature, observant, sensitive and more open towards some thing than men. But men have different view, they are more suppressive of their emotions they are not generally very open to crying like women. It's also about mannerism how you touch them how you interact with them. I can't explain all of it in here. Soe thing you have to figure out on your own. In a nutshell, you are a man so you naturally know what a man does what he does, their motivations and objectives. Since we don't get female perspective, we need to first treat them as a person further humanising them so that they become open to tell you what they feel and believe in. This thing gives us understanding of how women think and how we think and how one should engage with one another is the male and female dynamic your relationship and roles with one another.
When I was 15 or 16, I desperately wanted a girlfriend because I thought it was cool. How dumb I was! But today, at the age of 21, I'm thankful that I don't have a girlfriend. At that age, you're going to face tough times, and the wrong girl can ruin everything. Find a good, mature friend who can help you build your career. Don't trust anyone other than your parents, not even your best friends, brothers, or sisters who may share their secrets. Life is precious, so enjoy it and don't let a single person ruin it.
Yeah, I had a gFin 11th. And at first it was fine. I even skipped whole 11 mostly. Then there are kind of cageness. I was not able to attendSportsPractice also. It was ended almost at the end of12th. NormalExperience. I would say it skips otherThings of yourLife. MarriageIsMuchBetter time.
@@Shiva-zj6od We learn the value of time when we don't have it. I always regret that I didn't utilize my teenage years, and I really don't want anyone to end up like me.
@@mukuljain9591 I hope this will help you, brother. My father always tried to guide me on the right path, but I never listened to him. Now, I always ask my parents before making any decision.
Omg bro it felt like someone is talking for me. Or anyone I grew up around. The interaction between opposite sex in my school like basically any other school around was so denormalised, romanticised, sexualised, and turned into a taboo that even after five years of opportunity at college for free interaction, and one and a half years of a relationship, I still feel a hitch while talking to a girl. If any parents and future parents and especially teachers are reading this by any chance. Maybe do not do this to your next generation. It will turn them into abnormal people for years to come. It will make them feel confused, inferior, and in most cases hate and despise women, and almost always will lead to sureshot perversion or confusion if he is a pervert. It will add a layer of painful consciousness and artifice each time they try to interact with a girl. Yes this comes from deeply personal experience and conversations I have had with people from all parts of India who had similar conditions _and_ dissimilar conditions to me (I envy how normal it is for them. And I think a normal life is what everyone deserves).
Actually chasing relationship is a foolish thing Focus on self improvement and start loving urself and when u are not searching for any relationship the right person will enter ur life This is a fact
@@harniksinghfanofdeepsidhu400i am very elder then u guys , plus i am earning .. I don’t need anyone financially or emotionally But if a boyfriends give comfort and respect even I appreciate it .. Girls love comforts, anything that gives confort they love it… If she walk too much, give her ride If bag is havey hold it for her If she is standing in hot sun offer shade, if he forgets umbrella give her If she hut herself bandage She won’t forget ur genuine act of kindness forever And also if she end up make u friend “friend zone” maximum u can ask about reasons Can’t force her and yes tell her that ur genuine kindness will be offered to ur future gf or wife Since she is refusing to be one she can’t except you to stay with her all the time and step back If she will realize she lost you she will choose you Otherwise let her go
As a girl ...i m terrified of these courses...wtf is this😂 Why boys are taught how to handle a girl? They should just behave normally...we are humans too just like you😂not different species
I’m Indian guy living in the USA now. confidence and resilience is exactly what we need. This is what which helped me to get laid and have a marriage. Honestly I would rather have boys spend money to get a dating coach rather than get a AI girlfriend. Here in the USA AI girlfriends are a real thing and it’s getting pretty dystopian.
The concept of "AI Girlfriend" is relatively new in the US. Otherwise when it comes to dating and having a relationship, Americans are chill and they are way better than us Indians.
@@ShivinUnitholi how are they better and if someone does not wish to be into these then they dont wish to be into these things its ok i get that reproduction is important but still whatever
@@Phych0path bro I strongly advise not going down that path. Once you convince yourself AI robot can be your replacing emotional needs , there’s no going back and you’ll lose sense of reality.
I’ve tried many of these courses, but they don’t work in India. Here, women are way too conservative to risk anything to do with a stranger. To get few of outgoing girls here, you either need to be celebrity or be loaded with money. That is why you will see normal women mostly hanging with below average guys from their childhood. They are even willing to stick with abusive partners than taking any chance. Basically, they lack guts to take bold decisions in their life and stand responsible for them.
Being conservative isn't necessarily a bad thing though. I mean atleast indian women aren't ending up with teen pregnancies and regrets with hook up culture. Also you don't need to be celebrity or with money to get a girl. Like seriously what type of girls are you even attracting with doing such things? Won't you attract the most superficial girls. Just because they don't choose men who use pick up lines doesn't mean that they aren't bold and will instead be with men who will abuse them. Many of them are perfectly rational and make rational decisions and don't like men who think of them as some trophy or game. You think men like you who take courses suddenly become immune to abusive behavior?
@@Disnotz There are pros and cons in both cultures. Main reason behind conservatism in India is caste system. Women are “properties” of a particular caste group.
@@daredevil30000 how tf did you insert caste into gender dynamics lol. Also I literally said being conservative isn't necessarily a bad thing which doesn't mean aspects of it can't be bad
@@abhijeet4799guess he wanted to say during teen years girls are told not to have /make a boyfriend Yet when she is in her late 20s (marriage expectations) ..she is asked if she is seeing someone.
main toh koi gf bhi chahata just ek girl chata hoon jo mere emotion ko samjhe aisi friend jo mujhe emotional time main aaj girl confident ho rahi hai aur ladke kamjor thats fact
as a girl and im in long distance relationships ..we meet on a online class 😂😂not on any dating or social media app we both are preparing for same exam ..i can say we are perfect for each other ......please guys believe on destiny you will sure get some one who love you purely 💞💓
This is like illusion 👁️👁️, mai bhi us trah ke app use karta hu , but koi bhi nhi milni wali I know 🙂. They are just too focused on study 14 hrs 🤓 -16 hrs study.
bhen tum log kyun nhi smjh ye destiny vestiny sirf ldikyon ki hoti hai kyunki guys will keep throwing themselves at women even when she isn't trying to attract someone she can hence wait for the right one to come along but girls aren't like guys . Ldki ki tara ldka destiny mei believe krke wait krne lga for the right one to bechare akela hi meraga. it doesn't happen 'naturally' for us but for you it does because relationship mei ane ki liye 80% effort ldke ka lgta hai (maintain krne mei ldki ke equal ya zyada hoskta hai). i know you mean well but please samjha karo I've been following this same advice from my female friends aur mere lge pde hain. Don't get mad or offfended at this comment I'm just trying to make you see our perspective. Best of luck for your exam and relationship.👍
@@manavsingh6145 hmm understood ...agar apke mind me ye hoga ki bas girlfriend chahiye isliye app ladki se baat kr rhe h tab kbhi bhi ek pure bond nhi baan sakta hai....ladkiyon ko bhut sari chizo ka dhayan rakhna hota h relationship me ane se pehle....thoda time de samne wale ko app.
@@shanvisingh2440 i think you are talking about choices bahut sarii Jo hoti h ab comparison v toh karna hota h who is more handsome rich or humourous tym toh Lage ga hee 😂 kiu sahi kaha na...(relationship mein ane see pahle Sara test ladko ka he hota jo hai 💀)
Basically the solution of most of the problem in this world is money... 1.if you are unattractive then money can make you attractive. 2.if you don't have enough body physique then by going gym and taking enough good quality food supplements you can get a good physique. And if you have this 2 things then there is no way that a girl will not fall in love with you... And also manners are important so moral of the story is that first focus on your career and built a empire which can earn you better income
I am also from KV school..where girls and boys baat karna means pura town mein Rumours extra level pahunch jati thi..aur Teachers toh pura students ka alag impression se dekhte they..😢😢
Dear Boys, Just focus on your career, earning money as much as you can and invest yourself. Let's your wife earn and take financial responsible 50-50 basis. If she is not doing her responsibilities quit relationships, quit marriage. If you take full responsibility at the end of the life you will left with money but your wife will be left with assets that you cannot imagine.
This Happens when a Culture which is disabled already in terms of Concepts like Dating, try it's hand on it. We are inherently built for arranged marriages because of Caste system. But modern era induces modern issues such as late financial and Professional settlement, more income, late marriages, and individualism creating an expectation-reality Gap. To find companionship in this condition is making people start to look towards dating where there would be inherent conflict between orthodoxial culturally raised Indians vs modern ideas which are incompatible with Indians in general. Indians are built for outsourcing this responsibility to their parents. One of reasons why westerners foster sense of disgust towards Indians because they despite being in abroad still would practice arranged marriages which westerners see as an act of disability. Simple since Caste will always be standing infront of your end result, dating will never gain as a parallel to arranged companionship.
Some of people in western practice arranged marriage too like catholic and muslim communities.They save themselves for marriage.Point out from indian perspective is a waste of time.There are many more countries which are 10x stricter than indian which you can understand by visiting middle eastern countries.India is like big rural country where there are people follow traditions based on taboos and divinity.
This dating coach culture came from same western countries. Is it mean that despite being so modern and developed country some of their youth ain't able to date ?
@@self-improvement2166 Correct. It's not just India but Asians including Muslims have also arranged companionship concept. Point is towards why and how dating will create outburst of Confusion in our society.
When i saw the movie "Hitch", i thought the whole idea was ridiculous, but it is a serious business. Because of our culture and social taboo boys don't understand girls and when they touch adolescence it becomes an enigma. in a very niche society boys and girls interact freely, everywhere else the problem persists
@@prabha6886 only girls aren't conditioned to have boyfriend else they r considered as 'impure'. While boys are conditioned to hve girlfriend else they r considered as 'less masculine'. This is the reality of our society 💔💔
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Excellent video can totally relate with video when I was in school parents, teacher never allowed to talk to girls or befriend them. Teachers tried their best to make kids understand why someone talking to girls or sitting with them is spoilt and extremely wrong. I grew up in extremely small city so had no female friends or interaction in complete school life. Now I face the same problem in college that I have zero female interaction or female friends because I have no idea how to talk to girls confidently plus the girls too are pretty less as IIIT Delhi has 1:10 gender ratio. These days even in arrange marriage the demands and competition has risen up exponentially. So anyway I have accepted my fate that I will die single as I am just an average engineer with nothing special in terms of looks or skills plus I am too uncool for genz kids due to my simple middle class lifestyle so I don't care about it anymore tbh 😶😅
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Sir are you promoting relationship
Honestly, this isn't even a dating problem. It is a more general problem where kids in our country are not taught how to treat other people, including the opposite gender.
100% best main point
..how to treat anyone...but after 18 we need to learn by our self...❤❤❤...i'm.have 3 girl friends..only😂😂
@@ZENLEARNER...1wtf 3 gf
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In India, parents & society prohibits their kids talking to opposite gender until they get married to a stranger of their choice and expects them to get intimate. This is super awkward. Talking to opposite gender with friendliness & respect should be normal but not with nervousness & desparation. Girls also made it hard for boys because they are fed up with creepy and desparate guys.
Maybe in your Hariyanvi village
@@val-schaeffer1117That's provocative dude. I'm not haryanvi, but those people might take offense to your statement. Again etiquette, respect needs get better irrespective of gender in Indian society.
@@val-schaeffer1117what do you mean by in your haryanvi village?
Atleast it is not like Randikhana urf Delhi.
3 marks for answer and 1 mark for good handwriting 😅
@@val-schaeffer1117aur aap kahan sir? Newyork ya Paris?
Parents: Dont be friends with girls.
Also parents: Why you not married yet?
Average household😂😂
Marry within “caste”
Damn important
@@JustMe54328 no
Exactly , this is the situation of current India
For me it's the opposite. My parents force me to talk to girls but I struggle a lot :'/
Finally there is some who raise awareness on such kind of problems with a right perspective
Hats off to u bro!
Bro I am 24 and i am so virgin😩😩 that sometimes i think ki खतना ✂️ karra ke jihad 💥💥karrne nikal jauu kya patta uppar 72 हूरे 👰 mill jaye
@@kishor.k8092 Its not that bad to be single. Yeah i understand that hunger but its better to spend 6000 then to have a responsibility/cageness. TrustMeBro.
@@kishor.k8092dating coach ke pass jao
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Issi se Teri education ka Pata chalta hai..
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As a girl, this explains a lot. I rejected guys that approached me because I was like we have nothing in common, why are you approaching me!? Then I figured out that they have no interest in me, they just want a gf, doesn't matter who. They approach a new girl every month, it was just my turn. There was no attraction or interest there in the first place. I am also someone who's never had any relationships, so I understand wanting to have a partner.. But I would rather die lonely than date someone who's only with me because I happen to be female. Tbh I think these guys would have much better chances if they just focus on their own health, personality, and hobbies instead.
But we feel very h0rny and can't do ma&turb@te all the time
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As a boy , I realized that there is something a trend to have one gf but they don't respect her after this that girl ask everyone that boys are fake and not reliable.
I personally feel this when I came to city for my college studies, I realized that girls have a high standard for a boy friend or partner no matter how he is treating to girls, is he love with heart, it's just a social influence and the guys like me stays single for a reason that we don't match that type of level even I'm good looking🫤
After reading the title, I was like, "Mohak, Ye kis line mein aagaye aap" lol, but it turned out to be on an issue I had no idea even existed, probably because in most tier 3/4 cities like mine, it's like bringing a revolution in your family to even think about dating, let alone taking coaching for getting a date.
Thats what i thought too
Bhai.. "dating" here is the marketing term for getting laid. Sex karne ki baat hai yahaan aur kuch nahi.
@@akshayde I guess that is more than that if it is only about sex then we need more prostitutes' not dating coaches !
I'm from a boys college, and can't tell you how popular these courses are, people literally swear by these so called gurus and save money from their below minimum wage intership to buy these courses 😂😂😂
Which lucky college you are studying.If I was in that I have got many wingmen.
And I am from girls college I didn't have any idea that thing like this exist
@@mitakshrabhargav9530me too ..aur acha h hua k nhi pta tha..😅
@mitakshrabhargav9530 did he even mention "girls college"?
@@abhijeet4799 he said boys college that' s why i mentioned girls college just to give comparison how things are different there
Man, how do you not have more subscribers?
No other mainstream youtuber I know makes videos on such topics. This is the type of content that our youth really needs. Kudos to you for making this video, Mohak. Do keep bringing us more such videos.
Are bhai iske video ache se dekh to samjega ye left wing hai .
Not only the content quality is high but the actual video itself is of high quality.
With such good research and video quality he should've had more subscribers!! But well our youth are already eating those garbage Anime, Drama, And reels shit.
Nobody gives a fuck about real problems and content :)
DO keep up the great work tho Mohak bhai!!
@@painlesskun3959how is stuff about dating and all real issues? Ek baar sun liya, samajh liya theek hai, ye practical cheeze hai these days society is v toxic too
iss video aur left wing ideology se kya len den h@@pradyumansawant554
you are wasting time then why do u even click ?@TheInformation-mk1dt
Imagine joining a dating course and the very first thing it suggests you to buy a mature bag. 😂😂
Bag?
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As a girl, I have had experiences where guys claim to love me and do things above and beyond for me just for s*x, and then when I tell them that's it's too soon and I don't feel comfortable they start to guilt trip me. First thing I would recommend to you men is please get over your fear of committed relationship or opportunity to get in relationship with someone you start developing feelings for, Second thing please make your intentions clear, if you just want physical intimacy tell that directly to the girl, telling lies just in order to get laid is pathetic and if the girl gets to know about this no matter what you do your image will never raise in her head also she will tell bad mouth about you to others.
But what if all he starts talking about marriage maybe he's taking this advice from utube 😂😂 itna commitment after one month is weird too
@@aena5995 maybe he is looking for a partner to marry maybe that is his intention to get into the dating scene if not like he is not in position to marry any time soon and talks about marriage into first month of relationship then you gotta be careful
@@redrighthand3383 yeah I found he's been married and divorced before at only 22/23 👀 is this a red flag he has a little son I just turned 22 too and he's a different race 😬 he's so nice thooo💀💀
@@aena5995did he tell u this himself? If not i think u should try to find out more about him however u can, don't fall into his sweet talk blindly
@@aena5995 take your time to judge them thoroughly, be very sceptic in such situations to ensue you're emotional safety. no need to be cold, just cautious. observe his behavior around other women, specially the ones he is related to (cousins, sisters, etc.). wish you all the best in this journey.
Guys always remember , if a woman rejects you , do not settle for friendship, it's not worth it. Just be confident, express your feelings and if she rejects you, move on.
that's kinda messed up though, you're literally saying the same thing bollywood movies say, that a man and woman can't be just friends even though yes they can be. If she rejects you, just don't force anything and continue your friendship.
@@speedforce8970Wtf dude, you think a guy is a rock or something? It hurts to see someone you're romantically interested in be with someone else. Why should any guy (or girl) willingly put him/herself through that torture?
Also, this is not the same as saying men and women can't be friends. You can be friends with other women. You know, the ones you are not in love with.
You are not owed a friendship just like a guy is not owed a relationship or hookup.
@@HemantKumar-id3jg this really depends on the type of friendship the two had prior to the confession, if you two were really close friends and she rejects you, I don't see why you should let go of a close friendship especially when those kinds of friends are hard to find anyways. Now of course, if you two barely know each other and she rejects you, you're free to move on since you aren't really losing anything in that case.
@@speedforce8970 Again wrong, there is a giagantic reason. You want to be happy. You want to have close friends who's presence comforts you rather than make you bitter and frustrated. People find other romantic partners to commit to, you can easily find a friend. Friendships even close ones fall out all the time, that's life. You know what you do? You make new friends. If you can't find friends, that's on you.
Also, what kind of sadistic person keeps clinging onto a "friendship" when it's eating their "friend" alive? That person especially doesn't deserve a friend who's happiness he/she cares so little about.
This hell is what guys call "the friendzone" where you don't cut off contact with your "friend" either because she guilt trips you or you are still hoping for a change, and are miserable all the time.
Tldr- You are not OWED a friendship. Move on.
@@HemantKumar-id3jg what if their presence still comforts you? I don’t see why you’re so insistent with this since you’re just one human being with a couple hundred anecdotes in a world populated by billions. Not everyone will feel frustrated or bitter if this happens to them, for some, confessing and being rejected might be their way to move on, that doesn’t they’ll stop being friends. I had a friend who had a crush on a girl and he was pretty close to her, he ended up confessing and she rejected him, he moved on and both of them found partners and they’re still close friends. I am sure there’s many more cases like this, you don’t burn an old bridge because you failed in making a new one. Your experiences and my experiences don’t matter, because the world is too big and too populated to be predicted by one person.
Sex education in schools and making them understand what consent is should be the priority.
Is that even the point of video?
And gender equality and making boys and girls to respect each others.All morale education should be covered then world will be utopia.
@@abhijeet4799 yes. Definitely. People will not waste their time and money on such coaches if they are taught the basics .
@@kashmeerar your comment and your reply don't quite match
Women and their pointless ness
Thank you for this. As a single Indian woman this helps me even more to protect myself from the psychos and predators
Don't wish to offend you. But I was just browsing through the comments hoping to find atleast one girl.
So here it goes. Just take it lightly. Very soon there will be no predators left. Guys are simply losing interest in girls. I am myself divorced and all my friends are divorced too. But if you learn about the reason why I got divorced, you will probably be laughing out loud. Sex is glorified and guys fantasize a lot about it. But when I finally got to have it, I was disappointed. I thought, this is it? For this I worked so hard since my school days, through changing one job after another to get a better salary. I just wanted this and I worked really hard for it. But it is simply not worth it. There is nothing great about it. And you can say that I am mean, selfish or whatever you want to call me. But this is the only reason why I divorced my wife. Don't wish to marry ever again.
@@MrVarunAnanddbrother sex is not everything that you wants from a relationship, sex is a very small part in a relationship, there are many things that you're looking for from a relationship, and more importantly a partner a person you trust, a person close to your heart with whom u can share everything in your hearts, a person who will always be there for you in your hard times motivating you by your sides and also be there cheering you up while you achieve you success.. She is more like your best friend and more like someone other than yourself whom you choose to trust the most in this world..
The earth is a cruel place to live in and the girl we love is more of a company than anything else that helps us to survive the heat and raged of this earth... There are many things you need to know bro, sex is a very narrow part in a relationship so don't be late to enjoy all the beauty in a relationship and yeah don't let it fade away as your desire for sex accomplished, think for it before it's too late brother ❤❤...
@@MrVarunAnanddit's your fault bro you must have paid sex before marriage to know it's nothing that's why like bad guys not good guys like us we are stupid,
I am not anymore.
Aur sadi bas sex ke liye nhi bestfriend (as wife) dhudne ke liye Krna chahiye tha bro.
Womens are not a sex object mister in India we treat womens as Devi wich is way more,
But still don't just sexualize lady, they are also for cooking (Just kidding)
@@MrVarunAnanddyea and? you're out of the dating/relationship pool. you're not even an option here.
Sad to see that women are saying men that they are Predators and psychos
Irony is that most of men are searching for girlfriends now a days but when marriage comes they desire for a woman who has no past relationships...
There is hardly any girl with zero past relationship.
Whoever is expecting that will be very disappointed 😂
Then why are you getting into relationship?
I mean it exits on both sides. There are women who will be in casual relationship but when it comes to marriage they will go for men who are stable.
Hypocrites men ☕️
Despite being a male, I completely agree.🙂🙂
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Here are few things that are not mentioned in this video :-
1. Every woman is different and has different likes and dislikes, like any other person... Don't go on changing yourself for that, just so you have something common.
2. Just because you don't have gf you don't automatically become a loser, likewise if you do have one you don't become successful.
3. Having a gf just for sake of having one is a bad idea on par with doing engineering cause everyone else is, try to build relationships like humans were meant to do.
Yah!! Correct!
Dude, we have been saying these same things for a decade now and the problem still persists. Maybe we need to teach guys something else too. Something better.
Firmly written.
1) The issue is going to persist because we're taking our ideas from movies which are highly imaginative.
2) Do girls also act desperate like some of the men to have a boyfriend? Why is it only one gender is running behind?
3) The male:female ratio is highly skewed. Since males are more and give constant attention to females, the females also then have more options and might start thinking in want of higher quality males (as per their standards).
@@pg18099 about second point I think it is because its always guys that are expected to approach and the rise of social media also contributes in inflating the egos of women thinking they have too many options and hence never have to chase any
@@shreyassharma8277 May be yes. And males end up chasing girls.
If you look 40-50 years behind (1-2 generation before) or more, it was the females family asking males mostly, since the culture was as such or may be then the females: males ratio was higher or balanced.
And now it has reversed.
Just an ecosystem's way of doing tit for tat.
Mohak is picking some incredible topics 😂 Great work bhai 😀
Exactly 💯
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From a female perspective, the Indian education system has done similar harm for girls too. Now in my early twenties, I find myself struggling with aspects of physical intimacy and sexuality - I've become so indifferent to both these things.
Also, love the video by the way!
Yes ... people are not comfortable discussing it and consider as taboo
I honestly had no idea all these things are going in india 😂😂😂
I guess this is the rise and era of smartphones
When free Internet comes before free education 😅
they r copyingThe onlineDatingCoaches of usa and using the same lingo, "game", "pick up g.." etc..😂
u r pretty young and born in the modern times where dating is normalized, imagine if u were born before 95 or before 1990, how things would have been for u😅
Jyada tension mat le Bhagwad Gita padh 2 mahine main line pe Aa jayega 😄
Go marry very very soon instead of making bfs to act as cool only to be used n dumped by them n later face rejections in marriage
In India , especially parents should not see relationships as against culture or tradition etc... Thats the reason men become desperate and girls feel boys are cheap,, equal respect and love should be there in relationships..
I studied in Russia🇷🇺 for 2 years, and a major issue many people there face is receiving unsolicited messages from Indian creeps asking about their gender 😅and requesting explicit photos.
As an Indian, It hurts me.🥲
It tarnishes the reputation of our country, as we have a strong cultural value of respecting women. 🥲
I work in an MNC in Mumbai, and now I have many international friends who are closer to me than my Indian friends. Most female friends from my organization expressed the same sentiments about the issue. In fact, they told me they expected me to be the same, but were surprised that I wasn't creepy. Such is the image these dumbasses have formed about Indian men. That's just sad, man, and we don't even know the solution.
You don't even need to go outside, i am sure there isn't one Indian girl with social media that haven't received the same. I was 17 when i got my first smartphone and fb was the rage in those days. There was no pictures or dp in my profile, the only proof of my gender being my name and the avatar. Still the amount of weird and creepy messages. I cried when someone send me a d pic for the first time and at that point i thought the world has fallen to its lowest.😂😂
But the creepy uncles are definitely the worst.
@@iamdbz8302Haryana wale uncles you mean 😅.
@@iamdbz8302me to ladka hu
Lekin mene v ye try kia tha karni ka profile banake
As a boy I can certainly say one thing people around me view girls as another type of prani like they jst dont consider girls as same as us, in fact my gf also told me that people just look them as a object instand of a real person how has their own wishes and desires.
Vahi to problem hai har animal ke species me 2 gender hote hai human species me bhi 2 hai but ek gender dusre gender ko unka apna hissa hai Aisa dekhte hi nhi, as if Female gender is not in Human😅
Because they are not the same
@@Gdkdoiehwbro ab 2 nahi rahe 😭💀
@@Prabhu108.How so? Girls aren't human? Or boy's aren't human?
@@unknown-gq7bm Because girls can only exert 80% of their physical strength as compared to males. Also, they are more emotional which hinders their survival in emergency situations.
I am 20 year old guy, now studying in college. I am facing the exact problem that Mohak said in the video. I am very anxious and afraid towards with interaction with girls. Being lived with abusive strict overprotective parents, makes me extremely shy and introverted, socially reserved and awkward and makes me difficult for socialization and interaction, especially with girls. Also previous bad experience of bullying also makes my confidence low and makes me more socially reserved and awkward for interaction with girls. When I see my fellow friend and guys, having gf and female friends and have strong confidence with interaction with girls, it makes me jealous, frustrated and my mind and heart get broken and having inferiority complex. I haven't experience the essence and warmth of love and relationship of girls. And also, I missed the teenage love, that makes me broken
we are all human, girls and guys are a lot more similar than we think, we are not some different species...i know kehna asaan hai but just try to talk to girls like you would with any guy, dont overthink it, and like mohak said, dont think of girls as some prize you need to win, bs insaan hai baat krni hai...just create a normal friendship (how u would with a boy) and from there if a romantic connection sparks then see where it goes from there. And u know a lot of girls also get awkward around boys 😂due to lack of male-female interaction throughout our life...just chill, and be yourself :)
@@divyaa4459 main prblm is that i have high levels of social anxiety disorder. That hampers me for interaction and socialization with girls
Just listen to mohak.
Talk to them like they are your friend. Don't expect them to be your girlfriend only. Dont think they are some object or prize. See them as your friends too. I bet you will enjoy their company.
Priority your self respect over anything and Don't think about a romantic partner before your goal gets accomplished.
Earn some money and then take the help of a coach.
The new generation has to unlearn the weird expectations of the society. We must not forget that while we are doing great as an economic power, our society also has the most embarrassing and bizarre problems. Honour killing, dowry related harassment, female infanticide, caste based discrimination in marriage, and the list goes on. It will take a while but I think things are definitely changing.
Bohot bohot aabhar batane ke liye
You forgot spitting and urinating at public places.
These things you mentioned are only in a few numbers! Not all boys are like this, most of them are misinformed and might have a background for it
Also include fake r@pe cases,it is most devasting problem in 2023 and will become prime problem in upcoming future
It will never going to change if we walk on "woke" direction. RemeberThat.
Needs to be mentioned: the amount of Disrespect and Abuse Women go through cause of such immature and Desperate Men.
And yet the women Problems are yet widely made fun of, overlooked and QUESTIONED, so as to secure male dyanmics in the society.
Soo true . Just saw a comment where someone pointed this out but a guy blatantly said no and how women are objects . And let's not start with men never accepting their wrong doings .
You're missing the other side of the story. You're only highlighting the female issues which are not undeniable. But men are also not taught to express their emotions to women and so they are ignorant about the art of courtshipping the other gender. Isn't that a huge problem too? Isn't that the main cause of sexual offences in three society too?
There is another problem -
In Indian Society, it is expected that the man starts a conversation first, which is a problem for shy ppl like me
Even otherwise women in India do not feel comfortable having a conversation with men. They sometimes have trouble continuing a conversation too. An Indian society has some bullshit expectations on Gen Z kids and these boomers have to change.
@@slayer_142 Yeah but there are still some differences. For eg., they get laid before 20 and parents don't do arranged marriage BS
Bhai apn ko he convo start krni pdegi ku ke apn hritik roshan tho h nhi
Meh bhi shi looser hu par accept krta hu as a men start hame he krna padega
This is a very overlooked problem in our society. Thanks for bringing this awareness!
This was a great video.
Thanks for starting a conversation around Dating and picking the topic up.
There is no shame in trying to learn about dating, sex, and other things as there is no shame in learning about fitness, finance, health, etc.
For the Soch by Mohak Mangal team, this was a great initiative by you guys. Keep it up.
Bolne de 😂 Taqleef Huyi hai Bechare ko 😢
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Yeh chahe kuch bhi bole.... Kshitij bhai., we always support you because your videos always helped us... ❤❤🙏🏻
@@shaypatrick7497 tujhse Bhi Bandi nhi patt rahi kya bro? 😂
@@gamerboislasher8122 pehle nhi patt rahi thi.... Par ab patt gayi , 1year ho gaya...😇✌🏻✌🏻 Confidence & courage actually matters... 👍🏻🤞🏻
Let me be very frank. I am a 22 year old guy but sometimes i do struggle to keep up conversations with a new girl that i met recently. What I think is, people should change their thinking, both are equal and both the genders are humans, that is it. As a man for me, I love to build long-term relations whoever it is (A friend, colleague, family, a girl).
Yeahh they think negatively
@@slayer_142 It's high time you start talking to women. They are smart and we need to understand them
@@slayer_142 modiji se bolke tere liye special puruskar banaya jayega
Dono humans hai . Baat kro n Karo, koi difference hai ? Haan , zindagi kaise jiyega practically half population avoid karega to . Sabzi nahi kharid payega
Phele toh tum log yeh equality ka bewakoofi band karo. Men and women are NOT equal. They are the exact opposites. Don't be so delusional. Have some sense. That's why you have to learn to talk, treat and court a woman. Right is a completely different issue.
Don't seek relationship based on body and physique , seek such relationships which gives you freedom.
Correct
Date a murderer then. They will give you freedom which will last for a long long time.😂
Haha.. Relationship and freedom don't go hand in hand
But you can't ignore that it helps in getting attraction. Relationship based solely on that will definitely get bad one day.
@@MoinKhan-uf4pg A genuine smile is many a times more beautiful than make up.
Truth is we still do not have a dating culture in India. That leads to a lot frustration inside and that results in a lot of em send DMs to random women on social media coz they do not even know how to approach a woman in real.
@@slayer_142😢pyar karne ke liye
How to to girls easy ways:-
1. Don't see them as a object and treat them equally.
2. Have confidence in yourself.
3. Talk normally like when you are talking with your male friends and share your genuine thoughts.
4. Stop watching these fake dating coaches.
Thankyou for reading and Thankyou Mohak bro you are literally picking some genuine yet unique topics.
Have a good day 😊
I agreed in your all point except 1.
Talking normally puts you in the friendzone.
Girls need flirting to create attraction.
@@pran10000 start with talking normally, and once you are both a little more comfortable with each other you can shift towards flirting and making a romantic connection.
@@pran10000 that's where you ara wrong. As a girl I won't date a guy who directly starts flirting. I mean we don't even know you how can someone flirt with an unknown.
@@badalmurmu9100 tu single hi marega phir
The modern new dating methods of tinder, bumble and these courses are ruining maximum young people (obvi exceptions are there) and driving them into depression and low confidence . ... Be classy, confident, work on your personality, develop soft skills, don't be cheap and respect girls - for sure you will be never be single.
Another dating guru detected 😄
Ladki ne toh bhav Dena chahiye
Oh trust me buddy it's here to stay until unless govt takes drastic action against these apps that ruining society
@@The_WarriorsWay what's dating guru in that? he didn't provide any shortcuts .. he just called out what is simple and obvious.
Step 1: be attractive
Japan and Korea like countries even have a Girlfriend/boyfriend on rent concept or professor cuddlers...its not to have sex but to have relationship experience, feedback and emotional support! This problem is more in the boys who don't have sisters or good relationship with their siblings. Coed education is also very important for overall personality development and treat every gender with respect
That's not gonna do anything
Exactly!! I've seen most guys Ik (including my own brother) say they would like to "cuddle" honestly s*x should be the last thing on their mind if they're planning on a long term relationship. Can completely understand the cuddling part tho. That's a part of inner child healing
@@abhijeet4799yeah they don't understand that. I studied in co-ed and hated it because even though I wasn't interested in girls or didn't approach them I had a problem with them because they would sometimes treat you like shit and if you be friendly with them they would mock, make fun, not all were like that some girls did became good classmate friends with me , but most of were too much egoistic and pieces of shit.
So I wanted to go to all boys school but didn't had chance because of shifting problem.
@@abhijeet4799my brother who studied in all boys school later went on to have good aqauitance with girls who were his classmate friends.
But I rather have problems with some girls (not all ) especially those who are too much talkative and carry too much pride in their minds.
This is because they were the ones who would hurl insults in my school years.
This why I don't think co-ed idea will work with all.
As much I hate to say it, it'd work really well as long as there's no way they'd not do any advances
"Kai ladke to yah man hi Nahin Sakte ki ladkiyon ka bhi opinion Hota Hai" Is bizarre and quite upsetting
Kya opinion hota hai jara mujhe bhi batao
@@akashchowdhury8922having your own opinions
@@unknown-gq7bm what having your own opinion
@@akashchowdhury8922english samajh nhi ati? Every human have their own thoughts, opinions, desires, views. Just bcq u like something doesn't mean i have to like it too, that's what he is talking about.
I am a girl and I can more less confirm that the guys that usually approach you such weird ways usually think of you as a prize , or thing they need to win. I have been approached by many such men, and I try to the best of ability to tell them what they're doing wrong and how it's not their fault and how they need to see the girl as a "person" rather something to achieve or win. You know what, just talk to them like how you would approach other guys. If you're from a village try to think of them as if you were approaching a "city guy", and ofcourse know your boundaries. I know lots of guys who are great at just doing that and are always surrounded by girls. Girls also love guys who are chill to talk to, don't be afraid and the most important thing is respect.
Yeah but what about Indian poverty?
@@anuragchakraborty8766 I'm sorry what do you mean? If you mean that what should guys below poverty do, even then my advice would be same, it's not taught in our culture so we need to learn how to interact, both men and women.
@@shrutimeshram2560 I don't give a damn about interaction.
All I'm wondering is why the Indian youth of today, people like you guys are so fixated on silly things like dating & relationships when you should be far more focused on actual issues like the state of Indian poverty.
For example, are you aware that 1 Billion Indians are currently living in poverty?
@@anuragchakraborty8766 look people are free to discuss whatever the topics they want. If you're so worried about poverty go help the poor, get a job, don't read comments here. And according to the current data about 250 million people are living below poverty, that does not mean we're doing any well or good. We need to improve and the road to that big change is education, acceptance, change, and awareness about snall and sensitive topics like this. Small steps like this contribute to the big change you're talking about. As far as dating is concerned, it's a basic human need and if you're not capable to understand something as basic as that, then well, all the best.
@@anuragchakraborty8766bro💀😂, You're saying 2/3rd of the pop. is below poverty line? check the data properly, although you're somewhat correct that we need to focus on on other aspects but that point is like what idiots say about India, don't fund isro deal with poverty first, a very idiotic approach to such things
We must deal with everything together
And afterall we're human beings, socializing and having partner/family is how we've come this far..
Also People have their own interests so stop taking the burden of all the poverty on your shoulders until the bare thought kills you from inside...👍🏿 Peace
True love is not found, It is built. - Gautam Buddha❤ ❤️
Dhubba?
@@Wecangetit562😂😂
Bro this single quotation sums up all the actual problem with indian mentality. We indians our whole life believe that we will "find" our love,we will "find " the one,we will "find" our soulmate.and thats why most of the indians are left single throughout their teenhood and adulthood.but we have to understand that love is 'build'.we have to go out and talk to people we like.we have to work on ourselves.we have to make efforts to get love in our life.very well said by Gautam Buddh
@@ssr_thanos781 yes these generation people are not understanding this way to think .. they all find love. ❤️
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ज्यादातर कॉलेज के स्टूडेंट्स की कोई पॉकेट मनी नही होती ,जिससे बॉयज खुद ही गर्ल्स के बारे में सोचते नहीं है, क्योंकि मोस्टली बॉयज को पता है बिना मनी के गर्लफ्रेंड ज्यादा दिन नहीं टिकेगी ,और गर्ल फ्रेंड बनाने से ज्यादा करियर पर फोकस करना पड़ता है।
As a girl i feel finding god would be easier than finding a simple decent guy
Don't judge me but in reality most girls choose a f***boy over a simple decent guy...
Not mentioning to every girls but most of them..!
Check your friend zone 😂
Friendzone the good guy and complain about the lack of decent guys
There are plenty you just need an eye....
only if girls were smart enough to not fall for playboys it wouldn't be an issue.
@@saulgoodman5663 Friendzone is just rejection but polite. There is no obligation for women to date someone who asks her out. We need to teach Indian men stoicism.
This is an issue that needs to be talked about, so kudos for that. But it wish it was more balanced in terms of gender. Finding a partner is not specific to boys. I wish the video had been "How to find a partner in India" and covered female experience as well.
When Mohak talked about how ghosting means boys don't het feedback on their dating behaviors, I wish he made it clear that it is not the girls' responsibility to educate them. While I don't condone ghosting itself, there are a myriad of reasons why girls prefer to just not respond. The list is not exhaustive, but here are few reasons.
1. Safety - Not just in the dating environment, but knowledge of their presence in a dating environment can be extremely unsafe for girls.
2. Girls are also brought up in the same environment as boys were just as (if not more) discouraged from talking to the opposite gender. Also, lot of girls get blamed for themselves being subjected to unwanted attention. Girls don't either know how to talk to boys, let alone enough to educate them.
3. Rejection leading to escalation - More often than not, rejection is not taken well. The situation might escalate to them being worried for their safety. Like I said, even knowledge of them dating can be dangerous to girls as they face mistreatment from their own families or their complaints not being taken seriously (or even taken advantage of) by authorities. I hope these coaching institutes are teaching boys how to handle rejection and that it is OK for their feelings to not be reciprocated.
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Bilkul sahi pakde hai
Yeah he should present girls side as well in his research. He mostly spoke about perspective and behaviour of guy
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"Unable to accept that the woman can have an opinion of her own" got me cracked up XD
I had no idea that such a thing or concept even exists. Thanks to you and your team, for bringing up and discussing this topic with utmost empathy and dignity. Great job!
you're not alone
The problem can be only solved in schools, since childhood there it must be normal to interact with opposite genders..my school use to have pathetic rules of not talking to girls, if we do then we would be in principal's office.
Ase bhi school hote kya ach pata chala😂😂
yea lmao same till 9th grade, girls and boys barely talked but later in high school from 9th grade we become freinds because akal aajati hai
Exactly!
Mohak be giving answers to questions I never knew I wanted but really needed😭✨
mohak just promoted those coaches😅😅
Maybe I can give girls POV why the girls choose not to mess with guys.
1. Threat of blackmailing after breakup-Many boys threats women to release their romantic photographs or videos after breakup and some boys actually released these things on internet. The girl is considered to be the absolute fool in these cases and no-one blame boys for these type of behaviour.
2. Start taking granted- Many boys starts taking her gf granted after sometime of their relationships.They start finding the girl irritating.
3.Chasing popular girls- Boys generally chase most desirable and popular girls in society and ignore the average girls.It's hard to see a guy is in relationship with lesser good looking girl.
4.Girls take on the career - Since this is the first generation of girls in India are getting opportunities to build career so they don't want to loose this opportunity.They have seen their mother's life being a housewife is disrespectful .Hence Girls don't want to take risks and end up having a horrible life . Because in many cases Indian parents immediately marry their daughter after they find out the girl has a boyfriend.
5.Societal pressure-Many Girls doesn't want to try more than 1-2 men since the society start label those girls as slut and chances of getting good respectable guy decreases for those girls.
6. Commitment Issues - Boys avoid marriage commitment . So the girls ended up feeling used and cheated. Especially if she had a physical relationships with the boy. Because the virgin girl are still a absolute demand in Indian society.
7. High Expectations of girls from relationship-The expectation of immature girls treated as a princess in a relationship is also one of the reason why they ghost boys.
8. Blame Game- Boys are good at blaming the girls at the end of their relationship and completely ignore their mistakes.
9.India's problem- Intercaste, Interstate, Interreligion and many more boundaries in Indian society where girls observe no hope of marriage .So they don't even start romantic angles even though the boy is perfect for her.
Disclaimer-I don't have any data like mohak to prove my points .I am writing these points on the basis of my observation. Maybe these points can help to understands girls mentality.I have no intention to hurt or offend anyone.
I can relate with your 3rd and 6th point 😅
You should a economist 😅
I can relate with this ,in my friend circle 3 girls are in relationship but their boyfriend cheated on them and blackmailed them
All valid points.
Thank you for bringing out so many perspectives! Can I talk to you if you permit?
1st point happened to me . The guy I dated for barely 8 months tried to force me into telling my parents about us, tried to control me , would get jealous about petty things and yes the blame game if a guy looked at me it was my fault. So when I broke up with him , he tried to blackmail me. But we didn't do much so he couldn't do anything. I consider myself lucky and have been single since then.
The age When you realised Paisa hain To Badi Badi Badi Baate, Paisa hain to lambi lambi saari raaten, Paisa hain to 5 star sari mulakaten...😂😂
Kya matlb iss baat m
@@abikrsen3205 pogo dekho jake bache
Very mature content sir ❤ I really am thankful for you to point out stuff no one is talking about, but it is important
UNEMPLOYMENT HAS REACHED IN SUCH A LEVEL THAT THESE ARE COMING OUTSIDE🤣🤣😂😂
Probably
true comment section is prooof
*The problem is that nobody wants to address the elephant in the room which is that dating is easier for women than men cuz men have to take the first initiative,jump through the hoops the woman throws at them and qualify themselves to her only for the average woman to requite that effort with just her attention,this dynamic automatically puts the woman on the pedestal,because of which a lot of women have inflated egos which makes them think less of the opposite gender due to endless attention showered upon them by men.There is no equality in dating,men have to be charming and ambitious to get attention women just have to breathe*
yes
Thank you for addressing this. It is partly men's fault though too that we let this happen. Both men and women need to be a bit more understanding to each other.
just to the point
A sensible comment ❤
On point..
Arre normally baat karo ladkio se...koi bhoot thodi hain😂
Tu nhi janta kuch hoti hai
Normally baat kroge to friendzone ho jaoge.
ek ladki mujh roj dekhti thi. mene dost ki baat me aakar.. I love you bol Diya mummy ko bula lai mere Ghar pe. tab se. daar lagta h. bhai. 😢
@@wise586dgbhot bura hua bhai tere sath 😂
Normally baat karoge to Rakhi band deti...😅
So glad you talked about this!!
The self proclaimed “pick up artists” like Andrew Tate are really ruining a whole generation of men
Great vid as always Mohak ❤️
Edit : I don’t know why so many incels in the comment section got defensive because I mentioned Andrew Tate, he might or might not be a pick up artist, but he’s def influential among young boys and having a negative effect on their psyche. To top it off, he’s also a sex trafficker 👍🤡
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Andrew tate is not even a pick up artist. There are so many bad things about him like sex trafficking and stuff but I don't know why people just invent new stuff to get mad. Like he literally shames pickup artist because he thinks they are cringe
😂 what video you saw of him where he self proclaimed that he is a pick up artist?
He is not pickup artist. But those kind of pickup and are there because it works onSuch girls. Thats why these pickupArtists get trends.
internet has made the world really small
Andrew tate is not teaching Pickup lines or Tell young man’s to paint their nails or dress like a hippy he’s teaching how a man should live
As a person who somewhat has experience in teaching. I would like to add its a both way issue. Its not only boys don't know how to talk to girls but also many girls dont know how to talk to boys and interact.
Sadly its the truth of society , i hope to see it change one day.
Steps to get a girlfriend:-
Step 1: Be attractive.
Step 2: Have money.
Step 3: Don't forget the first two steps.
Step 1 can be skipped, step 1 has been skipped
@@ydid687 nope, step 1 is most important.
Step 1 not important really 😂 remember lalit modi dated miss universe
@@vinaybagde9683 they both are old now so probably don't have standards now 💀
@@clashingemperors8280 There are many examples bro of not good looking rich guys dating very attractive girls. Anyway I'm gonna concentrate on money only. Money is most beautiful thing in the world.
Men really really really need dating / relationship advice in India!
They need this for their gf and / or wife!!
Women who tell men what went wrong just creates a ego issue. I would respect a guy who is open to learning to get better at something...be it relationship skills or money!
But the question is, will you be open to relationship ideas too or stay with your preexisting ideals of relationship?
@@thenoobinvestor6930
O..100% open to change for me personally.
Infact I think along with sex education, we need to start teaching relationship skills also at school level... all relationships for all genders - with parents, family, friends, romantic ones ofcourse.. even professional ones. It's part of emotional intelligence; but it's really the key to happy life..
I have personally been wondering if there is some guidance for how to have a better relationship with my mother as an adult women
Playboys are more successful in dating and relationship.
Why??? U know very well
Similarly,, like playboys,,if any decent guy start see women as sexual object ,,then they won't have any fear of rejection.
@@NFS691
Why are men afraid of rejection?
@@axelashu bcuz if i really love u & wish u to be my partner;;then my dream might be shattered if u reject. So fear of rejection.😭
But like a Playboy,if I see u as sex object & want to fool & use u in the name of love;;i definitely wouldn't have any fear of rejection. I will try to apply it on other girls.
Very Glad&Blessed tht my Cbse School ; 🏫 was not only make us to Sit with opposite gender’s but also told to hold hands while walking in a line . We’re told to call them actually as partner and not as Benchmate and now being 20 ; i haven’t faced any issue with being or finding a girl . Thanks to my School ❤Kkps (Kids Kingdom Public School)
Unfortunately I was also like those lonely depressed guys wanting female attention and relationship. But I didn't resort to any dating coach. I tried everything myself started chatting interacting and talking to girls on my own. I know it's very tough to start but when you do talk with first girl interacting further becomes easier. Just after you get over your fear and nervousness you gain confidence. I feel everyone should study and understand male female dynamic before entering any relationship and also identify the reason you are getting into the relationship and the terms first.
I can really feel what you mean man. That first interaction is everything. After that it only gets easier
Yes exactly, that's the way
What exactly is this male-female dynamic tho?
@@sachins5784 Well, it is the general understanding of how to behave with them. There is a difference between how you engage into conversation with a woman and a man respectively. You can't treat a woman same way you treat a man. We are supposed to have some unspoken boundaries. Women are more mature, observant, sensitive and more open towards some thing than men. But men have different view, they are more suppressive of their emotions they are not generally very open to crying like women. It's also about mannerism how you touch them how you interact with them. I can't explain all of it in here. Soe thing you have to figure out on your own. In a nutshell, you are a man so you naturally know what a man does what he does, their motivations and objectives. Since we don't get female perspective, we need to first treat them as a person further humanising them so that they become open to tell you what they feel and believe in. This thing gives us understanding of how women think and how we think and how one should engage with one another is the male and female dynamic your relationship and roles with one another.
@@vedantkhade6240 Thank you for explaining!
Keep doing what you doing man your topics are so unique and also very important for the society. ❤🔥
नारी की देह को जीतने से ज्यादा मुश्किल है उनकी रूह को जीतना और आज का पुरुष रूह जीतना ही नहीं चाहता उसे सिर्फ शरीर चाहिए
When I was 15 or 16, I desperately wanted a girlfriend because I thought it was cool. How dumb I was! But today, at the age of 21, I'm thankful that I don't have a girlfriend. At that age, you're going to face tough times, and the wrong girl can ruin everything. Find a good, mature friend who can help you build your career. Don't trust anyone other than your parents, not even your best friends, brothers, or sisters who may share their secrets. Life is precious, so enjoy it and don't let a single person ruin it.
Yeah, I had a gFin 11th. And at first it was fine. I even skipped whole 11 mostly. Then there are kind of cageness. I was not able to attendSportsPractice also. It was ended almost at the end of12th. NormalExperience. I would say it skips otherThings of yourLife. MarriageIsMuchBetter time.
@@Shiva-zj6od We learn the value of time when we don't have it. I always regret that I didn't utilize my teenage years, and I really don't want anyone to end up like me.
@@Arcanesupreme yeah. I say u can live better just with urCloseFriends and your work. People should wait forMarriage.
Bro i capture screenshot of ur comment and saved it❤❤
Very nyc advice
Ur really my brother❤❤
@@mukuljain9591 I hope this will help you, brother. My father always tried to guide me on the right path, but I never listened to him. Now, I always ask my parents before making any decision.
8:52 ladka be like : mai to bach gaya😪
Agree with you that men need to be taught how to interact and be friendly with girls. However, some daring coaches go too far
Omg bro it felt like someone is talking for me. Or anyone I grew up around. The interaction between opposite sex in my school like basically any other school around was so denormalised, romanticised, sexualised, and turned into a taboo that even after five years of opportunity at college for free interaction, and one and a half years of a relationship, I still feel a hitch while talking to a girl. If any parents and future parents and especially teachers are reading this by any chance. Maybe do not do this to your next generation. It will turn them into abnormal people for years to come. It will make them feel confused, inferior, and in most cases hate and despise women, and almost always will lead to sureshot perversion or confusion if he is a pervert.
It will add a layer of painful consciousness and artifice each time they try to interact with a girl.
Yes this comes from deeply personal experience and conversations I have had with people from all parts of India who had similar conditions _and_ dissimilar conditions to me (I envy how normal it is for them. And I think a normal life is what everyone deserves).
2:04 Iss paise mein ladki patana nahi pata lekin full stack development padlunga.😂
Actually chasing relationship is a foolish thing
Focus on self improvement and start loving urself and when u are not searching for any relationship the right person will enter ur life
This is a fact
Par yeh krneh seh hmari problem solve nhi hogi. Ham hmari ladkiyo seh physical or loving needs ke despiration ko neglect nhi kr sakte na kr pa rahe h
And I am taking courses in Coursra 😂. Thanks Mohak for letting me know about these amazing courses 😂
Fr i am gonna buy one to see what's going on in the video call sessions😂😂
@@L_Lawliet96bro mujhe bhi batana
@@harniksinghfanofdeepsidhu400i am very elder then u guys , plus i am earning .. I don’t need anyone financially or emotionally
But if a boyfriends give comfort and respect even I appreciate it ..
Girls love comforts, anything that gives confort they love it…
If she walk too much, give her ride
If bag is havey hold it for her
If she is standing in hot sun offer shade, if he forgets umbrella give her
If she hut herself bandage
She won’t forget ur genuine act of kindness forever
And also if she end up make u friend “friend zone” maximum u can ask about reasons
Can’t force her and yes tell her that ur genuine kindness will be offered to ur future gf or wife
Since she is refusing to be one she can’t except you to stay with her all the time and step back
If she will realize she lost you she will choose you
Otherwise let her go
@@harniksinghfanofdeepsidhu400 for sure bhai
@@L_Lawliet96 liya ki nahi 15 ghante hogaye 🤣
Bhai ne hamari problems to batadi
Lekin solution nahi bataya 😂😂😂
Voh he tho
Be your own Coach...Evolve like a real man1️⃣
Now India wants to know how to be single & happy😊
Mohak really made sure this time his video doesn't get demonetized 😂
As a girl ...i m terrified of these courses...wtf is this😂
Why boys are taught how to handle a girl?
They should just behave normally...we are humans too just like you😂not different species
Maybe they're preparing to go to Mars and date with marsians
Make a male dating profile with average looks then you might fuc**** get to know
Sir...I really appreciate your point of view on Indian social issues.
This desparate guys are the main reason for girl insecurities in India.... Control brother Control .. be a man of principle 🙏
As always brother choose such topics that gonna impact the society in long term. Respect
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How is your comment pinned 6 hours ago ??? When this video has been uploaded just 17 minutes ago. Is it a glitch or something 🤔😅
@@CK-cj4cv yup man how's this happening?
@@CK-cj4cvit's a pre scheduled video
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Interesting work mohak
8:42 This is hilarious 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
😅😅
I’m Indian guy living in the USA now. confidence and resilience is exactly what we need. This is what which helped me to get laid and have a marriage.
Honestly I would rather have boys spend money to get a dating coach rather than get a AI girlfriend. Here in the USA AI girlfriends are a real thing and it’s getting pretty dystopian.
I don't have the confidence or time to get a real girlfriend I might get an AI gf thanks for your suggestion it's going to be fun
The concept of "AI Girlfriend" is relatively new in the US. Otherwise when it comes to dating and having a relationship, Americans are chill and they are way better than us Indians.
PUAs are necessary dude a lot of people paint them in bad picture
@@ShivinUnitholi how are they better and if someone does not wish to be into these then they dont wish to be into these things its ok i get that reproduction is important but still whatever
@@Phych0path bro I strongly advise not going down that path. Once you convince yourself AI robot can be your replacing emotional needs , there’s no going back and you’ll lose sense of reality.
Thanks for raising this sensitive issue bro ,keep it up !!
I’ve tried many of these courses, but they don’t work in India.
Here, women are way too conservative to risk anything to do with a stranger.
To get few of outgoing girls here, you either need to be celebrity or be loaded with money.
That is why you will see normal women mostly hanging with below average guys from their childhood.
They are even willing to stick with abusive partners than taking any chance.
Basically, they lack guts to take bold decisions in their life and stand responsible for them.
Being conservative isn't necessarily a bad thing though. I mean atleast indian women aren't ending up with teen pregnancies and regrets with hook up culture. Also you don't need to be celebrity or with money to get a girl. Like seriously what type of girls are you even attracting with doing such things? Won't you attract the most superficial girls. Just because they don't choose men who use pick up lines doesn't mean that they aren't bold and will instead be with men who will abuse them. Many of them are perfectly rational and make rational decisions and don't like men who think of them as some trophy or game. You think men like you who take courses suddenly become immune to abusive behavior?
@@Disnotz There are pros and cons in both cultures. Main reason behind conservatism in India is caste system. Women are “properties” of a particular caste group.
@@daredevil30000 how tf did you insert caste into gender dynamics lol. Also I literally said being conservative isn't necessarily a bad thing which doesn't mean aspects of it can't be bad
these same men will want wife to be pure.....
@@sakshi5946 Women are usually more picky than men.
At 13 year: no boyfriend
(At marriage time 🤣🤣)
At 30 year: koi ladka hai to bataa de
Didn't quite get it
@@abhijeet4799guess he wanted to say during teen years girls are told not to have /make a boyfriend
Yet when she is in her late 20s (marriage expectations) ..she is asked if she is seeing someone.
You are changing the way we think bro! Hats off!!
5:14 such type of work is an criminal offence not something which we sympathies about 😕😕
Thing is how did he get girls numbers
I am 30 plus.. Teacher.. History..civics
मेरे जीवन का सबसे अच्छा निर्णय था
शादी न करना
और मैं तो बिल्कुल भी गर्लफ्रेंड नहीं चाहता
🐐
@@reipragay hai lagta hai
Success ke piche mat bhago knowledge ke piche bhago , success jhak marke tumhare piche aayegi 😂
Similarly ladki ke piche mat bhago ...
main toh koi gf bhi chahata just ek girl chata hoon jo mere emotion ko samjhe aisi friend jo mujhe emotional time main
aaj girl confident ho rahi hai aur ladke kamjor thats fact
Us movement 😂
as a girl and im in long distance relationships ..we meet on a online class 😂😂not on any dating or social media app we both are preparing for same exam ..i can say we are perfect for each other ......please guys believe on destiny you will sure get some one who love you purely 💞💓
This is like illusion 👁️👁️, mai bhi us trah ke app use karta hu , but koi bhi nhi milni wali I know 🙂.
They are just too focused on study 14 hrs 🤓 -16 hrs study.
Aamir ya super handsome hoga
bhen tum log kyun nhi smjh ye destiny vestiny sirf ldikyon ki hoti hai kyunki guys will keep throwing themselves at women even when she isn't trying to attract someone she can hence wait for the right one to come along but girls aren't like guys . Ldki ki tara ldka destiny mei believe krke wait krne lga for the right one to bechare akela hi meraga. it doesn't happen 'naturally' for us but for you it does because relationship mei ane ki liye 80% effort ldke ka lgta hai (maintain krne mei ldki ke equal ya zyada hoskta hai). i know you mean well but please samjha karo I've been following this same advice from my female friends aur mere lge pde hain. Don't get mad or offfended at this comment I'm just trying to make you see our perspective. Best of luck for your exam and relationship.👍
@@manavsingh6145 hmm understood ...agar apke mind me ye hoga ki bas girlfriend chahiye isliye app ladki se baat kr rhe h tab kbhi bhi ek pure bond nhi baan sakta hai....ladkiyon ko bhut sari chizo ka dhayan rakhna hota h relationship me ane se pehle....thoda time de samne wale ko app.
@@shanvisingh2440 i think you are talking about choices bahut sarii Jo hoti h ab comparison v toh karna hota h who is more handsome rich or humourous tym toh Lage ga hee 😂 kiu sahi kaha na...(relationship mein ane see pahle Sara test ladko ka he hota jo hai 💀)
Basically the solution of most of the problem in this world is money...
1.if you are unattractive then money can make you attractive.
2.if you don't have enough body physique then by going gym and taking enough good quality food supplements you can get a good physique.
And if you have this 2 things then there is no way that a girl will not fall in love with you...
And also manners are important so moral of the story is that first focus on your career and built a empire which can earn you better income
Some boys are really mad behind girls😂😂😂. Why can't the just wait till their marriage 😒.Girls are not objects to play with 😡
Boomer comment
@trivedi14 yes I am
@trivedi14to eaches own
And Boys are also not wallet to pay for everything !
Cuz I don't wanna marry some random girl.
Not iron man lifestyle hurted in this video 1:35
No iron man lifestyle is harmed in this video 😂😂😂😂
😂😂
REALLY LMAO ON HOW YOU SAID CONFIDENCE😂😂😂 AND THAT PATRICK BATEMAN EDIT
SUPERB!!!!
This video is literally the culmination of all my teenage inner conflicts.
Thanks for talking on thsi topic.
I am also from KV school..where girls and boys baat karna means pura town mein Rumours extra level pahunch jati thi..aur Teachers toh pura students ka alag impression se dekhte they..😢😢
In our convent school in mp
Teacher say boys to sit with girls as punishment in small classes😂
In big classes girls and boys can talk and seat togther in classroom
Dear Boys,
Just focus on your career, earning money as much as you can and invest yourself. Let's your wife earn and take financial responsible 50-50 basis. If she is not doing her responsibilities quit relationships, quit marriage.
If you take full responsibility at the end of the life you will left with money but your wife will be left with assets that you cannot imagine.
Best advice
And strong independent girl won’t let you take her responsibility ..
Finally, I found someone who knows what's actually important in our life !
@@JasKaur-vq7lq every girl is different please don't generalise
@@Varun-yl8rj when do I generalise Bois .
You and me are two different people
The depth as well as breadth of your channel's library makes it one of the best pages of the Indian internet.
This Happens when a Culture which is disabled already in terms of Concepts like Dating, try it's hand on it. We are inherently built for arranged marriages because of Caste system. But modern era induces modern issues such as late financial and Professional settlement, more income, late marriages, and individualism creating an expectation-reality Gap.
To find companionship in this condition is making people start to look towards dating where there would be inherent conflict between orthodoxial culturally raised Indians vs modern ideas which are incompatible with Indians in general.
Indians are built for outsourcing this responsibility to their parents. One of reasons why westerners foster sense of disgust towards Indians because they despite being in abroad still would practice arranged marriages which westerners see as an act of disability. Simple since Caste will always be standing infront of your end result, dating will never gain as a parallel to arranged companionship.
Some of people in western practice arranged marriage too like catholic and muslim communities.They save themselves for marriage.Point out from indian perspective is a waste of time.There are many more countries which are 10x stricter than indian which you can understand by visiting middle eastern countries.India is like big rural country where there are people follow traditions based on taboos and divinity.
If u think wokeCulture is better then u r so wrong. Especially if we tryToCopyThem it will be disastrous.
This dating coach culture came from same western countries. Is it mean that despite being so modern and developed country some of their youth ain't able to date ?
This thing is a western concept these coaches are from those countries
@@self-improvement2166 Correct. It's not just India but Asians including Muslims have also arranged companionship concept. Point is towards why and how dating will create outburst of Confusion in our society.
When i saw the movie "Hitch", i thought the whole idea was ridiculous, but it is a serious business. Because of our culture and social taboo boys don't understand girls and when they touch adolescence it becomes an enigma. in a very niche society boys and girls interact freely, everywhere else the problem persists
I was rejected on date as I was " SO FORMAL AS HUSBAND" 😭 this generation is really f*cked up
Give more details
oop you do you sir. You'll probably find someone that appreciates that about you :)
Find other girls.
That's their preference then what's so fucked up about it
@@gayak814 wah mahagyani!
I think that guy called single people "losers" because, we are conditioned to have a boyfriend/girlfriend in our society.
Where are you from ?
We are conditioned *to not have* a girlfriend or boyfriend in our society
@@prabha6886 only girls aren't conditioned to have boyfriend else they r considered as 'impure'. While boys are conditioned to hve girlfriend else they r considered as 'less masculine'. This is the reality of our society 💔💔
🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️. rip those who bought the course and 1 minute silence for those who really thought Mohak is really gonna reveal the cheat code😂😂
Yeah😂
Excellent video can totally relate with video when I was in school parents, teacher never allowed to talk to girls or befriend them. Teachers tried their best to make kids understand why someone talking to girls or sitting with them is spoilt and extremely wrong. I grew up in extremely small city so had no female friends or interaction in complete school life.
Now I face the same problem in college that I have zero female interaction or female friends because I have no idea how to talk to girls confidently plus the girls too are pretty less as IIIT Delhi has 1:10 gender ratio.
These days even in arrange marriage the demands and competition has risen up exponentially. So anyway I have accepted my fate that I will die single as I am just an average engineer with nothing special in terms of looks or skills plus I am too uncool for genz kids due to my simple middle class lifestyle so I don't care about it anymore tbh 😶😅