Taemin's Heartbreaking Message To Jonghyun’s Future, Jonghyun was afraid to be himself,
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- Опубліковано 9 вер 2024
- Jonghyun was afraid to be himself, Heartbreaking Video Message From Taemin To Jonghyun’s Future
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Taemin was right... He definitely is in a better place now and he will be happy. Rest in peace JongHyun.
Amen.
@Travis Ponce He's still not free, He killed himself and because of it he's practically suffering eternal death til now and that makes me cry nonstop
Lee Felix I get what you’re saying, but I believe he is free because he doesn’t have to care about other people’s opinions. He doesn’t have to worry about anything. I know in some religions(including mine) it says that if you commit suicide then you go to hell, but God knows what he has been through and understands it. God loves everything and everyone and I don’t think God is that harsh to put him in hell. If you weren’t talking about hell then just ignore what I said before, but now Jonghyun is free from opinions and people judging him. That is what he truly wanted.
Sky Livid So if that's what always happen should I kill someone and say, "God understands it, God is not harsh God loves me" when I didn't even followed his command? Even if you deny it, It's still wrong.
Lee Felix I do agree with you that it is wrong and that you shouldn’t do it. I also agree with you when you technically said that you shouldn’t use ‘God loves me’ as an excuse. However, God understands our pain and all we have been through. Now I can’t really say if God accepted Jonghyun or not, but even if God didn’t accept him, Jonghyun will still be free from opinions. Maybe he’s not free from hell fire, but he’s free from the thing he hated the most. He wanted to be himself and if he couldn’t wait any longer, that is his choice. It was his decision in the first place. He probably knew what was at stake. He probably knew the pros and cons and that the cons might outweigh the pros. It’s not like he didn’t think of anyone else in his life and how his death might affect them. He knew and that’s his choice. It’s God’s choice to let him into hell or heaven. What I said in my earlier comment is what I want to happen. It may not be true. However, I still think Jonghyun is happier now.
I see those people, after he passed away they still talk trash. Those people are a disease. I wish I was there to help you ease your pain Jonghyun. I know it's already too late. We your fans, your beloved Shawols would've never judged you. We never did actually. I still cry whenever I see you. I miss you. Forgive us for being too late.... we love you
x blossom who are those people?
Syafiqah Ismail antis
x blossom what is meant by antis
Syafiqah Ismail the anti fans, korean netizens *(not all of them)* but after he passed away they still kept making ridiculous comments..
x blossom they are even blame jinki for what happen to jonghyun...i'm so mad😡
I don't want him to suffer anymore, he has depression too so i'm worried
i want so bad to hug jonghyun and comfort him...this is so painful to watch...so hard to watch him cry...
Kayume 紫梦 I know but if he ever get sad I can always hug him spiritually. 😭😭😭😭
I feel weak without him but I can talk to him in a spirt way
Kayume 紫梦 me too I wish I could hug him and say I'm always there for u😭😭
Kayume 紫梦 I 100% agree as he spoke and I watched him through my phone screen bought tears to my eyes and sorrow to my heart. He could of been saved and helped only if people would surround him with love and positivity as sometimes that is the best medicine to help those in doubt or in trouble. I pray people will learn not to judge with their eyes but with their heart . I will always love him no matter what or who he is because I choose to see with my heart. God bless and may he rest with the up angels above.
Me too. I've always wanted to be an idol too. Very stubborn & it would have been a LOOONG journey, but what if I did make it? I wish I would have been there the night before it happened. Just to hold him, tell him that he's been more that enough, fans are always appreciative & supportive of him & that everything will be alright. I haven't listened to kpop for about a year or two because I'm not a big fan of the newer groups, so it's heartbreaking to hear something like this. Rest well, Jonghyun. We all love you.
1:28 breaks my heart. His face says he’s smiling but his eyes appear so sad.
pineapple sauce they do it’s really sad
let us make a promise today ... let us promise to ourselves that we must thunk 10 times before passing a comment on a person .. because whom we are judging or saying something hurtful, can be fatal for them .. please , everyone .. we do this mistake every now and then , in bus stop, in trains , in classes, in universities , in grocery shops ..... we dont realize when we do it ... but we must become a littl emore aware of others feelings .. we cant let this happen to anyone what happened to jong hyun .. so please , make a promise to your heart to not to make your opinion over any person so easily ..... that way , we will make a better human out of us ..... take care
Thank you for so much love from you .... I am.missing Jong huun a little.... thanks for cheering me up ... take care
agree
definitly agree!
New years's resolution
Agreed! We should take this as a goal, not just for new year (that is near) but also for life.
I didn't read your comment fully but i promise
This still horrifies me to this day. He was such a gentle, intelligent, thoughtful, creative soul. Unfortunately, genius sometimes comes with depression too. I can't believe anyone would bully him for saying the basic human things he said. How could you label him a misogynist when he was raised by a single mother and spoke so eloquently about women inspiring artists, that is true. I hate to say it but Korea is so screwed up and they didn't deserve this young man's talents and heart.
Could you please enlighten me on what he said or why he was being judged
I can’t agree more
@@WakinahNjuejonghyun was a creative person that he even make a beautiful lyrics to describe women but one day it led him to called as misogynist, they were said that jonghyun justified women as an objects..
Sorry to say this but for what I see,read or watch Korean culture is very stubborn they are stuck in Joseon Era. If he had more ability to be expressed what he wanted freely. He would have been with us.😢
We should reflect. Sometimes a statement that takes 5 seconds to type, takes 5 years for a person to forget. Let's all just try to be nice in everything we do. Sure, not everyone is going to be nice back, but at least at the end of the day, we know that we did our best.
Meg Usta 😥😥😥
Sometimes people 's judgmental words came as a sword and leave a very deep wound.
this is literally so true
Empress Seung this had me crying so much. Very well written. I 100% agree with everything you wrote. He was very talented and gorgeous young man. I wish that he hadn’t gone through what he did. Watching him with the teddy bear rocking back and forth (damn I wish that I could have known him and been there for him) broke my heart to pieces. If only when his called 911 they had gotten there sooner. Rest In Peace angel we love and miss you very much.
I seem to have left out a word there oops.
Jonghyun is a perfect example of why people need to stop hating on others for no reason.
I wish I could go back in time, so that I can tell him how much he means to a lot of people, and that he's not alone. And give him the comfort he deserves.
"PEOPLE SAID ABOUT ME" , "WHY THEY THOUGHT THOSE THINGS ABOUT ME" the people who ruined his life with thought that actually makes him sad
tessa florence I am sorry but I don't know what people say about him what is that thing that people don't want to accept the really him please can u tell me please?
I agree with you and also I want to ask those people who are they to judge the idols, arent idols humans like us and make mistakes and also arent those people all think they are good in everything to judge.....
El3an I didn’t know jjong or I would’ve supported him so much he’s my favorite singer now
He suffered, didn't he? Even had to abandon his girlfriend because of the black lash from the so called fans.
@@Forgetaboutthis2024 u
Watching this man rock back and forth with his teddy bear and candle for comfort breaks my heart in ways that words can never describe. I didn't know Jonghyun personally or as an idol, but the more I learn about him, the more I feel a sense of loss I can't name. I can tell that he was a precious soul and that he deserved SO much better than the life he had here on Earth. My sincerest wish is that he is finally at peace now. Jonghyun may be gone, but Love Never Dies. It waits. And someday, it will find us again. Rest In Peace, Jonghyun. We miss you. 😔💔🕯
You have done so well, my beautiful grandson. Just sleep and rest your tired soul. Please know that you were truly loved by so many people for the beautiful person that you were, and thank you for leaving us with all your treasured words and music. Until we meet again, SARANGHAEYO 🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵
All the cruel people judging him are so unfair 😭😭😭
nadasayangkucing they’re just so ignorant
nadasayangkucing right
Blame the Korean fans seriously !
The act like as if they own their idols lives !
Look at Super Junior now ? Im happy that Sungmin and Kangin are allowed back to join super junior since Jonghyun's death .. BUT ! Is that really the way ?
Its like they got a " slap " on the face ! Now then they understand how the idol feels ?
What does korean netizen says?
nadasayangkucing I know I would want to know the real side of him I mean everybody has a soft side. 😭
He was pleading for a way out. There are so many red flags in this video I feel for him so bad I just want to reach through my screen and tell him that he’s not alone.
"For some reason I feel like we could produce something together and it will be fun.
I’m sure he’ll be smiling though.
He’ll definitely more happy than he is right now.”
...
The point is; he is happier than he was. He really was super sad and killing himself was the only option.
Ok I barely know anything about k-pop or this particular k-pop group but when he said that it broke my heart that they’ll never be able to produce something together again, or smile together again :’( RIP ❤️
Taemin must have said that as a comfort or with knowing that Jonghyun was upset at the time :(
I’m sorry Jonghyun, I’m sorry SHINee :( I wish I could have done something or anything to change how things turned out...
He is now able to smile again.. in heaven.. I'm sure he's looking down at SHINee and shawols and taking care of us. That he died from suicide doesn't mean he wanted to end his life, he wanted to end his pain. This was the only way for him to be happy... and even if it stil hurts more than I can describe I'm also happy for him that he doesn't have to suffer anymore. Haters can't ever reach this angel in heaven. He is living the peaceful life he deserves and he won't be alone anymore.. one day we'll all see him again and tell him that he has the purest, most beautiful soul and heart and that he's loved so much by us all just for who he really is. Your family and friends, SHINee and shawols and everyone you love and that loves you is watching you from down here until we're with you again, our angel♥
I suddenly remember ' Internet war'
They did sing songs together. But it isn't the same listening to them anymore.
Jjong helped taem so so much with his music, taem was tone-deaf at first but it was jjong who broke that barrier and helped him. Our fan club president.
Tbh SHINee is the beauty of the music I believe in. Every single member has a unique voice. Their harmony as 5 is proof that they are vocal legends.
2023 and he is still remembered ,miss you Soo much our must precious moon ❤❤
I feel so regret that nobody understood Jonghyun to help him out :(
Korea Top News or maybe they are struggling too because they are in the same situation..we don't know if his celebrity friends are not keeping their own depression too
Yah i feel it too :(
if they are depressed too they should have understood his situation wtf nobody got it I didn't even know kpop 1 month back😭
Gouri Sharma do you know that people with depression are the best pretenders? It's hard for them to handle their depression let alone taking care of others. People with depression simply not capable of taking care others, making themselves getting out of the bed every morning is a real struggle that they don't have the strength to comfort others. Yes, it does sounds selfish, but mentally they are just not capable to help others when they can't even help themselves.
My fiancè lives with depression and anxiety for almost 4 years, staying sane everyday is a huge deal for him, therefore I should be strong for both of us. As someone who is mentally healthier, I'm the one who should keep the sanity for us. Had he been with other people who has the same problem as him, they both would destroy each other in an instance.
So stop judging people when you're not in their position to know exactly what's going on.
depression is illness. with physical change of your brain. It's not something what you can change by talk. People should understand it. People should have a real good rehab which can be positive to brain. work with brain. Do events to your brain.
Reason which cause the sadness and later than cause the depression can goes deep down. You can reach it but even if you do find it. mostly it's not so easy to deal with it. And if you even handle "the problem". and it will gone. however, depression will not go anywhere if there won't be change in the brain. It's a physical thing. Thay's why people go to psychiatry not psychologist. Do understand it.
Please, people, do not take it so lightly. there is a big difference between you just feel down and depression. Because of populirazation of this word - in movies, serials and so on - everyone say they have depression every time when they just feel down or do not comfortable with their lives. And yes, if you do not like your life and think that you can't change it. You can. Just make a plan how to get what you want or what you think should be done firstly. Do so many steps you need that do not feel your next step to do is unbearable.
I just think that there is not so many good psychiatries and really good manual how to treat this disease. Hope, it will change.
if tears were a stairway and memories were a lane , we would walk right upto heaven and bring you back again jonghyun
The rocking sideways is self soothing which indicates he hasn't got too many people to lean on
REALLY?? That's what it means?! O_O I do that ALL the time ...
Good body language observation.
That is so very sad
Wow that makes it even more sad...
It makes me sad that you’re acting as if this is not obvious, not well known, and that you didn’t know that. That you people come here watching all these obvious and intense feelings he expressed many times and now it’s clear because he’s gone. How it was so blatantly ignored a million times before he finally lost finally lost his grip is what’s terribly sad and tragic. Because this is preventable and it takes a split second for someone to skip away. He said it a thousand different ways and no one listened to him and took him seriously. Now he’s got what a million more followers since passing! Sickening. Fans still treated him as their object and watched him break down on stage and just thought it was “sweet” and sensitive. So stop congratulating yourselves on your “keen” observations that are so basic now that he’s gone forever. You couldn’t have said something back then! Nope, you all just kept acting like fanatics and watching him fall apart until it was too late, so stop coming back and offering stupid Captain Obvious analyses because it makes it worse. You could google that I guess but it’s paibfully obvious when it first came out. Still, where was the concern that should have been there. Take this time to reflect on yourselves, please. While you have your nose in your devices and obsessing on these human beings in your fantasies, people are peopke and they hurt and call for help and no one is there. He said that himself. Start acting like human beings in the real world and reach out, listen, watch the peopke around you. Make sure you pay attention to actual people and then maybe you’ll notice their pain. And you know nothing of what it’s likw to be in his situation as a celebrity. Again, he said it clearly in his note. Fame and fans were part of the problem. It’s as loneky as hell. All this unwanted adoration when all he wanted was someone who could really know him and live HIM and not as a half brained fanatic who on,y loved a version of him the projected. He just needed real human deep connection with someone who didn’t give a damn about his fame. And lone these fans who claim oh I could be that. Really? Please. Of course they’d say that. He knew better. He loved his music but all this K-Pop fame business is a soul killer and he was too sensitive a person. Save your retrospective. It’s useless at this point, Be free and rest easy, Jonghyun. Too many “if only.”
Seeing this precious human being rocking back and forth, holding a teddy bear to his chest while crying is so painful to watch... This just goes to show that no matter how famous or popular a person can get, we all have demons. Jonghyun was another pure soul that was too overcome with pain and sadness. I hope this shows a lot of people that just because a person smiles, it doesn't mean they're okay....R.I.P Angel❤
I think he had very gentle delicate soul which can get hurt very easily..by the look of him..I thought completely opposite... We don't know what really hurt him that much to end his life....Depression is the gigantic monster which eat a person from inside and take over its soul..worse than cancer...😓..so sad..RIP gentle soul...
sung yun yes, he was truly too delicate and pure for this world :'( i wish that he could still be with us, but there is no way to change the past... R.i.p
Honestly, it's already 2020 and I still tear up when it comes to Jonghyun. This man was a gorgeous human being. I never felt so much affection for an Idol like I did for Jonghyun, as if I knew him forever. All we have now is his music and recorded moments to which we can laugh and cry to. It's sad in general, how many people die from such feelings, as I'm writing this, someone in this planet is attempting against their own life.
We all go through difficulties, if only we are able to help one another. 🤧
Jonghyun will forever be loved; I know I will. 💚💫
See? This is why every comment matters! No matter how you think it is like "It's just a joke" "It doesn't matter" "It's just a small thing" words carry weight! When you call people out, talk about them unnecessarily, talk bad things, judge them when you don't even know the real them, you don't even know them personally, they get affected too! Celebrities and artists are also human beings! Their emotions are valid! They have their tough times and they care about what others think about them because they're just like us, like normal people. It will hurt them too. I hope this serves as a life lesson to all the people behind social media accounts they're using. One comment can destroy a person.
Wonhi Monie Monie You are right. People should think twice before they comment stuff like that.
unfortunately the trolls enjoy these kinds of things no matter what the outcome will become because of their selfish actions
Yes. ❤️👏👏👏
Wonhi Monie Monie shut the fuck up you fuck by loser get a life unlike jonghyun who is a weak willed person
Wonhi Monie Monie Your comment is so true. I am curious what people were saying about him though. Do you recall what untruthful things he said they were saying about him?
Lovely Jonghyun. He was and still is loved so much but it wasn't enough.
I wished he had a professional support all the way through.
His passing shouldn't happen. But there it is, so many hearts broken.
When I looked at him personally I do understand what he trying to tell . “As I expressed myself further I will looked more different from normal people. So I must always expressed myself be happy , be more funnier and always comfort others and do not make anyone worry about me.... but when I’m alone my feelings eating me inside and destroy me slowly ... “
florence edmund that's me also..i saw this video and I'm like seeing my own struggles.. ..I've changed into three mental doctors ..not all doctors are good so we as a patient must look into a good one...I've been diagnosed with OCD and PTSD. Since 2004 but doctor said I've had it since years before getting checked..
HOW DID NO ONE NOTICE THE SIGNS
HE WAS SCREAMING FOR HELP
exactly, his lyrics. why did we not notice. i’m still feeling so guilty, i feel like it’s all my fault even tho i’m just a random 14 year old girl from the other side of the world. he was suffering and we were oblivious
I feel so sorry for him, it breaks my heart to know how much he suffered alone while keeping his beautiful smile to make others happy. I can't be mad at him taking his own life because I understand him. I'm not crying because of his death but because I discovered his suffering and he died while feeling alone. At least now all this pain is gone. May he rest in peace and that he stays in our memories as the talented, passionate, kind and warm young man he was
He was such a beautiful soul. Too sensitive for this world. :(
You did good, you worked hard, you went trough a lot. Rest in peace.
that bad netizen should feel guilty if they ever watch this for making him so miserable 😭😭😭
Yaya Dee I agree. I don't even know of Shinee like that.. but I agree that KOREAN NETIZENS are too much.. seriously. They are too much to every celebrity. Yet Korea has the most high rate numbers of committed suicidals, yet those stupid netizens are nothing but fucking pricks still... smh.
CheelessthanThree right?! like in this case on the other hand, they pick on Zion T for not seeing him coming to Jonghyun funeral. which he actually came but when theres no camera around.. like wtf cant u get your fucking life sorted out first before being busybody with others. they claim to be sympathize with Jonghyun depression but didnt they realize that their act is also can lead to another depression. why they have to judge every single thing that every single celebrity do. ohh god.. really cant digest their behavior.. dont they have own life to cheer on instead of being salty, bitter & hateful all the time.. 🤦♀️
Max Volsung you sound stupid as fuck 😂 do you not hear yourself? You ARE the inets.
Max Volsung 😂😂😂😂
Just coming across this and it frustrates me. He had every earmark of a crisis, down to self-soothing by rocking in this interview. Why didn’t someone intervene? It breaks my heart that he died. We can romanticize it any way we want: “He’s at peace now,” etc...but life changes. People can grow. People can heal. He needed safety, solid ground, and help. Where was it?
exactly. jonghyun is one of the few people that i seriously feel so connected to just ebcause of his personality, he was so perfect but no one cared to pay mind to him. its heartbreaking
*If you really think about it what he said may be true to a lot of idols. When you’re famous a lot of people around you usually just wants to know the famous you and not the person that you really are. People tend to want to know how it would feel to meet a famous person and gush over it. Honestly as human beings I think it makes sense to treat others as human beings and not as trophy’s that you’re gushing and showing off over. Celebrities in general aren’t objects they’re just like you and yes they have money and spotlight but that isn’t always a good thing. Being famous is either the best thing for you or the worst. So pls take all of this into consideration. Rest In Peace Jonghyun* ❤️
Being an idol is a double edged sword. Sometimes l wonder how many idols are suffering inside? How many are screaming for help? How many escaped death? I wonder and l regret not being able to do anything. I can either cry tears of joy for their succes or tears of desperation and regret for not being there.
And here is a shoutout to all those haters who are not satisfied by killing one person ( that's right you bastards. You killed him with your prejudices! ) I hope you never suffer the way he did. If l were to wish you the same what you did to him, I'd be just like you.
It's true to all! Honestly idiots who call themselves fans should think before post anything. Cause their judgement can cause a lot of different things, for example: mentl health issues, substance use(smoking, drinking, drugs), self-harming behaviour, and even someone's death. And idols are just humans. They're not freaking perfect but they are still the children and sisters or brothers of others. If you can't say anything nice about a person, just shut up, especially if you don't know him/her.
This breaks my heart, he was such a kind and genuine person. I'm glad, though, that he has found peace and he can finally rest. He's in a better place, away from all the pain. I wish I could give him a tight hug and tell him how much he's loved. What a good person he is. People are cruel, please be kind to each other and stay strong. Rest in peace angel, we love you.
i really understand how he felt. I have a severe depression for not beng able to do what i actually want , it's been really hard and i've been tell my parent and my friends that it's too hard and i tell it in desperate way and cry out loud because i hate it so much and i hope they will just said ' it's allright , you can quit now ' , but no , instead people blame me because i dont't have strong will , they said that , that's how life it is. I keep work so hard , lose my sleep and still people said negative about it. i have a thought of just want to break the rules and run away, but i can't , i cry but nobody actually listening , they are listening not because they care. i can say that i have money , education but that still can't cure the pain, so i hope people can stop judge him just because he has everything. Jonghyun-ah , i do really know how you felt. It's funny how me and Jonghyun actually have the same birthday. RIP dear jonghyun.
yeah its quite crazy because we share the same birthday and what jonghyun has gone through is the same as mine.what differentiate between bling bling and me is , i just think about suicide and not doing it. Thank you so much for ur kind word it did lighten me up a little. i love to talk my problem with someone that has depression issue because of the mutual feeling. I wish you all the best too , lets survive in this cruel reality :')
I pray for ur well being too... plz never give up on ur life... FIGHTING ✊
GULAA I wish you all the best in the future! Remember you're not alone and if you ever feel alone you can talk to me, I'm just a random girl but I don't want anyone to feel like there is no one listening to them, I will try to help as much as I can! Once again I wish you all the best! 😄
Hi I'm Psapp I'm rooting for you and I hope you will be happier in the future! If you ever feel the need to talk to somebody, you can also talk to me, I'm a stranger but I don't want anybody to feel alone with their problems! All the best wishes! 💓
GULAA Do whats best for you and avoid toxic people no matter who they are in your life. You have more to offer this world when you are true to yourself. Stay strong and live for a greater purpose. You are perfectly you.
When this was recommended to me for the first time I couldn't watch it due to the pain
Even now after 3 years I can't stop crying
Jonghyunie I am sorry
I have hated on many ppl but I have realized my mistake
Seeing ppl hate on someone I like had made me realize how hard it is
3yrs ago I promised myself to not hate on anyone and protect my babies soon after that oppa went to a better place .....
May his soul rest in peace
I share that same fear as him. I worry so much over what people think that it’s crippling. Sometimes I can’t even leave the house. He must have felt so much pressure because of the scrutiny people put on idols. Being an idol sounds like a physically and mentally demanding thing :(
You're a person too. They are just other people but "they" are not everyone. You are fine as you were made. Don't believe those people and keep being who you want to be. I don't know you but want the best for you. Don't let those lies become your truth. You are perfectly flawed like the rest of us 😂 Fight back sweetie and show this world you won't go without a fight 💪
Michelle Xie just be your self girl dont take those negative people make you sad or stress just be with positive people and ignore negative people no one is perfect in this world just be your self anr be happy with your self
Gurl... you have Social Anxiety. Search it up, it will help you understand yourself better. It can get treated. Of course getting yourself to go to a doctor will be a challenge in itself because of your disorder. But understanding your problem and acknowledging it is the first step to getting better.
I'm taking Sertraline everyday for my social anxiety, and I also have depression. Trust me, those two are not a good mix. They are always fueling each other. I have missed out on so much with my family and friends because of my fears and regrets of the past. I am typing this with tears in my eyes as it has effected not just my life, but also those close to me. I pushed everyone away, and often found my mind drifting into darkness, only to pull back and distract myself by going online and on social media, which made it worse. All my siblings at one time had a dream about me committing suicide, and I never told them I suffered from these things, they just thought I was shy. Now that I'm older and understood these problems and got help. I'm beginning to see improvements and I feel like a weight has been lifted. Prescription medicine isn't always the answer, as I can't guarantee it would work and/or that it could be something just to talk to a therapist about, which everyone who has ever been to therapy would recommend (and no, you don't have to have some kind of "mental problem" to have one). I'd greatly recommend asking a therapist if you would need a prescription if they could specify your situation, or just ask a doctor. Sorry I feel like I'm rambling but I have to do my part because I see myself in Jonghyun. I, too, hid my true feeling through my humor. Anyway all I wanted to say is don't be afraid to get help, and there's nothing wrong with you, it's completely natural and quite common. I hope I was able to help you with any of this advice I would call a mess. *Imagine shoulder hug*
Well I'm just gonna send my love your way.... I don't know you of course but just know you are a beautiful person in and out!!! Love from Florida ☺
Oppa you are forever 💙 ❤ inside my sweet heart ❤.
I cant help but cry with this video, i am not SHINee fan, but i am sad, bout what happened to Jong Hyun, i wish, he has someone to talk to and to comfort him, with this video, Jong Hyun is in the stage of having a DEPRESSION, and it is so clear that he is asking for help and understanding, he is emotionally weak, and hurting deep inside.. #beingAliveISgreat #beautifulLIFE
BUTTERFLY BAMBIE
I feel you ;( Im also not a shawols but these just broke my heart into pieces. I feel guilty towards jonghyun. I dont know why but its just happened😢 i was too 😭
You didn't have to be Shawol to know that Jonghyun was special. I'm an older multifan and I always felt I wanted to protect him somehow. I remember saying to my daughter during his last comeback that he looked like he had put on some weight. He looked healthy. We hoped that things were turning around for him. Little did we know...
Yass Im also a multifandom. hmm resttt in peace jonghyun.
He did have help. But in the end, it wasn't enough because he wasn't able to overcome his depression himself.
He was one of the best voices I ever heard in kpop....for some reason I feel he was Gay and couldn't expressed as he would want, for the fear that it could affect Shinee and his career. 😔 I'm really sad for him
My heart broke watching this. He was such a sensitive guy. The spotlight & constant criticism would have taken a huge toll. The most beautiful voice I heard in K-pop. Every time I hear his voice it never gets old. He was an amazing talent. Jonghyun-ah you did really well. You deserve a break. Would have more than loved to know the real you! Wish you were still here. To all those AWFUL, evil people, cowards actually, who hide behind key boards & hate on people...know this, you could be killing someone with your words. You could be driving someone over the edge. STOP, and ask yourself why you do these things? Make a change. STOP before you kill someone else. Only love & no judgement for you Jonghyun!
This is the sad reality of show business!! Only few get help, even artists in the west have had an untimely death. 😔
Hema Sundari yeah... look at Chester for example 😔 Two great losses
Jessy M Yup 2017 has been a sad year 😢
He was one of the best voices I ever heard in kpop....for some reason I feel he was Gay and couldn't expressed as he would want, for the fear that it could affect Shinee and his career. 😔 I'm really sad for him
KIZMO I think so too. I feel all of those who cry a lot.. should be paid extra attention, they're the ones who are unable to say some dark secrets. Ofcourse in general, all of them.
+KIZMO Please don't spread such accusations. Its those kinds of things that make idols want to end their own lives. The judgment, the assumptions. This is why Jonghyun always felt the need to prove accusations wrong. He has suffered from depression ever since he was a young child and it does not at all have to do with his sexuality. Even if it did, we should not make assumptions because if you are a real fan you'll know that assumptions in the KPOP community turns into rumors.
Rest In Peace Jonghyun, I hope you're happy up there with the people who you cherished but left... I wish that you talked to somebody about it and...😢 you were an amazing singer but, this is your choice.. I hope that you're watching over Taemin, Onew,Key and Minho, because they're trying to stay strong so please... Watch over them for us and... Rest in peace.
-Bam..
KPOPBAMBAM 247779 I’m pretty sure that he did try and get help but it didn’t work out
They all said “it’s in your head.”
Taemin's smile thinking about his hyung in the near future broke my heart 💔 don't worry taemin oppa jonghyung oppa is now in good hands he's probably watching us from where he is right now, he is now resting in peace forever away from the cruel world
Just when I thought I didn't have any tears left to cry.....
Buddy I wish I could meet u ... I came to know about shinee in 2017 through Minho as he came to India . I didn’t even understand ur songs but ...if I got a chance to meet u I make u feel how beautiful n pure soul u were ...... I don’t know why my soul isn’t at peace from the day u hv gone from this earth ...... I wish I could listen every single word whatever u want to say .... n I m no one to judge u . U r unique in ur own way n I must respect that ........ I really want if god allow me to go to heaven take back ur soul n place it in that body n make u alive .... a new u who doesn’t care about this world who enjoys every single moment of his life ....... share everything wherever he wants whenever he wants.. who loves himself appreciate himself n make beautiful music......n the one who is filled with happiness from inside ....... happy in true sense ...... I wish u came back to this earth again as my son n cherish this earth with ur magic ..... I love u ..... never ever feel alone....... I will listen u only as a person not anything else ........take care pretty soul.... u will be missed by this world 🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋
I love butterflies......did u
Gurpreet Kaur u just spoke out my soul..I came to know Shinee through minho in 2017..also it's the first time I became a fan of any celeb...since the day I heard about him leaving us, I just couldn't be mentally well..on Dec 18 I was watching Shinee Hello Baby & after 1hr I received that news. Since then I can't help but think how much he reversed his personality...one moment I was laughing at their tactics ,then within a hour the same video is making me cry. Only if didn't came to showbiz he might have been living happily with his family and friends.
RAJASHRI RAJBANGSHI yeah . He was soo soo empty from inside... i wish I would’ve seen this video before.... n talked to him ...he was soo talented n pure soul.🦋🦋🦋
It’s okey.. don’t blame yourself.... I knew them since 2008 when I was 11... on tv. Nobody knew that he were suffering.
ahh, still my heart is in contant pain, Jonghyun oppa, you are our pride, I miss him
Can’t stop the tears, this poor, tortured and beautiful soul - just so tragic no matter what way u think about it - but to see him speak in his own words like this is just so raw- I hope his soul will fly happily soon 💔😭🙏🏻♥️🕊
Again, I feel like we failed him to show that we care. I understand being judged isnoart of life, but I never knew how hard it was on him. He described what I fell when I was depressed and I now understand what he felt I just didn't know it was this extreme. Jonghyun is an a better place now. I love you forever jonghyun.
Misses you everyday Jonghyun ah. Our brightest star in the universe.
Been watching jonhyung's videos before his final toll and I think he is insinuating his desire to be free from judgment and to be able to express his true self.. SM entertainment could have given him a break, vacation or they should have send him off to his family to clear up his mind.. One good example of this kind of act is YG when he allowed Tae hyun to take a break because of his depression. Even if this rest caused him separation with his group Winner but atleast we can still see him now happy, healthy and pursuing his own music.
Krenggoy I agree with you 100% . It is very hard to help people suffering depression. But one way is to get them away from the trigger. He had been saying it, hinting at it. Expressing it, and it seems like no one really listened. When you look at the time he chose to go. It’s like he purposely finished all the things he was to do for the year, and ended it before he started a new year of schedules. It seems like he didn’t want to keep suffering as a celebrity for another year. But no one was giving him a way out. And when depression hits and you have tunnel vision, the only way you see out is death. I keep thinking that if they had just sent him to his family, sent him somewhere where he would be less under the scrutiny of the public eye. Gave him time to be in his own element, and around the people he loved, it wouldn’t have cured him, but he probably wouldn’t have ended his life. If the directors of SM entertainment had said to him after his last concert “great job, you’ve worked hard these past few years. We see that you are struggling. Take 6 months to a year off. Spend it with your family. Travel to rural places, just enjoy your life” Maybe, just maybe he wouldn’t have felt so desperate to end it all.
He actually lived with his mother and sister.. (he rented an apartment about 6 hours prior to his death)...and him being busy, I am pretty sure it was his decision as it is one of the coping mechanisms..
Tbh I feel like Taehyun wasn't given a break as much as YG just kinda gave up on him, but aside from my personal opinion on that, I'm disheartened that Jonghyun felt so low and despite all the love around him he was still suffocating within his own mind. I hope he's resting now and at peace, he'll be forever missed and I hope that his friends and family can support one another through this difficult time. I hope that companies change and societies change and the world changes to accept that mental health is not weakness and should not be shunned but people should provide support and a place for people who struggle to feel as though they aren't alone, they aren't to blame and they can get through it. Jonghyun is a beautiful soul, nobody can ever replace him, and I hope he can finally find comfort in that wherever he may be now. I also hope that Taehyun is fairing much better now, too, I don't keep as up to date with him as I used to not because I don't care for him or his music but because I've been busy with uni and things but I hope that he's now playing the music he loves, he's getting the support he needs and the love of his fans is still strong.
Also to say that nobody knew he was suffering is probably not true, his music alone talked about his struggles, but I think the fact is nobody realised how badly he was struggling or if they did they didn't provide the support they could/should have. I don't want to point fingers because what's happened has happened and the blame game is something that shouldn't be played in situations like this but I'm sure SM knew well that he struggled with mental health and there was probably a lot they could have done to help him a lot more. They're not exactly well known for taking care of their artists that well, there's a lot they could do to help a lot of their artists. I hope they improve as a company and I don't want Jonghyun to become an example of what happens if they don't look after their artists but I hope they realise they have a very big hand in the struggles that they face and I hope they can realise they have a responsibility to find ways to help more.
actually, jonghyun was vocal and open about his mental health, and youre right, he wasn't getting enough help
i knew about shinee like 2019 i was watching Shinee Hello baby.... i wasn't a fan of shinee back then.... after watching the program i became a Shawol but i didn't know that jonghyun was gone he was my bias but after finding out the truth i was in a shock i cried even my sister got confused from that i also got angry...i never thought this would happen to him....In my my mind i was thinking why did you do such a think.....i was angry like wanted to teach those haters a lesson....still now some haters saying bad things about him i don't know why people judge others life without even realizing how much pain it can cost to them.....STILL WE LOVE U...STILL WE MISS U VERY MUCH....real shawols always stay together with you and shinee...❤💖🙂
He's being murdered by those who judge him without knowing what an ANGEL he is 😭😭💔💔my baby ANGEL rest in peace
JongHyun… Miss you.. Miss your talent, personality and kind soul… we need a much more personalities like yours … to safe our souls … and bring bright lights into our lives… sending you kisses and hugs 🤗 I know you are in a good place now… BUT forever in our hearts 🖤🖤🖤
And one more thing.. I hope that this painful and sad death of JONG HYUN, will be a lesson to those people, who loves to say negative things or making bad comments, a.k.a, BASHERS, to type or make things that is hard to bear for a celebrity or artists.. Please use our conscience, before we say anything that can hurt their feelings, celebrities or K-pop idols are also humans, and they are trying to make a living in limelight.. #getalifeBASHERS
I agree, 😔, wen I used to see bad comments i would think wat if that person got into depression because of wat they wrote and it happened to my fav group. I wish people stop writing bad comments it hurts them cause there humans too. to me I feel like it's similar to cyberbullying. 😢 I still can't believe he really is gone 😭
I'm just going to say this if anyone is thinking of hurting themselves I am here for you and will keep you in my thoughts
you know i feel bad for shinee.Shinee was the most beautiful kpop band ever.R.I.P. Jonghyun😢😇
I usually listen to them
SHINee still the most beautiful kpop band ever ♥
@@ccofonta true. 5hinee forever❤️
Él tenía una sonrisa tan hermosa. Todo él era hermoso.
He was terrified... terrified for goodness sakes. Why? Terrified about what people would think about his TRUE personality. Do you know how hard it must've been on him? So hard that he went ahead and killed himself. I still feel like people are taking this as a joke but it's not. Stop. Stop with all this hating and just learned to love or just shut the hell up. I still can't believe he's gone.. it feels like a dream. Who knows what other people said to him. He didn't kill himself, they did.
Kookie Monster the last line made me cry. "He didn't kill himself. They did." Its so sad. He was dying infront of us and no one realised.
I miss him so much. But I will always remember him as someone who made me strong.
Message to all artists/idols, guys it's ok to be loud, weird, funny, quiet, sad, serious etc. Don't hold it in. If there are haters who are easy to judge on comment sections, go pass them, ignore and focus on your family, friends, fans who love you for who you are. If you are ready to quit, just do it like I said people who loves you will understand and that includes your true fans. Give yourself a break, don't get pressured. True fans will understand your every decision you'll make and always support you in any different form. Simply take care of yourself, that's all that matters.
Missing you isn’t the problem, it’s the fact that you will never come back😭Jonghyun-ah Rest In Peace🤍🕊
See? Being a judgemental person can kill, you never know that you were the reason why someone has left this world.
It's already 2020 but i still can't get over this.. I miss you Jonghyun, we miss you, and we will always miss you.
Sometimes culture with high expectation can make people depressed. I am an Asian, and I live surrounded with expectations from everyone around me. I learned to have this "fuck others, i'll be myself" attitude long ago to prevent those expectations from bringing me to insanity. Maybe it's harder if you're korean...poor boy...i really hope he is forever in peace now...
This is the memeory of me trying to kill myself from bullies ppl said racist words about me they sterotype my skin color they judge me on the type of guys that I was into they mostly judge me because i was calm and laid back not all wild like others
Hiro X Summer Masa never stop being yourself!
I miss him so much.. I think of you often puppy and I hope that you are at peace now.. Only the people who are the kindest, ever doubt if they are not "good enough", its the haters who have to many shortcoming but they refuse to aknowledge it.. we miss you greatly Jonghyun.. Thanks for everything you have done for us and for all the love you have given us..
OMG *sensitive Jonghyun* 😭 He really struggle with people's judgment 😭
Jonghyun-ah, you showed so much of yourself that everyone fell in love with you. Your depression stopped you from feeling that love. But we felt your love, and it made us so happy!
This is too much I wish I could hug him and cry with him :(
Erika Casellas he's gone now:(
Taemin's smile is so cute
I know I’m being captain obvious but I feel like in a sense, he might’ve lost his sense of self and identity. Going into an entertainment company to train and being away from family and friends, which shapes who you are at young age, can make a major shift in a person’s life. Entertainment groups recruit young people for a reason, because they’re easier to mold and control. I’m not diagnosing him in anyway, but I feel like little factors add up and eventually effects a person in major ways. It’s sad how he expresses that no one was willing to get to know the real him. It’s the fame life that makes it impossible. It’s a shame he had to leave. RIP
In 2 days, it’ll be one year since he’s passed. Although it doesn’t feel like it..and here I am crying my eyes out watching past videos of him. And i know this is how I’ll be every year going forward on December 18th.
He deserved so much better, he really did. But I can’t stay stuck in the past, thinking of what could have been. I’m just hoping that he’s happy now and that he will continue to live in everyone’s memory. I will never be able to forget him, and I ask that you guys won’t either. Rest In Peace you beautiful angel ❤️
Why did no one run up to jonghyun and hug him when he was crying? If I was a crew member, I would have ran up to him, hug him and hold his hands. I feel for him so much. I miss you jonghyun
Yeah... I wish I was there although I'd be annoying and timid and probably would have been one of the ones who didn't hug him because I'd be too shy and they're filming... sigh. More needed to be done.
This just breaks my heart to watch. I miss him so much. I wish that we all could have done something to help him and let him know how much we love him. My heart aches every time I watch a performance with him.... I wish so much that we could bring him back.
Как же мне жаль этого молодого талантливого парня. Никто не смог ему помочь. Слёзы...
#YouDidWellJonghyun #YouWorkedHardJonghyun😇💜💧💫🌕i love you so much and we'll rember you always. Rest in peace in the Heaven with GOD. sending love💖💖💖💖💖
Jonghyun QEPD
te fuiste dejando un enorme vacío que jamás se podrá ocupar, llenar, duele tú ausencia, pero, siempre estarás presente en mi corazón mi ángel hermoso,
He will be more happy in ten years time. Your wish will certainly come true Taeminie. Jonghyun is happier where he is now, and his suffering is over. He's at peace now. It's okay to mourn his passing but please also remember that his pain is over now. He doesn't have to feel so lonely anymore... Im not religious and I doubt God's existence a lot, but I hope and pray that he's up in heaven right now. Please God, if you're up there and listening, let this man live in eternal happiness.
Me destroza el corazon ver cuánto sufría Jonghyun. Realmente, estaba aterrado de mostrarse tal como era por miedo al qué pensarían de él los demás. Un chico con gran corazón, we miss you Jonghyun.
I still don get it .wat real him did he want to show....most pictures and videos of him were happy and all .I don get it
he has the purest soul i have ever seen. it's so heartbreaking that the worst things happen to the kindest, loving, honest and most caring people. life isn't fair to anyone these days, but i hope he is happy where he is now...i hope some people can learn from this..death and depression are real and serious things no one should ever ignore. my love goes out to everyone suffering out there.
It's 2022 now and I still think about you Jonghyun! Shawol failed you. We failed to protect you. I'm angry and I'm also sad. You did well, I hope you're happy where you are❤️
It's really sad. When I watched this video I can't hold back my tears.
Some, People easily judge the person not knowing who they really is. That's one the reason why many people get depressed.
They didn't realized how it affect someone's feelings and emotion,and mind. Though, depression have many causes,that pushes someone to end and took their own life. When you feel depressed and when you have a problem, Do'nt hesitate to say your problems with other's, it much better to say and share what you've been through,than to hid it, so they can help you out.
If only people knew what he feel,If there's someone beside him and listen to him. Maybe, he's still there rightnow.
My heart just broke into a million pieces. Why did nobody try to talk to him after this episode?? The emotional turmoil he was going though is so obvios here. Fly high Jonghyun, we will miss you more than words could ever say.
May you rest in peace...and don't forget that you are the best...
I'll always love you....
if only i could have the chance to tell you that you are such a nice, kind, respectful and so talented human being..that you do not have to prove anything to anyone..that what matters most is the love you give, the talent you share and the joy you bring to us everytime we hear you sing...that, my beautiful boy, is the only thing that should have mattered to you...you may have left us but your songs will forever be heard🙂
you did very well Jonghyun oppa😊
I have seen this over and over again. A young person working diligently and puts on a show of happiness always telling jokes and seemingly enjoying what he/she is doing and loving life. Then taking their life without what seems to be no reason. I only began to actually recognize this group once I heard them sing Amazing Grace. I then began to listen to more and more. Not knowing actually what they were saying (I don't understand Korean language) but I enjoy the beat and tones. About a year after I actually began to listen to their music I heard of JongHyun taking his life. I feel so bad for youth who feel they are not of value in this world. My last job I had my share of going to decease people. When I hear these sad situations it rushes back bad memories and feelings. The world weeps over such a loss. Rest in peace sir.
Please pray for Jong Hyun. He was a beautiful person. Thank you.
I’m sorry the world failed you, Jonghyun. Whenever I think about you I cry because I wish I could have been there for you. Sometimes I wish I could have been there to save you. But our lives never crossed until after you were gone.
Maybe you needed someone who understood what you were going through..I don’t know. I’m just sorry that we as a humans failed you.
Keep singing up in the stars, Jonghyun. 💗
Oh my sweet sweet darling, if only you knew and know how freaking perfect you were and are. Not just Jonghyun the K-popstar but Jonghyun the human being, flaws and all. God, if only I could turn back time... This was such a tremendous loss, I still mourn him every day 💔😢 You worked hard and did well my love, now rest in peace for ever ❤🙏
This is the safest video. To see someone in so much pain. Rest in peace Jonghun
Sounds like Jonghyun suffered from bullying which greatly contributed to taking his life. I think it's a wake up call for the bullies. I hope those who bullied feel remorse and stop the behaviour towards others. His family and friends are in my prayers. So sad. My precious child was bullied and I'm so grateful she survived. She said and knew it would kill me if she killed herself. She's now shining her light in the world with her love.
lds mum my son was bullied too (to the point where the police were going to be brought in). It's scarred him and he doesn't trust anyone anymore. He did say he never thought of suicide because to him, it meant they won and he was/is just that stubborn not to give that satisfaction. I wish I could take credit for that as a parent, but that's all him.
That said, in Japan and Korea (I have no idea if it's the same anywhere else), their culture is such that to fans, idols belong to them. I very much disagree with this idea, but the companies encourage it because it means more money for them. One of my Japanese friends said once that she would be very upset if her favourite dated because 'idols are the fans' dream. They belong to us and should not do wrong things' and I know the same sentiment applies in SK. This is why there's such a backlash whenever they're seen to do anything at all that the fans disagree with and why so many, in order to have their own families, tend to get their gf pregnant so they'll get permission to marry (or in the case of girls, get pregnant). Yes, it upsets the fans a lot, but I think they see it as the only way they have to get what they want. (usually... it doesn't always happen this way, but...)
ILY jonghyun if only i could go back and comfort you and give you affection and tell you how much I loved you
Un hermoso voys sentimental, con un gran corazón bello por dentro y por fuera, realmente cariñoso, cómo un Angel. Noto en este video muchas lágrimas y que tenías un dolor qué no podías más contener, una enfermedad qué te arrancó de está vida. Bello Angel duerme con tranquilidad ya eres libre.
The moment I saw him breaking down,I couldn't hold my tears back.Everyone,before jugding someone or passing comments please think about it emotionally.It can be very heartful to the extent of harming oneself.Jonghyun rest in peace and be happy.We love,I miss you everyday.Take care.
I am seeing this in 2019. I am a new SHAWOL. But whenever l think about him my eyes will fulfill by tears😥😢. SHINee never lose a member ,they gain an angel 🧚♂️👼
“I’m sure he’ll be smiling” god this whole thing is hitting me in the feels
This is so heartbreaking. Of course there were people who wanted to know the real you. But because of his social status, it was kinda impossible, for his REAL fans to meet him and talk to him like a friend relationship, not fan-idol one 😭😭😭😭
@ Vivienne Tutunaru - Good point - it is not like an “average “ fan could expect him to be available to talk to !!
I am a huge Michael Jackson fan - I wouldn’t expect to be able to get anywhere close to him , let alone have a “meaningful” conversation .
I hope you are resting in peace and happy there our angel. RIP i miss you😭
Não consigo nem imaginar o quanto ele sofreu,embora muitas vezes sorrindo e dançando no Palco,por dentro triste e se sentindo só💔Ele foi incrível❤sentimos sua falta como se ele tivesse ido ontem,dói vê-lo ainda😞Obrigado por tudo meu lindo❤(Você foi bem)❤💎🇧🇷💓⭐
I miss him 🙁 so much
Those hate comments are invisible in front of the members love for him
They have a hella strong bond
Oh my God ...feels like he had battled depression for many years....
Rest in peace legend
This cruel world wont allow us to be the real us..
I hope you are happy up there
I thought I was getting better handling Jonghyun’s death but it’s been 8 months and when I watch a video about him I always end up crying. I see a picture of him and it still breaks my heart. I wish Jonghyun knew how much he meant to everyone around him.. 종현 너무 보고싶어요 😭😭❤️
Just as a person I would have loved to know him as his true self ❤️ I miss him
This is totally heartbreaking. I'm gonna break down in tears.
"I'm sure he will be smiling though" It's not even 2025... we already lost him... You did a good job sir, You endured a lot. I wish the world would have been a little more considerate about your feelings.I hope your loved ones and your fans recover the loss.
I wish people be more careful with their words.