How To Stand Up For Yourself And Set Boundaries

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  • Опубліковано 25 лис 2024

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  • @drinasun6984
    @drinasun6984 2 роки тому +29

    Sometimes being nice gets to the point where you start to resent others. Setting boundaries is very important. Don't be so nice that people start to take advantage of your kindness and use your good nature against you.

  • @jennybrooks3941
    @jennybrooks3941 3 роки тому +18

    Learning to say no without guilt is a huge step to take in improving quality of life. Thanks for all these great tips.

  • @NewbieFitnessAcademy
    @NewbieFitnessAcademy 3 роки тому +7

    You never want to be a push over. It's important to know your self worth.

  • @amrider2099
    @amrider2099 Місяць тому +1

    Losing some bad friends was the best decision I made in my life

  • @NewbieFitnessAcademy
    @NewbieFitnessAcademy 3 роки тому +3

    A lot of people ignore the work that's needed to build from within. Awesome stuff!

  • @mpl-moneypowerlegacy5088
    @mpl-moneypowerlegacy5088 3 роки тому +5

    Inner dialogue is such a powerful thing, thank you for sharing these tips👍🏾

  • @laaika1300
    @laaika1300 4 місяці тому

    What am I going to implement first? Getting aware about what I want (what I don't want is pretty clear) and how to get there. Not feeling guilty about making myself a priority and asking for what I want. Trying not to explain myself, a hard one! It is all important what you said and I do already stand up for myself it is just that the environment these days (even I moved to another country and people are way more pleasant here) do not seem to understand or support that much standing up for yourself maybe because they are afraid to do it themselves or lack of self awareness and confidence. Lots of underdogs out there! And the overdogs like the narcs, it is them that scare me the most because they are so agressive and I am too gentle over all. They are sneaky in their manipulations and letting you feel guilty for normal behaviour. Work in progress.. thank you so much for your contribution to empower others!

  • @LP-bi4vc
    @LP-bi4vc 2 місяці тому

    Remember, too, that if you are confronting an abuser: you should *never* have to be perfect to be respected as a human being! "I statements" work with those who are willing and able to listen. If you are setting a boundary and the other person has a pattern of trying to justify their refusal with personal attacks, the best thing to do is remove yourself from the situation if you can.

  • @marianaaspru
    @marianaaspru 3 роки тому +3

    Great video, Myke. People pleasing and codependence are real issues that many go through. It's really important to stand up for yourself.

  • @abooga8
    @abooga8 3 роки тому +4

    Great video, I love listening to these right before bed, and just before waking up to keep myself on track in my daily life!

  • @V_tier0editzYT
    @V_tier0editzYT 8 місяців тому

    I’m 14 and I’m trying to look at life a bit more differently. I really need to start working on myself and setting boundaries, I can’t let others use me for their entertainment in a negative way. This video helped me and I thank you for it!

  • @N95-q5e
    @N95-q5e 2 роки тому +2

    I appreciate this so much!
    I have been a pushover for 26 years amd I can't take it anymore. I'm becoming an asshole. I want to be a good person again without anymore anger and depression.

  • @Hila_at_Home
    @Hila_at_Home 3 роки тому +1

    Am going to keep my cool by breathing and counting to 3 before expressing myself when I feel uncomfortable. Thanks for more great tips Mike👍

  • @RochelleCheever
    @RochelleCheever 3 роки тому +2

    Breathing and count to 3! Great tips MyKe!

  • @bbyphina
    @bbyphina 9 місяців тому +2

    This really hit me thank you, I suffer from social anxiety and I’m too nice to say no :(

  • @staycreative2053
    @staycreative2053 3 роки тому +3

    Loving your tips as usual! Great video!

  • @greenmable475
    @greenmable475 3 роки тому +1

    Boundaries are everything! Excellent information as always Myke!

  • @Foodotomic
    @Foodotomic 3 роки тому +2

    For me this video was so good, there are so many things we take for granted. Great advice

  • @JennaWahl
    @JennaWahl 3 роки тому +1

    I am such a people pleaser which also creates a lot of issues for posting on social media and creating content! Also, I love journaling! I haven't been great at it this year yet I have filled 4 leather journals already!

  • @cindymakita
    @cindymakita 3 роки тому +1

    Your content is always SO valuable. Setting boundaries is KEY! Thanks for sharing

  • @AnnaSvedberg12
    @AnnaSvedberg12 3 роки тому +2

    Loved this topic Myke! It can be hard to stand up for yourself, but SO important. Great video!

  • @GrowingUpOntai
    @GrowingUpOntai 3 роки тому +1

    I am feeling more confident after watching this!

  • @PilatesWorkoutsOnline
    @PilatesWorkoutsOnline 3 роки тому +2

    Excellent tips to command respect!! Great skillset to learn!

  • @DiscoverMeTV
    @DiscoverMeTV 3 роки тому +1

    These are excellent tips!!! I’m not exactly your target audience - I would consider myself mostly an extrovert, and I’m an actor/writer/singer/talk show host - I literally talk for a living! But this video in particular really resonated with me... I’m so glad I watched it! What a gift you’re giving to people in helping us all to communicate better and take better care of each other and ourselves!!!!

  • @ATasteofHealth
    @ATasteofHealth 3 роки тому +1

    Great tips! Writing down your thoughts and feelings works for me. This is good for my kids to watch as well.

  • @yelenacrawford5357
    @yelenacrawford5357 3 роки тому +1

    Excellent tips! It took me SO LONG to learn this and I always am up for new skills. Thank you :)

  • @LisaHealYourself
    @LisaHealYourself 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for sharing your insights on this topic! It can be so difficult to stand up for yourself and set boundaries.

  • @ortallevitan1
    @ortallevitan1 3 роки тому +1

    You are truly incredible! Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge about how we can stand up for ourselves 😊

  • @trainkinder-getinspiredtol6433
    @trainkinder-getinspiredtol6433 3 роки тому +1

    Great tips and you explain them very well! I'll definitely use some of them to stand up for myself more.

  • @reggiebellamy7112
    @reggiebellamy7112 Місяць тому

    Thank You 😎

  • @mauraronda1265
    @mauraronda1265 2 роки тому +1

    Great video! Thank you

  • @laaika1300
    @laaika1300 4 місяці тому

    Clever man!

  • @v.j4796
    @v.j4796 3 роки тому +1

    This channel is treasure

  • @MarielaMerino
    @MarielaMerino 3 роки тому +1

    great tips as always!

  • @NatureFreak1127
    @NatureFreak1127 2 роки тому +1

    Fantastic video. I've been doing all of this for a while now, but it is always nice to consolidate the knowledge. And I am quite pleased with myself after seeing this, because I can see, that I've come a long way.

  • @kflecha1
    @kflecha1 Рік тому +2

    This is so helpful ❤

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  Рік тому +1

      That's great to hear!

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  Рік тому +1

      Which tip did you like the most?

    • @kflecha1
      @kflecha1 Рік тому

      2:30 Noticing how to talk with yourself 🙏 that one was really important to me but in general I enjoy the entire video 💙

  • @Jennifer-nf7df
    @Jennifer-nf7df Рік тому

    Both! Thank You.

  • @waddafuniture7026
    @waddafuniture7026 3 роки тому +2

    Gerard 👌🏻🙋🏻

  • @karlasullivan598
    @karlasullivan598 10 місяців тому +1

    Amazing

  • @northernstar8952
    @northernstar8952 3 роки тому +5

    I Receive This Video In The Almighty Name Of Jesus Christ Amen

  • @looksmaxxxine
    @looksmaxxxine 3 роки тому +1

    5:03 I tried to use some I statements instead of you when I got confrontational with someone at my job.
    But they kept responding with "I'm sorry YOU feel that way" it made me angry because I felt like I made my effort to not say "You" to them but it just goes over their head

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  3 роки тому

      Sounds like you need to re-evaluate your relationships.

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  3 роки тому

      Some people are just toxic and they'll make your life more difficult.

    • @evka24
      @evka24 9 місяців тому

      Narcissistic say that …they can’t accept their wrong doing

  • @Mrjakeharrington93
    @Mrjakeharrington93 Рік тому

    This is amazing thank you

  • @SocialConfidenceMastery
    @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 роки тому

    Watch this other video to help you have difficult conversations:
    👉 How to be more assertive without being aggressive: ua-cam.com/video/YWWkTRSsM4k/v-deo.html

  • @stephanien8558
    @stephanien8558 9 місяців тому

    Where’s the bell ?

  • @waddafuniture7026
    @waddafuniture7026 3 роки тому +2

    Hi friend

  • @steve00alt70
    @steve00alt70 8 місяців тому

    Standing up for yourself against teachers

  • @christopherrosado6053
    @christopherrosado6053 6 місяців тому

    "Speak to the mountain, not about it, make if a mole hill "

  • @johnnydoe2672
    @johnnydoe2672 3 роки тому +1

    How do I send this to my girlfriend without sending it to my girlfriend

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  3 роки тому

      That's a tricky one!

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  3 роки тому

      If you don't mind me asking, how's your relationship with her lately?

    • @johnnydoe2672
      @johnnydoe2672 3 роки тому +1

      @@SocialConfidenceMastery difficult but still working through it. communication is tricky because of distance too

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  3 роки тому

      @@johnnydoe2672you're in a long-distance relationship I'm assuming?

    • @johnnydoe2672
      @johnnydoe2672 3 роки тому

      @@SocialConfidenceMastery yes and for a while now haha