Nightmare Neighbour battles In Kent Countryside I At War With Next Door | FULL episode | S1E1

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  • Опубліковано 20 сер 2023
  • Dermot O'Leary presents this documentary that tries to bring peace between two waring neighbours.
    In this episode the Jacobson's from Canada wanted a countryside upbringing with their 5 boys in
    Kent but the Gray family moved next door a vear later caused a bitter relationship between the households, which was once a friendly community.
    #truestory #atwarwithnextdoor #northone
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  • @deanthornby2026
    @deanthornby2026 9 місяців тому +320

    Never make friends with your neighbours....all say hello ...allways ask if they are ok and leave it at that....once you make friends your gonna fall out .. keep out of their houses and lifes and your get on for ever

    • @stevenwest3555
      @stevenwest3555 9 місяців тому +13

      👏

    • @irenanes7634
      @irenanes7634 8 місяців тому +11

      Yeah 😚🤗☺️💜🇵🇱💪🏻

    • @personalcheeses8073
      @personalcheeses8073 8 місяців тому +17

      Not in my experience, I have had some awful neighbours. But currently they are just the best. It’s the luck of the draw

    • @gillianbrookwell1678
      @gillianbrookwell1678 7 місяців тому +30

      I don't even speak to my neighbours unless I have to.

    • @stevenwest3555
      @stevenwest3555 7 місяців тому +5

      @@gillianbrookwell1678 not even good morning ? 😛

  • @MsSparklesNGlitter
    @MsSparklesNGlitter 6 місяців тому +11

    I say this as a Canadian myself, the Canadian couple especially Hazel came into the UK as foreigners and needed to be far more conciliatory. She has a very bossy and nasty attitude. If she doesn't like it she can return to Canada.

  • @alfredisted305
    @alfredisted305 9 місяців тому +103

    The Canadians do not want to negoiate. I believe that they would be better off back in Canada.
    As a teacher, I don't believe he is setting a good example and Hazel does not want to listen. Disgraceful.

    • @lesleymcshanemitchell9651
      @lesleymcshanemitchell9651 9 місяців тому +6

      Why should they go Just because of an disagreement with your Neighbour. I think your a teeny bit prejucdised

    • @merarimorris1030
      @merarimorris1030 9 місяців тому +1

      They probably left Canada because they didn’t get along with anyone there either. There’re insufferable

    • @DavidHeywood_Legend
      @DavidHeywood_Legend 9 місяців тому

      I agree, there is something not right with them, the soy boy husband is the one who is being abused. Move back to Canada and take your flag with you if you don't like it here. I wonder why you moved in the first place.

    • @littleowldme
      @littleowldme 9 місяців тому

      ​@@lesleymcshanemitchell9651oh, of COURSE its a prejudice 🙄
      Always the same! People like you are ALWAYS racist against the Brit!

    • @personalcheeses8073
      @personalcheeses8073 8 місяців тому

      @@lesleymcshanemitchell9651. What terrible spelling and grammar you exhibit.

  • @coldc7
    @coldc7 6 місяців тому +29

    As a Canadian...I can only say..... you can keep her! 🇨🇦

    • @grandmasashes0
      @grandmasashes0 4 місяці тому

      As a Brit, I politely decline 🤣 return to sender

    • @eurocrusader1724
      @eurocrusader1724 4 місяці тому +1

      Stay in your country

    • @slopernafti902
      @slopernafti902 16 днів тому

      No. We've already got many that won't integrate. You stay away. Eat some maple syrup in the snow.

  • @saz9882
    @saz9882 7 місяців тому +70

    Who on earth builds a lookout point next to a fence someone has just put up. It’s horrendous, unnecessary & provoking the issue more. Take it down, stop being difficult or better still move out! It’s pretty obvious who the instigator is!!

    • @kburke9615
      @kburke9615 7 місяців тому +10

      Agreed, 100%.
      Signed, a Canadian viewer.

    • @Outnumberedbykidsandcats
      @Outnumberedbykidsandcats 5 місяців тому +2

      Absolutely. I expected it to be 6 of one and half a dozen of the other, but instead it was so obvious from very early in the episode that she was the problem. We don’t have any problems really with neighbours but even then, I put my kids climbing frame up so that the tower was furthest from the fence because it’s the polite thing to do ensure you’re not making neighbours uncomfortable for no reason. She put that tower there for one reason only and that was to cause trouble and spy on the neighbours. The fact that she is unable to see that she is the problem here is incredible to me.

  • @wildadventures4173
    @wildadventures4173 7 місяців тому +36

    Hazel is what we call in America "A Karen" and a Controlling Narcissists 🙄

    • @contessaanthrope5775
      @contessaanthrope5775 7 місяців тому +5

      Pretty sure everyone and their dog knows what the term" Karen" means. The internet exists outside the U.S.A.

    • @beaulieuc8910
      @beaulieuc8910 6 місяців тому

      Karen is a nice name not a misogynist insult. Name calling is also narcissstic.

  • @nansmith8703
    @nansmith8703 9 місяців тому +101

    This Hazel is so vile and the state of their property is disgraceful.

  • @carolesigrist3780
    @carolesigrist3780 7 місяців тому +62

    Maybe hazel should spend time cleaning up her house 🤢than arguing with neighbours? Hmm 🤔 😂

    • @kaybee2930
      @kaybee2930 6 місяців тому +7

      I can't believe she's only 42, she looks at least 60

    • @Outnumberedbykidsandcats
      @Outnumberedbykidsandcats 5 місяців тому +1

      @@kaybee2930is that how old she is? I must have missed them saying her age. She’s the same age as me, but I thought she was around my mums age (63). She has to be lying about her age surely? Or is it just that sometimes when someone is that bitter it really does show on their face?

  • @sugarsnap1578
    @sugarsnap1578 9 місяців тому +119

    Get the landlord to give them notice unless things improve ! That trouble maker Hazel needs to get her house and garden tidied up!

    • @hoosierladyus48
      @hoosierladyus48 7 місяців тому +19

      Yes, she seems like the problem in all this. If she spent more time on cleaning her home and yard, she wouldn't have time to be arguing with the neighbors. Her house is a pigsty.

    • @patriciawagstaff6302
      @patriciawagstaff6302 7 місяців тому +5

      I would put up a fence also as the inside and the outside of my neighbor's property has been - n probably will always be a pigsty, junkyard whatever one may want to call their living arrangements.
      Worse yet, he/ her their children will grow up thinking that living in an unhealthy- uncared for proper home is normal !
      When our children, including us as parents, b4 bedtime n baths etc. We ALl would do our part to tidy up our home. Inside n outside. Each child had their own basket to put their toys n bits n bobs taken care of. Even to the outside toys , be it something like junk... just tidy up. All things our parents had taught us. All of us are taking an equal part.
      To me, it just doesn't seem to be that hard of a thing to accomplish.

    • @catbishop27
      @catbishop27 6 місяців тому +3

      It's truly a dump.

    • @nigelbevan8449
      @nigelbevan8449 6 місяців тому +3

      It should be the landlord who should step in and tell Hazel and her husband to get their "garden" and clean the house or face eviction....

    • @Outnumberedbykidsandcats
      @Outnumberedbykidsandcats 5 місяців тому +2

      Totally. Given that it’s not owned by them, but is a rented property, I have no idea why they haven’t been evicted. It’s clear who the issue is, but even if everyone was equally to blame it’s not good for a landlord to have tenants behaving this way to each other. So one of them has to go and you choose the one who allows your property to look like a pigsty.

  • @teresaalford5978
    @teresaalford5978 9 місяців тому +56

    Complete opposites, the one house and yard is trashed, the other neighbors are neat, they yards completely reflect how each live.!!!!!!!!

  • @lily_m3538
    @lily_m3538 9 місяців тому +70

    Foreigners moving to the UK need to be more adaptable and culturally sensitive. Glad this guy isn't teaching my kids and Hazel is a weird one.

    • @imhere8380
      @imhere8380 9 місяців тому +4

      That is what we say about when the Poms immigrate to our country.🤣😂🤣

    • @angelau1194
      @angelau1194 9 місяців тому

      @@imhere8380 I thought it was "emigrated."

    • @timothywait9457
      @timothywait9457 9 місяців тому +4

      lilly Hazel seems more like an American or an Australian then a Canadian

    • @timothywait9457
      @timothywait9457 9 місяців тому +1

      abcxyz what Skippys aka Australians call us English

    • @timothywait9457
      @timothywait9457 9 місяців тому +2

      Imhere do not be a silly skippy

  • @zerofox7347
    @zerofox7347 9 місяців тому +53

    Ask yourself if you had to live next door to one couple which would you choose? I wouldn’t live next to Hazel for anything!

  • @bartardo1
    @bartardo1 9 місяців тому +51

    Those Canadians are brother and sister surely 😂

    • @AMNESIALEMON93
      @AMNESIALEMON93 9 місяців тому +2

      And heroin addicts

    • @teresabaker5113
      @teresabaker5113 7 місяців тому +6

      OMG, you seem to be onto something!

    • @jessH090
      @jessH090 7 місяців тому +5

      That’s why they left Canada 😂

    • @analinares
      @analinares 4 місяці тому +2

      The Canadian woman is not 42, more like 62.

  • @melissabyrne8749
    @melissabyrne8749 10 місяців тому +46

    I really do have to much time on my hands😅

    • @user-tc1ug4fv1z
      @user-tc1ug4fv1z 8 місяців тому +4

      Jeez me too I've spent the morning watching elderly women thinking they were speaking to Johnny Depp 😱😱

    • @Claire-es6hz
      @Claire-es6hz 8 місяців тому +1

      😂

    • @Chalky29
      @Chalky29 8 місяців тому

      😂😂😂

  • @honeybee4645
    @honeybee4645 7 місяців тому +19

    Hazel is a Bully, makes me wonder why she left Canada!! Would love to hear from her previous neighbours!! 😅

    • @forgetmenotjem1147
      @forgetmenotjem1147 6 місяців тому +5

      That was my thought, who did she mess with in Canada

    • @Mumasarah
      @Mumasarah 3 місяці тому

      I thought the same thing. Id do a police check on him, looks dodgy, immature..screams p!.do

  • @alexisjames5894
    @alexisjames5894 9 місяців тому +37

    ….. he only hit me once! I remember saying that to my DV support worker. One punch is enough

  • @LorBell
    @LorBell 9 місяців тому +144

    "He only hit me once and it was only because I wouldn't calm down." Sheeeesh. Well, just looking at her says it all. She's shell-shocked, terrified, walking on eggshells, and has no spirit.

    • @blondecat666
      @blondecat666 9 місяців тому +45

      You don't even need to be a psychologist to see she is terrorized. Plus, even if it was 'just one' (which I simply don't believe), it is one more than enough.

    • @deanthornby2026
      @deanthornby2026 9 місяців тому +21

      That's just how he likes her ...

    • @homeless_greg_games
      @homeless_greg_games 9 місяців тому +9

      Sounds bad but who knows she might be being truthful. Maybe she told her neighbour about that incident and wanted to get it out first.

    • @blondecat666
      @blondecat666 9 місяців тому +10

      @@jigglchoo8858 No 2nd chances for physical violence. And who said anything about estranging kids? Just because the parents are divorced, why would the kids be estranged from their father? (Even though who hits other paople is not deserving anything, let alone to be a dad.)

    • @Guvnor100
      @Guvnor100 9 місяців тому +13

      All the galaxy brains in here working out other people's lives. Just remember, none of us knows what goes on behind closed doors. Stop making assumptions.

  • @lesleyallinson8738
    @lesleyallinson8738 8 місяців тому +23

    Am sorry but the couple from Canada, if I lived next door I would be complaining about the mess too. And the noise from the animals they keep sorry to say the property is a big mess.
    I am surprised the landlord isn't involved to make them tidy up the garden, etc. Even housing associations would have told them they need to clean the whole property up or they could be evicted

  • @homeless_greg_games
    @homeless_greg_games 9 місяців тому +90

    The Canadian lady keeps changing the rules ! Must enjoy the whole process!

    • @imhere8380
      @imhere8380 8 місяців тому +8

      deport them.

    • @gillianbrookwell1678
      @gillianbrookwell1678 7 місяців тому

      Canadian Lady; Why don't you take your family and move back to Canada.

    • @ophiecat
      @ophiecat 7 місяців тому +8

      @@imhere8380~ We don’t want them back.

    • @philipjohnkaye8890
      @philipjohnkaye8890 7 місяців тому +8

      Narcissists move the goal posts all the time.

  • @shayleenjoubert2008
    @shayleenjoubert2008 9 місяців тому +11

    I would hate to have that untidy unkept canadian garden next to my beautiful neat clean english country garden.😂lol

  • @hoosierladyus48
    @hoosierladyus48 7 місяців тому +51

    Hazel to me is like an entitled person. No one tells her what to say or do. There is no reason why she can't move that tower the kids climb on. I like this man who is mediating. I know that both sides have said and done things they shouldn't have done, but in all honesty, Hazel seems like the big problem.

  • @RobMFC93
    @RobMFC93 7 місяців тому +12

    The colonel is bowing down to that witches demand. Poor old Jamie getting rinsed by Hazel. She's generally everyone's worst nightmare.

    • @Mumasarah
      @Mumasarah 3 місяці тому

      Yeah colonel is a bit cr@py..1st time i have seen this show.. he doesnt seem diplomatic or good at negotiations

  • @thescottishbawbag
    @thescottishbawbag 9 місяців тому +14

    She's only 42...nah never...and how did I get from boxing to this mad patter??

  • @cloo6984
    @cloo6984 9 місяців тому +45

    They gave Hazel way too much control and leverage in this situation!! I dont see a happy middle ground..only Hazel controlling the entire situation.

    • @gillianbrookwell1678
      @gillianbrookwell1678 7 місяців тому +9

      Hazel is a control freak and a narcissist.

    • @AA-uf3bl
      @AA-uf3bl 7 місяців тому +3

      True, albeit she's the culprit.

    • @lynnwhitchelo
      @lynnwhitchelo 6 місяців тому

      Evoct bothfamilies and rehouse them

    • @lynnwhitchelo
      @lynnwhitchelo 6 місяців тому

      Evict both families rehoouse them maria

    • @lynnwhitchelo
      @lynnwhitchelo 6 місяців тому

      16:36

  • @MultiPurplemist
    @MultiPurplemist 9 місяців тому +56

    "Oh go have a bath" that got me 😂😂😂😂

    • @staceyd7986
      @staceyd7986 8 місяців тому +2

      They look like they smell of rancid potato water and cat piss

    • @Claire-es6hz
      @Claire-es6hz 8 місяців тому +3

      😂😂😂

    • @hoosierladyus48
      @hoosierladyus48 7 місяців тому +2

      🛀😂🤣

    • @allyw1364
      @allyw1364 7 місяців тому +2

      And a Haircut maybe and a Nose Job too? Lol
      😜

    • @toadinthehole8085
      @toadinthehole8085 7 місяців тому +2

      He is right going on TV without socks on with hair that hasn't seen a hair comb in quite soon time . And they are oblivious. Dirty people

  • @honeybee4645
    @honeybee4645 7 місяців тому +37

    Hazel needs to be on
    " neighbours from Hell"
    Even her hubby falls in line with her 😂

  • @nukeacitrus883
    @nukeacitrus883 7 місяців тому +5

    "Bob meets Martin... in a field (?), to find out what he's discovered."
    😆😆😆

    • @skywolfx76
      @skywolfx76 6 місяців тому +1

      Martin is a bit of a goofy one 😂

  • @gottabesometime6632
    @gottabesometime6632 9 місяців тому +23

    If ever there was another rerun of The WIZARD OF OZ, ...PLEASE PLEASE CAST HAZEL as the Wicked Witch, no stage makeup or play-acting required.

    • @loulou82-ql1ob
      @loulou82-ql1ob 9 місяців тому +5

      That nose is perfect for the role. Definitely no makeup needed 🤣🤣🤣

    • @olepammy5830
      @olepammy5830 8 місяців тому +1

      You going to ignore the DV next door then?

    • @catbishop27
      @catbishop27 6 місяців тому

      The hook nose and all! And your little dog too!!!

  • @AuntBee59
    @AuntBee59 7 місяців тому +10

    The one neighbors yard is so messy. That would be Hazels house. I would be upset about that. That house is messy inside and out.
    The person who rents that house to that family needs to kick them out.

  • @ToxicVaccines_HivHoax
    @ToxicVaccines_HivHoax 9 місяців тому +27

    Don't these people know that life is finite. Meaning it will end some day.
    Why waste precious time arguing with neighbours over nothing? 🤷‍♂️

  • @jeremycairns8097
    @jeremycairns8097 8 місяців тому +9

    A. Why is he wearing a beret? B. Why is he wearing a beret with no cap badge????? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️😂

  • @Kissameassa538
    @Kissameassa538 8 місяців тому +30

    The kid in the red tee made a slashed throat motion. Timeline 18. 16. I have lived with my next door neighbour for 21 years and we even exchange gifts at Christmas. She is wonderful. 🇬🇧❤️

    • @alisonfisher9345
      @alisonfisher9345 7 місяців тому +4

      I have lived next door to my neighbour over 40 years never had a bad word

    • @yvonnesimpson4584
      @yvonnesimpson4584 7 місяців тому +7

      I noticed that child doing the cut throat sign. I wonder which parent taught him that?

    • @Kissameassa538
      @Kissameassa538 7 місяців тому +5

      @@yvonnesimpson4584 So disgusting for a child so young. If that had been either of my sons there would have been repercussions. I don’t mean anything physical but definitely consequences. 😤😤

  • @buskingkarma2503
    @buskingkarma2503 7 місяців тому +6

    Seeing there house made me think it was one of those shows,where they go in and help them clean their house!

  • @cyberprince8272
    @cyberprince8272 7 місяців тому +60

    As an Australian 🇦🇺 those Canadians need to go back to Canada and stop bullying those British citizens in their own country. Absolutely disgraceful. And to fly a Canadian flag in Britain. Why on earth are these Canadians living in Britain for.

    • @ophiecat
      @ophiecat 7 місяців тому +23

      Firstly, we do not want them back. And secondly, I live in Vancouver and see many different flags flying in people’s yards. They are proud of where they have come from and it really is no big deal. The Jacobsons were flying those flags to annoy their neighbours, not for a sense of pride.

    • @elizabethsmith3374
      @elizabethsmith3374 7 місяців тому +4

      I live in the US so does my family and when I went to visit some family on vacation I saw someone close to our independence day flying the British flag I think this was at the time of Jubliee I was okay with it but my one of my family memeber's who lived in that neighborhood was up in arms about it. Its just a simple thing as long as its not disrespectful or a flag flown in a manner that is morally wrong in that country I don't see the issue

    • @lemlematta229
      @lemlematta229 7 місяців тому +2

      Hello we have British living in Canada too bye the way Canadian are very peaceful people
      It’s must be the British fault

    • @funDAYsmiling
      @funDAYsmiling 7 місяців тому +3

      I hate that crap too with the flag. I'm a French Canadian who has lived in South Florida my entire life and love my blue Quebecois flag but wouldn't dream of flying it ANYWHERE! Thankfully, the many Canadian owned businesses where I'm from do fly the Fleur de lis or red maple but it really is rude for everyone to be flying their country of origins' flags while being guests in others' countries.

    • @funDAYsmiling
      @funDAYsmiling 7 місяців тому

      There's a lot of cute Australian girls here in Florida too.

  • @garbostyle1
    @garbostyle1 7 місяців тому +88

    The Canadian Karen doesn't want peace, if she did she'd move that platform she built purely to spy on and annoy her neighbors. It's such a simple thing and she refuses. I'd be annoyed and pissed if I went through the bother and expense of putting up a privacy fence and my neighbor immediately built a platform so that they could stare at me . I wouldn't be very nice if everytime I was in my yard the neighbor's kids heads popped up staring at me like a bunch of prairie dogs or meerkats. Everyone is entitled to enjoy their yard and their privacy.

    • @pookiewasere
      @pookiewasere 7 місяців тому +6

      I would have just built a higher platform in the same spot hahaha

    • @kenya9540
      @kenya9540 7 місяців тому

      She was a nasty woman.

    • @catbishop27
      @catbishop27 6 місяців тому +3

      Meerkats indeed! Great analogy 😂

    • @beaulieuc8910
      @beaulieuc8910 6 місяців тому

      Karen is a nice name not a misogynist insult, be the change you want to see

    • @garbostyle1
      @garbostyle1 6 місяців тому +2

      @@beaulieuc8910 yea, yea, yea, puppies, kittens and rainbows but the real world isn't like that, what are you smoking? Worry about your words and stop trying to tell other people how to think, feel and speak, KAREN.

  • @melanietebbutt3618
    @melanietebbutt3618 9 місяців тому +18

    I want to know how they can afford to rent a lovely property in the countryside when neither the guy or his partner work?

    • @user-cy4vw1qj9m
      @user-cy4vw1qj9m 7 місяців тому

      It's none of your business but for your information the houses may be council houses.

    • @lolorick5885
      @lolorick5885 7 місяців тому +3

      The houses were not council houses, if you had of took more notice, the Commander went to visit the landlord owner Phillip Taylor, to see what he might know? 11:51

    • @chickadee317
      @chickadee317 7 місяців тому

      I'd love to know too, literally my dream to find an affordable property out in the sticks.

    • @marylyn66
      @marylyn66 Місяць тому

      Jamie having a back injury, he could be on a pension or received a settlement.

  • @woodwage7988
    @woodwage7988 9 місяців тому +50

    Really came out of this one that Hazel thinks holyier than thou..
    Maybe if she'd spend alittle more time housecleaning, she'd hear less, see less and spend more quality time with her family..But..it does take 2 to Tango...

    • @cloo6984
      @cloo6984 9 місяців тому +4

      Oh yes, Hazel is something else. Almost as if she is projecting onto Jamie. Not giving an inch..only wanting to control everyone and everything. "Her way, or the highway"..

    • @Loumains
      @Loumains 9 місяців тому +2

      Hazel and her husband are definitely exuding themselves to be the aggressors you can see the blonde woman how destressed she has been over it all the Canadians seen to think they can come here in U.K. and do what they want 😡

    • @timothywait9457
      @timothywait9457 9 місяців тому +2

      @@Loumains correct Americans are better we have American 's next door

  • @lucyfox8298
    @lucyfox8298 7 місяців тому +13

    Hazel called the neighbor a coward, if anyone is a coward it's Hazels husband.

  • @Artemis_jay
    @Artemis_jay 6 місяців тому +2

    Think I’ve seen my neighbor in the apt directly across from me like 5-6 times in 4 years and it’s always just a “hello” and move on… that’s how i like it personally. No strings no drama lol

  • @carolesigrist3780
    @carolesigrist3780 7 місяців тому +29

    How can an ex army officer compare a pathetic neighbour dispute compare it to a war zone 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

    • @albertafarmer8638
      @albertafarmer8638 7 місяців тому +1

      He probably never had to go to war...

    • @boo4677
      @boo4677 6 місяців тому

      It’s probably worse to be honest because the people who are in the war zone want something. Rather then wanting to be 100% right

    • @Jo-yp8wy
      @Jo-yp8wy 6 місяців тому

      He has obviously no experience of dealing with families. Why and how is he relevant?

    • @simonmockford7090
      @simonmockford7090 6 місяців тому

      It makes interesting telly...

    • @Patriot-js6jz
      @Patriot-js6jz 2 місяці тому

      I see your point but the guy is actually a really distinguished officer, check out his Wikipedia page

  • @rodpettet2819
    @rodpettet2819 9 місяців тому +15

    Seems to me that Hazel is the real problem.

  • @lesleymcshanemitchell9651
    @lesleymcshanemitchell9651 9 місяців тому +41

    By Protocal The British Flag should be Flying 1st and the Canadian below it. Him being a Teacher should know this is the correct way to fly a flag

    • @sandrafinbar
      @sandrafinbar 9 місяців тому +10

      Yes, but they don't care and are arrogant. They are an awful couple.

    • @southparkfirefly
      @southparkfirefly 9 місяців тому +7

      @@sandrafinbar Broke the Stereotype that all Canadians are polite lol

    • @melaniewalker5226
      @melaniewalker5226 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@southparkfireflyyes, I was under that impression too.

    • @kburke9615
      @kburke9615 7 місяців тому +1

      As a Canadian I would never fly the Cdn flag outside if I was living in another country. I think it's so disrespectful.

    • @skywolfx76
      @skywolfx76 6 місяців тому

      ​@@kburke9615it's not disrespectful persay, it's more obnoxious. There's not really a need to show how patriotic you are in this country

  • @juliee.7072
    @juliee.7072 7 місяців тому +68

    Hazel's a troublemaker. Look at the pinched and peevish look that has griwn on herface over the years. She likes pushing Jamie's buttons, making him lose his temper and react to her daily microaggressions, she seems to have the police on speed dial. Not someone I'd like to live next to.

    • @Grimzoid
      @Grimzoid 7 місяців тому +12

      That's why she looks 62 instead of the 42 she claims to be, and the garden 😮.

    • @Mumasarah
      @Mumasarah 3 місяці тому

      100% spot on. Vile human being. Dirty too..bet she stinks

  • @sicks6six
    @sicks6six 7 місяців тому +7

    Don't get to close to your neighbours or they won't be your neighbours.

  • @needmoreramsay
    @needmoreramsay 9 місяців тому +28

    Its obvious the unemployed alleged wife beater is obviously physically threatening the children. His massive size and the fact he was a bouncer also speaks to the fact he likes to use size and intimidation to control people.

    • @melaniewalker5226
      @melaniewalker5226 7 місяців тому +5

      There's a burning pot of rage under that man. In my opinion.
      He has a very threatening stance.

    • @marylyn66
      @marylyn66 Місяць тому

      I agree. And Hazel is not the sort to watch or listen to her neighbor be bullied by her partner.

  • @mariewolton7027
    @mariewolton7027 9 місяців тому +40

    The drilling was their downfall - she tripped up and forgot the lie. Nasty people! All she did was threaten violence if she didn't get her way! The UN guy should treat both sides the same - he thanks Hazel for everything but not Jaime when he agrees to something.

    • @victoriajane9163
      @victoriajane9163 9 місяців тому +6

      I know Jamie grey and confirm he is a bully, he and another man who is now zoeys bf beat my daughter up , because my daughter told him not to film her 7 year old son.

    • @jimm8745
      @jimm8745 9 місяців тому +10

      Her husband also caught himself in a lie claiming that their kids had been terrorised so badly by the neighbour that they had to "look if he was outside" before they wanted to go out. At the same time as they had constructed a freaking watch tower used by their kids to stand on to look into the neighbours yard after the neighbour built a high fence so he didn't have to see them.
      So neither his kids, nor they seemed that concerned about the alleged gestures. Instead they made literally EVERYTHING in their power to maintain a conflict.

    • @meanlean3095
      @meanlean3095 9 місяців тому +2

      The Canadian way is to watch you’re neighbour so what did they expect ?

    • @katryna192
      @katryna192 9 місяців тому +1

      Hazel is a nut job

    • @katryna192
      @katryna192 9 місяців тому +5

      Jamie has done bad things in the past but what has this to do with this , and do not say he was a bouncer so he was trouble from the start, my good friend died he was a bouncer and was hit in the head with a stilloto, look it up Redcar top deck

  • @mark89p
    @mark89p 9 місяців тому +10

    i thought Canadians were supposed to be polite, this one is a poison dartfrog!

  • @tracypark656
    @tracypark656 7 місяців тому +7

    I don’t see why they move here and trash a home as well as being such a nuisance

  • @tammyboatrite9512
    @tammyboatrite9512 7 місяців тому +9

    He slapped her yeah that’s a nice guy 😂

    • @grandmasashes0
      @grandmasashes0 4 місяці тому

      It wasn’t him, it was the Stella’s

  • @trishlong8835
    @trishlong8835 9 місяців тому +27

    Funny how Jamie wasn’t limping etc when his temper kicked in isn’t it.I’ve been in a DV. Relationship and can spot an abuser a mile off.He’s an abuser aright

    • @jeffsmith2144
      @jeffsmith2144 9 місяців тому +1

      Exactly what they said about witches 😮.

  • @rebeccaandrews8834
    @rebeccaandrews8834 8 місяців тому +6

    The "go have a bath" is worth sticking around for lol at 29:12

  • @laurieday9976
    @laurieday9976 7 місяців тому +12

    The Canadians have crazy written all over them. Especially Hazel.

  • @Autonomous1969
    @Autonomous1969 8 місяців тому +8

    Just watched the first few minutes and I can clearly tell they are not telling the full story.

  • @olepammy5830
    @olepammy5830 8 місяців тому +16

    Sorry a doorman??? That peace loving, reasonable profession. The way he speaks, everything screams controlling. His wife is scared of him, DV is obvious.

    • @grandmasashes0
      @grandmasashes0 4 місяці тому

      Are you ok? Just because of his profession doesn’t mean he’s controlling and abusive…. The Canadian Karen is the problem here. He seems to be a reasonable and tolerant bloke.

  • @r1pwave
    @r1pwave 7 місяців тому +10

    Only in England do you need a UN military negotiator to resolve a neighbour dispute! 😂

    • @Outnumberedbykidsandcats
      @Outnumberedbykidsandcats 5 місяців тому

      Not even remotely true. Americans and everywhere else have their fair share of crazy neighbours.

  • @aprilapril2
    @aprilapril2 7 місяців тому +8

    Zoe looks an awful lot older than her years

    • @Pussycatwhiskers
      @Pussycatwhiskers 6 місяців тому

      @@cataliaishere😂😂 yep I thought she was 62 not 42 😂😂😂 no wonder she is a bitter nasty woman 😂😂😂

  • @FielDofroses-bv1jx
    @FielDofroses-bv1jx 7 місяців тому +5

    At the time 2:45 in the story, the man illustrating his neighbour made me laugh. This is a work de - stresser for sure. How could I not subscribe? Laughter is the cure for so many things.

  • @Abc-li1ij
    @Abc-li1ij 9 місяців тому +10

    The 2 clowns making this documentary makes it seem like the whole thing is a spoof

  • @paulcooke8542
    @paulcooke8542 7 місяців тому +4

    The 1970s want there clothes back

  • @grahamlonghurst1227
    @grahamlonghurst1227 7 місяців тому +7

    Hazel was the problem. Her way or the Highway

  • @0170barney
    @0170barney 7 місяців тому +3

    Looks like a documentary from 90's

  • @eileensheeran4464
    @eileensheeran4464 7 місяців тому +3

    6 months later the Canadians are on crimecall lol

  • @louisegethin9951
    @louisegethin9951 8 місяців тому +23

    SUCH A BEAUTIFUL PLACE TO LIVE AND ALL THEM KIDS ,,,, HOW SAD THESE ADULTS MAKE SUCH A MESS OF IT ALL

    • @Teenywing
      @Teenywing 7 місяців тому +1

      Why are you shouting? Or is your comment so much more important than everyone else so you need to put it in all caps?

    • @Lichtersee
      @Lichtersee 4 місяці тому

      @@TeenywingKaren

  • @kevincourtney7312
    @kevincourtney7312 7 місяців тому +8

    I never liked sharing a wall in my house with the neighbors. I've lived in apartments and three town homes and I'll never do it again. I guess I had a long learning curve but I can't believe they built this kind of home out in the country. It makes no sense to have a duplex or townhome in an area where there's so much space to build. I was in a home once where family had both sides and had a doorway built between the two units and even they had a lock on the door for privacy.

  • @robynwilles372
    @robynwilles372 9 місяців тому +36

    Landlord should evict the Canadians...the state of the yards are day and night... imagine immigranting to another country and treating locals and other people's property in such a way ...disgrracful...involve council etc surely they are breaking rules re the disgusting conditions they are keeping those animals in...

    • @imhere8380
      @imhere8380 9 місяців тому +1

      Sounds like the English when they colonized other countries. Yet, I see your point too.

    • @robynwilles372
      @robynwilles372 9 місяців тому +4

      @@imhere8380 💯 agree... I'm Aussie so appreciate the English elements....just don't understand the self importance of many humans...

    • @personalcheeses8073
      @personalcheeses8073 8 місяців тому

      @@imhere8380They might have English ancestry themselves

    • @imhere8380
      @imhere8380 8 місяців тому

      That is what the European settlers did when they went on to Palestine, raising their fist and smashing it into a 20th c thriving society, murdering and displacing the locals forever.

    • @aprilapril2
      @aprilapril2 7 місяців тому +4

      They’re using the garden as a garden should be used! Chickens and growing stuff…. Just having Lawns alone is utterly pointless

  • @lmstuber6044
    @lmstuber6044 9 місяців тому +9

    Just had this with my neighbour for 4 years, neighbour 40 year old bloke playing. Load music for 10 hours a day on his own drinking all day, every day of the week, 27 emails to Croydon council thay done f### all, 3 calls to the police thay done nothing.Had to move in the end.

  • @donnaburrows9236
    @donnaburrows9236 9 місяців тому +7

    Scruffy house and garden 😮

  • @tinylove1979
    @tinylove1979 7 місяців тому +8

    27 minutes in... Im wondering if its cos Hazel and jamie once had a horrible drunk fumble and theyre trying to cover it up by using all the hostility! But really, they were once ATTRACTED!
    But seriously i feel for Zoe the most, she looks an absolute nervous wreck between all these agressive people. And why has Hazel got too much power? Shes loving the power!
    Also what year was this?! The hairstyles and outfits are blimmin excellent

  • @MrFiftymill
    @MrFiftymill 9 місяців тому +10

    On first guess seems like hazel and co are aggressive. Both need a clean up

  • @merseymoto9501
    @merseymoto9501 9 місяців тому +12

    Why did they meet in a field 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @maryearll3359
      @maryearll3359 7 місяців тому

      Neutral territory of course. Why else ?

  • @itsoccamsrazor
    @itsoccamsrazor 7 місяців тому +4

    I wonder what the libellous claim was?!

  • @rozbeaumont
    @rozbeaumont 9 місяців тому +7

    i lived in kent. a little village winchett hill. i loved it.10 houses but we lived in the lodge we had 2 acres of ground

  • @mirandawrights3196
    @mirandawrights3196 9 місяців тому +24

    Can anyone guess what Hazel's real name is?
    Hint: It begins with a K & ends with an n

    • @sandrafinbar
      @sandrafinbar 9 місяців тому +1

      lol

    • @AdelineCowgirl
      @AdelineCowgirl 8 місяців тому +3

      Karen is an actual name of real people who are reading this. Karen is not an insult. You're no better than a bully. Grow up.

    • @staceyd7986
      @staceyd7986 8 місяців тому +6

      I thought it began with C and ended with T 😂

    • @karenglenn6707
      @karenglenn6707 8 місяців тому +1

      @@AdelineCowgirlI’m reading this and am so sick of people assuming that they are funny and original for their “Karen” comments. Like we haven’t heard it before because everyone thinks that they are funny (they are not). I don’t care what her name is, I’m just glad that I don’t live near them. Ps I have never behaved like an entitled person in my life, my mother would still get me with the wooden spoon. Usually people,who have been brought up,to,be accountable and have consequences do not behave like entitled brats!

    • @lackerbitandersson6241
      @lackerbitandersson6241 7 місяців тому

      Typical old " blame it all on a woman with balls" comment ..

  • @YougrowgirlUK
    @YougrowgirlUK 6 місяців тому +3

    The colonel is as useful as a chocolate teapot

  • @ElyHayz
    @ElyHayz 7 місяців тому +7

    As the investigators said, both are as bad as each other! But I also agree that Zoe is cowed by her husband. IF Zoe lied to Hazel about the abuse, Hazel supported and then Zoe denied she’d said it, I’d be pretty miffed too if I were Hazel and Zoe is making her out to be a liar

  • @hrtdinasaurette3020
    @hrtdinasaurette3020 9 місяців тому +41

    Most large families I know would give a lot to live in such a beautiful and spacious environment. The helicopter shot showed who was more appreciative and respectful of their good luck. Putting up that decking/Wendy house where they did was not for the benefit of their kids, who would’ve enjoyed it anywhere in that huge, unkempt, garden. Lesson learned : always be polite to your neighbours but don’t get too involved. However, when you have school age kids this becomes tricky to say the least. You are a role model for them and “monkey see, monkey do”. Do not make the mistake of initial interaction with people like Canadian Karen, you can spot em a mile off. Avoid at all costs.

    • @nicolasmalley306
      @nicolasmalley306 7 місяців тому +7

      Exactly right . Why build the platform up against the fence when you have acres of alternative space ?

  • @ABeautfulMess
    @ABeautfulMess 7 місяців тому +2

    In America we no longer talk to our neighbors. Lmao

  • @privatepracticepsychologis4115
    @privatepracticepsychologis4115 9 місяців тому +43

    Seriously? A UN commander and his mate in a helicopter? They hardly represent a threat to National security 😂 Who’s paying for all of this??? This is farcical 😅

    • @hablosinglais-ld1dx
      @hablosinglais-ld1dx 9 місяців тому

      hes stealing work from brian cockeril

    • @angelau1194
      @angelau1194 9 місяців тому

      And who dressed him up in the faux army uniform - he looks like a bit of a dick

    • @melaniewalker5226
      @melaniewalker5226 7 місяців тому

      The un are not who you think they are. You should go take a look on the site.

    • @avalondreaming1433
      @avalondreaming1433 7 місяців тому +1

      We have drones now you know. Lol

    • @missymarie2698
      @missymarie2698 7 місяців тому

      This is pre drones.

  • @JVSwailesBoudicca
    @JVSwailesBoudicca 6 місяців тому +2

    I can clearly see now why I would never consider buying a semi detached house !

  • @johnlennox-pe2nq
    @johnlennox-pe2nq 10 місяців тому +32

    If the car lights were kicked in surely they kept the evidence/took pictures. The bouncer's temper does indicate something more. The Canadian woman was stupid to interfere with the couples relationship - always a bad move with a next door neighbour; people are fickle and changeable, ie, the blonde woman in this case....
    that's why the bouncer hates the outspoken Canadian wife

    • @imnosuperman9935
      @imnosuperman9935 9 місяців тому +9

      100% agree John!

    • @kathyhellberg
      @kathyhellberg 7 місяців тому +2

      I learned that years ago do not get involved in neighbours domestics or take sides especially where violence is concerned

  • @amybaby04
    @amybaby04 7 місяців тому +4

    I love how neither one will admit to being assholes 😂

  • @OliviaJones-jn7mo
    @OliviaJones-jn7mo 6 місяців тому +12

    One slap is one slap too many mate, NEVER put your hands on a woman (or anyone) especially in anger. Nobody calms down after being slapped unless they're scared of you. She's clearly a very nervous and emotional person. I don't know anything about their situation to speculate, but the fact he said "no,never" and she said "it was just once to calm me down' makes me fel very concerned fo her.

    • @simonmockford7090
      @simonmockford7090 6 місяців тому +1

      I agree but everyone is different and react differently. Dont sit in your ivory tower and tell everyone how it should be.

    • @dananola
      @dananola 6 місяців тому +2

      I don't believe either of them. I think that it was more than "one slap". They are hiding something.

  • @mohamedmiah7094
    @mohamedmiah7094 10 місяців тому +13

    I blame the fence

    • @seankingsirtarquin6412
      @seankingsirtarquin6412 10 місяців тому +5

      Me too. That fence looked suspicious.

    • @MUFC1933
      @MUFC1933 10 місяців тому +1

      I blame you
      😅😅😅😅❤

    • @JezaJames
      @JezaJames 9 місяців тому +1

      The evil fence spawned a kids cubby-hut to continue it's evil ways. :)

    • @Hereford567
      @Hereford567 9 місяців тому +2

      I’m blaming myself on this one for watching this drivel.

    • @BossySwan
      @BossySwan 9 місяців тому +2

      No need to take a fence

  • @jopeskett144
    @jopeskett144 9 місяців тому +7

    He’s got a bad temper and plus he’s angry that he can’t do much because his back problems he seems a bully to me

  • @thepickledfish3631
    @thepickledfish3631 7 місяців тому +4

    Seems to me that a woman wanted help with her abusive husband to stop being abused and it all got out of hand.

  • @sirdigbyminge1639
    @sirdigbyminge1639 9 місяців тому +6

    You're only renting. Move. Life's too short.

  • @sandraskellen3172
    @sandraskellen3172 9 місяців тому +5

    Why are there no security cameras on the properties??????????

  • @darlenelim8972
    @darlenelim8972 7 місяців тому +4

    Hazel is so 'un-Canadian' lol

    • @seawitchpirates9871
      @seawitchpirates9871 6 місяців тому

      I was thinking the same thing. Canadians are supposed to be overly nice.

  • @andystm
    @andystm 9 місяців тому +5

    Lol is the helicopter really necessary

  • @zech5054
    @zech5054 7 місяців тому

    I kept rewinding it at 2 mins 49 seconds 🤣 ole man had me hollerin 🤣🤣

  • @serena_observes84
    @serena_observes84 7 місяців тому +9

    Although the Canadians are messy and whatnot, I totally believe the fact that the British wife complained that her husband was violent with her

  • @simonabbott725
    @simonabbott725 9 місяців тому +8

    At war with neighbours and corrupt housing associations my life story

  • @deedeewinfrey3181
    @deedeewinfrey3181 7 місяців тому +3

    Hes mad because he got caught abusing his wife.

  • @bjs7385
    @bjs7385 8 місяців тому +4

    She is not 32 add at least another 10 yrs....

  • @MAGAIMMUNEMOMMA-in1yy
    @MAGAIMMUNEMOMMA-in1yy 11 днів тому +1

    Always be kind to your neighbor because you don't know when you may need their help.

  • @Mandaxx25
    @Mandaxx25 9 місяців тому +6

    2:48 is getting replayed more than once

    • @kittykat8177
      @kittykat8177 8 місяців тому

      lol, u made me look and u made me laff, meme 4 sure 🤣😂😅

  • @Tammissa
    @Tammissa 7 місяців тому +6

    Jamie is the aggressor. He has a temper. He’s home all day with nothing else to do except obsess over his neighbors.

  • @garulusglandarius6126
    @garulusglandarius6126 9 місяців тому +28

    I think Zoe was afraid that Hazel was going to reveal what Zoe told her about Jamie’s abuse. Jamie’s a bully for sure in my opinion, Zoe came across as terrified of him. I wouldn’t want either couple as neighbours except maybe Zoe.

    • @rachelhart3531
      @rachelhart3531 7 місяців тому +3

      This was my thought. It’s telling to me that Jaime is so focused on Hazel and not anyone else. A lot of abusers present themselves as very calm and reasonable in front of strangers.
      Also notice that when the military guy asked if Jaime if he loses his temper in a much more general sense and then Jaime and Zoe made it about wether or not he was violent towards her? That was a tell,military guy didn’t actually ask if Jaime hits Zoe. Zoe was terrified of the consequences of what would happen if Hazel was to ask her about it, not of Hazel herself but Jamie’s reaction. It was never Hazel that Zoe was afraid of.This is an old show and I can only hope that Zoe and hear kids got away.

  • @AA-uf3bl
    @AA-uf3bl 7 місяців тому +3

    *Their landlord should issue them a notice of repossession of properties, and this would bring their protracted bickering to an end.*

  • @heatherlennox3695
    @heatherlennox3695 7 місяців тому +5

    Fast-growing and able to reach over 20 feet in height, ... and fast growth rate make golden bamboo a great choice for a dramatic hedge or living privacy fence.