The female attraction. The failure. The fall.

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  • @EdwardAshdown
    @EdwardAshdown Місяць тому +94

    Discovering the hard way that the JudaeoChristian ethic of sex within marriage is literally the optimal arrangement created as such by God as a gift. Vulnerable sharing!

    • @phillipjordan1010
      @phillipjordan1010 Місяць тому

      Judeo Christianity hates sex and hates nature. Judeo Christian ideology is about hating your entire existence. Satan is your true nature. Embrace that and never submit 💪

    • @Anonymous15-m4d
      @Anonymous15-m4d Місяць тому +12

      Christ is God ☝️✝️💪❤️

    • @sensualmunching8056
      @sensualmunching8056 Місяць тому

      Juedo Christianty lol those are man made concepts #emberassing

    • @MikeV8652
      @MikeV8652 Місяць тому +5

      Yes! Engage in a sexual relationship only with a woman with whom you have mutually vowed exclusivity.

    • @jorgeemilio5292
      @jorgeemilio5292 Місяць тому +1

      that includes islam

  • @themosthighs-a-v
    @themosthighs-a-v Місяць тому +71

    The greatest power a woman can ever have is the ability to cooperate nurture and strengthen a man. If she doesn’t have the mindset of wanting to make you even more powerful than you already are. She isn’t the one.

  • @_nazv
    @_nazv Місяць тому +17

    Agree bro. I was retaining my seed for about 2 years. Last year i met a woman, we dated for about 8 months and she drained all my energy. I cut ties with her a while ago but i was mad at myself for allowing this. I knew better but i let the lust creep in. She took me away from my purpose and it was so energetically draining. I didnt even recognize myself. I finally feel like myself again but man it felt like the matrix when they put the woman in red in front of Neo. If you read this stay focused and dont get caught lacking for one second because you can really get set back in life with or without you realizing it!

    • @richierich1674
      @richierich1674 Місяць тому

      Twice recently, friends of mine have told me that they'd just started relationships. Both had reached a point about a month in, when they suddenly realised that they'd somehow quit everything they'd always enjoyed doing.
      For one, he just asked himself one day, why the fuck am I just sat on the sofa with her eating crisps?
      He'd quit the gym, martial arts, meditation and countless other healthy habits.
      The other had quit the HIIT classes that were essential for his physical and mental health.
      Both are single again, the latter is now prioritising foreign travel with his homies.

  • @Enigm3
    @Enigm3 Місяць тому +77

    If you’re a HARD 5 than we’re ALL cooked…
    Remember your own advice man, be more easy on yourself, don’t let yourself be the biggest obstacle in your journey.
    You’re an ez 8.5

    • @asapmig
      @asapmig Місяць тому +4

      totally agree. i always tell myself i am a 8 and a 9 when i'm rich and there is no 10 bc i need to leave space to improve 😂

    • @melhorfutebol451
      @melhorfutebol451 Місяць тому +4

      You're saying that to cope for yourself 😂😂

    • @asapmig
      @asapmig Місяць тому +4

      @@melhorfutebol451 be ur biggest fan first buddy 😎

    • @melhorfutebol451
      @melhorfutebol451 Місяць тому

      @@asapmig 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @UnknownSouls
      @UnknownSouls Місяць тому

      He's a 10 because God made everyone a 10, don't believe man made society propaganda on physical appearance.

  • @Bigboat-v9q
    @Bigboat-v9q Місяць тому +38

    "Only engage in sexual relationships with a woman that you would equally be willing to offer exclusivity to"

  • @nicosanchez_music
    @nicosanchez_music Місяць тому +35

    Man I relate to this feeling a lot. I’ve been celibate for the last year and half. Been really focusing on my own energy and spiritual growth. It’s attracted certain women, and I actually wonder if sex is something I even want until I find someone I absolutely can trust energetically. Because I don’t wanna go back to how drained I felt when I was dating.
    So I’ve been really been paying attention to energy in possible partners because I will ultimately be mixing energies with them. So i feel overly careful now. In turn I’ve come to see how sexual our society has become.
    So similar to your worry about “will I have sex ever again?” I often feel this in “will I even find someone I can mesh energetically with?” Because I want to be close emotionally, spiritually and energetically. Ty for your vulnerability

    • @bekabeka71
      @bekabeka71 Місяць тому

      Same I’ll only have sex when I’m married I’m 30. Very picky with girls as well id like to create a Christian orthodox family ☦️

  • @Etheric757
    @Etheric757 Місяць тому +22

    I see you putting in work with the content bro. Much respect

  • @itzvirt
    @itzvirt Місяць тому +33

    Your voice gets deeper by the day

    • @iceblu4713
      @iceblu4713 Місяць тому +7

      he's gonna sound like darth vader one day and we won't even notice it 😂

    • @mbeno90
      @mbeno90 Місяць тому

      It's gonna get him laid and he'll brag about it here while thinking he's confessing

    • @interesting2491
      @interesting2491 Місяць тому

      It’s all that fapping he does 3 times a day 💪

  • @TheDPenz
    @TheDPenz Місяць тому +9

    Respect for this level of honesty, transparency and vulnerability. New levels new devil's. Key imo is always to let go of any regret once the lesson has been learnt

  • @shawncoleman2909
    @shawncoleman2909 Місяць тому +8

    Appreciate the transparency of your work man. We all make mistakes when it comes to the primal urges- but it takes wisdom and discipline to correct the error of our ways. Most never even see the folly in these instances. So that in itself is a victory

  • @The2ndCuz
    @The2ndCuz Місяць тому +7

    bro, your not alone...
    all well, best luck. thanks for the upload.

  • @alkebabish
    @alkebabish Місяць тому +21

    This came at the perfect time for me. I had been on a couple of dates with a woman who had the spirit of Jezebel, for sure after 3 years celibacy and 6 months + semen retention. She really took me off balance and I started to become fascinated with her. I was able to resist her but I started to think that I have lost my sexual power and I'm not a real man any more because I'm not seeking sex. Satan was basically telling me, "you are nothing without this", everything else seemed so grey and pointless. This woman seemed like the final boss of all the Jezebel's I've encountered, it's come up in my dreams, caused me cravings to watch porn, traumatic flashbacks and all sorts of stuff.
    I've decided I will only date somebody that I have been friends with for a long time, and I don't get that adrenaline rush / trauma bond / all that stuff.
    Before I started this journey, I never had women approach me or chase me. It has happened in a few times and I was always able to resist, but afterwards I often regretted it and felt I should have slept with them. I think that's like the voice of satan or whatever you want to call it trying to bring me back.
    I don't think your height really affects your "rating" that much, I know a lot of guys who are not so tall who were always extremely popular with women (not that that is a good thing - they were sex addicts). Most women would see you as an 8 + because of your physique and facial features. If you add the magnetism from the celibacy, it isn't really a surprise that they would approach you. It will happen more for sure. I think you already know you don't need them to validate yourself. The fact you see yourself as a 5 makes me suspect you have some kind of inverted pride, and that's what the succubus is feeding on - if you saw yourself as more attractive, it wouldn't be so hard to reject them cos you wouldn't think you were missing a rare chance.

    • @Fictn
      @Fictn Місяць тому +2

      Brother you really have remarkable points ❤

    • @solidshrek
      @solidshrek Місяць тому

      thanks for sharing your story

    • @bekabeka71
      @bekabeka71 Місяць тому

      For real I see below average guys with hot girls 😂

  • @Isnardbeats
    @Isnardbeats Місяць тому +1

    Brother you are living legend and inspiration for me keep it real

  • @VisualizeInside-mt2li
    @VisualizeInside-mt2li Місяць тому +2

    If it means anything: you being honest here today gave me so much more insight, & reminded me of the matrix I'm up against. May you be blessed, brother.

  • @HarimaKenji22
    @HarimaKenji22 Місяць тому +4

    Really appreciate the vulnerability here. thanks for the story telling

  • @npc2525
    @npc2525 Місяць тому +1

    Your videos are better than drugs 💯

  • @jo12eph
    @jo12eph Місяць тому +4

    takes courage being transparent with your impulsive actions; I have a problem with the same thing. Enjoy the content brother 🖤‼️

  • @MrJohnnyDisaster
    @MrJohnnyDisaster 28 днів тому

    I’ll tell you now man, I was drawn in by the sheer vastness of your vocabulary.

  • @aztecalexys
    @aztecalexys Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for sharing and showing us that you are human just like the rest of us. Live and learn. Grow through it or go through it again. I was doing really good for 3 months no PMO and I was on top of my game. I back slid and haven’t been able to get that much time but I’m not going to give up because people like you give me hope

  • @nicholasclark23
    @nicholasclark23 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks for sharing bro, and it sounds like you've extracted some wisdom from that experience which you can impart. I fell prey to the aforementioned temptation recently, so your video helped me understand why I did what I did, so thanks again for this vulnerable post! 👍🏼

  • @danielmathew5008
    @danielmathew5008 Місяць тому

    cried at 2:41...this man knows what we are all going through.

  • @projectnoir3944
    @projectnoir3944 Місяць тому +2

    First time I’ve heard your voice quiver in places. Also you described your previous dates as 1 or 2 foot taller which tells me you were stressed in your thoughts/feelings. Stress is a fucker.
    Bro you’re being hard on yourself. It’s all part of the bigger plan.
    You’re allowed to enjoy yourself because it was meant to be that way.
    Come back to centre and recharge again.
    Had a succubus this year also. All she did was look good and tried to manipulate. I stood strong at the beginning and she wanted me more and more.
    Later when I gave up my diamonds the spark in me and what I’d developed for her and I was lost. It definitely felt like a lost battle.
    But it’s ok…the war is elsewhere and it’s for us to win.
    They want our diamonds for sure.
    This is all a lesson and will only make you better on the next level.

  • @ThisIsFR
    @ThisIsFR Місяць тому

    I haven’t seen you on my feed in a long time. Looking good, Chief

  • @thehillpodcast2497
    @thehillpodcast2497 Місяць тому

    Your authenticity in discussion is appreciated brother. Thank you

  • @asapmig
    @asapmig Місяць тому +1

    saw his latest video on gingseng and got myself some to make tea, and this guy is right on spot. my chi and sexual energy flow is on a complete different level, all this spiritual testosterone blockages from hindering entity's or whatelse got bodyslamed in a ruthless way and the feeling was very conquering. really check his videos, he is most likely always very informative and right without brainwashing himself in some kind of dogma. with all respect, thanks a lot buddy, keep up the work. time to payback! 🎉💯 u doin great

  • @ThePeoplesCorner
    @ThePeoplesCorner Місяць тому

    Thanks for this detailed observations. As I’m going on the journey these are things to keep in mind. Stay strong brotha.

  • @elevatedgame3016
    @elevatedgame3016 Місяць тому

    Youre really glowing in this video bro 💯🔥

  • @SwizzyDae
    @SwizzyDae Місяць тому +1

    14:01 yes, been living w/ this mindset for a few years now, keeps me out of trouble

  • @Whyyoutrade
    @Whyyoutrade Місяць тому

    Relate so much to your mindset overall as a person, and love your channel bro. Keep killing it!

  • @AndrewAngel
    @AndrewAngel Місяць тому

    You are a human, a man. By being vulnerable about your own struggle we are drawn to believe more in your wisdom, that way we can see is not a persona, a character, a clown playing grandiose superiority instead you show us a Real Man, and we appreciate that, thanks Joseph 💪🏾🙏🏾

  • @gostshel88
    @gostshel88 Місяць тому

    Thank you for sharing this!

  • @liesofsociety
    @liesofsociety Місяць тому +1

    Thanks Joseph for this powerful insight. I´m adding that rule to my jedi moral code.

  • @livelikesufi
    @livelikesufi Місяць тому +2

    Marriage=commitment=exclusivity= husband and wife equally are the clothes of each other (Baqarah), chose this cloth wisely as you said. Marriage is important so that you dont feel you are missing something precious. But you need to create a fine line with your spouse regarding the continuity the practice. Thats the hard part. I am still trying to figure it out. May Allah help me.

  • @sebastianhendzel3703
    @sebastianhendzel3703 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for sharing with us Joseph

  • @PhilipBraselmann
    @PhilipBraselmann Місяць тому +2

    Bro became Honda from Street Fighter

  • @wonders8561
    @wonders8561 Місяць тому

    When i made it to 19 months before relapse, I did lose something. When you talked about the Reset about one of your videos it was exactly i felt. I was almost going for another month but my primal urges show up since i couldnt sleep.

  • @Snooploops97
    @Snooploops97 Місяць тому +1

    Dude...thank you so much for sharing this. Like you said before, look at this as a learning experience and an opportunity to acknowledge the fear (or emotion) and not identifying with it. Not many people are willing to admit that they slipped up. Think about it this way...I think you were meant to confront this challenge on your journey sooner or later as an opportunity to gain a greater understanding with sexual abstinence and your relationship overall with women. Because I believe if you didn't, the consequences of giving into your fears would've been much worse. Also...you're being too hard on yourself looks wise, no homo lol.

  • @The_Lazarus_Pit
    @The_Lazarus_Pit Місяць тому +5

    Good hairstyle. I can see that you change how you put your legs while making a video :)

  • @JRESPEAKS
    @JRESPEAKS Місяць тому

    KEEP GOING BROTHER

  • @antonwilson5934
    @antonwilson5934 Місяць тому

    Not even finished but this is great!!!

  • @_RealEyesRealizeRealLies_
    @_RealEyesRealizeRealLies_ Місяць тому +23

    Bro is based,mini gym in his room

    • @MasculineTheory
      @MasculineTheory  Місяць тому +13

      Best decision i've made.

    • @chad7694
      @chad7694 Місяць тому +9

      Just never leave the house theory is legit

    • @MasculineTheory
      @MasculineTheory  Місяць тому +5

      @@chad7694 😂

    • @chad7694
      @chad7694 Місяць тому +3

      @@MasculineTheory 😂

    • @bettercallprady
      @bettercallprady Місяць тому +2

      Wrong. He is the gym. Man got balls of steel.

  • @ThaboAlvarez
    @ThaboAlvarez Місяць тому +1

    I see the PS5 next to the TV, I didn't know you are gamer 😎 🎮😁

  • @larrycheak2133
    @larrycheak2133 Місяць тому

    That's so true I'm going through this now smh. Very scary

  • @Lg-kb7ob
    @Lg-kb7ob Місяць тому

    Just went through the same thing. At a certain level of maturity, sex feels so empty without love.

  • @benevans3142
    @benevans3142 Місяць тому +1

    Uncle Joseph don’t be so hard on yourself !

  • @DennisAdams-p1e
    @DennisAdams-p1e Місяць тому +2

    2:05 In short. Both suffer for God. Love suffers without explanation.

  • @qoldbeats
    @qoldbeats Місяць тому +7

    Seek God and be upright and he will give you your spouse.

    • @bekabeka71
      @bekabeka71 Місяць тому

      How do I choose the right wife potential

    • @qoldbeats
      @qoldbeats Місяць тому

      @ chose a woman that can submit to you as she would to Christ

    • @bekabeka71
      @bekabeka71 Місяць тому

      @ thanks

  • @ÆveHeart
    @ÆveHeart Місяць тому

    Joseph looks like Shakespeare in the thumbnail 🧐🔥💯

  • @DennisAdams-p1e
    @DennisAdams-p1e Місяць тому

    4:28 Say less, let silence echo back and magnify what needs to be taken on and endured.

  • @TheFairUse
    @TheFairUse Місяць тому

    Thanks Bro❕👏🏾🔥

  • @loicgueho4689
    @loicgueho4689 Місяць тому +2

    Thoughtful insight man! Will meditate on the rule of exclusivity

  • @anothertono311
    @anothertono311 Місяць тому

    Hey man love your vids, have you considered uploading to spotify? I like hearing your videos but sometimes can't watch when I'm busy, and since its around 20 min I'm sure a lot of people face the same situation it would be really cool listen to you on spotify and certainly you would have success on the platform

  • @kakarot8565
    @kakarot8565 Місяць тому +1

    Joseph, this is very unrelated. Today i wrote my exam. I poured hours into it, and its not that I failed but after this test it really does feel like it. I am very demoralized. I am now lethargic. What i mean to ask:
    How does one deal with failure?

    • @l3lackoutsMedia
      @l3lackoutsMedia Місяць тому +1

      Understanding - void - rebirth (get back up) | order from chaos | The phoenix rises from the ashes

    • @kakarot8565
      @kakarot8565 Місяць тому

      @l3lackoutsMedia Can you explain more?

  • @nooooooooooooooooooooooos
    @nooooooooooooooooooooooos Місяць тому

    Needed said joe and you said it well

  • @LainIwakura-l2b
    @LainIwakura-l2b Місяць тому +2

    5??? Nah we’re cooked 😂

  • @Miguel.T.k
    @Miguel.T.k Місяць тому +1

    Very handsome hairstyle brother

  • @archiemckay5400
    @archiemckay5400 Місяць тому

    This is my thoughts as well.
    I wonder how do men move into the next step going into a relationship?
    My mind going towards learning tantra or something like that because yes I want to retain and yes I want to have sex.
    Many content creators doesn't bring this issue up.
    Lastly, it seems like this situation caught you off guard. I bet the next time you would have a better handle in this situation.
    Don't beat yourself up.

  • @TJAight
    @TJAight Місяць тому

    Bro speaking truth

  • @divinasi0n
    @divinasi0n Місяць тому +1

    Hey, what app do you use to create your AI thumbnails? Thanks.

  • @rob8400
    @rob8400 Місяць тому +2

    You're looking like Jon Snow with every video.

  • @awake4765
    @awake4765 Місяць тому +2

    Bro you are a solid 8 and that's coming from a 7 who transcended to a 10.

  • @themachismomatrix5236
    @themachismomatrix5236 Місяць тому +1

    Surah Isra:
    Do not go near adultery. It is truly a shameful deed and an evil way.
    Surah Yousuf -Quran
    Joseph prayed, "My Lord! I would rather be in jail than do what they invite me to. And if You do not turn their cunning away from me, I might yield to them and fall into ignorance.
    So his Lord Allah responded to him, turning their cunning away from him. Surely He is the All-Hearing, All-Knowing.

  • @loonis6385
    @loonis6385 Місяць тому +1

    If he thinks he's a 5, i wanna see the 8's he's talking about

  • @OG_2006_
    @OG_2006_ Місяць тому

    Sorry man im watching The walking dead but i get what u saying this is next level SR

  • @HaydenSchmidt-yt8up
    @HaydenSchmidt-yt8up Місяць тому

    2:41 real.

  • @ariyanmajidi5849
    @ariyanmajidi5849 Місяць тому

    I have learnt so much from you .
    But i think now i should remind you something, break from shame Joseph.
    In order to be whole you should not aim perfection , you integrate warrior and magician well , its time for you to integrate with lover and king within yourself (pleases read this book , Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine
    Book by Douglas Gillette and Robert L. Moore) it will help you to find your balance.

  • @observerobserved-hg8lz
    @observerobserved-hg8lz Місяць тому

    I don't know about this purpose life.

  • @ngonianesu1159
    @ngonianesu1159 Місяць тому

    Can You talk a little about wet dreams on SR.

  • @AbdullahAteeqSarhalvi
    @AbdullahAteeqSarhalvi Місяць тому

    Joseph, I really like your British. Is that Modern RP? or..?

  • @Pop_it_Abhi
    @Pop_it_Abhi Місяць тому +2

    Bro said these are theories not facts😅

  • @chapas777
    @chapas777 Місяць тому

    Joseph what are your experiences with white tantra? Loveyou, keep it up

  • @jegelskerunited
    @jegelskerunited Місяць тому

    Could be nice to hear your meaning on masculine men having multiple girlfriends

  • @torrey026
    @torrey026 Місяць тому

    Very interesting video! Stay the course and rely that God has the path figured out. Jesus saves!

  • @michaelmoss6590
    @michaelmoss6590 Місяць тому

    Sex is Optional

  • @swarthhy
    @swarthhy Місяць тому

    Joseph in the most objective sense I can possibly utter, you are absolutely not a 5 out of 10 brother. Facially, and physique included, you are easily a 7, and that is whilst being extremely critical.

  • @AwakenedEmptiness
    @AwakenedEmptiness Місяць тому

    Damn Succubi 😅

  • @thankgodetim3620
    @thankgodetim3620 Місяць тому

    you are looking celetial

  • @thomasdevine1822
    @thomasdevine1822 Місяць тому +1

    2 foot taller than you?!

  • @moonborne_364
    @moonborne_364 Місяць тому

    These are theories.. not facts? ok.. :)

  • @DRJEKYLLMRHYDE-td4tr
    @DRJEKYLLMRHYDE-td4tr Місяць тому

    I appreciate this kind of videos from time to time… like two men talking to each other about interesting stuff 🔥🏺🫀🧠