i actually stopped online dating because the amount of texting and energy putting to whats the right text really turns me off. I actually prefer the slow burn relationship where it happens surely and gradually.
Lmao as a introvert and a broke boy, using bumble for the first time was such a alienating experience because of the benefits of paying up than rather having a vanilla profile. Video give ma a reason to never even use them again 😂😂 i never liked using dating apps anyways
I am in the lower percentage of people who met my wife at work, got married and currently am happy. I never did dating apps because it always seemed like a fools bargain and this just breaks that down so perfectly lol I got homies in they 30's still tryna find love online..and while it was possible ( I guess ) you definitely swimming against the current with cinder block shoes To all the young homies, if you see her in real life the rejection aint so bad. In my experience you get alot more play for trying to holla in person. GREAT VIDEO REDUX !
You definitely get a lot farther when you have a conversation with someone in person. I’ve gotten numbers just for talking to them. Does it go anywhere all of the time ? No! But it’s still better than someone eliminating me because I don’t have a bio lol
You right about that, online you just another number but in person they’ll remember your face. Alot of dudes are scared to approach women they lead with they wallet / photos online looking like they got it but got no game irl
Flip side is dickheads making smoochies at single moms walking their kids from school. Like there is 100% a wrong way to holler, and misogynist dudes will still react to the rejection the same as if they been ghosted: violently
Yep! LMFAO. I only found out after I posted this video. This well goes a lot deeper, so If I ever decide to make a part 2 I'm DEFFO including that bullshit
These dating apps are like a shady mechanic. He's decided his best interest isn't in fully fixing your car, but in expecting you to be naive enough to keep bringing it back in to him when something else goes wrong, and not catching on to how a new problem surfaces conveniently after you just got it out of the shop again. These dating apps don't care if you actually make a match. In the same way, they've determined it's best for their bottom line if you pay for the illusion of better chances leading to higher success rates. They can't and don't outright say that anywhere, they let you come to the conclusion on your own. Even if you get more matches, that still doesn't guarantee anything on your end. You're paying for RNG and hoping it turns out good for you. If the RNG was helpful in getting people together they'd have fewer paying customers and eventually dwindling profits. Good thing the game is rigged against all parties involved and the house is the only one guaranteed to win.
I am so glad you are here to stay and will make more videos. I love your channel and will continue to support you. I can not financially because I have 5 children but keep up the good work brother.
Man, everybody caught strays here, but this was spot on. Not to mention hilarious lol. Probably the best analysis of this problem I’ve seen, especially in naming the true culprits in these capitalistic enterprises. Keep making great shit.
New sub here, great content on your channel. Had a few laughs with your delivery, you're a funny guy and awesome topics you are covering. Keep it up ❤💯🔥
I actually matched with my partner on a dating app and we didn't end up even talking. Then we met for real later through friends and political activism and we've been together for 5 years.
Blackish brown and orange. Your analysis is quite fascinatingly complex yet real, comprehensive and necessary. I was just thinking to myself about the sacred love language called "rizz" or "game". These modern terms showcase a distorted reality, when "spitting game" could simply be a way to interact with humility and good reception. Alas when you only have the intent to gain sexual relationships, spitting game has only one sole purpose, which is to get a girl's number, then getting personal enough for a temporary blissfulness. So I feel like it's truly just a natural human activity CALLED socializing that is put within a cynical, greed filled, and loveless society. I'm surprised that hinge or tinder didn't comment their favorite color because we all know it starts with the letter g and it ain't GREY. Loved the video man! Sidenote: I don't think having game is a bad thing, I don't want this comment to come off that way, I'm just saying it shouldn't be gamified(as mentioned in the video), whereas it turns into a transaction and the ONLY focus is to win and avoid losing. This sorta relates to the whole "what do you bring to the table?" argument. Putting into perspective the many different lives, sexualities, cultures and etc. I don't think we need to legitimize love in such ways. In the end it's just a reflection on what society dictates and not us. AKA I got 0 game so I just gotta say fuck the system it is what it is lol. Great video!
Another exquisite banger my brother, you very eloquently expressed my frustrations with this capitalistic dating system we are living under. I for one have always and will continue to refuse to participate in it, even if that means closing off myself from a "potential" partner. Because these companies predicate exactly on that potentiality and our own shortsightedness. I knew I was right to subscribe to you king 👑
I don’t really get the stuck up attitude against people who use dating apps as if meeting someone at a bar is the only way to find “twoo looove”. It’s just another way to meet people. With that said, the monetization is largely bullshit and seems to get more and more expensive with each passing year. I just don’t bother trying to pay for the stuff because it’s not going to help me any more than just engaging with the free version.
Me and my female coworker decided that we wanted to try tinder for a week by the end of the week she had close to a thousand likes and I had less than 50 never used that app again
I didn't realize online dating was gambling x relationships until watching this video. Thankfully, I'm too broke to succumb to this type of gambling addiction.
Never used dating apps, never needed them, also studied media and all that, I stayed for the Brimerican accent?… Ameritish accent?..idk🤣🤣 and the gaming analogies.. I think you finally got through to the boys homie👏🏾👏🏾 nice work
Decent video, but (since nobody else has said it) I feel some of your points started to fall off toward the end. 29:17 "regurgitating their misogyny and chauvinism" nah, while some may do that, the majority usually just preach the message of how online dating is severely unfair and defeating for men. Which it IS. I know you really, *really* tried to stray away from making this point in the video, but it is. An abundance is better than nothing. "Having money's not everything, not having it is." While i don't agree with the misogynistic takes that some of these Podcasters and other men and individuals have, I at least understand how someone can come to those extreme viewpoints. "It's not fair, so why even try?" Or "I don't look a certain way, plus the model system in today's dating world is 'men are candidates, if I'm not perfect for a girl, she can ALWAYS replace me at any point in time' so why do anything?" Or "If I walk up to a girl in the modern day and do something slightly incorrect, I could be labeled as a creep or worse." These are all valid reasons to back up what I had said before. The game is not fair. Having a space where men can talk about it is, albeit a bit depressing, since we can't control anything about the apps or women's preferences, but it is a good way to cope. That's all we can do. Take a shower, get a haircut, get jacked, make money, and if the girl doesn't follow suit somewhere along that process, then you'll have to deal with God knows how many more rejections until one finally decides to settle for you. There's a reason more men are lonelier and have worse social skills nowadays. We're at a crossroads though, one side being to thug it out and see what happens, and the other.... well I guess there is no other. People are going to do whatever they want. So try as we might, it may not ever get better. All you can do is devote yourself to your goals. With, or without a partner. Because in the end, the only person you have, the only person who can get you to do anything, is yourself. And that's how it'll be til you die.
Im currently in a romantic relationship. Love is hard to quantify and it changes over time. But i am in love. I met him through a really good friend (its her cousin)
"Evil Capitalism" is a rendundant phrase. It's like saying "evil satan" or "evil Hitler". Great vid tho, I discovered you through the villain video and I just have to say that my favorite color is red
Dude spent $2500 just to get a date, but that one date will be adamant he has to pay her expenses because she bought a dress 3 months ago and wore it again for the date
@@peeron6829 my current boyfriend. He taught me how to do gauntlet, and somewhere between the "oh shit switch prayer" and "shit I got stomped" panic, I thought I like this guy, he has a good way of dealing with my feelings of stress etc. Actually, my general statement is that I think dating apps and dates are dumb because they feel like the process of job interviews, but anything where you naturally meet a person and have to work with eachother, is probably a good way to meet a person. This is probably why a good amount of couples form at the workplace. I am not yet sure if I find this strategy worth recommending.
Starting a match-making thread. If you’re single shoot your shot here 👇🏿
I can’t find the reddit post!
I’m a get my passport and go date in Columbia
@@bushidomayfield5784 Say less, put my name on the back of that passport so we can run a two man
@@reduxcity you get the front I’ll get the back 😂😂
@@bushidomayfield5784 ....I think you're grossly misinterpreting what I meant by that...
can't wait for my soulmate to stumble across me on the street and immediately fall in love with me. my time is coming fr🙏
same
Thats not how this works
@kamariaxo4711 it will happen, I believe in you and ya future partner 💖✨🙏🏽
Wake up now it's over
This is satire right? But hey, that would be nice!
I got a bumble ad while watching this 😂
I got a hinge ad while watching this too
Same 😭😭😭
Dead ass same 😭😭😭
Got multiple
Same 😂😂😂
Instagram is basically a dating app as well
It’s an OF advertiser
@@the_travelingbreezeso are the dating apps
I let my husband on Instagram !
Same with TikTok
It's pretty much the first thing a lot of people ask for or offer in-person
"You know what 4 letter word these companies care more about love? CASH" 🗣🗣🗣
I heard this in my head as a Migos adlib
People are assyoles
@@CorinthianIvoryMOMMA!! skrrr skrrr ice ice ice
i actually stopped online dating because the amount of texting and energy putting to whats the right text really turns me off. I actually prefer the slow burn relationship where it happens surely and gradually.
This all the way
The definition of insanity is doing something over and over again . Society is insane
Insanity is doing something over and over again expecting a differwnt outcome. What you said is just practice😂
Lmao as a introvert and a broke boy, using bumble for the first time was such a alienating experience because of the benefits of paying up than rather having a vanilla profile. Video give ma a reason to never even use them again 😂😂 i never liked using dating apps anyways
I am in the lower percentage of people who met my wife at work, got married and currently am happy. I never did dating apps because it always seemed like a fools bargain and this just breaks that down so perfectly lol I got homies in they 30's still tryna find love online..and while it was possible ( I guess ) you definitely swimming against the current with cinder block shoes To all the young homies, if you see her in real life the rejection aint so bad. In my experience you get alot more play for trying to holla in person. GREAT VIDEO REDUX !
You definitely get a lot farther when you have a conversation with someone in person. I’ve gotten numbers just for talking to them. Does it go anywhere all of the time ? No! But it’s still better than someone eliminating me because I don’t have a bio lol
You right about that, online you just another number but in person they’ll remember your face. Alot of dudes are scared to approach women they lead with they wallet / photos online looking like they got it but got no game irl
Flip side is dickheads making smoochies at single moms walking their kids from school. Like there is 100% a wrong way to holler, and misogynist dudes will still react to the rejection the same as if they been ghosted: violently
shooting your shot at the work place be risky nowadays tho
@@TheBlademan- work place is a no go, dont shit where you eat
Many won't understand but my favourite colour is black.
I love how so many people are actually commenting their favorite colors 🤣
Favorite is a Black Rose
Baby wake up, he posted again😭❤️
Stop commenting to your imaginary girlfriend and go out there and get one. Tell her he posted, not a bunch of dudes. Smh
@@Fitz_WORLDGoddamn bro, he’s just showing some love
that spider webs shot got me tripping. I thought I spontaneously crack my phone. 15:58
Na, your phone is cracked. Send it to me and I’ll fix it tho. I’ll DM you my cash app dw
Have you heard of the Alpha male bootcamp? Apparently it costed people $18,000
Yep! LMFAO. I only found out after I posted this video. This well goes a lot deeper, so If I ever decide to make a part 2 I'm DEFFO including that bullshit
i dont know this shi but just to imagine it and what kinda men pay for sht like that is hilarious to me😂
These dating apps are like a shady mechanic. He's decided his best interest isn't in fully fixing your car, but in expecting you to be naive enough to keep bringing it back in to him when something else goes wrong, and not catching on to how a new problem surfaces conveniently after you just got it out of the shop again.
These dating apps don't care if you actually make a match. In the same way, they've determined it's best for their bottom line if you pay for the illusion of better chances leading to higher success rates.
They can't and don't outright say that anywhere, they let you come to the conclusion on your own. Even if you get more matches, that still doesn't guarantee anything on your end. You're paying for RNG and hoping it turns out good for you. If the RNG was helpful in getting people together they'd have fewer paying customers and eventually dwindling profits. Good thing the game is rigged against all parties involved and the house is the only one guaranteed to win.
This man is speaking the gospel of truth
I am so glad you are here to stay and will make more videos. I love your channel and will continue to support you. I can not financially because I have 5 children but keep up the good work brother.
damn 5 of em😂 man was ambitious
@@peeron6829 I was young and irresponsible
Dating:skill based match making
I really do feel like you are adding value to these conversations. I look forward to what else you have in store
Why did I get a hinge advert just before this vid 🤔😂
I got a bumble ad!! They told my ass “stfu” 🤣🤣🤣
It’s here!
first! also, thank you for balancing the audio mix!
I hate to burst your bubble. But you, in fact, was not first. I'm sorry.
Thanx, Isaac
He cant stop dropping hits
Gon' be one hell of a year
Man, everybody caught strays here, but this was spot on. Not to mention hilarious lol. Probably the best analysis of this problem I’ve seen, especially in naming the true culprits in these capitalistic enterprises. Keep making great shit.
Salute, bro. It was Me Vs. Everyone in this video and I won 😡
I need a battle royale dating app where you can squad up and third party a guy to steal his matches 😂
If I see ANY Dating Battle Royal game I’m DEMANDING my cut 🤣
Illmatic is perfection.
Rappers are monkey flipping with the funky rhythm, I be kicking 😤
Yeah this channel just earned a sub, you are cooking straight FIIIIRE
I haven't searched for a partner in years. single life has been treating me so well. No girl, no problems.
New sub here, great content on your channel. Had a few laughs with your delivery, you're a funny guy and awesome topics you are covering. Keep it up ❤💯🔥
I actually matched with my partner on a dating app and we didn't end up even talking. Then we met for real later through friends and political activism and we've been together for 5 years.
My favorite color is purple or any lilac color. I also like bright and vibrant colors
W pick
Gyal wicked yes 😂
Keep the vids coming man.
Hand claps.. He did it again.. Flawlessly..
LETS GO ITS HERE!!! my favorite color is orange
Purple
Blue best 🚫🧢
Orange gang
Blackish brown and orange. Your analysis is quite fascinatingly complex yet real, comprehensive and necessary. I was just thinking to myself about the sacred love language called "rizz" or "game". These modern terms showcase a distorted reality, when "spitting game" could simply be a way to interact with humility and good reception. Alas when you only have the intent to gain sexual relationships, spitting game has only one sole purpose, which is to get a girl's number, then getting personal enough for a temporary blissfulness. So I feel like it's truly just a natural human activity CALLED socializing that is put within a cynical, greed filled, and loveless society. I'm surprised that hinge or tinder didn't comment their favorite color because we all know it starts with the letter g and it ain't GREY. Loved the video man!
Sidenote: I don't think having game is a bad thing, I don't want this comment to come off that way, I'm just saying it shouldn't be gamified(as mentioned in the video), whereas it turns into a transaction and the ONLY focus is to win and avoid losing. This sorta relates to the whole "what do you bring to the table?" argument. Putting into perspective the many different lives, sexualities, cultures and etc. I don't think we need to legitimize love in such ways. In the end it's just a reflection on what society dictates and not us. AKA I got 0 game so I just gotta say fuck the system it is what it is lol. Great video!
Warframe shown 32:28
Thank you Tenno
I was just testing out Dante when he showed that 😂
damn.. i remember playing that like 10 years ago or something😂 completely forgot about the game. how is it nowadays? still worth playing?
@@peeron6829 totally but be prepared to appreciate what you meet.
They've made a lot of changes. Go slow if you want to get back in
@@peeron6829 It's really good if you can get into it, but the early game direction is still next to non-existent.
Another exquisite banger my brother, you very eloquently expressed my frustrations with this capitalistic dating system we are living under. I for one have always and will continue to refuse to participate in it, even if that means closing off myself from a "potential" partner. Because these companies predicate exactly on that potentiality and our own shortsightedness. I knew I was right to subscribe to you king 👑
Love the videos!!! Honestly can't get over trying to make out where your accent is from.
A battle pass on a dating app is a hilarious analogy
Navy blue works so well on almost anything
W pick
I don’t really get the stuck up attitude against people who use dating apps as if meeting someone at a bar is the only way to find “twoo looove”. It’s just another way to meet people.
With that said, the monetization is largely bullshit and seems to get more and more expensive with each passing year. I just don’t bother trying to pay for the stuff because it’s not going to help me any more than just engaging with the free version.
Ahhh I was wondering which song I recognized during the end credits, until I checked the description and heard you are my special 😂
“Love doesn’t exist” who hurt you bro.
Me and my female coworker decided that we wanted to try tinder for a week by the end of the week she had close to a thousand likes and I had less than 50 never used that app again
Dawg, these apps will have you looking at the highway 😭
@@reduxcitydating apps are a speedrun to demolishing your self-esteem as a man
I didn't realize online dating was gambling x relationships until watching this video.
Thankfully, I'm too broke to succumb to this type of gambling addiction.
That 'weight class' analogy was the most clever one I've heard in years🎉🎉
Nah if I'm spending 500, they better throw in daily streetwalker handies...aint no way someone is actually buying this
If I’m spending 500 my girl better be delivered to me. Same day delivery.
Never used dating apps, never needed them, also studied media and all that, I stayed for the Brimerican accent?… Ameritish accent?..idk🤣🤣 and the gaming analogies.. I think you finally got through to the boys homie👏🏾👏🏾 nice work
Green!
Decent video, but (since nobody else has said it) I feel some of your points started to fall off toward the end.
29:17 "regurgitating their misogyny and chauvinism" nah, while some may do that, the majority usually just preach the message of how online dating is severely unfair and defeating for men. Which it IS. I know you really, *really* tried to stray away from making this point in the video, but it is. An abundance is better than nothing.
"Having money's not everything, not having it is."
While i don't agree with the misogynistic takes that some of these Podcasters and other men and individuals have, I at least understand how someone can come to those extreme viewpoints. "It's not fair, so why even try?" Or "I don't look a certain way, plus the model system in today's dating world is 'men are candidates, if I'm not perfect for a girl, she can ALWAYS replace me at any point in time' so why do anything?" Or "If I walk up to a girl in the modern day and do something slightly incorrect, I could be labeled as a creep or worse."
These are all valid reasons to back up what I had said before. The game is not fair. Having a space where men can talk about it is, albeit a bit depressing, since we can't control anything about the apps or women's preferences, but it is a good way to cope. That's all we can do. Take a shower, get a haircut, get jacked, make money, and if the girl doesn't follow suit somewhere along that process, then you'll have to deal with God knows how many more rejections until one finally decides to settle for you.
There's a reason more men are lonelier and have worse social skills nowadays. We're at a crossroads though, one side being to thug it out and see what happens, and the other.... well I guess there is no other. People are going to do whatever they want. So try as we might, it may not ever get better. All you can do is devote yourself to your goals. With, or without a partner. Because in the end, the only person you have, the only person who can get you to do anything, is yourself. And that's how it'll be til you die.
Blue
Now I am waiting for the next topic.. The guy flamed the hell out of this topic...
My favorite color is red.
Out of 100 matches only 1 leads to a meeting
It is a tie between desert orange and tropical teal, but I'll settle for crimson
Fuck these apps, I’m so thankful that I don’t have to be on these because it seems like a horrible grind and bad for your self esteem
My boy. You are cooking
Favorite color is lavender
bruh😂
There was an entire episode from regular show about this exact issue 🤦🏾♂️
Is that the jjk season 2 intro? ⛽️
My favorite color is green but yeah I’m lonely
Im currently in a romantic relationship.
Love is hard to quantify and it changes over time. But i am in love.
I met him through a really good friend (its her cousin)
Salute to y’all! 🫡
wish yall the best
15k subs already 🎉
broo what books do you read to be this articulate?
"Evil Capitalism" is a rendundant phrase. It's like saying "evil satan" or "evil Hitler". Great vid tho, I discovered you through the villain video and I just have to say that my favorite color is red
Facts, facts, facts!!!!
0:56 there was a time
My favorite color is dark teal!
13:01 they got grindr on there but not jackd… (*stares judgementally*) lol 😄
The London Angeles accent has been toned down. Im happy.
Besides that, any ladies here from London?
😂
Dude spent $2500 just to get a date, but that one date will be adamant he has to pay her expenses because she bought a dress 3 months ago and wore it again for the date
Does oldschool runescape count as a dating site?
idk.. do you have success? how many dates you got through runescape😂
@@peeron6829 my current boyfriend. He taught me how to do gauntlet, and somewhere between the "oh shit switch prayer" and "shit I got stomped" panic, I thought I like this guy, he has a good way of dealing with my feelings of stress etc.
Actually, my general statement is that I think dating apps and dates are dumb because they feel like the process of job interviews, but anything where you naturally meet a person and have to work with eachother, is probably a good way to meet a person. This is probably why a good amount of couples form at the workplace.
I am not yet sure if I find this strategy worth recommending.
I thought this was a side vid but I still kept it real
Vagabond video? 🥺🥺🥺
My favorite color is green
That was wonderful.
Fav color is pink 😊!
Well made video. I like it👍
My favorite color is red
Well considering my relationship is 12+ I think I’m safe answering all questions confidently 0:38
Prove it by inviting me to your next anniversary dinner
Look at this young black Marx 👏🏽
Keep up the good content. 🙏🏽
Caught your ass early, 2 minutes in keep up the content man.
Quality vid
Blue! Also I know the person who was shouting about men who don't understand hints at the end, I haven't seen them in over a year haha that's crazy!!
I ain't never been so mad about an app in my entire life 😂
THEY WANT YOUR HARD EARNED MONNNNEEEEYYYYY
I really love blue and green though 🤔
These apps are a goddamn nightmare.
My favourite colour is blue 💪💪
YEAHHHHHHHHHHH
My favourite color is blue....
My favourite colour is black.
My favorite color is black 🤌🏾
My favourite colour is lean purple 😂😂
Stay off the leeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaan!
@@reduxcityfr😂
pink
35 mins & 5 seconds of idealism.
My favourite clour is Sun. Set Gold .
Red.
My favorite color is BLUE
You ate and left no crumbs. 😮💨
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