The Manhattan Swindler (LA Swindler Continued...)

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  • @BettyJean1
    @BettyJean1 Рік тому +358

    I once read this powerful quote: "When you lie about who you are, you're taking away someone's ability to live in reality".

  • @yugfus
    @yugfus Рік тому +57

    Lol, your homeboy is the ultimate private investigator. Homie is always coming through for you. I like that.

  • @manip3351
    @manip3351 Рік тому +116

    The random voiceover that starts with “some of y’all are stupid” had me dying🤣🤣

  • @Princ3lei
    @Princ3lei Рік тому +101

    You’re 1000% right to get information about where a man is financially/career wise. Don’t let bitter weirdos make you feel like you’re wrong. Some people play with their own lives 🙄😂

  • @k0k01
    @k0k01 Рік тому +157

    When a guy comes in trying to be all close talking to my parents and ish. 🚩 MAJOR RED FLAG! He was trying to get your mom on his side so that he would have someone in your life influencing you to believe that he’s that guy! I see abusers do this often.

    • @argue.with.yourself
      @argue.with.yourself Рік тому +22

      I hope women take in this message! It's the best way to keep you locked in. Especially if your family feels that finding a good man is everything!

    • @TheeJessieWoo
      @TheeJessieWoo  Рік тому +33

      I realize that in hindsight. He knew EXACTLY what he was doing. But I’m so thankful I got a mom who keeps it real and keeps me in prayer. She told that man EXACTLY what he was dealing with lol and he still pushed forward like a dummy 😭

    • @alluringbliss4165
      @alluringbliss4165 Рік тому +2

      Didn’t know that

    • @StarringShameka
      @StarringShameka Рік тому +3

      Ugh! I’ve had this happen before!

    • @Anonymous-cl2es
      @Anonymous-cl2es Рік тому +1

      Yes it's a huge red flag!!

  • @thecadencekyle05
    @thecadencekyle05 Рік тому +42

    I abandoned a whole other video to click this notification! 😜

  • @PourLaMourDeLargent
    @PourLaMourDeLargent Рік тому +212

    Love the Swindler Series. This need to get picked up by a network, Jess.

    • @TheeJessieWoo
      @TheeJessieWoo  Рік тому +41

      For real!

    • @kejuanlynette8531
      @kejuanlynette8531 Рік тому +13

      @@TheeJessieWoo Or a book/biopic. Where's Tasha Smith and TV One or Lifetime. Hallmark somebody!!! 🎥📙 This is a MAJOR lesson! Thank you for sharing.

    • @saphire2214
      @saphire2214 Рік тому

      Agreed!

    • @MadGriss
      @MadGriss Рік тому +2

      Same!!! Lol I be watching with popcorn 🍿 ready for it!!! Lol

    • @ravendkennedy
      @ravendkennedy Рік тому +1

      @@TheeJessieWoo tell all the stories!!

  • @StarringShameka
    @StarringShameka Рік тому +80

    My mom says I’m controlling as well but I don’t agree. Controlling is the wrong word, I have yet to meet a man who has a better plan for “us” than I have for myself, so why would I let a man without a plan lead me??

    • @9188jenni
      @9188jenni Рік тому +7

      I'd say stronwilled

    • @f.-j.j.5738
      @f.-j.j.5738 Рік тому +10

      You said a word! I agree. That's why I hurried up and married my husband. First man to have a better plan than mine and to have the knowledge and ressources to get us there.

    • @nifapz9596
      @nifapz9596 Рік тому +1

      @@f.-j.j.5738 You are just RATIONAL.

    • @benirpierre2671
      @benirpierre2671 Рік тому +2

      I need to get back on my grind because trying to be "submissive" got me effed up! My spouse has no vision and no leadership for our family or future and it was my biggest mistake. I've been paying for it since then.

    • @kalliedowdell6360
      @kalliedowdell6360 Рік тому

      I agree 100%

  • @TheBlkcherry
    @TheBlkcherry Рік тому +73

    These types of stories need to be heard. Because there are a lot of swindlers out here and we as women need to be smart when it comes to dating. All that glitters is not gold as the saying goes.

    • @visiontolegacy.
      @visiontolegacy. Рік тому +2

      True the more it’s spoken of, then women will be more protected.

  • @thecutbeautii3399
    @thecutbeautii3399 Рік тому +75

    When I was dating I never asked out right “what do you make?” What I did ask was what he did for a living. Living in NYC it was pretty easy to figure out what their salary was based on their position. In addition asking those financial questions came naturally, it was never forced and it definitely happened before I took any man seriously.

  • @Jasminetoojazzy
    @Jasminetoojazzy Рік тому +58

    I love how smart u are in the dating scene !!! Don’t listen to the girlies wanting u to go into it all blind and stupid and end up with a broke ninja for u to take care of🙄 keep doing u and DO YOUR RESEARCH, ALWAYS 🔬

  • @sodamnsexy16
    @sodamnsexy16 Рік тому +40

    As someone who hasn’t asked important questions in the past let me just say..y’all better ask them damn questions and save yourself the headache😩

  • @savannahlovertn301
    @savannahlovertn301 Рік тому +55

    You put your makeup on so flawless everytime

  • @thecadencekyle05
    @thecadencekyle05 Рік тому +68

    Yo this would make a dope show, the "swindler buster"

  • @emac1286
    @emac1286 Рік тому +31

    Date night questions
    1)what do you do for a living? ( google salary and area)
    2) what do you give the most energy too right now? ( home, family, work)
    3) what are your hobbies? (If he has hobbies that require “toys” he has more disposable income)
    What are some other questions to ask?

    • @JodyMay05
      @JodyMay05 Рік тому +4

      Who do you live with?

    • @camille77415
      @camille77415 Рік тому

      @@JodyMay05 Yess the #1 question to ask

  • @alexpress5375
    @alexpress5375 Рік тому +53

    I'm invested in this story/series at this point 😂

  • @truesensibility7692
    @truesensibility7692 Рік тому +69

    I think a lot of the women who don't ask essential questions when getting to know a man hasn't ever really dated with a purpose. It's a lot of women who misidentify their experiences of playing games and having to prove themselves to man children as dating. Grown ups know how to date. Dating with a purpose is getting to know someone, their lifestyle, their past, present and future plans, to see if you can connect. Part of getting to know someone is getting to know about their career/business and their financial stability.

    • @zero1188
      @zero1188 Рік тому +8

      most women do not ask, that is the main issue. then they want to say the guy tricked them when they could of asked long time ago

    • @nancykerrigan
      @nancykerrigan Рік тому +7

      @@zero1188 I feel like they're afraid to ask out of fear that they're coming across as gold-diggers. Also even if you ask men can lie.

    • @f.-j.j.5738
      @f.-j.j.5738 Рік тому +9

      I asked so many questions my husband asked me if he was being interviewed? I said absolutely, you are! I also asked around. Friends and family. And I did an official background check. No one is going to surprise me with debt, crazy exes, children, child support obligations, fake degrees etc...
      I was dating to get married so I wasn't playing around being silly. Romance was great but I also needed us to be on the same page on everything.

    • @zero1188
      @zero1188 Рік тому +1

      @@nancykerrigan heres what you do. ask what is your passion or hobbies. then lead conversation back to what does he do

  • @rosem6573
    @rosem6573 Рік тому +25

    Where are they getting all this money to send to this man??? I got a $3200 school balance for this semester bless my cash app.

  • @Eniola_Said_So
    @Eniola_Said_So Рік тому +22

    I need Discovery, TLC or A&E to give you a show ASAP!!! You’re too good at telling these swindler stories.

  • @FrozenRose86
    @FrozenRose86 Рік тому +33

    Seester!! Definetley keep the swindling videos coming! Us women need to know the signs to look out for in this crazy world! Love your content!!

  • @heyytammm
    @heyytammm Рік тому +9

    I love how every month it’s a new reason why black womenssssss should not be played with 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ivy.interlude
    @ivy.interlude Рік тому +9

    Jessie, before you even said it I wanted to say your mother was protecting you. My mother always said don’t ever let a man know that you are alone. Men often prey the most on women that don’t have a village. My mother has done similar things and I didn’t always understand when I was younger, now I see the value and protection in it.

    • @ivy.interlude
      @ivy.interlude Рік тому +2

      Also I love that you have your homeboys that always look out for you.

  • @thickbrownlegs1859
    @thickbrownlegs1859 Рік тому +8

    My mom taught me and my sisters never to give man money, period! I don’t understand why women give men money your hard earned working money 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️.

  • @kevinjobesmith9735
    @kevinjobesmith9735 Рік тому +13

    You should get stories sent to you from other women who either have been swindled or think they're being swindled and do commentary and react to it!!

  • @dekendrajackson3772
    @dekendrajackson3772 Рік тому +11

    Side bar: I need a skin routine! Yours is so flawless 😭

  • @Thoughtsbyme-ts4jz
    @Thoughtsbyme-ts4jz Рік тому +29

    I am so excited there is more to this series. This deserves a doccie

  • @mst7458
    @mst7458 Рік тому +16

    Heavy on the broke baby daddies. 👶 Lawd. I always do a deep internet dive when dating because these men will LIE. Had a man give me a fake name once.

  • @nicoled121
    @nicoled121 3 місяці тому

    You are right Jess. People are not asking enough questions about one another. Some are so quick to get into something serious without getting to know someone. I understand you can’t know everything, but taking the time to really get to know someone is important. Your time is worth the inquiry.

  • @Holisticmami
    @Holisticmami Рік тому +11

    shoutout to you for looking into these men bc they really be cosplaying as rich and genuine and alot of women get sucked into it and by the time they find out its too late. Also this swindler series is sounding very script worthy.... might need to pitch this

  • @gozio
    @gozio Рік тому +14

    LA, New York, Miami? Not a national swindlers series! I'm waiting on the international spinoff. 🫢😩

  • @amandar8699
    @amandar8699 Рік тому +9

    Ever since I thought I got ghosted by a guy just to found out he was in jail I’ve done my research. My nosy inspector gadget dad helped me research every guy after that especially when online dating 😂

  • @IconRN
    @IconRN Рік тому +3

    Love these swindler chronicles!! Keep them coming.

  • @Keney
    @Keney Рік тому +3

    I’m here for the Beyonce’s birthday month reference 😂

  • @Ossouko
    @Ossouko Рік тому +6

    Yes to the swindler stories. Please and thank you!💕

  • @ShanaTaylor318
    @ShanaTaylor318 Рік тому +13

    Keep this series up!! We love it lol

  • @lifewithdeedee3392
    @lifewithdeedee3392 Рік тому +6

    Lol these swindler stories are giving I better stay with my mans vibe 😂 🤣

  • @sydneymoman
    @sydneymoman Рік тому +3

    Haven't watched this yet, but I had a hard day at work and I know you're going to come with something I need right now. Thanks for being you and entertaining us while warning us about the swindlerzation and holleration in this dancery.

  • @Demettrie
    @Demettrie Рік тому +3

    One thing about you that I love is your spirit of discernment! Your stories prove that you always trust that voice the tells you when something isn’t right. It really makes your stories that much more interesting and better. You’re awesome!

  • @anyikamark879
    @anyikamark879 Рік тому +13

    Jessssiieee!!! You are my favourite content creator, love you DOWN girl!

  • @ms.lightning5612
    @ms.lightning5612 Рік тому +5

    You are drop dead gorgeous and HI-larious!!!!!! And, Yes we want to hear about the Miami Swindler.

  • @lgee9027
    @lgee9027 Рік тому +3

    Seeeeeeester!!!!! Im gone need to see the make-up you using!!!! OBSESSED its beautiful please keep the GRWM videos

  • @brownsugarmisha9936
    @brownsugarmisha9936 Рік тому +15

    This is so good and yes I think it is a basic common question to asked what a guy do for a living while dating.. p.s drop that Miami swindler sis lol I'm ready

  • @SamiaMia
    @SamiaMia Рік тому +3

    My girl !!! I’m loving the series sis 💕💁🏾‍♀️

  • @rashidaindigeaux6938
    @rashidaindigeaux6938 Рік тому +5

    Girl that green looks sooo good on you! Beautiful 🤩💜

  • @ReeeeeeUp
    @ReeeeeeUp Рік тому +8

    I can’t even imagine being 35,000 behind in rent

  • @Juana4ev
    @Juana4ev Рік тому +5

    Thank gosh! Been waiting for a new vlog. You been busy busy

  • @SianLondon
    @SianLondon Рік тому +9

    I'm loving the eye makeup in the intro 😍🤩

  • @M3Niki
    @M3Niki Рік тому +12

    Woke up to this upload, yep today is starting off good😆 yooo, is this turning into a series? Chile let me make my coffee and tune in.

  • @meshel4
    @meshel4 Рік тому +15

    Sisssstttteeerrrrr, first off your makeup and outfit was flawless, it’s ok to be late if you are coming in looking like that.
    Now we want the tea for Miami, but you best be writing and pitching this as a network series.
    I’m sure the networks are also tuning in weekly.
    We are Excited to hear the next update.

  • @tarajohnson7636
    @tarajohnson7636 Рік тому +3

    Your such a great story teller, love watching your swindler serries

  • @nicolehanks5248
    @nicolehanks5248 Рік тому +1

    Jess keep these videos coming I love this series it's educational

  • @Bankslike_ashh
    @Bankslike_ashh Рік тому +2

    Lmaooo the Tarzan line took me out😭😭😂

  • @SelfLoveCeo
    @SelfLoveCeo Рік тому

    I’m glad you’re putting them on blast!!!

  • @snoble20
    @snoble20 Рік тому +2

    Keep em coming sis!!!

  • @299unique
    @299unique Рік тому +3

    I never get enough of you Jess 💕💕!!

  • @KrissyBlendz
    @KrissyBlendz Рік тому +10

    Thanks for sharing this video during Beyoncé’s birthday month and posting it on my birthday. I love a good laugh and know what to look for when it comes to these dotish swindlers.

  • @ladiiedeny
    @ladiiedeny Рік тому +1

    SEEEESSSTERRRRRRR!!!!!! I absolutely love this series!

  • @abzz718
    @abzz718 Рік тому +1

    Wow so insightful and helpful. Catching the “private driver” lure 👏🏾👏🏾 Yes it was wired the girl vouched for the creep. If it don’t feel right it ain’t!!! Don’t apologize for heeding w/ discernment. Really Love this topic💕

  • @AK76702
    @AK76702 Рік тому +5

    You can tell where someone is financially during the courting stage. Ex: If someone has to wait for pay day to take you out/ if they can’t travel etc… take your time with dating! Those questions can come up but not on the first few dates…

  • @Iamniesheia
    @Iamniesheia Рік тому +5

    In the dating process and early stages I believe in getting to know someone fully - some of that is asking questions but it truly just comes up in the conversation. If you make someone comfortable they will tell you everything.

  • @tineeeify
    @tineeeify Рік тому +2

    Love this series/stories

  • @chellybaby
    @chellybaby Рік тому +3

    This has to be favorite series you’ve ever done

  • @10062898
    @10062898 Рік тому +15

    PLEASE tell the Miami swindler story but I also side eye palm colored negros with white mamas 😭💀

  • @theconfidentwoman3023
    @theconfidentwoman3023 Рік тому +12

    Date a regular guy with a regular job. Stay away from the flashy over high maintenance type of guys they are more in their feminine

    • @TheeJessieWoo
      @TheeJessieWoo  Рік тому +15

      Oh… I have a “regular guy” story too lol

  • @AshleyDoll89
    @AshleyDoll89 Рік тому +6

    Yes very important to ask finance and career questions Caribbean women we don't get swindled by vibes and words

  • @blacdiamond_tv
    @blacdiamond_tv Рік тому +2

    Jessie you are Absolutely Right💯 We as Women need to be asking questions & dating with intention so you know what you are signing up for..btw you look 👀 Absolutely Amazing As Always🙌🏽💕✨💋

  • @EverydayGworl
    @EverydayGworl Рік тому

    You look stunning Jess and yes we want to hear about the Miami swindler

  • @sweetjalight
    @sweetjalight Рік тому

    I love that hair!!!

  • @teneisharichburg8133
    @teneisharichburg8133 Рік тому +1

    Ready for the Miami one!!

  • @StarringShameka
    @StarringShameka Рік тому +6

    Everybody from Chicago are “Facetimers” 😭 we don’t regular call anyone. If you have an iPhone, we’re automatically going to FaceTime you. Whether we’ve known you 5 minutes or not 😂

  • @lontho5605
    @lontho5605 Рік тому

    Here for it!!

  • @WilliamsTanisha
    @WilliamsTanisha Рік тому +1

    I just be here to laugh and for the the cute makeup and outfits.

  • @Mrssto05
    @Mrssto05 3 місяці тому

    We need a make-up tutorial!! I love your make-up!!

  • @dianecelestin4013
    @dianecelestin4013 Рік тому +2

    You look amazing as always

  • @QueenOyinkan
    @QueenOyinkan Рік тому +1

    Congrats on 100k subbies Jess!🎉🎉🎉

  • @snowym7188
    @snowym7188 Рік тому +1

    I was at work this afternoon thinking, I miss Jessie Woo ..lol .. Love You🌻

  • @johannemacajoux3650
    @johannemacajoux3650 Рік тому +1

    Love this series! 😂

  • @buki2006
    @buki2006 Рік тому

    I saw you at the Headies girl!! But you looked like you was ready to go🤣🤣🤣🤣.

  • @LizNeptune
    @LizNeptune Рік тому +7

    I’m mixed and yes, in my experience mix men with white moms are exactly as you explained !! They prefer white women 99% of the time, I stay tf away from them now.

  • @lavondillon
    @lavondillon Рік тому

    I love you on Dish Nation!!!!!!

  • @pe3zus
    @pe3zus Рік тому +1

    That is smart AF about the hashtag search!! Large following or not, you never know what kind of encounter someone else in the social media world has had, that could shine light and expose the person you're searching! 👀🤔😳😲

  • @RoseSimeus
    @RoseSimeus Рік тому +1

    I definitely ask all those questions! Protect yourself. Especially if it’s someone you see a future with. It’s very important to know these things. Not going to jail by association.

  • @barbaralove0991
    @barbaralove0991 Рік тому +1

    Financial questions are important to move forward in a relationship. It’s a huge part of our lives.

  • @caligirl6610
    @caligirl6610 Рік тому +10

    Keep with the stories they are a public service 🙏💪👀

  • @bestlife9143
    @bestlife9143 Рік тому

    Green is your color!! You look like a beautiful black mermaid 😍😍😍

  • @tiffanycurry3487
    @tiffanycurry3487 Рік тому +5

    We want the Miami story!! I think I can speak for everyone!

  • @reena2682
    @reena2682 Рік тому +2

    LOVE your makeup Jessie!!!🥰 what lashes do you use?

  • @olamideoladapo8496
    @olamideoladapo8496 Рік тому

    Chile not these shenanigans during Virgo Season! 🗣JAIL!

  • @mauratmusic7
    @mauratmusic7 Рік тому +3

    You look beautiful Jess 💕💜

  • @emandeni
    @emandeni Рік тому +1

    Love this series! Lol

  • @justrashanda3662
    @justrashanda3662 Рік тому

    Thank you for this video very informative and funny hell some guy DM me and I was asking about his financials cause bump that cause I don’t take care of niggas frfr

  • @Fannyyyyy_
    @Fannyyyyy_ Рік тому

    Jesssssssieeeeeee 🤣🤣🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

  • @sarahmathieu6122
    @sarahmathieu6122 Рік тому

    We deflee want to hear the Miami one

  • @adefran718
    @adefran718 Рік тому +4

    You can tell when a mixed person got a white mom/black dad and I dont mean that as a compliment 😬

  • @frahynahaugustin8463
    @frahynahaugustin8463 Рік тому

    Love your makeup.

  • @onlyb-yz4jz
    @onlyb-yz4jz Рік тому

    Naw Jess. Who it is sis?! I need to throw tomatoes!! 😂

  • @deedeemoreno4411
    @deedeemoreno4411 Рік тому +1

    KEEP'EM COMING 🤑

  • @nigerianprincess777
    @nigerianprincess777 Рік тому +1

    It is extremely important to understand what the person you're seriously dating is doing to make money, what they're goals and aspirations are, and they're purpose.

  • @monicatmura
    @monicatmura Рік тому +2

    I want the Miami story 🙈🍿

  • @joleenfernandes8490
    @joleenfernandes8490 Рік тому +1

    Seeeeeeesterrrrrr😂😂😂