How NOT to Level Up: Pretending to be Light Skinned or Mixed & Other Bad Social Strategies

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  • Опубліковано 20 гру 2024

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  • @JamilahNKamal
    @JamilahNKamal 2 місяці тому +905

    African American woman here
    I have witnessed so many African American women using tanning products and bronzer this summer, a large majority of them were brown and darker skinned too. I was in Savannah, GA two months ago and witnessed so many beautiful dark skinned natural women glistening in the sun. 🌞 ☀️ When I tell you all black women are divesting from what no longer serves them and loving themselves, I'm not lying.

    • @LisePlansandJournals
      @LisePlansandJournals 2 місяці тому +45

      🥳🥳🥳🥳love to hear this.

    • @gmcmim1
      @gmcmim1 2 місяці тому +17

      Yes!

    • @syncopation0
      @syncopation0 2 місяці тому +42

      I've been using bronzing lotions, particularly in the summer, for years now. I find that it evens my skintone, especially on my face, so I don't have to wear as much foundation in this Florida humidity. This year I didn't have to do it as much because I was at the beach every weekend and tanned naturally until we started getting these storm systems within the last month or so, so my entire face, neck ,and body was the same color all summer. It was great!

    • @LaLa_856
      @LaLa_856 2 місяці тому +4

      😭😭😭🙌🙌🙌

    • @jeweledthrone2850
      @jeweledthrone2850 2 місяці тому +10

      Yes we love ourselves in the port ❤❤❤ hope you enjoyed your visit

  • @Empress-gr8
    @Empress-gr8 2 місяці тому +582

    Smooth, dark, unbleached skin… I know that’s right.

    • @amethyststone1678
      @amethyststone1678 2 місяці тому +33

      Me too! I love my skin. Every time I get out of the bath or shower I cover my body with organic non GMO UNREFINED coconut oil. My skin is clear, soft, and beautiful.

  • @grapevinez6026
    @grapevinez6026 2 місяці тому +146

    As an actual mixed woman, this is wild to me. Self-haters bleaching their skin and jumping on the misogynoir bandwagon was not on my bingo card this year.
    We are in the age of celebrating our dark skinned mothers, not going backwards into ignorance.

    • @mahneekaha.nightmare5220
      @mahneekaha.nightmare5220 2 місяці тому +17

      I’m just happy people stop accusing a dark skinned woman of doing this. She isn’t light skinned to me either but one of those who think because their not”that dark” they can do&say d*mb shyt because she can”pass” and bleach and talk shyt. We know those types of “not that dark” BW😂 I originally thought she wasn’t black at all, maybe yt even but now we know!

  • @jamilaamia
    @jamilaamia 2 місяці тому +240

    i’m dark skin and get told i’m pretty everywhere i go i never wanted to be light skin idk why they think everyone is jealous of them…

    • @MsElizaRae
      @MsElizaRae 2 місяці тому +54

      I truly feel like it's men hyping them up

    • @margaretantaimd2929
      @margaretantaimd2929 2 місяці тому +15

      I wonder.
      It's all part of low self esteem.

    • @jamilaamia
      @jamilaamia 2 місяці тому +39

      @@MsElizaRaehonestly i don’t think it’s male centered i think they just want to feel superior against other women

    • @lemonaid13
      @lemonaid13 2 місяці тому +2

      ​​@@jamilaamiathat's a fact. They definitely think or want to be perceived as superior. I see these recessive, bad blood having Neanderthals walking up to me on a regular. Posturing and acting as if they're better.

    • @MsTamtee
      @MsTamtee 2 місяці тому +12

      Girl I feel the same way.. what’s so nice about them? Tf brown and dark pretty girls get just as much love

  • @Love-kc6yk
    @Love-kc6yk 2 місяці тому +430

    These people peaked in high school and need to make an appointment with a psychiatrist or something.

    • @teewashington1987
      @teewashington1987 2 місяці тому +17

      🤣😂😭😭

    • @L0VEJ0NES
      @L0VEJ0NES 2 місяці тому +14

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @redpharmacy
      @redpharmacy 2 місяці тому +37

      Half of them never peaked, that's why they crave it so badly

    • @nicky9891
      @nicky9891 2 місяці тому +6

      Not peaked in high school😂

    • @extrashotofespresso_
      @extrashotofespresso_ 2 місяці тому +4

      So glad I didn’t peak in high school or college. I like my normal life and doing me with no regards to anyone’s expectations but my own.

  • @thewindsinger7687
    @thewindsinger7687 2 місяці тому +333

    Being dark skinned, fit and hot is something else, everytime I walk in dance class and I’m either the only black girl in the room or one of 3 in a class of 35+ dancers all eyes are always on me. Also at the gym by all races and genders to the point it’s uncomfortable the way people stare and I don’t even wear butt scrunch shorts/leggings. We are so magnetic and otherworldly looking 😍🥹

    • @LisePlansandJournals
      @LisePlansandJournals 2 місяці тому +53

      @@thewindsinger7687 when you check all boxes and they just don’t know what to say or do. Love that for u🤩

    • @complicatedcoco1082
      @complicatedcoco1082 2 місяці тому +23

      Yesss 😍 your my inspiration girlll ✨ black is beautiful ❤️

    • @Barbiedangerous1111
      @Barbiedangerous1111 2 місяці тому +15

      This 💯, all we have to do is take care of ourselves and see how confused people get 😂❤

    • @naturallyvdeb2040
      @naturallyvdeb2040 Місяць тому +1

      Black is luxury ✨. I especially love the contrast with gold jewelry. We radiate 🌞.

  • @ChosenChild-j9i
    @ChosenChild-j9i 2 місяці тому +587

    I’ve never had to bully a lighter skinned girl, but they sure tried it with me. Very insecure.

    • @MegaSlimgoody1
      @MegaSlimgoody1 2 місяці тому +91

      I witnessed light skinned girls getting bullied. And I also seen the other way around.

    • @Joan-il4qb
      @Joan-il4qb 2 місяці тому +151

      I don't care how many times people keep saying light skinned girls are bullied, it does not happen at the rate that dark skinned people are and it is not even for the same reasons. Bullying is not good no matter why you do it, but if you look at this world from a distance, and see how dark skin is thought of and treated, as compared to light skin, then you would have a better understanding of what people go through. For light skinned people to try to put their suffering at the same level as dark skinned people is beyond me. Yes they do get bullied and it is wrong and they have a right to express their pain. Their pain is from a different place at a very different level. The pain must be expressed on its own, not running parallel with the other.

    • @Joan-il4qb
      @Joan-il4qb 2 місяці тому +12

      @@YogaWDía It was wrong, for whatever reason !

    • @MegaSlimgoody1
      @MegaSlimgoody1 2 місяці тому +25

      @@Joan-il4qb Are we having the bullied Olympics? Can you cite your source, I would love to see the percentage of being bullied. Y'all say this so much, but never show the stats.

    • @Joan-il4qb
      @Joan-il4qb 2 місяці тому +64

      @@MegaSlimgoody1 You don't even have to research anything. No Olympics here. We are just talking reality. But you can go on arguing if you want. You have the right!

  • @poodanoosk
    @poodanoosk 2 місяці тому +204

    Grey skin & bad wigs is crazy 🤣

  • @mindzirmetayer3648
    @mindzirmetayer3648 2 місяці тому +158

    Chrissie skin bleach has mercury which can cause anxiety liver damage depression and psychosis I think that’s what may be contributing to their mental state 😂

    • @pandapariah1075
      @pandapariah1075 Місяць тому +3

      @@m.s9146 Baby I honestly doubt you just get random dirty looks from Dark skinned women on the street lol. Y'all always think someone is obsessed with y'all or wants to be y'all when in reality most of us don't give a crap about you but whatever suits your delusional mind lol.

  • @T4KE_A_BREATH
    @T4KE_A_BREATH 2 місяці тому +566

    "Cloroxicals" 😂😂😂😂

  • @ChosenChild-j9i
    @ChosenChild-j9i 2 місяці тому +523

    I ain’t never wanted to be light skinned 😅

    • @ChosenChild-j9i
      @ChosenChild-j9i 2 місяці тому +1

      @@PrettyBunnie Just because someone is light doesn’t mean they’re automatically pretty. Some of them have very ugly spirits.

    • @DarkWinter48
      @DarkWinter48 2 місяці тому +45

      ​@@PrettyBunnieNot all light skinned women are pretty. 😒

    • @KushQueen9
      @KushQueen9 2 місяці тому +33

      I love how my dark skin glows fr It's rich!!

    • @ChosenChild-j9i
      @ChosenChild-j9i 2 місяці тому

      @@PrettyBunnie Just because someone is light skinned doesn’t mean they’re pretty. Some of them have nasty and ugly spirits.

    • @amethyststone1678
      @amethyststone1678 2 місяці тому +14

      I agree. But know this. Many of us are going to marry and procreate with non black men and many of our mixed kids will be lighter-skinned. We have to teach them to properly care for their skin so as not to get skin cancer or some other skin issues. I hope that as the years go by more black women will get into dermatology and create a skin care that our mixed kids can use to keep their skin healthy. We owe it to the future of our mixed kids to do this for their happiness and health. 🥺👶🏻👶🏽👶🏼

  • @ChosenChild-j9i
    @ChosenChild-j9i 2 місяці тому +399

    They’re so jealous of darker skinned women. They claim they aren’t, but their behavior shows other wise.

    • @val6189
      @val6189 2 місяці тому +12

      💯

    • @melaninmonroeeee
      @melaninmonroeeee 2 місяці тому +64

      @@BREASHONTELL lol , yet you rushed to this video. Im mixed but darker skinned . I hope you dont think us brown/darker skinned women are jealous of you 😮😢😅

    • @ChosenChild-j9i
      @ChosenChild-j9i 2 місяці тому +14

      @@melaninmonroeeeeShe’s guilty that’s why she commented 😂

    • @melaninmonroeeee
      @melaninmonroeeee 2 місяці тому +51

      @@Khaegch-favh That literally makes no sense lmdaoo . You saw the title of this video, and you thought “let me see what pretty ppl are up to these days” LMAO right ok girl. You know you stay stalking chrissie and her vids . Knock it off lmaoo

    • @nicoleraheem1195
      @nicoleraheem1195 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@melaninmonroeeee😅 I definitely clicked for the title and thought, "Chilli?! I wonder if she's pretending to be light skin." 😅

  • @ClassyGyal
    @ClassyGyal 2 місяці тому +309

    As a light skinned black woman NOT AN EXOTICAL ive been following you for years and im new to this exotical bs, but i rebuke it in the name of Jesus.
    I watched one two videos and now i gotta constantly tell youtube to not recommend. These chicks are un flipping hinged!! I dont stand for colourism.

    • @redgirlt
      @redgirlt 2 місяці тому +80

      I don’t get why they are showing up in my feed either. They are trip.

    • @altheadawn2531
      @altheadawn2531 2 місяці тому

      I don't know what colorism is
      Sounds like a made up phrase
      The word is self hate
      Self hating bm and bw are not respected in the world
      They are self hating

    • @BubblyRosé2468
      @BubblyRosé2468 2 місяці тому

      Click "Don't recommend channel" and remove their videos off of your yt history. If that doesn't work, you have to go to your google history and remove them bcuz yt and google are linked together.

    • @deej5608
      @deej5608 2 місяці тому +29

      ​@@redgirltmaybe it's because they mention Chrissie and due to the fact that we are subscribers of Chrissie the algorithm just assumes we might be interested

    • @MsElizaRae
      @MsElizaRae 2 місяці тому +6

      ​@@deej5608 this exactly

  • @thewindsinger7687
    @thewindsinger7687 2 місяці тому +100

    As for the ladies that are unambiguously black please don’t go over to those spaces and argue, being dark skinned and beautiful is not something we need to fight and shout about, simply exude it. In fact ignoring people that try to make you feel less than because of your dark skin shows how comfortable and confident you actually are in your dark skin.
    There is actually an unspoken pedestal that exists for us dark skin women despite being outside the ‘expected’ Eurocentric beauty standard and we should lean into our blackness instead of conforming.

  • @ashbeemua
    @ashbeemua 2 місяці тому +180

    When it was first discovered that she was a brown skin black woman I was in shock. It’s hard to wrap my mind around the sickness that exists in some black women. She played that light skin mix girl role too good and that’s not normal.

    • @thefeminineeye
      @thefeminineeye 2 місяці тому

      @@DanaKearse-wp6hb Where

    • @thefeminineeye
      @thefeminineeye 2 місяці тому +20

      @@DanaKearse-wp6hb girl thats her voice. Forget about the looks ...the newsreporter sounds EXACTLY like her

    • @lisabaffoebonnie-ml7np
      @lisabaffoebonnie-ml7np 2 місяці тому +3

      Can I please see the image ?

    • @ashbeemua
      @ashbeemua 2 місяці тому +6

      @@lisabaffoebonnie-ml7np Chrissie has her in the thumbnail now but you can see the other pics if you go to the description area right under this video.

    • @lisabaffoebonnie-ml7np
      @lisabaffoebonnie-ml7np 2 місяці тому +1

      @@ashbeemua Thankyou

  • @lonewolf.7699
    @lonewolf.7699 2 місяці тому +211

    The colourism towards dark skinned women is just uncalled for and sad. That picture is just degrading.

  • @everythingeverything3505
    @everythingeverything3505 2 місяці тому +45

    All throughout my adolescence other races would try to make it seem like I was hideous and “exoticals” would act hateful to me. It wasn’t till I got older in high school I realized, ya’ll some haters because I am drop dead gorgeous. Now as an adult there’s not a day that goes by someone does not mention my beauty and I am a black woman who stands in my blackness and wears natural hair and/ natural styles. You won’t catch me in a 40 inch straight bust-down. There is nothing more beautiful than a black woman honestly.

  • @DarkWinter48
    @DarkWinter48 2 місяці тому +86

    The Birdxoticals are mad because their channels have less than 30k subscribers but dark skinned women who make actual content such as Chrissie and PM have over 200k. Why isn't their alleged beauty attracting more views and subs? 🤔

    • @elallen4399
      @elallen4399 14 днів тому

      Dont say that to loud fresh and fit might start collabin with these airheads 😂😂😂

  • @iamseptembermelody
    @iamseptembermelody 2 місяці тому +191

    Yes, why don’t they have 30 inch wigs in type four hair. They’re so many blueprints on TikTok and UA-cam of what that looks like

    • @Remember_the_Time
      @Remember_the_Time 2 місяці тому +1

      Bw need to demand more of it, if more bw started buying wigs with our texture, they'd have no choice but to give us what we want (if they want money)

    • @tinachristine4573
      @tinachristine4573 2 місяці тому +47

      I now wear an exclusively 'textured' wig but it would be lovely to get a real representation of OUR hair.

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks 2 місяці тому

      Try her given hair and curlsqueen

    • @MsElizaRae
      @MsElizaRae 2 місяці тому +6

      Omg I would totally buy that and I don't even wear wigs! ❤

    • @Smith888d
      @Smith888d 2 місяці тому +1

      Fingercomber has the “Honeycomber” unit but it does tangle after a couple of months. Not quite 30 inches but it has a better curl pattern than the weird ones on Aliexpress. And only needs a teeny tiny leave out of fluffy edges

  • @Tam...
    @Tam... 2 місяці тому +138

    No wonder she was accusing Paris of bleaching.. The bleacher was projecting and looking company😩

  • @coreenamusic
    @coreenamusic 2 місяці тому +113

    UA-cam was recommending these spaces to me and I NEVER thought they were for me and mine…something about it was just so off…

    • @veilaluv9642
      @veilaluv9642 2 місяці тому +36

      Yup but I subscribed cause I thought it was like the content chrissie posts. I was very wrong and QUICKLY unsubscribed😭..

    • @melanatedfairy
      @melanatedfairy 2 місяці тому +20

      @@veilaluv9642girl I reported them. 😂😂

    • @complicatedcoco1082
      @complicatedcoco1082 2 місяці тому +10

      @@veilaluv9642girl I can’t imagine the state of shock you were in 😅 loll

    • @Deg40000
      @Deg40000 2 місяці тому +2

      That’s what I said and immediately after clicking just one video I realized it was NOT for me and more so projecting their insecurities on light skin/mixed women.

  • @livelovely4681
    @livelovely4681 2 місяці тому +163

    I just don't see why they can't just make level up content alone if they weren't going to have authentic conversations about their heritage.

    • @3xyrz
      @3xyrz 2 місяці тому +28

      yep

  • @monicaaparecidaoliveira8063
    @monicaaparecidaoliveira8063 2 місяці тому +138

    I would like to turn my skin even darker - if I could, as the models your are showing in this video (23:58 onwards) Black is beautiful!!!!!!!!!

    • @Z-ef1rr
      @Z-ef1rr 2 місяці тому +24

      This summer I’ve been in the SUN!!! 🍫

    • @Skyeway8
      @Skyeway8 2 місяці тому +24

      I'm dark skinned but I've always wanted to be more chocolate! The most beautiful women in my family are so dark and pretty.

    • @JamilahNKamal
      @JamilahNKamal 2 місяці тому +21

      Yes ma'am, I love dark skin on women. I want to be the shade of Coco Jones and SZA. Dark brown skin and black hair is truly an attractive combination on a woman. 🤎

    • @JamilahNKamal
      @JamilahNKamal 2 місяці тому +18

      @@monicaaparecidaoliveira8063 Anok Yai has the most beautiful skin I have ever seen. It's smooth, even, and glistens. It's about to get cold now so I have time to darken my skin but next summer I'm going to be looking like a smooth black pearl. I'm incorporating more dark leafy greens in my food which helps dark skin and taking more vitamin C.

    • @monicaaparecidaoliveira8063
      @monicaaparecidaoliveira8063 2 місяці тому +3

      @@JamilahNKamal Thank you for the reply. I will try that too.

  • @mindzirmetayer3648
    @mindzirmetayer3648 2 місяці тому +23

    “You don’t want to be walking around looking like Micheal Jackson” Chrissie you have me CACKLING 😂😂😂

  • @JamilahNKamal
    @JamilahNKamal 2 місяці тому +107

    If you are on a skin darkening journey I would suggest that you incorporate antioxidant rich foods and vitamin C in your diet. Antioxidants, like flavonoids and polyphenols, may increase melanin production. You can get these antioxidants from foods like dark leafy greens, dark berries, dark chocolate, and colorful vegetables. You can also take vitamin and mineral supplements.

    • @Cj27992
      @Cj27992 2 місяці тому

      @JamilahNKamal Vitiman c is a tyrosine inhobtor it helps lighten dark spots from acme could cause skin brightening which is removing a tan from sun-kissed skin vitiman c should only be used for hyperpigmentation never to dsrkdn becsuse it could do the opposite and bleach your skin ladies if you want to get darker use cocoa butter in the sun it gives you a nice tan oxidized vitiman c can help darken but it is still unsafe too risky

    • @THISandTHISandTHAT
      @THISandTHISandTHAT 2 місяці тому +5

      I always heard Vitamin C makes you light and bright. Hmm...

    • @kgabisopoto5039
      @kgabisopoto5039 2 місяці тому +17

      It makes you bright not light ​@@THISandTHISandTHAT

    • @SE-gs6gd
      @SE-gs6gd 2 місяці тому +23

      The idea of a skin darkening journey is just as pathologic as a skin lightening journey. Why not just have a your best skin journey. This is weird to me.

    • @jojoone1099
      @jojoone1099 2 місяці тому +5

      I don't think taking it internally would lighten your skin. It actually improves the look of the skin because it support collagen production.

  • @JamilahNKamal
    @JamilahNKamal 2 місяці тому +178

    I love tanning. Darker skin on women is more exotic in my opinion and I love how it looks when the sun glistens on it in the summer time. Duckie Thot, Sonia Barbie Tucker, Kelly Rowland, Anok Yai, Coco Jones, and Lupita are all very beautiful to me and would represent my standard of beauty. It's 2024 and there has been so much upliftment of dark skinned black women which has truly contributed to a lot if self love amongst our community of women.🙏🏽🌹 May 2025 be another great year!

  • @PettyLabelle532
    @PettyLabelle532 2 місяці тому +20

    I hope Paris Milan is doing well and comes back online soon 🙏🏿

  • @ambersummer2685
    @ambersummer2685 2 місяці тому +31

    She lost a subscriber. I listened to some of the things she’d say but seems like she’s been a hypocrite this whole time pretending to tell dark-skin unambiguous women that they have nothing to be insecure about regarding their natural features and hair when she doesn’t like those things for herself.
    But I ignored the real exotical channels bc most of them were unhinged and didn’t pretend to love all phenotypes like Exiticals United

    • @latifa3995
      @latifa3995 2 місяці тому +23

      Although I agreed with very few, slim and in between points she has made, I can't bring myself to fully watch more then 3 of her videos. The actual bigotry she spews without realizing she's doing it grates me. She will say something in one sentence then automatically contradict herself and make herself look like a complete hypocrite in the next sentence. Also the shamless pandering towards darkskin women at times all while simultaneously, obsessively bringing them down it's gross.

  • @RedElephant169
    @RedElephant169 2 місяці тому +110

    Bleaching looks so crazy. I feel so bad for women who think it will solve all their problems. I can’t imagine the negative messaging and hatred one has to receive to choose to be grey and crazy looking instead of beautiful and brown

    • @fdouble6335
      @fdouble6335 2 місяці тому +25

      Right! I watched some show about some rich people in Africa and you would have thought it should've been called 50 Shades of Grey!!

    • @JamilahNKamal
      @JamilahNKamal 2 місяці тому +6

      It looks very unnatural! I'm sorry but no!

    • @L0VEJ0NES
      @L0VEJ0NES 2 місяці тому +11

      Exactly. I think there’s beauty in all shades except the bleached ones 😂😂 they look dead

    • @nacho-mammy
      @nacho-mammy 2 місяці тому

      @@fdouble6335😂

  • @Azure_tv
    @Azure_tv 2 місяці тому +285

    Chrissie why you dog walk her like that? I’m calling the police

    • @MyEBTcard
      @MyEBTcard 2 місяці тому +49

      😂😂😂
      🗣Someone plz call 9-1-1, Tell them I jus...lmbo

    • @tuesday225
      @tuesday225 2 місяці тому +10

      @@Azure_tv dog walked her with a short leash!

    • @Blaquebarbgamer
      @Blaquebarbgamer 2 місяці тому +8

      👮🏾 nahhh!!! 😂

    • @CalebTheOwlBoy
      @CalebTheOwlBoy 2 місяці тому +3

      Lolsssss

    • @BackStreetChippets
      @BackStreetChippets 2 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂

  • @Cfwdoe
    @Cfwdoe 2 місяці тому +26

    I love you, Chrissie, always and forever. I’ve been following you since I was in high school. Your space is so classy, feminine, calm, funny, girly, and just Queen energy. I feel like I can disagree respectfully over on your channel as opposed to other channels. We actually have dialogue and open up the discussion. I feel like we can talk about anything over here ,as it pertains to black women.💗💗💗

  • @talltalllady
    @talltalllady 2 місяці тому +15

    I appreciate that you don't speak in that fake soft high pitch annoying voice that all of the Exotica UA-cam channels speak in

  • @glasspuppy4896
    @glasspuppy4896 2 місяці тому +55

    She said she looks like Lauren London but i think she favors Symone Biles.

    • @raelynn.baileigh
      @raelynn.baileigh 2 місяці тому +4

      clock that tea

    • @sarkie3927
      @sarkie3927 2 місяці тому +24

      @@m.s9146who said comparing her to Simone Biles is supposed to be a put down? She is telling us who she looks more like.

    • @Angie-mk1vf
      @Angie-mk1vf 2 місяці тому +29

      @@m.s9146why did you interpret that as a put down? you’re exposing your real beliefs trying to “own” someone.

    • @Angie-mk1vf
      @Angie-mk1vf 2 місяці тому +18

      @@m.s9146 simone biles is a beautiful woman and the greatest gymnast alive. why YOU would interpret comparing someone’s looks to hers as a put down exposed your OWN views on Simone Biles’s looks. Do you see anyone here calling Simone ugly?

    • @nicky9891
      @nicky9891 2 місяці тому +1

      "Unambiguous ones" 😂 when youre ambiguous and your self esteem is STILL in the shitter despite how much propping you get from society. Its pathetic..... Simone biles is by no means ugly or unattractive. So it wasnt a put down. We said Simone has a kitchen but shes pretty and among the top 5 greatest athletes DEAD OR ALIVE ​@m.s9146

  • @RampagingChipmunk
    @RampagingChipmunk 2 місяці тому +115

    I remember back when Sammy Sosa’s skin bleaching first became public and the reaction among the predominantly white sports fans and media I saw at the time was universally negative and shocked. Like literally nobody was saying that he looked good; everyone was straight up freaked out by it or they made fun of how weird he looked. So even in the context of a white supremacist culture, I honestly don’t think it really will have the benefit some people seem to think. While I was listening to this, I did a quick google to read about Meagan Good’s bleaching though and I came across a skin care forum talking about in in a forum section completely dedicated to skin lightening. It has many threads and people discussing it too so unfortunately I guess it is perhaps more common even now than one might assume.

    • @Blaquebarbgamer
      @Blaquebarbgamer 2 місяці тому +65

      Bleaching always has this strange gray undertone. I wish people could love their skin and stop. It looks really strange.

    • @EChique
      @EChique 2 місяці тому +1

      Yt ppl fight over whether other yts get to call themselves yt, why would they look favorably on a blk person attempting to imitate their skin tone 🤦🏾‍♀️. Chrissie is right, the social benefits these skin bleachers believe they’re getting over darker skinned ppl is only seen within the black culture. Just like we see ppl with yt skin as yt, they also see all blk skin ppl as blk. Racism doesn’t go away because of a skin shade

    • @MsElizaRae
      @MsElizaRae 2 місяці тому +4

      Bleaching products are often in hairstores and asian like grocery stores. So yes it is very very common to this day unfortunately. However, like another commentor said, more and more bw have been using tanning products for richer glowy skin so..the tides are slowly changing ❤

  • @emmamartin4045
    @emmamartin4045 28 днів тому +10

    The internalized racism and the self-hatred is incredible. I’m not Black, I’m aware of the prejudice that Black people face, but I’d never have thought that you actually do that to each other too.
    There’s nothing better about having white or mixed features. Whiteness isn’t synonymous with beauty.

  • @crystalmackle5829
    @crystalmackle5829 Місяць тому +6

    Its crazy that in other countries, skin bleaching is highly encouraged. Like in India, higher social economic jobs are set aside for lighter skinned individuals. Also, they run their society in a caste system. The higher in society, they lighter in skin.😮😮😮

  • @ChosenChild-j9i
    @ChosenChild-j9i 2 місяці тому +134

    Chrissie they’re still speaking on you? You really have them bothered.

  • @Skyeway8
    @Skyeway8 2 місяці тому +58

    Chrissie I think you should keep up the slideshow of beautiful dsbw throughout your future videos! I know we all love seeing it and it gives us something nice to look at when the topics get more intense or depressing lol love the video! 😍❣❣

    • @bibaolaitan5189
      @bibaolaitan5189 2 місяці тому +7

      This!!!..

    • @nyaholorunda7167
      @nyaholorunda7167 2 місяці тому +6

      💯

    • @keeshab1173
      @keeshab1173 2 місяці тому +2

      I agree but I think it should be Beautiful black women dark and light and if possible majority with natural hair or locs not wigs.

    • @BrownieCaikes
      @BrownieCaikes 2 місяці тому +23

      ​@@keeshab1173This space is mainly for dark skinned women though.

    • @Iamblahblah111
      @Iamblahblah111 2 місяці тому +1

      @@keeshab1173make your own community this community of for dark skinned women

  • @aspiring...
    @aspiring... 2 місяці тому +43

    I never wanted to be lighter.
    I am medium tone woman and I love getter darker on holiday.
    Having loving, non colourist parents is powerful.

  • @iokie_
    @iokie_ 2 місяці тому +16

    This is extremely ironic considering how they came at PM💀💀

  • @CutebabyDestiney
    @CutebabyDestiney 2 місяці тому +2

    I’ve deemed this channel as very good for my soul💕😍😍🥰 thanks Chrissie 🥹💕

  • @lillybilly9954
    @lillybilly9954 2 місяці тому +136

    I’m 1:30 in. That picture is disguising. They need to be reported.

    • @iammar1159
      @iammar1159 2 місяці тому +1

      They want us to claim them as ⚫️ so bad but they go ahead and post stuff like that. Which really goes to show that they see themselves as ⚫️ the way we are. They know we’re not the same. They only wanna claim it when it benefits them.

    • @laylor4360
      @laylor4360 2 місяці тому +9

      Yeah and taught a very valuable lesson. Can’t wait for that!

    • @Melinanextdoor
      @Melinanextdoor 2 місяці тому

      😂😂 hilarious

    • @Angie-mk1vf
      @Angie-mk1vf 2 місяці тому +2

      @@Melinanextdoor you’re black and arab that image is used against both parts of you🤦🏾‍♀️. y’all aren’t too bright.

  • @AlexisNexia45
    @AlexisNexia45 2 місяці тому +4

    I’ve always loved my unique reddish milk chocolate hue! Never wanted to be lighter complexioned, in my entire life! The tougher part has been featurism …having a nose that’s broader and not petite and pointy. That’s been the bigger struggle. Of course there are people who are attracted, and say I’m beautiful but it’s the smaller percentage. I was shocked to see a fuller nosed girl posted on top of the makeup at Ulta the other day. Maybe we’re coming along in that area too.

  • @T29q
    @T29q 2 місяці тому +80

    Dang she’s texturizing her hair too? Self hate is destroying the black community!

    • @JasminDolly
      @JasminDolly 2 місяці тому +15

      most likely a jherri curl or wanda curl that's what theyre called nowadays

    • @MsElizaRae
      @MsElizaRae 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@JasminDolly my thing is either go all the way or leave it alone 😂 like cosplaying mixed seems worse than anything

  • @sweetaspie2523
    @sweetaspie2523 2 місяці тому +5

    Chrissie I'm so thankful for your platform. You continue to drop so many gems

  • @nybanx130
    @nybanx130 2 місяці тому +35

    The blaxican account is her. She mentioned the Bridgerton top before almost verbatim in another video. I remember her saying how people stare because of her cutesy style. If I could recollect the video I would put them up to each other. Lol

  • @skittlezzify1
    @skittlezzify1 2 місяці тому +75

    It's sad to think that self hatred can become so internalized this way. She not only wants to be racially ambiguous, but also put down the people who look like her. It's like it validates her or something.
    I read Toni Morrison's The Bluest Eye in college and this reminds me of the characters in there quite a bit.

    • @JamilahNKamal
      @JamilahNKamal 2 місяці тому +17

      I see why her "fiance" left her. What man in his right mind would want to deal with that?

    • @Kendricknia
      @Kendricknia 2 місяці тому

      Because she likes bm. And it’s funny because all of these exotic and fake bwe channels claim they dated every non bm alive and claim bm are better for bw. Bw like her are mad and afraid of facing reality, reality is bm don’t like bw. Fighting with other bw is not gonna change anything. 😂

    • @Kendricknia
      @Kendricknia 2 місяці тому +8

      @@JamilahNKamal Girl she even has ww on her channel agreeing with thinking that makes her sane or better. She believes in this racial hierarchy regarding women.

    • @EtherealSolana
      @EtherealSolana 2 місяці тому

      Read that book in my senior year of HS. Coupled with my further class commentary, it made people think. I was actually surprised that they payed attention. It was shocking for many people. But I think most people understood.

    • @EtherealSolana
      @EtherealSolana 2 місяці тому

      @@Kendrickniaeven the suffragette movement (and further the feminist movement) had and has a hierarchy . People want “equality” just not with us. Honestly more like “power” and to take that power from men, not establish fairness.

  • @tuesday225
    @tuesday225 2 місяці тому +47

    I'm dark skinned and the majority of the colorist comments I have had made toward me were from brown skinned females.

    • @maegho
      @maegho 2 місяці тому +32

      I’m brown skin but with reddish undertones, I never faced colorism per say but the people who seemed to get bothered by the idea of me loving my natural shade were either Lightskin women, white women or insecure brown/dark skin. It’s sad but hopefully soon our lady’s will mature

    • @complicatedcoco1082
      @complicatedcoco1082 2 місяці тому +11

      @@maeghoyeah I’ma darkskin woman and unfortunately I’ve heard alot of colorist comments from other darkskin women darker than me or light skin women. Some brown skin women I’ve met just seem delusional and trick themselves into believing their lightskin 🤷🏾‍♀️ it’s a sickness with some of these people

  • @LoXena
    @LoXena 2 місяці тому +9

    She basically stole a random picture from a hair vendor or Pinterest. I did a reverse search.

  • @sunshyn1825
    @sunshyn1825 2 місяці тому +1

    Chrissie has a wealthy woman laugh 😂❤ chrissie, thank you. I was almost invested ìn this mess keep up the work.

  • @oweber2160
    @oweber2160 2 місяці тому +4

    Most of these mixed people look like regular blacks or have slight facial differences but still get grouped with other blacks, not special especially now cause most of the population is mixed

  • @ClassyGyal
    @ClassyGyal 2 місяці тому +61

    You can see the madness in her eyes.

  • @kyraanderson9717
    @kyraanderson9717 2 місяці тому +26

    That right! Tell it like it is chrissie.

  • @TOFFEETASTICC
    @TOFFEETASTICC 2 місяці тому +693

    Akeelah and the bleach. 🫠🧴

    • @classicairwrecka
      @classicairwrecka 2 місяці тому +144

      😂😂😂 someone needs to take your phone

    • @val6189
      @val6189 2 місяці тому +36

      Nah 😂😂😂

    • @Blaquebarbgamer
      @Blaquebarbgamer 2 місяці тому +50

      Ma’am 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @MuseMoriah
      @MuseMoriah 2 місяці тому +55

      STOP LMFAO 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💙

    • @Redd91ful
      @Redd91ful 2 місяці тому +46

      😭💀I read this comment after coming back from her pictures

  • @tomatofeind2019
    @tomatofeind2019 2 місяці тому +36

    Can i just say.....i think EUs skin colour on her Instagram and newer videos is not just the result of bleaching, its mostly filters. She has the brightness turned up so high that she comes across damn near swedish in some pics.

    • @Gigi-j3h
      @Gigi-j3h 2 місяці тому +15

      So true! I am brown skin, when I sued filters, I look so light… I stop doing that tho..

    • @tomatofeind2019
      @tomatofeind2019 2 місяці тому +7

      @@Gigi-j3h seriously!! Look at her UA-cam. Her awful tacky shein video....she looks dayglow white. it's a filter, not bleach. I bet in reality she isn't much darker than she was as a reporter. It's sad bc she's a pretty girl

    • @mahneekaha.nightmare5220
      @mahneekaha.nightmare5220 2 місяці тому +1

      She looks ashy and unnatural not “Swedish”. Filter or bleach, still looks bad.

  • @T4KE_A_BREATH
    @T4KE_A_BREATH 2 місяці тому +48

    "Shaame, shaaaame on you Psychotical, shame. On. You." 😂😂😂😂

  • @Letstalkaboutit2323
    @Letstalkaboutit2323 2 місяці тому +47

    The psychotical wants us to believe that if she actually looked like the picture she uses she’d still prefer not to show her face, am not buying it. She would be using that pretty privilege to get more followers.

    • @TiyaLeonard-jf7og
      @TiyaLeonard-jf7og 2 місяці тому +15

      Girl! Like how is she using an Avatar?! There is no way she is as exotic as she claims💀😆

    • @Letstalkaboutit2323
      @Letstalkaboutit2323 2 місяці тому +16

      @@TiyaLeonard-jf7og exactly. People who look that good don’t have to tell us because we will use our eyes and see. It’s so weird to talk about how women are jealous of you because of your looks when we’ve never seen her.

    • @TiyaLeonard-jf7og
      @TiyaLeonard-jf7og 2 місяці тому

      @letstalkaboutit2323 👏🏽

    • @complicatedcoco1082
      @complicatedcoco1082 2 місяці тому +2

      @@Letstalkaboutit2323literally 😒

  • @ailadacia9309
    @ailadacia9309 2 місяці тому +8

    Omg I am in shock I watched all the links 😮 I used to watch her videos and felt she sounded angry or bitter but it now makes sense. I related to her videos because I do feel like the preference to all men honestly that’s what my life experiences has been (bm included). But I definitely was expecting her to look like Zendaya. To be fair some black people consider me exotic in certain environments 🤷🏾‍♀️ I thought she was a little too focused on your channel

  • @HypeBoutLife
    @HypeBoutLife 2 місяці тому +47

    Exnotical 😂🤷‍♀️

  • @no.6377
    @no.6377 2 місяці тому +13

    Ohh these UA-cam streets are acting up again 🤣🤣

  • @Keepreal83
    @Keepreal83 2 місяці тому

    A confident woman who takes good care of herself is always beautiful. Also watching what you eat can do wonders for mental health

  • @luvlybeauty85
    @luvlybeauty85 2 місяці тому +15

    This is crazy and what else is crazy is that on other platforms women from Nigeria and Jamaica are promoting skin bleaching. I love my complexion so it really puzzles me on why people would do that to their own body. People are just not happy with what God gave them. Being dark skinned should be embraced more. Ijs

  • @AnneJoseph-qk2ns
    @AnneJoseph-qk2ns 2 місяці тому +3

    I thought she wasn't light-skinned. Because if she was light skin she would know that light skin people are born white. She said oh she's trying to be the color she was born and I was thinking what? No light skin person no mixed race person is specifically light at birth. We usually have like white skin. At birth. That to me will let an alarm Bell off that she probably was brown skin or dark skin

  • @T4KE_A_BREATH
    @T4KE_A_BREATH 2 місяці тому +22

    Yeessss for Kandi 😍

  • @rosal1802
    @rosal1802 2 місяці тому +28

    "Your natural beauty is your super power." YESS 👏🏿👏🏿!!

  • @guesta9822
    @guesta9822 2 місяці тому +30

    Thumbnail change?

  • @lilly_ann
    @lilly_ann 2 місяці тому +6

    Not feature blindness 🤣🤣🤣🙈🙈

  • @giacantstoptalking7335
    @giacantstoptalking7335 2 місяці тому +19

    I stumbled on her account a while ago and didn’t think much of it until she started with the anti blackness deep in her heart spilling into the videos, I was so confused when her comments were all so happy and agreeing with her. I truly hope these people get help

  • @mrs.jack-string2420
    @mrs.jack-string2420 2 місяці тому +14

    Plus sized and dark can be beautiful too!!!❤

    • @B0URBON_B0OZY
      @B0URBON_B0OZY 2 місяці тому +1

      Of course 😍

    • @mahneekaha.nightmare5220
      @mahneekaha.nightmare5220 2 місяці тому +6

      Who PREFERS to be plus sized? Especially in most countries?Keep it a buck. I’m not interested in more disadvantages, if I already have them. Makes zero sense. You sound like you’re trying to convince yourself, and others like all big girls I know! Why would that need to be said if it’s commonly thought???

    • @thesecondYouTube
      @thesecondYouTube 2 місяці тому +4

      Plus size isn't positive. It shouldn't be a part of the bw condition to be unhealthy.

    • @thesecondYouTube
      @thesecondYouTube 2 місяці тому +10

      Be healthy. It shouldn't be a part of the bw condition to be seen as unhealthy.

    • @corinicole9271
      @corinicole9271 10 днів тому

      Absolutely!!! No matter your size, focus on your health!! Not all skinny people are necessarily healthy, not all plus sized people are unhealthy. Be the healthiest version of yourself according to YOUR body’s needs! 💜💜

  • @AnneJoseph-qk2ns
    @AnneJoseph-qk2ns 2 місяці тому +1

    No I was aware of that Avatar and it shows that specifically she looks like a darker caramel. That is not the same color as the girl that you're showing that girl in the photo that you're showing is a little bit lighter than me. I am pretty much honey right now. She would be beige. This Avatar would be caramel or kind of like a darker caramel
    So I was aware she was brown. But I really appreciate you showing the comment that I've been trying to put forth all these freaking years thank you girl. I've been trying to put that photo out since 2021. For some reason Daniel La Virgo didn't care too much about the comment. She never posted her up it seemed like. But I tried to keep it. Just so people could see it. So I'm so happy that you guys copied it. As much as you guys may hate me. At least that stuck through. I'm very much appreciative that you specifically kept that comment.

  • @deepbunk112
    @deepbunk112 2 місяці тому +8

    Damn I’m dumbfounded 💀

  • @deekydan
    @deekydan 2 місяці тому +20

    I have a darkskinned friend who wears makeup significantly lighter than her tone. Face looks light, neck looke dark. Im not even comfortable calling her on it. Its sad.

    • @PlantLady9098
      @PlantLady9098 2 місяці тому +24

      I was once that girl. But channels like chrissie’s really helped with my self esteem and self love. Just be honest with your friend and help her find products that match her skin color.

    • @itsjustkani7181
      @itsjustkani7181 2 місяці тому +5

      I have a friend just like that as well, she even talks about how she want her future baby to be light😢

    • @deekydan
      @deekydan 2 місяці тому +3

      @@itsjustkani7181 that's sad. Smh..

  • @ButterflyBree
    @ButterflyBree 2 місяці тому +38

    I didn't know that skin bleaching was so prevalent among relatively younger Black women. There are health complications from using harsh chemicals and it's not worth your health. As someone who spends a lot of time outside I've come to really love my darker Brown summer skintone. I really hope more women learn to love themselves. 😮😮😱😱

    • @maegho
      @maegho 2 місяці тому +15

      Not all of us! I’m freshly 18 and have NEVER thought of doing something like that

    • @corinicole9271
      @corinicole9271 10 днів тому

      The CHEMICALS, absolutely!!! I can see temporarily using it for discolored spots or marks. But to constantly use large amounts over large areas of skin for prolonged periods of time ain’t good for your health. I used to use Ambi Fade cream on my neck, knees and elbows until i got those areas to back to my normal complexion. It even says NOT use for more than a few weeks. I can only imagine what the bleach is actually doing to not only their skin but their health!!

  • @jihadamcsween2677
    @jihadamcsween2677 19 днів тому +1

    After learning about exoticals united being okay with skin bleaching I just tuned out the bs she spewed and take what she says with a grain of salt. I was to be upper class not associated I want to be the wealthy woman with financial freedom

  • @earphbound720
    @earphbound720 5 днів тому

    Everyone is beautiful in their own way

  • @Egomie_666
    @Egomie_666 2 місяці тому +18

    Glad you're back, Chrissie. The AI situation is scary.

  • @Cateyes767
    @Cateyes767 2 місяці тому +27

    Still all about male approval, which isnt needed. I havent noticed skin color differences in black ppl in many years. I just see beauty, cuteness, etc

  • @gmcmim1
    @gmcmim1 2 місяці тому +12

    Educated and savvy response to the madness. Love it. You dropped gems and roasted. Great combo.

  • @SunnyHeartKay
    @SunnyHeartKay 2 місяці тому

    Such a classy, savage clap back ❤.

  • @ChelliesLuxeLiving
    @ChelliesLuxeLiving 2 місяці тому +3

    Can we have that slide show in a reel! I am loving it

    • @ChrissiesWay
      @ChrissiesWay  2 місяці тому +1

      Just made one and more coming soon. Enjoy💕ua-cam.com/users/shortsE9dJjA-zpMg?feature=share

  • @TheBerkeleyBeauty
    @TheBerkeleyBeauty 2 місяці тому +4

    You sound worse to yourself because you’re literally in your own head. You sound fine to us tho ChrissieBoo

  • @Zaqwsx1
    @Zaqwsx1 2 дні тому

    So speaking of skin bleaching. I need to know does kojic acid bleach your skin? I thought it was just to even/brighten it. Like vitamin c serum. I thought of getting some eventually but I'm NOT trying to bleach my skin.

  • @MrsParkerToYou
    @MrsParkerToYou 18 днів тому +1

    Isn’t mixed black women still black ? At least to everyone who isn’t black we are all in the same boat

  • @X3N14
    @X3N14 2 місяці тому +27

    There’s nothing wrong with how she looked to begin with. Imagine being that brainwashed, it’s sad.

  • @bubblegumpeach5662
    @bubblegumpeach5662 2 місяці тому +25

    This is so sad because she is pretty and doesn't need all this. She's so pathetic. It's sad...

    • @eastgapeach
      @eastgapeach 2 місяці тому +8

      Right. It's a shame 😢

    • @mzansialerts2474
      @mzansialerts2474 2 місяці тому +5

      Yea her original picture on the left is bad ass.

  • @LadyOO
    @LadyOO 2 місяці тому +19

    The men on pop the balloon where obviously lighter than Denzel. They looked light skin to me as a dark skin woman. Someone who is light brown is light skin to me an they were definitely light brown .

  • @jihadamcsween2677
    @jihadamcsween2677 19 днів тому

    I’m not dark skin and I have been bullied for my appearance and had my blackness belittled before my mother has had the same issue it’s just sad and hurtful. As far as the exotical content I’ve watched they just talk about their own experience with colorism. Skin bleaching and chemically altering hair is something I can not get behind. I understand why it’s internalized self hate and patriarchy which all women of color have experienced

  • @nna8976
    @nna8976 2 місяці тому

    I love your videos so much. I have been trying to find that live of yours where you interviewed hypergamous black women... Is it deleted??

  • @MrsParkerToYou
    @MrsParkerToYou 18 днів тому +1

    I’m regular black 😅😂

  • @MrsParkerToYou
    @MrsParkerToYou 18 днів тому

    So I went and listened to the exoticals channel and yours and from the outside looking in it would seem there is a colorism war going on between black women. I see that both spectrums want some feature of the other and it’s okay.

  • @successfulMillennial
    @successfulMillennial 2 місяці тому

    @8:27......Twenty thousand seventeen?😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 chrissie

  • @drushaw2968
    @drushaw2968 2 місяці тому +27

    Lmaoooo yall ever heard someone get roasted so bad you wanna see it for yourself😂😂😂 I wanna know who she talking about so bad lmfao

    • @cancerr1sing
      @cancerr1sing 2 місяці тому +2

      If you go on the description of this live and the last one there are links to the exposé of the bleacher

  • @MarianaFereirra-mh3ww
    @MarianaFereirra-mh3ww 2 місяці тому +3

    My mom is black and this is really creepy. Is this not considered a hate crime that is illegal in the states? I mean can you arrest someone for this? This is not normal.

  • @allMinabe
    @allMinabe 2 місяці тому +15

    My mom is beautifully dark skin and when i was a little girl I wanted to have dark skin like her but my mom gave me the best advice then: love the skin that you have do not take it for granted!! Didn't touched bleach in my life! Or skip my sunscreen.❤

  • @talltalllady
    @talltalllady 2 місяці тому

    I'm confused which one is her picture?

  • @sparker7768
    @sparker7768 2 місяці тому +9

    "Light-skin" needs dark-skin" in order to "be" recognized as "light-skinned", IJS. From vanilla to dark chocolate, appreciate and accentuate your personal assets, expand your knowledge base and keep it moving. All of this
    mess is ridiculous.

  • @Loviethecreative
    @Loviethecreative 2 місяці тому +25

    All my psychotical children?! Bahahaga😂

  • @Azure_tv
    @Azure_tv 2 місяці тому +25

    Also her mom is not mixed

  • @hadiza1
    @hadiza1 3 дні тому

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥🔥

  • @princesstiauna
    @princesstiauna 2 місяці тому +13

    I’m brown skin. My beautiful sister is dark skinned. She is literally the bomb lol Seeing the colorism/featurism that my sister has faced throughout the years, I could never have a mindset like those psychoticals.

    • @myturn2runit
      @myturn2runit 2 місяці тому

      Yet you’re dating a white man. If dark skin is sooo beautiful why aren’t you with a bm? UABW just be lying for no reason😂 thanks for making our population increase tho

    • @elizabethckf9178
      @elizabethckf9178 2 місяці тому +5

      @@myturn2runitDSBMen are colorist