Decluttering Q&A

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01.53: I live with my mom and older siblings. For a shared space ( pantry, living room, etc.) Is it ideal to declutter down to a single persons lower clutter threshold if they manage that space the most.
08.42: What is your favorite tip?
14.17: How can you incorporate take it there no if 1. it's not your (helping a friend) 2. it is a lot of items for display and 3. they don't have an idea where they want to display it yet.
24.12: My boyfriend has clutter all over every wall. How can I respectfully ask him to make space for my new visual system.
28.53: You've mentioned that your mothers clutter threshold is higher than yours. Can you go into some detail with examples on how that is?
32.39: I have been gleaning lots of advice from your decluttering podcasts, website etc. and I'm eager to dive in! However, I am extremely overwhelmed and feeling paralyzed. Not quite sure how to begin.
38.29: where you should start when your entire house is a huge cluttered mess. Should I start in the easiest room or the worst?
40.36: ​​?? Is there actually such a thing as rage purging in your opinion? I’m to the point I want to set it all on fire 🔥 I’m just done with all the excess that is everywhere STILL.
43.23: ​​??? my family decluttered so much. One person refuses to declutter because "it can be sold ". Rest of us is down to sentimental stuff - the % of this person's stuff compared to us is so big. Advice?
46.15: ​​Question- how do I make peace with myself giving away decorations for the big holidays? I did get some Christmas decoration out. But unfortunately I regret it.
48.12: ​​??How do I let go of my late husband's research and sermons? It feels like I'm disrespectful of his life's work as a preacher and missionary, even though I know no one else will use them.
50.56: I recently moved and put my kitchen things in various kitchen cabinets. The problem is I don't remember which cabinets I put items in. How could I have done this better? I am 75 which doesn't help. My daughter found the large bowl I couldn't find at Christmas. What should I do better now?
52.37: ???When you are decluttering a small home how do you decide what is container worthy when it feels like what you need is bigger than the container?
55.25: I have decor sitting in my garage that I use once a year probably six boxes to decorate for a ladies conference help