Weaknesses All Sigma Males Struggle (sad reality)

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  • @idealist636
    @idealist636 4 місяці тому +51

    I feel very exposed by brutal honesty here. Wish it all was not true but it is, speaking for myself. The most profound points for me were loneliness, receiving hate, overanalyzing and being misunderstood. But still, I'm happier living up to my integrity, morals, having freedom, being true to myself etc etc. Selling out and being a miserable, robotic enslaved sheep like most, is not an option.

    • @paolobenmore3504
      @paolobenmore3504 4 місяці тому +4

      I personally relate to that. But I would not want to be anyone else.

    • @SigmaMale1337
      @SigmaMale1337  4 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and connection to the video. Your honesty and commitment to staying true to yourself are truly inspiring.

    • @sdsloveslife
      @sdsloveslife 4 місяці тому +4

      I completely empathise with you. Being a Sigma can be challenging but take heart that you are living your life true to who you are.

    • @djsargex7777
      @djsargex7777 4 місяці тому +6

      Trust me, there are more wannabes than actual Sigmas, sigma males are akin to lone wolves, which means they prefer to hunt on their own mostly because others dont like that type of wildness, which also means they are skilled as an entire pack on their own. also means they are tested frequently and growing up would of been in more altercations than even an alpha and won them all, because 1, we dgaf, 2. most dimwits and alphas dont recognize what we are and underestimate us, and most ppl who claim to be sigmas are too fruity and never had a life like that. Real Sigmas are silent Apex predators, they float between multiple packs and mostly have Alpha friends because they are the most relatable. A lonewolf is only thought as one when its alone, other times it blends in with the pack effortlessly. ppl think sigmas are out side of the hierarchy, but in truth they run multiple packs and usually leave an alpha in charge in their absence. Also very likely were part of a single pack in their youth and leading it and broke it in search for adventure where we cant take the entire pack with us. If you cant relate to this, i guarantee you are not a sigma, likely a confused/wannabe gamma.

    • @Matt-oy7pz
      @Matt-oy7pz 3 місяці тому

      well said.

  • @ralliart4j12
    @ralliart4j12 3 місяці тому

    永远不向命运低头,迎接疾风暴雨

  • @True38
    @True38 4 місяці тому +29

    Once again, I can relate to every single one of these weaknesses. That's why starting your own business and investing for financial freedom is one of the best deals a Sigma male can get.
    If you're going to work for others, make sure the work is as independent as possible with a small team with mutual interests that works toward a common goal. The more peace of mind you have during work, the better.

    • @vintan7407
      @vintan7407 4 місяці тому

      I tried to have that experience, it's useless and boring

    • @SigmaMale1337
      @SigmaMale1337  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and relating to the content. Your support and understanding mean a lot. Keep pursuing your goals and working towards financial freedom!

    • @brianstewart9470
      @brianstewart9470 3 місяці тому

      Yep..I drive trucks...a solitude profession

  • @mrmrsk219
    @mrmrsk219 4 місяці тому +20

    A small circle is more than plenty.

  • @devonmalcolm34
    @devonmalcolm34 4 місяці тому +17

    Learn to adapt to situations & if you can’t leave that space there’s no ropes tying you down.

    • @SigmaMale1337
      @SigmaMale1337  4 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for the wise words! I appreciate the reminder to stay flexible.

  • @MeatSuit-1926
    @MeatSuit-1926 4 місяці тому +12

    The good thing is we can control our own minds and switch off any said feelings and emotions that the world deliberately and ruthlessly inflict upon us after knowing the truth unlike the sheep today that feel the need to inflict all of this spiritual and psychological warfare in the first place!!

  • @jaybanksuniversal
    @jaybanksuniversal 4 місяці тому +8

    Sigma never pretends - let alone pretend to have it all together. One doesn’t enjoy bamboozling others about what they’re feeling…and it’s 100x more repelling just from the Thought of lying to self.

    • @SigmaMale1337
      @SigmaMale1337  4 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts, authenticity is something to be valued.

    • @jaybanksuniversal
      @jaybanksuniversal 4 місяці тому

      @@SigmaMale1337 True indeed

  • @2bjjones
    @2bjjones 4 місяці тому +3

    At this point, I do feel superiority over the overwhelming majority of humanity. It's obvious I'm looking at and dealing with oompa loompas.

  • @elunclesamprz5801
    @elunclesamprz5801 4 місяці тому +4

    Boy are my ears RED,yup that's me,the main one that hit me is the communication barrier,I don't do good with small talk,wish I did, but I don't

  • @bobbylibertini
    @bobbylibertini 4 місяці тому +10

    I really don't know where the author is getting this stuff from. I fit the sigma criteria in virtually every way, to the letter- but I AM spontaneous, and while I CAN maintain a schedule or routine when needed/wanted, I would absolutely hate to live my life that way. Considering the other sigma characteristics, one should realize that we of all people can roll with the punches and not only handle, but enjoy and demand a spontaneous lifestyle. Yes, we can tend to over-analyze every little thing- but while I can't speak for others, I know with myself, I tend to minimalize that; or if I do engage in it, I hold back and ignore the possibilities, and rather just deal with the situation on a take-it-at-face-value/spontaneous level until I have reason to do otherwise.
    Small talk? Yes, while I detest it when engaged in by people I've known for a long time, I have no trouble tolerating and engaging in it with strangers/casual acquaintances for the social amenity it is/to put them at ease/reduce tension.
    There is one thing that the author does not seem to understand: We sigmas, probably more than anyone else, are versatile, and will gladly operate in pretty much any behavior outside of our own realm when it is propitious to do so. I think the author is confusing is with JERKS!

    • @kevinhaney293
      @kevinhaney293 3 місяці тому

      I personally love spontaneity and adventure. On a trip to Italy, my wife wanted to plan out every day. I, on the other hand, said no, let's just go and let things unfold. I went along with her plan as I don't care to argue. I found things tedious and boring but said nothing. Wife is a control freak, and I avoid control. This is why I work for myself and often by myself. Don't care to be employed by others.

  • @jasmintina8364
    @jasmintina8364 4 місяці тому +7

    im a woman, 💯% all me, my grandfather, my father, my brother and my son. There is one in every generation.

  • @sdsloveslife
    @sdsloveslife 4 місяці тому +3

    I express support to all my Sigma brothers here and around the world. I feel your struggles.

  • @LoneWolfRedd
    @LoneWolfRedd 4 місяці тому +4

    Being sigma is a love hate kind of thing...

  • @DenSchimmige
    @DenSchimmige 4 місяці тому +3

    Over analyzing every word that is being said.. yeah it is a true pain in the ass 😅

  • @deenice8880
    @deenice8880 4 місяці тому +4

    Definitely on point

  • @matthiaslangbart9841
    @matthiaslangbart9841 4 місяці тому +2

    I agree for myself on every point, but at the end of the day nothing will be eaten as hot as it has been cooked. For instance,
    smalltalk is not my thing either. However, I can learn to use it strategically. I do the boring fluff talk first, and let it lead to the deeper interesting topics I like to talk about. I don't feel lonely either because I have quite a bunch of people who are always excited when I call them after a few weeks with no contact. Yes, feeling stressed out by aggressive intruders three times a minute is a problem, but if you are prepared, you can fight back. (“What's wrong with you? Yesterday you bothered me three times a minute with crap talk, today only once within 3 minutes. Are you running out of material? You disappoint me!”)

  • @wyattmorris8768
    @wyattmorris8768 4 місяці тому +3

    The most dangerous person is a person who has nothing to lose. The reason why this is relevant is because sigma are shaped and made into a person who people has done wrong over time. No body likes the monster they created.

  • @Artis_Lapsley
    @Artis_Lapsley 4 місяці тому +4

    The eye contact thing is a BIG thing to me. 👁️💯

    • @SigmaMale1337
      @SigmaMale1337  4 місяці тому +1

      Totally agree with you! Eye contact is so important to me too. Thanks for pointing it out!

  • @steven.stevenson94132
    @steven.stevenson94132 4 місяці тому +2

    You still don't know what it's like to power up like Goku into Super Saiyan Blue, Mister.
    I was at that point in 2018/19. But it's hours of daily effort and routine.
    6 hours a day, everyday. In one year, the presence of a spirit takes form around your house. Sometimes a Crow with an unusually long Beak. Sometimes Porcelain like Angel Ladies. Depending the Vibrations you are engaging with.
    Vibrations are what we come from Mister. As does all of this world and creation. If you can wield and control Vibrations with focus you can slow down or even stop aging.
    Getting sick becomes a thing of the past. Your body feels light as a feather. Your ears see things other can't. And you change in a way, so much so. You don't give a shit anymore about people and what happens to them.
    You begin to live above Good and evil. Present but uninterested in nearly all earthly matters. You only find appeal in those that vibrate on the same frequency as your self. When you ffo so deep, even the concept of parents doesn't mean anything.
    It's a choice between living in the human rat race or embracing Vibrations that are so potent, they spontaneously manifest life, permeate and penetrate every empty pocket, space, vacuum, corner of existence. And those energies don't recognize you unless you vibrate on their frequency.
    I live by the rules of creation and existence. This is why I can see so much more than regular, "Normies"
    Did you know, there is an Infinite number of heavens and hells. And people may never meet in this world, nor ever meet in any form of after life ever.
    So, what I do here is an effort to find my spot In the after life, in the higher tiers of the more pure energies and Vibrations. Because they, provide a contentness and a form of indifference that's so divine and homely you would give up your family and every one else to taste it for all Infinite cycles of creation
    My 2 cents, Mister
    Nice content.

  • @vincentleoni6334
    @vincentleoni6334 3 місяці тому +1

    All true, I know ppl around me misunderstand me all the times.

  • @mrz1949
    @mrz1949 4 місяці тому +3

    Totally wrong, true sigma use on every endeavor what we call “critical route” means avoiding every possible obstacle and a true sigma never worries also not true that we are overwhelmed by crowds, we just ignore them, but it is very common to avoid that eventuallity and finally there are two fillings that we don’t have, one is fear and the second one is worrying

    • @kls701
      @kls701 4 місяці тому +1

      you know everyone who is a sigma and has the traits have different strengths and weaknesses these videos are not 100 percent a definition of what one is. A sigma can be overwhelmed by crowds doesn't mean he is not a sigma.

    • @SigmaMale1337
      @SigmaMale1337  4 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts on the true sigma approach, it's always great to learn different viewpoints.

  • @thedopeone96
    @thedopeone96 4 місяці тому +1

    If you think about it our weaknesses just makes us more stronger 🤷🏾

  • @chezzmaine
    @chezzmaine 4 місяці тому +7

    This is so accurate

    • @SigmaMale1337
      @SigmaMale1337  4 місяці тому

      I appreciate your support and feedback. It means a lot!

  • @robertclark9
    @robertclark9 15 днів тому

    It is a heavy burden being a lone wolf. But it’s a much heavier burden being STUPID! I’ll gladly deal with the side effects, rather than suffer from the disease. People are going to think what they think, and feel what they feel, regardless of how I live my life. I wasn’t born into this world to provide explanations to others.

  • @x_MrYAYA_x
    @x_MrYAYA_x 4 місяці тому +2

  • @FREEDYITHEREALKING
    @FREEDYITHEREALKING 4 місяці тому +4

    🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤
    #WE THE SIGMA MALES

  • @SimonDeVos-w1g
    @SimonDeVos-w1g 3 місяці тому

    As sigma male , I don’t care about Tom Dick and
    Harry , I have my own load
    to carry, I know personally
    Some people’s feedback can be asset to me or a complete liability to me
    As sigma male i weigh out
    my options, then I make
    my decision, as Sigma male myself, don’t be your
    own difficult road map ,
    When choosing or finding
    way , Quit living a rigid lifestyle. Not all or some
    will go according to plan
    No matter what game plan
    You’re in, my advice be
    Flexible or adaptable in
    Your demeanor. Life doesn’t have to be as serious as heart attack
    Quit crying over spilled
    Milk . You let negative reactions get the best of you. Instead of you controlling it

  • @LoneShadowBlogz
    @LoneShadowBlogz 3 місяці тому

    Geez! Personally, listening to the “harsh reality” spoken here really gets to me 😢 Especially No. 6, seeing all these points are all associated with who I am, surely it shows and confirm the SIGMA psyche in me 😢

  • @We-Do-NOT-Consent-303
    @We-Do-NOT-Consent-303 Місяць тому

    Most of these doesn't apply to me😮 I don't do guilt tripping😮 I analyse but I don't overanalyze😮 I am mostly alone but I am never lonely😮 people misunderstand me frequently but I shrug it off oh well you can't please everyone😮 I can handle a few hours in crowded places Like clubs or festivals but then I have to clean myself energetically because I pick up people's negative energy😮 I don't let the blame Game affect me either😅😅😅

  • @mikevecchio6284
    @mikevecchio6284 2 місяці тому

    Wow. Nailed it. Only one I have a bit different is that I am able to go into a space where I know absolutely nobody and I will strike a conversation with them Just to find out more about them and collect data. I'm also INFJ which I'm thinking a lot of sigma empaths are.

  • @arulraj6897
    @arulraj6897 3 місяці тому

    Do you guys are also over sensitive (body and feelings)? My body can only adapt with natural foods and environment.

  • @davidyoung9438
    @davidyoung9438 3 місяці тому

    I find it unfortunate that videos like these are finite and therefore inaccurate. Despite your personality, your life experiences and birth order have an effect on the development of your personality. People that are the last child born in their family typically have certain personality traits, like being spontaneous and adventurous. So they can't be a sigma empath? I call BS. There is give and take within every personality type. The cookie cutter personality stereotype is a fallacy. I do enjoy these videos, however I'll never agree with everything. All the intricacies that go into a personality are constantly changing with the individuals development. Anybody else noticed but none of these videos include marriage or family? It's always about the single White Collar sigma male. Seems rather nearsighted and incomplete.

  • @lifter1000
    @lifter1000 2 місяці тому

    Wrong! They are extremely spontaneous and unpredictable.

  • @DLAXTOX
    @DLAXTOX 2 місяці тому

    I have found my reason for small talk, it is to trick someone, but I am unable to lie 😭😥. it's cruel .
    someone give me the way you have been able to bear it and find a genuine chit-chat

  • @davidhuffman4036
    @davidhuffman4036 3 місяці тому

    A narcissistic loved one can bring a sigma down and sometimes keep them there. INFJ sigmas get the worse end. It's a curse knowing the hidden meanings and actions of someone. Especially a liar that insist they are truthful etc.

  • @jmora1914
    @jmora1914 4 місяці тому +4

    I'm a true sigma. I have been trying to open up more than usual, and am need to ask for help but it's very hard to trust. Unlike most sigmas, I can converse with others extremely well. But my last girlfriend Said I wasn't very emotionally open or vulnerable for her comfort. Which is part of being a sigma. We keep everything close to the chest. And as I grew up I was very cordial and well-liked by many. But Imo the nature of a sigma is nurture rather than nature. I think that all the Sigma’s have troubled pasts. I know that I have been through an immense deal of things. As a truly diagnosed Sigma, I know that I have a hard time opening up and that all sigmas are extremely guarded and make excellent boyfriends and lovers. And a sigma that finds his queen is an extremely great husband. If he finds the warrioress to his warrior nature. I guess how I'd illustrate it is in the history of Sparta with King Leonidas and his beautiful and devoted queen Gorgo. Even the movie as well as in the history books I read showed her being his fellow ruler, and he and she consulted each other on the decisions of their nation's future. A sigma needs the lioness to match his lion. We sigmas have faults enough and this video showed a lot of them which I agree with. But the truth is we have these kinds of weaknesses and faults bcz we've been hurt so much.

  • @careyolson3446
    @careyolson3446 3 місяці тому

    When I was younger, it seemed like a blessing... as I get older, it feels more and more like a curse.

  • @IAmWhatIAm7573
    @IAmWhatIAm7573 4 місяці тому

    Every personality type has his own demons.

  • @dickieblench5001
    @dickieblench5001 3 місяці тому

    I've been misunderstood my entire life

  • @patrickstogsdill74
    @patrickstogsdill74 4 місяці тому

    This des irbes me perfectly

  • @vintan7407
    @vintan7407 4 місяці тому +2

    I Appreciate, for not over exposing us

    • @SigmaMale1337
      @SigmaMale1337  4 місяці тому +1

      I'm glad you appreciate it, I try to keep things balanced.

  • @lebethonii6683
    @lebethonii6683 4 місяці тому +1

    Well said

  • @mathieurenaud5850
    @mathieurenaud5850 4 місяці тому +2

    💪💯

  • @Kingdennissinned
    @Kingdennissinned 4 місяці тому +1

    Nah. Not me. .....Nevermind

  • @miltonpowell9520
    @miltonpowell9520 3 місяці тому

    Wow 😮😮🥰

  • @avikchatterjee1945
    @avikchatterjee1945 4 місяці тому

    True.

  • @feka7183
    @feka7183 4 місяці тому

    The nigative parts of noble person that he does not have time for others !!???

    • @SigmaMale1337
      @SigmaMale1337  4 місяці тому

      Thank you for pointing out this perspective. It's important to recognize both the positive and negative aspects of noble behavior.

  • @blackhawk6695
    @blackhawk6695 4 місяці тому

    Gvb

  • @maritimerecreationhallm7491
    @maritimerecreationhallm7491 4 місяці тому

    It's not that we hate crowds or gathering, we simply feel that it is unimportant to us. Same way, if we really want to be involved, we can easily adapt and converse. I believe, we are wired differently and going into any settings, we are already aware of the surroundings. Now we prioritize in our heads, how important it is in an instant and act accordingly!

  • @jpbart1390
    @jpbart1390 4 місяці тому

    Loneliness is an emotion I lack. I must be even more rare than other Sigmas. I can relate to all 8 of those points, though.

    • @SigmaMale1337
      @SigmaMale1337  4 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences! It means a lot.

    • @jpbart1390
      @jpbart1390 4 місяці тому

      @@SigmaMale1337 No probs, dude. I always enjoy your enlightening con tent.

  • @DanielCoggins-sm5hg
    @DanielCoggins-sm5hg 4 місяці тому

    I thought it would be a bit more brutal, but I got through the video without getting a little sad. #1 made me try to remember who hates me, there are few, and less as time goes. If everyone likes you, something is wrong.

    • @SigmaMale1337
      @SigmaMale1337  4 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for watching the video!

  • @anonkarma2.027
    @anonkarma2.027 4 місяці тому

    I’m infernal being so sky high expectations a’int my style Bro 😁👊🏻 Great vid but seriously, I’m imperfect and everybody is somehow and to some extend. This is why there are some unwritten rules, until our imperfections doesn’t cross a boundaries and few others that are unspoken. 🙏🏻

    • @MeatSuit-1926
      @MeatSuit-1926 4 місяці тому

      Here's thing those imperfections can be made into perfections later on down the line it's a given fact apply this information to your life and you'll notice the subtle change begin within your life when you least expect it!

    • @SigmaMale1337
      @SigmaMale1337  4 місяці тому +1

      Totally get what you mean, imperfections make us unique. Thanks for watching the video, bro!

  • @tylrdean
    @tylrdean 4 місяці тому

    I agree whit 4 and on. The rest is off the mark.

    • @SigmaMale1337
      @SigmaMale1337  4 місяці тому +1

      I appreciate your feedback on the different points!

    • @tylrdean
      @tylrdean 4 місяці тому

      @@SigmaMale1337 just doing my part I guess.

  • @cheslinscheepers2547
    @cheslinscheepers2547 3 місяці тому +1

    I do struggle with perfectionism and self criticism.

  • @PaulA.685
    @PaulA.685 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you thank you & thank you!!!🎯🫡💯🔥

    • @SigmaMale1337
      @SigmaMale1337  4 місяці тому

      Thank you for being an amazing viewer!

  • @getadam
    @getadam 4 місяці тому +1

    God bless you for telling me who I am with 100% accuracy.

    • @SigmaMale1337
      @SigmaMale1337  4 місяці тому

      I appreciate your support and I'm grateful that you found my video helpful!

  • @IshTony
    @IshTony 4 місяці тому +1

    Not easy being a sigma 😅

  • @Yayoz-dj5nu
    @Yayoz-dj5nu 4 місяці тому +1

    I feel this video

  • @jameshunter3867
    @jameshunter3867 4 місяці тому

    ...Nailed me on nearly every one of these.

    • @SigmaMale1337
      @SigmaMale1337  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts!

  • @JootiongPee-me9vy
    @JootiongPee-me9vy 4 місяці тому +1

    Facts.