So true, when someone is cheating you will know because it impacts everything. You do become sensitive to that spirit. It's a dead giveaway every time.
My ex always had his phone unlocked and Facebook logged in so I could “check whenever I want”. So initially I was like well he might not be on anything.. WRONG. He knew how to play the game. I thank the Lord sooo much for removing me from that. God knows what they are doing/saying behind your back so don’t try to hold on. Thank the Lord and keep it moving. It took time to heal but I’m better than ever and I give God the glory!!!!🙏🏽
Yep same here! My husband and I always shared all passwords. Found out he had other women on the side, just deleted all communication with them every day before he got out of the truck after work. But all things done in the dark shall come to the light. Caught him in our bed with one of them. I thank God for showing me the kind of man I was married to.
Shoot my ex had an app downloaded to cheat! Text now was the name of the app. The calls nor text messages showed up on the plan....a cheater will find a way
Valencia D. WOW. And the fact that there’s an app for this is insane. Just leave. Why do all of that. WOW 😳 I just looked it up this app even lets you choose your own free phone number. It’s kinda sick
De'ArRa ofMe exactly people slick as heck....totally blindsided me....went through all of that mess to cheat. After I found out about the app I was like danggggg really
This is the second time I’ve been cheated on. First time it was allegedly only messages, now today I found out it’s messages and been physical. My feelings are so hurt. It hurts to let go but I know I have to
Tony and this purse kills me every time 😂😂😂 nothing but truth! I went through this with my ex. He didn’t want to do the all work just bits and pieces of the work. No sir 🙅🏾♀️ never again. Got to go! *in my Tony Gaskins voice* 🏃🏾♀️
Women that forgives cheating in my opinion are desperate for love and good sex, and are afraid of being alone, and have a very low self esteem period. Why else would they put up with that type of behavior?
Me. Still wondering if it was a good idea since there is NO trust at all and I am always wondering if he is still cheating on me just better this time. He is no longer angry like he was when he was cheating, and he actually has their weird calmness and quietness about him. He actually acts like he beats himself up due to his guilt for cheating....but then again hard to tell!
@@blueseptember2174 *You should forgive a cheater and move on remembering the good times (regardless of length of relationship). You should never confront a cheater showing anger, frustration and upset because it’s meaningless; It’s only an ego stroke for them. Cheaters don’t care what you think, how you feel or how it affects you, that’s why they don’t consult with you before starting something with someone else. Cheaters pretend remorseful when their caught, some will provide an Oscar worthy performance. Ending a relationship with a cheater is the most unselfish thing you could ever do for someone else. It allows them to opportunity to have a clear conscience, get with others guilt free without all the misleading and sneaking around. Forgiveness does not mean you have to stay.*
Cheating is so common for the men in my Jamaican family I'm just decencitized. I thought I had a perfect black family until I hit middle school and saw the truth. They never stop. Disgusting. Don't stay with cheaters and if you do, open the relationship or get your own boo. Do not stay and forgive because that is dumb and you are risking your life and your children will lose respect for you with each passing day.
F.Y.I they have apps where you can hide your private things and the person looking at will be none the wiser because the screen set will be the same. I forgot what you call. Kinda like a dummy screen. You honestly just have to pay attention to the signs.
A lot of men (especially those working out of the office) have a cell phone that was given to them by their job and that is what they use instead of their regular cell phone.
I know someone that this happened to he is telling the truth. The husband put a tracking device on his wife's car. And followed her to make sure that's where she was.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 at scrolling through the sent mail and the trash email. Lol. But ummm, while you're in there, check the spam too just in case one got filtered by mistake.
Because the person they downgraded to knows that person is normally way out of their league. They are ssooo grateful for the attention that they will believe anything and put up with anything to keep what they view as a prize.
2MW naah. Thankfully, we can either forgive or let go and be okay in God's eyes. I think women that do all that become angry masculine women when they don't want to. Can you imagine? On TOP of parenting - monitoring another adult.
They both cheaters. Whether it's one time or 1000 times. They are still a cheater. U can't water down or sugar coat is a cheater. I ain't got time to monitor no grown man to see what he is doing at all times and going through his information. Nah when it get to that point he can go
There are people that will sling themselves alllll over town and do everything possible to stop you leaving! Don't put your heart in the hands of anyone but your children.
My ex just sent me this on FB messenger "I'm sorry for how I treated you. Please forgive me." He had started a relationship on FB and broke up with me after physically becoming intimate with the person. It's been about a month and a half I left him to his choice. This relationship is more of a weekend get together or when possible and by phone and social media, it is a long distance relationship. How do I respond to his apology when I'm not sure what his intentions are?
My girlfriend has cheated on me 4 times and I forgive her… and she’s still cheating on me without any remorse.. I love her so much and it hurts a lot to see myself leaving her.. I don’t know what to do. Please someone should help me tell me if I should move on or stay??
I’m just so confused…….. Him and I have been LDR the whole time any I had to be extra loyal you know meaning I never got anything physical from them IRL but we still talked…. Well he was messaging other women on the internet making the first move…… Now he keeps saying sorry and that he loves me… wtf?
I gotta worry about my kid using my phone because I send nudes to his dad, as well as have videos of our nasty time on there. Thankfully he doesn’t care yet about the photo app. I clean up as much as I can but it still makes me nervous.
I forgave my ex-husband for cheating....all he did was hide it better. Even though I had access to all his accounts...he just created new accounts and got another phone. Life is too short for all of that..which is why I filed for divorce and left him. Even though I had a 4 year old child at the time, I got to a point where I was like I would rather be alone than to deal with that foolishness. After leaving him, I did some healing and learning...now I am engaged to a better man. Ladies, life is too short and it is better to just move on.
YES! They learn to hide it better and if you’re married they will hide money/assets too because they are preparing for the inevitable. Be careful ladies.
@@SittingPRETTY727 less /sex or none....taking phone calls on bathroom...change in clothing& ecsesive cologne...laying phone face down.some not answering phone...more time spent away from home...less attention.aloof.detached...coming in late /or leaving out super early...when his phone ring..he always say it that same hitta friend...looking fine as he'll& his attitude is nonchalant...he bought to drop a dime& pick up a penny
i think this is about if you are taking back a man who has claimed to change.. you cant just take his word for it if you decide to give a second chance..the title is, if you forgive cheating. Theres a trial period as he says to build trust and look for red flags.
After ove 25 years, business, kids, it can get complicated and you weigh starting over and seeing if there is true repentance and desire on either side to Investigate if the relationship can be restored/ saved... in some form, whether marriage or not.
They depend on us being stupid. Women are competitive. We hate to see the "other woman" win. We don't stop to think!! She didn't win, you did if you left this cheater and now you're doing better. Then, why complete with someone when y'all are apples and pecans? That's not a competition. That's stupidity. I find that when Im with someone who doesn't deserve to go where I know God is taking me and I keep trying to fit him in.....God halts my blessings. Everyone can't go where you go. Some people have to get left behind, because that is what they deserve. They don't deserve you! It might hurt, but it will hurt more if you stay. A cheater will NOT stop cheating, if that is a part of his resume'. I also learned that you can't hurt a man back who hurts you. Lord knows I have tried! Therir hurt will come, when they are forced to stay with that down grade and look like a complete fool. Leave him and watch God increase your blessings! I'm telling you what I know. I'm living proof.
@@montricec8795 Well said! Well said indeed & so TRUE! I too am a living witness & his downgrade is trying so hard to not only be me, but also try to look like me. Lol! What a miserable life they chose. I AM UNIQUELY & WONDERFULLY MADE BY GOD! THEE ORIGINAL! Often imitated but NEVER duplicated.
I just don’t understand the whole cheating thing? Why even be in a relationship if you like/want other people. Stay single than & you can be with as many people as you like trust there’s a lot of women out there that will go along with it 🙄 I mean that seems logical to me 🤷🏼♀️ instead of going around torturing someone they know loves them because that’s basically what they’re doing
They like the best of both worlds. I'd just assume it's out of pure selfishness. It's a satanic trait. He hasn't humbled himself, his ego is to big. And he has deep seeeded insecurity and self hate.
I could never forgive a cheating man. Once I see that a man is willing to give himself over so easily to his fleshly desires, I can never trust them and that will make me insecure long term. Ladies, don’t let a man take your dignity/integrity. Those things don’t belong to him ♥️♥️
I forgive, I just don't forget & therefore have to end the relationship. Once that trust is broken, I'm never the same. A person has to be held accountable for their actions. Just like God forgave Adam & Eve for eating from the tree of life, while he still loved them, he held them responsible for their actions!
Most people on UA-cam say NEVER check someone's phone.. It's an invasion of privacy, immature, insecure, etc. ... I'm like righhtttt. 👀 Because trust 100% anyone you date is never going to have anything to hide & you have no right to look & confirm to yourself since you are giving this person your time & effort. Especially when you have that gut feeling. 🙄 Tony knows! He even explains how to be appropriate about it & all. You should be able to see if they are true or not without going overboard. Like he said... If they don't want you to, they clearly have something to hide. 🎯
*You should forgive a cheater and move on remembering the good times (regardless of length of relationship). You should never confront a cheater showing anger, frustration and upset because it’s meaningless; It’s only an ego stroke for them. Cheaters don’t care what you think, how you feel or how it affects you, that’s why they don’t consult with you before starting something with someone else. Cheaters pretend remorseful when their caught, some will provide an Oscar worthy performance. Ending a relationship with a cheater is the most unselfish thing you could ever do for someone else. It allows them to opportunity to have a clear conscience, get with others guilt free without all the misleading and sneaking around. Forgiveness does not mean you have to stay.*
Honestly in reading these comments I feel like the fish out of water. 🙄Moat women draw the line and move on after cheating. Me, I’m somehow attracted to being that doormat and I wish it wasn’t so because I allow my own heart to break over and over. 😭Wish I was more like y’all 🙏
What is done in the dark will ALWAYS come to the light. It never fails.
Yesssss! I totally agree
Yes I agree completely!
I agree
Absolutely!
Yup! Sooner or later.
If he can't control his bodily sensations he is already one foot out the door. That's a no no for a Lady with self respect. byeeeee
They don't want to be forgiven. They want you to have amnesia.
I think they have amnesia the same day🤔
Right after they commit the act they instantly get amnesia 🥴
More like a time travel machine
Literally!
I’m sorry. But I can’t forgive a cheater. If you cheat we are done immediately!!!!
I’m too grown to be playing FBI behind a grown boy. If he cheated, he better make sure she’s a keeper. Because I’m gone.
Are you married ?
@@jodimctaggart9985 Being married and being cheated on makes it worse in my opinion
Wise words
Lekeshia McPherson ....I am on the same page as you.
So true, when someone is cheating you will know because it impacts everything. You do become sensitive to that spirit. It's a dead giveaway every time.
Yes !! Even the littlest amount of daily communication.
Its sad that all the real solid women get cheated on.
@@taramay8174 solid men get cheated on to..
Hold up though lol As much as I actually 100% agree with you, He always accusing me of shit that I ain’t doing for sure.
Cheaters self project
Personally, I think life is too Short to try and reform a cheater. I’d rather just cut them off However too each their own.
So agree!
Why are you working so hard for a person that betrayed you. The person who cheated should be the one on their knees.
And don't be sleeping with him during this time...
I wouldn't want them back once the relationship is broken there's no why of making it right again.
My ex always had his phone unlocked and Facebook logged in so I could “check whenever I want”. So initially I was like well he might not be on anything.. WRONG. He knew how to play the game. I thank the Lord sooo much for removing me from that. God knows what they are doing/saying behind your back so don’t try to hold on. Thank the Lord and keep it moving. It took time to heal but I’m better than ever and I give God the glory!!!!🙏🏽
Yep same here! My husband and I always shared all passwords. Found out he had other women on the side, just deleted all communication with them every day before he got out of the truck after work. But all things done in the dark shall come to the light. Caught him in our bed with one of them. I thank God for showing me the kind of man I was married to.
God has nothing to do with that
A second phone they keep at work
This man tells no lies... I lived it 🙌🏾
Cheating is just unacceptable ⛔
👀 “I’m in the email, I’m in the sent mail, I’m in the trash, I’m in the junk folder!!” Lmbo 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That’s a lot too much energy smh 🤦🏾♀️
@@chynadoll77cyn59 You're right, but uhm, I'll take 3 hours of research over 20 plus wasted years.
@@maebeacook Hell yeah......
Get that purse.......got ta go!!!!!🏃🏼♀️🏃🏼♀️🏃🏼♀️
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Shoot my ex had an app downloaded to cheat! Text now was the name of the app. The calls nor text messages showed up on the plan....a cheater will find a way
Valencia D. WOW. And the fact that there’s an app for this is insane. Just leave. Why do all of that. WOW 😳 I just looked it up this app even lets you choose your own free phone number. It’s kinda sick
De'ArRa ofMe exactly people slick as heck....totally blindsided me....went through all of that mess to cheat. After I found out about the app I was like danggggg really
What app?
I did forgive a cheating boyfriend in the past. But, I also left him in the dust. 🏃🏽♀️💨
That's my current plan
Before Tony even speaks i click the “Like” button because I know it’s going to be Good. Bless you Tony and your Family.
This is the second time I’ve been cheated on. First time it was allegedly only messages, now today I found out it’s messages and been physical. My feelings are so hurt. It hurts to let go but I know I have to
I hope you’re better. I just found out he cheated with multiple women physically. I’m numb, but that’s the end for me.
i feel your pain i recently just found out my husband of 22 years and 4 daughters has been cheating
It’s unfortunate ladies that literally there’s probably 1% rate of good men nowadays especially. Social media is the devils playground for sure.
@@stephanienelly90 wish you well on your healing journey
@@stephanienelly90Going through the same thing, after 2 years, my partner has been cheating on me for 5 months
Kmsl...When Tony starts gathering them things, tickles me.
LaShonda King yesss! Hes so animated! 😂
Gurl! Me too!!!!
The "pink panther " tip toe to took me outta here 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Once a man mess up with me I will never forgive him. Our relationship will not be the same.
It’s gone come out of a man is cheating
I love the purse grab lol! This was a good message. No lies told here, been here and not going through it again.
Me either sis 🙌🏾
Violation of probation 😂😂😂
Tony and this purse kills me every time 😂😂😂 nothing but truth! I went through this with my ex. He didn’t want to do the all work just bits and pieces of the work. No sir 🙅🏾♀️ never again. Got to go! *in my Tony Gaskins voice* 🏃🏾♀️
Transparency building trust. Tony Gaskin.
yeah, most cheaters will never agree to this type of transparency ...smh
Women that forgives cheating in my opinion are desperate for love and good sex, and are afraid of being alone, and have a very low self esteem period. Why else would they put up with that type of behavior?
Cheating not a cheater
@@jodimctaggart9985 OOPS my bad that was a typographical error sorry. I meant to say a cheater.
Patricia I don’t forgive cheaters but a person that cheated can actually be loyal after
I would forgive them like that! But no chance in hell I'm staying
Who in the comments has actually forgave someone who cheated on them and stood with him/her?
Me. Still wondering if it was a good idea since there is NO trust at all and I am always wondering if he is still cheating on me just better this time. He is no longer angry like he was when he was cheating, and he actually has their weird calmness and quietness about him. He actually acts like he beats himself up due to his guilt for cheating....but then again hard to tell!
@@blueseptember2174 *You should forgive a cheater and move on remembering the good times (regardless of length of relationship). You should never confront a cheater showing anger, frustration and upset because it’s meaningless; It’s only an ego stroke for them. Cheaters don’t care what you think, how you feel or how it affects you, that’s why they don’t consult with you before starting something with someone else. Cheaters pretend remorseful when their caught, some will provide an Oscar worthy performance. Ending a relationship with a cheater is the most unselfish thing you could ever do for someone else. It allows them to opportunity to have a clear conscience, get with others guilt free without all the misleading and sneaking around. Forgiveness does not mean you have to stay.*
@@meganlucas6883 how are things now??
Cheating is so common for the men in my Jamaican family I'm just decencitized. I thought I had a perfect black family until I hit middle school and saw the truth. They never stop. Disgusting. Don't stay with cheaters and if you do, open the relationship or get your own boo. Do not stay and forgive because that is dumb and you are risking your life and your children will lose respect for you with each passing day.
F.Y.I they have apps where you can hide your private things and the person looking at will be none the wiser because the screen set will be the same. I forgot what you call. Kinda like a dummy screen. You honestly just have to pay attention to the signs.
My ex bf pitched a fit. Well goodbye. Almost 3 months now
Never take a cheater back
“alil more lucid”😂😂
😭 no refund.
I literally screamed in laugher!!!!!! not him getting the apple cord and putting it over his shoulder
I'm not that forgiving
Oh no....The Pink Panther....that was my boy!!! Lol
A lot of men (especially those working out of the office) have a cell phone that was given to them by their job and that is what they use instead of their regular cell phone.
Yep my ex got one
truth and same
When u acting Tuff n called on ur bluff u will b found out sure nuff..........2 thine on self b true bcuz in the end u only fooling U!
😆 you might have a tracking device your car
I know someone that this happened to he is telling the truth. The husband put a tracking device on his wife's car. And followed her to make sure that's where she was.
"There's going to be something that's going to be off" So true 💯💯
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 at scrolling through the sent mail and the trash email. Lol. But ummm, while you're in there, check the spam too just in case one got filtered by mistake.
LOL!!!! Its the grabbing of the purse for me !
i laugh out loud every time he does this 😭
The truth comes out
I need to know when they cheat, why do they usually down grade? It's crazy.
Right... because she loosebooty901 🤣
@@thatgirlcocoa 😂😂😂
Most of the time you will never get the truth
Sometimes because she is easy or available or will take his nonsense or believe his lies.
Because the person they downgraded to knows that person is normally way out of their league. They are ssooo grateful for the attention that they will believe anything and put up with anything to keep what they view as a prize.
Oh I was the FBI
Thanks I did that and I'm glad I did the right thing
Yes Tony Yes thanks for making serious topics fun 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol just bumped into the phone lol 😂
2MW naah. Thankfully, we can either forgive or let go and be okay in God's eyes. I think women that do all that become angry masculine women when they don't want to. Can you imagine? On TOP of parenting - monitoring another adult.
Real talk
What about if they was getting away with it for years and came clean...
(To everyone) because they wanted to make it right “supposedly”
Why can't you just ask them for their phone instead of waiting until the leave it somewhere.
Thank You Tony!
They both cheaters. Whether it's one time or 1000 times. They are still a cheater. U can't water down or sugar coat is a cheater.
I ain't got time to monitor no grown man to see what he is doing at all times and going through his information. Nah when it get to that point he can go
Excellent! Thank you, Tony.
Be blessed.
😂😂😂😂 when he got up with the purse
There are people that will sling themselves alllll over town and do everything possible to stop you leaving! Don't put your heart in the hands of anyone but your children.
THIS! yes girl, could not agree more
@@sarafarr4849 I knew a man who was so proud of the NINETEEN women he had on the pull at the same time. He was so sincere to each one of them 😔🤔
@@xxkissmeketutxx yes, they are the best at that!
Don’t write for no refund!
What if they keep cheating repeatedly with the same person? They have a curfew and keep cheating .
hahahahahaha he got him some scrolls
Get cha a couple of scrolls while dating 😄😄
My ex just sent me this on FB messenger "I'm sorry for how I treated you. Please forgive me." He had started a relationship on FB and broke up with me after physically becoming intimate with the person. It's been about a month and a half I left him to his choice. This relationship is more of a weekend get together or when possible and by phone and social media, it is a long distance relationship. How do I respond to his apology when I'm not sure what his intentions are?
I got his phone passwords that's all
Be blessed
Omg noooooo🤣😂LOL that turned around and backfired on him smh that’s what he gets🤣😂
My girlfriend has cheated on me 4 times and I forgive her… and she’s still cheating on me without any remorse.. I love her so much and it hurts a lot to see myself leaving her.. I don’t know what to do. Please someone should help me tell me if I should move on or stay??
She’s not mature enough to stop cheating, She’s clearly not ready for a relationship..Let it go, I promise you it will get better with time..
Please move on. You deserve so much better. Karma will address,her.
Move on, and you will meet the woman who won't play games and take you for granted by cheating on you
Tony got that iphone 11 lol finally
In the relationship I am in...I am the tracking device ._.
So if we independent dating we shouldn't invade privacy even if they cheated
I’m just so confused…….. Him and I have been LDR the whole time any I had to be extra loyal you know meaning I never got anything physical from them IRL but we still talked…. Well he was messaging other women on the internet making the first move…… Now he keeps saying sorry and that he loves me… wtf?
I gotta worry about my kid using my phone because I send nudes to his dad, as well as have videos of our nasty time on there. Thankfully he doesn’t care yet about the photo app. I clean up as much as I can but it still makes me nervous.
what if it was just a 3 minute sloppy kiss
Very good
Lol what is wrong with you 😂 @20:15
Yes i AGREE 👍 💯 👏 🙌
Do you have have discounts for coaching. $330/Hr thats a bit much.
That is the discounted rate. We have many coaches on mymentor.life, some as affordable as $25/hr
🙏♥️🤣okay bye
Take your purse 👛 your water and don't forget your charger ladies got to go bye.😆
LOL
😊
Yes indeed 😉 and In that order
LOL, DWL, Love it!
Lol
Be blessed
I forgave my ex-husband for cheating....all he did was hide it better. Even though I had access to all his accounts...he just created new accounts and got another phone. Life is too short for all of that..which is why I filed for divorce and left him. Even though I had a 4 year old child at the time, I got to a point where I was like I would rather be alone than to deal with that foolishness. After leaving him, I did some healing and learning...now I am engaged to a better man. Ladies, life is too short and it is better to just move on.
Amen
Amen.
YES! They learn to hide it better and if you’re married they will hide money/assets too because they are preparing for the inevitable. Be careful ladies.
Thank you for this testimony 🙏🏾
Wow !! That's why I can't trust so easy.
People who do not have a *real relationship* with God cheat. These are facts. The Holy Spirit will work with you if you work with Him.
Amen to that!
Agreed
Amen
Don't stress, ask God for the truth. Trust me he will reveal it to you.
How do you know the signs
@@SittingPRETTY727 the signs of cheating? or the signs of whether you should take them back?
You aint lie. When i found out he said how did you find her. .. God definitely revealed her to me
@@SittingPRETTY727 less /sex or none....taking phone calls on bathroom...change in clothing& ecsesive cologne...laying phone face down.some not answering phone...more time spent away from home...less attention.aloof.detached...coming in late /or leaving out super early...when his phone ring..he always say it that same hitta friend...looking fine as he'll& his attitude is nonchalant...he bought to drop a dime& pick up a penny
I did, I asked God the truth. And just after 15 minutes, I've got the answer. 🙏🏽😢😭
Why spend time playing detective? Just leave when the trust is lost.
Right i dont have the sanity
i think this is about if you are taking back a man who has claimed to change.. you cant just take his word for it if you decide to give a second chance..the title is, if you forgive cheating. Theres a trial period as he says to build trust and look for red flags.
Amen...well said...just leave
After ove 25 years, business, kids, it can get complicated and you weigh starting over and seeing if there is true repentance and desire on either side to Investigate if the relationship can be restored/ saved... in some form, whether marriage or not.
Title definitely says if you forgive cheating
Never forgive cheating. He wouldn’t forgive you.
Owww exactly!!
Ummmmmm when a girl cheats she’s for the streets. Where she belongs.
@@MarinRayado so, where does a guy belong when he cheats? He’s a respectable king, right?
@@klickingkayasmr7585 that’s right. David was a King. Just because he messed up don’t mean he bad.
@@MarinRayado So, wouldn’t that apply to women as well?
If he doesn’t change, baby he just don’t want to nor does he want you anymore
That part!!!
Not true depends on what “change” you mean sometimes it takes direct communication
Good luck believe people do chance , you gon cry even more
Last time I forgave someone for cheating, he automatically thought we would bounce back to how things used to be😒 thank you for this video!❤️
They depend on us being stupid. Women are competitive. We hate to see the "other woman" win. We don't stop to think!! She didn't win, you did if you left this cheater and now you're doing better. Then, why complete with someone when y'all are apples and pecans? That's not a competition. That's stupidity. I find that when Im with someone who doesn't deserve to go where I know God is taking me and I keep trying to fit him in.....God halts my blessings. Everyone can't go where you go. Some people have to get left behind, because that is what they deserve. They don't deserve you! It might hurt, but it will hurt more if you stay. A cheater will NOT stop cheating, if that is a part of his resume'. I also learned that you can't hurt a man back who hurts you. Lord knows I have tried! Therir hurt will come, when they are forced to stay with that down grade and look like a complete fool. Leave him and watch God increase your blessings! I'm telling you what I know. I'm living proof.
Montrice C Yesssss!!!! Totally agree with what you said 🤍
@@montricec8795 Amen to that sister, couldn't have said it any better
@@montricec8795 Well said! Well said indeed & so TRUE! I too am a living witness & his downgrade is trying so hard to not only be me, but also try to look like me. Lol! What a miserable life they chose.
I AM UNIQUELY & WONDERFULLY MADE BY GOD! THEE ORIGINAL! Often imitated but NEVER duplicated.
@@tatag1524 ♥️
I just don’t understand the whole cheating thing? Why even be in a relationship if you like/want other people. Stay single than & you can be with as many people as you like trust there’s a lot of women out there that will go along with it 🙄 I mean that seems logical to me 🤷🏼♀️ instead of going around torturing someone they know loves them because that’s basically what they’re doing
I agree!
Very true
that's just too much like right.
@@jamiam8763 This!!
Sis....that's the thing we all want to know. We all want to know the answer to that conundrum
Why do cheaters always want you to be loyal while their being unfaithful?
They like the best of both worlds. I'd just assume it's out of pure selfishness. It's a satanic trait. He hasn't humbled himself, his ego is to big. And he has deep seeeded insecurity and self hate.
@@taramay8174 I could've written this myself I swear!!!
Because they're selfish hypocrites
That's what you call a professional cheater. If you gotta go through all that trouble to cheat you may as well be single 😩🤦
I could never forgive a cheating man. Once I see that a man is willing to give himself over so easily to his fleshly desires, I can never trust them and that will make me insecure long term. Ladies, don’t let a man take your dignity/integrity. Those things don’t belong to him ♥️♥️
And to clarify, after I move on, I would forgive him for my own peace but wouldn’t be no second/third chances ✌🏾
Marie N ....Thank you for this message❤️ ....I am on the same page with you definitely.
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Amen Marie God Bless you sister🙏
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I forgive, I just don't forget & therefore have to end the relationship. Once that trust is broken, I'm never the same. A person has to be held accountable for their actions. Just like God forgave Adam & Eve for eating from the tree of life, while he still loved them, he held them responsible for their actions!
I love this comment!
I had to snapshot this because this is the truth here!!!!
@@bonjean4976 Amen!
@@princemoney101boss Thanks so much!
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Most people on UA-cam say NEVER check someone's phone.. It's an invasion of privacy, immature, insecure, etc. ... I'm like righhtttt. 👀 Because trust 100% anyone you date is never going to have anything to hide & you have no right to look & confirm to yourself since you are giving this person your time & effort. Especially when you have that gut feeling. 🙄 Tony knows! He even explains how to be appropriate about it & all. You should be able to see if they are true or not without going overboard. Like he said... If they don't want you to, they clearly have something to hide. 🎯
Exactly!
You got to be BOO-BOO THA FOOL to marry a man that has cheated on you beforehand ‼️ That’s a clear sign of low self esteem, no self love! PERIODT❗️
Violation of probation, Ladies get this purse and water.🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Got to go!
Haha
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*You should forgive a cheater and move on remembering the good times (regardless of length of relationship). You should never confront a cheater showing anger, frustration and upset because it’s meaningless; It’s only an ego stroke for them. Cheaters don’t care what you think, how you feel or how it affects you, that’s why they don’t consult with you before starting something with someone else. Cheaters pretend remorseful when their caught, some will provide an Oscar worthy performance. Ending a relationship with a cheater is the most unselfish thing you could ever do for someone else. It allows them to opportunity to have a clear conscience, get with others guilt free without all the misleading and sneaking around. Forgiveness does not mean you have to stay.*
I admire your emotional maturity
Honestly in reading these comments I feel like the fish out of water. 🙄Moat women draw the line and move on after cheating. Me, I’m somehow attracted to being that doormat and I wish it wasn’t so because I allow my own heart to break over and over. 😭Wish I was more like y’all 🙏
Don’t write me for no refund !🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
They will always be caught.