The most important and precious things in life are,by definition,non transactional.And to try to negotiate for them is to immediately destroy them. An Adolescent will say he loves you,but his conception of love is that he is getting something in return.An adult will love freely without expecting anything in return because an adult understands that,that is the only thing that can make love real.
The only thing I really wanting from relationships now, is to actually hangout n meet in person, if can’t do that then I out. Otherwise it’s up to me to decide
Ask first on what you want and why and then ask to play together get to know each other Like I am making a video and I need some help it's a video on youtube which I am trying to put together if you want to help me it will be greatly appreciated also I choosed you since I saw some of your videos and they seemed really entertaining and engaging You only build relationships without wanting anything like if you don't want I can ask other people If you actually want to build relationships, you build them without wanting anything He says doing something nice people without wanting anything I can say it after I tell him to play minecraft or after for a video You can do nice things to people and talk without wanting after in return the same day If you want just ask for the favor and then tell something nice Good use of I am hoping you vote for me Or if you want Or if you got time
I believe value must be exchanged but sometimes that’s a simple thank you and actually genuinely hanging out
I got this suggestion after 9 years, out of nowhere
The most important and precious things in life are,by definition,non transactional.And to try to negotiate for them is to immediately destroy them.
An Adolescent will say he loves you,but his conception of love is that he is getting something in return.An adult will love freely without expecting anything in return because an adult understands that,that is the only thing that can make love real.
Yes, very true!
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What happened to the rest of the video?
It stopped at 2:39 while he was still talking 🤷♀️
I agree 100%!
Yes don't be a want, user person who is good when you want something. Just be honest. Simon Sinek ❤️❤️🙏
The only thing I really wanting from relationships now, is to actually hangout n meet in person, if can’t do that then I out. Otherwise it’s up to me to decide
But if you ask someone directly will u get it as to running around the Bush?
both method will give you yes and no asnwer anyway, but the second one, you choose to be honest rather than "using kindness" to ask a favor
@@malikabdcom agreed bro
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Ask first on what you want and why and then ask to play together get to know each other
Like I am making a video and I need some help it's a video on youtube which I am trying to put together if you want to help me it will be greatly appreciated also I choosed you since I saw some of your videos and they seemed really entertaining and engaging
You only build relationships without wanting anything like if you don't want I can ask other people
If you actually want to build
relationships, you build them
without wanting anything
He says doing something nice people without wanting anything I can say it after I tell him to play minecraft or after for a video
You can do nice things to people and talk without wanting after in return the same day
If you want just ask for the favor and then tell something nice
Good use of I am hoping you vote for me
Or if you want
Or if you got time
I saw nothing wrong with both approaches. So what's the big deal? 🤷♂️
The first one felt like the person who wanted the favor was being a little “fake” and insincere with their niceties in order to get the favor
It's spelt SINEK
Spelt is a type of wheat.
Spelled is the act of combining letters to create a word or name.
You can a,ways feel the hidden agenda…yuck!……just be upfront!
Makes no difference to me. Still see the intent behind it.