You love him but refuse to tolerate the disrespect.
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- Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
- You love this guy and don't understand why something so simple should be so hard. In your mind, the love between you makes you safe to open up and build together. But he's had some past experience that makes him feel like protecting his heart is a live or die experience. So, he involved other people and secretive collusion. His approach removed intimacy and trust and replaced them with schemes and disrespect. So, your connection is no longer what you thought it was or anything you want.
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God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference
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The comments you made on the love of a weak man vs. The love of a strong man was very very well spoken and illustrative of what standards young women should value within themselves.
Gosh I know these “friends”-how sad to live such an inauthentic life where you’ll never trust anyone bc you can’t even trust yourself.
Ageed!
Not even sure who is sending me replies from his cell number anymore: it is all 🏇💩
This is exactly what I’m dealing with. My head hurts. I don’t even want to ever think of this person anymore. He brings me down. Trauma bonded. 😞
It’s all very sad and very dangerous. I have removed myself completely.
I'm happy for you. I'm doing the same.
Same did this a year ago he destroyed it for good this time
Not completely removed cause your watching readings they still have your energy 🤷🏾♀️
When I watch a reading and the karmic masculine or someone’s energy comes in the reading I click out cause I’m detached from them cause I don’t allow thoughts of them
The worst part of this was the gas lightning between the whole group. It is the most insidious thing. Pretending what another person is feeling or experiencing is not real.. when they know full well what's going on behind the scenes. I had to start pulling away and I was right to do so. Thank you for clarifying and affirming the situation ❤
I hope things have worked out well for you well done for having the strength of character to pull away and not be a sheep 👍
Spot on. I was removed. Burned the bridge. He won’t grow and is abusive. His programming is cruel. He won’t stop lying. Best thing; I learned alot this year and worked on self. Thank you ❤
No respect left here.
This energy was an aspect of myself that was unhealed due to trauma experienced and manipulation that was deliberate on their part. He is in my past and he chose his path; inadvertently causing me to choose myself and a new path. My new journey is authentic to me and I love it! 🥰
The person this energy is regarding is no longer here. He was killed in 2003 on this day but this energy has haunted me since. There were a lot of unresolved issues and unanswered questions. Even though I am now married (17 years) it took a long time to realize I had not healed from this relationship. For years, months before this day came, I would feel the heaviness of the energy and the pain. The last few years though, this day comes and it’s just another crazy day….I am continuing to heal this wound and I have found your messages very helpful and confirming. Thank you!!!!
8/8/2003……
You are so eerily right on, more suprised by the fact there must be so many ppl going through same BS. Thank you for the reading!!! I get so amped when I see them pop up on my feed
We are a collective! I’m going through separation rn, got fed up with feeling crazy and hurt all the time. My condolences for all the pain and nonsense your situation has caused you. ❤
The Beach Boys' songs are the sound track for the lives of these people. You are right on point. The problem is that these men think love is a game where the men must win at any cost. Misogyny. And the women play with them against each other.
So much of this resonates. Everything is a mess right now & I am protecting my energy hardcore
That what angers him the most, because I’m not chasing him. That’s what he’s used to and it’s not happening. ✋ Absolutely not!!!
Thank you so much for the reading.
The depth of accuracy / clarity in this. Amazing Jess ♡
I knew he was manipulating my energy to like him. I got sucked in and fell in love with him. He had me exactly where he wanted me. Then I flipped it on him when I confronted him. We are not in communication for over a month. I needed my freedom and power back. He is gas lighting himself to protect himself. We have healed each other in many ways. The people around him are deceiving him. He is like an ostrich with his head in the sand.
I strongly claim this message and hope the masculine can break out of these karmic cycles
The truth sucks 😞😞😞
Girl, I cant even verbalize how accurate this is. You put into words what I couldnt fully rationalize to myself. The love I had no longer exists..but some weird feeling persisted within. And it's exactly that- the bewilderment at someone who had all rhe potential in the world to be great and just chose to be a snake instead!!? Its just sad. But no longer my problem. Thanks for that clarity!❤
I never comment but this one resonated with me so much and I am grateful for you! Thanks
Horse therapy was confirmation for me ❤ asked for space bc they literally almost drove me insane. Funny how I feel less crazy when he’s not around 🤔
Ohhhhhhhh my gosh. I have been crying since the beginning of this read. This has been my life for the last 2 1/2 years. I'm a Leo & He's a Cancer. When things are good they are great. He is so sweet, so loving, so wonderful. But then he starts shutting down & can be so cold & cruel with words. I have emotionally withdrawn from him because I can't hurt anymore. He has horrible childhood traumas that make him shut down & not think or care about hurting me trying to "protect" his heart. Since I have "checked out" he has been really having a reality check & realizes he does love me & doesn't want to lose me. He has become better, more expressive, more loving & respectful. But im not sure i can emotionally open up to him again. Its is breaking me. He's not as bad as he sounds. I just can't type out our entire relationship in the comments. This has resonated with me more than I want to admit.
Right there with you. I blocked him completely bc I just can’t go back. Got a call from a crazy # last Tuesday & this past Tuesday 🤔 this one hurt ❤️🩹 but no matter what I always stay true to the loving person I am
He is a fkn actor with many faces. There is no love i dont love that bastard.
Awww sending you love and light and that the lighter clearer times come sooner rather than later for you , sending you a big warm virtual hug 🤗
This is so scarily accurate to my situation. I've been struggling so much with the complicated emotional landscape that you just described! I have so so much love for him but he behaved in the exact way you stated. I've been suffering for quite some time trying to understand why someone whom I know, loves and cares for me (because I could see it and felt it energetically) treat me this way?? It just made ZERO sense and I have vacillated between trying to make sense of his actions and writing him off as a narc or a psycho. The anguish I've experienced over losing someone so dear to my heart has been greater than I can convey and to hear this really helped shed somw much light on it. 🌟💗
And, he's gone! Yippeekaye! I had to practically carve my dysfunction out of my chest, and it took me 3 months, but I'm finally free.❤
If he does have deep feelings for me, why did he hurt me so badly. I love him. He left me to marry someone else 😭
Maybe this reading wasn't for you lovely. But when you love someone completely you want them to be happy even if that's with another person so you accept their choice like a queen and keep looking for your king.
@@saralowe5306 This reading was for me. It resonates 💯. But sometimes I do wonder why he hurt me so bad. Thank you 😊
People can only meet us as far as they’ve met themselves. May you be blessed with the same love you poured into him 💗
@@Vibesontherise ❤️
Fear at having to learn to actually love AND then be able to match the authenticity of your love. Better is coming for you.
I have to say, you are the best "reader" I've come across. You are addressing the complexities of the mind, the ego, the dysfunction of the personality disordered.
It makes ne really mad how readers almost across the board romanticize these people. Its not romantic, it is actually emotionally and psychologically abusive and can lead to very real, very dangerous physical AND emotional harm. Or worse.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Girl u have just nailed my husband and marriage
His father passed, but his father was this way. That is where it came from. His father also abused his mother. She only stayed bc of money
This is how my ex was and his mother and father
Yes very confusing. I think this is the hardest thing about being an empath that has done a lot of her own healing. I can see through people and sometimes know their situation better than they can themselves… and I have a lot of love and empathy for them… but at the same time, I’ve learned to choose myself… even though it rips my heart to shreds to walk away… my heart aches and bleeds for him. But I cannot save him or force him to choose the higher path with me. I will not beg anyone to see my worth and I cannot force anyone to see theirs.
So many songs come to mind when I think of this situation… but the verse “Who will save your soul if you won’t save your own?”by Jewel comes to mind
I'm an empathic Virgo. I wear my heart on my sleeve when I love people and to a degree, I love whole heartily. I give my all. But, once I'm gone, I'm gone gone! I always give the benefit of the doubt, because I know people have childhood issues. But, the third-party nonsense I gave him time to Heal. He's not willing to heal and be better. How much longer do I have to deal with this?
I'm not a Seagull, I don't fight over Trash!
Virgo here. Spent 40 years,32 and 5 days married to this person. It started out slow and snowballed. I saw the flags and ignored,justified and denied. It's okay to walk away. Be true to YourSelf.
Jess your readings are so precise & accurate I'm not even blown away by this fact it just seems....right🙏🏾 I am in a full blown Ascension & this recent retrograde + this 888 portal energy has been intense, my faith in Source & some guidance from amazing light workers like yourself have indeed helped that navigation feel not so heavy. Again you have narrated my recent catharsis❤️🙏🏾 I pray for anyone that is deep in healing that you rise to your enlightenment & true soul alignment✨ Bless Fams xx
Wow... every word is describing what im going through but he wont admit it and says im overthinking it all....❤
Can’t thank you enough, Jess.🙏🏼 I’m right smack in the middle of this right now. It has blown me away. I of course knew there were people that worked each other like that, but I was never close to it, or involved with one of them. Or for sure in love with one. Huge lessons in it, but huge danger as well. I guess I did think my love & I could help him heal. But healing has to come from inside a person, & first from awareness that it’s needed. It’s mind-boggling to see someone who you have felt genuine love from continually choose to stay involved in such dark hurtful games with others. There must be benefits in it that I don’t understand. Nor want to. I understand clearly now that I have to take care of myself.
Sending you a big warm virtual hug 🤗
Thank you Jess, that was confirmation. I needed that.
brilliant reading: one of his friends said, he's very cunning. i have called him a misogynist, a coward and a dishonourable person. his father died at a critical time in his youth; he craves attention; calls himself a king- which has double significance in his culture (gay); he is Leo; I have told him he needs to treat people the way he wants to be treated; intuitively I thought that he is around many low vibrational people; i believe his friendships all depend on use value; i am at a distance geographically; he had the nerve to ask: "why didnt you stop me?" he is the supreme strategist and manipulator
BRAVO ! This TOTALLY relates to my circonstance ... is an eye-opener ... à God send! ... and cuts short any prédilections that out of sorrow I am seeking ... in short a step in the direction of self-awareness and healing.
UN GRAND MERCI de La France!
Bonne Journée et à bientôt !
I tell him all these things. He admits to none of them. He tries to manipulate me into believing I cause him to behave this way.
Same in my situation he blamed me
Unbelievably accurate! wow wow wow!
Being cold, heartless bears no excuse, it’s a choice.
Huge narc.. moving on.. live and learn!!!
The name caraballo is a derivative of the word Caballo which means horse in Spanish, I am Puerto Rican and this is a the last name in my family. .. for a lot of my family members including my mother
Rest in peace momma 🌞🌟🥰🙏🫂☯️Thank you so much for sharing
Rest in peace Mama cat 🌹💖🪷
Thank you so much Jessica Puckett 🌻 God grant me the serenity to accept the things that I cannot change courage to change the things that I can and wisdom to know the difference amen 💖☯️✨🌻 🫶🏾
Wait did you really just sing that line from Kanye West just now?!! Omg my jaw just dropped because for 2 days this week that song… that line kept playing over & over in my head!!
it literally came from Left-field & was irritating me!! Lol then it dawned on me that was from him, he was projecting his victim wounded energy towards me telepathically with that song!!! Haha I’m like I’m not heartless you are lol so to hear you say it just now confirms this is definitely my message!!!! it’s so wild how that happens I still get chicken skin from these bam 💥 “in your face” signs clarifying what my intuition is trying to inform me of!!! Thanks you!!!! 😊
You literally literally just described and explained my situation my current situation to a T…
And everything you mentioned that could happen has happened Ave so so heartbreaking sadly this is my husband and he’s hurt me tremendously Jess…
Exactly what I've been dealing with and going through for the last 2 yrs.
Wow this resonates in a way I wasn’t looking at or considering (still hope it’s not the case but I’m cursed with giving the benefit of the doubt) and I’m afraid this may be what’s going on with him, it’s so hard to tell but am so so glad I found this. Thank you 💖
This is actually insane people operate in this space
Can 💯 relate to third-party trying to control the communication or creating ill-interesting ended interference to having direct communication
This guy, who I'm no longer speaking to, absolutely loathes his mother. And it showed in the way he tried to play me and the way he spoke to me. His dad is very macho and his mother domineering. And he's actually more feeling/sensitive at times. Not a good mixture for raising a balanced, healthy, man.
Thank you for helping me with understanding and closure ❤
You are right but how can I stay & keep showing him love when he has no respect for me & he's sleeping with others? I've been so faithful & even when we were split up & the more chances I give him the worse he treats me
At this point, it's like "good riddance". 20 years wasted. If that young thang at the office wants him, she can friggin have him.
Totally resonated. So much. And then when you said horseshit I knew it was 100% my reading 😂✨
He can't even tell me why he loves me, but has no problem calling me horrible names and making me feel like crap
It sounds like maybe you should consider moving on from him ,don't let him send you on a path of self doubt and destroy your self worth if that is what is happening. Love and light wished your way 😊
I must make something clear I don’t have feelings for this person. I really don’t know him. PERIOD
Terrible...sad...it hurts. Thank you 🙁🌷🙏
Yes, this is crazy and creepy behavior!
I knew he couldn't show feelings and
emotion. That's why I got on tarot, to
try and figure it out. So I'm hearing he's
left the Karmic to come back to me
again. I'm tired of the game playing!
I can't fix him. I knew it was a group.
They gossip back and forth. I do love
him and I know he loves me. He can't
figure out why his relationship
don't work out. Well with this lifestyle
it will never work out. I can't put myself
in this situation.
You’ve been channeling all of these readings on different karmic situations and how they have played out, and I’ve been listening to them every time you upload them. It’s just a bit uncanny, last night I was telling a friend how I want to go to horse therapy.
On another one you channeled an Avril Lavigne song I used to listen to “keep holding on” and I swear the night before it came to me randomly.
I straight up asked him "do you love me?"
This is my twin flame 🔥💔💯... We we're in such a happy relationship, but he wanted to open up the relationship after 5 years,.. and then just ditched me for this 3 party, you have nailed in!💔💯🙏
Dear divine beings: please help me remove this man from my energy. I don't deserve the pain he dumps on me. I want him to go away and to grow up, more for him than for me because I don't want him any more. I pray for a man who deserves my love.
The problem is he must listern to his friends to much And his bad decisions have killed our friendship and or relationship It's over
I only saw the image of the video and decided to watch this… I’m now 9:37 in and finally read the title and on point.
Thank god I did not sleep with him but I am not chasing him. He knows he is making the same mistakes and choices because he refuses to heal. It’s sad because I know who he is but he won’t align with his heart. I have remained celibate since my spouse died because I value myself.
Thank you so very much darling sweet soul🙏..I really appreciate your insights❤️🩹💯
Thank you Jess
Okay so I see what's happening. Play basically what you're describing is all of my thoughts. In a realizing that it all these readings are just my own thoughts being reflected back to me and my own vibration being reflected back to me like an echo or a mirror. So at this point it makes sense to stop trying to prove myself or to get anything or to pursue anything or to want anything because I already have everything...
This is what I am going through … exactly
Omg women omg like how crazy u describe my life right now and these ppl thank u
Sis, thank you for confirming verbatim what I already know. This was literally spot on for me. Great intuitive channeling sister! Wow thanks again❤
So on point. Thanks Jess. 👌
Wowww - Thank you.
🥲 thank you Jess 🫂
Amen, sister ❤ You have lifted my inner confidence so much 🙏🏻
I’m speechless
Exactly what I needed to integrate!! 🙌🏽🙈😆😅
Being cold heartless bears no excuse it’s a choice my intuition says never to go back no respect for me hope he heals
Amazingly accurate Jess ❤❤❤
Where is the options, No human, but Divine is trying hard to manipulate my decision.
He is brave enough, I am stick to my decision. No consideration this time. No more obligation or lie please about him. He is much pure soul without being spiritual. We both love each other.
Thank you Universe for conspiring to coming up together leaving our past burden and baggage. 😂😂😂😂😂
Wow. So insightful
I have to run very, very faaaar from this. Thank you!
He needs to level up if he wants to be in my space⚡️🌙🪐🪻
I was shown how a man made one with a woman, is everything she is not, and she is everything he is not....
But, a narcissist can't love 😢
They can't, and they will never be satisfied...
He enjoys it, wounding hearts, makes him feel a sense of strength.
Its what happens when we substitute the real things, with the fake... Those muscles become distrafied.
Everything she's not, everything he's missing....😢
What you're describing is exactly a textbook Sociopath who became that way due to a dysfunctional family or situation.
Who sent you from heaven!?! This is the veryyyyyy thing that I’m going through….. WOWWWWW!!!
🌟💯💫💖thank you 🙏☯️
This is over trust is gone period
Yes, i know he has feelings. Intuition, confusion.
Yes why wont he be the king i desire. Yes yes yes
Yes.....
Yes control
Amazing - very very very spot on!
Thank you !!!
I finally stop texting and sending emails. I am tired. I choose me. It was exhausting being in that cycle of uncertainty
It is a very serious situation this person was in a very serious car accident and for 3 years it has been utter kaos
Yep this is him the princeso.
Reasonates strongly
Awww you’re a good singer!
I don't really think he has a third party , but he does he can roll with that for sure
We are Done
I feel like the person she’s been talking about is going to take lifetimes to grow and stop being such a weak little coward. I literally can’t see it any other way. Every time she talks about what he needs to do the thought immediately comes to my head that he’s incapable of that.
Totally resonates ❤
Spot on!!
Truth is my very essence of life standing and, living authenticly on earth sharing the unconditional love of YESUA to all whom will receive HIM❤❤
Absolutely, you are spot on!