So this is my scariest incident which I am sharing here.. One day my sister and I went out for some grocery shopping..it was around 10 in the night..after shopping..we decided to take a shortcut..while we were walking I saw a shadow following us.. and I asked my sister to look back. She did..she saw this old man who was 50 or 60 years old and was walking behind us and he has something in his hand i think it was a rope..so we saw him and started walking fast .. He also started walking fast with us. .. It was just a few minutes and I was already feeling so elated but somehow we reached our home. But this incident still gives me nightmares every time I walk outside at night. Now my real point is.. why do some people do this? Do they think that every female is a sex worker..?
It's just that they have never been made aware of what's right and what's wrong. They are creepy and similar incident happened with one of my friends too. Just be alert whenever you are in this situation and try to be as quick as possible in leaving the place.
4:33at this point ,feels like dogs are protecting her I am afraid of dogs but at late night I would prefer standing near dogs than to men ,I would feel more safe
Mad respect for the strong woman risking it all for this video. What's happening in the world? It's such a cruel place, especially for women. Women hear me out: Don't ever go out late at night in India without a pepper spray, or any self-defense tool. You have every right to feel safe and don't hesitate to defend yourself, no matter what!
This conversation is much needed. As an only child, I am the sole caregiver for my parents. Whenever a medical emergency arises or there's a sudden medical issue that seems unfamiliar, I consult Practo and rush to the pharmacy to get medications, regardless of the time, because my parents' health is the top priority. There have been two occasions where I had to step out at odd hours due to the seriousness of the situation, at 11:30 pm and 1:30 am. On both of these occasions, not only did the pharmacy guys gave me weird looks, but even the security guards in my own society gave me judgmental looks, scanning me from head to toe. I hope this explains the actual state of women's empowerment and the need for change.
Found this series from curly tales channel.. your initiative is truly deserves appreciation.... Thanks a lot for putting yourself out there to represent our rights.. this is definately one of the less talked about issues (among ofcourse a lot of other issues we face in this male dominated society😒)
Mai ladka hoke 9 bje k baad bahar ni nikalta Delhi mei. And app Gurgaon mei. Hats off to you courage. India is not safe at nights for both male and females. Govt should make strict law against these activities. Once I've confronted a guy with gun and he asked me to remove my watch n belongings. It's completely not safe for both males and females.
I am in a city of China. I mostly go out alone and i felt its really safe. cams are every where police are there. Even in the middle of the night you feel safe , regardless of what you are wearing. No one will harras you and they will help you in need.
Gurgaon is not even safe for men ....as a man I have come across so many creeps over the last few years. It just makes me so mad. Sometimes I just want to move to another city. Just be safe out there people!
One city that I would call safe is Ahmedabad and Gandhinagar...I have been out soo many nights...not in a group...still not a single instance ..when I have felt unsafe...not even on roads...true Ahmedabad and Gandhinagar don't have night life...they fall quiet...after 11pm...but these cities r amazing..I have never been stalked ..or even approached...police patrolling is there...but it is mostly the men who are also out at night....strangers..who have kept me safe.....
To make a change its a way to atleast start a conversation about the change we want to see . great work something new and nice perspective of showing this solution oriented approach that we needed.
Believe me even as a male I feel unsafe going out during night time in these big cities. So many cases of kidnapping and loot paat these days. It's not safe regardless of gender and it never was.
Definitely, it is unsafe for everybody but a guy will never get that predatory gaze, people asking or thinking he is a sex worker, or constantly follow him throughout. It is another kind of torment.
Awesome concept....i bet every girl has thought about this...we want the same freedom and sense of security at night as men! As equals! Our reality is sad though! Just Came here after watching episode 2 ! So glad to have Maharashtra police for us!
Thankyou so much for this video, it must had been difficult for you to shoot this. Thankyou for risking your safety and your mental health for this beautiful beautiful message
That will not stop just by making nice comments on internet. China has quite good solution no interrogation they directly shoot people. Last week someone harassed someone and took her hostage 2 mins later they shipped the guy's body in the ambulance, 24x7 cctvs and police petroling with assualt rifles and snipers.
I live in Gurgaon and I won't lie, forget girls, Gurgaon often doesn't feel safe for even the boys. You rarely find police jeeps patrolling here and there. There is a significant shortage of street lights, even on the main roads and flyovers. Law and order especially at nights need to be a little stricter here. Baaki overall toh humara judicial system aur constitution thoda bahut weak hai hi and we all know that. Jiska faayda bahut se crime karne waale uthate hain bcz they know that the judicial proceedings take so long and even the punishments in many cases are not that big. Kher punishment milti bhi hai toh saalo baad bahut se cases mein toh uska kuch fayda hi nhi hota. Ek toh late punishment, upar se halki, isliye bhi criminals ke iraade mazboot hote hain. Agar proceedings bahut fast ho jayein aur punishment dil dehla dene wali ho, tab hi crime commit karne se pehle ek insaan behoshi mein bhi hazaar baar sochega, aur hosh mein toh sochega hi nahi.
I stayed in gurugram for 3 months and it is totally not safe for girls. Even me and my friends experienced the same thing at night around 8pm and when all of a sudden few guys in a bike stoped and they asked us are you free tonight and somehow we managed to get away from that. And there’s still a lot more we experienced. Ladies please do not step out alone at night in gurugram ❤
If girl is out after 12 on roads she is a S worker according to all Men .... but all boys who are on road late night from ages and enjoying Are from good families and Raja beta😂😂 and not Male S workers Why why why ....
i personally don't think gudgaon is safe for ANYBODY . My boyfriend lives in gurugram and even i worry about his safety hell i ask him to share his location when he travels late from metro to his home , so these kind of videos just bring those fears to reality. But i just really really appreciate you because to do something like this a person needs a lot of courage.
I am watching this when I alredy experienced after 2am in delhi , as I am travelling from Ajmer to Delhi by bus it was a sudden plan & I realised that my bus will drop me at 3 am & I am not at all aware about the places there & at 3 am bus dropped me on a bridge all alone & I don’t know that feeling scarring me even now after 4 months but I think I am god’s child I Dt know how god protected me that day a auto driver suddenly comes there I trusted him he dropped me at Singh sahab gurudwara but that day may be I am lucky but I will never ever travel this way again bcz that feeling scarring me even i am safe but still that feeling I can’t express
In my opinion you shouldn't roam alone after 11 , it doesn't matter if you are boy or girl you should not roam alone after 11 if necessary have a friend with you or travel in a car .
@@miniyy16 from what i would do is if you are doing a late night shift i would recommend atleast owning your own vehicle preferably a car , if you have late night flight then be inside the airport waiting lounge and try to book a cab or tell a known to pick you up and drop off , if in a late night train i would recommend if the station is well lit and crowdy than you can wait on the station itself and book a cab but if it is a shady station i would recommend booking a cab pre hand or call a known to already come beforehand that's what i would do in these situations being a 19yr old boy .
You did amazing. You were brave. These things must be brought into light. Even a small incident which makes him/ her unsafe at some point affects the person and can be traumatizing. These usually happens with women more.
Thanks to Marathi people and culture. But the unchecked limitless migration from other states needs to be stopped in Maharashtra, otherwise even Maharashtra will become unsafe.
It's not about Pune or Mumbai..it's not safe anywhere at wrong time and wrong places..Police are normally sitting and playing cards or sleeping in corners under a tree
Had worst of incidents while returning from office even around 7:30-8 o'clock no matter if it is metro city or a small Town. These creeps are everywhere looking for prey.
3:55 I wonder why what the guy said was censored. At first I thought maybe it was because of language but then it doesn’t beep when she says “fuck”. I’m not denying that women face harassment but I feel that she might have not encountered and all of this was performative. Also, the fake running scene at 6:40. It just seemed like 2 people behind her minding their business and also she’s being recorded by a crew member in that moment, not her handheld camera so she was not alone. I’ve seen many videos like these where women actually face danger but I suspect that this video was kind of a set up.
Tbh I personally feel, walking out after a certain point of time (for me 12 pm) is not safe for anyone irrespective of genders. I cannot deny the fact it is tremendously unsafe for women in comparison to men, but that’s the harsh reality of not only Indian society but Human society. Even if we look back at ancient times by religious as well as anthropological lens, moving out after 7 pm was denied to all irrespective of their gender. 1. Religiously it was termed as the time of Asuras where they will harm you, that is exactly what these poachers are today. 2. Anthropologically, In dark wild animals could attack back then. Since humans evolved so did those animals and so did their primal instinct of sexual urge. What exactly my point is that, our safety lies in our own hands. Unless very necessary we should refrain from moving out at night(IRRESPECTIVE OF GENDERS). Yes we have the right to access public places anytime we want, but we also have to remember at the same time that we have Right to Life, which is not only the duty of state to protect but also of ours as well.
well said i think taking responsibility for what happens to u should be taught . the women in the video is delusional (real life is not a disney movie) , there are some sick people in the society and its very asinine of her to assume that every person in the world is "good man". if that was the case we wouldn't have a police system to punish those who do wrong. i think this woman thinks in a very linear way ignoring the reality of the world.
we used to roam around at night, Once I went to get maggie and got lost at 2am around there, there was a Muslim festival next day and I was stopped by a group of guys. They started threatening me that I was in the wrong locality and what not. Ever since I'm very careful about these localities.
Maam TBH as a male I also feel unsafe at night. not only sexual activities also there is thefts loots and other crimes associated. so its not about male or female its also because of crimes
Standing alone on the street that too at night...... This feeling is something which can only be understood by women....even if there are no men....but still you can feel uncomfortable
I stayed here for six months ... I dnt like a single day in gurgaon .... People try to intimidate you there specially if your coming from another place
Tbh , I personally feel that walking out after 12pm is not safe for anyone irrespective of gender, of course compared to male it's more difficult for female , and one should only go out if it's really important, an emergency etc.
In our society we do not give to our women the respect and status that they deserve. Women are stared at, stalked and even molested. We need to change the male mindset about women. Our society needs to foster a culture that values and respects women as equal individuals, not as mere objects of desire -This change must begin with education, starting from schools, where we should teach young boys the importance of treating women with dignity and empathy -Furthermore, it is crucial to enforce stricter laws against stalking, molestation, and any form of violence against women -Media can play a vital role in raising awareness and promoting positive representations of women - It is time for a collective effort to transform the male mindset, fostering a society where women receive the respect and status they rightfully deserve
A lot of times women get asked, " Why do you have to be out!?" It's crazy... a lot of times you can just be out as Alisha mentioned for a living... nothing else. This isn't a Delhi incident but I remember going for a morning walk with my 3 girlfriends and yes morning 8 am. As we got out of the garden we noticed 3 guys following us on bike and they followed for a long time, I told two of my friends to go home which was the opposite way and 2 of us started walking. They followed us again and stood far ahead waiting for us to walk to them. It took me threatening to call the police for them to move. And this happened when I was 16, and has been happening since I was 13. It's scary and we need to take it seriously.
I really liked your idea of women cab drivers, like if a girl genuinely get stuck somewhere at night, then booking a cab is more safer transportation than an auto but we can't because cases have happened in cabs as well despite all safety, because some people are insane, they don't even fear of the punishment after getting caught, so in that case i think if online cabs apps start to provide option of women cab drivers at night, then it would be a great step, ofcourse cannot solve the issue of women safety, but atleast can contribute some.
So this a incident that happened with me and my friends... Our team went for tournaments to Gurugram and after we were free we went to Akshardham for that we took metro and that was a traumatizing experience as in the night metros are sometimes very crowded each of us felt touches and creepy stares.One of us was even harssed by an uncle he kept saying to call him bhaiya not uncle and asked her to stand beside him,thankfully our coach was there he came in between and brought her on the other side It was our first time there and we knew why people always told to be safe in metros. After that day we all try to be extra careful if we go out of station for any matches...btw we all were around 13-16 yrs of age at that time
i have been born nd raised in delhi nd moved to gurgaon nd trust me I understand y my parents didn't let me out after 8 :) p.s after watching all ur vids of 2 A.M stories this was the only video where u genuinely sounded terrified nd traumatized, I am so sorry :(
Can you try the same experiment in Lucknow and Chennai? Just wondering if it's the same in here as well... I've been in Delhi and Noioda once and I literally felt paranoia that I was about to get mugged.
If you seek trouble you will get trouble . You will find it anywhere in the world. If you have just do your work from point A to B and do what you have to , you are safe. Even a pros is safe for that matter. Night is associated with stealth, if you can do something during the day then why roam around at night.
People think it's scary at night because of evil spirita and things like that....ask a girl man ask a girl what is she scared of the most..The first thing she'll say is men!!
I am sorry with what happened to you in Gurgaon. But its not a general trend. I lived in Gurgaon for 10 years from 2012 to 2022. I have seen Gurgaon from the time it was a completely underdeveloped city to what it has become now. I used to watch late night movie till 2 am in the MGF metropolitan mall and come back home alone. Taken Uber at 4 am in the night. Not once i have faced any bad incidents. Galleria market, cyber hub are super chill places to hang out even at night. Some areas of Gurgaon are isolated and empty. You just have to know the paths to avoid. And people of Haryana are really sweet. ❤
True. I come back sometimes at even 5 in the morning and cab drivers never misbehaved or tried to make me feel unsafe in anyway. Although it's been just 6 months I am living here, but the all time hype of Gurgaon being unsafe - it's exaggerated. Obviously, after a certain time at night, no place is safe. Your safety is your responsibility then.
@@ShubhaVichara365 Try to stay in DLF phase 1 or 2 near Cyber Hub. Or dlf phase 5. Or sushant lok near Galleria market. All these are really nice areas to reside in !
@sahanasarkar5562 You had a fair bit of luck to have escaped any negative incident in a decade. Crime IS a trend in Gurgaon. It has highest per capita criminals after probably Chambal, Ranchi and Patna.
In general boys also felt unsafe at 2 O'clock in the morning, and in normal house hold boy's are also advised not to travel at the night that much late , yah we admit in our society we generally advise girl's not to travel at that late , its not because we are controlling their freedom but it because there are anti social elements on the street at that time and potentially the are harmful, they are not good at all . It can change by the proper grooming of the new generation.
@@justsaying7783 a lot lol but men can't do anything cause the Indian law for sexual assault is only to protect women so if a man get assaulted by a women bro can't report it to the police cause there is no such law as man getting sexual assault by a women. Look at section 375 of rape, it only says only a MAN can commit rape not a women so imagine a man or even a boy gets raped by a women the women won't get arrested cause women have more power than men in india. And there are also lots of fake rape case against men and without any proof the man gets arrested and locked up imagine if that was your son getting falsely blamed
I went to delhi to visit my relatives. As we were traveling we saw people teasing and touching women inappropriately but trust me even boys are not safe there at night.
You are talking about night I was haunted in a village at 3am. Can you imagine it, it's was traumatizing anybody anywhere you are never safe ,, but I want want to go to study in big cities but this video is tramatizing .🥺
As a male if I am alone and without a conveyance and walking the kind of streets some of them atleast as shown in the video, I wouldn't be at ease either, I would expect stray dogs attacks, snatchers, drunkards, miscreant makers, and also intimidating cops and not necessarily assuring ones. Also at these times if you go out on delhi ncr roads you will majorly find the kinds mentioned above plus street hookers female/transgenders/crossdressers who are sometimes in connivance with the others mentioned above conspiring to loot the ones who are seeking sex in return for money from the ones soliciting. However, there are still many places that women can go to in delhi ncr irrespective of the time and have a nice time without being bothered, but the means to reach there safely are limited if traveling in after dark hours. Either you need to be in a cab or a personal vehicle or a group maybe. However this scenario can change ones more and more women and people start going out at wee hours and more and more places start catering to them. Ofcourse the city and its administration will have to catch up.
Im here to help a real woman ... I was already help 7 woman to give them lift , giving my phone for call , standing near untill their texi arrived... And they praised my parenting it feels so good ..😊
Personally I feel the we can never change anyone's thinking and the way they look at girls. It is right that every girl should feel safe at any time but there are bad people outside, and we can't change them... So I feel that wearing proper clothes should be considered. Gandi Nazar se dekhne wale to dekhenge hi.. I don't think there is any way to stop such people.
Yes, i too agree... Some people are cruel, no matter how we teach them , Gadha doesn't understand.. Talk about clothes yea, Dress decently... Decency should be there... That may prevent Bad eyes on women... Short clothes attract bad guys..
Yea i agree.. There are bad people and they won't change... Gadha never understand... Women should consider dressing decently... Short clothes will further attract these guys
Sometimes I just hate being a girl 🙂..... aur y situations kbhi ni sudhregi becoz koe ladko p restrictions lgata he nhi h hmesha ladkiya he hoti h jo restrict hoti haii.... aur y ladke hawasi or characterless jo raat bhr idhr udhr sex mangte fir rhe hai ab ghr ki izzt kha gyi sanskriti kha gyi?? Chi I can never imagine being in this situation jha pr iss trah s treat kiya jaye .. women are not safe anywhere not even in broad daylight 🙄
@@fazebrown4371 mene koe generalise nhi kiya hai just saying about these men in this vedio 😂😂ab isme offend hone wali ky baat hai jo Sach h wo hai itni si baato p tum ladke insecure hoke dusro k maa baap pr comment kyu krne lgte ho😂😂
@@CG___2789koi insecure nhi ho rha tum sbko generalise kr rhi ho sb ladke sex mangte firte fir ladkiyo kyu rat ko red light pr apne aap ko bechte he😂bolo na raat ko 2am koi nhi nikalta nato ladka nahi ladki 😂aaese to tumhare father and brother bhi eese category me aate honge thoda brain use kro Baki tumhari choice he raat ko ghumo kis kis ko rokoge 1 jaiga to 1000 aainge tumhare upr ❤
So this is my scariest incident which I am sharing here..
One day my sister and I went out for some grocery shopping..it was around 10 in the night..after shopping..we decided to take a shortcut..while we were walking I saw a shadow following us.. and I asked my sister to look back. She did..she saw this old man who was 50 or 60 years old and was walking behind us and he has something in his hand i think it was a rope..so we saw him and started walking fast .. He also started walking fast with us. .. It was just a few minutes and I was already feeling so elated but somehow we reached our home.
But this incident still gives me nightmares every time I walk outside at night.
Now my real point is.. why do some people do this? Do they think that every female is a sex worker..?
It's all about mindset and how they grown up seeing things.
It's just that they have never been made aware of what's right and what's wrong. They are creepy and similar incident happened with one of my friends too. Just be alert whenever you are in this situation and try to be as quick as possible in leaving the place.
@@Saurabh____ sure when Priyanka chopra sings "pinky hai paise walon ki" or chikni chameli. .... sure
It’s a mental disease, sister…
Ohh are u from Delhi?? I'm also scarrring while reading ur comment 😮
I as a male felt scared watching. Hats off to your courage & please continue highlighting this problem.
Thank you sooo very much, Bunty!! Which city would you like us to visit next?
@@hauterrfly Dehradun Uttarakhand pls
@@hauterrfly plz do a video on safety in Noida and Delhi as well
@@hauterrfly dehradun
Agra please
This is an insanely essential conversation. Women have the right to feel safe no matter the time! Kudos, you guys! 🙌🏻🙌🏻
Glad you loved it!
So only women have right to feel safe at night?
@@sumeetghai8867 did she say that? No? Men and women EQUALLY wanna be safe at night BUT it’s lot unsafe for women
@@libertybee1307 and what the parameter to keasure the degree or extent of that?
Delusional
4:33at this point ,feels like dogs are protecting her
I am afraid of dogs but at late night I would prefer standing near dogs than to men ,I would feel more safe
dam that's deeeeep
This shows men are failing as a human
bhaiiii yarrrrr
Mad respect for the strong woman risking it all for this video. What's happening in the world? It's such a cruel place, especially for women. Women hear me out: Don't ever go out late at night in India without a pepper spray, or any self-defense tool. You have every right to feel safe and don't hesitate to defend yourself, no matter what!
"why can't we just be out there and just mind our own business" said the best India needs to learn 👏👏
This conversation is much needed. As an only child, I am the sole caregiver for my parents. Whenever a medical emergency arises or there's a sudden medical issue that seems unfamiliar, I consult Practo and rush to the pharmacy to get medications, regardless of the time, because my parents' health is the top priority. There have been two occasions where I had to step out at odd hours due to the seriousness of the situation, at 11:30 pm and 1:30 am. On both of these occasions, not only did the pharmacy guys gave me weird looks, but even the security guards in my own society gave me judgmental looks, scanning me from head to toe.
I hope this explains the actual state of women's empowerment and the need for change.
4:31 doggos : dii don't worry we got u
Glad someone noticed that 😂❤❤😊
Hats off to you Damm someone notice that
Found this series from curly tales channel.. your initiative is truly deserves appreciation.... Thanks a lot for putting yourself out there to represent our rights.. this is definately one of the less talked about issues (among ofcourse a lot of other issues we face in this male dominated society😒)
Thank you sooo much for appreciating our effort, Shama ❤
Really women rights issues are less talked .means I have whole chapter about that
The dark reality of Gurgaon is even a man should not walk alone at night on the roads.
Kidney racket ready
Mai ladka hoke 9 bje k baad bahar ni nikalta Delhi mei. And app Gurgaon mei. Hats off to you courage. India is not safe at nights for both male and females. Govt should make strict law against these activities. Once I've confronted a guy with gun and he asked me to remove my watch n belongings. It's completely not safe for both males and females.
I am in a city of China. I mostly go out alone and i felt its really safe. cams are every where police are there. Even in the middle of the night you feel safe , regardless of what you are wearing. No one will harras you and they will help you in need.
that's a good thing then
Beware of organ smugglers... ha ha ha...
Gurgaon is not even safe for men ....as a man I have come across so many creeps over the last few years. It just makes me so mad. Sometimes I just want to move to another city.
Just be safe out there people!
One city that I would call safe is Ahmedabad and Gandhinagar...I have been out soo many nights...not in a group...still not a single instance ..when I have felt unsafe...not even on roads...true Ahmedabad and Gandhinagar don't have night life...they fall quiet...after 11pm...but these cities r amazing..I have never been stalked ..or even approached...police patrolling is there...but it is mostly the men who are also out at night....strangers..who have kept me safe.....
Even Pune feels safe that way
Chandigarh too
Pune is Safe. Mumbai too
True also thanks for Appreciate Ahmedabad and Gandhinagar for Safe yes it is Safe place because after 11pm it fall Quiet.
Are you upsc aspirant ?
To make a change its a way to atleast start a conversation about the change we want to see . great work something new and nice perspective of showing this solution oriented approach that we needed.
Absolutely! That was our main aim behind shooting this project.
This real time picture is so much needed. I think, protectors of our society should pay attention to it.
Agreed, it's about time people start paying heed to women's safety.
4:29 looked liked dogs are guarding 💖
Believe me even as a male I feel unsafe going out during night time in these big cities.
So many cases of kidnapping and loot paat these days.
It's not safe regardless of gender and it never was.
Yeah but you cannot deny the fact that it's definitely more unsafe for girls
True that. It's equally dangerous for males as well. Sexual exploitation, loot, organ trafficking applies fairly in case of metro cities.
Definitely, it is unsafe for everybody but a guy will never get that predatory gaze, people asking or thinking he is a sex worker, or constantly follow him throughout.
It is another kind of torment.
its way more dangerous for women
As a teenager im scared of ghosts😂
Awesome concept....i bet every girl has thought about this...we want the same freedom and sense of security at night as men! As equals! Our reality is sad though!
Just Came here after watching episode 2 !
So glad to have Maharashtra police for us!
Exacttlyy! Every woman feels the same. Why can't we be out late night without worrying ourselves to death about our safety?
@@hauterrfly we want equally, nothing more or less.
Its not police , its the society
Thankyou so much for this video, it must had been difficult for you to shoot this. Thankyou for risking your safety and your mental health for this beautiful beautiful message
We really need these changes. Bravo to the team. 🙌🙌
Agreed! Thank you!
That will not stop just by making nice comments on internet.
China has quite good solution no interrogation they directly shoot people.
Last week someone harassed someone and took her hostage 2 mins later they shipped the guy's body in the ambulance, 24x7 cctvs and police petroling with assualt rifles and snipers.
I bet this channel can start a revolution which is much needed nowadays ❤
I live in Gurgaon and I won't lie, forget girls, Gurgaon often doesn't feel safe for even the boys. You rarely find police jeeps patrolling here and there. There is a significant shortage of street lights, even on the main roads and flyovers. Law and order especially at nights need to be a little stricter here. Baaki overall toh humara judicial system aur constitution thoda bahut weak hai hi and we all know that. Jiska faayda bahut se crime karne waale uthate hain bcz they know that the judicial proceedings take so long and even the punishments in many cases are not that big. Kher punishment milti bhi hai toh saalo baad bahut se cases mein toh uska kuch fayda hi nhi hota. Ek toh late punishment, upar se halki, isliye bhi criminals ke iraade mazboot hote hain. Agar proceedings bahut fast ho jayein aur punishment dil dehla dene wali ho, tab hi crime commit karne se pehle ek insaan behoshi mein bhi hazaar baar sochega, aur hosh mein toh sochega hi nahi.
Yr m to gurgaon shift hone ka soch ri thi
Now I feel chandigarh is way better💔
Yes Gurgaon is not safe for people in general , for get the nighttime even in broad daylight you see multiple fights if road rage and disputes .
@@namita_.05Chandigarh is wayyy wayyyyy better than Delhi, Noida and Gurugram...
@@pluviophile5996 hmm agreed! :(
@@namita_.05 Chandigarh is way better than most cities in India dude
I stayed in gurugram for 3 months and it is totally not safe for girls. Even me and my friends experienced the same thing at night around 8pm and when all of a sudden few guys in a bike stoped and they asked us are you free tonight and somehow we managed to get away from that. And there’s still a lot more we experienced. Ladies please do not step out alone at night in gurugram ❤
We all should appreciates your works as it mirrors the actual scenario of our society.
If girl is out after 12 on roads she is a S worker according to all Men .... but all boys who are on road late night from ages and enjoying Are from good families and Raja beta😂😂 and not Male S workers Why why why ....
Male S workers ki demand kam hai 😆😆
i personally don't think gudgaon is safe for ANYBODY . My boyfriend lives in gurugram and even i worry about his safety hell i ask him to share his location when he travels late from metro to his home , so these kind of videos just bring those fears to reality. But i just really really appreciate you because to do something like this a person needs a lot of courage.
Insightful. It would be great to see you covering other cities like Kolkata, Pune, Chennai, Bengaluru etc.
Those are better cities of India.
Go to UP, Bihar, Jharkhand, Rajasthan, Haryana, MP, Chattisgarh towns. The situation is pitiable for women.
I am watching this when I alredy experienced after 2am in delhi , as I am travelling from Ajmer to Delhi by bus it was a sudden plan & I realised that my bus will drop me at 3 am & I am not at all aware about the places there & at 3 am bus dropped me on a bridge all alone & I don’t know that feeling scarring me even now after 4 months but I think I am god’s child I Dt know how god protected me that day a auto driver suddenly comes there I trusted him he dropped me at Singh sahab gurudwara but that day may be I am lucky but I will never ever travel this way again bcz that feeling scarring me even i am safe but still that feeling I can’t express
Avoid night travel for lone person never
In my opinion you shouldn't roam alone after 11 , it doesn't matter if you are boy or girl you should not roam alone after 11 if necessary have a friend with you or travel in a car .
Sometimes it need, because of some emergency, unnecessary roaming should stop
Or have a glock 42
@@arghyaprotimhalder5592 or have ak47 or g63 AMG
What about someone who has a flight, or train landing in a city late at night? Or someone is doing a night shift in the office? ETC
@@miniyy16 from what i would do is if you are doing a late night shift i would recommend atleast owning your own vehicle preferably a car , if you have late night flight then be inside the airport waiting lounge and try to book a cab or tell a known to pick you up and drop off , if in a late night train i would recommend if the station is well lit and crowdy than you can wait on the station itself and book a cab but if it is a shady station i would recommend booking a cab pre hand or call a known to already come beforehand that's what i would do in these situations being a 19yr old boy .
Make friendly environment for women's rather than asking them to stay in home 👏
apsolutely!
Oxymoronic phrase. There is nothing like a "friendly" environment for any Indian woman. Men need to change their mindset.
You did amazing. You were brave. These things must be brought into light. Even a small incident which makes him/ her unsafe at some point affects the person and can be traumatizing. These usually happens with women more.
This is why I love Pune. Women are quite safe there.
😂
Thanks to Marathi people and culture. But the unchecked limitless migration from other states needs to be stopped in Maharashtra, otherwise even Maharashtra will become unsafe.
Because women there are always ready to hook up and have one night stand
Uhmm what about "Pune Porsche case"
It's not about Pune or Mumbai..it's not safe anywhere at wrong time and wrong places..Police are normally sitting and playing cards or sleeping in corners under a tree
Had worst of incidents while returning from office even around 7:30-8 o'clock no matter if it is metro city or a small Town. These creeps are everywhere looking for prey.
Yupppp
@@arghyaprotimhalder5592haryanvi confidence super high hota hae read the gujjar protests of yestyears
Mumbai is much safer than Delhi NCR
4:30 the way dogs were so calm with her and the way they chased that car means they coul sense the negativity
True!!!😃
3:55 I wonder why what the guy said was censored. At first I thought maybe it was because of language but then it doesn’t beep when she says “fuck”. I’m not denying that women face harassment but I feel that she might have not encountered and all of this was performative. Also, the fake running scene at 6:40. It just seemed like 2 people behind her minding their business and also she’s being recorded by a crew member in that moment, not her handheld camera so she was not alone. I’ve seen many videos like these where women actually face danger but I suspect that this video was kind of a set up.
Tbh I personally feel, walking out after a certain point of time (for me 12 pm) is not safe for anyone irrespective of genders. I cannot deny the fact it is tremendously unsafe for women in comparison to men, but that’s the harsh reality of not only Indian society but Human society. Even if we look back at ancient times by religious as well as anthropological lens, moving out after 7 pm was denied to all irrespective of their gender.
1. Religiously it was termed as the time of Asuras where they will harm you, that is exactly what these poachers are today.
2. Anthropologically, In dark wild animals could attack back then. Since humans evolved so did those animals and so did their primal instinct of sexual urge.
What exactly my point is that, our safety lies in our own hands. Unless very necessary we should refrain from moving out at night(IRRESPECTIVE OF GENDERS). Yes we have the right to access public places anytime we want, but we also have to remember at the same time that we have Right to Life, which is not only the duty of state to protect but also of ours as well.
ITS NTO SAFE FOR A WOMEN EVEN MORE BECAUSE EVERYONE THINKS SHE IS A SEX WORKER and can get kidnapped
well said i think taking responsibility for what happens to u should be taught . the women in the video is delusional (real life is not a disney movie) , there are some sick people in the society and its very asinine of her to assume that every person in the world is "good man". if that was the case we wouldn't have a police system to punish those who do wrong. i think this woman thinks in a very linear way ignoring the reality of the world.
Thank you very much for these videos. This is very essential to know the inside real story of what we go through.
we used to roam around at night, Once I went to get maggie and got lost at 2am around there, there was a Muslim festival next day and I was stopped by a group of guys. They started threatening me that I was in the wrong locality and what not. Ever since I'm very careful about these localities.
Muslims are walking disasters bro
Our country needs these changes.. Hads of to u and ur team👍
Maam TBH as a male I also feel unsafe at night. not only sexual activities also there is thefts loots and other crimes associated. so its not about male or female its also because of crimes
Reality check ✔️ we want more 2am stories
And you shall have them :D Which city you want us to visit next?
Kolkata
Bhubaneswar
@hauterrfly Bhubaneswar
@@hauterrflyBhubaneswar
Standing alone on the street that too at night......
This feeling is something which can only be understood by women....even if there are no men....but still you can feel uncomfortable
I stayed here for six months ... I dnt like a single day in gurgaon .... People try to intimidate you there specially if your coming from another place
Tbh , I personally feel that walking out after 12pm is not safe for anyone irrespective of gender, of course compared to male it's more difficult for female , and one should only go out if it's really important, an emergency etc.
Excellent job. You are doing a excellent job for the nation.
In our society we do not give to our women the respect and status that they
deserve.
Women are stared at, stalked and even molested.
We need to change the male mindset about women.
Our society needs to foster a culture that values and respects women as equal
individuals, not as mere objects of desire
-This change must begin with education, starting from schools, where we should
teach young boys the importance of treating women with dignity and empathy
-Furthermore, it is crucial to enforce stricter laws against stalking, molestation,
and any form of violence against women
-Media can play a vital role in raising awareness and promoting positive
representations of women
- It is time for a collective effort to transform the male mindset, fostering a
society where women receive the respect and status they rightfully deserve
A lot of times women get asked, " Why do you have to be out!?" It's crazy... a lot of times you can just be out as Alisha mentioned for a living... nothing else.
This isn't a Delhi incident but I remember going for a morning walk with my 3 girlfriends and yes morning 8 am. As we got out of the garden we noticed 3 guys following us on bike and they followed for a long time, I told two of my friends to go home which was the opposite way and 2 of us started walking. They followed us again and stood far ahead waiting for us to walk to them. It took me threatening to call the police for them to move.
And this happened when I was 16, and has been happening since I was 13. It's scary and we need to take it seriously.
This is a cultural thing amongst men from particular states.
I really liked your idea of women cab drivers, like if a girl genuinely get stuck somewhere at night, then booking a cab is more safer transportation than an auto but we can't because cases have happened in cabs as well despite all safety, because some people are insane, they don't even fear of the punishment after getting caught, so in that case i think if online cabs apps start to provide option of women cab drivers at night, then it would be a great step, ofcourse cannot solve the issue of women safety, but atleast can contribute some.
The women cab drivers will be at risk😂😂😂😂
Wow... What a content.. I loved it personally and kudos to you guys!!!
Glad you liked it!
So this a incident that happened with me and my friends...
Our team went for tournaments to Gurugram and after we were free we went to Akshardham for that we took metro and that was a traumatizing experience as in the night metros are sometimes very crowded each of us felt touches and creepy stares.One of us was even harssed by an uncle he kept saying to call him bhaiya not uncle and asked her to stand beside him,thankfully our coach was there he came in between and brought her on the other side
It was our first time there and we knew why people always told to be safe in metros. After that day we all try to be extra careful if we go out of station for any matches...btw we all were around 13-16 yrs of age at that time
""This is my right to access of public space.""☝
4:30 respect to street dogs 🗿
Amazing content, amazing execution!
Thank you so much!
i have been born nd raised in delhi nd moved to gurgaon nd trust me I understand y my parents didn't let me out after 8 :)
p.s after watching all ur vids of 2 A.M stories this was the only video where u genuinely sounded terrified nd traumatized, I am so sorry :(
This is very important to know how men treat with girls at night in metropolitan cities
She is Alisha..in ok tested ❤
sometimes people just stop to help you, not necessarily always to harm 🙏
In Delhi? Doubt it.
Forget late night, the sad part is girls and women face such things in broad daylight in India. 😢
Hats off to you guys for making video on this critical thing ❤
Can you try the same experiment in Lucknow and Chennai? Just wondering if it's the same in here as well...
I've been in Delhi and Noioda once and I literally felt paranoia that I was about to get mugged.
loved the concept! kudos to you✨
If you seek trouble you will get trouble . You will find it anywhere in the world. If you have just do your work from point A to B and do what you have to , you are safe. Even a pros is safe for that matter. Night is associated with stealth, if you can do something during the day then why roam around at night.
Means you Will never tell that mens should stop doing these shitty things?
great video and so nice initiative, on a funny note, gurgaon toh saala din ke 2 baje na safe ho, raat me kya khaak hoga 😅😅
You should also make a video on “ IS WOMAN SAFE FOR WOMAN”
Ofcourse they are
Forget women, men are also not safe in night delhi ncr .
Watching this at 2 am rn.
Very scary that that many people behaved in such dangerous way with a stranger 😓
Try this in Mumbai , it will be a great experience I mean one will feel safe , hats off to Mumbai police
We did! Have you watched our Mumbai episode yet? Here's the playlist: ua-cam.com/video/tOphKtx1L_4/v-deo.html
Right I am a lucky girl ki mai Mumbai me rehti hu
People think it's scary at night because of evil spirita and things like that....ask a girl man ask a girl what is she scared of the most..The first thing she'll say is men!!
I am sorry with what happened to you in Gurgaon. But its not a general trend.
I lived in Gurgaon for 10 years from 2012 to 2022. I have seen Gurgaon from the time it was a completely underdeveloped city to what it has become now. I used to watch late night movie till 2 am in the MGF metropolitan mall and come back home alone. Taken Uber at 4 am in the night. Not once i have faced any bad incidents. Galleria market, cyber hub are super chill places to hang out even at night. Some areas of Gurgaon are isolated and empty. You just have to know the paths to avoid. And people of Haryana are really sweet. ❤
True. I come back sometimes at even 5 in the morning and cab drivers never misbehaved or tried to make me feel unsafe in anyway. Although it's been just 6 months I am living here, but the all time hype of Gurgaon being unsafe - it's exaggerated. Obviously, after a certain time at night, no place is safe. Your safety is your responsibility then.
I am planning to move to Gurugaon soon, can you suggest any safe area where I can look for a PG? This would be really helpful. Thanks!
@@ShubhaVichara365 Try to stay in DLF phase 1 or 2 near Cyber Hub. Or dlf phase 5. Or sushant lok near Galleria market. All these are really nice areas to reside in !
@sahanasarkar5562 You had a fair bit of luck to have escaped any negative incident in a decade. Crime IS a trend in Gurgaon. It has highest per capita criminals after probably Chambal, Ranchi and Patna.
In general boys also felt unsafe at 2 O'clock in the morning, and in normal house hold boy's are also advised not to travel at the night that much late , yah we admit in our society we generally advise girl's not to travel at that late , its not because we are controlling their freedom but it because there are anti social elements on the street at that time and potentially the are harmful, they are not good at all .
It can change by the proper grooming of the new generation.
because of men women feel unsafe and i have never heard a guy getting told not to go out at night because they might get sexually assaulted
@@iS2angelsbut they can be robbed killed or rammed by a car pothead😅😅😅
@@iS2angelscry harder
And they said women already have equality smh
Yes they have but tell who are not save in night around 3am 🤷🤷
Yes they have but tell who are not save in night around 3am 🤷🤷
Yes they do infact women in india have more power then men cause thats how the society is now
@@victory548 lol really what precent of men get catcalled or sexually asulted
@@justsaying7783 a lot lol but men can't do anything cause the Indian law for sexual assault is only to protect women so if a man get assaulted by a women bro can't report it to the police cause there is no such law as man getting sexual assault by a women. Look at section 375 of rape, it only says only a MAN can commit rape not a women so imagine a man or even a boy gets raped by a women the women won't get arrested cause women have more power than men in india. And there are also lots of fake rape case against men and without any proof the man gets arrested and locked up imagine if that was your son getting falsely blamed
9:18-10:26 ALL OF THESE IS ABSOLUTELY USELESS IF THE MENTALITY OF PEOPLE DOESN'T CHANGE 😣😣😣😣😣
It was tooo scary.... It is a mental trauma ....
Being a boy i scared today so much.,..Till date i have never been afraid of such..
I don't even go out alone during the day.. . And whenever i go out i always have spray with me.
Yesss sister why unnecessarily roaming at night without emergency
I went to delhi to visit my relatives. As we were traveling we saw people teasing and touching women inappropriately but trust me even boys are not safe there at night.
Kudos to you....This is so heartbreaking....
Thank you soo much!! Do share it across :D
You are talking about night I was haunted in a village at 3am. Can you imagine it, it's was traumatizing anybody anywhere you are never safe ,, but I want want to go to study in big cities but this video is tramatizing .🥺
The problem is not only in india... it's all over the world...😢
Yes
Mumbai is safest City in India...❤
Come to ahmedabad...spend whole night outside..and i can assure you won't feel anything like this
Hats off to your courage!🙌
I travel 3AM /2AM Guwahati. It's feel safe. Nothing creep
As a male if I am alone and without a conveyance and walking the kind of streets some of them atleast as shown in the video, I wouldn't be at ease either, I would expect stray dogs attacks, snatchers, drunkards, miscreant makers, and also intimidating cops and not necessarily assuring ones. Also at these times if you go out on delhi ncr roads you will majorly find the kinds mentioned above plus street hookers female/transgenders/crossdressers who are sometimes in connivance with the others mentioned above conspiring to loot the ones who are seeking sex in return for money from the ones soliciting. However, there are still many places that women can go to in delhi ncr irrespective of the time and have a nice time without being bothered, but the means to reach there safely are limited if traveling in after dark hours. Either you need to be in a cab or a personal vehicle or a group maybe. However this scenario can change ones more and more women and people start going out at wee hours and more and more places start catering to them. Ofcourse the city and its administration will have to catch up.
Thanks for bring out the factors.
Thank you soo much for appreciating our efforts :D
Please do my city, Ahmedabad, Gujarat. It’s a metro city and mostly safe but I still want to know what my city is like for women after 2am
5:30 apne bola kj ladkiyo k liye safe jagha unka school ,tution, ghar hai
Koi jagha safe nhi h yrr 🥲🙂
Im here to help a real woman ... I was already help 7 woman to give them lift , giving my phone for call , standing near untill their texi arrived... And they praised my parenting it feels so good ..😊
after seeing all this I can proudly say Ahmedabad Gujarat is one of the safest place
That music scared me alot than her experience 😂❤
No big no for both boys and girls not only for women it’s applicable for men also don’t go outside such hours if you don’t have any imp work or weapon
Justice for Dr Moumita 😢
Kya bolu yaar... As ruler background guy i am speechless 😶
Kudos
Such a relevant and important topic.👍
Personally I feel the we can never change anyone's thinking and the way they look at girls. It is right that every girl should feel safe at any time but there are bad people outside, and we can't change them... So I feel that wearing proper clothes should be considered. Gandi Nazar se dekhne wale to dekhenge hi.. I don't think there is any way to stop such people.
Yes, i too agree... Some people are cruel, no matter how we teach them , Gadha doesn't understand..
Talk about clothes yea, Dress decently... Decency should be there... That may prevent Bad eyes on women... Short clothes attract bad guys..
Yea i agree.. There are bad people and they won't change... Gadha never understand...
Women should consider dressing decently... Short clothes will further attract these guys
Gender equality in schools , taking porn as skit (unreal) and many other things
Actually we can. And it has worked
Lots of programmes (spreading awareness)in schools and at other places has changed ppl's beliefs and mindset
Sometimes I just hate being a girl 🙂..... aur y situations kbhi ni sudhregi becoz koe ladko p restrictions lgata he nhi h hmesha ladkiya he hoti h jo restrict hoti haii.... aur y ladke hawasi or characterless jo raat bhr idhr udhr sex mangte fir rhe hai ab ghr ki izzt kha gyi sanskriti kha gyi?? Chi I can never imagine being in this situation jha pr iss trah s treat kiya jaye .. women are not safe anywhere not even in broad daylight 🙄
Tumhara baap bhi esa hi hai kya
@@fazebrown4371 mene koe generalise nhi kiya hai just saying about these men in this vedio 😂😂ab isme offend hone wali ky baat hai jo Sach h wo hai itni si baato p tum ladke insecure hoke dusro k maa baap pr comment kyu krne lgte ho😂😂
@@CG___2789koi insecure nhi ho rha tum sbko generalise kr rhi ho sb ladke sex mangte firte fir ladkiyo kyu rat ko red light pr apne aap ko bechte he😂bolo na raat ko 2am koi nhi nikalta nato ladka nahi ladki 😂aaese to tumhare father and brother bhi eese category me aate honge thoda brain use kro
Baki tumhari choice he raat ko ghumo kis kis ko rokoge 1 jaiga to 1000 aainge tumhare upr ❤
Right 👍🏻 sister
Great concept and very well executed too 👌👍
Glad you loved it!
Much needed...been there
It is same risky thing for a single person whatever gender , to stroll at 2 am in metro city