How safe is Gurugram for women? | 2 a.m. stories | Ep 1

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  • Опубліковано 21 гру 2022
  • Women are always questioned about why they're going out and if it's at night, they're questioned more. Why can't women just be out? Why do women have to have a reason to be out? These are the questions we had in mind when we started this new series, called 2 am stories.
    In this first episode, Alisha explores how safe is Gurugram city for women at night.
    #gurugram #womensafety #latenight
    0- 0:55 intro
    0:55- 1:52 Concept
    1:52- 2:22 Let’s go out
    2:22- 2:46 I made a friend
    2:46- 4:21 It’s scary outside
    4:21- 6:50 Women in public spaces
    6:50- 7:33 Paranoid, but why?
    7:33- 9:07 Three better than one
    9:07- 10:48 Her ideal city
    10:48- 11:50 Okay, byee
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  • @buntysonawane5750
    @buntysonawane5750 Рік тому +964

    I as a male felt scared watching. Hats off to your courage & please continue highlighting this problem.

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  Рік тому +38

      Thank you sooo very much, Bunty!! Which city would you like us to visit next?

    • @itsme_mahi2955
      @itsme_mahi2955 Рік тому +17

      @@hauterrfly Dehradun Uttarakhand pls

    • @yashdeshpande5141
      @yashdeshpande5141 Рік тому +4

      ​@@hauterrfly plz do a video on safety in Noida and Delhi as well

    • @HenneCindie
      @HenneCindie 11 місяців тому +1

      @@hauterrfly dehradun

    • @aradhyasingh3531
      @aradhyasingh3531 11 місяців тому +2

      Agra please

  • @sarojbhanwar
    @sarojbhanwar Рік тому +427

    4:33at this point ,feels like dogs are protecting her
    I am afraid of dogs but at late night I would prefer standing near dogs than to men ,I would feel more safe

  • @amishachandel9137
    @amishachandel9137 Рік тому +530

    So this is my scariest incident which I am sharing here..
    One day my sister and I went out for some grocery shopping..it was around 10 in the night..after shopping..we decided to take a shortcut..while we were walking I saw a shadow following us.. and I asked my sister to look back. She did..she saw this old man who was 50 or 60 years old and was walking behind us and he has something in his hand i think it was a rope..so we saw him and started walking fast .. He also started walking fast with us. .. It was just a few minutes and I was already feeling so elated but somehow we reached our home.
    But this incident still gives me nightmares every time I walk outside at night.
    Now my real point is.. why do some people do this? Do they think that every female is a sex worker..?

    • @Saurabh____
      @Saurabh____ Рік тому +43

      It's all about mindset and how they grown up seeing things.

    • @ambujpandey4945
      @ambujpandey4945 9 місяців тому +11

      It's just that they have never been made aware of what's right and what's wrong. They are creepy and similar incident happened with one of my friends too. Just be alert whenever you are in this situation and try to be as quick as possible in leaving the place.

    • @indipacifician3693
      @indipacifician3693 6 місяців тому

      @@Saurabh____ sure when Priyanka chopra sings "pinky hai paise walon ki" or chikni chameli. .... sure

    • @shadiap
      @shadiap 4 місяці тому

      It’s a mental disease, sister…

  • @mehakwalia2619
    @mehakwalia2619 Рік тому +932

    This is an insanely essential conversation. Women have the right to feel safe no matter the time! Kudos, you guys! 🙌🏻🙌🏻

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  Рік тому +22

      Glad you loved it!

    • @sumeetghai8867
      @sumeetghai8867 Рік тому +2

      So only women have right to feel safe at night?

    • @libertybee1307
      @libertybee1307 Рік тому +24

      @@sumeetghai8867 did she say that? No? Men and women EQUALLY wanna be safe at night BUT it’s lot unsafe for women

    • @sumeetghai8867
      @sumeetghai8867 Рік тому

      @@libertybee1307 and what the parameter to keasure the degree or extent of that?

    • @badalmurmu9100
      @badalmurmu9100 Рік тому

      Delusional

  • @varungera9783
    @varungera9783 Рік тому +222

    4:31 doggos : dii don't worry we got u

    • @ruthlessgoon
      @ruthlessgoon 4 місяці тому +10

      Glad someone noticed that 😂❤❤😊

  • @gill.guntas
    @gill.guntas 10 місяців тому +112

    "why can't we just be out there and just mind our own business" said the best India needs to learn 👏👏

  • @mannatkaur9530
    @mannatkaur9530 6 місяців тому +76

    Mad respect for the strong woman risking it all for this video. What's happening in the world? It's such a cruel place, especially for women. Women hear me out: Don't ever go out late at night in India without a pepper spray, or any self-defense tool. You have every right to feel safe and don't hesitate to defend yourself, no matter what!

  • @DeliciouxDevil
    @DeliciouxDevil Рік тому +123

    The dark reality of Gurgaon is even a man should not walk alone at night on the roads.

  • @shalinisingh-qh4hg
    @shalinisingh-qh4hg Рік тому +70

    One city that I would call safe is Ahmedabad and Gandhinagar...I have been out soo many nights...not in a group...still not a single instance ..when I have felt unsafe...not even on roads...true Ahmedabad and Gandhinagar don't have night life...they fall quiet...after 11pm...but these cities r amazing..I have never been stalked ..or even approached...police patrolling is there...but it is mostly the men who are also out at night....strangers..who have kept me safe.....

    • @chhavipuri2592
      @chhavipuri2592 Рік тому +11

      Even Pune feels safe that way

    • @namita_.05
      @namita_.05 Рік тому +4

      Chandigarh too

    • @positivekumar3546
      @positivekumar3546 11 місяців тому +6

      Pune is Safe. Mumbai too

    • @Tirthpatel_1808
      @Tirthpatel_1808 10 місяців тому +4

      True also thanks for Appreciate Ahmedabad and Gandhinagar for Safe yes it is Safe place because after 11pm it fall Quiet.

    • @Optimistic_indian_
      @Optimistic_indian_ 2 місяці тому

      Are you upsc aspirant ?

  • @DaddyDaruPiyega
    @DaddyDaruPiyega 3 місяці тому +9

    This conversation is much needed. As an only child, I am the sole caregiver for my parents. Whenever a medical emergency arises or there's a sudden medical issue that seems unfamiliar, I consult Practo and rush to the pharmacy to get medications, regardless of the time, because my parents' health is the top priority. There have been two occasions where I had to step out at odd hours due to the seriousness of the situation, at 11:30 pm and 1:30 am. On both of these occasions, not only did the pharmacy guys gave me weird looks, but even the security guards in my own society gave me judgmental looks, scanning me from head to toe.
    I hope this explains the actual state of women's empowerment and the need for change.

  • @shama_k2604
    @shama_k2604 Рік тому +152

    Found this series from curly tales channel.. your initiative is truly deserves appreciation.... Thanks a lot for putting yourself out there to represent our rights.. this is definately one of the less talked about issues (among ofcourse a lot of other issues we face in this male dominated society😒)

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  Рік тому +5

      Thank you sooo much for appreciating our effort, Shama ❤

    • @yoyolet8431
      @yoyolet8431 Рік тому +2

      Really women rights issues are less talked .means I have whole chapter about that

  • @tusharsaxena3981
    @tusharsaxena3981 Рік тому +295

    Believe me even as a male I feel unsafe going out during night time in these big cities.
    So many cases of kidnapping and loot paat these days.
    It's not safe regardless of gender and it never was.

    • @tired.....247
      @tired.....247 Рік тому

      Yeah but you cannot deny the fact that it's definitely more unsafe for girls

    • @firdos1069
      @firdos1069 11 місяців тому +17

      True that. It's equally dangerous for males as well. Sexual exploitation, loot, organ trafficking applies fairly in case of metro cities.

    • @artsycraftsy8138
      @artsycraftsy8138 11 місяців тому +45

      Definitely, it is unsafe for everybody but a guy will never get that predatory gaze, people asking or thinking he is a sex worker, or constantly follow him throughout.
      It is another kind of torment.

    • @randyysaraa5252
      @randyysaraa5252 9 місяців тому +11

      its way more dangerous for women

    • @victory548
      @victory548 8 місяців тому +1

      As a teenager im scared of ghosts😂

  • @Inder473
    @Inder473 11 місяців тому +28

    Mai ladka hoke 9 bje k baad bahar ni nikalta Delhi mei. And app Gurgaon mei. Hats off to you courage. India is not safe at nights for both male and females. Govt should make strict law against these activities. Once I've confronted a guy with gun and he asked me to remove my watch n belongings. It's completely not safe for both males and females.

  • @Curious_One_
    @Curious_One_ 9 місяців тому +32

    Gurgaon is not even safe for men ....as a man I have come across so many creeps over the last few years. It just makes me so mad. Sometimes I just want to move to another city.
    Just be safe out there people!

  • @neetikasingh5043
    @neetikasingh5043 Місяць тому +9

    This is why I love Pune. Women are quite safe there.

  • @amitsharmasketches9948
    @amitsharmasketches9948 Рік тому +70

    I live in Gurgaon and I won't lie, forget girls, Gurgaon often doesn't feel safe for even the boys. You rarely find police jeeps patrolling here and there. There is a significant shortage of street lights, even on the main roads and flyovers. Law and order especially at nights need to be a little stricter here. Baaki overall toh humara judicial system aur constitution thoda bahut weak hai hi and we all know that. Jiska faayda bahut se crime karne waale uthate hain bcz they know that the judicial proceedings take so long and even the punishments in many cases are not that big. Kher punishment milti bhi hai toh saalo baad bahut se cases mein toh uska kuch fayda hi nhi hota. Ek toh late punishment, upar se halki, isliye bhi criminals ke iraade mazboot hote hain. Agar proceedings bahut fast ho jayein aur punishment dil dehla dene wali ho, tab hi crime commit karne se pehle ek insaan behoshi mein bhi hazaar baar sochega, aur hosh mein toh sochega hi nahi.

    • @namita_.05
      @namita_.05 Рік тому +4

      Yr m to gurgaon shift hone ka soch ri thi
      Now I feel chandigarh is way better💔

    • @Pdrock2001
      @Pdrock2001 11 місяців тому +5

      Yes Gurgaon is not safe for people in general , for get the nighttime even in broad daylight you see multiple fights if road rage and disputes .

    • @pluviophile5996
      @pluviophile5996 11 місяців тому +6

      ​@@namita_.05Chandigarh is wayyy wayyyyy better than Delhi, Noida and Gurugram...

    • @namita_.05
      @namita_.05 11 місяців тому +1

      @@pluviophile5996 hmm agreed! :(

    • @saneetkaul8150
      @saneetkaul8150 7 місяців тому +3

      @@namita_.05 Chandigarh is way better than most cities in India dude

  • @ayushiikaa
    @ayushiikaa 11 місяців тому +14

    Thankyou so much for this video, it must had been difficult for you to shoot this. Thankyou for risking your safety and your mental health for this beautiful beautiful message

  • @sallyakasaloni4140
    @sallyakasaloni4140 Рік тому +118

    Awesome concept....i bet every girl has thought about this...we want the same freedom and sense of security at night as men! As equals! Our reality is sad though!
    Just Came here after watching episode 2 !
    So glad to have Maharashtra police for us!

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  Рік тому +9

      Exacttlyy! Every woman feels the same. Why can't we be out late night without worrying ourselves to death about our safety?

    • @jayati2385
      @jayati2385 Місяць тому

      ​@@hauterrfly we want equally, nothing more or less.

    • @cute_anusha
      @cute_anusha 9 днів тому

      Its not police , its the society

  • @guddivishnoi3698
    @guddivishnoi3698 Рік тому +76

    To make a change its a way to atleast start a conversation about the change we want to see . great work something new and nice perspective of showing this solution oriented approach that we needed.

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  Рік тому +5

      Absolutely! That was our main aim behind shooting this project.

  • @jayshreepurohit7968
    @jayshreepurohit7968 Рік тому +8

    Thank you very much for these videos. This is very essential to know the inside real story of what we go through.

  • @saumyasharma4725
    @saumyasharma4725 Рік тому +10

    I bet this channel can start a revolution which is much needed nowadays ❤

  • @rashmishukla4107
    @rashmishukla4107 Рік тому +26

    This real time picture is so much needed. I think, protectors of our society should pay attention to it.

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  Рік тому +1

      Agreed, it's about time people start paying heed to women's safety.

  • @sourabh2842
    @sourabh2842 Рік тому +37

    We really need these changes. Bravo to the team. 🙌🙌

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  Рік тому +2

      Agreed! Thank you!

    • @arghyaprotimhalder5592
      @arghyaprotimhalder5592 Рік тому +1

      That will not stop just by making nice comments on internet.
      China has quite good solution no interrogation they directly shoot people.
      Last week someone harassed someone and took her hostage 2 mins later they shipped the guy's body in the ambulance, 24x7 cctvs and police petroling with assualt rifles and snipers.

  • @ximum
    @ximum 10 місяців тому +13

    4:29 looked liked dogs are guarding 💖

  • @hiteshkumar4024
    @hiteshkumar4024 Рік тому +35

    Tbh I personally feel, walking out after a certain point of time (for me 12 pm) is not safe for anyone irrespective of genders. I cannot deny the fact it is tremendously unsafe for women in comparison to men, but that’s the harsh reality of not only Indian society but Human society. Even if we look back at ancient times by religious as well as anthropological lens, moving out after 7 pm was denied to all irrespective of their gender.
    1. Religiously it was termed as the time of Asuras where they will harm you, that is exactly what these poachers are today.
    2. Anthropologically, In dark wild animals could attack back then. Since humans evolved so did those animals and so did their primal instinct of sexual urge.
    What exactly my point is that, our safety lies in our own hands. Unless very necessary we should refrain from moving out at night(IRRESPECTIVE OF GENDERS). Yes we have the right to access public places anytime we want, but we also have to remember at the same time that we have Right to Life, which is not only the duty of state to protect but also of ours as well.

    • @randyysaraa5252
      @randyysaraa5252 9 місяців тому +2

      ITS NTO SAFE FOR A WOMEN EVEN MORE BECAUSE EVERYONE THINKS SHE IS A SEX WORKER and can get kidnapped

    • @Abhishek-ww7iz
      @Abhishek-ww7iz 8 місяців тому

      well said i think taking responsibility for what happens to u should be taught . the women in the video is delusional (real life is not a disney movie) , there are some sick people in the society and its very asinine of her to assume that every person in the world is "good man". if that was the case we wouldn't have a police system to punish those who do wrong. i think this woman thinks in a very linear way ignoring the reality of the world.

  • @kartikaytiwari7387
    @kartikaytiwari7387 4 місяці тому +12

    we used to roam around at night, Once I went to get maggie and got lost at 2am around there, there was a Muslim festival next day and I was stopped by a group of guys. They started threatening me that I was in the wrong locality and what not. Ever since I'm very careful about these localities.

    • @Fairy5284
      @Fairy5284 4 місяці тому

      Muslims are walking disasters bro

  • @SdR-ef8wo
    @SdR-ef8wo Місяць тому +5

    I am in a city of China. I mostly go out alone and i felt its really safe. cams are every where police are there. Even in the middle of the night you feel safe , regardless of what you are wearing. No one will harras you and they will help you in need.

  • @anishawilson9141
    @anishawilson9141 Місяць тому +4

    I stayed in gurugram for 3 months and it is totally not safe for girls. Even me and my friends experienced the same thing at night around 8pm and when all of a sudden few guys in a bike stoped and they asked us are you free tonight and somehow we managed to get away from that. And there’s still a lot more we experienced. Ladies please do not step out alone at night in gurugram ❤

  • @kunal._.25
    @kunal._.25 Рік тому +28

    Make friendly environment for women's rather than asking them to stay in home 👏

    • @PKL2006
      @PKL2006 4 місяці тому

      apsolutely!

  • @alveerachauhan
    @alveerachauhan Рік тому +3

    Hats off to your courage!🙌

  • @unicorngirllifestyle4730
    @unicorngirllifestyle4730 8 місяців тому +10

    If girl is out after 12 on roads she is a S worker according to all Men .... but all boys who are on road late night from ages and enjoying Are from good families and Raja beta😂😂 and not Male S workers Why why why ....

  • @charulchaudhary4515
    @charulchaudhary4515 10 місяців тому +1

    Hats off to you guys for making video on this critical thing ❤

  • @rohitchatterjee2774
    @rohitchatterjee2774 11 місяців тому +30

    Insightful. It would be great to see you covering other cities like Kolkata, Pune, Chennai, Bengaluru etc.

  • @SnighdhaUnfiltered
    @SnighdhaUnfiltered Рік тому +3

    loved the concept! kudos to you✨

  • @harjeetkaur-od2qc
    @harjeetkaur-od2qc Рік тому +32

    Had worst of incidents while returning from office even around 7:30-8 o'clock no matter if it is metro city or a small Town. These creeps are everywhere looking for prey.

    • @arghyaprotimhalder5592
      @arghyaprotimhalder5592 Рік тому +2

      Yupppp

    • @sainiamarjeet
      @sainiamarjeet 11 місяців тому

      ​@@arghyaprotimhalder5592haryanvi confidence super high hota hae read the gujjar protests of yestyears

    • @shubham943
      @shubham943 4 місяці тому +2

      Mumbai is much safer than Delhi NCR

  • @azeemahmed2320
    @azeemahmed2320 Рік тому +8

    Thanks for bring out the factors.

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  Рік тому +1

      Thank you soo much for appreciating our efforts :D

  • @akhilchauhan6000
    @akhilchauhan6000 Рік тому +12

    Our country needs these changes.. Hads of to u and ur team👍

  • @priyanshishah7523
    @priyanshishah7523 Рік тому +8

    Amazing content, amazing execution!

  • @user-xy3nb5vp9s
    @user-xy3nb5vp9s 11 місяців тому +5

    i personally don't think gudgaon is safe for ANYBODY . My boyfriend lives in gurugram and even i worry about his safety hell i ask him to share his location when he travels late from metro to his home , so these kind of videos just bring those fears to reality. But i just really really appreciate you because to do something like this a person needs a lot of courage.

  • @aditipandey498
    @aditipandey498 11 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this video ❤️

  • @fatimajalgaonkar5744
    @fatimajalgaonkar5744 28 днів тому +1

    You did amazing. You were brave. These things must be brought into light. Even a small incident which makes him/ her unsafe at some point affects the person and can be traumatizing. These usually happens with women more.

  • @RavagersGaming
    @RavagersGaming 11 місяців тому +14

    i have been born nd raised in delhi nd moved to gurgaon nd trust me I understand y my parents didn't let me out after 8 :)
    p.s after watching all ur vids of 2 A.M stories this was the only video where u genuinely sounded terrified nd traumatized, I am so sorry :(

  • @Hakunamatata08711
    @Hakunamatata08711 Рік тому +4

    Kudos to you....This is so heartbreaking....

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  Рік тому

      Thank you soo much!! Do share it across :D

  • @shivanisachdeva93ss
    @shivanisachdeva93ss Рік тому +1

    Much needed...been there

  • @barsha07d
    @barsha07d 2 місяці тому +3

    An incident happened with me was:-
    I was waiting for my friend at bus stand and it was evening around 7 o'clock .... I noticed a guy ,may be 30 35 years old .... In the beginning i thought he is standing their waiting for someone but what i noticed he was coming towards me, i was on my scooty and he was giving me his number, I changed my place and went away,he followed me and he was trying to come closer to me and then i felt to scared i left my scooty there and went to a shop where there were many people.... He followed me and asked me address of ATM and fact he was standing in front of ATM and asking me where it is... Like what the fu*k .... Thankfully my friend reached nd we left safely....
    That was so horrible and yaakkk feeling.....

  • @PdMeghaa
    @PdMeghaa Рік тому +2

    Kudos

  • @ashishvishwas9952
    @ashishvishwas9952 Рік тому +46

    In my opinion you shouldn't roam alone after 11 , it doesn't matter if you are boy or girl you should not roam alone after 11 if necessary have a friend with you or travel in a car .

    • @saptaparnaroy561
      @saptaparnaroy561 Рік тому +13

      Sometimes it need, because of some emergency, unnecessary roaming should stop

    • @arghyaprotimhalder5592
      @arghyaprotimhalder5592 Рік тому +2

      Or have a glock 42

    • @ashishvishwas9952
      @ashishvishwas9952 Рік тому +4

      @@arghyaprotimhalder5592 or have ak47 or g63 AMG

    • @miniyy16
      @miniyy16 11 місяців тому +7

      What about someone who has a flight, or train landing in a city late at night? Or someone is doing a night shift in the office? ETC

    • @ashishvishwas9952
      @ashishvishwas9952 11 місяців тому

      @@miniyy16 from what i would do is if you are doing a late night shift i would recommend atleast owning your own vehicle preferably a car , if you have late night flight then be inside the airport waiting lounge and try to book a cab or tell a known to pick you up and drop off , if in a late night train i would recommend if the station is well lit and crowdy than you can wait on the station itself and book a cab but if it is a shady station i would recommend booking a cab pre hand or call a known to already come beforehand that's what i would do in these situations being a 19yr old boy .

  • @btsforlife-zz1ff
    @btsforlife-zz1ff Місяць тому +2

    So this a incident that happened with me and my friends...
    Our team went for tournaments to Gurugram and after we were free we went to Akshardham for that we took metro and that was a traumatizing experience as in the night metros are sometimes very crowded each of us felt touches and creepy stares.One of us was even harssed by an uncle he kept saying to call him bhaiya not uncle and asked her to stand beside him,thankfully our coach was there he came in between and brought her on the other side
    It was our first time there and we knew why people always told to be safe in metros. After that day we all try to be extra careful if we go out of station for any matches...btw we all were around 13-16 yrs of age at that time

  • @snee21
    @snee21 Місяць тому +1

    A lot of times women get asked, " Why do you have to be out!?" It's crazy... a lot of times you can just be out as Alisha mentioned for a living... nothing else.
    This isn't a Delhi incident but I remember going for a morning walk with my 3 girlfriends and yes morning 8 am. As we got out of the garden we noticed 3 guys following us on bike and they followed for a long time, I told two of my friends to go home which was the opposite way and 2 of us started walking. They followed us again and stood far ahead waiting for us to walk to them. It took me threatening to call the police for them to move.
    And this happened when I was 16, and has been happening since I was 13. It's scary and we need to take it seriously.

  • @garvaggarwal5636
    @garvaggarwal5636 Рік тому +8

    You should also make a video on “ IS WOMAN SAFE FOR WOMAN”

  • @bunnyteeth7269
    @bunnyteeth7269 Рік тому +17

    Reality check ✔️ we want more 2am stories

  • @kunishka9371
    @kunishka9371 10 місяців тому +2

    I really liked your idea of women cab drivers, like if a girl genuinely get stuck somewhere at night, then booking a cab is more safer transportation than an auto but we can't because cases have happened in cabs as well despite all safety, because some people are insane, they don't even fear of the punishment after getting caught, so in that case i think if online cabs apps start to provide option of women cab drivers at night, then it would be a great step, ofcourse cannot solve the issue of women safety, but atleast can contribute some.

  • @debikabhattacharya3029
    @debikabhattacharya3029 2 місяці тому

    Kudos
    Such a relevant and important topic.👍

  • @RS_official22
    @RS_official22 5 днів тому +1

    sometimes people just stop to help you, not necessarily always to harm 🙏

  • @gill.guntas
    @gill.guntas 10 місяців тому +2

    great video and so nice initiative, on a funny note, gurgaon toh saala din ke 2 baje na safe ho, raat me kya khaak hoga 😅😅

  • @user-ft2ir4ce6j
    @user-ft2ir4ce6j 11 місяців тому +4

    Standing alone on the street that too at night......
    This feeling is something which can only be understood by women....even if there are no men....but still you can feel uncomfortable

  • @AaYushman__
    @AaYushman__ 6 місяців тому +3

    In our society we do not give to our women the respect and status that they
    deserve.
    Women are stared at, stalked and even molested.
    We need to change the male mindset about women.
    Our society needs to foster a culture that values and respects women as equal
    individuals, not as mere objects of desire
    -This change must begin with education, starting from schools, where we should
    teach young boys the importance of treating women with dignity and empathy
    -Furthermore, it is crucial to enforce stricter laws against stalking, molestation,
    and any form of violence against women
    -Media can play a vital role in raising awareness and promoting positive
    representations of women
    - It is time for a collective effort to transform the male mindset, fostering a
    society where women receive the respect and status they rightfully deserve

  • @webtoon_manhwa_editsz
    @webtoon_manhwa_editsz 11 місяців тому +4

    Tbh , I personally feel that walking out after 12pm is not safe for anyone irrespective of gender, of course compared to male it's more difficult for female , and one should only go out if it's really important, an emergency etc.

  • @sameerayasmin3399
    @sameerayasmin3399 Рік тому +3

    Factors where so true .

  • @sameerayasmin3399
    @sameerayasmin3399 Рік тому +14

    Wow... What a content.. I loved it personally and kudos to you guys!!!

  • @crickbull3456
    @crickbull3456 7 місяців тому +4

    Lucky that I am citizen of UP. After Yogi jii. He has changed the system. He is so harsh to criminas.

    • @aryangupta9981
      @aryangupta9981 7 місяців тому +2

      Have you heard about iit bhu girl harrasment case..
      Bhu ke andar aakar ladki ke sath galat kaam Kiya hai but police aur government ne abhi Tak kuch nhi kiya 10 din se jyada ho gya hai...

    • @kartikaychauhan2414
      @kartikaychauhan2414 7 місяців тому

      ​@unknowntiktoklover0129compared to the shit that UP was actually going through before yogi ji, yes. Up has come a long way and is getting on the right path. So stfu please

    • @SwathiAA2014
      @SwathiAA2014 Місяць тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 wow 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @TeluguTakshashila
    @TeluguTakshashila Рік тому +3

    Wonderful vedio should definitely need this kind of conversation bring up

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  Рік тому

      Yess, we feel it too!! Thank you soo very much!! Do share it in your circle :D

  • @justsaying7783
    @justsaying7783 Рік тому +31

    And they said women already have equality smh

    • @yoyolet8431
      @yoyolet8431 Рік тому

      Yes they have but tell who are not save in night around 3am 🤷🤷

    • @yoyolet8431
      @yoyolet8431 Рік тому

      Yes they have but tell who are not save in night around 3am 🤷🤷

    • @victory548
      @victory548 8 місяців тому

      Yes they do infact women in india have more power then men cause thats how the society is now

    • @justsaying7783
      @justsaying7783 8 місяців тому +5

      @@victory548 lol really what precent of men get catcalled or sexually asulted

    • @victory548
      @victory548 8 місяців тому +1

      @@justsaying7783 a lot lol but men can't do anything cause the Indian law for sexual assault is only to protect women so if a man get assaulted by a women bro can't report it to the police cause there is no such law as man getting sexual assault by a women. Look at section 375 of rape, it only says only a MAN can commit rape not a women so imagine a man or even a boy gets raped by a women the women won't get arrested cause women have more power than men in india. And there are also lots of fake rape case against men and without any proof the man gets arrested and locked up imagine if that was your son getting falsely blamed

  • @divyamishra4717
    @divyamishra4717 Рік тому

    Great initiative hauterfly 👏👏👏

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  Рік тому +1

      Thanks a lottt, Divya!! Do share it in your circle :D

  • @asthaojha1117
    @asthaojha1117 5 місяців тому +2

    4:30 the way dogs were so calm with her and the way they chased that car means they coul sense the negativity

  • @KikiM.
    @KikiM. 3 місяці тому +1

    Watching this at 2 am rn.

  • @punnosharma1434
    @punnosharma1434 4 місяці тому +3

    She is Alisha..in ok tested ❤

  • @DeepakSharma-sp8cr
    @DeepakSharma-sp8cr 11 місяців тому +1

    If you seek trouble you will get trouble . You will find it anywhere in the world. If you have just do your work from point A to B and do what you have to , you are safe. Even a pros is safe for that matter. Night is associated with stealth, if you can do something during the day then why roam around at night.

  • @danko5866
    @danko5866 7 місяців тому +1

    Very scary that that many people behaved in such dangerous way with a stranger 😓

  • @bunnyteeth7269
    @bunnyteeth7269 Рік тому

    Nice video 👍

  • @AK.AK.12
    @AK.AK.12 3 місяці тому +5

    Interesting, I’ve gone around Gurgaon alone after midnight probably hundreds of times, never had one bad experience. I’m a woman. People would always come forward to look out for me. Many times, stranger would drop me home safely and not once have I had any problem with cab drivers. Whereas in Bangalore, literally every 2/5 cab rides is a nightmare.

    • @jayxee4606
      @jayxee4606 2 місяці тому

      why would you hop in a stranger's vehicle especially at night?

  • @Filmi_analyst
    @Filmi_analyst 7 місяців тому +2

    Maam TBH as a male I also feel unsafe at night. not only sexual activities also there is thefts loots and other crimes associated. so its not about male or female its also because of crimes

  • @SahilSoni-ly7bu
    @SahilSoni-ly7bu 3 місяці тому +2

    Come to ahmedabad...spend whole night outside..and i can assure you won't feel anything like this

  • @sohamrangdal6558
    @sohamrangdal6558 Рік тому +24

    Try this in Mumbai , it will be a great experience I mean one will feel safe , hats off to Mumbai police

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  Рік тому +4

      We did! Have you watched our Mumbai episode yet? Here's the playlist: ua-cam.com/video/tOphKtx1L_4/v-deo.html

    • @aishwaryathakker8594
      @aishwaryathakker8594 Рік тому +1

      Right I am a lucky girl ki mai Mumbai me rehti hu

  • @arjundiwaker3449
    @arjundiwaker3449 11 місяців тому +5

    3:55 I wonder why what the guy said was censored. At first I thought maybe it was because of language but then it doesn’t beep when she says “fuck”. I’m not denying that women face harassment but I feel that she might have not encountered and all of this was performative. Also, the fake running scene at 6:40. It just seemed like 2 people behind her minding their business and also she’s being recorded by a crew member in that moment, not her handheld camera so she was not alone. I’ve seen many videos like these where women actually face danger but I suspect that this video was kind of a set up.

  • @farhansheikhahmad
    @farhansheikhahmad 7 днів тому +1

    Can you try the same experiment in Lucknow and Chennai? Just wondering if it's the same in here as well...
    I've been in Delhi and Noioda once and I literally felt paranoia that I was about to get mugged.

  • @user-fn2hd4um2e
    @user-fn2hd4um2e 11 місяців тому +5

    People think it's scary at night because of evil spirita and things like that....ask a girl man ask a girl what is she scared of the most..The first thing she'll say is men!!

  • @Artbyashi130
    @Artbyashi130 7 місяців тому +2

    ""This is my right to access of public space.""☝

  • @ravinepz
    @ravinepz 7 місяців тому +3

    Forget women, men are also not safe in night delhi ncr .

  • @RS-uz3ud
    @RS-uz3ud 6 місяців тому +2

    Forget late night, the sad part is girls and women face such things in broad daylight in India. 😢

  • @ssiddarth
    @ssiddarth Рік тому +11

    Great concept and very well executed too 👌👍

  • @VinayKumar-yw2dy
    @VinayKumar-yw2dy 11 місяців тому +1

    She deserves an award for acting,,,,,She was with 8 people crew recording movements and portray herself She was scared, feeling unsafe...

    • @dhrsajkaushal9
      @dhrsajkaushal9 11 місяців тому +2

      It's not about that, dusro ke baare me soch kar bhi darr lagta hai, she knows every woman won't have the level of safety she had, she is scared because she understands what other women could face

  • @ishapatrick8375
    @ishapatrick8375 Рік тому +3

    I don't even go out alone during the day.. . And whenever i go out i always have spray with me.

    • @manjunathsm6213
      @manjunathsm6213 3 місяці тому

      Yesss sister why unnecessarily roaming at night without emergency

  • @toxicherry8325
    @toxicherry8325 Рік тому +1

    after seeing all this I can proudly say Ahmedabad Gujarat is one of the safest place

  • @anujaahirrao466
    @anujaahirrao466 Рік тому +4

    Thanks for this video it's really eyeopener

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  Рік тому

      Thank you soo much, Anuja! Please do share it in your circle :D

  • @akshitaghosh8490
    @akshitaghosh8490 11 місяців тому +17

    The problem is not only in india... it's all over the world...😢

  • @kashishtanna9960
    @kashishtanna9960 Рік тому +8

    Please do my city, Ahmedabad, Gujarat. It’s a metro city and mostly safe but I still want to know what my city is like for women after 2am

  • @sarikathakre315
    @sarikathakre315 Рік тому

    Nice

  • @Anonymous-ob2eq
    @Anonymous-ob2eq 6 місяців тому +1

    It was tooo scary.... It is a mental trauma ....
    Being a boy i scared today so much.,..Till date i have never been afraid of such..

  • @Pavitaroraa
    @Pavitaroraa 2 місяці тому +2

    It’s just Delhi shit this could literally never happen in Bombay I’m 16 and I’m out every weekend and come home at 2-3am in cabs and the cab drivers literally are so kind and nice most of them wait until one of my parents come to pick me up from downstairs of my building Delhi is just shut

    • @s.taryyjin
      @s.taryyjin 2 місяці тому +1

      honestly i agree. i live in gurgaon near cyber hub. Last year I visited Mumbai, 2 am, lights on, people everywhere, women, men and even teenagers minding their own business. even the taxi drivers were good, one of them was so friendly describing that how people work all night and are actually safe, the police actually works. would visit again next year.

    • @Pavitaroraa
      @Pavitaroraa 2 місяці тому

      @@s.taryyjin ofc you are always welcome here the city makes everyone feel incredibly safe and honestly before watching this video I had an idea that it was unsafe but not to this extent I lowkey was kinda shocked about how common it really is

  • @yogeshkadam1876
    @yogeshkadam1876 10 місяців тому +3

    Mumbai is safest City in India...❤

  • @CricketFanClubvm1wy
    @CricketFanClubvm1wy 12 днів тому

    That music scared me alot than her experience 😂❤

  • @sahanasarkar5562
    @sahanasarkar5562 11 місяців тому +3

    I am sorry with what happened to you in Gurgaon. But its not a general trend.
    I lived in Gurgaon for 10 years from 2012 to 2022. I have seen Gurgaon from the time it was a completely underdeveloped city to what it has become now. I used to watch late night movie till 2 am in the MGF metropolitan mall and come back home alone. Taken Uber at 4 am in the night. Not once i have faced any bad incidents. Galleria market, cyber hub are super chill places to hang out even at night. Some areas of Gurgaon are isolated and empty. You just have to know the paths to avoid. And people of Haryana are really sweet. ❤

    • @nupurchoudhary9028
      @nupurchoudhary9028 3 місяці тому +1

      True. I come back sometimes at even 5 in the morning and cab drivers never misbehaved or tried to make me feel unsafe in anyway. Although it's been just 6 months I am living here, but the all time hype of Gurgaon being unsafe - it's exaggerated. Obviously, after a certain time at night, no place is safe. Your safety is your responsibility then.

    • @GrowwWithShubha
      @GrowwWithShubha 2 місяці тому

      I am planning to move to Gurugaon soon, can you suggest any safe area where I can look for a PG? This would be really helpful. Thanks!

    • @sahanasarkar5562
      @sahanasarkar5562 2 місяці тому

      @@GrowwWithShubha Try to stay in DLF phase 1 or 2 near Cyber Hub. Or dlf phase 5. Or sushant lok near Galleria market. All these are really nice areas to reside in !

  • @CG___2789
    @CG___2789 Рік тому +14

    Sometimes I just hate being a girl 🙂..... aur y situations kbhi ni sudhregi becoz koe ladko p restrictions lgata he nhi h hmesha ladkiya he hoti h jo restrict hoti haii.... aur y ladke hawasi or characterless jo raat bhr idhr udhr sex mangte fir rhe hai ab ghr ki izzt kha gyi sanskriti kha gyi?? Chi I can never imagine being in this situation jha pr iss trah s treat kiya jaye .. women are not safe anywhere not even in broad daylight 🙄

    • @fazebrown4371
      @fazebrown4371 Рік тому

      Tumhara baap bhi esa hi hai kya

    • @CG___2789
      @CG___2789 Рік тому +1

      @@fazebrown4371 mene koe generalise nhi kiya hai just saying about these men in this vedio 😂😂ab isme offend hone wali ky baat hai jo Sach h wo hai itni si baato p tum ladke insecure hoke dusro k maa baap pr comment kyu krne lgte ho😂😂

    • @Anonomus007
      @Anonomus007 11 місяців тому

      ​@@CG___2789koi insecure nhi ho rha tum sbko generalise kr rhi ho sb ladke sex mangte firte fir ladkiyo kyu rat ko red light pr apne aap ko bechte he😂bolo na raat ko 2am koi nhi nikalta nato ladka nahi ladki 😂aaese to tumhare father and brother bhi eese category me aate honge thoda brain use kro
      Baki tumhari choice he raat ko ghumo kis kis ko rokoge 1 jaiga to 1000 aainge tumhare upr ❤

    • @Jungkookkie_2797
      @Jungkookkie_2797 11 місяців тому

      Right 👍🏻 sister

  • @sarcasticmemer1108
    @sarcasticmemer1108 3 місяці тому +1

    You are talking about night I was haunted in a village at 3am. Can you imagine it, it's was traumatizing anybody anywhere you are never safe ,, but I want want to go to study in big cities but this video is tramatizing .🥺

  • @user-er6yg3rd8p
    @user-er6yg3rd8p Місяць тому +1

    In mumbai i always feel totally safe its a city of love , no one like this harm u here

  • @akshattyagi8402
    @akshattyagi8402 Рік тому +4

    Didi 2 AM pe to gurgaon mai men bhi unsafe hai.

    • @lalitsharma8166
      @lalitsharma8166 Рік тому

      9.00 baje ke baad ladkiyo ko nhi jana chahiye kyuki ap kuch bhi kar lo log nhi sudhrenge

  • @Mikewill67
    @Mikewill67 Рік тому

    watching at 2:am

  • @user-wy8mg2ek8r
    @user-wy8mg2ek8r 4 місяці тому +1

    I went to delhi to visit my relatives. As we were traveling we saw people teasing and touching women inappropriately but trust me even boys are not safe there at night.

  • @renne2467
    @renne2467 Рік тому +1

    No big no for both boys and girls not only for women it’s applicable for men also don’t go outside such hours if you don’t have any imp work or weapon